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Speaker 1: The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the

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Speaker 1: land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen Bear region.

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Speaker 1: We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land,

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Speaker 1: sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders

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Speaker 1: past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal

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Speaker 1: and Terrestrate Islander peoples today. Hello and welcome back to

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Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for

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Speaker 1: ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I you doing no.

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Speaker 3: I can't get over this story.

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Speaker 2: It's like the best story ever.

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Speaker 1: Hello and welcome back to the Rise and Conker Podcast.

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Speaker 1: It is your host, Georgie Stevenson here, and I've got

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Speaker 1: a tear with me.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, guys.

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Speaker 1: Today we are changing things up. We're not doing the

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Speaker 1: usual g's hotline. We've got a fun new segment.

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Speaker 2: Called Life Happens for Me.

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Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed that fun A little down there.

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Speaker 1: We just found that I couldn't tell me and a

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Speaker 1: tear were like jamming out guys. So new segment we

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Speaker 1: got you guys to send in your Life Happens for

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Speaker 1: Me messages and they're the best, and they're the best,

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Speaker 1: and this is going to be a feel good expanded episode,

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Speaker 1: you guys know, with manifesting, what I say is go

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Speaker 1: out and find your expanders of what makes you believe

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Speaker 1: that you can do life and life happens for you

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Speaker 1: when you know all those all those things and oh

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Speaker 1: my god, these stories are extraordinary, aren't they are, Tea?

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Speaker 3: They are. They're so good this episode.

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Speaker 1: So this is just going to pep you up and

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Speaker 1: make you believe that good shit happens and life happens

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Speaker 1: bloody for you. Before we get into the show, though,

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Speaker 1: weekly recommendations a tear you go.

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Speaker 3: First, I would like to recommend a song.

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Speaker 1: Oh she got told movie recommendations.

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Speaker 3: Guys.

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Speaker 1: We're having a team lunch the other day and we

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Speaker 1: got into this conversation and a Tea has basically seen

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Speaker 2: Everyone just like couldn't believe it.

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Speaker 1: And then she was like off recommending all all these

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Speaker 1: TVs and shows to everyone for like their personalities.

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Speaker 3: Love that. Watch your song I'm good the David Ghettar version.

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Speaker 2: Have you heard of play a little bit for me?

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Speaker 3: You for sure would have heard it. It's a trending

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Speaker 3: I played it this morning and it just like really

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Speaker 2: Love play.

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Speaker 3: It's a little snippet, Oh my god, this is like

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Speaker 3: a oh I'm Blue, the remix step I fucking vibes

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Speaker 2: Thanks Tatia, You're welcome. What's your actual song name?

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Speaker 3: It is I'm Good in brackets blue because it's the

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Speaker 1: On that note, guys, A Lance get into a Life

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Speaker 1: Happens for Me episode.

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Speaker 2: First one. I was twenty.

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Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna cry in this episode.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, A tears literally, Oh my god, You're okay.

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Speaker 1: I think so sweet the universe needed me to move

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Speaker 3: Hi ladies. My story of when I truly realized the

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Speaker 3: Also another secret little side note, I'm doing the project

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Speaker 3: and loving it. Some of what I'm manifesting includes stepping

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Speaker 3: I love this so much.

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Speaker 1: me for going. They thought my health would be a

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00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:41,400
Speaker 1: liability side note. My doctor, mum and all I disagreed.

445
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 1: I was so upset because, like I said, this trip

446
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 1: was a huge motivator for me. Tears of sadness, anger,

447
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:52,439
Speaker 1: and disappointment were definitely shed. My friend teacher pulled me

448
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 1: aside one day and told me that this European specifically

449
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:59,920
Speaker 1: German proverb which goes when one door closes, a winn

450
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,199
Speaker 1: door opens. At the time, I didn't believe her. What

451
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 1: could be better than this trip I'd been looking forward

452
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 1: to for a year. Flash forward literally two weeks and

453
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 1: I get an offer to apply for a scholarship for

454
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:18,200
Speaker 1: a six month exchange to France. At first, I was hesitant.

455
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,359
Speaker 1: I'd never traveled before, never been on a plane, never

456
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: lived away from my mum. But I took the leap

457
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 1: of faith because I believed this was my window. I

458
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,679
Speaker 1: applied and a few weeks later I found out I

459
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 1: received the scholarship. I felt like such a beautiful full

460
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:35,159
Speaker 1: circle moment. If I had gone on the trip to

461
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 1: New Caledonia with my class, I would have spent all

462
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: the money I'd save and wouldn't have been able to

463
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:45,639
Speaker 1: fund my exchange. I went on exchanged, learn grew and

464
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: flourished so thoroughly. It definitely changed my life and my

465
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:53,880
Speaker 1: worldview on life now. The concept of when one door closes,

466
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,880
Speaker 1: a window opens is so ingrained to me. If an

467
00:23:56,880 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 1: opportunity passes, I trust the universe was bigger and better

468
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: plans for me. Everything will fall into place. I just

469
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 1: need to trust it. And then she just said, ps,

470
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 1: thank you, Georgie. You played a huge role in my development.

471
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 2: Oh, I appreciate you. I love that. That's really beautiful.

472
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:16,919
Speaker 3: That's one of my favorites. I think it's just so relatable. Yeah,

473
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 3: because this is one of the ones where she'd been

474
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 3: working probably extra shifts. It was her reward to reaching

475
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 3: a goal. So she'd improved on her health and her

476
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 3: mental health to be able to get on this trip

477
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 3: and then for them to just a month out when

478
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 3: she's ready, she's got her money, she's healthy to be like, oh, sorry,

479
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 3: we're just pulling rank here, and you can't come.

480
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: Yes, Yeah, and that feeling of like helplessness when someone

481
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 1: pulls rank or like you know, in that situation and

482
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 1: you're like what the fuck.

483
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like, I literally did all this work. Yeah,

484
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 3: well this thing, and you're taking it away for not

485
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 3: a good reason. But now she's got a reason. She

486
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:53,679
Speaker 3: got to go to France for six months.

487
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 2: I love that.

488
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,160
Speaker 3: That's that's way better than New Caledonia.

489
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 2: Way better. We love you New Caledonias.

490
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:02,719
Speaker 3: We do. We still love New I've actually been there.

491
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 3: It's really beautiful. My sister's been there. It looks stunning.

492
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 3: It is on my list. I recently manifested myself. I

493
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 3: thought this one was really interesting too. I recently manifested

494
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 3: myself into my current job and position. I manifested the

495
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,919
Speaker 3: job then into the store manager position. I thought it

496
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 3: was exactly what I wanted dream job and position. But

497
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 3: turns out I hate I don't like the company I

498
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 3: work for, and I just don't like the job. I

499
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 3: was questioning for a little while, why did the universe

500
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 3: get me into this or let me manifest it when

501
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 3: it's not for me? As Georgie says, manifesting will always

502
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,879
Speaker 3: work unless it gets you something else that will be

503
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 3: better for you. I recently started Georgie's R and C

504
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 3: course and have manifested myself a new job in a

505
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:53,479
Speaker 3: new company in a slightly lower position but better money.

506
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 3: And it's literally my dream to work for this company.

507
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 3: I've wanted to work there for over five years, but

508
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 3: never applied because I didn't have the confidence. I finally

509
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 3: realized three days ago why the universe helped me get

510
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 3: my current job that I hate. If I hadn't had

511
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 3: this job and the experience as the store manager, I

512
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 3: would never have been able to qualify for this new

513
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 3: job because I wouldn't have had the experience needed for

514
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 3: this role. As much as I don't like the job,

515
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 3: I'm extremely grateful for the universe that they put me

516
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 3: here to get me where I wanted to go. I've

517
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 3: always been a very big believer in everything happens for

518
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 3: a reason, but this has just cemented that more. Love

519
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 3: me too.

520
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 2: What did you find interesting about it?

521
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,679
Speaker 3: I love how she went from questioning why she'd be

522
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,919
Speaker 3: allowed to manifest some not allowed, but like why she

523
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 3: was given something that she hated and that she obviously

524
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 3: manifesting is a lot of work and to get there

525
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 3: and then be like, oh, don't love it, and then

526
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 3: question like that would have just been a really interesting

527
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 3: journey I think, And then yeah, that's so important, Like

528
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 3: you need to go through it, not just to the end.

529
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, guys.

530
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 1: Next one, my best friend at the time of seven

531
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: years cut me off when I was seven months pregnant.

532
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: Took me a long time to realize it was really

533
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: was for the best. And she was a horrible, toxic person,

534
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 1: short and sweet.

535
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:22,919
Speaker 2: I love it the point.

536
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 3: To cut me off.

537
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 1: She was a bitch.

538
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 2: No, I love that. This actually keep it in. That's

539
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 2: the first time in tears ever saw on the podcast.

540
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 1: Okay, so this recently happened to me. I'm going to

541
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,399
Speaker 1: explain a different story because I can't tell you the

542
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 1: actual story for legal reasons.

543
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 2: But let's just put it this way.

544
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: So, the long term goal was I wanted to work

545
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: for myself. Yeah, but I had a client who I loved.

546
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 1: I loved working with them, and long term goal was

547
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: always like I wanted to go off and work by myself. Yeah,

548
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: but then I like, just completely run your own correct

549
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 1: the whole correct.

550
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 2: Yeah.

551
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 1: So then this, you know client I loved, respect have

552
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 1: a great relationship turns around and doesn't want to work

553
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,679
Speaker 1: with me anymore, and I'm like shocked and hurt. But

554
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: then I remember, this is actually what you wanted long term.

555
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 1: It's just come quicker. But I think it's because it

556
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 1: happens to you rather than you're control. Yeah, you feel

557
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 1: like a bit off guard, and I feel like this

558
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 1: is what this person feels like. Absolutely, But I feel

559
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: like in six months time, I'm gonna be like, oh,

560
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: it's fine.

561
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,159
Speaker 3: Yeah that's what I wanted. I didn't have to be

562
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:37,719
Speaker 3: the bitch exactly like you got it without having to

563
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 3: be mean. Yeah.

564
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 2: I love that.

565
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've experienced this with friends, and that was like

566
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 3: one of the lessons the universe taught me a couple

567
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 3: of times. A couple of times she learned, there's a

568
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 3: few dimes where it's the best, and then all of

569
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 3: a sudden you're ghosted or something happens and they stopped

570
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 3: talking to you, and you're like, what did I do wrong?

571
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 3: And you just like try to hold onto this thing,

572
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 3: and then as soon as you completely detach yourself from it,

573
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 3: you look back and you're like, wow, they were mean,

574
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 3: Like they won't never experience that ever. I did like

575
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 3: my last year of high school and my first year

576
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 3: out of high school.

577
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 2: I think I went one hundred percent.

578
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I forgot about high school, Like I must have

579
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:24,719
Speaker 3: gone through five or six Jesus. Yeah, Like in that

580
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 3: two years, I was like, what is wrong with me?

581
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,239
Speaker 3: Why I just don't want to be my friend? Oh?

582
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 3: Now I know better, now I know my work. Yeah,

583
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 3: but like, yeah, it can completely relate to this, and

584
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 3: it's like the best feeling. Once you're at the end

585
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 3: of it and you look back, You're like, that friendship

586
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 3: was not good for me at all.

587
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 2: Love last one, let's do it.

588
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I was engaged to an extreme narcissist

589
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 3: that totally isolated me from all my friends and family.

590
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 3: I had a full wedding booked and canceled it and

591
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 3: walked away.

592
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 2: Wow.

593
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 3: I know, I knew I couldn't lie to myself anymore.

594
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 3: I knew. It was a huge wake up moment for me.

595
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 3: At the time, I was so embarrassed, broken, with no

596
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 3: confidence in having been with a narcissist. I'm sure a

597
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 3: lot of people can relate to how they break you

598
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 3: down internally. After months of being single, recovering and trying

599
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 3: to trying to figure out what just happened to me

600
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 3: and my life was almost a horror story. I wrote

601
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 3: a letter about the perfect love of my life. I

602
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 3: quite literally wrote about him, down to his name and features,

603
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 3: family and number of siblings, job, etc. I always joked

604
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 3: saying he will turn up on my front door. I

605
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 3: then met him a few months later, during the middle

606
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:53,479
Speaker 3: of the harshest lockdowns in the world. He literally turned

607
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 3: up at my front door. That was how she left it.

608
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 3: So we had to ask more in me like excuse me?

609
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 3: I was like, is he your Uber Eats driver? I

610
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 3: just couldn't figure out how in the lockdown he got

611
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 3: to her door.

612
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, tell me more.

613
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 3: So this is the whole story. Before we met in

614
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 3: our own lives, we were both weirdly obsessed with the

615
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 3: same restaurant in the city. Neither of us knew why.

616
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 3: My friends would always be like, just go get a

617
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 3: job there if you love it that much. And I've

618
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 3: always said, it's not that I don't know what it is.

619
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 3: I just think it's great. But I'm a photographer, and

620
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 3: so I offered my work to them, and me and

621
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 3: the owners became friends. And for him, his friends were

622
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 3: saying maybe he was interested in one of the owners

623
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 3: to take out, but he was not interested. And she

624
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 3: is a lesbian with a partner, so absolutely no go.

625
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 3: Because he's a boxing trainer, he offered his business to

626
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 3: her too, and started to train her in boxing. We

627
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 3: both had no idea about each other, though. At one

628
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 3: point she mentioned I've got someone you need to meet.

629
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 3: You'll be perfect together, and I said absolutely not. I'm

630
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 3: not interested in a setup. Thanks, but no thanks. She

631
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 3: said the same to him, and he responded the same.

632
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 3: After a few months, I remembered his name and searched

633
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 3: his business name, found his number and called him to

634
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 3: discuss boxing. I left a voice message, and the next

635
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 3: day he called me back. We were on the phone

636
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 3: for forty five minutes and didn't even mention boxing. He

637
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 3: said he knew at that point that unless I had

638
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 3: two heads or was actually a man, he knew he

639
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:31,719
Speaker 3: would marry me. A week later we met to trade

640
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 3: at my house and here we are in the middle

641
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 3: of the harshest lockdowns in the world in Melbourne. We met.

642
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,719
Speaker 3: It happens. People need to know.

643
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I am kidding.

644
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: No.

645
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 3: I can't get over this story. It's like the best story.

646
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 2: Ever, I just you know what I love most about

647
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 2: this what.

648
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 3: Is how?

649
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 1: She's like, we both just had this feeling about this

650
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: restaurant of like we're infactuated with it, I know, And

651
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 1: it's just like a restaurant having a melt.

652
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 3: And it's like he's a boxing trainer. He it's so

653
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 3: random for him to offer the owner of the restaurant

654
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 3: free boxing.

655
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 2: This whole story is random.

656
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 3: Everything. There is no sense in this.

657
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 1: And this is what I need you all to know.

658
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: That's like me just going on agent, go for it.

659
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: Don't worry about the how. The actual how is none

660
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: of your business. It doesn't matter, and just don't get

661
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 1: suck on it. Like when you have these huge, big desires,

662
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: even if you're like, oh, but that could never happen

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Speaker 1: because of this and that, it's like, look at it,

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Speaker 1: this makes no sense.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love That's actually such a good point. Guys,

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Speaker 3: if you're ever struggling with the how, just come back

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Speaker 3: to this episode and listen to this story on repeat.

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Speaker 2: I just love how. Oh.

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Speaker 1: I just love manifesting life and life happens for you.

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Speaker 3: Guys.

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Speaker 1: I hope this episode made you as happy as me

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Speaker 1: and a tear reading all these stories. You guys are incredible.

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Speaker 1: If you do have a life Happens for You story,

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Speaker 1: please send it in.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much, guys. I hope you enjoyed this episode. Bye.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to another episode of

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Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer podcast. If you enjoyed it and

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