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Speaker 1: You look great.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. I wish I could say the same, you

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Speaker 2: look amazing.

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Speaker 1: Get me a haircut. The amount of people who are

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Speaker 3: So mean they I never get any of those because

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Speaker 2: I look exactly the same.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to two noting dads. I'm Mattie J And

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Speaker 1: I'm Ash And this is a podcast all about parenting.

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Speaker 1: It is good.

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Speaker 2: It is the bad and the relatable.

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Speaker 1: I think I'm getting sick again again. I forgot to

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Speaker 1: take I got halfway through my antibiotics, the penicillin, and

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Speaker 1: then I forgot is it kefflix. It's penicillin.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's the type of penicillin I'm alleged to

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure. I get a horrible rash in the migraine.

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Speaker 1: So I've got I've got halfway through, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'll be fine. And then the next day today I

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Speaker 1: woke up with a tickle. I woke up the first swallow.

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Speaker 1: I went, oh my god, the first swallow. It's there.

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Speaker 2: It's back just quickly. Last week I was telling you,

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Speaker 2: I gave a little shout out to a mom I saw,

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Speaker 2: remember walking with the pram. She had a couple of kids.

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Speaker 1: She was she was pushing like twenty kids, the whole class.

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Speaker 2: I saw her again today. So last week she had

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Speaker 2: had five kids hers. Yeah, must have been they all

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Speaker 2: looked the same. She's procreating at the speed of light.

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Speaker 1: Did she look like she hated life with five? Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know that. We did that breaking news where

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Speaker 2: it was like, you have more kids, you age quicker.

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Speaker 1: She's old a mom who I I often crossed paths

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Speaker 2: She was like I know, Oh my god. You said that?

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Speaker 2: Which yours? I was like, bye, yeah, I was. I

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Speaker 1: Think you should I not someone who has more than

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Speaker 1: three kids. That deserves an acknowledgment. It deserves like a

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Speaker 1: like well done, good on you. It's like if you're

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Speaker 2: That's different though, because you don't want to be like, oh, congratulations,

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Speaker 2: you got five and they're like, I only wanted three,

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Speaker 2: and then we had an accident, turned out to be twins,

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Speaker 2: and then they're upset about it. You don't want to

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Speaker 1: But I'll be like, well, you're fucking in it now,

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Speaker 2: Like years of therapy, you've just opened it back up.

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Speaker 2: It's like, oh, thanks for reminding me.

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Speaker 1: That's what you get. When you have that many kids,

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of kids.

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Speaker 1: It's too many.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of Man. I saw a TikTok the

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Speaker 2: other day and this guy was like, I'm back at

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Speaker 2: forty grand kids. I threw my phone across the room.

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Speaker 2: I was like, that's fucking ridiculous. That's a cult.

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Speaker 1: That is religion. You're right, that is religion.

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Speaker 2: For Okay, tell you right now. For religions who have

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Speaker 1: Don't they. Just JESU, we starved. I just starved of

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Speaker 2: We fucking hey.

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Speaker 1: Housekeeping, Oh, housekeeping, very house keeping, very exciting news that

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Speaker 1: we would like to welcome officially to the podcast of

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Speaker 1: Two Doating Dads. Please give a warm welcome to producer Victoria. Yes,

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Speaker 1: producer VIC, Producer Vic. She's nodding with producer Vic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's going with producer Vic.

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Speaker 1: Yes. I was going to go the full name, but

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Speaker 2: It's nice to be on a shorter name basis.

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Speaker 1: She did break a tripod this morning.

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Speaker 2: That's written warning number one, and she's looking at me.

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Speaker 2: That'll break its financially, do you start breaking things?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, we have an amazing talented individual who is

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Speaker 2: It helps that she's a mom too, because then she's

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Speaker 2: If you hear anyone cackling in the background, that is Vic.

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Speaker 1: And also if you see someone commenting on the Facebook group.

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Speaker 1: She's not just a really over keen fan of the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Her and Donnor neck and neck. I love Donna. That

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Speaker 1: Negative, and she's been quiet Donna's backed off. Why well

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Speaker 2: we miss.

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Speaker 1: You, we miss you.

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Speaker 2: Bring it back. Maybe she's busynue Born.

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Speaker 1: Yes, congratulations, that was like a year ago.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't it. Come back, Donnor, back to Victoria. Yes, welcome Victoria.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for joining us, and stop breaking our equipment.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people ask messaged about the washing machine,

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Speaker 1: the white goods, oh.

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Speaker 2: The dishwasher, the saga of the dishwasher, which there is

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Speaker 2: a solution, apparently, according to the Facebook group and the

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Speaker 2: helpful dotors in there, there's an app shout out to Talia, Talia,

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Speaker 2: that's it. There's an app that you can turn it,

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Speaker 2: turn it off. I haven't tried it yet.

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Speaker 1: You didn't read the message.

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Speaker 2: No, how many people need to read the message. Let's

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Speaker 2: be honest, it said red. I thought someone else has

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Speaker 2: got this under control. It turns out no one does. Okay,

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Speaker 2: this is what I'm thinking. Come on, there's an app. Yep,

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Speaker 2: that's it. That's all I've got, and it allows you

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Speaker 2: don't mind a little jingle, just very loud.

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Speaker 1: It'd be good if there was some kind of like

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Speaker 2: Or you can make your own, and it's like you

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Speaker 2: can do you remember that? Where it was like you

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Speaker 2: can go through and make your own ring tone based

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Speaker 1: Never did that?

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Speaker 2: Never want to show you. I'm going to show you

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Speaker 2: because you could. You could go online and find how

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Speaker 1: Can't wait to listen to your ring tone.

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Speaker 2: It's going to be the ringtone or the dishwasher.

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Speaker 1: Breaking news.

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Speaker 2: You've got breaking news out here? What do you got

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Speaker 1: I've been holding on to this. This is actually this

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Speaker 2: It's breaking to us now, but when you get it, it's.

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Speaker 1: It's near possibly, it's just can people stop breaking the

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Speaker 2: It's a fake plan to be fine, God damn it. Sizzler.

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Speaker 1: You remember Sizzler, don't you dare.

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Speaker 2: It's coming back.

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Speaker 1: It's coming back right a lot.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, such a good concept. You buy a

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Speaker 3: All they're missing is like unlimited carb station where it's

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Speaker 1: I remember a waiter at Sizzler once told me how

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Speaker 1: I was like, it was like I had the recipe

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Speaker 2: And it's not the same though, when you cook something

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Speaker 2: I think it's just the you know how we were

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Speaker 2: Every house has a smell. It's like Sizzler has its

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Speaker 1: I remember when I when I grew up in the

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Speaker 2: That's like peak when Pizza Huddle we Can Eat closed

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Speaker 1: I always had the salad bar. All I ate was

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Speaker 2: I just want the bolonnaise and the bread and the

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Speaker 2: you can order a main.

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Speaker 1: I know you can.

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Speaker 2: Do you order surloin?

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Speaker 2: Well, must be is that even an expensive kind ofteak?

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Speaker 2: You're over here eating seafood marinara, not back then, and

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Speaker 2: I was just looking for a bit of beef.

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Speaker 1: I was there with a single mother, five kids. Surloin

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Speaker 2: Dream, actually five kids. Jesus is extensive of steak.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely it is. Jeez, it would have been would have

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Speaker 1: been nice growing up in the Wick's household where we

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Speaker 1: went to scissor for fucking surloy.

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Speaker 2: I've been to your house. I've been to your house.

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Speaker 1: You're eating a home by a helicopter.

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Speaker 3: You're eating lamb at your house these days, these days,

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Speaker 3: not when I was a kid.

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Speaker 2: We had nothing.

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Speaker 1: When I was a kid, nothing.

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Speaker 2: You're running out of bread, you get I'm getting hungry now. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: Every day of my life?

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Speaker 2: He just straight up out of nowhere.

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Speaker 2: Just like, kids are just brutally honest, so brutal.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do. I was like, do

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Speaker 2: You're a pretty white yellow?

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Speaker 1: No, yours are great? No one can says otherwise sick.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it.

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Speaker 2: Your poor thing. Well, for the record, I think your

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know what's been popping off lately is the

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Speaker 2: Yes, and you did have a clever idea thank you?

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Speaker 2: Which is a competition competition. What do they win?

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Speaker 1: We don't know yet.

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Speaker 2: We love doing that.

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Speaker 1: We have some merch what about like what about a

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Speaker 1: broken dry good? What about Tony May the jewelry? That's

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Speaker 1: my wife's label that she's had thirteen years?

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Speaker 2: My wife, that's a label thirteen years.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations, thank you.

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Speaker 2: That's longer than Sizzler last.

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Speaker 1: Originally I could ask her for a voucher. Yeah, So

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Speaker 1: the competition will be and we'll post this on the Instagram,

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Speaker 1: but we're currently at ninety eight.

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Speaker 2: Point three something like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, nine air point four.

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Speaker 2: As you said, that sentence a winner.

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Speaker 1: And we want to know if people can try and

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Speaker 1: guess with a comment on a post on Instagram when

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Speaker 1: we will hit one hundred thousand followers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like it, Thank you? Can I guess? Sure?

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Speaker 1: Sure, it's hard, it's hard.

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Speaker 3: Hard, like we could have a big spike. I think

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Speaker 3: it'll be the twenty seventh of this month. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 3: a pretty good guess. Actually, I'm going to go into March.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to go the first week of March. I'm

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Speaker 1: Well, if you want to get your entry in, all

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Speaker 1: you have to do is go to our Instagram page

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Speaker 1: you have to screenshot your entry because we're not going

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Speaker 1: to go find it. Let's be honest, You've would screenshot

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Speaker 1: with a screenshot, then you win. Its first in best dress.

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Speaker 2: Wow, the mechanics for this competition are fool proof. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: And we don't know what the prize is. We'll figure

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Speaker 1: it out. Maybe some surloins a couple of ses.

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Speaker 2: Go up to meet life stock.

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Speaker 1: You've found a calf.

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Speaker 2: Will jump out of Housekeeping. But I want to also

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Speaker 2: just something you said during Housekeeping, which was have you

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Speaker 2: verbally assaulted. I'm being trolled by my own children and

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Speaker 2: my wife. A couple of weeks ago, I told a

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Speaker 2: don't enjoy it. Yeah, I didn't enjoy it. I don't

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Speaker 2: like musicals. I'm like, you know what, not for me,

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Speaker 2: but my wife and kids have decided to get into

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, zach Efron, is it good?

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Speaker 2: I hate musicals? What do you think?

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Speaker 1: Can I ask? I haven't seen it, but is there

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Speaker 2: Is the beats heading the game? Fuck? You forget how

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Speaker 2: many stars are in that? That's like they cut you know,

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Speaker 2: they butter their bread there and then they took off

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Speaker 1: Name me one more Vanessa Hudson.

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Speaker 2: Obviously Zach Efron, who he looks completely different.

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Speaker 1: If you're going to tell me something like I didn't

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Speaker 2: You okay, I'm going to quickly lok.

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Speaker 1: You forget how many superstars?

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Speaker 2: Well, I just know I don't Okay, I didn't even

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Speaker 1: You forget just how many it was jam packed full

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Speaker 2: Name me one one other, Zach care from Vanessa Hudson.

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Speaker 2: I think what else? Who we got here? Who we

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Speaker 2: got na? No one else? Not one other person?

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Speaker 1: That statement.

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Speaker 2: No, actually, I'm going to I'm going to backtrack on

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Speaker 2: that retracted. I don't know any of these people. Maybe

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Speaker 2: it's just the two. I don't know where did I

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Sorry, anyway, there's a lot of them.

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Speaker 2: There's one, there's two.

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Speaker 1: Were you into retracting that statement?

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of singing and dancing going on in

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Speaker 2: my house at the moment because of high school musical

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Speaker 2: and Honestly, I think they're trolling me. I'm in the house.

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Speaker 2: Is either one, two or three high school musical going

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Speaker 1: April used to be a dancer, didn't she?

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Speaker 2: But she was a child.

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Speaker 1: Well I'm just saying that as someone who grew up

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Speaker 2: She's got a terrible rhythm.

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Speaker 1: I think she's quite good. I've seen her like do

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Speaker 2: Like, oh, yeah, she's a great drunk dancer.

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Speaker 2: I do have footage of.

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Speaker 1: But she's like I feel like she would be into it.

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Speaker 2: She's into it, yeah, but I'm not. And I think

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Speaker 2: they know I'm not and that I was like, I

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Speaker 2: can't stand musicals, and all of a sudden, of my

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Speaker 1: Get into it, bro, Star swimming against the tide, give in.

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Speaker 1: I'm stubborn, very stubborn.

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Speaker 2: I'm an old stubborn man going to change your ways. No,

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Speaker 2: but I'm just waiting for them to get La La

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Speaker 2: Land or going like the Greatest Showman?

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Speaker 1: Cracker? Cracker? What's the song A Million Dreams?

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Speaker 2: Come on? Bro? I actually I do like it when

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Speaker 2: Marley sings.

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Speaker 1: It's like Taylor Swift. I used to not like Taylor Swift,

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Speaker 1: and I was big on the l like what's the

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Speaker 2: No, I'm standing up parents everywhere.

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Speaker 1: When I stopped fighting it, life was better. Just give in.

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Speaker 1: It was like, just bend over and give in and

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Speaker 2: And next week I come in and I'm in one

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Speaker 2: of their basketball uniforms. Get you ahead in the game.

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Speaker 2: All I'm doing is musical high school musical quotes. So

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Speaker 2: It's so crep. But also as well, that head in

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Speaker 2: the game. I can just imagine, like back when that

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Speaker 2: fucking cool.

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Speaker 1: It's badass.

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Speaker 2: It's bad as I'm gonna play basketball and sing no

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Speaker 2: But I keep catching Macy, which is cute. I keep

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Speaker 2: watching it on by yourself, and I'll be I hear

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Speaker 1: Like, because they know you hate it, You're like, shut up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm like, shut up my house.

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Speaker 1: If everyone's happy in this house, I'll kick you out.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play you a sound a noise if you will,

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Speaker 1: And I want you to tell me if you know

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Speaker 1: you're listening at home right now, play along and try

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Speaker 1: and guess what it is.

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Speaker 2: We won't know because it'll just be you, okay listening.

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Speaker 1: Tell me if you can figure out what this sound is.

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Speaker 2: Laura's top drawer. That's a breast pump. Baby, Ah, it's

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Speaker 2: a Mendela breast pump. Wow. Remember Chris Hemsworth, that's his

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Speaker 2: first ever job, used to clean the nippole things. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we weren't allowed to tell that story.

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Speaker 1: Thanks long Star Amount. We interviewed Chris Hemsworth and he

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Speaker 1: told us that his very first job was cleaning breast pumps,

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Speaker 2: We still got that.

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Speaker 1: We know, we don't, what are we doing we do,

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Speaker 1: let's release it.

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Speaker 2: I know. It was like, we can't release it because

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Speaker 2: never did.

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Speaker 1: Chris has a fetish for breasts and he's afraid of

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Speaker 2: You've heard it here first we started, Chris got breast fetish.

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Speaker 1: We are now at the tail end of breastfeeding and

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Speaker 1: the only time that I had a horrible don't do it.

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Speaker 1: The only time that Poppy will take the breast milk

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Speaker 1: as if it's in a bottle and it's been pumped

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Speaker 1: by Laura. And it's weird that that noise every evening

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Speaker 1: after dinner, that is the soothing sounds that I met with.

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Speaker 2: You know, somewhere in your house there's a boob out

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Speaker 2: like become these detectives, like where's the boob? Just follow

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Speaker 1: I don't want to put it on my own nipple,

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Speaker 1: do it. I don't have it here, but I've done that.

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Speaker 2: No, where is it a rental? Did you buy one?

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Speaker 2: We bought one.

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Speaker 1: We used to have one of like the just the

444
00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:54,840
Speaker 1: little sucky ones. Shit, yeah, they ain't really man that thing.

445
00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,760
Speaker 1: Like when Laura first started using it, like she was

446
00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,359
Speaker 1: getting so much milk out suck.

447
00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,639
Speaker 2: The life, Like wow, She's like look at this, and

448
00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:05,159
Speaker 2: I was like, suck started motorcycle.

449
00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:07,760
Speaker 1: And then you got to work and I'd be like

450
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:08,880
Speaker 1: looking at it going.

451
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:15,680
Speaker 2: The vacuum cleaner, is like, how dare you? How dare

452
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:18,720
Speaker 2: you cheat on me with this thing? But I get it.

453
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:21,359
Speaker 2: It's got it's got different functions.

454
00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,840
Speaker 1: Poppies now on the on the formula, and it's you know,

455
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:29,280
Speaker 1: it's a sad moment. I think for any partner who

456
00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:31,159
Speaker 1: has to then, like all of a sudden step up

457
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,560
Speaker 1: to the plate at nighttime with the feeds, with the

458
00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:34,520
Speaker 1: formula and.

459
00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:37,679
Speaker 2: Those breast pump things. They are a hot property on

460
00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:39,960
Speaker 2: the second hand, MARKT. I'll tell you right now. They yeah,

461
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:45,960
Speaker 2: we should definitely like you got that breast pump, what

462
00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,000
Speaker 2: are you gonna do it? When you It's like what

463
00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:52,919
Speaker 2: finished with what? When I'm finished with? What with it?

464
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,040
Speaker 1: But I'm kind if I'm a little bit tired. It's

465
00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 1: because you know, I've been doing the night feeds ash

466
00:20:58,400 --> 00:20:59,560
Speaker 1: with poppies, So I'm just.

467
00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:01,840
Speaker 2: You know, I'm just You're just in the trench.

468
00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:03,080
Speaker 1: Just in the trenches.

469
00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:07,520
Speaker 2: Br And look any anyone that's going through this phase, good,

470
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 2: good on, you keep on keeping on. I reckon because

471
00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,520
Speaker 2: it's fuck. That was tough. That was the toughest part,

472
00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 2: I think because like bedtime routine, like say whatever, six

473
00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:20,639
Speaker 2: thirty seven o'clock, whatever, the anxiety kicks in what and

474
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,119
Speaker 2: it's like, how long are they going to sleep for?

475
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 2: I don't know.

476
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:24,879
Speaker 1: Because I know that she'll wake up at midnight for

477
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:26,959
Speaker 1: a feed. And last night I went to bed at

478
00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:30,080
Speaker 1: eleven and then it was eleven ten, eleven twenty, and

479
00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,640
Speaker 1: I was like, I know that I'm getting up pretty soon.

480
00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,240
Speaker 1: And then I finally I got to see it, maybe

481
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:36,679
Speaker 1: like eleven forty five, and then I was up at

482
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:37,760
Speaker 1: twelve and I was.

483
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:40,959
Speaker 2: Like, damn it, quick bowl, now up and back. How

484
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:42,919
Speaker 2: long is she feed for this?

485
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 1: It depends. Last night she was a bit fussy, but normally,

486
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 1: like I'd say, she's been a good five ten minutes.

487
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:50,239
Speaker 2: That's pretty thing.

488
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,119
Speaker 1: I mean, there's been one time where I was like,

489
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,439
Speaker 1: oh yeah, and Laura's like, don't fall asleep while you're

490
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 1: feeding it. I'm like I wasn't.

491
00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:02,439
Speaker 2: Definitely as it just breast milk or formula.

492
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 1: Now, well, Laura gets home, does the pump. She'll then

493
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,720
Speaker 1: have that breast milk to go to bed. But then

494
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 1: I think the formula is better. It fills it up more.

495
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 1: I think then through the night we then if there's

496
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: some breast milk left over, it'll go to.

497
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 2: I'll have a quick we're on the Baileys, We're.

498
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,879
Speaker 1: In the formula, on the phone, on on the formula

499
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:23,280
Speaker 1: each night.

500
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 2: My kids just wasted all the formula because they just

501
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 2: they wanted They had it once and then like after

502
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 2: that they just wouldn't take it against. It's waste. All

503
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 2: this formula they just didn't get. They just didn't hook

504
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 2: onto it. I don't know why, what age, I can't

505
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,680
Speaker 2: really remember, but I remember just having tins and tins

506
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 2: of it. It was the time when people were hoarding tins too,

507
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 2: so I fell into the category of I'm hoarding tins.

508
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,920
Speaker 1: I know people like you you're the problem.

509
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, you go down the aisle and there was none

510
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,560
Speaker 2: in there, and then you'd see a current affair and

511
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,120
Speaker 2: it just be some ladies like Mae, it's smuggling it out.

512
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:52,480
Speaker 1: Poppy only likes Bellamies, and I tried to give her

513
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 1: like another brand and she was like, what the hell

514
00:22:55,400 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 1: is this is Bellamies, Bellamies, Bellamies, chef's kiss. It's the

515
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 1: sur line of the.

516
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 2: Speaking of wasting things. My eldest, Oscar, who is six

517
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 2: and a half, yes, just at that age where wastes everything. Yeah,

518
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 2: like one bite of something waste and I put my

519
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 2: foot in it and he absolutely scoolled me. He got

520
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:23,199
Speaker 2: me good, which I didn't really let happen very often,

521
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 2: because usually what I'll say, like, mate, laptops don't grow

522
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:29,440
Speaker 2: on trees or something. If he breaks something, it's like,

523
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:33,040
Speaker 2: doesn't grow on trees. Anyway, He's really into drawing, and

524
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 2: I stupidly said, paper doesn't grow on trees.

525
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:37,639
Speaker 1: Oh, you're a goose.

526
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 2: And I just came out and as soon as it

527
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 2: came out, his little ears perked up. He was even

528
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:47,439
Speaker 2: Macy perked up and was like, you fucked up, and

529
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 2: Oscar was like, guess what, yes, it does. I was like,

530
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:55,479
Speaker 2: damn it, you motherfucker. It's got me good with that one. Anyway,

531
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: ruined the whole day because I sent him to.

532
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,679
Speaker 1: His room and.

533
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,119
Speaker 2: I actually played it off like I baited him on

534
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 2: purpose because I didn't want to admit defeat. But he's

535
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 2: technically he's scored me good.

536
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 1: It's annoying when you're getting out like outbeaten, out smarted by.

537
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 2: Six old and I was like, you got to bet now.

538
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,919
Speaker 1: But can I just say it is so annoying that

539
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 1: we've got like a little drawing pad sketch book, if

540
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 1: you will, and the kids will do like a like

541
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 1: one line on it and they're like next, oh, And

542
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, you've got so much free paper, just

543
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 1: like stay on that page. And they're like, no, I

544
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 1: want a fresh one. And I'm like, bar out man.

545
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 2: Especially in a four it's got two sides. There's two

546
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:43,159
Speaker 2: sites in this piece of.

547
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,399
Speaker 1: No and they don't want to go on the one thing.

548
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 1: You want to do the double side. I can see

549
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: the drawing through and I don't. I don't like it.

550
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 2: Paper, no respect, no respect for paper.

551
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 1: Kids have no respect for paper.

552
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,439
Speaker 2: I went outside, so we're on a second story, right, Okay.

553
00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 2: I went outside to go to my car because I'd

554
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 2: parked on the street for some reason. The notes did

555
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 2: and I walked out and there's all these paper aeroplanes

556
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 2: all over the grassouts out the front and I was like, no,

557
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: I look up there's a balcony and I'm like oscar. Anyway,

558
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 2: I picked him up, walk back upstairs. I was like

559
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 2: what is this and he was like, well, I couldn't

560
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 2: get them. I was like, there's stairs, bro go down.

561
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:20,120
Speaker 2: So he would just throw it once, go and get

562
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 2: another piece of paper, do another shit air not even

563
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 2: good aeroplanes. Embarrassing.

564
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 1: Why do boys love paper planes so much?

565
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 2: To know? But they are a hazard? They are pointy. Yeah, man,

566
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 2: Like the other day came out of the laundry and

567
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 2: an aeroplane came at me. I felt like I was

568
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 2: in World War three.

569
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 1: Because you sent into his room.

570
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 2: I was like, they're here, they're invading. But yeah, he

571
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,439
Speaker 2: does love a paper aeroplane. But he does love to

572
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 2: waste the paper and then leave it all over the

573
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 2: fucking ground.

574
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: Nightmare. Do you know what My girls loves dolls?

575
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 4: Your Macy's into dolls. Both my girls mermaids love also unicorns.

576
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 4: Big on the unicorns. We had Lla's birthday party a

577
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 4: couple of weeks ago.

578
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: Great party.

579
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 2: Before we get into that, go on Unicorn Mermaids. Macy

580
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 2: made me get a unicorn Mermaid, but we didn't put

581
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 2: the horn on yet. A unicorn Mermaid tattoo.

582
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 1: She's gonna have a unicorn on her head. That's gonna

583
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:19,679
Speaker 1: be a bit strange, decided. Anyone who wants to look

584
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 1: at that beautiful tattoo, just go to the YouTube.

585
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, go to YouTube.

586
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 1: You can see us in flesh, in flesh the full

587
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: episode and Ashes in a bicep will be there with Mermaid.

588
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: So my girls love dolls, Love dolls. Lola had a

589
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 1: birthday party. She's done five out a couple of weeks ago.

590
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you.

591
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 2: I go up so fast.

592
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: And we don't do the unboxing unwrapping of the presence

593
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 1: at the party. We do it at home. Yeah, she's

594
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:47,400
Speaker 1: allowed to have one gift.

595
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 2: And that's pretty standard. I don't know he wouldn't do

596
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 2: it in front of people.

597
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 1: No, No, do it at home. It's a slash of

598
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 1: a mess.

599
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 2: Imagine standing around watching some kid open up a bunch

600
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 2: of things.

601
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, do it at home. Do it at home. And

602
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 1: so I'm not sure who gave with this toy. But

603
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 1: there one doll in particular that she was playing with

604
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, how was that? And she

605
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:07,719
Speaker 1: was like, this is my doll and I was like,

606
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,439
Speaker 1: where did you get that from? She goes for my

607
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 1: birthday and I was like, I didn't take it off

608
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 1: her then and there I was like, wait till she

609
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 1: goes to sleep, and I'm going to get rid of

610
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: that doll, confiscate it never to be seen again. What

611
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,360
Speaker 1: I didn't clock it at first? It was Laura who

612
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 1: looked at it closely and was like, hay, in a second,

613
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: this ain't on.

614
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, she got a pretty good radar too for that

615
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 2: sort of stuff.

616
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: I'm going to show you the doll. Oh love show

617
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 1: and tell. Have a look at this.

618
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 2: It looks like a like a brats.

619
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:38,199
Speaker 1: Dole, maybe a Brat's doll. Yeah, okay, okay, So she

620
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 1: has very long hair. Hair's not really the problem though,

621
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: so undressed.

622
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,400
Speaker 2: She's got no feet? Is that the problem?

623
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,959
Speaker 1: Not the problem? I just think a toy for a

624
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: five year old child I don't think should be as

625
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:57,439
Speaker 1: sexualized as it is the reason I'm uncomfortable when you

626
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: undress this doll, it has lingerie painted on, and it's

627
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 1: in the shape of a very skimpy underwear, almost like

628
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:09,199
Speaker 1: g string light. And also this die high boots with

629
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 1: a huge heel, which is lipstick, and a full face

630
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 1: of makeup with these really over accentuated features, like her

631
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 1: lips are massive. And I don't want my five year

632
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 1: old playing with a doll that has these adult like features.

633
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it might be sending a bit of a wrong message.

634
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: I just think that's not on. I don't think we

635
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,120
Speaker 1: need to be giving five year olds this. I think

636
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 1: a five year old should be playing with kid like toys,

637
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 1: which is too adult like to adult like for a kid.

638
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: If my kid sees that kind of underwear and she goes,

639
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: why am I wearing this? Full brief someone with the

640
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: doll has And also they're now getting into makeup, and

641
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: she's like, well, I want to put iron shadow on.

642
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: I want to put my scar on. At five years old,

643
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be thinking about those types of things. I

644
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: don't reckon.

645
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 2: I don't think so. Yeah, I think I agree with you.

646
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 2: Barbie for example, this is she's Barbie as an example. Okay,

647
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 2: would you prefer always with nothing whatsoever?

648
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think nothing.

649
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,719
Speaker 2: It's a tricky one because it's like the type of

650
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 2: doll it is, which is I think it's brats, right,

651
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 2: That's what that reminds me of. It's sort of that's

652
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: been the aesthetic of that, Like take the body out

653
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 2: of that. Man, it's just the head, right, that's the

654
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 2: aesthetic of brats that sets them apart. But at the

655
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 2: same time, I get what you're saying, really like, you

656
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 2: don't want your little girl going I want my eyes

657
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 2: to be like because that's the expectation, so society's expectation exactly.

658
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 2: It's a little bit grown up for a five year old.

659
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 2: At what age group would that be appropriate for? Do

660
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Speaker 2: you think?

661
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: I don't think you any kid should be playing with

662
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: dolls that look like that.

663
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it sets a It might set the

664
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 2: expectation that they am.

665
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 1: I am ipprude for thinking that is that? Am I?

666
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 2: I don't think a prude. I think like I just.

667
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: Think creating a doll for a five year old that

668
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: has lingerie painted on, a full face and makeup, really

669
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 1: enlarged lips, I think it just misses the mark. I

670
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: think you can allow kids to play with toys that

671
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: a child like and not projecting these adult like standards

672
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: for beauty in fashion.

673
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 2: Well said, just speaking of kids playing with things, fucking

674
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 2: found oscar cutting up a can with a pair of

675
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 2: scissors go on, And I was like, how did you

676
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 2: not cut yourself? Is that good with scissors?

677
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: No?

678
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 2: I was like, don't bro so sharp? Anyway?

679
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: What was he making?

680
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 2: Something stupid?

681
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: Like?

682
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 2: I don't know what he was making. But when one

683
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:27,959
Speaker 2: scissors two can?

684
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: Watching my kids, my girls with scissors.

685
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 2: That actually just quickly, what age do you think kids

686
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 2: should have scissors?

687
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: I think six six? And if they cut themselves, it

688
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: still part of the learning.

689
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: Experience supervised unsupervised.

690
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 1: You gotta let them hurt themselves, right, I think? But

691
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 1: watching Lola is just I would prefer to avoid having

692
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: to go to hospital trying to hold the papers.

693
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 2: Do you know what I did? I got a banana out,

694
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 2: I put it on a chopping board and what was

695
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 2: left of that can whack and cut the banana in half. Oh,

696
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: I said, imagine that's your finger.

697
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: What did he say?

698
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 2: He went white? I missed a thing before we're talking

699
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 2: about formula and milk and stuff like that. My father

700
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 2: in law, Frank Popper, shut out to Frank, he's turned

701
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 2: into a I'm gonna call him a dealer.

702
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 1: What's he got?

703
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 2: April the other day got into his car with Macy.

704
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 2: Macy gets in the backseat. Obviously, Frank does him up,

705
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 2: and then out of his jacket comes a chocolate milk

706
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 2: bottle that he's from home that he's heated up and

707
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 2: brought with him for Macy because she's obsessed with milk

708
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 2: and a baby bottle still and he's the reason he's

709
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 2: giving okay at home at his place? Fine is it?

710
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 1: Though?

711
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 2: No, if they don't, if they get home, they haven't

712
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 2: eaten their dinner. But anyway, Frank does so much.

713
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: But don't you reckon that like you need it? You can.

714
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 1: You can set the rules and he needs to abide

715
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: by them. Yeah, you can say, Frank, we stopped the bottle.

716
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 1: It'd be like if you said, hey, we'll stopped the crack, right.

717
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 1: It's like if we when Lola was trying to quit

718
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 1: the dummy and if we said, hey, Nana, just make

719
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 1: sure where out if you have Lola, keep the dummies

720
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: away because we're trying to trying to make her drop

721
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: that habit. And then if Nana wasn't giving it to her, secretly,

722
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 1: I'd be filthy.

723
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 2: I've stuck between a rock and a hard place. Man,

724
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 2: I do put your foot because he he does like

725
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 2: three of the school pickups a week. He does so

726
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 2: much for us he can do, which I really appreciate.

727
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 1: I didn't do that and still respect your boundaries and

728
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: the rules that you're enforcing.

729
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I know, But anyway, I'll call them, call

730
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 2: him down. No, I don't want to know. April will

731
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 2: be so off me if I if I if I

732
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 2: April to be really off me if I said something

733
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 2: because he does so much.

734
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: He's like, you didn't talk about Frank on the podcast,

735
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 1: but I.

736
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 2: Thought it was funny, like at home at his house

737
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 2: if she wants a nice bottle of milk to you know,

738
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 2: keep your occupied anyway, No, but in the car, bro

739
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 2: and he was apparently he was like dialed it out,

740
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 2: Like that's just that's is arrogant from Frank, that's showing off, that.

741
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: Is asking to be caught. He wants to be caught.

742
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, He's like this has got out of control, not

743
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 2: control it. But I'm like, how did to help? I'm like,

744
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 2: why won't you eat your dinner? And I found out

745
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 2: he's had like three bottles of milk. Oh my god,

746
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 2: I'm going to get into much trouble.

747
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god. That is that's child abuse.

748
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 2: Wow.

749
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 1: Also frank up.

750
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 2: You well, yeah, actually keep on doing what you're doing

751
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 2: because we need you.

752
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: What is with I can't stand people who think it's

753
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 1: cute and funny to spoil my kids. Some people will

754
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: come over it doesn't matter what time it is, and

755
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: they're like, I brought donuts to the kids, and I'm like,

756
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 1: that's cool, We'll have to have that after dinner because

757
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: it's now four point thirty and I don't want them

758
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: having three donuts before they have dinner. It's a grandparenty

759
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 1: and they're like, come on, and I'm like, I fucking said,

760
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: yeah what I said, and I meant it.

761
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 2: That's my nan bro Oh my god. If we go

762
00:33:58,000 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 2: over there with the kids and she'd be like, if

763
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 2: they've eaten their lunch, then it's like, okay, well she

764
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: can have a little treat. It's fine, you're an at

765
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 2: house whatever. But then she was like, what about a Fredo?

766
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,359
Speaker 2: What about a kit Cat? What about a tim Tan?

767
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 2: What about a biscuit? Or like es? And I'm like,

768
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 2: they can't have any more sugar, and she's.

769
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: Like, why not, haven't come on, let them enjoy life.

770
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, leave them here with you. Like far,

771
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 2: I get him in the car and they're like, oh

772
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 2: my god. Then all of a sudden, they're just assholes

773
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 2: because the sugar's worn off.

774
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: It's like when you're at a friend's barbecue and it's

775
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: like eight o'clock and they're like, I just stay for

776
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 1: a little bit longer, and you're like, you don't have

777
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,319
Speaker 1: to deal with them tomorrow. Yeah, I'm the one who

778
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 1: has to deal with the repercussions tonight. It's not that

779
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: not that much of an issue. Sure, half an hour here,

780
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 1: but tomorrow, do you want to come to my house?

781
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: You want to deal with my kids in the morning

782
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: when I'm trying to get them out of bed and

783
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,280
Speaker 1: feed them in the morning. No, you're fucking dying exactly.

784
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 1: Shut up.

785
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 2: It's nine o'clock at nine. They're like, sorry, it's nine

786
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 2: o'clock at nine. They're like, just stay a bit longer.

787
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,359
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, so my kid's gonna fall a sleep

788
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 2: in the car. I have to try And you're essentially

789
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 2: creating a knock on effect of so many issues. Just

790
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 2: let me take my kid home in an appropriate hour.

791
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 1: I'm emotionally unstable as it is.

792
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 2: Funny story about a barbecue that I had when I

793
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 2: was a kid. It was like an end of year's

794
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:09,879
Speaker 2: soccer barbecue. Bunch of kids, and they had this little

795
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 2: dog just call it a Jack Russell, Alan Rickman, let's

796
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 2: call it Alan Rickman. And this little dog was being

797
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 2: fed left, right and centered by kids. Messages just whatever.

798
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:25,879
Speaker 2: Your kids are not going to like doggy. The owner said, please, please,

799
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 2: don't feed the dog. And you think kids aren't going

800
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 2: to respect that, They're going to do whatever they do.

801
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: Put the dog away.

802
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 2: Anyway, they it got fed by so many kids. The

803
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 2: dog died. Essentially, it's stomach exploded.

804
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:38,879
Speaker 1: God, you got to put the dog away.

805
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 2: You've got to the dog away, I said. I started

806
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,399
Speaker 2: this with funny story about a barbecue. A dog died.

807
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 2: It actually it's stomach actually blew up. Yeah, anyway, this

808
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 2: episode gone.

809
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: I think that'll stay in the podcast.

810
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 2: Before we get into the dilemma. We did dilemmas last week.

811
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 2: We talked about letting your kids win. Yep, Well, Oscar

812
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 2: is known in our household for cheating. We've been playing

813
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 2: Uno right before bed, and you know, regardless of whoever

814
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,360
Speaker 2: wins or whatever, I'm finding the rogue car are you?

815
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 2: That's cheeky and also as well when he's losing it

816
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 2: and I'm wondering why it's hitting him so hard. Poor

817
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 2: kid's cheating and still losing. He storms off to bed,

818
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,200
Speaker 2: and April is such an m path and also her

819
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,879
Speaker 2: father's daughter. The milk guy. She's like, have some milk,

820
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 2: has some chocolate milk? I got it from Papa's house. Anyway,

821
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 2: that's the dilemma. Do you stop Papa from giving fucking milk?

822
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 2: The kids just coming to his house. He's just dealing

823
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:43,879
Speaker 2: out milk. He's doing it out the back of his car.

824
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: Anyway, Augustus Clump, is that the kid from.

825
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,359
Speaker 2: Rolls in the Chocolate? Yeah? Yeah, that's my kids. They're

826
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 2: going to roll them out. Yeah. But he's storming off

827
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:55,800
Speaker 2: to his room and going to bed and having a

828
00:36:55,880 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 2: soul them car cards following it, and April's like, oh no, no, no, April.

829
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 2: He has to learn how to lose, especially if he's

830
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 2: cheating and still losing. Cheating when all you want, boy idiot,

831
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 2: oh god, let's do dods Lemma, Matt.

832
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, and actually we have some very exciting years.

833
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 2: You know.

834
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,879
Speaker 1: We love a little jingle, little intro here at two

835
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 1: doting dads and hot off the press.

836
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:24,320
Speaker 2: Oh god, it's very hot it is.

837
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: Let's play this now.

838
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 2: You need usmall than ever. Know that we still have

839
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 2: each other. You can send sure doting dilemma. You can

840
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 2: sure doting dilemma Ella, Ella. And so this is from Shanay?

841
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 2: Is that right? No, Cheyenne sha, I don't know how

842
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 2: to pronounce that. Stop giving us your names because I

843
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:54,479
Speaker 2: can't I butcher him every time. I'm going to go sh.

844
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 1: Shah nay.

845
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 2: There you go. From the Facebook spelled c h e

846
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 2: E double n e. Well, I know what the dilemma

847
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 2: this week is. It's how to pronounce this person's name

848
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 2: from Cheyenne Shane, I don't know. In the Facebook group,

849
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 2: Oh god. Past the parcel etiquette. I'm doing past the

850
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 2: parcel for my daughter's party this year. There will be

851
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 2: lollies in each layer, then one special present. I'd love

852
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 2: to hear from parents who do pass the parcel. Do

853
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 2: you opt for the birthday child to receive the present,

854
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 2: or one of the children who have attended Now I

855
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,240
Speaker 2: want to preface this by saying I have never organized

856
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 2: the past the parcel and that's it. What about Oscars party,

857
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:38,800
Speaker 2: I didn't organize it, Okay, I was on crowd control.

858
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 1: We can't pass the parcel at Lola's birthday party for

859
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: this reason.

860
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 2: Okay.

861
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: I think when you've got kids who are only four

862
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: or five, unless everyone and people are going to come

863
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,919
Speaker 1: for me, I know that. Okay, I know that I'm

864
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: doing nothing to make these children of the next generation

865
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 1: resilientiate that, but I believe that every kid needs to

866
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 1: get a little toy.

867
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 2: When did pass the past, will become woke. That's what

868
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 2: I want to know.

869
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,879
Speaker 1: I just think everyone needs because if you have four

870
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: kids out of twelve who are left with nothing, they're like, but.

871
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 2: Why it's the participation award.

872
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 1: But they don't understand if they're eight and ten year old. Sure,

873
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:23,839
Speaker 1: but that's my first rule.

874
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 2: What would be the what would be the little gift?

875
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: What do you think of like a little thing of

876
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 1: like blowing liquid ever, like a dry dog or a

877
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:33,240
Speaker 1: little lollipop.

878
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, just like a little lollio something.

879
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 1: And I think the major prize I think should not

880
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 1: a new car. I don't think that should go to

881
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:43,320
Speaker 1: the kid his birthday it is that needs to go

882
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 1: to a non birthday China.

883
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 2: Then how do you choose that kid? I think you

884
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 2: got to then just you go, then you then you

885
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 2: actually play. That's when the real game starts. You're like, now,

886
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 2: how long would you let it go around and around for?

887
00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 2: Because kids are desperate, desperate little shits five rounds. I

888
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:05,760
Speaker 2: would just sit there for ages for my own entertainment,

889
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 2: and they'll be like until do you know what it

890
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:09,799
Speaker 2: should turn into? Like a gaming like survivor? Who can

891
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 2: last the longest? Who can sit there the longest while

892
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 2: I do this? And then whoever doesn't get the shits

893
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 2: with it and stays wins the prize.

894
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 1: And that is why you don't operate or organize the past.

895
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:24,839
Speaker 1: The past they bring their torch up and I put

896
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: it out, so I reckon give every kid a toy.

897
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: I said that the Facebook group and people were like.

898
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 2: Come on, yeah, I'm with the people on the Facebook

899
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 2: wrapping the kids in cotton? Will I know you made

900
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 2: it woke?

901
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: So I said that to Laura. She panicks so much

902
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 1: that she was like, I'm just not doing past the

903
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: parcel I'm scrapping.

904
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 2: What about this past the parcel with no major prize?

905
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 2: So then everyone just gets something and then you're like

906
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 2: game over.

907
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, yeah, I think every kid has a lollipop.

908
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 1: Next question. This one is from Jess Easy got the

909
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 1: easy name, Yes, and she's emailed and asked how often

910
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 1: should dads be going to the gym? My husband has

911
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 1: recently been on an intense health kick. I'm talking canning calories,

912
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 1: weighing himself almost daily, taking photos for progress, and also

913
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:17,360
Speaker 1: hiring a pt. Now, Whilst I'm proud of him for

914
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 1: getting fitter, losing over thirteen.

915
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 2: Killers wow, congratulations and.

916
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: Hue congratulations, and also finding a passion, it's taking its

917
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 1: toll on our family life. We have a three and

918
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 1: a half year old and one jew in July. We

919
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: both work full time, though his hours are slightly longer

920
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 1: than mine and he has an hour commute each way,

921
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: but he still maintains that he needs to go to

922
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: the gym four times every week, three during the week

923
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 1: and once on the weekend. But that means going straight

924
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: from work to the gym and then getting home at

925
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 1: eight point thirty pm, way past the little one's bedtime.

926
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 1: If he is able to finish on time, he can

927
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: make it home by bath and bedtime, but if he

928
00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 1: doesn't go, he ends up having to go twice on

929
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:00,760
Speaker 1: the weekend to make up for his sessions, which honestly

930
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,399
Speaker 1: kills me a little bit. With number two on the way,

931
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: I'm worried that one he isn't spending enough time with

932
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 1: our first child, but two that his new routine will

933
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 1: take a big hit when bubb comes and he will

934
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: not be able to cope very well. I just want

935
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 1: an opinion. Surely, even just going three times a week

936
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,480
Speaker 1: is not a big ask, or am I being the

937
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:25,479
Speaker 1: bad guy? Fuck bit of a mind?

938
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 2: Phil.

939
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,760
Speaker 1: It is great that anyone wants to get fit and healthy,

940
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: and I know personally how much better I am with

941
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: my own headspace if I've gone to the gym a

942
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 1: few times during the week. Where it gets really complicated

943
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 1: is when the gym is being prioritized over everything else.

944
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 1: I think I'm all for getting fit and healthy, but

945
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:47,879
Speaker 1: when it makes one parent feel like they are doing

946
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: it alone, that's when it's too much.

947
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 2: By all means. Like you said, if he wants to

948
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 2: continue up four sessions a week, which I don't think,

949
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 2: is that overkill the seven days in a week, it's

950
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 2: one day. I think that maybe he just needs to

951
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 2: just have a quick look at his calendar and make

952
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 2: it work around the family a bit better. I mean,

953
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 2: but also as well, also as well, there needs to

954
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 2: be from Jess's point of view, there also needs to

955
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 2: be essentially, they just need to communicate right at the

956
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 2: end of the day. Right now, She's like, look, I'm

957
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 2: worried that when the second child comes, you're going to

958
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,359
Speaker 2: take a quick shot to your routine and it might

959
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 2: it might disrupt you in a way, like we need

960
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 2: to have this conversation to go all right, Well, I'm

961
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: fine with you doing your work out. It makes you

962
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 2: feel better, you feel like a better person, you're a

963
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 2: better parent, but it needs to work around the family

964
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 2: though it can't be that is prime fucking time. Like

965
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 2: we're talking five to eight o'clock in the afternoon, is

966
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 2: which you're essentially you're bypassing witching hour, the bath, the bed, routine, dinner,

967
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,240
Speaker 2: there's so much in that space. But by all means,

968
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 2: don't give up your session if it makes you be

969
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 2: a better person, a better pen, but you need to

970
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 2: find a spot where it works with the family, maybe

971
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:01,839
Speaker 2: two of those sets. You do it in your lunch

972
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 2: break at work.

973
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 1: I don't know what kind of work he does, but

974
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,479
Speaker 1: you had imagine that he could go at lunchtime stay

975
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,959
Speaker 1: back a little bit later, so he's still getting home

976
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 1: to help with the child. But at risk of sounding

977
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: very cliche, here, oh god, when people talk about this,

978
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, shut up. But now I'm one of them.

979
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 1: Those early years go so bloody quick, they really do.

980
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:25,840
Speaker 1: Before you know. I look at Marley now, who's to

981
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 1: turn seven in grade one, and I'm like, oh my gosh,

982
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 1: like my little girl, the way I used to put

983
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 1: in an appy and read us stories at bedtime. Like

984
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 1: those days are numbered. And I think it's so easy

985
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 1: when it's so hard and you're in the trenches of

986
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: giving those moments a miss. But I think they are

987
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,479
Speaker 1: so imperative for not only making you a better parent,

988
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 1: because the more you do it, the better you understand

989
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:50,879
Speaker 1: your kids. You learn little tricks and tips, but also

990
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 1: it's so important to build those relationships in those moments

991
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 1: with your children when you're a part of the morning

992
00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 1: or the nighttime routine. So when you're away for all

993
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 1: of that, I think it's at the detriment to your

994
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: relationship with your kids.

995
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there'd be someone that you work with

996
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 2: that wishes they could be home doing that, doing the

997
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 2: bath and doing the dinner. I remember even just the

998
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 2: other day, I was looking for an old photo through

999
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:15,800
Speaker 2: my phone and it came up with Oscar with foodle

1000
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 2: over his face as a two year old, and it

1001
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 2: wasn't I wasn't there because I had at nine to five,

1002
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:22,879
Speaker 2: which unfortunately I had to be able to provide because

1003
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 2: April was off. But it hit me because I missed

1004
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,879
Speaker 2: that and I'd forgotten, and then when I look back,

1005
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 2: I went, ah, fuck that.

1006
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 1: You know, I know there are so many nights where

1007
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying to rush the kids into bed. I want

1008
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 1: them to be asleep because I want to get my

1009
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 1: time back with just by myself, with me and Laura.

1010
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 1: But it is so nice when you do have those

1011
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 1: nice moments. You read them the story, you have a

1012
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 1: little cuddle in bed, you give them a kiss good night.

1013
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: I think they're the parts that you don't want to

1014
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: miss out on. Yeah, I mean I would say as

1015
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 1: well as long as it's equal, Like if you're in

1016
00:45:58,120 --> 00:45:59,839
Speaker 1: a relationship where you want to work out seven times

1017
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: as long as your partner has equal opportunity to also

1018
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:07,240
Speaker 1: do the same. And I say that, but with Laura,

1019
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 1: I have to sneak in my gym sessions. I have

1020
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 1: to hide them from her. Wow, because she just works

1021
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: too much. She can never go. She's out the door

1022
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: at six point thirty in the morning, she gets home,

1023
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,360
Speaker 1: put the kids to bed, she then works again until

1024
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: like ten o'clock at night.

1025
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 2: So my hearing is you would hide them so that

1026
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 2: she doesn't feel bad, is that she doesnt work so much.

1027
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 1: She does so much that she would get to do

1028
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 1: like one gym session a week at the moment, like

1029
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: hardly anything.

1030
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 2: Do you hide them so she doesn't feel guilty she's

1031
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 2: not doing enough.

1032
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: Because then she'll be like, if so when I go

1033
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: to the gym, I'll like jump in the ocean real

1034
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: quick and get home so I've wet hair. Sometimes I

1035
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: won't jump in the ocean so it doesn't look like

1036
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 1: I've been to them, because then she gets upset she

1037
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 1: knows I've been to the gym three or four times

1038
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:53,319
Speaker 1: in the week and she hasn't gone once. That level

1039
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:55,720
Speaker 1: of imbalance will make her a little bit eggy. Okay,

1040
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: and also I think just accentuate the fact that she

1041
00:46:58,320 --> 00:46:59,879
Speaker 1: knows she hasn't been to the gym, so it makes

1042
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: her even more frustrated at her self.

1043
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 2: Right, that's.

1044
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 1: So she's like, oh, your biceps are good, and I'm like.

1045
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 2: Huh, genetics, Okay, well here we go. April goes to

1046
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,439
Speaker 2: the gym six times a week, six times a week.

1047
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: Wow.

1048
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 2: Mate, She gets up at four o'clock every morning. She

1049
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 2: gets back and she comes in sometimes the kids aren't

1050
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 2: even up yet. I'm not up yet.

1051
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: What a woman. I know.

1052
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 2: We did have a little discussions called it wasn't a

1053
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 2: fight because obviously the five days during the week, the

1054
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 2: routine's pretty monotonous in the same right, especially in the

1055
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:34,879
Speaker 2: mornings you get everyone gets up, does their thing, gets

1056
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 2: ready for school and work, and goes on right. But

1057
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 2: then Saturday Sunday, the variables in those days usually like

1058
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 2: she would have Saturday morning would be a slightly later class,

1059
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:48,879
Speaker 2: would impede on people being awake, impedes on family day.

1060
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 2: And then it sort of gets to the time when

1061
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 2: she can get back and it's a bit too late

1062
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 2: for me to go, oh, can I quickly go do

1063
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 2: something before By that time it's ten o'clock. We've missed

1064
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 2: all the parking at the beach or whatever, and half

1065
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:03,839
Speaker 2: the morning the kids are ratty whatever. And I said

1066
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,760
Speaker 2: to April, I was like, hey, maybe, like on that Saturday,

1067
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 2: don't just assume that you're sweet to go to the gym.

1068
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 2: Maybe I want to do something, you know, like and

1069
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 2: it was like she was like, oh, oh okay. But

1070
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 2: that was because we communicated. It didn't turn into a fight.

1071
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,399
Speaker 2: But if this guy is like, Okay, well i've got

1072
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 2: another child coming, my life is going to be really hectic.

1073
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,279
Speaker 2: I need I want to get this in now and

1074
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 2: then get to when I've got to, and then it's

1075
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:32,840
Speaker 2: real tricky because he's trying to better himself at the

1076
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:36,839
Speaker 2: same time, you can't prioritize that over your family's. There

1077
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 2: was times when we were April and I were going

1078
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 2: through it was like, okay, well that's not a good

1079
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 2: time to go because X, Y and Z. There's twenty

1080
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 2: four hours in a day you might have to go.

1081
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 2: And I used to go. I used to put Oscar

1082
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,920
Speaker 2: to sleep and I would be in my wetsuit. What

1083
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 2: a full wetsuit in winter because as soon as I

1084
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 2: put him down and he went to sleep. The transition

1085
00:48:58,120 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 2: was fine.

1086
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 1: But at the doorbell right the door, and they're like,

1087
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:02,320
Speaker 1: why the fuck are you wearing a websit?

1088
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 2: Do you know how many times that he hasn't gone

1089
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 2: to sleep, and I've just I haven't been able to

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Speaker 2: go for a surf. But I was ready. That's how

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Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, well this is what's more important

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Speaker 2: to me. Was this to give April some reprieve. And

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Speaker 2: once he was asleep and settled, I knew I had

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Speaker 2: forty minutes because he would only sleep forty minutes to

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Speaker 2: run out the back of my house to the beach.

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Speaker 2: It didn't matter what the surf looked like. Paddle out, Okay,

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Speaker 2: if there was days that I would paddle out and

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Speaker 2: not get a single wave, turn around and paddle back in.

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Speaker 1: The change of scenery, getting in the water made all

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Speaker 1: the difference.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And Abri would say, she said, once the kids

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Speaker 2: are in bed, you do whatever you fucking like, And

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Speaker 2: that could be go to the pub if I wanted to.

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Speaker 2: But what was important is that transition was smooth, and

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Speaker 2: if it didn't give my plans got fucked up. And

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Speaker 2: it was it is what it is, right, But I

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Speaker 2: don't know what the personality this guy's like and whether

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Speaker 2: if the goalpost move it would throw him right out.

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Speaker 2: But I would say, if I'm going to give any advice,

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Speaker 2: which I shouldn't, just have the conversation and say, what

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Speaker 2: does it look like for you when we've got a

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Speaker 2: newborn look like because at the moment, in an ideal world,

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Speaker 2: I'd like you to be here.

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Speaker 1: On these supporting these times, on these days.

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Speaker 2: Because it's only for a short time, and I would

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Speaker 2: assume that he's not gone to the gym that that

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Speaker 2: time of the day to avoid them. But you need

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Speaker 2: to have that conversation because you never know what people

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Speaker 2: are thinking mentally or what they might think, Oh, well,

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Speaker 2: she hasn't pulled me up on it, so it must

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Speaker 2: be fine because you haven't pulled him up on it,

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Speaker 2: So maybe have the conversation. That's what I would do,

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Speaker 2: Well said ash Well said, that's what I would expect.

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Speaker 1: And do you know what I expect? A review on

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Speaker 1: this podcast episode. We've had a couple I'd like more.

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Speaker 1: If I'm honest, you can either write a comment on

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Speaker 1: Spotify or an Apple podcast, give us a review, a

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Speaker 1: couple of stars. It just it's a nice thing. It's

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Speaker 1: a considerate thing to do.

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Speaker 2: Or join us on social media Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube.

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Speaker 1: I did have one person who's I think they've been

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Speaker 1: listening since day one, and they're like, finally, I thought,

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Speaker 1: after all these years of begging, I thought I'd give

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Speaker 1: you a review. And I was like, it's working. Only

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Speaker 1: it took me three years pleading at the end of

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Speaker 1: every episode, but I finally got one.

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Speaker 2: Imagine if you didn't be we have nothing right you imagine.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so on social media and I'm hungry.

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Speaker 2: We spoke food.

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Speaker 1: I've been thinking about. Let's get out of here. Two

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Speaker 1: Doting Dads podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout

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Speaker 1: Australia and the connections to land, sea and community.

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Speaker 2: We pay our respects to their elders past and present

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Speaker 2: and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torrestraight Islander

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Speaker 2: people's today. This episode was recorded on gadigal Land