WEBVTT - Why are we all obsessed with true crime and reality TV? 0:00:20.600 --> 0:00:23.680 Hi, guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:26.560 One cart. I'm Brittany and I'm Laura, and welcome to 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:28.960 the rest of Australia who are now also in lockdown. 0:00:29.120 --> 0:00:31.040 It sucks and I'm sad that you're all here with us. 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:33.319 Who are the only parts of Australia not in lockdown? Now? 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:34.680 Is it just Western Australia? 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:35.000 Oh? 0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:37.240 Who's keeping track? Everyone? 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:37.879 Not? 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:40.720 Everyone's life is shitty and if it's not, I don't 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:42.879 want to hear about it. So what's been going on 0:00:42.920 --> 0:00:45.040 with you? Then? The fun thing that's been happening in 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:47.879 our household is that Lola is cutting two teeth and 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:51.279 she's currently teething. And there is nothing more wild and 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:53.800 feral than a teething toddler. I feel like the last 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:57.240 two years for you have been teething, not teething. Just 0:00:57.280 --> 0:01:00.080 like children, it's either there's something wrong with the young 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:02.040 one or there's something wrong with the oldest one. They're 0:01:02.040 --> 0:01:05.039 never in time and there's always some sort of drama. 0:01:05.160 --> 0:01:07.440 But we thrive in chaos and we love every second 0:01:07.440 --> 0:01:10.640 of earth. And you want to keep ongoing. Woman, It's weird, 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:15.720 but yes, I do. I have this like weird crazy hormonal, 0:01:16.000 --> 0:01:17.920 Like now I just want to be that this mother 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:20.320 earth woman who just has lots of children, lives out 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:21.959 in Byron Bay. Okay, but this is going to blow 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:25.560 your mind. But yesterday and this is not happening. Also 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:31.399 just FYI, so we got am I finding out news 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:34.160 with Live with the Rest of Australia yesterday. As you 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:36.200 guys know if you listened to last week's episode, I 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:39.680 got my first period after having Lola, which is big 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:42.080 because I haven't had a period in like over a year, 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:45.360 and you know, just about to finish and I was like, look, Matt, 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:49.040 this means you have to be really really careful now, 0:01:49.160 --> 0:01:51.480 like lots of protection. I want you to double bag 0:01:51.560 --> 0:01:53.800 that thing before coming to bed. You glad wrap that, 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:56.400 you glad rap that, you foil that. I was like, Matt, 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:58.360 double bag, I'm back on the pill. I'm going to 0:01:58.400 --> 0:02:00.960 get a Marina put in. Let's go for God. And 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:02.920 that was like, why don't we just give it one 0:02:03.000 --> 0:02:07.160 crack with no contraception and see what? Oh Matt, what 0:02:07.320 --> 0:02:09.840 is wrong with that? Man? Not? And I hope you, 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:12.840 Oh my god, did you look at your face? It's like, 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:14.760 we have time to have sex. We've had a teething child. 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:17.240 Come on, Brittany, okay, because I feel like that is 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:19.520 like Russian Roulette. I don't feel like that that is 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:21.000 a good thing for you and Matt to do. I 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:23.200 do also think it's more like the odds are on 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:26.800 our side, because let's be real, like the man is fertile. Look, 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:29.560 I got a little bit sad this week because the 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:33.640 Olympics finished. Now I assume I'm on board with the 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:36.320 rest of Australia. I was so the rest of Australia 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.840 except you, Laura. I was so into the Olympics. I 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:41.200 loved it. I cried so many times. I had all 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:43.960 the feelings and it's finished, and I just feel like 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:46.560 they need to come around more often. I think we 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:48.240 need to put a petition out for maybe like every 0:02:48.280 --> 0:02:50.399 two years we have the Olympics. I know I said 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:52.320 on last week's episode that I hadn't gotten into it, 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:54.839 but I did a real backflip, like I really got 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:57.119 into it this week. What at the finals. 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:01.160 You're not allowed to blow in and start to be 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:03.400 a supporter in the finals. You have to watch from 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:04.560 the start from the first week. 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:06.720 First, the first week was boring. I got really I 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:08.919 just watched the marathon. Guys, I'm so invested. I watched 0:03:08.960 --> 0:03:11.320 a marathon raised No, I got really into it. And 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:12.840 then I feel the same, I'm like, what am I 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:15.200 gonna do with myself now that it's finished? Now, I 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:17.320 also feel sad and I feel robbed that I didn't 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:19.880 watch it earlier, Like I feel like I've missed out 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:22.720 on a fundamental part of something that was really important, 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:24.919 and I didn't get on board until it was too late. 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:26.679 I am glad that you got on board with the 0:03:26.720 --> 0:03:29.680 Olympics because there is something that I wanted to ask you. 0:03:30.200 --> 0:03:34.760 Did you see the marriage proposal that happened at the Olympics? Yes? 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:39.200 I did, Okay, So anyone that didn't see it, please 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:40.760 look it up. And I want to talk to you 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:44.040 about it, Laura, I want your opinion. There was an argentinianfencer, 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:46.760 her name is Maria Belen Perez Maurice. Now say that 0:03:46.880 --> 0:03:50.040 ten times fast, long story short. She was doing an 0:03:50.080 --> 0:03:53.880 interview after her very very unfortunate early exit in the Olympics, 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:56.120 and she was feeling really down in the dumps, and 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:59.880 then in the background, her partner and coach, Now this 0:03:59.920 --> 0:04:02.000 is long term partner and he's her coach and his 0:04:02.080 --> 0:04:05.680 name is Lucas Torsato. She's doing the interview. Marie's doing 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:08.360 the interview, She's doing her best to stay happy, and 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:11.560 in the background, he pops up with a sign basically 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:14.160 says will you marry me? She doesn't know he's there yet. 0:04:14.440 --> 0:04:16.440 This is on the Live Cross on TV, and the 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:19.960 reporter's sort of like, oh, like, maybe you should turn 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:21.760 around kind of thing, and she turns around and she 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:24.680 sees him holding up this sign. Now, I want to 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:27.440 make a really really strong point that the sign that 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:30.679 he's holding up this isn't like some big, beautiful sign 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:34.200 that's on cardboard that's covered in glitter and diamond's and colored, 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:36.440 not like you would think a marriage proposal would be 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:38.839 at the Olympics. It was literally a piece of It's 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:41.760 like he found a note, like an a four piece 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:43.640 of paper and he's like a menu or something, and 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:46.159 he's flipped it over. He's just grabbed a black text 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:49.240 out and he's scribbled will you marry me please? And 0:04:49.279 --> 0:04:53.400 it's this really really awkward moment. Now, I don't know 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:55.200 how you feel, or I want to know your opinion, 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:58.719 but when I watched it, I was so uncomfortable, like 0:04:58.760 --> 0:05:02.120 I could barely watch it. Okay, I have so many feelings. 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:04.919 I am a middle child, Like if I made it 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:07.640 to the Olympics, I just want to have my time 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:09.800 in the sun, Like, do not come for me, do 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:11.840 not try and propose to me. That is a separate 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.120 occasion and I want to be able to celebrate that 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:17.200 on a separate day. I agreed, like, you trained for 0:05:17.440 --> 0:05:19.599 years to be at the Olympics. It's your one little 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:22.520 time in the spotlight. And on top of that, it's 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:25.080 the sign if you're going to steal my thunder, steal 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:28.360 it with a glittery sign, like a big piece of cardboard. Well, 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:29.719 I think it just goes to show that it was 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:32.320 like really poorly thought out. He did actually come out 0:05:32.360 --> 0:05:35.279 and say, oh yeah that, had she won, he probably 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:38.479 wouldn't have done the proposal on TV. He would have 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:41.240 allowed her that moment. But also, who cares if she 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:45.040 won or didn't win. She made it to the freaking Olympics, 0:05:45.040 --> 0:05:47.320 and that was her opportunity to be able to share 0:05:47.360 --> 0:05:50.560 how she felt about her experience, about how hard she'd trained, 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:53.200 about all the things she did. And then it turned 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:56.760 into a marriage proposal, which obviously she was happy. She said, yes, 0:05:57.040 --> 0:05:59.680 I'm sure, like there are parts of this that are 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:03.839 really exciting for her now. But something that you guys 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:07.320 might not know is that it's not his first rodeo. 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:12.120 Her coach. He did this eleven years ago at a 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:15.600 different competition where she had actually won. He proposed to 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.360 her at that competition as well, and she said no. 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:22.480 He said it. So it was the World Championships eleven 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:24.800 years ago and he did exactly the same thing, and 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:28.000 she turned around and she said, are you kidding me? Like, 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:30.320 how dare you? He went and sat back. You bide 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:32.880 his time for eleven years and then he did it again. 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:34.680 He's like, surely at the Olympics, it's not going to 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:36.880 be a no. Like he probably knew that was his 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:38.599 chance to get a yes out of it, because he's like, 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:40.200 she won't say no at the Olympic. It feels a 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:42.640 little bit inconsiderate, Like I think, if you're going to 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:45.919 propose to someone that is a day that is special 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:48.159 in and of itself, you don't have to take and 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:50.680 make the one thing that they have worked for so 0:06:50.960 --> 0:06:54.240 hard about you and about your relationship because it's not 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:57.240 about that, Okay, I have something even better. I need 0:06:57.279 --> 0:06:57.920 to trumpet. 0:06:58.000 --> 0:07:00.440 When I was looking up this story about this proposal, 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:03.280 I stumbled across another proposal and this happened at this 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:04.080 same Olympics. 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:07.120 This just happened, I think today or yesterday. He is 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:10.320 the German football captain. His name is Max Kruse. Now 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:12.360 I could have pronounced that incorrectly, but. 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:17.160 This is, Laura, the most awkward proposal you will ever see. 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:20.360 So his team had just won three to two. He's 0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:22.520 live on TV. Now. I don't know if a lot 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:25.120 of people know, but partners et cetera can't go to 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:28.360 the Olympic. Partners can't go. Now this Max, he's the captain, 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:31.640 he's just one. He's on a live interview cross and 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:35.760 he stops halfway takes his shirt off, and everyone's like, 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:37.960 I don't understand what he's doing. He's taking his shirt 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:40.960 off and underneath he had another shirt, like a black 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:45.240 T shirt, and in writing on the shirt he asked 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:49.040 his girlfriend to marry him. Now, the real kicker in 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:51.320 this part is his girlfriend's not even in the country. 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:53.760 She's just watching on TV in like another country. So 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:56.920 she got proposed to when she wasn't even there. Now, 0:07:56.960 --> 0:07:59.080 I don't know what you think about this, but if 0:07:59.120 --> 0:07:59.800 you proposed to me. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:02.240 You're in a high and you're winning in another country 0:08:02.240 --> 0:08:04.880 and I'm not there on live television, it's probably going 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:06.720 to be a no. 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:10.640 No way. I completely disagree with you. I actually think 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:13.360 that that is so adorable. But they can't even be 0:08:13.400 --> 0:08:15.960 there to kiss or cuddle or like anything. He didn't 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:18.280 even know the answer, because it's not like he organized 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:21.160 for her to be like their live and answer. It 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:22.800 was just he just put it on TV and it 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:24.800 was so awkward to watch. You have to look at Laura. 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:27.160 Even the person that was interviewing him didn't know what 0:08:27.240 --> 0:08:29.960 to do. She's looking around so awkward. She's like, Okay, 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:33.680 do we just cut here? Or I felt awkward watching it? Okay. 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:35.120 The reason why I think that this is cute and 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:37.240 it's not awkward one I haven't seen it, so like 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:40.240 I'll reserve my judgment until I do. But I think 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:43.840 it's cute because his girlfriend couldn't be there. She was 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:46.240 obviously she would be watching it on TV. She would 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:48.840 be so excited for him, and him doing that is 0:08:48.880 --> 0:08:51.559 like a way of him bringing her into that experience, 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:54.160 like he's just one this is his high and he 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:55.560 wants her to be a part of that. I think 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:58.560 that that is like beyond beautiful, even if it makes 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:01.800 every other person I'm comfortable watching it. I would like, 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:03.640 you know what, if someone wanted to propose to me 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:06.040 when they just won whatever sport they were playing, and 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:09.520 I was there amazing, but I want to be present 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:11.720 at my own proposal. I feel like that for me, 0:09:11.800 --> 0:09:13.640 that is, you know, I have a few things that 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:16.679 are non negotiables, and me being there when I'm proposed 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:18.600 to is one of those things. Well, I mean, if 0:09:18.640 --> 0:09:20.439 you come back to Australia and you and Jordan keep 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:22.320 doing long distance, it could be over zoomed. So who 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:26.520 fucking knows. But also, Matt to this day has never 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:29.080 actually proposed to me, Like, I don't even know one 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:32.800 hundred percent if we're engaged. Whoa, whoa, what do you mean? 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:35.719 Matt has never asked me to marry him. He never 0:09:35.760 --> 0:09:38.040 said will you marry me? Didn't you have a really 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:40.160 wrote some sort of romantic thing on a beach on 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:42.640 it on in Fiji or something from memory? Yeah, it 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:45.600 was very romantic. Matt set up a go pro he 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:47.480 did all the things that you're set up a go 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:58.360 First Things First content hashtag love. He said, up a GoPro. 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:01.400 We're on this beach in Fiji. He like, I was 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:04.440 eight months pregnant. It was so pregnant, and like I 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:06.280 was past the point where you were supposed to fly 0:10:06.440 --> 0:10:08.720 in pregnancy. But I was like, I am goddamn having 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:11.680 a baby moon. So we went to Fiji. Anyway. I 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:13.200 was like, let's go and have a photo of the 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:15.000 sunset just out the front of the villa, which was 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:17.080 literally just out the front of where we were staying. 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:19.200 And Matt was like, no, let's walk up the beach. 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:20.880 It was a really cute spot up the beach. The 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:22.760 beach was exactly the same no matter where you were, 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:24.920 it was just flat. You're like, I am a beach ball. 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:25.760 I do not want to. 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.920 Walk up the beach, just flat, identical beach the whole 0:10:28.960 --> 0:10:30.880 way up the coast. I was like, okay, So we 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:32.839 went for this walk, walked past because there was lots 0:10:32.880 --> 0:10:35.000 of people around, So we walked past all the people 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:37.440 all the way up. He then sets this GoPro up 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:39.640 and I was like, something is happened here. 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:41.920 Hang on. So the GoPro wasn't prepared. He said it. 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:44.240 He was like, wait a minute while I set the gopra, laugh, 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:50.560 stop it. I'm dying. Matt, be prepared or prepare to fail, 0:10:50.679 --> 0:10:53.880 that's the same. So he sets the gypro up and 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:59.880 then he just starts crying, like crying and crying. I 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:02.120 went from thinking maybe he was going to propose to 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:04.439 me to like telling me that he had a terminal illness, 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:07.400 and I was like, what is happening. It's the go 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:09.680 for content. Everyone loves the tears. 0:11:10.440 --> 0:11:12.880 So he gets down on one knee, but he doesn't 0:11:12.880 --> 0:11:15.640 really get down one ae. He's crying, still crying, and 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:18.200 his knee literally just touches the sand and he gets 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:18.720 straight back. 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:21.160 Up and then that was it. He didn't say anything. 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:26.480 He just cry Why couldn't he keep his knee on 0:11:26.520 --> 0:11:28.800 the ground. I have so many questions in this proposal. 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:30.600 And then he pulled a ring out and then I 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:32.520 was like no. Then he said some really nice things 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:34.520 about how much he loves me and how I'm the 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:34.840 best and. 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:36.839 Blah blah blah blah blah. He was all very cute, 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:39.720 but he never actually said will you marry me? And 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:41.240 maybe that's why we're still not married. Two and a 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:43.960 half years later. So was there a yes to the 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:46.080 question he didn't ask or was there just like some 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:48.679 tears and then some cuddles and then I think there 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:50.240 was just tears and cuddles and then I put a 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.280 ring on and then I was like, we're getting married. 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:55.160 It's like the end of this, like the Bachelor finale 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:57.040 all over it. Totally. Yeah, We're just gonna be pep. 0:11:57.160 --> 0:11:58.920 This is it right, We've got two kids. We don't 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:00.480 need to get married. To be honest, and I know 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:02.880 I've said this before, but but a wedding is so 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:05.440 not something that's important to me. Like a wedding, I 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:07.040 know it's going to be the best day with our friends. 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:08.720 I know we're gonna have so much fun when and 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:12.440 if it actually happens, But it's just not the thing 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:14.320 that's important to me, you know. And I think that 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:16.960 that comes from having broken families and broken relationships, like 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:19.480 you know, my parents being divorced. But having a wedding 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:22.000 has never been something that I've been envisaged as a 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:24.440 little kid. And I know some people really kind of 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:27.240 fantasize about what their wedding's going to be like. To 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:29.640 be honest, I have a very strong feeling that our 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:32.720 wedding's going to be postpone because of COVID, which is 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:35.760 really annoying. Don't put that out to the universe. It's 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:38.040 supposed to be in November, guys, but I'm thinking at 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:40.760 this rate it's probably going to be postponed. Honestly, who know, 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:44.040 Like you actually don't know what's going to happen anymore. 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:46.439 Like maybe the world goes back to normal. The vaccination 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:48.559 seems to be rolling out really quickly. Maybe we're perpetual 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:51.679 in lockdown. I think every day as it comes. Yeah, yeah, 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:53.040 I know. But you know what, even if it does 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:55.000 get delayed, I know there's so many other people out 0:12:55.000 --> 0:12:56.839 there who have done the same thing and then they've 0:12:56.840 --> 0:12:59.120 still had a wonderful wedding at the end of it. Anyway, 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:02.000 So on the day in lockdown, we live to tell 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:03.640 the tale. It'll be something we tell our kids when 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:07.440 we're older. We have a awesome episode for you all today, 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:09.640 and this is something that we've been sitting on for 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:12.400 a little while. We interviewed a psychologist. Her name is 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:16.640 Sandy Ray. She's amazing. She is amazing. And the thing 0:13:16.679 --> 0:13:19.120 about this episode is because we're getting into I mean 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:21.960 You guys know where balls deep in Bachelor time already, 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:25.360 but it goes from the Bachelor season to Bachelorette and 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:28.320 then straight into maths. And we thought that because we're 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:31.559 getting well and truly back into reality TV time, we 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:33.559 would sit down and talk to our psychologists, who is 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:37.000 an expert in reality TV. Now, what this interview is 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:40.439 is unpacking why are we so obsessed with reality TV? 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:43.920 What are the psychological implications of being a contestant on 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:47.720 reality TV? And also what is the moral and ethical 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:51.360 responsibility of production and editing when it comes to how 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:54.679 people and characters? And I say that in quotations how 0:13:54.800 --> 0:13:58.160 characters are portrayed on reality TV. And I know so 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:00.439 many of you who would listen to this podcast have 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:03.800 kind of come to us because originally you were Batchet fans, 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:06.679 and I really think that you're going to enjoy this episode. 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:09.800 Sandy is such an awesome, warm woman, and she has 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:13.920 such a really unique insight into reality TV and what 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:18.360 she thinks is morally okay. I absolutely love speaking to Sandy. 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:20.480 And the second that we hung up the phone from 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:22.600 that interview, I said to Laura, we have to get 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:24.520 Sandy on for so many other things. In the future 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:28.600 because she's so so knowledgeable, she's so so researched, and 0:14:28.640 --> 0:14:31.600 she's just a barrel of fun. But before we get 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:34.920 into that, and before we get into it accidentally unfilters, Laura, 0:14:35.120 --> 0:14:37.320 you did tell me you had a recommendation for me, 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:39.560 and I have been sitting on this waiting for you 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:41.760 to tell me. What is it? Okay, So for everybody 0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:44.600 who's sitting in lockdown and needs some more content to 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:49.440 consume on their TVs, my recommendation is Doctor Death Now. Yes, okay, 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:53.800 it is so freaking good. Guys. It is eight episodes. 0:14:53.880 --> 0:14:56.080 They're all about an hour long, so they're like, it's 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:58.000 really like sitting down and watching a movie, maybe forty 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:01.120 five minutes. Maybe I'm exaggerating, but it's got the guy 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:03.400 who used to be in Dawson's Creek, you know, Pacey 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:06.400 from Dawson's Creek, Josh Jackson. I don't know his name, 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:09.280 but he grew up Shaw Jackson and he is so 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:12.800 good in this. So the series is about this doctor 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:15.920 in the United States name doctor Christopher Dunch, who ended 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:18.600 up being convicted of crimes against the elderly or something 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:21.720 of that vein, but it follows his series of like 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:24.600 thirty different cases over a really short period of time 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:28.240 where he maliciously and with intent caused so much harm 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:31.080 to his patients. Two of the patients died, and one 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:33.720 of the patients, who was actually his friend, ends up 0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:37.320 horrifically injured from his surgeries. Now, this is based on 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:40.240 a true story. It only happened like in the last 0:15:40.240 --> 0:15:43.920 sut of fifteen years and it is just incredibly harrowing 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:47.160 if you're into true crime. It is such a epic 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:49.560 mini series. And Matt and I cooked we're up to 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:51.680 the last episode, which we're going to watch tonight. And 0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:55.080 then apparently there's also a documentary about doctor death on 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:57.160 stand as well, and there's a podcast, like it's a 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:59.640 whole thing. You can fully immerse yourself in this man's 0:16:00.200 --> 0:16:05.800 weirdly screwed up, messed up, narcissistic, psychopathic mind. I highly recommend. 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:08.760 I haven't seen the series yet, but I listened to 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:12.240 the podcast years ago, like sort of when podcasts really 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:14.280 started to come out. And because I love true crime, 0:16:14.320 --> 0:16:17.360 you guys all know that I can highly highly recommend 0:16:17.400 --> 0:16:19.880 the podcast if you're interested, and it's probably a good 0:16:19.880 --> 0:16:21.920 thing to flow on if you listen to the podcast first, 0:16:21.920 --> 0:16:23.520 then go watch the series. I feel like they go 0:16:23.600 --> 0:16:25.560 really well together because you'll get a lot of information 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:28.280 from the pod that probably doesn't make it into the series. 0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:30.920 But anyway, I'm backing your recommendation on that one, Laura, 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:33.120 one hundred percent. I guess one of the really interesting 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:35.880 things as well is how different the American healthcare system 0:16:35.920 --> 0:16:38.720 is from the Australian healthcare system and how he was 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:41.120 able to get away with it for so long because 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:43.479 none of the hospitals wanted to report him for malpractice 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:46.640 or have his license revoked, because what it would mean 0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:49.280 was that then they would open themselves up to being sued. 0:16:49.360 --> 0:16:52.160 So any of the patients who had been hugely affected 0:16:52.200 --> 0:16:55.520 by his just like no one knows whether it was 0:16:55.600 --> 0:16:58.600 on purpose or whether he was just like poorly trained, 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:01.400 but the hospitals didn't want to take ownership for it. 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:03.840 But it also meant that all these patients who were 0:17:03.880 --> 0:17:07.320 so horrifically injured by him weren't given any support or 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:10.200 any funding. It was just this like, oh, accidents happened 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:13.800 kind of mentality, But bad things were happening in every 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:16.520 single one of his surgeries, and it's oh, it's so good. 0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:19.080 Please go watch it. Add it to your list. It's 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:22.960 on stand. Cannot recommend it enough. All right, let's jump 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:26.479 into some accidentally I'm filtereds. I have a very sweet 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:29.360 accidentally unfiltered today. So I'm hoping that you've brought one 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:32.440 that's saucy, dirty and a little bit messed up. Mine's 0:17:32.440 --> 0:17:35.560 pretty funny. It's not that dirty, but it's pretty funny. 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:38.040 So uncomfortable you can go first. 0:17:38.440 --> 0:17:42.960 Okay, Hey, girls, I will never live this down. So 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:45.160 I was trying to spice things up with my boyfriend 0:17:45.160 --> 0:17:47.760 because we'd been together a while, and well, you know 0:17:47.840 --> 0:17:49.200 how it is missionary. 0:17:50.400 --> 0:17:53.480 They did a doggy go crazy. We were at a 0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:56.520 huge work events slash presentation for my company. I'm talking 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:59.520 maybe about one hundred people. It was so fucking boring. 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:02.800 My boyfriend was sitting across from me at this big table. 0:18:02.880 --> 0:18:05.080 So I decided to send him a sexy nude that 0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:07.440 I took the week before. I just had a banked, 0:18:07.440 --> 0:18:09.480 you know, for those nude sending emergencies. 0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:13.480 I love that she had a nude sending an emergency bank. 0:18:14.520 --> 0:18:17.440 For some reason, I decided to air drop this nude 0:18:17.480 --> 0:18:20.080 to him. So the name Jason popped up on the screen. 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:23.359 I watched as it says picture accepted. I look up 0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:25.720 with a smirk to see his response, and I give 0:18:25.800 --> 0:18:28.240 him the sexy eyes from across the table, only to 0:18:28.240 --> 0:18:30.720 see him in deep conversation with the person next to him. 0:18:30.840 --> 0:18:33.359 His phone is on the table, nowhere near him. It 0:18:33.440 --> 0:18:35.040