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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>Flex and fromes. This is the Flex and Frooms catch

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<v Speaker 2>up podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>It is Flex and Frooms on Kata. Look, I hate

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<v Speaker 1>to make it seem like we only get our epiphanies

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<v Speaker 1>from TikTok, but with how much worth scrolling and also

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<v Speaker 1>how much content is repurposed, it could have started as

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<v Speaker 1>an article. It really could have. It could have been

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<v Speaker 1>on the Atlantic.

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<v Speaker 2>Time, but I just received it through.

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<v Speaker 3>TikTok trending sound on the nape, on the FIP.

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<v Speaker 1>But honestly, as Fruby says, the message is the medium. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>as I say, as long as you're getting the nourishment,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter that.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't you know, work for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, brain, you didn't waddle through three hundred pages of

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<v Speaker 1>nonfiction to get there. The question of the day is

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<v Speaker 1>would you rather be uncomfortable now or later? By the

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<v Speaker 1>Drew Diaries on TikTok, you need to.

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<v Speaker 2>Decide if you want to be uncomfortable now or uncomfortable later.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it. Some of you guys want a life

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<v Speaker 2>of leisure. You don't want it the heartway. This video

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<v Speaker 2>is not for you. This video is for my p

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<v Speaker 2>people who have to be self made and get from

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<v Speaker 2>one place to another, which is not an easy thing

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<v Speaker 2>to do. Listen up, chances are that you have really

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<v Speaker 2>ambitious goals that take you pushing yourself out of your

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<v Speaker 2>comfort zone to accomplish them.

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<v Speaker 3>So do I.

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<v Speaker 2>Chances are that if you don't end up accomplishing those

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<v Speaker 2>goals that you've set out to accomplish, you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>end up uncomfortable later in life, because you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>wish you ended up in that place that you want

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<v Speaker 2>it to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Honestly, I feel like I hear more about people

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<v Speaker 3>in their well. I think it's less publicized, but perhaps

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<v Speaker 3>it's more of a human condition. But people who are

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<v Speaker 3>all about the hustle culture I get to a certain

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<v Speaker 3>point in their life on their deathbed, they're like, damn,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't need to work extra Yeah, how was a day?

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<v Speaker 1>I think what this person is saying HAW has a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of merit if we take it out of this

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<v Speaker 1>hyper specific work you want to be this big dog

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and jess, if we bring it down to

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<v Speaker 1>every day, right, like, how much time do you think

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<v Speaker 1>you spent avoiding being uncomfortable? And I was thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>it when I watched this video because I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not going to buling me into working more. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to us it. But I think, Okay, if

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<v Speaker 1>I decide I don't want to go to the gym

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<v Speaker 1>tonight because I'm like, oh, but I'm comfy now. And

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<v Speaker 1>if I decide I don't want to talk with a

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<v Speaker 1>friend's friend at dinner because I don't really know them now,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm scared of being uncomfortable. All of these things where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm centering potential discomfort and it's like it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>happen anyway, because let's say I don't have this interaction

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<v Speaker 1>with a friend of a friend and then five years

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<v Speaker 1>later we end up still not being friends and it's weird. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>now we got to address it. So I think the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like the sentiment is fair, right. Naturally you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to be uncomfortable, So do you want to know

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<v Speaker 1>when it's coming or do you want to be blindsided?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to grow to learn to be more

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable with it, or do you always want to feel

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<v Speaker 1>like whiplash?

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<v Speaker 3>They say this about loneliness, for example, So if you're

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<v Speaker 3>someone who's always a friend of being alone, being alone

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<v Speaker 3>is actually the best thing for you to get over

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<v Speaker 3>it because often, like the things you're scared of, if

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<v Speaker 3>you put it off and off, it becomes scary and

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<v Speaker 3>it actually does become worse. Whereas if you can become

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<v Speaker 3>like happy in your solitude, then when the time comes

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<v Speaker 3>to be alone, which happens for all of us in

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<v Speaker 3>different ways, you're more able to cope and adapt.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like this is this child's player. I've done this before. Literally,

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<v Speaker 1>with all things, once you've done it, the hardest thing

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<v Speaker 1>becomes so much easier. People like, I hate public speaking.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like and then you do it a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 1>Chill oh, I hate driving in the city. Then you

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<v Speaker 1>do it a couple of times. Chill oh, I hate

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<v Speaker 1>I hate traveling alone. You do it a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 2>Chill.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I think it's not saying that, like everyone needs

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<v Speaker 1>to be uncomfortable, but if one thing are guaranteed suffering,

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<v Speaker 1>so how are you going to handle it?

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