1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: Now, I always love hearing about great events that are 2 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: happening around the territory, but I particularly like hearing about 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: wonderful events that are organized for our great men in 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:14,320 Speaker 1: the community. And on Thursday this week it's actually International 5 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: Men's Day, I believe. 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 2: That's the correct title. 7 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 1: And joining me in the studio to tell us more 8 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:23,439 Speaker 1: about a fantastic event it's going to be happening on 9 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: Thursday in celebration. I've got beck Forrest, who is the 10 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: organizer of the wonderful event. 11 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 3: Good morning, Good morning, Katie, thanks for having us on. 12 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: Lovely to have you in the studio. And I've also 13 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: got Matt Hull, who is a case manager for Mates 14 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:38,239 Speaker 1: in Construction. 15 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 2: Good morning to you. Maddie. Ops, I've got your wrong 16 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 2: microphone turned on. Mate. We better make sure we got 17 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 2: hang on. Are we right? 18 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 4: No, that's meeting. 19 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 2: We better move your Micael. That's the problem there. 20 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 3: Talking out belly. 21 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:55,279 Speaker 2: It's because we. 22 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: Were talking too much before we actually got on air, 23 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: because I was very excited that you brought me a 24 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: box of pens. Now, I tell you what, when we 25 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: talk about men's health, and when we talk about men 26 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: in general and their mental health and various other issues 27 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: around men's health. 28 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 2: You guys are two people who I know do a 29 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 2: lot in the community in this space. 30 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: Matt, You've come in on numerous occasions to talk about 31 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: the great work that gets underway with mates in construction. 32 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: But this Thursday, we're sort of going to see everything 33 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: really come together in a celebration for our blokes. 34 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's actually really exciting. It's the International Men's Day Forum. 35 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 3: It's like a one stop shop for men to chat 36 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 3: about all different topics and a bit of comedy in 37 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 3: there as well. So it's going to be a great day. 38 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 2: It is going to be a great day. Now, what 39 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 2: can we expect? 40 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: What can the blocks that are maybe thinking about heading along, 41 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: what can they expect? 42 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 43 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 3: Sure, So it's basically going to be around two hundred 44 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 3: men and women. Women aren't excluded at all, coming together 45 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 3: and hearing some incredible stories from the likes of Gerard Nisham. 46 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 3: He's a sports superstar, but he also founded Klontat Foundation 47 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 3: for all of our young Aboriginal boys. Tick Everett from 48 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 3: Dolly's Dream. So suicide prevention is certainly going to be 49 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 3: a topic, but just about resilience and empowerment opportunity to network, 50 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 3: and Maddie here is one of our keynote speakers, so. 51 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 4: I get to talk about myself again. 52 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: Well it's but you know, we can joke about that, 53 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 1: but you're actually doing some great stuff in terms of, 54 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: you know, looking after each other in the construction industry, 55 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,079 Speaker 1: and certainly when you talk about mental health. 56 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks for that. I love it when people tell 57 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 4: me I'm doing good things with these bad things. I 58 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 4: don't want to hear about it, but no. Yeah, so Mates, 59 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 4: obviously is it all about suicide prevention getting out there 60 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 4: and promoting that conversation the starter And also I actually 61 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 4: saw a car the other day and I want to 62 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 4: I just remembered it, but a blowcat on his back 63 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 4: of his windscreen. Darwin's got some pretty wicked number plates. 64 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 4: I saw a sticket. I said it ain't wait to speak, 65 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 4: and I just thought, that's brilliant. That's that's something you 66 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 4: know that you don't really see too often in the territory. 67 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 4: But I suppose for Thursday's event, I'll be out there 68 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 4: talking about mental health and the construction, mining and energy 69 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 4: industries and what it is that MATES does and my 70 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 4: own story about how I got to that place. But 71 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 4: we're gonna hear from I can't wait to hear from 72 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 4: old mate Geroni from November. Yeah, so I'm actually going 73 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 4: to be just glued to a chair to listen to that. 74 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 3: So he's the bloke who started November. Yeah, he had 75 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 3: a terrible mo sitting in a pub. His mates gave 76 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 3: him flak for it, and that started the November movie. 77 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: He's responsible for all they mustaches. 78 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 2: It's all this. 79 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 3: I don't think I didn't tell him that dating in 80 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 3: November is pretty pretty awful. 81 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 4: Look. I actually went to a company the other day 82 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 4: and I did a big chat and to a whole 83 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 4: bunch of people, and it was actually about seventy five 84 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 4: percent ladies there and there was twenty five per cent blokes. 85 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,119 Speaker 4: And I said, you know, men'sdays on Thursday, and they went, 86 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 4: what one day? That's all you can have one day? 87 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 4: And then all these women were like taking everything that 88 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 4: they're only about one day, Leave us alone. You men 89 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 4: can have one. You got your stupid mustaches for a month. 90 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 2: You can't have them forever. 91 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: No, But look, I just think this is such a 92 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: great thing to do, because you know, we do a 93 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: lot of wonderful events for women as we should. You know, 94 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: there's no doubt about that. We certainly have a lot 95 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: for International Women's Day and beg you do a lot in. 96 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: That space as well. What started this? 97 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: Do people start saying, do you how come you're not 98 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: doing anything for the law? 99 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 3: Pretty well, Yes, I've worked for police for fire an 100 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 3: emergency for ten years, so I've got a lot of 101 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 3: guy friends and they troll me. Every International Women's Day. 102 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 3: I get abused basically by my mate, your sex is 103 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 3: what about the men? 104 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not kidding. 105 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 3: Our Google search International Men's Day has been around for 106 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 3: twenty one years, and yet what have we done? We've 107 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 3: done nothing. So I went right, guys, it's going to 108 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 3: take a chick to organize your event. 109 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 2: Let's roll with it. And I love men and women. 110 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 3: I'm actually all about equity, and I think it takes 111 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,239 Speaker 3: conversations from both sides. I don't even like the idea 112 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 3: that they're segregated to be fair, so little by little, 113 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 3: I'm trying to bring us all together. 114 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 2: That's just what I do. 115 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: I think it's a great thing to do, and I 116 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: think it'll be a wonderful event. Now talk us through 117 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: who those keynote speakers are just if there's anybody out 118 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: there listening who thinks, oh I wouldn't mind buying a 119 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: ticket to this. 120 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 4: Yeah. 121 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 3: Sure. So, like I mentioned Jared Nisham, I just love 122 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 3: that he's his sports superstar. But klontarle foundation to get Basically, 123 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 3: he was a teacher that wanted to get Aboriginal boys 124 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 3: into school, so he took it to the trees, he 125 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 3: took them camping. He started all of those initiatives that 126 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 3: led to the outdoor learning and we still see it 127 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 3: going strong. In fact, more kids this year year, twelve 128 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 3: Aboriginal boys graduated through the Contents Program and the NT 129 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 3: than ever before. 130 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 2: It's great. 131 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 3: Professor Mick Dodson is our Australian of the Year representative. 132 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,239 Speaker 3: He's going to come and have a chat about his life. 133 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 3: It's more about journeys and stories, so just let people 134 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,799 Speaker 3: know it's not really the head of suicide prevention talking 135 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 3: about what they're doing to stop it. It's actually the 136 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 3: real people talking about their journey and their story. So 137 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 3: it's a lot of that heart. It's going to be 138 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 3: a really special event. And like I said, Tick Everett, 139 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 3: the MC of course is Richie Fijo, So we're going 140 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 3: to have a Yeah it is. It's going to be 141 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 3: a really lovely day. And what I love is we've 142 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 3: got representation. I think the youngest kids about fourteen, and 143 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 3: I know that Marianne bin Salik, Professor Marianne bin Salik, 144 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 3: if she heard me or I'm in trouble, She's just 145 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 3: turned eighty, so I know that there's fourteen to at 146 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 3: least eighty in the room, all different industries as well. 147 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 4: Like I'll be there, So that's always good to see that. 148 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 4: I think if you're listening today and you're thinking, you know, 149 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 4: this sounds like a good event, but I can't make her. 150 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 4: You know, there are so many people that are going 151 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 4: to represent like I know, okay, you're you're run with dad. 152 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 4: I did it for the first time. Yeah you did 153 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 4: up the hill. I still haven't forgiven you for that. 154 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 4: I'm not built for running. But no, like, yeah, there's 155 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 4: so many organizations out there, and I'm sure me and 156 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 4: Beck do a list up of all the all the 157 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 4: different stuff out there for people to reach out to 158 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 4: and hear from it and speak to. And I just 159 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 4: say a big thanks to back because she rang me 160 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 4: and said, Matt, what do I do who I speak 161 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 4: to and I said, yeah, do this, do that, and 162 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 4: she put it all together. So yeah, it's really interesting 163 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 4: that we've got to this point and I can't wait. 164 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: Oh, I think it's going to be fantastic and you know, 165 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: wonderful to have an event for the blokes on International 166 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: Men's Day, but also wonderful for women to go along 167 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: and support as well. Now where can people go if 168 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: they are listening and they think, oh, I wouldn't mind 169 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 1: buying a ticket. 170 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 3: To Yeah, sure, So you can go to the International 171 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 3: Men's Day Forum. There's a Facebook page and all of 172 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 3: your links will be there, and we're really trying to 173 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 3: encourage organizations they can send a table of six for 174 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 3: one thousand bucks and then support all of their staff 175 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 3: to come along, which is just going to be very cool. 176 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 3: So Facebook page International Men's Day. 177 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 4: For them networking afterwards. 178 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's always a good thing, mate, it's a good thing. 179 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: Thank you both so much for coming into the studio 180 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 1: this morning, and we'll talk to you again very soon. 181 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 182 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 3: And can I just throw it out there if you 183 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 3: can't make it to the forum, please make sure you 184 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 3: do something really special for yourself or for a man 185 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 3: in your orbit. This international Men's say. 186 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 2: Good stuff. Good on your Beck and Maddie, thanks so 187 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 2: much for coming in today. You two. You are listening 188 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 2: to Mix one oh four point nine three sixty