Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the
Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Coomboo
Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present
Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and
Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,
Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is
Speaker 1: the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and
Speaker 1: becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,
Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses
Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo
Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No
Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, We're here to
Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical
Speaker 1: self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's
Speaker 1: seat of your own life and stop letting life cast
Speaker 1: you by, then you're in the right place. Hey, everybody,
Speaker 1: welcome back to the R and C Potty Today. We
Speaker 1: have a fun little pep talk for you, and it
Speaker 1: is all about detaching from the outcome or detaching from money.
Speaker 1: I have a really great story personally that I get into,
Speaker 1: but before that, a tear quick week update quickly, it's
Speaker 1: been a while. It's been a while. It's been a while.
Speaker 1: I'll go first, Yes, everybody wants to say, I think
Speaker 1: I've got more to express. Definitely, guys. I went to
Speaker 1: New Zealand and had the most amazing time with Tim,
Speaker 1: Ivy and my parents. So we actually planned this trip
Speaker 1: with my parents before COVID, Oh my gosh, and then
Speaker 1: COVID here and you know, all that happened, and so
Speaker 1: it was really incredible to finally do the ski the
Speaker 1: ski holiday finally left the chat and it was really
Speaker 1: incredible because we're there for my parents' sixtieth and obviously
Speaker 1: we got to take Ivy girl, and yeah, it was
Speaker 1: it was incredible. I am now a professional skier, Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh. Love No, not really. Well, I hadn't skied
Speaker 1: in sixteen years, and I honestly thought I would be terrible,
Speaker 1: but it was like riding a bike.
Speaker 2: It's good to note because I've actually never skied, that
Speaker 2: I do want to try.
Speaker 1: It's so fun a tea like I actually enjoyed like
Speaker 1: whipping down those slopes, and especially like with mom and
Speaker 1: dad because they were skiing and Tim was snowboarding. And
Speaker 1: oh my god, we just had the most amazing time
Speaker 1: and I was so present. I did not check my
Speaker 1: emails or Shopify once.
Speaker 2: So proud of you.
Speaker 1: I know, it's probably the first holiday I've ever done
Speaker 1: that first. Yeah wow, which is such a credit to
Speaker 1: you guys, the amazing team I have and my NHT
Speaker 1: because I just I knew everything was sorted and we
Speaker 1: had prepped and I didn't need to be but it
Speaker 1: just felt really good. Like I did reflect. I was like, fuck,
Speaker 1: it took me four.
Speaker 2: Years, but you're here now. I'm follow that out and.
Speaker 1: I'm not looking back. So yeah, it was amazing.
Speaker 2: What about you, I've just been working. But I know,
Speaker 2: because we haven't done recommendations in a while either, I
Speaker 2: did want to slip in that I went to see
Speaker 2: the Barbie movie and it was amazing. I'm so jealous.
Speaker 2: I do highly recommend that for everyone.
Speaker 1: I cannot wait to see it, so I've got to
Speaker 1: see it. It's like a mask one hundred a master.
Speaker 2: It's breaking all the records for female directed films. Yeah, Like,
Speaker 2: it's incredible and just like, because I'm a movie nerd,
Speaker 2: amazing for the movie industry, but one of the best
Speaker 2: films I've seen in a long time.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, all right, I'm gonna see it. Yeah, everybody
Speaker 1: go see it. Tell us what you think.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: Also, before we get into the episode, you may have
Speaker 1: already seen this on Socials, but we have a super
Speaker 1: exciting announcement. Our life happens for me. Manifestation journals are
Speaker 1: being restocked and for those who don't know, this is
Speaker 1: the perfect product if you're new to journaling or if
Speaker 1: you really want to start a manifestation habit. So it
Speaker 1: has heaps of proNTs, weekly outlines, and some great activities,
Speaker 1: including an overview of my entire ten step manifesting formula,
Speaker 1: which we dive deeper into the R and C project.
Speaker 1: But in very exciting news, the journal is bringing a
Speaker 1: little friend. We are doing a masterclass. So this is
Speaker 1: a Manifesting with Momentum master class and basically, if you
Speaker 1: love my manifestation content, if you want to get into it,
Speaker 1: this is going to be a live master class where
Speaker 1: I really explain to you and riff on how you
Speaker 1: can be manifesting twenty four to seven, So how to
Speaker 1: get to the point of not only consciously manifesting, but
Speaker 1: subconsciously manifesting and really integrating it into your life. So
Speaker 1: it's just something that is and something you be rather
Speaker 1: than something you have to consciously think of. So it's
Speaker 1: a really exciting masterclass. I'm so excited to bring it
Speaker 1: to you, guys. And this is going to go on
Speaker 1: sale the same day as the Life Happens for Me journals.
Speaker 1: So if you want more information, there will be more
Speaker 1: info on our socials or our website.
Speaker 3: But let's get into the episode.
Speaker 1: All right, guys, let's get straight into it. So this
Speaker 1: episode really came about because I have a really great
Speaker 1: story about detaching from money, and I'll get straight into
Speaker 1: the story and then we can riff on it after
Speaker 1: a tear.
Speaker 2: Amazing.
Speaker 1: So basically me and my best friend. She has a
Speaker 1: product based business, so she sells crystals and beautiful self
Speaker 1: care ritual tools and she's had that business for I
Speaker 1: think nearly four years, close to Naked Harvest, actually sorry,
Speaker 1: close to maybe three. And then she also does our coaching,
Speaker 1: so she's done a she's like a life coach, but
Speaker 1: she specializes in like hypnosis and that sort of coaching.
Speaker 1: She's amazing, She's incredible. It's so incredible to have a friend,
Speaker 1: like in the same realm as your career kind of thing. Anyway,
Speaker 1: so we vox her all the time because we rarely
Speaker 1: get to see each other. She's got two kids. And
Speaker 1: it was around what cell was it around a tier? EOFFI, EOFFI.
Speaker 1: We love EYOFFI. It's just fun to say. So it
Speaker 1: was EOFFI, and she voxed me. We talk by a
Speaker 1: voxer because it saves your voicy messages. You don't have
Speaker 1: to press the key thing. Yeah, and it's just it's
Speaker 1: really easy to talk. So she voiced me, and she
Speaker 1: was feeling quite frustrated because she does have a team.
Speaker 1: She has a girl who works for her, and they
Speaker 1: had spent quite a bit of time and resources, like
Speaker 1: preparing the EOFI sale for Cool Crystal Co. And like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think they had spent like a good couple of weeks.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Anyway, so EOFI started and she was feeling quite frustrated
Speaker 1: because she didn't get the traction that you know, she
Speaker 1: was hoping for. And I remember voicing her and saying, look,
Speaker 1: you know in e comm right now, it's it's quite normal.
Speaker 1: So like we're just we're seeing a lower percentage of people,
Speaker 1: you know, buying because of all the stuff happening in
Speaker 1: the world, and it's it's pretty normal, Like, don't feel
Speaker 1: like you're the only one or you've done something wrong.
Speaker 1: I think in her mind too, she felt like because
Speaker 1: previous years she hadn't put in much effort and the
Speaker 1: yoffee sale's gone off. Yeah, and so she has been like,
Speaker 1: you know, we've done all this planning, we did all
Speaker 1: this content strategy, and she really put that energy and
Speaker 1: the time into it. And so when she wasn't getting
Speaker 1: the traction, she said, she felt quite defeated, Yeah, and
Speaker 1: very kind of like, oh, what's the point?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like if it goes better when I put in
Speaker 2: less effort, why yeah.
Speaker 1: Why even try harder? And I so, I first of all,
Speaker 1: I said, look, you know e coom right now, it's
Speaker 1: just it is what it is. You've got to be
Speaker 1: able to weather this storm. You've got to be able
Speaker 1: to get through it. But also I said to her,
Speaker 1: I can I could even feel in her her voice
Speaker 1: and her energy and just like her vibe. I was like,
Speaker 1: you're very focused on the money coming in this like
Speaker 1: very specific way, and it felt I don't want to
Speaker 1: use the word desperate, but like it felt very She
Speaker 1: was very attached, like, well, I had spent this amount
Speaker 1: of time, so I want this result.
Speaker 2: Kind of like when people want more money, so they
Speaker 2: go the only way I'm getting that is through a
Speaker 2: pay rise at work.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and they're so focused on it that you know
Speaker 1: they don't it doesn't matter if it's like, you know,
Speaker 1: tarnishing their relationship or yeah, you know, like when it's
Speaker 1: like very desperate, I must get this no matter what. Yeah,
Speaker 1: not that, yeah, she she I could just I could
Speaker 1: feel the vine. Yeah, And so I just voiced her
Speaker 1: and I just said, look, stop being I think you
Speaker 1: need to take a step back and don't take this personally.
Speaker 1: That's something actually in Naked Harvest that I found really
Speaker 1: helpful early on, is like not taking things personally when
Speaker 1: something didn't go well or a product didn't sell, you know,
Speaker 1: as good as I thought, or that sort of thing,
Speaker 1: and just really detaching from it, taking a step back
Speaker 1: and trusting that it's like it's fine if you know,
Speaker 1: the money or the abundance doesn't come in this way,
Speaker 1: it can come in a different way.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And that's something I've done for a very long time
Speaker 1: and something I've been quite good at is like just
Speaker 1: really detaching. And I know when you're really focused on
Speaker 1: a result, it can feel so deflating. But then that's
Speaker 1: where you kind of fuck up your energy because you're
Speaker 1: like you then stop trying, Yeah, you then stop feeling supported.
Speaker 1: Your vibration goes down, like you all these like kind
Speaker 1: of domino effect things happen. Anyway, So I just popped
Speaker 1: in and I was like, look, you've like just detached.
Speaker 1: It's fine if it doesn't come through in this sale.
Speaker 1: You know, trust that it's kind of come through the
Speaker 1: rest of the month or the next quarter or you know,
Speaker 1: like you need to trust because first of all, you
Speaker 1: know your tools are amazing. Then you know they like
Speaker 1: help people's life products good. Yeah, So like you need
Speaker 1: to trust the universe and feel supported and that's what
Speaker 1: you need to get around. And I said to her, too,
Speaker 1: you've already done all the work, You've already prepared the content.
Speaker 1: Keep posting, like keep at it. Anyway, long story short,
Speaker 1: she voiced me back the next week and she was like,
Speaker 1: holy shit. So after that conversation, she was like, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was so attached to like this specific amount and
Speaker 1: this specific result. I completely like took a step back,
Speaker 1: kept on, you know, posting in my business, and then
Speaker 1: she goes literally at the end of that week she
Speaker 1: landed two six month pay in full clients for her
Speaker 1: coaching business. Oh my god, which like completely out. Did
Speaker 1: you know how much she projected for the sale? Yeah,
Speaker 1: and she she was just in like awe of like
Speaker 1: holy shit.
Speaker 2: As soon as she let go, it all came in.
Speaker 1: Yes. And so this is the reminder for this episode
Speaker 1: is you know, it might not even be money, it
Speaker 1: could be anything, but like, where are you so focused
Speaker 1: on the thing that you're not allowing the universe to
Speaker 1: do its thing. You're not allowing like you might be
Speaker 1: so focused on a specific career, but you're you're missing
Speaker 1: all the signs from the universe for you know, this
Speaker 1: other thing. I really think about it. Like in my
Speaker 1: law career, I had so many nudges to quit law
Speaker 1: and to like didn't and I did it for six years,
Speaker 1: so many nudges like the universe like kept and I
Speaker 1: was like, what is happening, like all these curve balls,
Speaker 1: and then when I finally listened, like everything just fell
Speaker 1: into place and like really detaching and that's actually one
Speaker 1: of the greatest things I did. Was I actually quit
Speaker 1: my law job when I had nothing planned. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: is the essence of surrender and detachment and trust and like,
Speaker 1: trust me, that is where the magic happens. And for me,
Speaker 1: it's really about having the sense of knowing yourself and
Speaker 1: being like, I know I'm gonna land on my feet. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna make it work because I know myself.
Speaker 1: I trust myself. And that is truly such a beautiful
Speaker 1: like power to be in it and such a beautiful
Speaker 1: vibe to be in because even like think about the
Speaker 1: person a tea, like I said, when I spoke to
Speaker 1: my friend, you could feel the I wish there was
Speaker 1: a better word than desperation, but you.
Speaker 2: Can feel almost like stubbornness in a way kind of yeah.
Speaker 1: And it's that vibe compared to someone who's like, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be fine, it's gonna be amazing. I just get
Speaker 1: to relax. I get to sit back. I've done the work. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just get to sit back and you know, let
Speaker 1: it roll in. Like which person would you rather sit
Speaker 1: next to?
Speaker 2: Yeah, the second one.
Speaker 1: So that's what I really wanted to bring into you
Speaker 1: guys today and really help you remember is sometimes things
Speaker 1: not happening the specific way we want or even the
Speaker 1: specific Like let's get down to the nitty gritty with business,
Speaker 1: Like maybe it's not the specific product or the specific
Speaker 1: you know, whatever you're putting out. Yeah, but it is
Speaker 1: up to you when that thing quote unquote fails, yeah,
Speaker 1: or it doesn't do as well or whatever, it is
Speaker 1: up to you to continuously show up.
Speaker 2: And would you say, it's almost still an energy exchange
Speaker 2: of you have to put in the work, whether you
Speaker 2: whether it's like showing or not. Like how your friends
Speaker 2: still kept posting on socials all the content she had planned.
Speaker 2: She didn't just like give up.
Speaker 1: Yes, definitely if it feels aligned, Yeah, if it feels aligned,
Speaker 1: And especially she had already created all the content.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was like, of course you posted yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: And I think manifesting is like something you've got to remember,
Speaker 1: is it's it takes two to tango. Yeah, the universe
Speaker 1: works with you, but you need to show up. You
Speaker 1: need to like trust yourself, you need to do the
Speaker 1: work in whatever feels good for you. And like while surrendering,
Speaker 1: while being like I'm not gonna, I think it's also
Speaker 1: about realizing, like I'm not gonna let this result dictate
Speaker 1: how I'm gonna show up. I think that's the biggest thing.
Speaker 1: Like it kind of reminds me in Uni I failed
Speaker 1: a subject. Yeah, and I really remember that being like
Speaker 1: this critical point where I was like, oh wow, I
Speaker 1: I do actually I need to constantly put in the
Speaker 1: work because you get like comfortable, yeah, like it I
Speaker 1: can go to like two tutorials.
Speaker 2: Mistake you're oh shit, and then when.
Speaker 1: You fail, you try like, well, I personally when the opposite,
Speaker 1: and I tried really really hard and I got a
Speaker 1: high distinction, and I was like, see, I just needed
Speaker 1: showing up pace. I needed the reminder. But imagine, let's
Speaker 1: say you get halfway through your law degree, which is
Speaker 1: five years, and you fail one subject, so you give up?
Speaker 1: Do you mean yeah, like the moments where okay, I'm
Speaker 1: not going to let that result mean anything. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: And that was the biggest thing that I had this
Speaker 1: conversation with my friend. I was like, stop taking it personally,
Speaker 1: stop make stop making it mean something. And that's even
Speaker 1: like with businesses right now, that is like my biggest advice, Like, yes,
Speaker 1: we are going through a tough period economically, but if
Speaker 1: you can continue to show up. If you can continue
Speaker 1: to serve, it's like it can't not work out. You've
Speaker 1: got to You've you've got to keep showing up. You've
Speaker 1: got to keep being in that vibration. And also again
Speaker 1: not making it mean anything, because so many times it's
Speaker 1: like the universe is about to give us this like
Speaker 1: amazing thing and we get here and then we just
Speaker 1: stop and we're like, nah, I'm over it. You've really
Speaker 1: fucked me off. And then you know, you're just you're
Speaker 1: just about to get over the finish line. So that
Speaker 1: is my reminder today. And guys, if we are talking
Speaker 1: about abundance, it's I know it can be really hard
Speaker 1: to detach, but it's like anything like in you know,
Speaker 1: my courses I talk about for example, if you are
Speaker 1: dating someone and they're like really desperate, they're really touchy
Speaker 1: and feely, and they're like really all up in your
Speaker 1: grially like leave me alone, yeah, just give me some space.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But if you're like cool as a cucumber, You're like
Speaker 1: I'm here if you need me, and you're like you're
Speaker 1: that person and you're like supportive, but you're not like oversupportive.
Speaker 1: Like that's when things work. Yeah, and that's I literally
Speaker 1: that's the relationship I have with money. It's even like
Speaker 1: in our holiday we Tim, we like parked literally for
Speaker 1: like thirty minutes, and Tim lost the parking ticket and
Speaker 1: it was supposed to be like six dollars. It ended
Speaker 1: up being like ninety dollars. I was about to get
Speaker 1: really you know, frustrated and angry because it fell out.
Speaker 2: Of his pocket.
Speaker 3: I was like, you idiot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I literally just had to be like, it's fine,
Speaker 1: it's all good. It's all good. It'll come back in
Speaker 1: a different way, and for whatever reason this needs to happen,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get my knickers in or not.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was me when I got a parking ticket.
Speaker 1: I know you can get so frustrated.
Speaker 2: I was just like, not my money in the first place. Yeah,
Speaker 2: got somewhere else to be.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fine, it's fine. Guys. I hope you loved
Speaker 1: this quick little pep talk. If you want to chat
Speaker 1: about this, come our Facebook group. That's where we do
Speaker 1: all our chatting. We'll put a link in the show notes.
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