WEBVTT - Here’s where you are going wrong with manifesting money….

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the

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<v Speaker 1>land on which this episode is being recorded, the Coomboo

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<v Speaker 1>Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present

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<v Speaker 1>and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and

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<v Speaker 1>Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is the Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and

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<v Speaker 1>becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,

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<v Speaker 1>plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses

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<v Speaker 1>and being among Think of us as the perfect combo

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<v Speaker 1>of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No

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<v Speaker 1>matter where you are in your journey, We're here to

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<v Speaker 1>help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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<v Speaker 1>self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's

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<v Speaker 1>seat of your own life and stop letting life cast

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<v Speaker 1>you by, then you're in the right place. Hey, everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to the R and C Potty Today. We

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<v Speaker 1>have a fun little pep talk for you, and it

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<v Speaker 1>is all about detaching from the outcome or detaching from money.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a really great story personally that I get into,

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<v Speaker 1>but before that, a tear quick week update quickly, it's

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<v Speaker 1>been a while. It's been a while. It's been a while.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go first, Yes, everybody wants to say, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I've got more to express. Definitely, guys. I went to

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<v Speaker 1>New Zealand and had the most amazing time with Tim,

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<v Speaker 1>Ivy and my parents. So we actually planned this trip

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<v Speaker 1>with my parents before COVID, Oh my gosh, and then

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<v Speaker 1>COVID here and you know, all that happened, and so

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<v Speaker 1>it was really incredible to finally do the ski the

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<v Speaker 1>ski holiday finally left the chat and it was really

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<v Speaker 1>incredible because we're there for my parents' sixtieth and obviously

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<v Speaker 1>we got to take Ivy girl, and yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was incredible. I am now a professional skier, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh. Love No, not really. Well, I hadn't skied

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<v Speaker 1>in sixteen years, and I honestly thought I would be terrible,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was like riding a bike.

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<v Speaker 2>It's good to note because I've actually never skied, that

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<v Speaker 2>I do want to try.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so fun a tea like I actually enjoyed like

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<v Speaker 1>whipping down those slopes, and especially like with mom and

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<v Speaker 1>dad because they were skiing and Tim was snowboarding. And

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, we just had the most amazing time

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<v Speaker 1>and I was so present. I did not check my

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<v Speaker 1>emails or Shopify once.

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<v Speaker 2>So proud of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, it's probably the first holiday I've ever done

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<v Speaker 1>that first. Yeah wow, which is such a credit to

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, the amazing team I have and my NHT

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<v Speaker 1>because I just I knew everything was sorted and we

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<v Speaker 1>had prepped and I didn't need to be but it

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<v Speaker 1>just felt really good. Like I did reflect. I was like, fuck,

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<v Speaker 1>it took me four.

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<v Speaker 2>Years, but you're here now. I'm follow that out and.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not looking back. So yeah, it was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>What about you, I've just been working. But I know,

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<v Speaker 2>because we haven't done recommendations in a while either, I

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<v Speaker 2>did want to slip in that I went to see

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<v Speaker 2>the Barbie movie and it was amazing. I'm so jealous.

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<v Speaker 2>I do highly recommend that for everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot wait to see it, so I've got to

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<v Speaker 1>see it. It's like a mask one hundred a master.

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<v Speaker 2>It's breaking all the records for female directed films. Yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's incredible and just like, because I'm a movie nerd,

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<v Speaker 2>amazing for the movie industry, but one of the best

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<v Speaker 2>films I've seen in a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, all right, I'm gonna see it. Yeah, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>go see it. Tell us what you think.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, before we get into the episode, you may have

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<v Speaker 3>But let's get into the episode.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, guys, let's get straight into it. So this

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<v Speaker 1>episode really came about because I have a really great

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<v Speaker 1>story about detaching from money, and I'll get straight into

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<v Speaker 1>the story and then we can riff on it after

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<v Speaker 1>a tear.

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<v Speaker 2>Amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically me and my best friend. She has a

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<v Speaker 1>product based business, so she sells crystals and beautiful self

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<v Speaker 1>care ritual tools and she's had that business for I

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<v Speaker 1>think nearly four years, close to Naked Harvest, actually sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>close to maybe three. And then she also does our coaching,

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<v Speaker 1>so she's done a she's like a life coach, but

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<v Speaker 1>she specializes in like hypnosis and that sort of coaching.

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<v Speaker 1>She's amazing, She's incredible. It's so incredible to have a friend,

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<v Speaker 1>like in the same realm as your career kind of thing. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>so we vox her all the time because we rarely

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<v Speaker 1>get to see each other. She's got two kids. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was around what cell was it around a tier? EOFFI, EOFFI.

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<v Speaker 1>We love EYOFFI. It's just fun to say. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was EOFFI, and she voxed me. We talk by a

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<v Speaker 1>voxer because it saves your voicy messages. You don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to press the key thing. Yeah, and it's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>really easy to talk. So she voiced me, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling quite frustrated because she does have a team.

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<v Speaker 1>She has a girl who works for her, and they

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<v Speaker 1>had spent quite a bit of time and resources, like

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<v Speaker 1>preparing the EOFI sale for Cool Crystal Co. And like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think they had spent like a good couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, so EOFI started and she was feeling quite frustrated

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<v Speaker 1>because she didn't get the traction that you know, she

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<v Speaker 1>was hoping for. And I remember voicing her and saying, look,

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<v Speaker 1>you know in e comm right now, it's it's quite normal.

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<v Speaker 1>So like we're just we're seeing a lower percentage of people,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, buying because of all the stuff happening in

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<v Speaker 1>the world, and it's it's pretty normal, Like, don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you're the only one or you've done something wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I think in her mind too, she felt like because

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<v Speaker 1>previous years she hadn't put in much effort and the

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<v Speaker 1>yoffee sale's gone off. Yeah, and so she has been like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we've done all this planning, we did all

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<v Speaker 1>this content strategy, and she really put that energy and

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<v Speaker 1>the time into it. And so when she wasn't getting

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<v Speaker 1>the traction, she said, she felt quite defeated, Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>very kind of like, oh, what's the point?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like if it goes better when I put in

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<v Speaker 2>less effort, why yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Why even try harder? And I so, I first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, look, you know e coom right now, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just it is what it is. You've got to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to weather this storm. You've got to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to get through it. But also I said to her,

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<v Speaker 1>I can I could even feel in her her voice

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<v Speaker 1>and her energy and just like her vibe. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're very focused on the money coming in this like

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<v Speaker 1>very specific way, and it felt I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>use the word desperate, but like it felt very She

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<v Speaker 1>was very attached, like, well, I had spent this amount

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<v Speaker 1>of time, so I want this result.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of like when people want more money, so they

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<v Speaker 2>go the only way I'm getting that is through a

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<v Speaker 2>pay rise at work.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and they're so focused on it that you know

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<v Speaker 1>they don't it doesn't matter if it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>tarnishing their relationship or yeah, you know, like when it's

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<v Speaker 1>like very desperate, I must get this no matter what. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>not that, yeah, she she I could just I could

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<v Speaker 1>feel the vine. Yeah, And so I just voiced her

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<v Speaker 1>and I just said, look, stop being I think you

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<v Speaker 1>need to take a step back and don't take this personally.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something actually in Naked Harvest that I found really

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<v Speaker 1>helpful early on, is like not taking things personally when

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<v Speaker 1>something didn't go well or a product didn't sell, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as good as I thought, or that sort of thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and just really detaching from it, taking a step back

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<v Speaker 1>and trusting that it's like it's fine if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the money or the abundance doesn't come in this way,

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<v Speaker 1>it can come in a different way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's something I've done for a very long time

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<v Speaker 1>and something I've been quite good at is like just

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<v Speaker 1>really detaching. And I know when you're really focused on

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<v Speaker 1>a result, it can feel so deflating. But then that's

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<v Speaker 1>where you kind of fuck up your energy because you're

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<v Speaker 1>like you then stop trying, Yeah, you then stop feeling supported.

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<v Speaker 1>Your vibration goes down, like you all these like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of domino effect things happen. Anyway, So I just popped

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<v Speaker 1>in and I was like, look, you've like just detached.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fine if it doesn't come through in this sale.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, trust that it's kind of come through the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of the month or the next quarter or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like you need to trust because first of all, you

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<v Speaker 1>know your tools are amazing. Then you know they like

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<v Speaker 1>help people's life products good. Yeah, So like you need

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<v Speaker 1>to trust the universe and feel supported and that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you need to get around. And I said to her, too,

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<v Speaker 1>you've already done all the work, You've already prepared the content.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep posting, like keep at it. Anyway, long story short,

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<v Speaker 1>she voiced me back the next week and she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>holy shit. So after that conversation, she was like, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was so attached to like this specific amount and

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<v Speaker 1>this specific result. I completely like took a step back,

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<v Speaker 1>kept on, you know, posting in my business, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she goes literally at the end of that week she

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<v Speaker 1>landed two six month pay in full clients for her

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<v Speaker 1>coaching business. Oh my god, which like completely out. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you know how much she projected for the sale? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and she she was just in like awe of like

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<v Speaker 1>holy shit.

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<v Speaker 2>As soon as she let go, it all came in.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes. And so this is the reminder for this episode

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<v Speaker 1>is you know, it might not even be money, it

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<v Speaker 1>could be anything, but like, where are you so focused

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<v Speaker 1>on the thing that you're not allowing the universe to

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<v Speaker 1>do its thing. You're not allowing like you might be

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<v Speaker 1>so focused on a specific career, but you're you're missing

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<v Speaker 1>all the signs from the universe for you know, this

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<v Speaker 1>other thing. I really think about it. Like in my

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<v Speaker 1>law career, I had so many nudges to quit law

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<v Speaker 1>and to like didn't and I did it for six years,

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<v Speaker 1>so many nudges like the universe like kept and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, what is happening, like all these curve balls,

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<v Speaker 1>and then when I finally listened, like everything just fell

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<v Speaker 1>into place and like really detaching and that's actually one

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<v Speaker 1>of the greatest things I did. Was I actually quit

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<v Speaker 1>my law job when I had nothing planned. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>is the essence of surrender and detachment and trust and like,

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<v Speaker 1>trust me, that is where the magic happens. And for me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really about having the sense of knowing yourself and

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<v Speaker 1>being like, I know I'm gonna land on my feet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm gonna make it work because I know myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I trust myself. And that is truly such a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>like power to be in it and such a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>vibe to be in because even like think about the

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<v Speaker 1>person a tea, like I said, when I spoke to

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<v Speaker 1>my friend, you could feel the I wish there was

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<v Speaker 1>a better word than desperation, but you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can feel almost like stubbornness in a way kind of yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's that vibe compared to someone who's like, it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be fine, it's gonna be amazing. I just get

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<v Speaker 1>to relax. I get to sit back. I've done the work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just get to sit back and you know, let

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<v Speaker 1>it roll in. Like which person would you rather sit

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<v Speaker 1>next to?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the second one.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what I really wanted to bring into you

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<v Speaker 1>guys today and really help you remember is sometimes things

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<v Speaker 1>not happening the specific way we want or even the

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<v Speaker 1>specific Like let's get down to the nitty gritty with business,

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe it's not the specific product or the specific

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<v Speaker 1>you know, whatever you're putting out. Yeah, but it is

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<v Speaker 1>up to you when that thing quote unquote fails, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or it doesn't do as well or whatever, it is

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<v Speaker 1>up to you to continuously show up.

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<v Speaker 2>And would you say, it's almost still an energy exchange

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<v Speaker 2>of you have to put in the work, whether you

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<v Speaker 2>whether it's like showing or not. Like how your friends

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<v Speaker 2>still kept posting on socials all the content she had planned.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't just like give up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, definitely if it feels aligned, Yeah, if it feels aligned,

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<v Speaker 1>And especially she had already created all the content.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I was like, of course you posted yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think manifesting is like something you've got to remember,

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<v Speaker 1>is it's it takes two to tango. Yeah, the universe

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<v Speaker 1>works with you, but you need to show up. You

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<v Speaker 1>need to like trust yourself, you need to do the

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<v Speaker 1>work in whatever feels good for you. And like while surrendering,

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<v Speaker 1>while being like I'm not gonna, I think it's also

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<v Speaker 1>about realizing, like I'm not gonna let this result dictate

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<v Speaker 1>how I'm gonna show up. I think that's the biggest thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it kind of reminds me in Uni I failed

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<v Speaker 1>a subject. Yeah, and I really remember that being like

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<v Speaker 1>this critical point where I was like, oh wow, I

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<v Speaker 1>I do actually I need to constantly put in the

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<v Speaker 1>work because you get like comfortable, yeah, like it I

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<v Speaker 1>can go to like two tutorials.

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<v Speaker 2>Mistake you're oh shit, and then when.

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<v Speaker 1>You fail, you try like, well, I personally when the opposite,

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<v Speaker 1>and I tried really really hard and I got a

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<v Speaker 1>high distinction, and I was like, see, I just needed

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<v Speaker 1>showing up pace. I needed the reminder. But imagine, let's

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<v Speaker 1>say you get halfway through your law degree, which is

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<v Speaker 1>five years, and you fail one subject, so you give up?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mean yeah, like the moments where okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to let that result mean anything. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>And that was the biggest thing that I had this

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with my friend. I was like, stop taking it personally,

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<v Speaker 1>stop make stop making it mean something. And that's even

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<v Speaker 1>like with businesses right now, that is like my biggest advice, Like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we are going through a tough period economically, but if

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<v Speaker 1>you can continue to show up. If you can continue

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<v Speaker 1>to serve, it's like it can't not work out. You've

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<v Speaker 1>got to You've you've got to keep showing up. You've

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<v Speaker 1>got to keep being in that vibration. And also again

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<v Speaker 1>not making it mean anything, because so many times it's

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<v Speaker 1>like the universe is about to give us this like

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<v Speaker 1>amazing thing and we get here and then we just

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<v Speaker 1>stop and we're like, nah, I'm over it. You've really

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<v Speaker 1>fucked me off. And then you know, you're just you're

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<v Speaker 1>just about to get over the finish line. So that

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<v Speaker 1>is my reminder today. And guys, if we are talking

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<v Speaker 1>about abundance, it's I know it can be really hard

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<v Speaker 1>to detach, but it's like anything like in you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my courses I talk about for example, if you are

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<v Speaker 1>dating someone and they're like really desperate, they're really touchy

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<v Speaker 1>and feely, and they're like really all up in your

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<v Speaker 1>grially like leave me alone, yeah, just give me some space.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you're like cool as a cucumber, You're like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here if you need me, and you're like you're

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<v Speaker 1>that person and you're like supportive, but you're not like oversupportive.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's when things work. Yeah, and that's I literally

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<v Speaker 1>that's the relationship I have with money. It's even like

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<v Speaker 1>in our holiday we Tim, we like parked literally for

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<v Speaker 1>like thirty minutes, and Tim lost the parking ticket and

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<v Speaker 1>it was supposed to be like six dollars. It ended

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<v Speaker 1>up being like ninety dollars. I was about to get

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<v Speaker 1>really you know, frustrated and angry because it fell out.

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<v Speaker 2>Of his pocket.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, you idiot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I literally just had to be like, it's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all good. It's all good. It'll come back in

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<v Speaker 1>a different way, and for whatever reason this needs to happen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna get my knickers in or not.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was me when I got a parking ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you can get so frustrated.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like, not my money in the first place. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>got somewhere else to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's fine, it's fine. Guys. I hope you loved

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<v Speaker 1>this quick little pep talk. If you want to chat

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