1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Coomboo 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,320 Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 6 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is 7 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,239 Speaker 1: the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and 8 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 1: becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 9 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 10 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 11 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 12 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, We're here to 13 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical 14 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's 15 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: seat of your own life and stop letting life cast 16 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: you by, then you're in the right place. Hey, everybody, 17 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: welcome back to the R and C Potty Today. We 18 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: have a fun little pep talk for you, and it 19 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 1: is all about detaching from the outcome or detaching from money. 20 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: I have a really great story personally that I get into, 21 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: but before that, a tear quick week update quickly, it's 22 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: been a while. It's been a while. It's been a while. 23 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: I'll go first, Yes, everybody wants to say, I think 24 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: I've got more to express. Definitely, guys. I went to 25 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: New Zealand and had the most amazing time with Tim, 26 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: Ivy and my parents. So we actually planned this trip 27 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: with my parents before COVID, Oh my gosh, and then 28 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: COVID here and you know, all that happened, and so 29 00:01:56,840 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: it was really incredible to finally do the ski the 30 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: ski holiday finally left the chat and it was really 31 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: incredible because we're there for my parents' sixtieth and obviously 32 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: we got to take Ivy girl, and yeah, it was 33 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: it was incredible. I am now a professional skier, Oh 34 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: my gosh. Love No, not really. Well, I hadn't skied 35 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: in sixteen years, and I honestly thought I would be terrible, 36 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: but it was like riding a bike. 37 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 2: It's good to note because I've actually never skied, that 38 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 2: I do want to try. 39 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: It's so fun a tea like I actually enjoyed like 40 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: whipping down those slopes, and especially like with mom and 41 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: dad because they were skiing and Tim was snowboarding. And 42 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: oh my god, we just had the most amazing time 43 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: and I was so present. I did not check my 44 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: emails or Shopify once. 45 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 2: So proud of you. 46 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: I know, it's probably the first holiday I've ever done 47 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: that first. Yeah wow, which is such a credit to 48 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 1: you guys, the amazing team I have and my NHT 49 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: because I just I knew everything was sorted and we 50 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: had prepped and I didn't need to be but it 51 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: just felt really good. Like I did reflect. I was like, fuck, 52 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 1: it took me four. 53 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 2: Years, but you're here now. I'm follow that out and. 54 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: I'm not looking back. So yeah, it was amazing. 55 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 2: What about you, I've just been working. But I know, 56 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 2: because we haven't done recommendations in a while either, I 57 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:23,399 Speaker 2: did want to slip in that I went to see 58 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 2: the Barbie movie and it was amazing. I'm so jealous. 59 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: I do highly recommend that for everyone. 60 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 1: I cannot wait to see it, so I've got to 61 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: see it. It's like a mask one hundred a master. 62 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 2: It's breaking all the records for female directed films. Yeah, Like, 63 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 2: it's incredible and just like, because I'm a movie nerd, 64 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 2: amazing for the movie industry, but one of the best 65 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: films I've seen in a long time. 66 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, all right, I'm gonna see it. Yeah, everybody 67 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: go see it. Tell us what you think. 68 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 3: Okay. 69 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 1: Also, before we get into the episode, you may have 70 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: already seen this on Socials, but we have a super 71 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: exciting announcement. Our life happens for me. 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So this 96 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: episode really came about because I have a really great 97 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 1: story about detaching from money, and I'll get straight into 98 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: the story and then we can riff on it after 99 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:01,559 Speaker 1: a tear. 100 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 2: Amazing. 101 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 1: So basically me and my best friend. She has a 102 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: product based business, so she sells crystals and beautiful self 103 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 1: care ritual tools and she's had that business for I 104 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: think nearly four years, close to Naked Harvest, actually sorry, 105 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: close to maybe three. And then she also does our coaching, 106 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: so she's done a she's like a life coach, but 107 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 1: she specializes in like hypnosis and that sort of coaching. 108 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 1: She's amazing, She's incredible. It's so incredible to have a friend, 109 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 1: like in the same realm as your career kind of thing. Anyway, 110 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 1: so we vox her all the time because we rarely 111 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: get to see each other. She's got two kids. And 112 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: it was around what cell was it around a tier? EOFFI, EOFFI. 113 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 1: We love EYOFFI. It's just fun to say. So it 114 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: was EOFFI, and she voxed me. We talk by a 115 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: voxer because it saves your voicy messages. You don't have 116 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: to press the key thing. Yeah, and it's just it's 117 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 1: really easy to talk. So she voiced me, and she 118 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: was feeling quite frustrated because she does have a team. 119 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: She has a girl who works for her, and they 120 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 1: had spent quite a bit of time and resources, like 121 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 1: preparing the EOFI sale for Cool Crystal Co. And like, yeah, 122 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: I think they had spent like a good couple of weeks. 123 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 124 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: Anyway, so EOFI started and she was feeling quite frustrated 125 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: because she didn't get the traction that you know, she 126 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: was hoping for. And I remember voicing her and saying, look, 127 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: you know in e comm right now, it's it's quite normal. 128 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: So like we're just we're seeing a lower percentage of people, 129 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: you know, buying because of all the stuff happening in 130 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:02,239 Speaker 1: the world, and it's it's pretty normal, Like, don't feel 131 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:05,239 Speaker 1: like you're the only one or you've done something wrong. 132 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: I think in her mind too, she felt like because 133 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: previous years she hadn't put in much effort and the 134 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 1: yoffee sale's gone off. Yeah, and so she has been like, 135 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: you know, we've done all this planning, we did all 136 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: this content strategy, and she really put that energy and 137 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: the time into it. And so when she wasn't getting 138 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: the traction, she said, she felt quite defeated, Yeah, and 139 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: very kind of like, oh, what's the point? 140 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like if it goes better when I put in 141 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 2: less effort, why yeah. 142 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 1: Why even try harder? And I so, I first of all, 143 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: I said, look, you know e coom right now, it's 144 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 1: just it is what it is. You've got to be 145 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: able to weather this storm. You've got to be able 146 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: to get through it. But also I said to her, 147 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 1: I can I could even feel in her her voice 148 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 1: and her energy and just like her vibe. I was like, 149 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 1: you're very focused on the money coming in this like 150 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: very specific way, and it felt I don't want to 151 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: use the word desperate, but like it felt very She 152 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: was very attached, like, well, I had spent this amount 153 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: of time, so I want this result. 154 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 2: Kind of like when people want more money, so they 155 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 2: go the only way I'm getting that is through a 156 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 2: pay rise at work. 157 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and they're so focused on it that you know 158 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 1: they don't it doesn't matter if it's like, you know, 159 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 1: tarnishing their relationship or yeah, you know, like when it's 160 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 1: like very desperate, I must get this no matter what. Yeah, 161 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: not that, yeah, she she I could just I could 162 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 1: feel the vine. Yeah, And so I just voiced her 163 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 1: and I just said, look, stop being I think you 164 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:48,839 Speaker 1: need to take a step back and don't take this personally. 165 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: That's something actually in Naked Harvest that I found really 166 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 1: helpful early on, is like not taking things personally when 167 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: something didn't go well or a product didn't sell, you know, 168 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 1: as good as I thought, or that sort of thing, 169 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: and just really detaching from it, taking a step back 170 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: and trusting that it's like it's fine if you know, 171 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:15,679 Speaker 1: the money or the abundance doesn't come in this way, 172 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: it can come in a different way. 173 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 174 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 1: And that's something I've done for a very long time 175 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: and something I've been quite good at is like just 176 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: really detaching. And I know when you're really focused on 177 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: a result, it can feel so deflating. But then that's 178 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: where you kind of fuck up your energy because you're 179 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:40,719 Speaker 1: like you then stop trying, Yeah, you then stop feeling supported. 180 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: Your vibration goes down, like you all these like kind 181 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: of domino effect things happen. Anyway, So I just popped 182 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: in and I was like, look, you've like just detached. 183 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: It's fine if it doesn't come through in this sale. 184 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,319 Speaker 1: You know, trust that it's kind of come through the 185 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 1: rest of the month or the next quarter or you know, 186 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 1: like you need to trust because first of all, you 187 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: know your tools are amazing. Then you know they like 188 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: help people's life products good. Yeah, So like you need 189 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: to trust the universe and feel supported and that's what 190 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 1: you need to get around. And I said to her, too, 191 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: you've already done all the work, You've already prepared the content. 192 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 1: Keep posting, like keep at it. Anyway, long story short, 193 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 1: she voiced me back the next week and she was like, 194 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:35,960 Speaker 1: holy shit. So after that conversation, she was like, Yeah, 195 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: I was so attached to like this specific amount and 196 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: this specific result. I completely like took a step back, 197 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:46,679 Speaker 1: kept on, you know, posting in my business, and then 198 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 1: she goes literally at the end of that week she 199 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 1: landed two six month pay in full clients for her 200 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 1: coaching business. Oh my god, which like completely out. Did 201 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,680 Speaker 1: you know how much she projected for the sale? Yeah, 202 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: and she she was just in like awe of like 203 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: holy shit. 204 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 2: As soon as she let go, it all came in. 205 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 1: Yes. And so this is the reminder for this episode 206 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 1: is you know, it might not even be money, it 207 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:20,959 Speaker 1: could be anything, but like, where are you so focused 208 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: on the thing that you're not allowing the universe to 209 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 1: do its thing. You're not allowing like you might be 210 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: so focused on a specific career, but you're you're missing 211 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 1: all the signs from the universe for you know, this 212 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: other thing. I really think about it. Like in my 213 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: law career, I had so many nudges to quit law 214 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 1: and to like didn't and I did it for six years, 215 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: so many nudges like the universe like kept and I 216 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,959 Speaker 1: was like, what is happening, like all these curve balls, 217 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: and then when I finally listened, like everything just fell 218 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:58,679 Speaker 1: into place and like really detaching and that's actually one 219 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: of the greatest things I did. Was I actually quit 220 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 1: my law job when I had nothing planned. Yeah, that 221 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 1: is the essence of surrender and detachment and trust and like, 222 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 1: trust me, that is where the magic happens. And for me, 223 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 1: it's really about having the sense of knowing yourself and 224 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 1: being like, I know I'm gonna land on my feet. Yeah, 225 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna make it work because I know myself. 226 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 1: I trust myself. And that is truly such a beautiful 227 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:33,199 Speaker 1: like power to be in it and such a beautiful 228 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 1: vibe to be in because even like think about the 229 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 1: person a tea, like I said, when I spoke to 230 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: my friend, you could feel the I wish there was 231 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: a better word than desperation, but you. 232 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 2: Can feel almost like stubbornness in a way kind of yeah. 233 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:52,199 Speaker 1: And it's that vibe compared to someone who's like, it's 234 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: gonna be fine, it's gonna be amazing. I just get 235 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 1: to relax. I get to sit back. I've done the work. Yeah, 236 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 1: I just get to sit back and you know, let 237 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: it roll in. Like which person would you rather sit 238 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: next to? 239 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, the second one. 240 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 1: So that's what I really wanted to bring into you 241 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: guys today and really help you remember is sometimes things 242 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: not happening the specific way we want or even the 243 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: specific Like let's get down to the nitty gritty with business, 244 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: Like maybe it's not the specific product or the specific 245 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: you know, whatever you're putting out. Yeah, but it is 246 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: up to you when that thing quote unquote fails, yeah, 247 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 1: or it doesn't do as well or whatever, it is 248 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 1: up to you to continuously show up. 249 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 2: And would you say, it's almost still an energy exchange 250 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 2: of you have to put in the work, whether you 251 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 2: whether it's like showing or not. Like how your friends 252 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 2: still kept posting on socials all the content she had planned. 253 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 2: She didn't just like give up. 254 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 1: Yes, definitely if it feels aligned, Yeah, if it feels aligned, 255 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: And especially she had already created all the content. 256 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was like, of course you posted yeah, yeah. 257 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 1: And I think manifesting is like something you've got to remember, 258 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 1: is it's it takes two to tango. Yeah, the universe 259 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: works with you, but you need to show up. You 260 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 1: need to like trust yourself, you need to do the 261 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 1: work in whatever feels good for you. And like while surrendering, 262 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: while being like I'm not gonna, I think it's also 263 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: about realizing, like I'm not gonna let this result dictate 264 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 1: how I'm gonna show up. I think that's the biggest thing. 265 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 1: Like it kind of reminds me in Uni I failed 266 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 1: a subject. Yeah, and I really remember that being like 267 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: this critical point where I was like, oh wow, I 268 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,640 Speaker 1: I do actually I need to constantly put in the 269 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 1: work because you get like comfortable, yeah, like it I 270 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: can go to like two tutorials. 271 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 2: Mistake you're oh shit, and then when. 272 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: You fail, you try like, well, I personally when the opposite, 273 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 1: and I tried really really hard and I got a 274 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: high distinction, and I was like, see, I just needed 275 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 1: showing up pace. I needed the reminder. But imagine, let's 276 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: say you get halfway through your law degree, which is 277 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: five years, and you fail one subject, so you give up? 278 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: Do you mean yeah, like the moments where okay, I'm 279 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: not going to let that result mean anything. I'm gonna 280 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 1: And that was the biggest thing that I had this 281 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: conversation with my friend. I was like, stop taking it personally, 282 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: stop make stop making it mean something. And that's even 283 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: like with businesses right now, that is like my biggest advice, Like, yes, 284 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 1: we are going through a tough period economically, but if 285 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 1: you can continue to show up. If you can continue 286 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 1: to serve, it's like it can't not work out. You've 287 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: got to You've you've got to keep showing up. You've 288 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 1: got to keep being in that vibration. And also again 289 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: not making it mean anything, because so many times it's 290 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 1: like the universe is about to give us this like 291 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 1: amazing thing and we get here and then we just 292 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: stop and we're like, nah, I'm over it. You've really 293 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: fucked me off. And then you know, you're just you're 294 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 1: just about to get over the finish line. So that 295 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 1: is my reminder today. And guys, if we are talking 296 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 1: about abundance, it's I know it can be really hard 297 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 1: to detach, but it's like anything like in you know, 298 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:38,640 Speaker 1: my courses I talk about for example, if you are 299 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 1: dating someone and they're like really desperate, they're really touchy 300 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,919 Speaker 1: and feely, and they're like really all up in your 301 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:48,880 Speaker 1: grially like leave me alone, yeah, just give me some space. 302 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:49,439 Speaker 2: Yeah. 303 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:52,080 Speaker 1: But if you're like cool as a cucumber, You're like 304 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 1: I'm here if you need me, and you're like you're 305 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 1: that person and you're like supportive, but you're not like oversupportive. 306 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: Like that's when things work. Yeah, and that's I literally 307 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 1: that's the relationship I have with money. It's even like 308 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:10,679 Speaker 1: in our holiday we Tim, we like parked literally for 309 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:14,479 Speaker 1: like thirty minutes, and Tim lost the parking ticket and 310 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 1: it was supposed to be like six dollars. It ended 311 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 1: up being like ninety dollars. I was about to get 312 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 1: really you know, frustrated and angry because it fell out. 313 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 2: Of his pocket. 314 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 3: I was like, you idiot. 315 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I literally just had to be like, it's fine, 316 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: it's all good. It's all good. It'll come back in 317 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 1: a different way, and for whatever reason this needs to happen, 318 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,439 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get my knickers in or not. 319 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was me when I got a parking ticket. 320 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 1: I know you can get so frustrated. 321 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 2: I was just like, not my money in the first place. Yeah, 322 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 2: got somewhere else to be. 323 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fine, it's fine. Guys. I hope you loved 324 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 1: this quick little pep talk. If you want to chat 325 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 1: about this, come our Facebook group. That's where we do 326 00:18:57,359 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 1: all our chatting. 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