WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Mitch got INSULTED while getting a facial 💆 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:22.520 Come on, hello everybody, my girls, Hello, have you Wednesday? 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:25.000 What a time to be alive. Well, it's not technically 0:00:25.160 --> 0:00:26.320 not for me. In my community. 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:29.920 Today we've been struck it down again from the biggest 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:33.280 power in Vatican, the Vatican City, the Pope today. 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:35.599 Have you heard some devastating you haven't seen it yet? 0:00:35.600 --> 0:00:36.080 What happens? 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:39.879 Sorry, Mitch, Yeah, the Pope today has been found in 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:44.840 a second secret recording to have used a slur against 0:00:44.920 --> 0:00:47.280 gay people. I'm a gay man. This is the second 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:52.160 time he said for I'll get ginny the Pope, which 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:52.720 is a slur. 0:00:53.040 --> 0:00:55.240 It's a terrible slur, but when you say it in Italian, 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:57.440 it just kind of sounds like a lovely pastors. 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:01.440 Well, it's a dish. You can get it, Toddy also, because. 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:03.320 That's what I was thinking. It sounds like fetaccini with friend. 0:01:03.560 --> 0:01:06.880 No, it's a very very hateful slur that people would 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:09.560 use against gay people, and it starts with the letter F. 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:12.160 What you can read between the lines, we probably can't. 0:01:12.440 --> 0:01:15.080 I thought frocini was the slur in Italian and I 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:16.119 was like, no, it is. 0:01:16.319 --> 0:01:18.880 It is how you say that word in Italian. Wow, 0:01:18.959 --> 0:01:19.720 my guy got it. 0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:22.880 You are homophobic and you were undulingo trying to learn Italian. 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:24.720 This is a word that would potentially pop up. 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:28.559 I'm just devastated because he was meant to be woke pope. 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:29.840 But he cares that he's caught out or do you 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:32.720 think anyone tells him, Hey, there's been some broken news, Pope. 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:35.800 But also the Pope is supposedly infallible, so he can't 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:39.240 be wrong. So unfortunately that's that doesn't bode well for you, doesn't. 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:40.560 Man who scolds the pope? 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:41.680 God? 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:48.360 Well, God doesn't care about the froggis she does. Unfortunately, 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:49.640 all the frog is out there. 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:51.600 I love you all, and we love you here at 0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:54.600 the pickup. That's all that matters. Look, coming up, I've 0:01:54.600 --> 0:01:55.480 got a very. 0:01:55.800 --> 0:01:57.880 Look something that's very very important to me, important to 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.840 my family, and we've been speaking about this on the 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:03.280 up over the last little bit. But something that we 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:05.880 have been touching on has made a real difference to 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:08.040 a lot of you, and that's something we're gonna share next. 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:10.560 Yeah, it's your special laws. Yeah, Prady, we're going to 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:11.160 get to that next. 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:11.720 Here at the pick up. 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:17.120 Around Australia, we go to the pickup delicially tut us out. 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:20.400 At the Pope back after this, everyone, this is a 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:22.560 really special one for me. So if you're listening to 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:25.840 the show a couple of weeks ago, I shared that 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:29.480 my stepdad, Neil, is currently going through palliative care and 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:32.760 that's because he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. It has 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:35.960 been it's been eight years now since he was diagnosed, 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:37.840 and it's been such a journey and we're at the 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:40.080 tail end of that. This is a discussion we had 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:42.360 on the show a couple of weeks back. By the 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:45.200 time we found out about it as a family, it 0:02:45.280 --> 0:02:48.080 was already stage four prostate cancer. And he's young, he's 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:51.040 sixty five. The reason why I wanted to talk about 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:54.480 this is because if us speaking about it and saying, like, 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:57.320 speak to your dad's about getting his prostate checked, speak 0:02:57.320 --> 0:03:00.560 to your husband about it, if that saves one family 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:03.440 from going through what our family is going through, and 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:05.040 this conversation is worthwhile. 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:07.959 And it was so nice of you to share that, Laura, 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:10.520 because I imagine it's not easy, but it's such an 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:12.160 important message at the same time. 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:14.400 Well, I mean for us, Like I didn't just want 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:16.160 to share this to update you on what's happening. 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:19.040 In our household, like in our family tragedies. 0:03:19.720 --> 0:03:21.520 But the reason why I wanted to talk about this 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:26.760 is because very often we don't speak about we don't 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:29.320 speak about hard topics with our dads, especially especially when 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:31.760 it comes to things about prostate cancer. I would I 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:34.320 would put money on it that very few people sitting 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:36.080 in their cars or wherever you're listening to this right now, 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:38.480 have ever caught up their dad and said, hey, dad, 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:40.840 when did you last have your PSA tested? When did 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:43.320 you last have your prostate checked? Because it's kind of awkward, 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:46.760 it's weird, And that has been the most important thing 0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:49.600 to me is getting this message out that let's stop 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:51.840 making it awkward. Let's try and have these conversations with 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:54.440 our dads, because it could absolutely save their life and 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:56.800 it would mean that, you know, if it stops one 0:03:56.840 --> 0:03:59.360 family from being in the situation that we currently are 0:03:59.440 --> 0:04:02.000 with my step dad, then it will have made all 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:05.320 of the difference. And it was really vulnerable to have 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:07.920 that conversation on a couple of weeks back. But we 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:11.440 have received such an outpouring from you guys, from so 0:04:11.520 --> 0:04:14.200 many listeners who said that they went home that evening 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:16.360 they called their dads or they sent them a text. 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:20.000 And I'm so grateful to everybody who has done that, 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:21.720 and I hope that we can keep spreading the word. 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:22.280 I did that. 0:04:22.400 --> 0:04:24.880 I text my dad mar Churi, Oh my dad, have 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:26.800 you done it? And he was great. He's like, no, 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:28.200 it's a blood test now, and I'm like, I don't 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:30.279 think it is. And he went called his doctor and 0:04:30.279 --> 0:04:32.800 he had another check up. Like all because of the conversation. 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:35.360 Yeah, my dad was the same big Tones was like, yes, 0:04:35.440 --> 0:04:37.240 possum every two years, I've done it. 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:39.160 And I was like, wow, what are relief? A good dad, 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:39.359 you know. 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:41.280 But also we had the full spectrum. We had some 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:43.880 people message in saying that asked their dads. Their dads 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:45.680 had never been to go and get a test done. 0:04:46.000 --> 0:04:48.279 We had some people whose dads were a bit like 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:50.800 oh yeah, weird conversation, but you know, thanks sweetheart, thanks 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:51.960 Dalin for the for thinking of me. 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:53.800 I've just went a couple of weeks ago. 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:57.040 But one of those, one of those people, one of 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.200 those listeners who did have that conversation with their dad 0:04:59.480 --> 0:04:59.839 was Maddie. 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:02.440 She gave us a call, Maddie, welcome to the pick up. 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:05.160 I'm ads, here you go. There are, You're going, We're good. 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:07.120 So you had this conversation with your dad after hearing 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:08.600 Laws talking about her experience. 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:11.880 Yeah, yeah, So I heard Laws talking about it and 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:13.920 I was like, oh, I better give that a call 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:16.520 after work. So gave me my bars and was just like, hey, 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:20.520 heard this really sad story on the radio, but like 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:22.560 just making sure you've had it your checks and hey, 0:05:22.600 --> 0:05:24.440 I don't know his typo Man New sixties, and he 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:25.760 was like, oh, I do want to talk about that, 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:28.720 like you know, chip your nose out of it kind 0:05:28.760 --> 0:05:31.159 of thing. And I was like come on. And my mum, 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:33.679 good old mom, piped up and she was like, well, actually, 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:37.560 I'm pretty sure you got that blood test form from 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.360 the doctor like two months ago, and I'm pretty sure 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:40.800 it's still sitting on the kitchen counter. 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:41.599 Yeah. 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:44.560 And I was like, well, that's like it's such a 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:47.200 typical dad thing. And I was like, well, come on then, Dad, 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:49.880 and I actually had a like my own blood test. 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:52.480 I didn't get my eye checks, nothing too exciting, and 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:54.480 I was like, come on tomorrow morning, I'm going. 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:54.960 To pick you up. 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:57.480 We'll go get our blood test on together and then 0:05:57.480 --> 0:05:59.039 we can go get wrecky because they had to do 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:00.080 like a fasting. 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:02.039 One my dad in a order date for blood tests. 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:05.120 It's actually really nice means the blood test, but it's 0:06:05.160 --> 0:06:05.640 a blood test. 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:08.000 But yeah, yeah, you were good and it forced. 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:09.560 Him to do it. He got his results. They were 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:11.680 all good, which is obviously great needs but it's like, 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.600 what good is it sitting on the kitchen counter? 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:17.039 I know, And Maddie when you wrote that in like, 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:19.520 I'm so grateful for you sharing that, because I would 0:06:19.680 --> 0:06:21.720 dare say that there's so many men out there who 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:24.080 have received their reminder and like, you know, oh, it's 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:25.720 just it's not going to be me, so it's not 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:27.279 that important. And then they put it, you know, on 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:30.120 the back burner, and then weeks turn into months, months 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:33.400 turn into years, and that very much is the situation 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:36.640 with my step dad. And I love that now it's 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:38.800 something that you're able to talk about with your dad 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:40.279 and it doesn't have to be a big deal. 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:41.320 It's just a blood test. 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:43.000 But do you know which is another I feel like 0:06:43.000 --> 0:06:44.000 there's another message in this. 0:06:44.080 --> 0:06:45.479 And I don't even know if you realized you just 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:49.080 said it, but you said, hey, have you had it done? 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:50.520 He was like, oh, I'm not sure don't want to 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:50.960 talk about it. 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:53.280 And then your mom still wasn't even positive that that's 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:54.120 what the blood test was. 0:06:54.120 --> 0:06:56.040 She's like, oh, I think you have a referral for that. 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:58.400 Like the fact that it is just not front and 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:01.560 center on anyone's mind is something we also need to realize, 0:07:01.600 --> 0:07:04.279 like we need to be so proactive with our own health, 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.920 let alone, like you shouldn't have to look after someone else. 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:08.880 But the fact that your mum was like, oh, that's right, 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:11.840 Like I think that was something to do with prostate cancer. 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:13.640 Yeah, and soya, men, not up to the women in 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:15.560 your life to remind you to get your blood test done. 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:17.840 You know, you've got to be an advocate for your 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:18.320 own health. 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:19.280 Go get the tests. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:19.600 I know. 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.200 But you know what, statistically it's just not the case. 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:24.840 We know that most men avoid going to the doctors 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:28.760 and so and I really I cannot overstress this enough. 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:31.240 If you have a dad who you love, if you've 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:33.560 got a husband and they're in that age range, like, 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:37.240 please go home and have the conversation with them, because yeah, 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:39.160 like I would hate for there to be another family 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:41.960 in the situation that we're in, and statistically they will be, 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:44.640 and there are currently so please speak to your dads, 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:46.280 speak to your husbands, speak to your uncles. 0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:47.720 Let's make this a normal conversation. 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:50.120 Well said, we love your loss. You got to knail too. 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:54.720 Listen, there's a lady out there in Australia that has 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:56.720 deeply offended me and she doesn't even know she's done it. 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:58.680 So if you're listening to this, you bumped into meet 0:07:58.680 --> 0:08:02.520 the beautician this week, I'm coming for you because shocking. 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:04.800 I was gonna say, does it count if someone offends 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:05.600 you but doesn't know? 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:07.320 Well, that's maybe that's the conundrum. 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:08.680 Maybe you can help me here because I went to 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:11.320 get a facial at the putition I go to all 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:13.920 the time at tw skin love them when I pay, 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:14.640 but they're amazing. 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:15.360 I love of what a. 0:08:15.280 --> 0:08:17.440 Modern man you are, how you were always like. 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:19.440 Out of the three of us, Brick goes the most, 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:20.920 You go the second most, and I wish I went 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:21.720 at least once in a while. 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:23.560 Which is also a gay man, so he takes a 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:23.840 lot of. 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:25.880 Pride in his I have to actually don't even want to. 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:26.920 What do you get done? 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:29.680 I get a lot done. I get microdermabrasion, I get 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:30.320 full facials. 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:30.720 I got. 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:33.480 A laser done, like I love it. I get it 0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:36.080 all done. So I was practically glowing. I walked in 0:08:36.080 --> 0:08:36.960 and had an hour session. 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:38.160 Amazing. Can't fault them. 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:40.760 And I'm sitting out in the reception area at the 0:08:41.240 --> 0:08:44.680 checkout desk and my phone won't pay passed with Apple Pay, 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:48.840 like there was a technical error, and the pautician, I 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:51.199 don't have the money in my cat and the beautician goes, oh, 0:08:51.240 --> 0:08:52.679 this happens from time to time. I'm going to go 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:54.560 out the back and get the other doungle will reboot it, 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:56.400 just like take a seat, chill out. So I'm taking 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:59.360 a seat at the entry to the butautician and another 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:01.520 lady walks in and she sits down next to me. 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:03.280 And you know, when you're at the beautician and you 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:05.880 get so excited that you're getting a treatment done. It's 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:07.760 very rare that working people can go in and get 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:09.840 a facial. So we're both sitting there and she's like, 0:09:09.880 --> 0:09:11.760 oh my god, Like you know, I'm so excited with this. 0:09:11.800 --> 0:09:12.560 I haven't had one in ages. 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:14.920 You're the complete opposite to me. I don't I don't 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:16.720 talk to people in waiting rooms. You're sitting there making 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:17.400 having small talk. 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:19.720 I bring it up. 0:09:19.520 --> 0:09:21.440 She started talking to me, so I was like, I'll 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:22.640 talk back to it. I'm not going to be rude, 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:24.520 and I'm waiting to pay him. I'm almost done glowing. 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:26.600 I look like a light bulb. And then she's like, 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:28.560 have you been here before? I'm like, yeah, I've been 0:09:28.559 --> 0:09:30.200 here a couple of times. She's like, you were going 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:32.280 to love it, and like, honey, looking at you, you 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:33.080 look like you need this. 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:35.679 You look exhausted. You were going to come out feeling incredible, 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:38.240 and you already had it. And I just like, I 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:39.080 just got the whole. 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:41.559 Face was like bright because every time you leave a beautician, 0:09:41.600 --> 0:09:42.120 your face. 0:09:41.960 --> 0:09:44.560 Is always bright red. You look like you're being slapped. 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:45.520 So that's what I thought. 0:09:45.520 --> 0:09:46.800 I thought I was glowing, and I didn't have the 0:09:46.840 --> 0:09:50.360 heart to tell her, and I went, oh, yeah, busy week. 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:52.679 Then the lady goes fix the Donglo pay pass it. 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:53.280 I just leave. 0:09:53.720 --> 0:09:57.040 So this lady is just sitting there going she's gone, 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:57.880 you should. 0:09:57.600 --> 0:09:59.160 Go back in and have it done again, because I 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:01.640 clearly didn't work val beforehand. 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:04.160 It reminds me of like when I used to go 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:06.040 through because I do a lot of skincare, like Laura said, 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:08.680 And so after I've had mine done, and I also 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:11.280 feel glowy and beautiful, and if I've had my lashes done, 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:14.640 maybe I'm like, I'm going sands makeup, not a scaric 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:15.920 of makeup, because I'm owning this. 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:17.240 I look amazing. 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:20.840 And then without doubt, every time someone will say to me, 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:23.800 oh you look sick, you look I'm well, have you 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:24.240 been okay? 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:26.480 Are you okay? Every time I don't wear makeups, someone's like, 0:10:26.520 --> 0:10:28.520 are you all right? And I'm like, yes, I'm living 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:29.480 my dream right now. 0:10:29.600 --> 0:10:31.720 But every single time I don't wear makeup and I 0:10:31.720 --> 0:10:34.120 think I'm killing it, someone brings me down a notch hat. 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:37.960 People just don't comment on people's lives, Okay, good. 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:42.440 If we're talking about beautician things. For me, it's not 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:44.800 so much like the other people who go to beautitians. 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:48.319 I think beauticians themselves give people insecurities. You'll be laying there, 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:50.160 you would have had something else done, like maybe you've 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:51.720 just gotten a laser done, and then they'll look at 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:53.960 you and they go, oh, you know, next time you 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:55.840 come in, we're going to do something about your crow's feet. 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:57.560 And then you go home and you're like, I didn't 0:10:57.559 --> 0:10:58.040 even know I. 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:00.839 Had crows feet, and you're what crow feet? 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:03.640 Every time you leave the beautician, you have a new insecurity, 0:11:03.880 --> 0:11:06.000 and then that just like forges you through to the 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:07.120 next time you go to the beautician. 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.920 Speaking of I was getting laser hair removal on the 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:14.480 downstairs legs and the downstairs Yeah, just the downstairs. And 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:16.000 then when I rolled over to do the back of 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:18.600 my legs, she goes, oh, we're doing the air and 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:18.840 I was. 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:19.800 Like, what can you see? 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:21.839 Didn't it that made you say that right now? 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:22.040 Oh? 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:24.520 Yeah, you did say the Hollywood the whole of the. 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:27.720 Plug. 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:29.800 Everyone's got hair down there, brite, don't worry about it. 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:32.200 But I was like, wait, it like, at least I 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:34.439 wasn't insecure about that boiler right then. 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:37.000 I am, now, but that means you've got to talk. 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:39.320 But you're doing polites. That means that would have been 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:40.120 visible hair. 0:11:41.520 --> 0:11:43.240 At least she didn't ask you if you wanted a 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:45.480 labbyect to me, Okay, let's just that's enough. 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:48.640 Has it happened to you? No, sorry, But the way 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:49.240 you said that. 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:51.360 I did it sound like you. When Laura went in 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:56.160 to get a crowsbeat down, they're like lab after two kids. 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:58.240 I wouldn't be surprised or got a haircut, like if 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:00.680 you can see the lobby active me, that's so funny. 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:08.160 Hey, No, next up, we're talking Sam Fisher. 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:11.480 He shared a story with us recently and we haven't 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:12.960 been able to stop thinking about. 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:14.320 We all know Sam. We love Sam. 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:18.240 This song ready said, he's going to bring you. Think 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:20.720 someone who can put out this beautiful music is smart. 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:22.640 You know he knows exactly what he's doing in his life. 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:24.839 Turns out not the case. We'll hear from Sam next 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:27.520 on the pickup. A couple of weeks ago, we had 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:30.160 good friend of the show on with us, Sam Fisher, 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:35.640 Is I mean, can't that man do aside from not 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:37.360 get hanged because he tols. 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:39.520 This a hacking? Sorry, that shocked us. Because he's a 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:40.080 smart boy. 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:43.320 He got scammed big time online and I was surprised. 0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:47.160 There are some sophisticated scams going around, but this wasn't 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:47.800 one of them. 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:48.440 Have listened. 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:51.199 Okay, So this was like five pm in the afternoon, 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:53.320 I'm in the UK. I get a text saying, hey, 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:57.040 did you spend five hundred and forty one dollars and 0:12:57.320 --> 0:13:01.800 whatever sense at this place in Austin, and I was like, no, no, 0:13:02.200 --> 0:13:05.400 and it looks so legit, and normally I'm on it. 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:08.600 Normally I'm like googling the anonymous phone number to see 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.120 where it is. I just didn't for some reason because 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:12.720 I was in a I was in a songwriting session, 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:14.880 I was working. I was like no, And then they 0:13:14.920 --> 0:13:17.040 sent another text that was did you spend one hundred 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:19.360 and whatever dollars in this place in Texas? 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:20.000 Escalating? 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:22.280 Now I'm in EXAs, and then it was like call 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:25.840 this number and it was like from my bank. And 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:29.640 I called and they had the exact same automated voice, 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:31.959 and so then I was literally on the phone for 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:34.000 like hours and they were like, oh, we know, we 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:35.360 need to do security questions. 0:13:35.400 --> 0:13:36.640 And so it was a real person. It was a 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:37.240 day is Sam. 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:40.800 It was a real person, and it was like I 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:45.040 spoke to them and they were like, what's your like 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:48.400 mother's maiden name, what's your name? 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:49.040 What's like? 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:52.680 And you thought you were verifying because the answer, but 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:54.720 here's where I should have stopped. 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:57.160 So I would give an answer, and then I would 0:13:57.160 --> 0:13:59.200 get a security code and they'd be like can you 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:04.120 read me the car? And I was like, yeah, of course, 0:14:04.240 --> 0:14:07.280 and let me tell you, it was like, oh, that 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:09.800 didn't work, so let's try it again, because obviously, like 0:14:09.880 --> 0:14:12.199 the geo tagging or whatever was like. 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:14.200 Oh, ping, this is not where Sam is. 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:16.960 Yeah, and so they got into my online banking and 0:14:17.000 --> 0:14:18.280 they still fourteen thousand dollars. 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:23.640 Oh got fourteen k My god, that hurts the poor guy. 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:27.240 Like it's never nice, that realization of like, oh, my god, 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:27.920 I got done. 0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:30.600 I don't think if that was me, I reckon I 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:31.560 would have done the same thing. 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:32.560 I actually want. 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:33.400 On your messages. 0:14:33.440 --> 0:14:35.400 Ever, if you're listening at home, ask you for your 0:14:35.440 --> 0:14:38.640 banking details and passwords, don't give it to them. I know, 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:40.960 but I also think it's so some of them are 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:43.160 so good these days. You get those text messages and 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.040 they're often just waiting for a coincidence. Like I almost 0:14:46.120 --> 0:14:49.280 got done by Australia Posts, which obviously was an Australia 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:51.360 Post but it said you know, you've got to pass 0:14:51.440 --> 0:14:53.000 or pick up, you've got to put these details in. 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:55.440 And I was actually waiting for an Australia Post package 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:57.000 that day that I was expecting, and so when I 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:59.520 logged onto it, it was only that I realized that 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:00.880 the URL. 0:15:00.640 --> 0:15:01.520 Looked a little bit off. 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:03.560 But if I hadn't looked at it, and I hadn't 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:05.640 popped up on my phone, I don't think I honestly 0:15:05.640 --> 0:15:08.000 think I would have gone ahead and been like update 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:09.160 my email address and update. 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:10.400 They would have got me. 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:12.240 Yeah, on thirteen six five. 0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:14.560 The hackers get you because they're getting everyone you talked to, 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:16.560 not even oldies like it happens to old people. 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:16.800 Young. 0:15:16.920 --> 0:15:18.760 I've got friends my age and then mid twenties are 0:15:18.800 --> 0:15:19.240 getting happy. 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:21.480 Yeah, my nana did get scammed as well. But it 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:21.960 was a good one. 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:23.560 It was one of those ones where it's like if 0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:27.240