WEBVTT - We Celebrate Froomy’s Birthday! 🎂 🎈

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Guess what, guys, Oh, it's my birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>No it isn't.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you listen to this, it's too late to

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<v Speaker 1>say happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I think give them Give them one week buffer

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<v Speaker 4>to be fair, one week buffer, Give them one week buffer.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not a fan of the this is my birthday post?

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<v Speaker 3>I can I have done one in twenty twenty?

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<v Speaker 4>Why can I can? I? Do you prefer the spotlight

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<v Speaker 4>you've earned? I let you ask for.

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<v Speaker 3>Never something druer, truer, rather being uttered in podcast form.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>And yet this is the this is the daily grapple

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<v Speaker 3>that I have with Cater because I'm just out here talking.

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<v Speaker 1>And talking and talking.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm talking and what do you want in exchange?

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<v Speaker 1>I want?

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<v Speaker 3>I want to make something that changes the world finally,

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<v Speaker 3>and yet here I am not trying hard enough. So

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<v Speaker 3>twenty twenty three, let's see what happens to folks.

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<v Speaker 2>Big task. You want to change the world.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually don't care about that, but you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>want to like push myself. Like you say, you find

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<v Speaker 3>it quite easy to talk.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh, so you want to do something outside your

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<v Speaker 2>comfort zone.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like when people say, like, I'm looking for that feeling,

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<v Speaker 4>like you know, when you're like a little bit scared,

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<v Speaker 4>that's something.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, No, that's not what I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm looking for the things that I do every day

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<v Speaker 4>to be at a bare minimum easy, simple, enjoyable, create.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, all these things are like just natural extensions.

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<v Speaker 4>When I feel like that one like like rigidity or

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<v Speaker 4>like friction. Before, I was like, yeah, this is sick,

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<v Speaker 4>like we're pushing against the current. Now I'm going with

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<v Speaker 4>the current. The current's taking me to bed at seven pm.

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<v Speaker 4>That's where I'm going.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, half half yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But happy birthday, babe, thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>It's Fremy's day.

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually Freemy's month.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, you're both at the start of the month, like

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<v Speaker 4>it's your whole month, babe, and we should celebrate every day.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just in the cusp of leaving summer. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a nice off.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just close enough to the start of the year

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<v Speaker 3>for it to not be roped in with Christmas and

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<v Speaker 3>New Years. So I just really love it. What do

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<v Speaker 3>you want this year of your life to be? I

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<v Speaker 3>want this year of my life to be the same

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<v Speaker 3>as last year, which is happy, fun, lots of socializing.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I want to be a bit more routine. Hi. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>twenty twenty two was a fucking free for all. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>be honest, and it worked out.

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<v Speaker 1>It did it did? Let's go he again? Yeah, happy

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<v Speaker 1>birthday to me again?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, cat Flex and froomes. You're listening to Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>What the frick sitting in front of me?

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<v Speaker 4>Is a precious gem, a quirky redacted, a sensational young woman.

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<v Speaker 4>It is Lucinda Froom's price government name, and it is

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<v Speaker 4>objectively the best day of the month, her birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>Fan fair.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's art Okay, let's cut into claps and now let's

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<v Speaker 3>cut in. Tomorrow is going to be the fourth of March. Booze,

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<v Speaker 3>am I hot? Would you say that this year I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to find the love of my life?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a what?

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<v Speaker 3>And finally, am I a beautiful birthday girl?

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<v Speaker 2>Do that from hot? Am I going to find the

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<v Speaker 2>love of my life?

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<v Speaker 3>To?

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<v Speaker 4>Am I a beautiful birthday girl? Is there anything else

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<v Speaker 4>is on your mind?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care about what's your love?

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<v Speaker 3>Listen the girlies? Ok. I will confirm it was a girly,

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't it It was you brook Yet again the manual labor

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<v Speaker 3>falling on Brookie out producer with no thanks.

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<v Speaker 2>International Women's they all over again.

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<v Speaker 3>Say it'll say you guys, got me a cake? I

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<v Speaker 3>specified I want a cake from bread top. I have

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<v Speaker 3>been known to on my birthdays ask my mum for

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<v Speaker 3>a cake from Dairy Bell. Stand up my Melbourne brethren

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<v Speaker 3>and they would have these barbie cakes, one for myself,

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<v Speaker 3>one for the rest of the family. Naturally, Oh goodey chocolate.

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<v Speaker 2>It seems like.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, obviously budgets were tired. Okay, let's have a look

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<v Speaker 3>at my cake. I haven't seen it yet.

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<v Speaker 4>Got that is so cute, doggy. Oh that's perfect. Good job, Rookie,

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<v Speaker 4>that's so cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, we're flavory chocolate.

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<v Speaker 2>Gorge chocolate.

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<v Speaker 4>Is this a good time to talk about the elephant

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<v Speaker 4>in the room?

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<v Speaker 2>How old is thy? Turning?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? Well, after months of speculation and various articles.

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<v Speaker 4>A few submissions on famous birthdays, have they gone through?

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<v Speaker 2>Not sure, but we'll molle checking in.

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<v Speaker 3>Net Worth waiting age or contenter topics. I am not,

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<v Speaker 3>in fact turning twenty five. It's hard to boot track

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<v Speaker 3>ageism is real, and it's time that I finally came

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<v Speaker 3>forth and said came out. Low blow. It's another episode.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm twenty eight. Okay for all the people on YouTube

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<v Speaker 3>and TikTok, but don't know me that say I can't

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<v Speaker 3>look out if she's twenty or sixty. This is the

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<v Speaker 3>definitive ends not wrong for that.

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<v Speaker 2>They're not wrong for that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm turning twenty eight and there's nothing wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in my prime.

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<v Speaker 3>The eggs are egging, the baps are bapping up, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's just a great time to be alive with you, Flex,

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for making the last year interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>We've had some up togethers.

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<v Speaker 3>What it takes me the best year of my life. But

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<v Speaker 3>it's been interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do just feel like we're doing vows? It's just

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<v Speaker 2>your birthday ing.

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<v Speaker 3>Vows from a couple that can't I hate each other.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been interesting. We've been through ups and downs. My

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<v Speaker 2>silly little month's day, right, Can I kill you sometime?

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<v Speaker 3>This is flex and frooms on FLEXI.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to talk about love.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank goodness, it's my birthday and I believe that love

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<v Speaker 3>should be unbound. Yes and bound too, Yeah, get on

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<v Speaker 3>get me on a motorbike, let me get my long

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<v Speaker 3>hair flapping in the wind. Well, Honey, Kanye is Honey's

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<v Speaker 3>talking about how Kanya.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if we should do a tangent right now,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Is married to a Melbourne now so zipper, So I'll

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<v Speaker 3>say we have mutuals. I actually don't know for you do, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>But she has the same hair as me? Shut up,

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<v Speaker 3>all right? This is a story that I found. I

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<v Speaker 3>can't get meeting my mother in law out of my head.

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<v Speaker 3>Me and my boyfriend have been together for six months

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<v Speaker 3>and I got to meet my partner's parents over dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>Things going well until I started noticing that I had

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of similarities with my mother in law aka

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<v Speaker 3>my boyfriend's mum.

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<v Speaker 2>Premature. But that's okay, it's been six months, so we

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<v Speaker 2>get ahead of ourselves. Mother didn't even know you like that?

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<v Speaker 2>Get off the plane.

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<v Speaker 3>Where's the ring?

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<v Speaker 2>Love?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm talking, same color hair, same eyes. We even had

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<v Speaker 3>the same pair of sandals, same size.

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<v Speaker 1>Babes. Babes is rocking the what are they.

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<v Speaker 3>The stocks with the two little straps.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a bit on my mum and Nat.

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<v Speaker 3>It was uncanny. I put it down to coincidences, until

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<v Speaker 3>her siblings also rocked up and started making jokes about

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<v Speaker 3>the fact that I could literally be her daughter. Wow,

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<v Speaker 3>we've all been there. I can't stop thinking about it,

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<v Speaker 3>to the point where I need to end it with

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<v Speaker 3>him overreacting. I'll just start my saying, have you ever

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<v Speaker 3>dated someone whose mum looked exactly like? No, you're saying

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<v Speaker 3>you don't have red hair, and.

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<v Speaker 2>What should she do?

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<v Speaker 4>This is such a shame, but honestly it should happen

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<v Speaker 4>more often than not, considering what we know about the

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<v Speaker 4>Oedipus complex. Shout out to Freud.

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<v Speaker 1>Cheers King, Look, just means a man has taste.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, just means the man likes what he likes, and

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<v Speaker 4>he's been consistent about that. Kaneta, Hurrah. It's actually the

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<v Speaker 4>creepiest thing I've ever heard. But also like you're kind

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<v Speaker 4>of into deep because you sound deranged, you break up

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<v Speaker 4>with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because of it. It's just a concidence.

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<v Speaker 3>It's I will say. People always say that you go

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<v Speaker 3>for your dad, which like, that's just as sick. Yeah, tall, dark,

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<v Speaker 3>handsome on the fence about that.

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't know if there's much you can do

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<v Speaker 4>in a serious way. I think the only thing you

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<v Speaker 4>can do is start bookmarking. And if you've been in

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<v Speaker 4>a relationship, you know what bookmarking is. It gets to

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<v Speaker 4>the point where you realize not everything can be a

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<v Speaker 4>conversation because you'll be yip yapping, you'll be the town

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<v Speaker 4>nagger and it's not a good place to be. So

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<v Speaker 4>just bookmark these things so you can build a case

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<v Speaker 4>for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Record everything, guys, record.

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<v Speaker 4>Everything eventually when it gets to be too odd, because

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<v Speaker 4>right now it's a little bit weird, but it's it's

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<v Speaker 4>a coincidental thing allegedly. I personally don't believe in coincidences,

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<v Speaker 4>but we don't share the same spiritual beliefs.

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<v Speaker 2>If it gets to the point where people.

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<v Speaker 4>Outside of your family are starting to notice, you should

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<v Speaker 4>be concerned. And also I would recommend spending no time

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<v Speaker 4>with the mother in law so you don't converge further.

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<v Speaker 3>Get those sandals and burn them and cut.

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<v Speaker 2>Her out of your life, because it's only gonna get

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<v Speaker 2>worse from here.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna fling the sandals off like this. Don't do it, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>Flex and Firms Flex and fromes.

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<v Speaker 4>Cater never miss a beat topic conversation beauty standards. I feel, personally,

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<v Speaker 4>don't get offended. The conversation has been wholly unproductive since

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<v Speaker 4>we started doing discourse on the internet, so twenty ten,

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<v Speaker 4>it very quickly went from acknowledging that beauty standards are

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<v Speaker 4>a concept that exists and affect us negatively and positively

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<v Speaker 4>in so many different ways. Then as we begin to

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<v Speaker 4>mature in our understanding of beauty and aesthetics and optics

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<v Speaker 4>and class and all of these things, the conversation has

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<v Speaker 4>gotten so derivative that people think the solution to the

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<v Speaker 4>negative impacts of beauty standards is to pretend that beauty

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't exist, and it's like you're a layer, or on

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<v Speaker 4>the adverse, to pretend that ugly things don't exist, you're play.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm on a mission, right.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's really important that we as a society,

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<v Speaker 4>we as a people, can start to just acknowledge when

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<v Speaker 4>things are beautiful, when things are hot, when things are pretty,

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<v Speaker 4>because everybody knows, like the theory of just the world

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<v Speaker 4>is duality, very black. There's a white for every left,

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<v Speaker 4>there is a right, very up, there is a down.

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<v Speaker 4>Very good, There is a bad for every beautiful, there

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<v Speaker 4>is an ugly point blank period, no amount of posturing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna delete that.

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<v Speaker 4>And so, rather than pretend that beauty standards don't exist,

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<v Speaker 4>let's get more specific about what we personally find to

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<v Speaker 4>be beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>And therefore pund interject.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm going down the right route.

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<v Speaker 2>We're always in the right root. We might get there

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<v Speaker 2>at different times, definitely.

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<v Speaker 3>Always different modes are transfer.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm definitely on a yeah, and then you go for

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<v Speaker 4>get on a segway.

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<v Speaker 3>Fall over and get back on, and then take the

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<v Speaker 3>onto a barge. It's going across a river.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, one step too far.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I will say that I like the I do

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<v Speaker 3>that there's duality. I don't really think about that much

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<v Speaker 3>in my own life. But then, yeah, I think if

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<v Speaker 3>we tell me if I'm going down the same path,

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<v Speaker 3>if we both in our own minds get very clear

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<v Speaker 3>on what we find beautiful, both in people, in flowers,

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<v Speaker 3>in world generally, and then we think of that complete opposite,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe that offsets this idea that there is one standard

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<v Speaker 3>that we must adhere to.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, exactly, because I think now people are really challenged

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<v Speaker 4>with this idea of perceiving themselves or the things they

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<v Speaker 4>like is beautiful because all they center is the standard,

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<v Speaker 4>which is arbitrary. There are plenty of standards. That's my point.

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<v Speaker 4>Decide for yourself, what is your standard? Why While understanding

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<v Speaker 4>there is a broader standard, you in your individual, unique

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<v Speaker 4>body get to live such an individual circumstance that it

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<v Speaker 4>makes no sense that you would measure yourself solely on

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<v Speaker 4>this like generic standard. We don't do that with most things.

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<v Speaker 4>Like anyone can acknowledge it, like you're not the smartest

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<v Speaker 4>person generally, but you have interests that will you be

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<v Speaker 4>really smart at right simple you can acknowledge you're not

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<v Speaker 4>the most beautiful person generally, or you don't have the

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<v Speaker 4>most you know, well seasoned approach to aesthetics and can

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<v Speaker 4>still acknowledge that things are beautiful to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's just start small.

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<v Speaker 4>Please start small, tanking. Okay, none of this like you know,

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<v Speaker 4>as someone who doesn't fit within the beauty center, shut up,

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<v Speaker 4>shut up. Step number one is a little task for everyone.

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<v Speaker 4>If you feel like you don't fit within the beauty standard,

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<v Speaker 4>go look at any culture besides the one that you

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<v Speaker 4>currently reside in. Get out of the inner West of

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<v Speaker 4>Melbourne or whatever, get out of the North of Brisbane,

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<v Speaker 4>do a Google and figure out where your attributes, the

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<v Speaker 4>one that you are so sure like ostracize you from

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<v Speaker 4>the beauty standard and figure out a culture where that

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<v Speaker 4>shit is hot.

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<v Speaker 2>Start there and then we'll reconvene.

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<v Speaker 3>Go to South Korea. My long nosed brethren, huge. I

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<v Speaker 3>loved it, loved the long nose.

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<v Speaker 1>They were going, Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Big fans the long night.

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<v Speaker 3>Literally on the train, some girl was like.

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<v Speaker 2>Thinking, she said huge.

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<v Speaker 3>Now she's got huge huge.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, this is flex and frooms.

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<v Speaker 3>You always flex and friends and FLEXI I found myself

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<v Speaker 3>at an airport. Won't name the brand, but it was

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<v Speaker 3>a terminal specifically for this airline, Quantus, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>pretty regular lately. What I was say, I had a

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<v Speaker 3>coffee from Krispy Kreme.

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<v Speaker 2>Gotta say so. You won't say Quantus, but you'll say

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<v Speaker 2>krispy Kreme.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got favorites.

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<v Speaker 3>And I had my coffee in Krispy Kreme, low and behold.

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<v Speaker 3>Had to go to the toilet. I don't want this

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<v Speaker 3>to be graphic, but when I go, I gore and

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<v Speaker 3>I no pooh, no pooh Humor twenty twenty three.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not talking about dating. I'm not talking about pooh.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to be known as more than the Pooh girl.

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<v Speaker 1>This is important. This is with you anthropological.

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<v Speaker 3>If you will go to the toilet no comment.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know what it does.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't nice, and I was playing on my phone

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<v Speaker 3>and then obviously go to wipe.

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<v Speaker 1>Put the phone down.

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<v Speaker 2>On the sanitary.

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<v Speaker 3>Say no more, i'vefore been there anyway, put the phone down, wipe,

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<v Speaker 3>do whatever, rush out because this is a hot zone

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<v Speaker 3>and I need to evacuate. There's a line of people

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<v Speaker 3>obviously to toilet. So I just got out, walked out,

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<v Speaker 3>tried to just pretend nothing happened, wash my hands obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>and left. Why one minute later do I feel a

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<v Speaker 3>tap on my shoulder? Why do I feel a little tapped?

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<v Speaker 3>A woman says, hey, hey, I turn around. I go

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<v Speaker 3>because you left your phone. You know you had to

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<v Speaker 3>rate your poop.

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse me, hi, what you did in there? Really stressful?

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<v Speaker 2>Really stressful.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to say, increase your fiber INTAKEE definitely do that,

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<v Speaker 4>but it's giving seven.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you on edge?

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<v Speaker 3>I just knew, and I just had to think the woman,

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<v Speaker 3>the strength of this woman to wound that.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to stay in there long enough to.

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<v Speaker 3>See there was an upside down phone, and.

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<v Speaker 4>You know it was your phone too, because you know

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<v Speaker 4>she had clocked you. Her eyes were in your eyes

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<v Speaker 4>when you walked out of that cubicle. She had already

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<v Speaker 4>smelled what was happening before you left that cubicle. She

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<v Speaker 4>was putting smell to faith at that point.

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<v Speaker 3>It was one of the worst experiences and it just

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<v Speaker 3>got me thinking, when you go to the toilet, it's

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<v Speaker 3>a human thing to go to the toilet, So no

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<v Speaker 3>jokes and something happens in more humans justice for humans

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<v Speaker 3>who pooh. And you walk out of the cubicle and

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<v Speaker 3>you've done what you've done, do you apologize? Do you

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<v Speaker 3>not look like do you say, oh, stinks in there

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<v Speaker 3>in a massive shit before I went in there, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I've definitely done this before where I've been like, oh

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<v Speaker 3>it's bad in there, guys, Seriously, the person before.

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<v Speaker 4>Me, don't get in there. It's me and you are

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<v Speaker 4>again to them. Have you got to pick alliances when.

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<v Speaker 2>It comes to that.

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<v Speaker 4>I will say the way that I avoid this and

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<v Speaker 4>I have this like distinct memory of being at I'll

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<v Speaker 4>say an Italian restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll say that.

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<v Speaker 4>But for some reason, when you go on a Friday,

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<v Speaker 4>people go there as like a pre game for their

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<v Speaker 4>next night, and I usually go there on like a

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<v Speaker 4>week day or whatever. So I'm in the bathroom and

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<v Speaker 4>there's three cubicles. One toilet is broken, does not work,

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<v Speaker 4>one is empty, and then one is the one that

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<v Speaker 4>I am in. Things weren't going well for my bow,

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<v Speaker 4>so you know, different textures coming out. You know you're

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<v Speaker 4>coming out. Is it spicy for Capasta?

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<v Speaker 2>It can be. I do ad chili flakes. I do.

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<v Speaker 4>But what I will say is that the diarrhea was

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<v Speaker 4>so bad that it was just like ongoing and onslaught

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<v Speaker 4>and I didn't want to get up and have to

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<v Speaker 4>come back in because there was going to be a line,

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<v Speaker 4>and so I just stayed there for like forty minutes,

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<v Speaker 4>and I told the personal was that I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not getting out because there's a line of people

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<v Speaker 4>and I have a recognizable face, as you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, they can't know what I'm going through.

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<v Speaker 4>So I sat there and people be like, is this

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<v Speaker 4>knock knock knock?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this too broken?

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<v Speaker 4>There's two broken toilets as staff from comes in. No,

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<v Speaker 4>this one was like working. I'm pretty cat open.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking They're like, it is it still?

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<v Speaker 4>What is it?

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<v Speaker 2>To stay the course?

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<v Speaker 4>Stay the course until a new batch of people go

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<v Speaker 4>in and out of the restaurant, and then you're safe

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<v Speaker 4>to leave.

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<v Speaker 2>You should have missed your Flat's what you should have done.

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