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Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda in the morning.

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Speaker 2: This will stem from your husband, Harley, when he said

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Speaker 2: to you during the week.

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Speaker 3: I said to him, you know, Friday's Valentine's Dan. He went, oh, no, really,

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Speaker 3: all I require is a card. You know I'm going

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Speaker 3: to be tonight. I'm going to be pure gold with you.

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Speaker 3: The weekend I'm in Melbourne for Dancing with the Stars.

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Speaker 3: It's not like I expect a trip to Paris. But

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Speaker 3: he said, oh, And I tried to drill down onto

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Speaker 3: what the earl means, and he said, it's just one

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Speaker 3: of those things we think there's expectations you have to meet. Yes,

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Speaker 3: there are.

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Speaker 2: It's the obligation, and it.

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Speaker 3: Is an obligation. I know a lot of people go, oh,

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Speaker 3: it's all commercial. Yes it is. But if every girl

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Speaker 3: in the typing pool gets flowers and there's one who doesn't,

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Speaker 3: who's in a relationship, it looks you know. So that's

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Speaker 3: why we all buy into it.

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Speaker 2: That you don't buy. Guys don't sit there at their

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Speaker 2: desk saying oh, I didn't get any flowers. She doesn't

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Speaker 2: love me. Guys don't care.

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Speaker 3: Guys get love in return and affection more from.

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Speaker 2: They put out from years ago when Zog was in

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Speaker 2: the cave and he traded beads for the woman. That's

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Speaker 2: what we're.

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Speaker 3: Still primitive types. We're still primitive. Women like to be

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Speaker 3: adored and men, but men know that they get that

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Speaker 3: in return if they give a little. So it helps

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Speaker 3: you not to hate it.

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Speaker 2: Time to go into the man's own when there's manly

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Speaker 2: thing to be discussed by men talking about man's stuff.

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Speaker 2: We come to this sanctuary, this fortress. What men think, well, yeah,

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Speaker 2: just don't know.

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Speaker 3: Don't be bossy. Sorry, no, sorry, I'll sit back and

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Speaker 3: maybe I'll make you a cake and you talk men things.

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Speaker 2: You're playing pool if you want, sure, don't shoot back

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Speaker 2: from the d I do it to annoy a cigarette

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Speaker 2: off the table, maybe playing pinball.

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Speaker 3: Maybe talk to Glenn and Campbelltown. Who's in the man's own.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the man's own, Glenn.

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Speaker 1: Thank you lovely to be here, Glenn. Mate, Yes, mate.

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Speaker 2: Men don't care about Valentine's Day, No one.

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Speaker 1: Of those things. Every year I get home, it's a

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Speaker 1: confrontation of looks and uh things like that. If I

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Speaker 1: haven't got anything on the table, then I end up

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Speaker 1: ducking down of the shops. Every year made down the

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Speaker 1: Wallworth and I act as if I'm going to get

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Speaker 1: to be and come back with a Todler ran one

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Speaker 1: of the big ones, of course, but that's the big table.

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Speaker 3: But Glenn's the same date every year, So I.

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Speaker 2: Don't know what it's supprised those cars.

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Speaker 3: But can I say? You do you it makes your

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Speaker 3: wife happy? And doesn't that make you happy and in

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Speaker 3: return you feel good?

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Speaker 1: My wife makes me happy every day, not just Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 3: Not just Valentine No, but she would be unhappy that

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Speaker 3: day if you forgot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well she she kind of forgets too, so and

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Speaker 1: I don't walk around unhappy. But it's one of those things.

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Speaker 1: It's you know, we may up. We don't worry about it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, said Glenn. See Glenn agree. Men are very

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Speaker 2: pragmatic about this stuff. Darren's in Parkley.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Darren. Well, I mean, I don't expect men to

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Speaker 3: say it's their favorite day of the year. But you're

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Speaker 3: so disparaging. Earlier this morning you were quite hateful about it. Yes,

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Speaker 3: you said, I hate it, man hated.

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Speaker 2: Men hate it. It's just another obligation.

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Speaker 3: Darren's in Parkley. Do you hate it? Darren?

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Speaker 4: I don't hate it, but I think it's a lot

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Speaker 4: of hogwash. The only my wife brung me yesterday and

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Speaker 4: she goes, do you know it's Valentine's Day tomorrow? And

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Speaker 4: I went, really, I said, if you can tell me

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Speaker 4: what Valentine's Day actually means, I'll buy something. And you

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Speaker 4: know what she said. What she doesn't know? You know

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Speaker 4: what she's getting. She's getting zeal. It's just another reason

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Speaker 4: for men that have to go out and buy something.

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Speaker 4: It's only if you've got it you want to try

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Speaker 4: to impress a new girl or something. But when you're married,

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Speaker 4: it's gone.

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Speaker 3: Oh Darren, your wife may not agree.

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Speaker 2: The rough thing about Valentine's Day was it was St.

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Speaker 2: Valentine and he was put to the sword by the Romans.

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Speaker 2: He was a priest that wanted people to be able

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Speaker 2: to marry under the Christian thief.

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Speaker 3: Look, we accept that it's commercial, we accept that it's

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Speaker 3: all about having to buy stuff and blah blah blah.

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Speaker 3: But we all buy into it because it's one day

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Speaker 3: of the year where you say to your partner, I

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Speaker 3: love you. Maybe you say it much more often than that.

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Speaker 3: But I wonder if Darren's wife, if someone said to me,

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Speaker 3: I can you tell me what it is? I'll give

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Speaker 3: you a present. If not nothing, very unloving.

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, you seem to have a lot to say

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Speaker 2: in the man's own just quietly, okay, it's a place

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Speaker 2: of no judgment. Remember you just spat on me before

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Speaker 2: Mary's ladies perspective.

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Speaker 3: Mary, please come on in one of your people.

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Speaker 5: Morning everyone. So I am a big advocate of Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 5: So every year we have this conversation. It's coming up.

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Speaker 5: It's coming up. Mind you. We have rose bushes in

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Speaker 5: the backyard, so it's not really hard for my husband

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Speaker 5: just to go and cut flowers after thirty years. So

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Speaker 5: pretty much, if says nothing call Valentine's Day, he doesn't

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Speaker 5: get the deed, So I kind of use it as blackmail.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't get the what get some loving? Yeah, well

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Speaker 3: see that's the thing. This is how men and women

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Speaker 3: got together. Men in our historical terms offered protection to

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Speaker 3: the woman and the woman gave him love in return.

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Speaker 3: They are our most basic responses. So guys, do it,

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Speaker 3: get into it and you'll get some love in returns.

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Speaker 2: So my question has been answered. Men don't care about

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Speaker 2: Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Next time. There's manly stuff that needs to be worked out.

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Speaker 2: We spoke to two men, come on down to the

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Speaker 2: man's and I don't think the case is closed on this.

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Speaker 2: The book is closed. We don't need to speak to anyone.

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Speaker 3: Darren's round me up. You know you can't got a

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Speaker 3: giant advocate for Valentine's Day, But to be mean and

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Speaker 3: say you can't tell me you don't get anything what

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Speaker 3: happened politically the day you were born. Can't tell me

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Speaker 3: you don't get a birthday present.

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Speaker 2: I just was rid of the man, so now.

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Speaker 3: Having a rand

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Speaker 1: Joines the and Amanda in the morning,