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Speaker 1: Jersey and Amanda jam Nation. We've been talking the last

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Speaker 1: few days about what it's like to be single and married.

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Speaker 1: At First Sight started as a very sincere attempt to

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Speaker 1: put people with people and have psychologists trying to match

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Speaker 1: them up, which is a very interesting premise, but it

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Speaker 1: became a television show in the end, and it went

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Speaker 1: for drama, and it went for conflict and all those

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Speaker 1: kinds of things. But there is a real need for

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Speaker 1: this kind of thing. I've got a number of friends

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Speaker 1: who are just not having any success, and I think

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Speaker 1: we're finding too. I'm reading that people are sick of

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Speaker 1: those all the dating apps because you get so addicted

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Speaker 1: to there's someone better, someone better, someone better, you think, well,

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Speaker 1: no one's settling anymore, so people are turning away from

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Speaker 1: the dating apps. I think that we would do a

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Speaker 1: good job, Brendan, a sincere job of trying to find

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Speaker 1: partners for people. So I thought of calling it jam Singles.

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Speaker 1: You liked jam.

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Speaker 2: Mingle, Jammingle Single and ready to jim Mingle.

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Speaker 1: Well, what we've done is if you go to the

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Speaker 1: front page of our website.

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Speaker 2: And you've actually done stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not just talking out of my wazoom.

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Speaker 2: Yesterday because yesterday when you said stay tuned. Why But

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Speaker 2: that's like when someone says I'll look into it, or

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Speaker 2: you're in the mix. It's just word salad. It doesn't

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Speaker 2: mean anything.

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Speaker 1: Stage when I say things. When I say things, when

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Speaker 1: I say stay tuned, I mean I'm going to do something.

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Speaker 2: When you say you've actually done something, yeah, I mean

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Speaker 2: you've got some butcher's paper and.

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Speaker 1: No, I put together an ext It's on the front

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Speaker 1: page of our website.

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Speaker 2: So you put this together. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: If you would actually like us to help you find somebody,

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Speaker 1: please get in touch with us. And this is what

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Speaker 1: the form says. You know, to tell us a bit

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Speaker 1: about yourself. What's your current relationship status, what's your sexual orientation?

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Speaker 1: Have you been married before? Tell us a bit about

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Speaker 1: the relationships you had. What are you looking for in

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Speaker 1: a partner? Have you had your heart broken? What are

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Speaker 1: your red flags? And a red flag is of great

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Speaker 1: word that all these dating shows use. What are the

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Speaker 1: things that the lines in the sand for you or

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Speaker 1: deal breakers? And what of things about you that might

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Speaker 1: be that for other people? There will be no judgment.

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Speaker 1: We just want an honest appraisal of what you're looking

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Speaker 1: for and how we can help you.

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Speaker 2: And then when we get these people in, well we

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Speaker 2: get them, you and I will get in a pile

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Speaker 2: and we'll talk about Okay, so Kathy and Peter or

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Speaker 2: I think so much?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Or it might be that we might be that

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Speaker 1: we select Kathy as our person and then we will

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Speaker 1: try and find a partner for Kathy. Or it might

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Speaker 1: be Jeffrey and we find.

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Speaker 2: Do you think Kathy and Jeffrey will be good together?

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know. They're fanciful names. So whether we

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Speaker 1: get one person and try and match them with someone,

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Speaker 1: or we have a whole lot of people on the go,

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Speaker 1: that's yet to be determined. But let's start with this

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Speaker 1: entry form. Let's to see what kind of help you'd like.

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Speaker 2: We need a picture. Are they're going to set a

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Speaker 2: little picture in?

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know if we do that, have a picture,

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Speaker 1: I can why not? Straight up? When we get to

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Speaker 1: the bit about he's you know, here is some people

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Speaker 1: that would like to meet you, then we need pictures,

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Speaker 1: but we're just finding out about you and what you're after.

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Speaker 1: We don't need photos.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And we don't need it like on Tinder where

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Speaker 2: they've got a picture of a guy with a fish,

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Speaker 2: as always a guy with a fish, because there's.

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Speaker 1: Always a guy with a fish. I've got a friend

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Speaker 1: who went on bumble for a while and she said,

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Speaker 1: and she's she's had just turned sixteen. She said, look

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Speaker 1: at this, look at that, and she's gorgeous, she's smart,

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Speaker 1: she's well traveled, well read, beautiful. So look at the

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Speaker 1: guys I'm getting. It's a guy with no pants on

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Speaker 1: holding a fish like she's supposed to go. Well, isn't

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Speaker 1: that great? I mean, what photos did he choose not

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Speaker 1: to put on? Did he actually put that one on?

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Speaker 2: Well, we could do better than that, of course we can.

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Speaker 1: We'd like to sincerely help you with this. So, as

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Speaker 1: I said, it's a front page of our website. Have

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Speaker 1: a look and let us know how we can help you.

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Speaker 2: And so when you say stay tuned, stuff is actually happening.

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Speaker 1: What a surprise by my mind. I don't I don't

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Speaker 1: speak words. Salad. I throw in bits of meat as well.

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Speaker 2: You're a woman of action, Well I'm I'm part of this.

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Speaker 2: I'm looking forward to a set putting people together.

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Speaker 1: I like it.