1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. It's the podcast for the 2 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:10,399 Speaker 1: time poor parent who just answers now. 3 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 2: Daycare is the done thing for around about a million 4 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 2: families every year. We've got data from the Department of Education. 5 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 2: I think this shows something like one point four million 6 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 2: kids in Australia are attending daycare on any given three 7 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 2: month period. In any given term, about one and a 8 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 2: half million children are attending daycare. This is a big industry. 9 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 2: It's a huge sector and it affects all of us. 10 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 2: It affects us as parents. Research shows that a lot 11 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 2: of parents don't really want to take their kids to 12 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 2: day care, but cost of living. The reality is double 13 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 2: income is sometimes just an absolute requirement, but it also 14 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 2: affects our kids. And while a high proportion adjust really well, 15 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 2: the reality is a large minority of kids who are 16 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: in daycare unfortunately, they don't like it at all. I 17 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: was going to say they hate it. It's a strong wood, 18 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 2: but Kylie, you've worked in daycare and I don't know. 19 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 2: I mean, some kids really do hate it, don't they. 20 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 2: They cry from the minute they get dropped off to 21 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 2: the minute they get picked up. It's really stressing. 22 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's awful. It's awful for the care is, it's 23 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: awful for the parents. It's really hard watching a child 24 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 1: be that distressed for so long. 25 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 2: So in today's conversation, we want to talk to you 26 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 2: about daycare dramas and specifically what we can do about 27 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 2: helping our kids to adjust well to daycare. I guess 28 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 2: to preface this introduction, there's a world leading daycare researcher. 29 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 2: His name is Jay Belski. Jay has been researching in 30 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 2: this area for forty years now or thereabouts. He recently 31 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:39,639 Speaker 2: dropped an absolute bomb on what has previously been pretty 32 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 2: well established science that kids thrive as a result of daycare. 33 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 2: Blown that up, and he's basically said, they don't really 34 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 2: thrive as much as we thought that they did. Research 35 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 2: is not pointing in that direction. There are some questions 36 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 2: that we need to ask that are going to make 37 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 2: every caring parent just a little bit nervous. And he 38 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 2: sort of is saying, we probably need to worry a 39 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 2: little bit about daycare, even though we're consistently told not 40 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 2: to worry about it. Now. I'm not saying this to 41 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 2: lump guilt or anything like that, or on anyone like 42 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 2: it is the reality but there are some things that 43 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:12,519 Speaker 2: we can do to minimize those daycare dramas. And that's 44 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 2: what we want to talk about, because if you're dropping 45 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 2: the kids to daycare today or tomorrow or sometime this week, 46 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 2: you want to make sure that the kids are not 47 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 2: in that minority who are really feeling distressed about it. KILEI, 48 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 2: after the years that you spent working in various centers, 49 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 2: what do you think would be a couple of things 50 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 2: that would be most important for parents to really get 51 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: good at when it comes to this whole daycare drama thing. 52 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 1: My top three things, Yeah, would be setting up structures, 53 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: working around transitions with your kids, developing dialogue around what 54 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: this looks like, and building partnerships with your cares. Yeah. 55 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:52,519 Speaker 2: I love that one. Yeah, So if we were. 56 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: To break that down point number one, setting up structures transitions. 57 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: Transitions might not be something that the average parent would 58 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: use in their day to day conversation, but they probably 59 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: are doing it without knowing. 60 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 2: So this is the thing where you say, all right, kids, 61 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 2: so to get in the car, we're off to kindy. 62 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: That's a transition point and it's a. 63 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 2: Pretty rough one the way that I just did it. 64 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: That's exactly right. So with most small kids, they need 65 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: time to prepare for a transition. They need to know 66 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: that in five minutes time, maybe ten minutes time, might 67 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: be a ten minute warning and then a five minute 68 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 1: warning that this is going to happen. 69 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 2: On that I think it's really important to highlight as well. 70 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: A three year old or a two year old or 71 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 2: a five year old maybe who's off to daycare, they 72 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 2: don't necessarily know what five or ten minutes means. That's 73 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 2: exactly right. So can you talk through for parents to 74 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 2: give them that five and ten and that two minute 75 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 2: warning whatever, How do they do it in a way 76 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 2: that makes sense to the child since ten minutes doesn't 77 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 2: really mean anything, especially if you're only two or three. 78 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: I think it's just that it's that constant reinforcement. They 79 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: won't know. If you've got an analog clock or even 80 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 1: a digital clock, you can teach them the numbers so 81 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: that they can see what it's happening. But at that 82 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:05,559 Speaker 1: really young age, it really is just about that constant reinforcement, 83 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: which is why you wouldn't say just once in five 84 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: minutes time, we're leaving, right. You would have a number 85 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: of interactions with them leading up to that time so 86 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: that they know. 87 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 2: So it's consistent reminders about the transition that's coming. And 88 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 2: as they hear the number getting smaller. It was ten 89 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 2: outs five, now it's three, and now it's two, and 90 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 2: now it's one, that actually does mean something to them. 91 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 2: They can feel the difference. 92 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: If you don't want to use a number, it might 93 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 1: be that you play a song and they know that 94 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: once that song finishes, it's the same song every time. Yeah, 95 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: for that particular activity, and at the end of that song, 96 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 1: they know that that's a transition point. That's the time 97 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: where they're going to now going to have to go 98 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: put their shoes and socks on and we're going to 99 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: jump in the car. 100 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 2: For a number of years, in our home, I used 101 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 2: to do that with the piano. So I don't play 102 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 2: the piano well, but I've got enough skills on the 103 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 2: piano to play a handful of songs. And we used 104 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 2: to have a family meeting every morning and I would 105 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 2: play that song on the piano and the kids would 106 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 2: know that by the time that song was finished, everyone 107 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 2: had to be in the living room so that we 108 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 2: could have our five or ten minutes together as a family. 109 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 2: It worked so well. 110 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: Music is actually one of the best things you can 111 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: do for engaging kids because it's so easy. They don't 112 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: have to keep the time going. They understand and know 113 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: how the song works because it's the same song every day, 114 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: and it really does help them when they're still learning 115 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 1: to read time and things like that, to know, Okay, 116 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: the chorus is coming, now, this is about to finish it. 117 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 1: I'm going to have to keep moving forward. 118 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 2: So this idea of setting up structures, it's about more 119 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 2: than just transitions. It's about predictability. It's about routine. The 120 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 2: kids understand the routine. We go from A to B 121 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 2: to C, and then we're in the car and we 122 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 2: go to KINDI or daycare or preschool or whatever it 123 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 2: is that you call that. So setting up structures, having 124 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 2: those transitions and those systems in place matters. 125 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: The other reason structures are so important is because everything 126 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: about that makes their life predictable. 127 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 2: And that makes them feel safe and secure. 128 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 1: Everything is about their sense of security. 129 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 2: The second thing that you set up to setting up 130 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 2: structures and getting those transitions right was we've got to 131 00:05:58,760 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 2: develop dialogue. 132 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 1: This is great because you're having conversations with your children 133 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: all the time. This is about helping them to see 134 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 1: what is happening in their world, asking them questions and 135 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: helping them to see all of the exciting things that 136 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: are happening in their world. When you pick them up, 137 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 1: asked them what they did today, what was. 138 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 2: That, what was their fa They will tell you what. 139 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 1: Was their favorite thing that they did, and they'll pull 140 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: you across the room and they'll show you the book 141 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: corner or wherever they dressed up as a ferry or 142 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 1: They love you being a part of their world. And 143 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: the more you can engage in that space and create 144 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: dialogue around it means that when you come home, you 145 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 1: can continue that dialogue at home and continue to build 146 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: excitement around what might happen tomorrow. 147 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 2: I really like this, and it's something that I didn't 148 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 2: do well when our kids were young, usually because I 149 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 2: always felt like I was in a rush. So I'd 150 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 2: get to the pickup and I would walk in and 151 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 2: I'd sign the book, and I'd say, all right, let's go, 152 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 2: because we've got to get your bag, and we've got 153 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 2: to get your shoes and all your stuff, pick up 154 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 2: your drink bottle, whatever, and we've got to get in 155 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 2: the car. We've got to get home because we've got 156 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 2: to get to swimm lessons. We've got to do this, 157 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 2: We've got to do that. It always felt like it 158 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: was a hassle. And what you're saying is slow this down. 159 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,039 Speaker 2: When you walk in there, sit down on the floor 160 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 2: and say, show me what you did, Tell me what 161 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 2: you did. Make it so that you're comfortable there. You're 162 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 2: not rushing to get out. It's actually a nice place 163 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 2: to be because as they see that comfort and they 164 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 2: get to explore the environment with you and show you 165 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 2: their capability and competence in that environment, they're going to 166 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 2: want to be there more. That's what I'm hearing. Definitely, 167 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 2: that's what I'm layering into what you've just said. I 168 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 2: might be putting more words in your mouth than you 169 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 2: spat out at me, but that's kind of where I 170 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 2: see this going. When you say develop dialogue as well, 171 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 2: I think about that advice that we gave last week 172 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 2: with big kids, where you say, hey, what are you 173 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 2: looking forward to at school today? Surely this has got 174 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 2: to be part of it as well. 175 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 1: There's real power in helping our kids look forward to tomorrow. 176 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 2: Optimism and hope predictors of well being and definitely something 177 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 2: that's going to reduce children's anxiety and difficulty around this. 178 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 2: So we're validating, we're developing dialogue with the kids, and 179 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 2: we're also making sure those structures are good. The third 180 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 2: thing that you said is one that I got really 181 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 2: excited about when you said it. It makes so much sense. 182 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 2: You mentioned building partnerships. 183 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: This is really important for your children. They need to 184 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: see you having a good relationship with the people you're 185 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 1: leaving them with, and just like it's important for you 186 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: to spend time with them in the afternoon so you 187 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: can be a part of their day, starting the day 188 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: off as calmly as possible and allowing yourself as much 189 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: margin as you can within your own framework to be there, 190 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: have a chat with a caregiver in the room, and 191 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:35,559 Speaker 1: just do that beautiful handover. 192 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,319 Speaker 2: I'm feeling even more guilty now because I just mentioned 193 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 2: I would walk in, grab the kids, and walk out. 194 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 2: In all honesty, I didn't even know the names of 195 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 2: the people who were looking after our children in various 196 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 2: daycare scenarios. More often than not, I did know some 197 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 2: of them. I'm not completely oblivious, but I really didn't 198 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 2: know most of them. You were the one that had 199 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 2: the relationships. You did most of it because I was 200 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 2: traveling a lot, but I would literally be just in 201 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:01,959 Speaker 2: transaction high, how'd she go? Great? See you later. What 202 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 2: you're saying again is by slowing down and creating that relationship. 203 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 2: I guess when you do that, you get to find 204 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 2: out how well they know your child. But you can 205 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 2: have important conversations like things aren't going so well or 206 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 2: what support can we give each other? Because this is 207 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:18,719 Speaker 2: a little bit tricky the relationship. 208 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: Mornings are usually really hard in any daycare center, mornings 209 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: can be really tricky to connect with the caregiver, which 210 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 1: is why the afternoons really matter. Most people aren't picking 211 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,319 Speaker 1: up at exactly the same time where often there's a 212 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: rush hour and the morning for drop off, so you 213 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 1: might not be able to have the kinds of conversation, 214 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: in depth conversations that you'd like to be having with 215 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: your caregiver in the mornings. But that's why either end 216 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: is so important. Helping your children to see that relationship 217 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: and being able to hand over in such a way 218 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 1: that they feel equipped to deal with the challenges that 219 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: your child might be experiencing in that day. 220 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 2: If you know anybody whose kids are struggling with daycare, 221 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 2: make sure you pass this podcast along, Hopefully it'll be helpful. 222 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 2: Three things we want to what was it? Set up structures, 223 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 2: develop dialogue, build partnerships. Dripping kids off at daycare is 224 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 2: a necessary reality for a whole lot of people. If 225 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 2: we do it well, it gives parents respite, It places 226 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 2: kids in potentially really enriching environments with great people who 227 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 2: are caring for them. But things are going to work 228 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 2: out best if we can spend time with our munchkins 229 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 2: talking positively about the experience and discussing their joyful moments 230 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 2: and reviewing their activities and helping them build that excitement 231 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:34,439 Speaker 2: for what's coming next. If there's distress, make sure that 232 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 2: you evaluate whether the childcare center is a good match 233 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 2: for your child and have ongoing communication with educators and 234 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 2: implement strategies so that you can help them to positively 235 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 2: adjust over time. Fingers crossed. This will help if there's 236 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 2: been daycare dramas. The Happy Families podcast is produced by 237 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 2: Justin Ruland from Bridge Media. 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