1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: When would you that bite sized Why beautiful fiance could 2 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:09,120 Speaker 1: go into labor at any moment. So life right now 3 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 1: is really interesting, and I'll give you a perfect example. 4 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: I booked quite a nice restaurant on Saturday night. Yes, 5 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: I'm still a tight ass. It was a voucher. Don't worry, 6 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: I'm staying through to myself, but I had a voucher. 7 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: Sl let's go out for a really nice restaurant because 8 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,799 Speaker 1: I'm sort of thinking as well, when the baby comes, 9 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: this will be harder to do. So let's try and 10 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: go to dinner as much as possible. But when I'm 11 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: sitting there at dinner and I've just ordered probably the 12 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 1: most expensive pizza I've ever ordered in my life, all 13 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: I could think about. 14 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: Was you, you better not go into labor before before 15 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 2: I look guilty. 16 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: I know that's an awful thing to think, but all 17 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: I could think about was this would be. 18 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 3: A terrible time because you miss out on your pizza. 19 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: I won't get my pizza. You could go to take away, 20 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 2: I wouldn't. 21 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: I wouldn't look like a good fiance or good partner 22 00:00:58,400 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: if I'm going. Okay, I get that you're going too, 23 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: but guys, can. 24 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 2: We just hurry up with the pizza. I want to 25 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: snack during labor. 26 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 3: I don't think who's not an immediate thing either. Well, 27 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 3: I think some labor, I mean, they can take a 28 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 3: very long time. 29 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 1: So if you were in that scenario, then would you 30 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: so him goes into labor, my pizza's on the way. 31 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 2: Do you think it's okay for me to go? 32 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: Babe? 33 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 2: Labor is a really long time. 34 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:24,479 Speaker 3: It depends. 35 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 2: Let's enjoy the meal. 36 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 3: I'm not saying labor is a long time in general. 37 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 3: I'm saying like they can be. So you'd be rolling 38 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 3: the dice with the birth of your first child. That's 39 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 3: up to you. Do you choose a pizza over the 40 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 3: birth of your first kid? Probably not? 41 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 2: Probably not. 42 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: Here's another example though, from my weekend that's just gone. 43 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: We went and saw a movie. 44 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 2: Now I'm halfway through a film taking Mimi with you 45 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 2: to these. 46 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: Things because we're because we're really wanting to try and 47 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: do things together, like all these dates and stuff. So 48 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: every night or every possibility we've got where we're trying 49 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: to do things in the in the parameter of something 50 00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: she can get through while pregnant. So we're not doing 51 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: physics demanding things, but going out to dinner and going 52 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: to movies. 53 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 2: We're trying to do a lot. So we're going together 54 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 2: and doing these things. 55 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: But I said to him before the movie started, and 56 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 1: I was quite invested. If you go into labor halfway 57 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 1: through the film. 58 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 2: Are we finishing the movie? 59 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 4: Yeah? 60 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: Oh, because you know, we're invested in the characters, we're 61 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:22,399 Speaker 1: invested in the story. 62 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 3: That's a dumb question, wasn't it. 63 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, she ignored me for the entire night. 64 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,239 Speaker 1: But thirty one six five years and I'm sure a 65 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: lot of people can relate to this. What were you 66 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,959 Speaker 1: in the middle of when the baby decided to come? 67 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: So you just had to put that thing down? 68 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, but now you're selfish if you're thinking about that 69 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 3: all the time. 70 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: We can we can ask that follow up question, Victoria, 71 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: what was your husband in the middle of when the 72 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:47,839 Speaker 1: baby decided to come? 73 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 4: He was actually in the middle of playing his cricket 74 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 4: Grand Final. Went into labor on the Saturday while he 75 00:02:56,360 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 4: was actually on the field, he was batting, phoned up 76 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 4: my father in law. 77 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 2: Who he's out there? 78 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 3: What's on? 79 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 2: What's on? 80 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 4: I actually, actually I don't remember the score, to be honest. 81 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 4: He did Okay, my father in law was on answering 82 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 4: the phone duty and just ignored the phone call. 83 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 3: He might have been on a run, he might have 84 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 3: just started the bat. 85 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 4: So finally when they came off the tea break, he 86 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 4: got my phone call and came and joined me. And 87 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 4: then the game was a two day game. So the 88 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 4: baby was born in the middle of the night Saturday night, 89 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 4: and he went back to finish the Grand Final on 90 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 4: the Sunday. 91 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: And they won. 92 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 3: So he retired at tea. I assumed Victoria. 93 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I think he actually just went out before 94 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 4: tea breaks. 95 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 2: Way, if he was still in the cool Victor and 96 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 2: found out the news at tea, yeah, if he was 97 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 2: still so much harder. 98 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 3: Because I was going to ask you, because you know, 99 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 3: there was a in the AFL Grand Final this year. 100 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 3: I know there were certain people that pulled out, even 101 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 3: even preliminary final. There was there was someone that pulled 102 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 3: out because the birth of their child. Would you pull 103 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 3: out of a preliminary final, an AFL preliminary final if 104 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 3: the baby, Yeah, yeah, you do. 105 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 2: You have to. I didn't go to a Bucks on 106 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 2: the weekend because winking six five. 107 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 3: What was left unfinished because the baby came along, What 108 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 3: were you in the middle of? What did it interrupt? 109 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 3: And thirty one and six five? What was left unfinished 110 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 3: when the baby came? 111 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, what were you in the middle of? 112 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: Because I'm in the situation now where the baby could 113 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: literally come at any moment. I think it's one of 114 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: the beautiful things about having a baby that it is 115 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 1: just totally random as to when it comes. 116 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 2: But the issue with that is, you know, I mean, 117 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 2: what if I'm what. 118 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 3: If well, well, on the weekend you went riding in 119 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 3: the middle of the bush on your mountain bike. 120 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 2: Wasn't going to bring this and you were unreachable. It 121 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 2: wasn't going to bring this up because you look like 122 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 2: a bad partner. 123 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: But yeah, I went for a little bit of a 124 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 1: bush bash on the bike and I tend to get 125 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: a little bit carried away in there, and yeah, one 126 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: point I got lost in the bush and I had 127 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: the moment where I was like, I shouldn't be doing 128 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:17,679 Speaker 1: this now, and b if I get a phone call now, yeah, 129 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 1: I'm up against it. 130 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:21,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, but we also discussed in the song that you 131 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 3: know that pizza you would have got takeaway? 132 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 2: No, No, I didn't say that. 133 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: I didn't say that, but I think calmness in that 134 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: scenario is important. And I was also at a restaurant 135 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: on the weekend and was worried about not getting my pizza. 136 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 1: If my partner into labor, yeah, I think stopping for 137 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 1: a doggie bag, well, I don't think. 138 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 3: I think the hospital would want that as well, because 139 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:43,039 Speaker 3: if everyone just rocks up, who immediately gets into labor, well, 140 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 3: like sweet, well doesn't mate. 141 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 5: You're in labor. 142 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 3: I've got five other people here in labor. You're in 143 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: the earliest stage. Have fun sitting in the waiting room 144 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 3: for the next five hours before things advance, which was 145 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 3: what happens to a lot of people just get sent home. 146 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 3: They just go we haven't got room in the waiting room. 147 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 1: But I should probably be, you know, doing things like 148 00:05:57,760 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: massage in my partner rather than eating a doggy bag 149 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: pizza in that scenario, potentially, Yeah, let's go to Sandra 150 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 1: here on thirty one or six five. 151 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: Sandra, what were you in the middle of when the 152 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 2: baby came. 153 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 6: It wasn't me at the time. 154 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,919 Speaker 4: I was a beauty therapist in my first business, and 155 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 4: I was eighteen of young and I and I. 156 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 6: Was waxing a lady who was almost. 157 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 1: Nine months pregnant. 158 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 4: Oh wow, and I was giving her a Persilian wax. 159 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 3: Oh oh god, a rogue heads on the few rugue 160 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 3: heads on the strip. You actually ended up just getting 161 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 3: a baby on it. 162 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 2: Did you wax the baby's head? I had like a 163 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 2: reverse mowk. 164 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 6: I was worried about that, but now she said, cheap 165 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 6: on going. I need to have it all waxed before 166 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 6: I go to the hospital. 167 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: Of course, funny say that, Sandra, and I think my 168 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: partner would be okay with me saying this. But one 169 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 1: thing she says when she goes into labor, she said, 170 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: remind me to clean up down there because that'd be 171 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: much easier for fluids et cetera that are going on. 172 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 2: It's really important to get down there in shave. 173 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: So right, yeah, yeah, absolutely. I mean everyone's going to 174 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: different preference. But on my on my notes of the birthplan, 175 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,239 Speaker 1: y yeah, said. 176 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 3: No, yeah, that's only a noo there image all right, sure, 177 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 3: and I think everyone's got image well. 178 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 2: The rund does, right, Hi sure yeah, sure, Hi yeah 179 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 2: Hi Sean. What were you in the middle of mate 180 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:18,239 Speaker 2: when the baby came? 181 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 5: My son's twenty two and he was born on the 182 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 5: sixteenth of September two thousand, which is the first nights 183 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 5: of the Sydney Olympics, and I just settled down to 184 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 5: watch and she said she's gone into labor. And I said, 185 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 5: are you're serious? And she she said, I'm very, very serious. 186 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 5: And we left for the hospital and I said, can 187 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 5: I just nip in and get some KFC, because I 188 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 5: thought i'd, you know, watch have snacks and has some food. 189 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 5: And then she let me go into the KFC and 190 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 5: she had a piece and she subsequently threw it all 191 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 5: up while she's giving birth. And I'll never forget that. 192 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 2: Bloody hell. 193 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so the take home is, don't stop for driving 194 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 1: through a KFC on the way to the hospital. 195 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 2: If my partner's in labor, fair call Sean. I think 196 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 2: I already knew that. Let's go to Brendan. Here Brendan 197 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 2: the two thousand Olympics had to do with that, but 198 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 2: we it's obviously a bit of context. Olympics buff ceremony. 199 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 2: Didn't want to miss the sad down Brendan. Your wife 200 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 2: was in the middle of something when you were into labor. 201 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, good day fellas. Yeah, funnily enough, me, missus was 202 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 6: two weeks out from given birth and she decided to 203 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 6: go on a holiday up the talk key and the yeah, 204 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:37,439 Speaker 6: I told her not too, And long story short, her 205 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 6: and her cousin decided to go into a hot dog 206 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 6: shop and she started to chow down on a hot dog, 207 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 6: went to take one bite and her water broke in 208 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 6: the middle of the hot dog store. Oh straight, Yeah, 209 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 6: it was a funny turn of events because like they 210 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 6: ended up chucking her in the car with this bloody 211 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 6: hot dog, rushed her all the way back down to 212 00:08:56,760 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 6: Melbourne with the hot dog, and then thirty nine hours later, 213 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 6: after our daughter was born on the first of the 214 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 6: first twenty seventeen, she wanted the bloody hot dogs. 215 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 2: Hear more of the boys on the full podcast. Just 216 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 2: scroll up.