WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Did You Forget The BIG Birthday? 🎂 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:19.800 Pick up Laura, Come on there, Oh it is hi everyone, 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:22.000 Ai Monday. 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:24.560 We are fit, we are fierce, we are strong. Mid 0:00:24.600 --> 0:00:26.720 You're looking particularly fit right now. 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:28.600 You're saying that because I told you just before it 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:30.880 went on that I had an early morning polarates class, 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:32.840 my first early morning polaratees class. 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:33.840 Ever, what's happened? 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:36.280 I feel like you're having a midlife crisis a bit early. 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:37.960 I was actually thinking that when I was on the machine, 0:00:38.000 --> 0:00:40.320 I thought, what does this say about the point in 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:41.960 my life that I'm at, where I'm twenty eight, I'm 0:00:42.000 --> 0:00:43.040 doing polarateis no? 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:45.520 That says you're becoming who you're meant to be. 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:47.640 And I just love that you went on like the 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:49.920 last twelve months, you went on your health kick, but 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:51.880 you've maintained it and this is the new you. 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:54.320 You froth getting up early in exercise, and I love it. 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:56.120 I mean, I think this is the first time you've 0:00:56.120 --> 0:00:58.640 ever gotten up early. Usually as much as you've taken 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:01.200 to the fitness side of things, the waking up side 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:02.600 of things, it's not natural. 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:04.720 It's not for me, It really isn't it. But I 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:07.280 love the early morning polarates. Like early early pilarates worm 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:08.920 gets the bird. 0:01:09.440 --> 0:01:09.800 That's it. 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:12.319 That's it. I think that was on the show last week. 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:14.360 I was mentioning that I thought I was singled out 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:16.520 because they gave me the antibacterial wipe at the end 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:18.440 of the session and they made me wipe down my 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:21.560 bed because it was like a massacre site. No, turns 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:24.760 out everyone gets an antibacterial wipe. She came up to 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:27.120 me today and went, just so you know, Mitch, everyone's 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:27.680 getting a wipe. 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:29.479 Decession, you were the talk. 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:32.520 She was listening. To be fair, though, I did say 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:35.240 everyone gets a wipe, everyone just knows. And you were 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:37.080 a newbie, so that's why she handed you one to 0:01:37.080 --> 0:01:39.440 make sure you didn't feel or how much more embarrassing 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:40.600 would it have been if you walked away and she 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:41.840 had to pull you back into wipe though? 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:44.840 She Oh my, imagine mischief. 0:01:46.040 --> 0:01:46.720 You're a sweat. 0:01:46.800 --> 0:01:47.000 Yeah. 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:49.160 Maybe I had the MS walk this weekend for my 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:50.200 sister Becky. He's got MS. 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:51.600 So we're going to be talking to her talking about 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:52.440 that on the show today. 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:53.360 Yeah, how did that go? 0:01:53.560 --> 0:01:53.960 It was good? 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:55.480 Yeah, we'll filll you and we raised a lot of 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:57.920 money and I we're talking to beck and my sister 0:01:58.040 --> 0:01:59.040 so I think that'll be really fun. 0:01:59.120 --> 0:01:59.880 Yeah, that's coming up. 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:00.360 Now. 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:02.520 You have some big news in your life happening tonight, 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:05.080 brit which we'll discuss in pick Up put Down, which 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:06.559 is how we start the show every Monday. 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:08.680 Biggest thing to happen to me in the last five months, or. 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:11.840 I want to say biggest, that's why I say, or 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:14.040 strongest or hardest. Anyway, let's get into the. 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:20.880 Show that's next. Here at the pickup around Australia. Welcome everyone, pick. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:22.040 Up here, kip down. 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:25.760 It's a Monday stable, pick Up put down. I bring 0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:28.239 the girls the big stories of the weekend, and it's 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:31.400 your job, ladies, to decide whether or not the country 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:33.480 continues the conversation into the week and you pick it 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:35.200 up or you put it down, you snuff it out, 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:36.399 never to be spoken of again. 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:38.840 This is all the water cooler chat that everyone's I mean, 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:40.840 sometimes it is. Sometimes it's stuff that didn't even make 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:41.360 the headlines. 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:41.760 I question. 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:43.959 Yeah, also, don't take our word for it. You can 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:46.240 continue the conversation even if we beat on it. 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:48.119 I wonder if anyone's ever gone to work and gone 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:49.600 I don actually want to talk about that Britain or 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:50.160 put it down. 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:51.919 Well, that's the way you made it sound like we 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:54.240 decide right here whether you can continue the. 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:57.040 Voice anyone believes it. You also say it's the hard 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.239 hitting news, and that's a total lie as well. But anyway, 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:00.000 I told you. 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:02.400 Tracy Grimshaw heard this and said, love what you're. 0:03:02.320 --> 0:03:06.000 Doing Mitch first today, Mit, all right, pick up. 0:03:06.040 --> 0:03:09.680 I'll put down getting proposed to with a ring that 0:03:09.800 --> 0:03:12.320 previously belonged to your partner's X fiance. 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:15.720 What I'd take? 0:03:15.760 --> 0:03:16.720 What I knew you. 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:18.520 I knew you were going to say that. 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:20.399 I knew I would put it down. 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:23.079 Jas Maybe it comes with a bad omen, but I mean, like, look, 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:24.800 if you're real desperate for a ring, you'll take what. 0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:26.720 You can get. A woman's gone viral on TikTok. 0:03:26.800 --> 0:03:28.639 She revealed that her husband proposed to her with a 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:31.760 ring he originally bought and gave it to Nah. 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:32.920 I joke i'd picked her. 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.360 Vote you would be. But you've got a perfectly good 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:37.120 ring there that you can't return. What are you going 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:37.520 to do with it? 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:37.839 Yeah? 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:40.440 But it was chosen with that other fiance in mind, 0:03:40.480 --> 0:03:42.160 like the love they had, and you've. 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:43.680 Picked it because you thought it would suit her. It's 0:03:43.720 --> 0:03:46.120 not enough. Just be like, now just get some more use, 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:47.400 go sell it, exchange it. 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:50.640 Yeah, I imagine, imagine if you were a yellow gold 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:52.880 wearer and this is like a white gold ring. Although, 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:54.520 how do you feel, I'm going, I'm going to take 0:03:54.560 --> 0:03:56.120 it up and not She's got her name engraved in. 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:58.640 It, her birdstone in it. 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:01.120 That's how they figured it out. How would you feel 0:04:01.200 --> 0:04:03.520 if he took that engagement ring and got it melted 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:05.800 down and got it remade, so it's a different model, 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:07.280 it's all the same component. 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:09.200 No, that is fine, But like imagine, I just think 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:10.360 of my sister and her partner. 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:13.640 He got like their coordinates of where they met, so 0:04:13.800 --> 0:04:16.960 cute engraved on the inside because they met overseas. But 0:04:17.040 --> 0:04:18.960 imagine that getting a ring and his coordinates on there, 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:19.360 and they're. 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:19.880 Like what is this from? 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:26.680 And you're like when Nana was buried there, like. 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:26.640 Like trying to think of an excuse to what the 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:30.080 coordinates are gonna lie, you gotta lie, say something about 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:30.720 the stars. 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:33.200 But if Ben is listening, my partner, Ben, I'll take 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:34.760 what I can get. Okay, what's the next one mentioned? 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:38.080 Oh well, spending twelve dollars on a meat pie pick 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:38.640 up the down. 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:43.440 What where's it from? 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:46.599 I was like Cozy lives, Babe. I feel neutral about this. 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:48.200 I know we're supposed to have a pick up or 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:50.000 put down, but I feel like everything's more than twelve 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:52.640 dollars these a I'm okay with it. No, no, but 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:54.520 I think it's just what's happening. 0:04:54.279 --> 0:04:56.440 In the world. Is it a family sized pire, a 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:57.960 normal individuals. 0:04:57.320 --> 0:04:57.839 Stand a pie? 0:04:57.839 --> 0:05:00.160 It's all because a person on Reddit posted peak sure 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:02.680 of a cafe display meat pies twelve bucks per pie. 0:05:02.839 --> 0:05:05.159 They also sold saucage rolls for a hefty eleven dollars. 0:05:05.279 --> 0:05:07.080 It was it's a nice cafe, but it's not like 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:08.800 a high end, you know, hatted cab. 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:09.680 You should be getting to. 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:10.680 Meat pie f like four bucks. 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:10.960 Yeah. 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:12.880 Also, like you know, you can just get a frozen 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:14.760 pie from Woolies and they're very good as well. Why 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:16.240 would you paying twelve dollars? 0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:17.719 And also some of the joy of getting a cheap 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:19.600 meat pies then adding on like a niiniche tart or 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:21.520 a custom tart that's also like three bucks, Like you 0:05:21.520 --> 0:05:22.720 want to stack at a baker. 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:24.000 All of a sudden, you pie and a drink all 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:25.200 of a sudden pie is thirty bucks. 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:28.039 All right, Speaking of pies, Brit, your beautiful boyfriend Ben 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:31.920 arriving today after spending five months up part of we're 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:33.400 picking it up or we're putting it down. 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:36.160 I hope he's picking it up. 0:05:36.760 --> 0:05:38.680 I'm sure it's a kick up for me. I'm sure 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:39.640 everything will be up. 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:42.720 It's like it's Christmas, That's how I feel. I'm so excited. 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:45.400 I haven't seen a partner Ben since January. 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:48.280 We have a shared calendar and BRIT's been like marking down. 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:50.800 We've had like a countdown happening for the past two 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:53.600 and a half away all months, five months that he's 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:55.040 been gone. Yeah, she's very excited. 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:56.000 Well, you also haven't seen Ben. 0:05:56.040 --> 0:05:59.359 He's he's a soccer player for the Celtic in it's Celtic, 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:03.520 not this Celtic for Celtics, for the Celtics. 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:05.520 And he wanted his big competition. Didn't he win the 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:06.039 Grand Final? 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:09.799 They just won yea, like the Scottish Premiership, the Cup 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:12.760 and something else. I don't know the terminology. I'm a 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:15.400 really bad wag. I don't even know the rules yet. 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:17.360 But he won. They won heaps of stuff. 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:18.480 There's a lot to celebrate. 0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:21.400 Yeah, so we're gonna be celebrating for a few weeks 0:06:21.400 --> 0:06:22.360 from I'm super excited. 0:06:22.360 --> 0:06:23.960 I'm sure you guys are going to hear all about. 0:06:23.800 --> 0:06:25.400 It all right next on the show. 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:28.159 I spoke about this a little last week, but my 0:06:28.240 --> 0:06:30.640 family had a really emotional weekend. My sister Becky and 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:33.599 my older sister has MS, and we took part in 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:36.080 the MS Walk Run role and we raised a lot 0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:38.000 of money. We had a great weekend, a really emotional weekend. 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:39.799 So we're going to chat to my sister actually next. 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:42.120 Yeah, we love Becky. 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:45.080 I was talking about this on the show last week. 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:48.880 But me and my entire family, the Zamchury Family, which 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:50.960 is the little team name we came up for, I 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:54.760 took part in the MS Walk Run role, which is 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:57.440 it's kind of like there's many different steps you can do. 0:06:57.440 --> 0:06:59.720 You to a five K, ten K, mini marathon, quarter marathon, 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:01.719 whatever if you want to call it, raising money and 0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:05.159 funds for MS research here in Australia. My sister Becky 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:08.720 has MS, was only diagnosed very recently in the last 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:10.280 six months, also pregnant. 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:10.920 Lot going on. 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:13.000 I just firstly wanted to say thank you to you girls. 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:16.040 End of the pickup listeners. We smashed our goal, We 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:18.440 like tripled our goal of fundraising and racist under ten 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:18.960 thousand dollars. 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:21.000 Well, that's amazing. 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:24.200 You guys should be so proud, really honestly, because what 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:27.040 you're doing raising awareness, raising money. I know we're going 0:07:27.080 --> 0:07:28.880 to speak to Becky more about it, but it's it's Yeah, 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:31.040 you should be really proud, and I'm sure Becky feels 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:31.960 a lot of love. 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:33.640 Yeah, well that's I wanted to get Becky on to 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:35.800 join us because here I am telling her story about 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:38.240 it being diagnosed with THEMS, living with MS, walking and 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:40.080 they run and roll with MS. But I wanted to 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:41.880 bring out of the show, so Becky for the first 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:42.840 time pick up debut. 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:43.679 Welcome to the show. 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:47.640 Hi, Hi Becky, Hello, Hello, how are you guys? 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:49.560 I can't believe this is your debut. I think maybe 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:50.880 because I know you, I feel like. 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:54.440 You've come on well literal family and you know better horror. 0:07:55.080 --> 0:07:58.680 Yeah, Becky, you were diagnosed with MS. What was that 0:07:59.000 --> 0:07:59.640 like for you? 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:01.040 And I say that because I think there's a lot 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:02.920 of people that don't know much about it, But like, 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:06.080 at the time, did you know something was quote unquote wrong? 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:08.120 What led you to be diagnosed. 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:13.000 Yeah, definitely, Like I had a three year battle just 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:15.360 to get diagnosed. So by the time I got diagnosed, 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:18.320 I think I was actually relieved that someone finally believed 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:22.360 something was wrong. Initially I had it was around the 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:24.520 COVID time. I got COVID. I got a vaccine and 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:28.320 then I just like causes some people with immune kind 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:31.440 of responses to flare up, and I started losing my vision. 0:08:32.160 --> 0:08:34.120 I was at work and saw like weird stars, and 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:36.280 I went to the neurologist. I had an mrin and 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:38.400 he was like, look, you just have anxiety, like relaxed, 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:41.480 do some mindfulness come back. So then me and my 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:43.680 husband pretty much fought for like three years because I 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:46.439 was having like severe migraines to the point of losing 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:48.640 vision on the way home from work, like it got 0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:52.240 really bad, fatigue, numbness and pins and needles down my arm. 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:55.480 And then yeah, I pushed and pushed and pushed, and 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:58.360 eventually they did a lumber punk show which actually came 0:08:58.400 --> 0:09:01.679 back negative, which she is like one of the criteria 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:04.959 to diagnose. But the main thing in the NA sound 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:07.200 was I had progression of one lesion over a three 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:09.960 year period, which is very minimal. I'm very lucky a brain. 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:12.840 They were yes, a brain lesion, so I only have 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:16.640 them in my brain, but I had one more legion 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:18.520 in my brain. My neurologist was like, look, I think 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:21.640 it's still anxiety, and I was like, look, I'm getting 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:24.680 a second opinion. Mitch actually put me onto a really 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:27.120 great neurologist who had me with an MS specialist the 0:09:27.120 --> 0:09:30.160 next day. Mitchell and his connections very. 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:32.240 Fun journal everything. 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:35.120 Well, she kept saying exactly, the doctors are saying you 0:09:35.160 --> 0:09:37.520 don't have anything. So I called everyone I knew and 0:09:37.559 --> 0:09:39.439 we got her in and that's when she got a diagnosis. 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:41.920 So this is my question, Becky, you would now have 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:45.000 spoken to other people who have been diagnosed with MS. 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:48.679 Is this something like is this experience of being told oh, 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:50.080 you know, it's not this, or it could be this, 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:52.600 or kind of it being downplayed? Is that a common 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:54.760 experience or is that just something that was unique to you. 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:59.080 Look, I think it's hard because unfortunately it's such a 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:01.560 weird disease at prison in so many different ways. Like 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:03.880 I've met one hundred people with MS and probably five 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:07.160 people have the same symptoms, So I think it presents 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:10.640 so differently. You can either have brain lesions, spine lesions 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:13.760 both and it really it really depends then on what 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:16.360 your symptoms are. But I mean I spoke to a 0:10:16.400 --> 0:10:19.920 lady this morning, just randomly, and then she was telling 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:22.520 me that like her thirteen year old niece or something 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:24.720 that were investigating her for MS and she'd been gas 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:27.320 lit and they told her it was you know, migrains 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:28.960 as well, and I was like, keep pushing, like, go 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.360 see this specialist. You need to get to the bottom 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:34.920 of it, because ultimately, starting any treatment early is the 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:37.960 key to not well. Hopefully if the treatment works for you, 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:40.959 it's not progressing as thick as. 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:43.720 You Yes, yeah, Becky. And I mean for anyone who 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:45.920 doesn't know what MS looks like, and I think that 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:48.760 that would be a great deal of people. What does 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:50.560 that like for you if you were to say, if 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:52.960 those symptoms were to progress, what does life look like 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:53.840 without treatment? 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:57.160 Well, I think it's really like for me personally, and 0:10:57.200 --> 0:10:59.920 I can only speak to me, like my everyday symptoms 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:02.400 is I have really bad static vision in my eyes, 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:04.800 so when I'm in a room, everything white is static 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:08.320 and everything black is static. I have problems like the 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:10.120 lady next to me today at work is wearing a 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:12.120 multi colored shirt and I can't look it up because 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:13.839 I'm like, it's making me feel like I'm going to 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:17.160 pass out, you know, like reading a book. I can't 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:19.280 read a book because I can't see the letters they 0:11:19.280 --> 0:11:22.840 all move. But for other people, like I know a 0:11:22.840 --> 0:11:25.280 girl that woke up one day and couldn't move for legs. 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:29.040 So I think the problem is that it's an invisible 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:31.760 disease and that I can be feeling terrible but still 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:33.520 turn it up to family lunch and put a brave 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:36.480 face on and smile, you know, whereas other people they 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:38.480 can't even you know, they need a wheelchair or they 0:11:38.520 --> 0:11:41.240 need a cane to help them out. I just really 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:43.520 want to spread awareness for it, and there are people 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:46.040 out there that it is a bit too late and 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:49.719 the medication doesn't work for them. I'm like, So, I mean, 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:52.160 the closer we get to research and money for a cure, 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:54.680 and there's some amazing clinical trials going on at the moment, 0:11:55.600 --> 0:12:01.400 the better, Mitch. 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:03.040 You should be so proud of yourself as well for 0:12:03.120 --> 0:12:04.959 raising awareness. I know how much this has affected you 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:06.880 in your family, but you guys are the best. 0:12:06.920 --> 0:12:08.880 Yeah, I mean I've got a brain condition too, and 0:12:08.920 --> 0:12:10.880 I feel like Becky got MS, which is greater than 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:11.560 my brain condition. 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:13.160 I'm like, great, I just have to sit here. I 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:13.880 just get headaches. 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:15.720 And again. 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:18.880 I'm not even bringing attention to my own brain. 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:24.080 Mitch's brain actually comes out the bottom of his a bit. 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:24.800 We can talk about that. 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:28.400 No day, my brain, Becky's brain. 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:31.720 All right, Well, look, speaking of brains, I have something 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:34.240 that I need to admit after this. I forgot a 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:38.760 really really really important event, a really important anniversary, and 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:42.080 I feel horrible about it, and I need you guys 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:43.080 to make me feel little bit better. 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:43.800 Okay, we can do that. 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:46.720 No promise, it's easy. We'll try you mind, double down. 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:52.160 If you have ever forgotten a very important anniversary or 0:12:52.200 --> 0:12:54.880 a birthday or celebration, I want to hear from you 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:58.520 because I feel horrible. 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:00.000 I feel genuinely terrible. 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:02.240 So the other night I'd gotten home from work and 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:05.480 it was a busy day and Matt, he my husband, 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:06.960 he comes up to me and he goes, Laura, I 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:08.600 have something I need to talk to you about. 0:13:09.440 --> 0:13:11.319 And there's really no easy way to say. 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:13.840 This, and I was like, what the Hell's what have 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:15.800 I done to start a call not a good way. 0:13:15.840 --> 0:13:17.720 You know, something bad's coming. And he was like, look, 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:20.720 I know this is gonna upset you, but I need 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:22.600 to let you know something that you've forgot. And I 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:26.120 was like, okay, what's happening anyway again, No, that's more 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:27.559 by choice, though, Britt, that's fine. 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:27.720 No. 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:29.680 So he sits me down. Yeah, he's like, you forgotten 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:30.000 the children? 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:30.400 Where are they? 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:32.400 They're a daycare? No, he sits me down and he goes, 0:13:32.600 --> 0:13:35.040 he goes, look, one of my really good girlfriends, Lauren. 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:36.920 She's one of my best friends. She was a bridesmaid 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:37.480 at my wedding. 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:38.960 And he was like, you know Laurence. 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:41.400 You know Lauren, like so close. We used to live together, 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:44.320 we were housemates. She is genuinely one of my closest friends. 0:13:44.880 --> 0:13:47.920 And she's the first person when say it's like my 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:50.240 birthday or something. She's the one who sends that message 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:52.600 at six am in the morning. She was called by 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:55.680 seven am like she just knows. She's so good, she's 0:13:55.720 --> 0:14:00.239 so reliable. And he was like, it was Lauren's birthday 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:03.080 and I was like, okay, when was it. It was 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:08.679 two weeks ago and it was her fortieth Laura and 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:14.079 I completely forgot, like she's reached out to him. So 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:16.199 my sister, she was on Facebook and we've all like 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:18.520 we're all mutual friends, and my sister saw it. She 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:21.120 just she just saw, you know, when everyone's done, like 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:24.400 the happy birthday wishes on the wall and it's like 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:28.080 fifty seven person, fifty seven people wish Laura's happy birthday, 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:30.560 and Laura wasn't one of her. No, I wasn't there. 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:32.880 How do you make that up to someone, like when 0:14:32.920 --> 0:14:35.680 you've not only forgotten their birthday, you've also actively spoken 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:38.080 to them, like in between. It's not like I haven't 0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:40.400 spoken to her. Have you spoken to her now since yet? 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:42.320 Realized? Because you're talking about it on the air, and 0:14:42.480 --> 0:14:43.840 I hope you've smoothed it over with her. 0:14:43.920 --> 0:14:45.880 No, I did. I called her and then she didn't 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:47.920 answer right away. She'd answer for a day. And so 0:14:47.960 --> 0:14:50.040 then I went to the florest. I bought her a 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:52.080 really big bunch of flowers. But it was a big 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:54.280 bunch of flowers with an iou like, I have to 0:14:54.280 --> 0:14:56.520 take her out for lunch. But here's my kay, here's 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:59.440 where I want to defend myself a little bit, just 0:14:59.480 --> 0:14:59.920 a little bit. 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:02.200 Yes, No, I'm here for the defense. 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:06.840 Okay, who actually remembers anyone's birthday these days and doesn't 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:09.520 go off Facebook? So I'm not on Facebook. I'm quite 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:11.560 bad with it and I've been very busy, haven't logged 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:14.040 on for a while, so the birthday got away from me. 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:17.040 And I think, if you don't have your birthday on Facebook, 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:17.680 you should. 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:18.480 Just expect the people forget. 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:21.840 But I know I genuinely agree with you. 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:22.960 I don't. 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:25.280 I could, but I think it depends on the person, right, Like, 0:15:25.840 --> 0:15:29.240 I genuinely could not care if both of you forgot 0:15:29.240 --> 0:15:30.320 my birthday, could not care. 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:32.040 I would not even blink an eye. 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:38.520