1 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. It's the podcast for the 2 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: time poor parent who just wants answers. 3 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 2: Now I say it all the time, kids spell love t. 4 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: I am And now here's the stars of our show, 5 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 1: my mum and dad. 6 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 2: Hey can I tell you Joe? 7 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 3: Shoot? 8 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 2: Knock? 9 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 4: Yeah? 10 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:22,279 Speaker 2: Hey, no knock jokes? 11 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 5: Don't you who's there? I've done it, I've done up. 12 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 5: Who isn't that a good jokes? 13 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 3: So bad? 14 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 2: It's such such a show. 15 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 3: So juvenile for the kids love it, don't they can? 16 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 4: I This is doctor Justin Coilson on the author of 17 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 4: six books about how to make families happy. Pooh jokes. 18 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 4: Pooh jokes make families happy. Not mums, but everybody else. 19 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,919 Speaker 4: And I'm the founder of Happy Families dot com dot 20 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 4: I you who are you? Who am I? 21 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 2: Well, no, I know who you are, but tell everybody 22 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 2: who you are. 23 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 3: I'm Kylie. 24 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 5: You call me missus Happy Families from time to time. 25 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 5: I don't know how happy I am all the time. 26 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 5: And I'm the mum to our six daughters. 27 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 4: Today is I'll do better tomorrow if you knew to 28 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 4: the podcast. Every Friday we talk about things that we've 29 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 4: learned so that we can parent with better intention tomorrow 30 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 4: so that we can be better parents. I don't know, tomorrow, 31 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 4: next week, next time we get the opportunity to be parents. 32 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:13,119 Speaker 3: In five minutes. 33 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, as soon as the podcast's over and we are 34 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 4: back with the kids again. Do you want to go 35 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 4: first today or you're on me too? 36 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 5: Oh? Look, I have to share a little thing that 37 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 5: happened last weekend. Yeah, Saturday morning is our family clean up. 38 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: We spend some time cleaning up and. 39 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 2: At the moment, don't the kids love it? 40 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 3: By the way, yeah, that's a whole nother story. 41 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:35,199 Speaker 5: But anyway, we've had a lot of rain lately where 42 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 5: we live, and our garden is overgrown with weeds, and 43 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 5: so the last few weekends in particular, we've spent some 44 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 5: time out in the garden. Miss seven burst into our 45 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 5: bedroom at six am. I wasn't even oh I probably 46 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 5: was awake, only just, but I was still on my bed, 47 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 5: and she. 48 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 6: Said, Mummy, mommy, have I missed weeding? 49 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: It's like, no, not at six o'clock in the morning. 50 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 5: Yea, And she said, oh, few, that's my favorite. 51 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 2: Wow. 52 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 3: At least one of us likes weeding. 53 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, we love to get into the garden. And weed. 54 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 4: I think I'm going to have to buy some spray. 55 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 4: I know that's bad for the environment, bad for everything, 56 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 4: but I'm sick of spending my Saturday mornings weeding we had. 57 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 2: I'm going to go with older better tomorrow. 58 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 4: First, I had just another reminder of how sometimes just 59 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 4: getting out one on one with the kids is hugely, 60 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 4: hugely important. So one of the kids had a birthday 61 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 4: just the other day. She turned eleven, very excited that 62 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 4: she's not a teenager and not a teenager anymore, but 63 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 4: she was having a kind of a so so day. 64 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 2: I had stacks on. 65 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 4: As much as I wanted to be fully available for 66 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:44,799 Speaker 4: her her, it just wasn't going to happen. 67 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 2: You were flooded. 68 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 4: With more to do than was possible. And it's one 69 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:51,839 Speaker 4: of those things, right, this is the reality of life. 70 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 4: We're supposed to be available and attentive to our children. 71 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 4: We're supposed to well you and I I'm like, you know, 72 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 4: I'm the expert. We're supposed to absolutely get this right. 73 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 4: And it just was working out for her. So she 74 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 4: came to me miserable, and I was so grateful that 75 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 4: she did and that she could put her arms around 76 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 4: me and explain what was going on. And I said, okay, 77 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 4: well after dinner, what about if I take you out? 78 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 4: So he jumped in the car. I said, where do 79 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 4: you want to go? She said, let's go get some 80 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 4: ice cream. I said, okay, ice cream it is. We 81 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 4: went to Cold Rock ice Creamery. And because I'm a 82 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 4: bit stingy, I really don't like going to these ice 83 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 4: cream shops where you kind of pay about eight bucks 84 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 4: for a scoop of ice cream. 85 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 2: Even if you. 86 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:27,519 Speaker 3: Can get a leader of ice cream. 87 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 4: For that, that's right, you can too, of the high 88 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 4: quality stuff. You can go and get the very best 89 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 4: ice cream for about eight dollars for a Leader. And 90 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 4: here I am getting a scoop with a few mix ins, 91 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 4: and so we've walked in. 92 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 2: I ordered, actually, let me tell you. 93 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 4: I ordered lemon sawbet with a raphae yellow white chocolate 94 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 4: mixed into it and some passion fruit. 95 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 2: It was amazing. 96 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 3: She ordered this sounds like all of your favorite things, 97 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 3: Yes into it a little car. 98 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 2: I was in heaven. Anyway. 99 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 4: She ordered this bubblegum ice cream with all the sour 100 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 4: and herds and all that sort of stuff. She asked 101 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 4: so she could try mine. I'm like, ah, it's lemon sawbet, 102 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 4: She's not gonna like that. She had one bite and 103 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 4: her eyes looked up and she's like, oh, can I 104 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 4: have yours? No, So I had to share my ice 105 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 4: cream with her. I gave her about half of my 106 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 4: lemon saw babes her birthday. 107 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: It was her birthday. 108 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 3: I'm guessing you didn't eat the rainbow and nerds. 109 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: No. 110 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:22,919 Speaker 2: Then I ate half of hers. 111 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 4: But what was so cool about it is there was 112 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 4: just this beautiful genuineness. There was this sharing, and it 113 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 4: reminded me again of love these kids so much. And 114 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 4: it reminded me again of why it's so important that 115 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 4: we had that one on one time. I say it 116 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 4: all the time, kids spelled love t im e dollars 117 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 4: of the currency of our economy. Connection is the currency 118 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 4: of our relationships. I walked out of her and thought, 119 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 4: I really hated spending. I think it was seventeen bucks 120 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 4: for two ice creams, Like I. 121 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 2: Just killed me. I was like, no, who does this? 122 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:00,039 Speaker 4: And yet I reckon if it cost me seventeen b 123 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 4: a week to have an experience like that once a 124 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 4: week with each of the kids, I'd do it. I'd 125 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 4: have to work out a lot harder in the gym 126 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 4: to get over it, but I would do it. That's 127 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 4: such a small price to pay for such beautiful connection. 128 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 4: Don't need to have ice cream to make the connection, 129 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 4: but just a really beautiful experience made me grateful for 130 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 4: the kids, made me grateful to be a parent, and 131 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 4: I thought, yeap. Next week, I've got to make sure 132 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 4: that I do this with one of the other kids 133 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 4: as well. 134 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 2: It's special. 135 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 5: Maybe this time you might go and do something active 136 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 5: instead of scoffing down some ice cream. 137 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 2: Maybe we can do both. Let's find out about your 138 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:32,600 Speaker 2: I'll do better Tomorrow. 139 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:37,359 Speaker 1: Next, it's the Happy Famili's podcast for a happier family. 140 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 5: Try a Happy Families membership, because a happy family doesn't 141 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:41,919 Speaker 5: just happen. 142 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 2: Details at happy families dot com dot au. 143 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 5: It's the Happy Families podcast, the podcast for a time 144 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 5: poor parent who just wants answers now. And today we 145 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 5: are talking about reflections on our week. 146 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 3: I'll do better tomorrow. 147 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 4: How can we be better parents and learn from what's 148 00:05:58,120 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 4: happened this week so that we can do more of 149 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 4: the good st or less of the bad stuff. I've 150 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:03,720 Speaker 4: shared mine, what's yours? 151 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 5: Look, it's no secret I am one of those parents 152 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 5: who often will just do everything myself because it's just easier. 153 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 5: I don't have to go back and repeat what the 154 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 5: kids have done because they haven't done a. 155 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 6: Good enough job right. And then I'm left feeling. 156 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 5: Frustrated because there's not enough hours in the day to 157 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 5: do it all, not even close. And so the other 158 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 5: day I was feeling a little bit swamped. It was 159 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 5: during school holidays, and there was a lot to do. 160 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 5: There's a lot of bodies in the house, and so 161 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 5: the house was just not up to scratch. But I 162 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 5: had an appointment that I had to go to, which 163 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 5: meant that the kids, if I left them to their 164 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 5: own devices, would literally be on devices. And so I 165 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 5: said to them, girls, today is a bit of a 166 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 5: cleaning up day, and unfortunately I have an appointment to 167 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 5: go to. But I've written a list of all the 168 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,039 Speaker 5: things that need to be done, and I would just 169 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 5: love it if while I'm gone, you work on that list. 170 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:57,039 Speaker 5: So I didn't hand out any assignments. There was just 171 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 5: a list to be done. I was actually really blown 172 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 5: away I came home. Not only was their absolute peace 173 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 5: in the house. I couldn't believe they were all engaged 174 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 5: in doing a job. 175 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 2: Wow. 176 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 3: Wow, they were all engaged. 177 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 5: And when I asked our seven year old whether or 178 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 5: not she'd been helpful, fully expecting that she would have 179 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 5: just done her own thing, gone off and played in 180 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 5: the garden, she said, no, I've been helping Annie. So 181 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 5: Annie had been taking her around and actually helping her 182 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 5: do jobs as part of the process. 183 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 3: My list had gone. 184 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 5: They'd probably done about a third of the things off 185 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 5: the list, and I was just really proud of them. 186 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 4: So what's the take home message? Go out more and 187 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 4: leave the kids in charge? Is that what you're saying, 188 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 4: because that's a bit. 189 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 2: Of a one off. I don't remember that happening before. 190 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 5: No, it doesn't happen very often at all. What it 191 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 5: allowed me to reflect on is the fact that if 192 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 5: we don't give our children opportunities to surprise us, they 193 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 5: never will. 194 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 2: Ah beautiful. 195 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 4: And the other thing that I take from that is 196 00:07:58,160 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 4: that it does get easier for any parents who are 197 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 4: li and your parents have little kids and you're thinking, 198 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 4: oh my goodness, this is just driving me in, say 199 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 4: one of the kids to do anything. They actually start 200 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 4: to when you give them those opportunities, particularly as they 201 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 4: get older. We really hope that you've enjoyed the Happy 202 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 4: Families podcast. Before we wrap things up, a really important reminder. 203 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 4: This Sunday is Anzac Day, and it's a day that 204 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 4: matters because we get to remember the sacrifice of those 205 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 4: who have given their lives or given their lives in service, 206 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 4: even if they haven't died from their service, so that 207 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 4: we can live in the free, safe, prosperous country that 208 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 4: we enjoy. 209 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:39,439 Speaker 6: You know, as I've got an older, Anzac Day has 210 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 6: become more meaningful as I've come to understand the sacrifice 211 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 6: that these men and women gave so that we could 212 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 6: have the freedoms that we experience. 213 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 3: And it never hit. 214 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 5: Me as hard as it did the year I lost 215 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 5: my grandfather. My grandfather was actually captured by the Japanese 216 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 5: and was in self isolation for three years during World 217 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 5: War Two, and as a result, he was left a 218 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 5: really wounded person. He never talked about the war Outside 219 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 5: of that, I don't know much about his experiences, but 220 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 5: I remembered going to that first Anzac parade following his 221 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 5: passing and just being so overwhelmed at all that he 222 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 5: had lost and as a result, I had lost, as 223 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 5: his granddaughter and not really knowing who he really was 224 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 5: because he just retreated into himself. And so Anzac has 225 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 5: become a really important part of my family story as 226 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 5: each year I reflect on the sacrifice that he gave specifically, 227 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 5: but I guess across the board. 228 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, and when you look at that sacrifice and the 229 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 4: cost that it took his life, but also your parents 230 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 4: and now you the way that those relationships have been affected, 231 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 4: and then you multiply that across every family, every individual 232 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 4: that's been affected by these terrible wars, it gives you 233 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 4: some sense of just how incalculable the cost of war is. 234 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 4: My favorite Anzac Day ever was twenty twenty during the 235 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 4: COVID lockdown. We walked to the botto of our driveway 236 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 4: with lit the candle. We listened to the last posts 237 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 4: as we watched up and down the street, other families 238 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 4: doing the same as the sun came up. 239 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 2: It was a really I would call it a sacred experience. 240 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 4: So we hope that this weekend you and your family 241 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 4: have the opportunity to remember them, lest we forget. The 242 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:34,439 Speaker 4: Happy Family's podcast is produced by Justin Ruland from Bridge Media. 243 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 2: Craig Bruce is our executive producer. 244 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 4: If you'd like more information about how you can make 245 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 4: your family happier, you can find it at happy families 246 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 4: dot com dot au