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Speaker 1: All right, welcome to the podcast.

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Speaker 2: This is a tough question, but I've been told that

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Speaker 2: I have to take the first question that I pull

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Speaker 2: out of the box. We've got a question box now, guys,

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Speaker 2: if you get the question, if you write a question,

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Speaker 2: send it in, goes in the question box.

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Speaker 1: We answer the question.

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Speaker 3: Where do they go to write in?

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Speaker 1: DMS?

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Speaker 3: Instagram?

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Speaker 1: Tom, send an email?

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Speaker 3: No, don't email? You can, no, but don't. We won't.

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Speaker 3: We won't want the email, William, what do.

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Speaker 2: You at gmail dot com? No?

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Speaker 3: I think there's another one. Don't email, don't emails, DMS,

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Speaker 3: direct messages on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: And if we're smart, we've edited out what our email

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Speaker 2: is now Woods Yes, oh really, no, No, it's fine.

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Speaker 1: You can leave it in there. I don't really give

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Speaker 1: a shit.

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Speaker 2: And to be honest, there's no one the need it's

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Speaker 2: this anyway, So we're cooked and.

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Speaker 3: No one checks the email. I certainly don't.

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Speaker 1: Know that's the point.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did we just do that deliberately? So fuddy, yes,

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Speaker 2: stay with me. Here's the question. What's the shallowest reason

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Speaker 2: you've dated someone?

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Speaker 3: The shallowest?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, so.

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Speaker 3: Would the answer there would the answer there be though,

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Speaker 3: if you've ever dated someone because of their looks. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think so, okay, yeah, well I would. I would

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Speaker 3: say so when I was and I know this is

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Speaker 3: a bit of a cop, had to say that it

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Speaker 3: was when I was younger, fifteen, sixteen. This actually, this

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Speaker 3: is actually the girl that I lost my virginity with.

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Speaker 1: Yeap, you thought you did well.

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Speaker 3: I ended up actually the first time though, Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: wasn't actually doing it was just between the legs, as

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Speaker 3: in like I was not I was rubbing between her

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Speaker 3: thighs and I was yeah, so shatic. So I was

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Speaker 3: so disappointed. I was like, I just don't think sex

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Speaker 1: Think about nervous feed you. That's the best bit.

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Speaker 2: That's what I love that story. The chat that she

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Speaker 2: had with her friends, the best conversation you ever had

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Speaker 2: in a life.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't even to think about it. That's awesome.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to think about it.

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Speaker 2: She just hadn't it right?

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Speaker 3: The Greeks, Yeah, the ancient Greeks. Yeah, I used to

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Speaker 3: have sex between the thighs.

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Speaker 4: The floss was and the young boys yeah, oh.

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Speaker 3: Wow, So yeah, I if I'm hand to heart and

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to say their name, but hand.

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Speaker 2: To heart, the last reason you dated someone.

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Speaker 3: I thought she looked like Lara Croft.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that is so deliciously specific, and I love.

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Speaker 1: That you're getting into specific.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, you dated it because she looked like.

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Speaker 3: So because I was into the PlayStation game. I was

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Speaker 3: like a big fan of the Lara Croft PlayStation game.

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Speaker 3: And then I was like, I've met this the day that.

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Speaker 2: You liked her or you realize that you liked her?

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Speaker 2: Was she or was she not wearing a crop top

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Speaker 3: No, No, she wasn't.

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Speaker 2: She wasn't dilatin. Did you have a singular platte?

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Speaker 1: It might have been? And or was she dual wielding pistols?

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Speaker 3: She had no guns. She had the rope over her shoulder,

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Speaker 2: But she would have had a platinum hair. Sure, if

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Speaker 3: It was just but it wasn't necessary. It wasn't the

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Speaker 3: It was just like she looked like Lara Croft.

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Speaker 1: Was Lara Croft? That's xy she was for me?

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Speaker 2: A silly question for me, easily question again.

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Speaker 3: I'm playing as a as a as a boy, I

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Speaker 3: would play for hours Lara Croft this PlayStation game and

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Speaker 3: I'm physically like I'm controlling with a remote here the

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Speaker 2: I'm controlling with the remote, the Perfect Woman, shooting people

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Speaker 3: Well can't like you know, it's creeping on that anyway. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Angelia Jolly does play her in the movie.

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Speaker 3: Yes, so I wasn't dading Angelina Jolie by the way,

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Speaker 3: one of her parents was from England.

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Speaker 1: And Lara Croft is from England.

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Speaker 3: Right, she's got an English accent?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Did you have an English accent in the video game?

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Speaker 3: And I have distinct memories of saying to the girl

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Speaker 1: Because role play when you were fifteen. No, we went.

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Speaker 3: She didn't know she was being Lara Croft.

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Speaker 2: I was just like for you you'd be like, can

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Speaker 3: Well, I'd say, because so one of her parents would

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Speaker 3: in England, right, so she had she she had it.

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Speaker 3: And sometimes and then I have to talk to this

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Speaker 3: actually why not? Yeah, I'm sure she'd be fine with it.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to think the last time I interacted again

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Speaker 3: I had primary school girlfriends.

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Speaker 2: As in someone who's hand your held during lunchtime.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't think many people count then, but yeah, carry.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I could probably probably, I could.

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Speaker 2: Probably buddy you get her details.

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Speaker 1: I would love to talk to her.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't. I wouldn want to ambush her, So I'd

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Speaker 2: Like, hey, you don't want ambush anyone on this show.

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Speaker 3: Now, Okay, I you ambushed Tina Arena. Let's be honest.

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Speaker 3: Who sorry, low blow, but but yeah, I go, I'll

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Speaker 3: reach out to her anyway. What's the shallowest reason you are.

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Speaker 2: So quite specifically, the shallowest reason you dated her was

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Speaker 3: Croft Guards early on. I can remember as a fifteen

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Speaker 3: that I'm I'm just now infatuated by.

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Speaker 2: I'm finally hard to wrap my head around this question,

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Speaker 2: because the shallow reason that you date someone is like,

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Speaker 2: I feel like that doesn't the word shallow just imply

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Speaker 2: that if you're talking about their looks, that's what that's

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Speaker 2: because it's like it's it's only you're looking at them.

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Speaker 1: You're not looking at the depth in them.

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Speaker 2: You're just looking at the surface level stuff, which is

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Speaker 2: the shallows, which is their appearance.

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Speaker 3: A shallow reason could be that they're asking for specific

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Speaker 1: Know, do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: But you can also a shallow reason would be for money.

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Speaker 3: I'd say, so if you shallow because of the car

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Speaker 3: they drove, the job they had, were a celebrity.

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Speaker 4: I once overseas when I was backpacking, I slept with

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Speaker 2: That's pretty shallow, but that's also, I mean that's I'd

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Speaker 2: almost call that is clever. And I well, the story

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Speaker 2: I was literally going to bring up, Tom, thank you,

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Speaker 2: was I was in a Yeah, I was. I was

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Speaker 2: I ended up looking up with an Irish merchant banker.

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Speaker 3: Didn't you go to a rave that was also in

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Speaker 3: a you must if you must know sho. Didn't you

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Speaker 2: It was a rave in a in a public heated bar?

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Speaker 3: Dance in the water. You're dancing in water, that's.

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Speaker 2: The idea raven a bath man, I mean, not.

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Speaker 2: But they're huge barths, by the way, so they're like

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Speaker 1: Now it was really hot cool. She was like, do

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Speaker 2: And I was like, no, it's fine, just like I

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. I was like, incredible.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're obviously getting the champagne and strawberries. And she's

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Speaker 2: she was like, why the strawberries, And I was like,

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Speaker 2: because it brings out the flavor in the champagne, which

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Speaker 2: the movie hot bit anyway, stayed the night there anyway, anyway,

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Speaker 2: that's what he says in the movie.

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Speaker 1: She's like, why do you get the.

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Speaker 2: So But my question is what I find really interesting

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Speaker 2: about this question is shallow reason to date someone. I mean,

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Speaker 2: if we're all honest, I feel like hooking up with

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Speaker 2: someone for a night is largely based on pretty shallow pretenses.

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Speaker 3: How can how can you possibly call that deep reason.

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Speaker 2: Unless, in fact, if we're just going to go and

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Speaker 2: sleep with someone, like there's only so much information you

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Speaker 2: can get, it is shallow by the very nature of

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Speaker 2: the hookup. It's like, I find you attractive, that's why

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Speaker 2: So we're going to get this done because it's satisfying

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Speaker 2: that urge. I think the question is having we're talking

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Speaker 3: It's going from hookup to I've decided to now date

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Speaker 3: this person, which which again I think is a totally

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Speaker 2: Totally totally different, and everyone's done that. Everyone's gone, geez,

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Speaker 2: she looks like everyone god with that girl rated to him? Well, no,

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Speaker 2: everyone's everyone right now is thinking about the person that

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Speaker 2: they hooked up with, who was the semi doppleganger for someone,

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Speaker 2: and they refer to that person as I hooked up

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Speaker 2: with that person that looked like Ryan Gosling.

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Speaker 1: Everyone a good one, have a good phone radio show? Actually,

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Speaker 1: who which double gang? Which double gang did you hook

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Speaker 1: up with? Actually? Friend of ours?

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Speaker 2: Not if I can say his name, so I use

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Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, but yeah, you're doing that.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no, no no no no.

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Speaker 3: He said his name.

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Speaker 1: Be his name. We have to be don't go there. No,

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Speaker 1: we have to be his name. We have to be

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Speaker 1: his name. I've got to say it. I have to it.

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Speaker 1: Why not something looked like his? Mum, No you didn't

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Speaker 1: for a really long time. It was really intense. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: Sorry that I haven't Well, I didn't. I don't think

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Speaker 3: I don't think, like example, I did choose to date

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Speaker 2: Okay, And my answer is one hundred percent, I've dated

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Speaker 1: The sad thing about that is that I.

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Speaker 1: One hundred percent.

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Speaker 3: That's such a bad if trying to demonize people who

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Speaker 1: Well, that's why you start hooking up with someone.

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Speaker 2: You're attracted to someone that's you're not going to like

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Speaker 1: At the end of the day you might come your

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Speaker 2: You hook up with the people that you think look

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Speaker 2: But I would like to qualify that by saying that

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Speaker 2: I mean, one hundred percent yeah, one hundred percent yeah.

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Speaker 3: Or an arranged marriage as well. Arranged marriage is really interesting.

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Speaker 2: Is my best one of my best friends, her parents

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Speaker 3: And that is what we're talking about. That is literally

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Speaker 1: About, isn't that a great expression? Last full fade, love

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Speaker 1: will grow.

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Speaker 3: And on that note, let's listen to a new mystery

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Speaker 3: animal mating.

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Speaker 4: Before that will just come from our sponsors of course.

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Speaker 4: Now you wanted to do a new thing, what do

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Speaker 4: you where you hurt a.

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Speaker 3: Well, I just think off the back of the success

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Speaker 1: Well, how do you do?

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Speaker 2: How do you measure success?

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Speaker 3: And that is a lot of comments, just positive, just

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Speaker 1: On the socials, so you could be lying to me

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Speaker 1: and I.

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Speaker 3: Have no idea. We are going to listen to it

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Speaker 3: A giraffe?

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Speaker 2: Is it a Are they having sex on a wheel

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Speaker 2: or a treadmill underneath them? So maybe it's a hamster.

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Speaker 2: It's on a wheel, that's all that's got it. Wow,

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Speaker 3: This bit hippo hippo? Is it a hippo?

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Speaker 2: It's guttural, But but the squawk that the Squawk's got

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Speaker 2: to be the.

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Speaker 4: Really hey, guess what you'll find out next episode?

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Speaker 2: Done? No, that's good gear. No, well done. I mean

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Speaker 2: I'm going to be here next week, that's for sure.

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Speaker 1: Tomorrow tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I hate that though. I hate that all right,

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Speaker 3: see you tomorrow everyone,