WEBVTT - Are These Unconventional Dating Rules Too Much? 💑

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch up podcast. It is Flex and Rooms

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<v Speaker 1>on Cada.

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<v Speaker 2>We are dating conversations about X red flags and like

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<v Speaker 2>dating app profiles lame, it's redundant and we need.

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<v Speaker 1>To shake it up.

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<v Speaker 2>What I will say, though, is when I see the

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<v Speaker 2>phrase unconventional prefacing another phrase like dating rules, I say, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm listening. I'm listening by the tape DJ.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you guys loved the first one so much. Here

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<v Speaker 3>are some other unconventional rules. Me and my girlfriend have

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<v Speaker 3>same disclaimer as before. I don't actually think they're that unconventional,

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<v Speaker 3>but a lot of you in the comments were like,

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<v Speaker 3>is this even normal? But they can be unconventional. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>different strokes, different folks, different folks, different strokes.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>Number one, we share each other's location. I just think

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<v Speaker 3>this is genius. I can know when to get dinner ready.

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<v Speaker 3>I can know how far away she is without having

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<v Speaker 3>to text her when she's driving. So that's safer, so convenient.

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<v Speaker 3>Love it amazing? Why wouldn't you?

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<v Speaker 1>But two, of course, we know each other's.

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<v Speaker 3>Lock code and passwords to everything, not because I actively

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<v Speaker 3>have gone out to seek it. But because it's just

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<v Speaker 3>a convenience thing. And I would think it's really weird

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<v Speaker 3>that if you and your partner like live together and

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<v Speaker 3>we're in a long term relationship and there was never

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<v Speaker 3>a situation where you would open their phone or they

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't give you that pass code, Like, to me, that

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<v Speaker 3>is a bit of a red flag. We talk to

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<v Speaker 3>each other in baby voice all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>This isn't actually a rule, but I.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel like it's such a taboo topic that.

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<v Speaker 1>People are really ashamed of. But I actually think let's

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<v Speaker 1>reclaim it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not like we do it all the time, but

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<v Speaker 3>we are pretty comfortable with it if we're alone at home.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even talk to babies in baby voices.

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<v Speaker 1>I say, can you get that for me? Please? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>I say, what are you feeling today? It's hired? Yeah, Sam,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like some breast milk? Let him know.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you talk to kids in baby voices, they only

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<v Speaker 2>respond in baby voices.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, no, Lucinda, she's never heard that tone before.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know. You're mad. She's a boss baby

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<v Speaker 1>now in the no listen, the no, you'll sick, you're sick.

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<v Speaker 2>What I will say though, the passwords. Yeah, I use

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<v Speaker 2>a password manager for these reasons. Hackers are everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>So do I one password? Okay? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 2>Sor the lock code. I'm fine with know the lock code.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all good.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's not get down into the granular.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't need to know that, the Apple ID, the

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<v Speaker 2>Spotify LEMN, you don't need to know all that. And

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<v Speaker 2>if there's a situation where you need my lock code,

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<v Speaker 2>give me a.

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<v Speaker 1>Ring, Give me a ring.

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<v Speaker 4>I gotta say, if there was ever an excuse to

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<v Speaker 4>have all different passwords, it's when you have to share

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<v Speaker 4>one password. For a long time, I was dealing with

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<v Speaker 4>one password across all platforms.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been there, Spotify, ten Play, Apple.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to give the password away, but I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>because it's still on some platforms. But I don't believe

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<v Speaker 4>in sharing passwords full stock.

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<v Speaker 1>I he my first password from my brother.

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<v Speaker 4>What was it?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't tell you. That's kind of it, that's not it.

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<v Speaker 2>But like I didn't really know what a password could be,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was stressing out, and I was like, if

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<v Speaker 2>I just use his password, then I just make them

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<v Speaker 2>more derivative of that password.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what. I think he's one of the worst

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<v Speaker 4>how do I say Injustices of Life? Well, is that

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<v Speaker 4>I think one of the best ways to figure out

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<v Speaker 4>who a person is is by knowing their password, because

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<v Speaker 4>you picked the most random stuff that scams good.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the best ways to connect with each other

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<v Speaker 2>is if we share personal details.

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<v Speaker 1>You go fast, What is your.

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<v Speaker 2>BSP and would you put the account number directly below

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<v Speaker 2>or next to that? Okay, cool, great, you've lost it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know I'm the one when I get this.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a scam text recently. This is one you've

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<v Speaker 2>got to be mindful of. From New South Wales revenue

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<v Speaker 2>fines right now.

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<v Speaker 1>When my mum told me.

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<v Speaker 2>That she predicted I be a speed demon on the road,

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<v Speaker 2>I said, no, babe, I'm cautious.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not cautious, actually will.

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<v Speaker 2>But so when I got this text message, it's Sam,

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<v Speaker 2>you have like thirty one days to pay this fine

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<v Speaker 2>unless or else you lose your license, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>did I do anything wrong the to just click this

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<v Speaker 2>link and pay here? No, thank you, I'm not clicking

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<v Speaker 2>links from strangers. I went to my service New southal

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<v Speaker 2>was app. I checked my demerits.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have all of them. But I didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>a fine.

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<v Speaker 4>Can you check your demerits on New South Wales Gov?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you can go here, Here we go. You've been

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