1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,440 Speaker 1: Will and what he got very special guests in the 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: studio for the first time. Actually we've got both of 3 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: them in here, which is wonderful. We've got Laura Henshaw 4 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: and Steph Claire Smith. To keep it clean. A girl's 5 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: got a brand new book, You Take Care, a whole 6 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: bunch of lessons in there. We had a little bit 7 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 1: about the confidence stuff Laura was talking about before and 8 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: you got you guys, do is beautiful on your podcast now? 9 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 1: To keep it clean the podcast I've been on there? 10 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 1: What's you anyway? 11 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 2: I haven't anyway. 12 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 1: I want to focus on one part because you've got 13 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: your You've got the mind, you've got the body, and 14 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: you've got the connection to three parts of this book. 15 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: And Steph, I always find your journey really fascinating, and 16 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 1: I want to tie it in with something that I 17 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: saw you post this week, which I just think is 18 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: really it's a brilliant thing. So it's a brilliant example 19 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: of I feel like a huge transition you would have 20 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 1: had to have made personally, but for somebody who used 21 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: to get, you know, beautiful photos taken of them for 22 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: a living. That was your job, right you During the 23 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: week posted this photo of yourself and I'll call it 24 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 1: what you called it, ugly crying, and you're like, I've just, 25 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: you know, just left a meeting and you know, this 26 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: is not a great photo of myself, but I think 27 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 1: it's important that I share this. I know that that's 28 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 1: something that you now wear with a lot of pride 29 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: in terms of the fact that you are willing to 30 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: share photos of yourself. I know there's a big chapter 31 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: in the book about not having before and after photos, 32 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:25,199 Speaker 1: for example, and how you and how you portray yourself online. 33 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: Can you talk to me about a little bit. I'm 34 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 1: sure there's lots of this in the book as well, 35 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: that the transition where you've had to sort of like 36 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 1: rework your position on posting photos of yourself and how 37 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 1: you look on socials. 38 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. 39 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 3: I mean I think a lot of it comes down 40 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 3: to vulnerability and being okay with that side of yourself, 41 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 3: and we touch on that a lot in the book. 42 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 3: There is a lot of I mean, there's literally a 43 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 3: chapter on vulnerability, but then it also kind of seeps 44 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 3: into so many others. And I think for me personally, 45 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 3: when it comes to my appearance or the way I 46 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 3: appear online to those strangers that might follow. I don't 47 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 3: ever want to kind of come across any different to 48 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 3: how I would be if you will walk past me 49 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 3: on the street or meet me in person, both looks wise, 50 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 3: but also how I come across, how I treat people, 51 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 3: how I am. So it's always been really important to 52 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 3: me to kind of be my authentic self online, and again, 53 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 3: I think it's really important that everyone kind of recognizes 54 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 3: that in themselves and tries to portray themselves and not 55 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 3: just online. 56 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: But just in your data. 57 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 3: To be true to yourself. And I think with that 58 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 3: it means being able to be vulnerable and share those 59 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 3: raw moments, those moments that you know society might see 60 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 3: as weak or negative, and kind of flip them and 61 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 3: make them more normal to share and to talk about, 62 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: which you do so well. 63 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: I was all right, let's not. 64 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:46,679 Speaker 2: Going back and forth like it. 65 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,399 Speaker 3: I really like it, but it's just those important conversations, 66 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 3: and well. 67 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: I think you do a body good job, mate, because 68 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: I reckon if you know, if people taking photos of 69 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: me and posting photos of me in swimsuits all the time, 70 00:02:57,960 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 1: you know, I'd be pretty happy with the image and 71 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to tear down the castle. 72 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 2: So you know, well, are you saying there are photos 73 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 2: out there where you look amazing in because I don't 74 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 2: think they exist. I'm sorry. It's not like Steph, you 75 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 2: had a modeling career. There was no modeling. 76 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm saying that. I'm sure there is. 77 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 1: Like Steph has any number of amazing photos of herself 78 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: that she could post at any time. She has a 79 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: war chest of them, but she doesn't. She posts all 80 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: sorts of photos of herself, And I think that's really admirable, 81 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 1: full spectrum, because I think if I was in her position, 82 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: you'd just be seeing the mint shots. Yeah sure, yeah, yeah, yeah, 83 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: it constant first trap. But she doesn't do that. And 84 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: I think that's why both of you guys are really 85 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: such great role models. And I think this is a 86 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: really important book for not just young women, but for 87 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: I know there are a couple of chapters in there 88 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: that I had to hand over to the girls in 89 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: our team because you know, they weren't for me. But there. 90 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: I think you're wonderful role models because you asked both 91 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: so vulnerable. You both speak really well, and it's on 92 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: a range of things as well. We're talking from everything 93 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: from social media here to self care all the way 94 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: through to things like pregnancy, your body, your mind, connection confidence. 95 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: So if you are looking for a book, and as 96 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 1: you said, I know you both said you would have 97 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: loved to have gifted it to yourselves in your twenties, 98 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 1: why not gift it to yourself right now? You take 99 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 1: care and. 100 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 2: You guys live it out as well. I want to 101 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 2: quickly say, I reached out to you step about Mim 102 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 2: and going through her post peggy body and dealing with 103 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 2: all of that, and you're so busy. You wrote back 104 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 2: within five minutes with like a really great answer, and 105 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 2: that just meant the world to myself and Mim. And again, 106 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 2: it's so good that you both clearly live it. But 107 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 2: speaking of living it, we lived your life a little 108 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 2: bit actually this morning because you guys over the weekend 109 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 2: did a beautiful photo shoot, a beautiful photo shoot for 110 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 2: Sunday I believe, Yeah, promoting the new books Sdney Morning 111 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 2: Herald and The End of the Age, the Sunday magazine, 112 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 2: Sunday Life. It's everywhere beautiful photos. And you actually both 113 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 2: noticed when you walked in that Will and I were 114 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 2: in matching outfits. Well we're actually wearing the exact same 115 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 2: outfits that you guys wore for one of the photos 116 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 2: from the photoshop. But we did three of the photos. 117 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,479 Speaker 2: We have re enacted three of the photos you did 118 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 2: so before we reveal them to you guys Australia. The 119 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 2: good news is yes, you can see the shots, so 120 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 2: go to our instagram Will and Wooding. 121 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 1: This was tough. One of the photos was particularly hard. 122 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 1: We had to rock off as to yeah, well anyway, yeah, 123 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: the same person. 124 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 2: Yes, and you're about to find out who played who. 125 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 2: But yeah, so here can say this is this is 126 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 2: a true story that the middle shot there, which is 127 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 2: in the bikinis, I actually asked Kate to take a 128 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 2: do again because I said my ass didn't look good enough. 129 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 3: Ye oh my god. 130 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 1: They're powerful appreciate that. Yeah, no, no, can I just 131 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: double down on this face? The expressions were big, but 132 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: I want to double down on this the central photo 133 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: and you can see this on Instagram. What he's ready 134 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: a bikini. I'm in the one piece. I'm Laura Hayes. 135 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 2: Step. 136 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: He wasn't happy that his ass didn't look as good 137 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 1: as steps and I was like, mate, you're comparing your 138 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: butt door models can we just drop this? And he 139 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: was like, no, I just haven't popped it enough. 140 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 2: I haven't popped it enough. 141 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: And I think it has been the hairbrush so that 142 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: his ass is as good as steps, and I think 143 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: it's like he's got it as well. I think we 144 00:06:57,000 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: just leaving our jobs now on you too. Yeah, more 145 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: than help you out. 146 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, that would. 147 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: Be a good Sunday morning. All right, go and get 148 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: yourselves a copy if you take care, Steph ber Smith, 149 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: thora Henshaw. It's always good to see you guys. Thank 150 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: you for coming in. That was so much fun. And 151 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: if you want to see those photos, yeah, Willamy on 152 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: Instagram whiz listen a kiss