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Speaker 2: Absolutely, see our listeners, it's time not to swing a

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Speaker 2: club our second time in a week.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you get sort of bad bad vibes coming back there,

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Speaker 2: Want to look at.

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Speaker 1: Yes, are we going to be sitting in a bunker?

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Speaker 1: We should do that with the star. I thought you

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Speaker 1: were German? Sorry, probably across the line there. What are

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Speaker 2: Have you noticed Christmas is on the way?

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Speaker 1: Yes? I have. Do you have any Christmas traditions? Because

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Speaker 1: I had a classic I can reveal if you like,

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Speaker 1: you know what.

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Speaker 2: I'm struggling to think of anything that's really sort of.

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Speaker 3: You know, we've got to drink swingers and eat roses

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Speaker 1: What was that about swingers mimosas?

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Speaker 3: I don't know why they were called swingers at my house,

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Speaker 3: Champagne and orange juice. I don't think the word momosa

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Speaker 3: was even to think. Tradition began about the seventies thing

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Speaker 3: and one must have roses chocolates with it, and they

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Speaker 2: They can't be much longer because they're stopping.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not much of a tradition, but we like it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's yours, barre?

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Speaker 1: Well, my ours was called the Bonsai award, the bonsa

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Speaker 1: like an annual award now and it's for the worst

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Speaker 1: gift of the year, okay. And the way it started

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Speaker 1: was my grandmother, who was, you know, a little bit

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Speaker 1: dotty at the end, but a beautiful woman. And she

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Speaker 1: liked to use everything in the house. Even when she cooked,

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Speaker 1: she put she combined some stuff you just wouldn't think

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Speaker 1: that you might that's going in figs. We're using those

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Speaker 1: old figs, you know, like the prize. So one year

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Speaker 1: We're definitely not getting any bigger.

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Speaker 2: That's right, easy to defeats.

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Speaker 1: The purpose isn't because you're supposed to prune them and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that is the point of the bonzaye.

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Speaker 1: So, I mean, nothing says Merry Christmas like a plant

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Speaker 1: you can't kill. So the rule every year is simple.

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Speaker 1: If you unwrap a gift and instantly you think that's

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Speaker 1: going straight in the regift draw. You're in contention for

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Speaker 2: Can you tell us what some of the winners have been?

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Speaker 1: I may not. I better not, because that's right good.

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Speaker 1: My grandma has passed. Makes you rest in peace, so

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Speaker 1: you can't libel her. But the funny other funny thing

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Speaker 1: you do this rush, but Christmas Eve, if you go

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when my work hours were different, I used to.

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Speaker 2: And but you know the funny thing was in later

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Speaker 1: Really it's the time to go.

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Speaker 2: But there's nothing left. It's like going at the last

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Speaker 1: Nothing left that's good for I saw a bloke in

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Speaker 3: But I don't have a problem with the last minute

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Speaker 3: shopping met by you, I mean meant, But do you

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Speaker 3: know what really annoys me about your lot?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, you don't wrap present them in a bag,

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Speaker 1: The shop for you.

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Speaker 2: So they do a lot of that.

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Speaker 2: One of them. The they do it for charity now

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Speaker 2: So you come out of my store and they'll do

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Speaker 1: He's got money for that, looks for charity.

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Speaker 2: I know you've got money.

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Speaker 3: You're going shopping for jewelry at a chemist.

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Speaker 1: The other thing is I reckon AI is coming in.

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Speaker 1: I reckon. There's a lot of blokes putting in the

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Speaker 2: What about it?

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Speaker 1: It makes me look thoughtful and like I've put some

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Speaker 2: Why don't you try typing in how do I wrap

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Speaker 2: a present? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: That's true, But do you find that you try to think?

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Speaker 1: What is my wife? Because you've got to you've got

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Speaker 1: to be observant all year.

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Speaker 2: You got you do and.

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Speaker 1: Remember as well what they like. When you go down

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Speaker 3: Looking for that light blue bags.

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Speaker 1: Really and yet, my other message to people out there

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Speaker 1: Come on, come on, lift put some thought into some

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Speaker 2: Rely on that mate loves a sock.

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Speaker 1: I love a card too, a meaningful card. Please Tommy,

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's to do with Christmas. We don't.

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Speaker 3: Textuary in Bedford asks with school holidays starting and the

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Speaker 2: Intoday, timing is everything, what.

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Speaker 3: Do you recommend to keep your kids busy over the

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Speaker 3: Job they're going to be thrilled snapchat washing the.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting. So apparently I was talking to my son

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Speaker 3: They're pretty savvy and some of them are fighting will

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Speaker 3: get through on the facial recognition exactly.

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Speaker 1: It's part of the way. The way this one is.

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Speaker 1: It's related to your gaming console. That's the only hint

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Speaker 1: won't say what the name is, Pete. Kids will know

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Speaker 1: right now what I'm so talking about. Listen what I reckon?

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Speaker 1: How about visiting a new playground each week? Like for example,

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Speaker 2: We could send the kids. All have to do. I

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Speaker 2: have to go.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, they've got the world's greatest you don't know, the

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Then what do you do on the other days?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's one day that there's got to be

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Speaker 1: other playgrounds. All right, I'll tell you what. You go

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Speaker 2: Anything close by. I'm just wondering if there's anything.

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Speaker 3: Nomes will interest them for a total of forty five seconds.

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Speaker 1: So all right, it's my third option. Then do something

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Speaker 1: dog friendly. If you've got a dog, take your dog

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Speaker 2: Your dog to do a trip.

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Speaker 1: What if you're in Lesbi, Yeah, yeah, get thee get

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Speaker 2: God, go to the falls. Okay, go to the Okay.

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Speaker 1: What if you're in Midland op shop Fashion Runway. There

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Speaker 2: Give up Snapchat and go to the shop.

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Speaker 2: This is not nineteen ben Elton, is not nineteen thirty nine, Lisa,

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Speaker 1: psychologists in Australia and or family therapists, and I mention

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Speaker 1: the circumstances and they will give me. The chat GPT

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Speaker 1: How should I discipline him? All Right, So she goes

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Speaker 1: the seven big psychologists that are going around in the

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Speaker 1: world at the moment, would you do that a.

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Speaker 2: Bit too, I'd probably just get them to watch a movie.

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Speaker 1: It was just an But what would you do to

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Speaker 1: your child if that happened, Well.

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Speaker 3: If it was an accident, I don't mind.

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Speaker 2: I don't mind taking them to the beata and saying

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Speaker 2: and so that they buffetti.

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Speaker 1: You know what I was growing up at least you're

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Speaker 1: younger than me, you guys, But you remember Doctor Spock, Yes,

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Speaker 1: that guy. I was brought up by him. Yeah, So

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Speaker 1: we used to go to the Doctor Spock book and

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Speaker 1: look up, what's the answer here for Adrian? You know,