1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud your 2 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,639 Speaker 1: the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming 7 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing 8 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for 9 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,599 Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow. 10 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. 11 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 3: She's on the Money, She's on the Money. 12 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money the podcast 13 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 4: Millennials who want financial freedom. Welcome back to another shot 14 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 4: back money Diary Monday, where we get to chat to 15 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 4: one of our community members to learn about their life 16 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 4: and their story and their relationship with money and all 17 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 4: the juicy bits in between. 18 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 2: Victoria Jesse Car how are you. I am excited. 19 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 4: I have a really interesting diarist today. Let me tell 20 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 4: you all about them. They said, Hey, She's on the 21 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 4: Money team. Being a twenty two year old first gen 22 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:28,759 Speaker 4: immigrant from Sri Lanka, my life has always revolved around finances. 23 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 4: My financial wellbeing has taken a dip in twenty twenty 24 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 4: two thanks to the compounding effect of trying to afford rent, study, 25 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:39,199 Speaker 4: my master's in psychology, work three casual jobs, and all 26 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 4: the whilst dealing with the worst economic crisis my home 27 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 4: country has ever seen. 28 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 2: Holy Moly. 29 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 4: Like a lot of other immigrants, I find myself getting 30 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 4: caught between the struggle of wanting to live the twenty 31 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 4: two year old carefree life and the pressure of having 32 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 4: to have my shit together so I can provide for 33 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 4: my parents because they have no retirement funds. Whilst my 34 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 4: story is not unique, I feel like it's a valuable 35 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 4: discussion to have with this community and I can't wait 36 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 4: to share. 37 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 3: Well that's giving me groose bumps. Money Diarist, welcome to 38 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 3: the show. Thank you for joining us. 39 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 5: Thank you so much for having me. I really appreciate it. 40 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 2: Oh my god, don't be silly. I hate that you said. 41 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 3: Oh my money story isn't unique, Like yes, city is 42 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 3: that everybody's is. You might have some shared experiences, but 43 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 3: I promised nobody in this entire world has a matching 44 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 3: money story. It's kind of like a fingerprint. But how 45 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 3: about we get into it. I really want to hear 46 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 3: about this one. All right, money diarists, can you tell 47 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 3: us a little bit about your money story? 48 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 5: Okay, So I feel like I have a bit of 49 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 5: a anxious attachment to money, like a true sych but 50 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 5: this manifests an almost a scarcity mindset when it comes 51 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 5: to money, and that's probably heavily related to my childhood. 52 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 5: So for context, I am a twenty two year old 53 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 5: first gen immigrant from Sri Lanka and growing up, my 54 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 5: family would be classed's low income. So we grew up 55 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:03,640 Speaker 5: receiving family benefits from you know, Centralink and youth Allowance, 56 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 5: which I just want to say, like, we're so privileged 57 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 5: to live in a country that has such good social security, 58 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 5: so very grateful for that. And my parents are really 59 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 5: you know, smart, skilled, hard working people. But because of 60 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 5: certain circumstances, my dad had to live in Sri Lanka 61 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 5: while my mom essentially raised us on her own in 62 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 5: Australia in a new country. Props to her so amazing 63 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 5: so in terms of family income, So even when Sri 64 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 5: Lanka wasn't going through a financial crisis, converting a Sri 65 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 5: Lankan salary to Australian dollars is obviously not that stellar. 66 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 5: And because my dad was the I guess, primary income earner. 67 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 5: And additionally, my mom had to retire early or stop 68 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 5: working early because she had a workplace injury, so she 69 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 5: was predominantly a stay at homer. So safe to say 70 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 5: that money was very tight growing up, and there was 71 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 5: a lot of rhetoric about being able to afford things, 72 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 5: and I was very very conscious of the concept of 73 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 5: money from a very young age. But I guess I'm 74 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 5: saying that, like, I'm really grateful for where I came from, 75 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 5: and I feel so blessed that everything that my parents 76 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 5: did for my sister and I, and I genuinely didn't 77 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 5: feel like I missed out on anything as a child. 78 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 5: It was more the sacrifice was on my parents' end. 79 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,919 Speaker 5: You know, they kind of sacrifice living with their partner. 80 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 5: They didn't really indulge in any discretionary spending, you know, 81 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 5: buying clothes or going out to eat. But most notably, 82 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 5: they didn't invest into their financial future in the conventional 83 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 5: Australian way of you know, super and investments, So instead 84 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 5: they kind of funneled all their money into us and 85 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 5: our education and in a weird way where kind of 86 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 5: their investments and sometimes I feel like there's a huge 87 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 5: pressure to almost be a good return on that investment 88 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 5: and be able to take care of them financially and 89 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 5: help them retire and actually enjoy their life. So yeah, 90 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 5: that's kind of my money story in a nutshell. 91 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 2: Is your dad here now? 92 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 5: No, he still lives in Tri Lanka, so he's not 93 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 5: a citizen, whereas like the rest my sister, my mum 94 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 5: and I are So he. 95 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 4: My gosh, that must be so hard for you guys. 96 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was pretty tough, especially for my mum, like 97 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 5: obviously being in a new country. At one point she 98 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:36,159 Speaker 5: was working full time and trying to look after two toddlers, 99 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 5: which I just can't imagine how crazy that would have been. 100 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 5: So yeah, she's honestly done such an amazing job. 101 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 6: Wow. 102 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 3: Yes, it sounds like it is there any plan in 103 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 3: the future for him to join you guys, it's. 104 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 6: Kind of tricky. 105 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 5: I feel like eventually, yes, and I think it would 106 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 5: be easier for him, you know, to live here long term, 107 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 5: just because the rest of his family does. But in 108 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 5: terms of wrapping up kind of whatever's going on in 109 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 5: TL like right now and figuring that out. It's kind 110 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 5: of hard for him to move here. And also we're 111 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 5: kind of waiting till me and my sister get jobs 112 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 5: and we start earning an income, so if he does leave, 113 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 5: then we can kind of cover things. 114 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's such an intricate but special place to be. 115 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 3: I know it's not the ideal outcome, but like that 116 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 3: also feels like a lot of pressure on you money diarist. 117 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely a lot of pressure. But I've got my 118 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 5: sister to share the pressure with. 119 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 2: So totally all right. 120 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 3: I want to know you mentioned in your writing that 121 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 3: you have three casual jobs. What do you do for 122 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 3: work at the moment? How much money do you actually earn? 123 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 6: Great question. 124 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 5: So, as I said before, I'm a full time master's 125 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 5: student in like a psychology master's student, which takes up 126 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 5: most of my time between like clients and admin and classes. 127 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 5: So my main job would be something I picked up 128 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 5: in the middle of this year, which is essentially like 129 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 5: a tech job at my university, very random. My second 130 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 5: job is like casual academic work, so I teach a 131 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 5: couple of tutorials after hours and also mark student assignments. 132 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 5: And my third job is doing some casual like research 133 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 5: assistant work for the lab that I did my honors with, 134 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 5: which is really cool. But in terms of the actual number, 135 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 5: it's really hard to pinpoint because it can just vary 136 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 5: so vastly depending on how many shifts that I pick up. 137 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 5: But I kind of estimated between five hundred dollars to 138 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 5: one thousand dollars a week, and I would say collectively, 139 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 5: I probably wouldn't be earning more than thirty five to 140 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 5: forty thousand dollars in a year as a full time student, 141 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 5: but I'm very keen to finish studying and actually starting 142 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 5: a full time. 143 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 3: Wage understandably, So al right, I want to know. Sounds 144 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 3: like you're pretty clear on this, but what is big 145 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 3: money goal? What are you currently working towards? 146 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 5: So one of my more short term goals is to 147 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 5: save a bit of money so I can do some 148 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 5: solo travel after my masters, because I didn't really do 149 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 5: much of that when I was younger, so I think 150 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 5: that's a really important thing to like experience different cultures. 151 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 5: My second big money goal would be to, like many others, 152 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 5: like get an investment property one day, but honestly, the 153 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 5: idea of that, like navigating that space seems so daunting 154 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 5: because I don't really have any, like I guess, mentors 155 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 5: in that area. So that's kind of something that I 156 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 5: just am hoping for down the line, and I guess 157 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 5: the biggest one would be to earn enough to support 158 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 5: myself and also my parents. 159 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, of course, of course, all right, next question, do 160 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 3: you currently invest? 161 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 5: Yes, I do have some investments, the best one being 162 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 5: super so I tried to contribut as much as I can, 163 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 5: and I think I have around fifteen thousand Tuck dawayne 164 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 5: there at the moment. 165 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 2: Who is she cas I you're working full time? 166 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 3: Masters has a massive investment portfolio that's unrelatable content, my love. 167 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 5: I've also got some stock investments as well, so I 168 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 5: think collectively, across a few platforms, I've got about fifty 169 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 5: seven thousand in there at the moment. 170 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 2: Wow, what oh my gosh, A queen. 171 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 4: A few other investments. 172 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:36,319 Speaker 3: A couple, just a couple has a sneaky entire house 173 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 3: deploset plus some hidden away. 174 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 5: But like a huge disclaimer, I lived at home during 175 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 5: undergrad so even like paying bills and board, this does 176 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 5: not amount to how much it actually costs to live 177 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 5: out of home of course, So yeah, I'm very like 178 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 5: privileged to be able to but I'm proud of that amount. 179 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 5: And technically this is an investment, but I've got about 180 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 5: nine thousand in my emergency fund and that I feel 181 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 5: like is an investment in myself because it just helps 182 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 5: me sleep at night and knowing that if something went wrong, 183 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 5: there wasn't anyone that I could really rely on without 184 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 5: putting them in a worse financial position. So having that 185 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 5: buffer is just so important to me. 186 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 6: So I call it an investment. 187 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 3: I think it's an investment, absolutely, and I think it's 188 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 3: really special for you to be in that position because 189 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 3: I'm sure that's a position your parents would you know, 190 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 3: never have even dreamt of being in themselves, which would 191 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 3: I'm assuming make them so proud of you and know 192 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 3: that you're absolutely killing it and the sacrifices they've made, 193 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 3: is you know they're really paying off? 194 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:43,559 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think they are. 195 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 5: I think they are pretty proud, which is Yeah, it's 196 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:46,679 Speaker 5: a nice. 197 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 3: Feeling, understandably. So al right, money diarist, I want to know. 198 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 3: I think the answer to this, Jessica is a no. 199 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 3: But do you currently have any debts? I don't have 200 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 3: any personal debt or like credit card debt. But I 201 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 3: do have quite a hefty amount of HEX debt because 202 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 3: obviously studying psych. So it's currently sitting at thirty four 203 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 3: thousand at the moment, thanks indexation, but it will actually 204 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 3: go up to thirty eight thousand once I finished my masters. 205 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 206 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's a bit stressful, but it could have 207 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 5: been worse. I got lucky with this CSP funded place, 208 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 5: but I definitely know lots of psych people who have 209 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 5: like HEX sets nearing the hundred thousand dollar mark. 210 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 3: Because cough, Victoria divine. 211 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,679 Speaker 6: So yeah, it's such a long process. 212 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 3: Oh my love, I feel you like, it feels like 213 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 3: a lot, And I now don't worry about it at 214 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 3: all because I feel like I have a way better 215 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 3: education on it. But when I did my undergraduate degree 216 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 3: that added up. Then I did my postgraduate, then I 217 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 3: did a master's, and then I've gone back and done 218 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 3: some random other things, and like, we're currently sitting at 219 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 3: one hundred plus thousand dollars and that gives me mad 220 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:57,840 Speaker 3: anxiety when I look at it, because I hate the 221 00:11:57,880 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 3: idea of debt. But at the same time, I'm like, no, 222 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 3: it's got me here, Like we've been doing pretty well 223 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 3: so far. Yeah, And you know, I guess reframing that 224 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 3: really helps because as much as it's a debt that 225 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 3: doesn't carry any interest, which is nice, it does still 226 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 3: have indexation, so we do have to be careful of it. 227 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 3: But at the same time, I get why it's not 228 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 3: a priority for most people to pay off because I'm 229 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 3: not making it a priority because it hasn't gotten in 230 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 3: my way of creating wealth or buying a house. And 231 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 3: I like the idea that if I wasn't making any 232 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 3: income at all, they're not going to chase me for it, 233 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 3: whereas that is not the case with a mortgage or 234 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 3: a personal loan. Money diarist, I need to know you 235 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 3: sound pretty savvy. Do you currently use shopback? 236 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 6: Yes? I do. I've been using this, of. 237 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 2: Course she does, Yes, now a couple of years. Of 238 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:44,079 Speaker 2: course you do. 239 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 5: I checked my lifetime earning that it was one hundred 240 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 5: and eighty dollars rich. 241 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'll take that. 242 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 3: That has a lot of cash like that is a 243 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 3: shopping spray on the iconic for me. 244 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 2: What was your last shot back purchase? 245 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:00,079 Speaker 6: Was it? I think it was something from the I 246 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 6: kind of actually. 247 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, relatable content I love to say it. 248 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 3: All right, next question, I feel like you're gonna have 249 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 3: a really good tip for us here. What is your 250 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 3: best money habit? 251 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 5: I would say my best money habit is, if I 252 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 5: do say so myself, my work ethic and discipline when 253 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 5: it comes to earning and saving money. I've been working 254 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 5: since the age of twelve with like netball, umpiring and whatnot, 255 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 5: and I've taken a couple of years break in like 256 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:31,199 Speaker 5: later high school. But yeah, working since the age of 257 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 5: twelve and kind of saving always been a good saver, 258 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 5: full credit to my parents. But I'm also I feel 259 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 5: very disciplined when it comes to spending money on things. 260 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 6: That I really value. 261 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 5: So, for example, I don't really value eating out as much, 262 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 5: so I'm really good at like making my food at 263 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 5: home and taking it to work in school. But on 264 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 5: the other hand, I really value like living in a 265 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 5: really nice space that's like close to UNI and work, 266 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 5: and also really value the gym, so I'll spend a 267 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 5: bit more on those things, but then I'll save one 268 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 5: things that I don't really care too much about. 269 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 6: Yeah. 270 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 2: No, that makes absolute sense. 271 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 3: And I feel like this is a really common theme, 272 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 3: Jess that we see in a lot of our money. 273 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 3: Diarist kids of immigrant parents are absolute queens with money, 274 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 3: Like they just are so good and I feel like 275 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 3: have such wholesome values and have parents that just go 276 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 3: above and beyond for them. And you guys need way 277 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 3: more credit because we have so much to learn from you. 278 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 3: On the flip side, what is something we don't want 279 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 3: to learn from you? What is your worst money have it? 280 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 5: I guess I touched on this in the intro in 281 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 5: the letter that I wrote, But my worst money habit 282 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 5: would be I don't know if it could be classed 283 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 5: as a money habit, but it's the level of guilt 284 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 5: that I feel when I spend money on discretionary things, 285 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 5: knowing that there are people in worse situations that are 286 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 5: struggling to make it out, just make it out here. 287 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 5: And yeah, just the guilt of spending things that are 288 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 5: not seen as like productive or actually contributing to anything. 289 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 5: It's just very stressful and like you want to assimilate 290 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 5: and kind of do all these like really fun things 291 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 5: and go traveling and whatnot, but then you also think about, Okay, 292 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 5: that money could be allocated to you know, family, you 293 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 5: might need it more or back into your future to 294 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 5: give yourself that financial backing. So the guilt that I 295 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 5: feel whenever I do spend money on Like I spent 296 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 5: like one hundred dollars in a night out the other week, 297 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 5: and yeah, I just respiraling just thinking about how much 298 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 5: money that I kind of just blew like that. 299 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 2: So how are you working through that? 300 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 3: Because I feel like that's a really big piece of 301 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 3: the puzzle for a lot of people in your situation, 302 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 3: because you know, I understand the guilt. I totally get it, 303 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 3: especially when it's so I mean, every single one of 304 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 3: us has that on us though, like you know, there 305 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:05,359 Speaker 3: is always quoite, a better. 306 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 2: Thing to spend it on. Does it mean you shouldn't 307 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 2: spend it. 308 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 3: Absolutely not, But I would love to know are you 309 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 3: working through that? Is that something that you're like, oh, 310 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 3: like I haven't really addressed it. I mean, you're working 311 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 3: in psych you're doing your master's. Is this something you've 312 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 3: spoken to someone about, Like I feel like this is 313 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 3: a really big thing that we need to talk about 314 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 3: more in our community. 315 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 6: That's a really. 316 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 5: Good question, and I try to remind myself that it 317 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 5: is okay. And I think even the decision to kind 318 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 5: of so I moved from my home States, so I 319 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 5: used to live in Victoria and I moved to like 320 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 5: Brisbane to kind of challenge the idea that I always 321 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 5: have to take the route that is going to be 322 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 5: like the cheapest or I'm going to like save the 323 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 5: most money, and that I could you know. Yeah, So 324 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 5: I've kind of taken actions that will force me to 325 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 5: spend more money but allow me to kind of grow 326 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 5: in other ways and see that I guess the benefit 327 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 5: of spending money in certain situations, like for example, on 328 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 5: that night out. Yes it wasn't productive, but I really 329 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 5: had a really good time and it set me up 330 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 5: for like a good week. So trying to reframe things 331 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 5: like that, but it's definitely easier so than done. 332 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 2: Oh one hundred percent. 333 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 3: I totally get it, And I mean it all goes 334 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 3: back to you being able to be your best self, 335 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 3: because when you're your best self, you can fill other 336 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 3: people's cups in the best possible way. And if you 337 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 3: feel really constricted, that ultimately is going to lead to 338 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 3: some form of burnout or tiresome or you might feel 339 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 3: some level of, you know, being overwhelmed with the responsibility 340 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 3: that's on you. So I think we need to find 341 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 3: a happy balance. But I do think it's quite normal 342 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 3: to want to talk about it as well and go oh, 343 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 3: I feel so guilty. But also you shouldn't, my love, 344 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 3: like you are doing the best that you possibly can. 345 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 3: In fact, you're doing way more than most of us. 346 00:17:56,040 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 3: So always always look back at that money dire. If 347 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 3: we forced you to give yourself a money grade, what 348 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:04,440 Speaker 3: would you rate your money habits? 349 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:06,960 Speaker 5: I would probably give myself an A. You know, I 350 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 5: think I've developed some good money habits over my life. Yeah, 351 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 5: there's some like skills and goals that I need to 352 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 5: work towards, but I think I've done Okay, I would. 353 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 2: Not agree more, my love. 354 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 3: All right, let's go to a quick break, and right 355 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 3: after the break, I want to dive a little bit 356 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 3: more into your money story. 357 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 2: Don't go anywhere. 358 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 4: Welcome back to She's on the money and money Diaris. 359 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:35,199 Speaker 4: I want to start by adding a little bit of 360 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:38,640 Speaker 4: additional context, if that's okay. You mentioned in your letter. 361 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 4: Obviously there's a really severe economic crisis going on right 362 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 4: now in your home country of Sri Lanka. For anyone 363 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 4: who's not familiar or hasn't been kind of keeping up 364 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:50,200 Speaker 4: with that, can you just give us a really, I guess, 365 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 4: high level summary of what's going on and how that 366 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 4: has kind of then impacted your family and what you 367 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 4: guys have been going through. 368 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 5: Absolutely, So Sri Lanka is basically going through their worst 369 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 5: financial crisis, so they declared bankruptcy. And what's kind of 370 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 5: happening is people are struggling to get access to essential goods. 371 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:17,119 Speaker 5: They're like food, fuel, and medicines. People are experiencing daily 372 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 5: power cuts for like twelve to thirteen hours because of 373 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:24,639 Speaker 5: resource shortages. I remember a couple of weeks ago, I 374 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:27,160 Speaker 5: was trying to speak to my granddad but he could 375 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 5: only spare like a few minutes because he had to 376 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 5: reserve like his phone battery in case, like there was 377 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,439 Speaker 5: an actual emergency or he had to use it for 378 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:36,160 Speaker 5: other reasons. 379 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 6: So, yeah, it's. 380 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 5: Incredibly sad to see, you know, especially so many kids 381 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 5: that are at school trying to learn and they can't 382 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 5: because they're like paper shortages, power cuts, and they obviously 383 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:51,919 Speaker 5: really do want to learn a lot of them. The 384 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 5: inflation rate is at seventy percent I think that was 385 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 5: in September, which is crazy to even fathom. And the 386 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 5: andy has also like plummeted, worsening the financial situation of 387 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 5: many families, including myself because obviously my dad still lives there, 388 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:12,120 Speaker 5: Most of my family on my mom's side still lives there, 389 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:18,200 Speaker 5: and so yeah, it's just looking pretty grim in terms 390 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:22,639 Speaker 5: of how they're gonna come back from that, and especially 391 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 5: because businesses can't really operate when there are these power 392 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:30,440 Speaker 5: cuts and there are these shortages, and people aren't getting 393 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 5: the right nutrition or their basic needs aren't being met. 394 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 5: So yeah, a lot of people are definitely negatively affected 395 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 5: by this, and I don't really know what the solution 396 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:40,360 Speaker 5: would be. 397 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 4: It's absolutely awful, and I think we definitely, I absolutely 398 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 4: am guilty of forgetting how privileged we are here. You know, 399 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 4: we've been talking about our rates rises and you know, 400 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:53,360 Speaker 4: inflation here and we're like, oh my gosh, it's so bad, 401 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 4: and then you look to somewhere actual anker and you're like, 402 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 4: it's seventy percent. Like how can anybody even afford to 403 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 4: be a love, let alone to do anything or enjoy 404 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 4: their life on any level? You know, you said before 405 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:08,199 Speaker 4: that it's really tricky obviously with everything going on, getting 406 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:11,200 Speaker 4: your dad and the rest of your family back over here. 407 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 4: How has that I guess kind of impacted the choices 408 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 4: that you have made and that your sister have made, 409 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 4: because you've said the investment that they ultimately made within 410 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,879 Speaker 4: you guys and in your education, And that's a big 411 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 4: way to carry on your shoulders to know that the 412 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 4: future of your families, I guess kind of resting on you. 413 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 4: And then overlaid over the top of that, there's obviously 414 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:36,120 Speaker 4: all of the anxiety you must be feeling around their 415 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 4: safety and their well being and can they access food 416 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,919 Speaker 4: and water and things that no one should ever have 417 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 4: to worry about. Has that shaped the choices that you 418 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 4: have made for yourself in terms of your career and 419 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 4: the opportunities that you're trying to seek out. 420 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 5: Definitely, I think I don't know if the christ has 421 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:57,200 Speaker 5: happened like earlier, I don't know if I would have 422 00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 5: even moved into States, So yeah, I think that would 423 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:08,159 Speaker 5: have really impacted my decisions and changed my priority just 424 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 5: because it was more expensive and my money could have 425 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:16,199 Speaker 5: been put to better use, I guess. So yeah, In 426 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 5: terms of now, it's me just trying to make sure 427 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,400 Speaker 5: that I can finish my education as soon as possible 428 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 5: and look for full time work and not really taking 429 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 5: a break. I suppose I wonder when and if I 430 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 5: will burn out at some point, which is yeah, but 431 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 5: just trying to finish things as soon as possible and 432 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:40,160 Speaker 5: not really you know, it's filling my day with either 433 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 5: work or UNI and just working like seven days a week, 434 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:46,959 Speaker 5: trying to do everything so it doesn't take me extra 435 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 5: time that I don't really have because obviously my parents 436 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,360 Speaker 5: are getting older as well, and like my granddad as well, 437 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 5: like trying to figure out how we can look after everyone. 438 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 5: So it's it's very much that like collectivist culture as well, 439 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,639 Speaker 5: where you don't really think about yourself and you have 440 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:06,639 Speaker 5: to think about the whole family unit and what that 441 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:07,159 Speaker 5: looks like. 442 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 6: So I hope that kind of. 443 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 4: Is that's a big sacrifice from you to give up 444 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,679 Speaker 4: not your use. That sounds very dramatic, but you know, 445 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 4: to give up things that you want to do. You 446 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 4: said you want to travel and you want to live 447 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 4: your care free life. To give that up and go, oh, like, 448 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 4: I probably am going to burn out and I'm just 449 00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 4: going to have to deal with that when that comes. 450 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 4: That's a lot for you to take on and for 451 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 4: your sister as well to take on. I can't imagine 452 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 4: how hard it is, but it's very impressive that you 453 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:34,760 Speaker 4: guys are doing everything that you can and that you 454 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,679 Speaker 4: still seem so positive and so happy, and yeah, I 455 00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,320 Speaker 4: just can't imagine being in that situation. 456 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:42,479 Speaker 3: It's a lot you kind of want to articulate it 457 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 3: as that's a really big burden to carry. But I 458 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 3: would never want people to feel like their parents or 459 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 3: their family is a burden. But you know what I'm 460 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 3: getting to, like, it's kind of like, yeah, it's this 461 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 3: weight that you carry, but it's like obviously a choice 462 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,880 Speaker 3: as well, Like there's an element of this isn't a choice, 463 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:58,920 Speaker 3: but also it's a total choice. And I just think 464 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 3: that that's really beautiful that you, I guess, lean into 465 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,879 Speaker 3: that and you clearly are so on that train of 466 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 3: like I want to help my family, I want them 467 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 3: to be in this position. I just I really admire that. 468 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 3: I have a lot of respect for it and anyone 469 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,639 Speaker 3: else who's going through that circumstance. It's just so damn impressive. 470 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks, just out of curiosity. 471 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:18,360 Speaker 2: When do you graduate. 472 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 5: I'll graduate at the end of next year, so I've 473 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:22,640 Speaker 5: finished my masters. 474 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,879 Speaker 3: That is very exciting. Tell me about what type of 475 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 3: job you want after your masters. Obviously there's like, what 476 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:29,919 Speaker 3: is there seven streams of psychology? Which one are you 477 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:30,400 Speaker 3: going into? 478 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 2: My love? 479 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,399 Speaker 5: So I'm in the edend of education and developmental stream 480 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 5: at the moment, I don't know. I'll be doing X 481 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,119 Speaker 5: and ships next year, so I think i'll get a 482 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 5: better idea of what I'm actually into. I don't think 483 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 5: it will be private practice. I feel more community based work. 484 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 5: But honestly, yeah, I have no idea. 485 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 6: I thought i'd figure it out. 486 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 3: You have heaps of time and thankfully studying psychology. There 487 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:02,200 Speaker 3: are so many different options. I think I've spoken about 488 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 3: it on the podcast. I thought I was going to 489 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,160 Speaker 3: be a counseling psychologist, and then I ended up going 490 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 3: into organizational psychology, which I didn't even know existed. Before 491 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 3: I started psychology, I was like, what do you mean 492 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 3: the science of people at work? 493 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:14,920 Speaker 2: That's not a thing. 494 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,639 Speaker 3: So there are just so many different ways to use 495 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:19,879 Speaker 3: a psych degree. And look at me now, I'm not 496 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 3: even in psychology, but I use it literally every single day. 497 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 3: So there will be something, I promise, And I can't 498 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 3: wait for you to find something that you love and 499 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 3: that you adore. And that you feel like you have 500 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 3: a really big impact in because I think that most 501 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 3: people who do psych they do it because they want 502 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,560 Speaker 3: to fix things and they want to, you know, have 503 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 3: an impact in this world, and it just is another 504 00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 3: testament to how much of a special human you are. 505 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 3: So thank you for joining us Money Diarist. 506 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:47,119 Speaker 6: Thank you for having me on. 507 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:47,959 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. 508 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 4: Of course, before we let you go, I'm sure that 509 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 4: there will be a lot of people listening to this 510 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,760 Speaker 4: episode who might be hearing about the economic crisis for 511 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 4: the first time and might be wondering what they can 512 00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 4: do to help. Are there any resources or charities or 513 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:04,160 Speaker 4: anything that you could recommend people look into if they 514 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 4: are wanting to help out. 515 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 5: Yeah, there's a few different fundraisers, and also I know 516 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 5: of a lot of local artists that have been creating 517 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 5: some like merch and the proceeds go to people in 518 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 5: Sri Lanka. So I could potentially actually send you guys 519 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 5: some links to thing. 520 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be great. We'll put them in the 521 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:24,959 Speaker 2: show notes. 522 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, that'd be good. That'd be awesome. 523 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, that'd be so great. So Sense of Links will 524 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 3: make sure that they're in their show notes. So if 525 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 3: anyone wants to give a helping hand or even just 526 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 3: do some more research and become more educated on this. 527 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,119 Speaker 3: There will be a few links in the show notes, 528 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 3: so definitely check them out. But with that, I think 529 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,399 Speaker 3: that is a beautiful place to leave it. Money Dirist, 530 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 3: thank you for joining us, and as always jessic Ricci, 531 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 3: it has been a pleasure doing another money diary with you. 532 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 2: See you guys on Wednesday, See you then. 533 00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,679 Speaker 3: The advice shared on Cheese on the Money is generally 534 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:03,639 Speaker 3: nate and does not consider your individual circumstances. She's on 535 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:07,199 Speaker 3: the Money exists purely for educational purposes and should not 536 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 3: be relied upon to make an investment or financial decision. 537 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 3: If you do choose to buy a financial product, read 538 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 3: the PDS TMD and obtain appropriate financial advice tailored towards 539 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 3: your needs. 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