1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: Welcome to a Very Outspoken Christmas. It's that time of 2 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: year to crank Mariah carry in the car and begin 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: your Christmas shopping. Our names are Amy Kate and Sophie Torba. 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: We're identical triplets and during the festive season, we have 5 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,159 Speaker 1: an identical opinion Christmas is the most wonderful time of 6 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: the year. In this special series, we're discussing all things 7 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: Christmas with help from some influential Australians. 8 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: For you Glan cal call you go Glan cl Clone. 9 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 2: And when Santa squeezes fat white ass down that Jimmy Day, 10 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: He's gonna find the jolliest bunch of assholes this side 11 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 2: of the nuthouse. 12 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to episode four of A Very Outspoken Christmas. Today, 13 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: we are so excited to be joined by influencer and 14 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: businesswoman at Georgie Stevenson. We really wanted to have Georgie 15 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: on the show because we thought it was important to 16 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 1: share the story of someone who hasn't grown up with 17 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: a traditional Christmas. But before we get into the chat 18 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: with Georgie, Sophie, you've got some really exciting news regarding 19 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: your tree. What's a bit of a shit gameful announcement. 20 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: I feel I did succumb to temptation and I did 21 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:06,639 Speaker 1: buy a bow some Hill Christmas tree in the early 22 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 1: Black Friday sales. I love it because Kate and I 23 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: have literally been telling everybody about the purchase because it 24 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: was a rather expensive one. It was so funny. I 25 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 1: was at Dale's Poppy's house the other day and I 26 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: showed him your Christmas tree. He was very, very impressed, 27 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: and Dale decided to ask him how much he thought 28 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: it was. He sweetly replied that he thought it was 29 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: one hundred dollars, but he wouldn't pay that much for it. 30 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: Can I just say I don't spend a lot of 31 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: money during the year. I would say I don't drink, 32 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: I don't go out on crazy nights out. I try 33 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: and limit the amount of clothes. I've been very good 34 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: this year. I've been very frugal, So this is my 35 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 1: one splurge of the year. I've loved it. Next day, 36 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: you've been frugal, Yeah, like you. You had to pay 37 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: double rent this year. It's not been a cheap year 38 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: for you. But I'm not Look, I'm not shaming you 39 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: over the Christmas tree investment. It's an investment I'm going 40 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: to have this thing for ten years. I paid one 41 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: hundred and forty dollars for her real Christmas tree, which 42 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: is going to go in the in a few weeks time. 43 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: I didn't even feel bad about that. Can I just say, 44 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: I feel like there's a new trend that's starting. People 45 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: talk about people shaming each other for different things. Christmas 46 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:11,679 Speaker 1: tree shaming is a real thing at the moment. What 47 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: do you mean if your Christmas tree is shit or 48 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: if your Christmas tree is too expensive? No, I feel like, 49 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: you know, me spending one hundred and forty dollars in 50 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: a real Christmas tree, I feel like people will shame 51 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: me because they think that that's too much. And the 52 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: same with your balsome heel tree. I actually I'm very 53 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: disappointed because I have told everyone don't go and tell anyone, 54 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: like Brandon is on strict instructions not to tell his 55 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: parents how much the tree was. And it's funny because 56 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: when people don't know, they're very complimentary to us. Oh 57 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:38,239 Speaker 1: it's a beautiful tree. I'm taken back how good it 58 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: bloody looks. And I was very jealous when we're putting 59 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: it up, it's so soft like this is not an 60 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: ad for about some hills. The most glorious thing was 61 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: it actually came with gloves in the box, two sets 62 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: of gloves. It's an absolute wank fast. You put these 63 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 1: gloves on so you can fan the branches out, and 64 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: oh my god. Like I hate our mum and Dad's 65 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 1: fake tree like it is. I've talked about it before. 66 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 1: It is painful put decorations on. This one was exquisite. 67 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: It's so funny because tonight we're actually going to mum 68 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: and Dad's house to put their Christmas tree up, and 69 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 1: Dad was so cute. He sent through a photo of 70 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: the tree ready to go, and it looks so shit 71 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: in comparison to Sophie's tree. I've got to say, Sophie, 72 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: after seeing your tree, I did feel very tempted to 73 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: purchase one, but that has all changed since Kate and 74 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: I went down to the Christmas tree farm with our 75 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: mum over the weekend. The smell when you walked in 76 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: it was just Christmas. I think the best bit was 77 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 1: we realized it was the first time we'd ever actually 78 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: gone to get a tree with mum because she normally 79 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: stays at home and Dad is the one that takes 80 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: us to go get the Christmas tree, and she was 81 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: being so cute. We drove in and she was like, wow, 82 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: it smells so beautiful. And then when we got the 83 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 1: tree and we were driving home, she's like, gosh, that 84 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: was just so easy. I have to admit I was 85 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: feeling a little bit sad when I saw that Steph 86 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: Claire Smith and Kira Maguire both had real trees. I 87 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: had a bit of envy going on and thought, have 88 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: I made the right decision. What I loved about Steph 89 00:03:58,120 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: was that it was so boogie because she got the 90 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: tree delivered to her doorstep on December first, and it 91 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: was almost as if she'd forgotten that it was meant 92 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: to be arriving. Yeah, but you can do that. You 93 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: can actually pay them. I think it's fifty dollars and 94 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: they drop it off and twenty five dollars and they 95 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 1: also take it away. So there's really no excuse not 96 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 1: to have a real tree. I have to say that 97 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 1: I might be slightly biased, but I do feel like 98 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: my Christmas tree holds the decorations. But oh definitely, it 99 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: actually looks amazing. I do love the inm built lights. 100 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 1: I think that's the best part of it. I really 101 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: feel like this year we've got to have a competition 102 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: because now that we've all got slightly different trees, I 103 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 1: feel like it makes it more interesting. So Kate's not 104 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 1: getting her tree until the fourteenth of December, it might 105 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: even be like the fifteenth or sixteenth. Well, I think 106 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: we're gonna have to take drastic measures into our own hands, 107 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: and it's gonna have to be a competition between Amy 108 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: and my tree. No, I want to be involved. Why 109 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: can't the competition be later? It needs to be now. 110 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: Unfortunately you've just missed out. Well maybe you could be 111 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 1: between Amy and mine and then the winner takes on 112 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 1: your tree. Look, I think this is unfair that I 113 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: can't be involved in the competition. Well, you don't have 114 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 1: a tree. Talking about competitions, did anyone see that photo 115 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: of l Darby and her partner con and they're gorgeous puppies. 116 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: Oh my god, this photo is an epic Christmas photo. 117 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 1: This is one that could go on a Christmas card 118 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: and I really want to replicate it. Yeah, well, we're 119 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 1: going to put the photo in our Facebook community group 120 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: and also probably on our Instagram account. Have a look 121 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: at it. Because we're going to try and reconstruct it 122 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: and we want you to vote who did it best. 123 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 1: Well's basically them in Christmas theme pajamas in front of 124 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,600 Speaker 1: the tree, the dog sitting perfectly. I think I had 125 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: this in the bag because Archie poses like no other 126 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: dog I've ever seen before. Look, I'm not really worried 127 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: about the dogs. I'm more worried about people's boyfriends. 128 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 2: Now. 129 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: I know Reese is going to kick up a fuss 130 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 1: if he has to be in the photo. Maybe just 131 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 1: photoshop his face into it. Can everyone else get into 132 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: it and recreate it with their boyfriends? Because I'd love 133 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: to see other people's boyfriends dragged into this audi. Yes, 134 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:46,359 Speaker 1: I want to start a thread see who can do 135 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 1: the best under the Christmas tree photo? Can I ask 136 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,359 Speaker 1: a question? Because they've got their two dogs, so obviously 137 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 1: I'm going to include my two cats, Gigi and Bentley. 138 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: Should it also include the bunnies? I've got two bunny rabbits? Mmm, 139 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: that might be a bit challenging. Look, if it's a competition, yes, 140 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 1: because you're not going to get a shot. Finally, I 141 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: really want to recommend an amazing Christmas podcast that's just 142 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: come out It is Sam Magnan's Christmas Special now. He 143 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 1: launched the first episode yesterday and it is hilarious and 144 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to the three episodes to come for 145 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: anyone who wants to look it up. His podcast is 146 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: called Literally Nobody Cares and it is just hilarious. People 147 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 1: who actually have a sense of humor, which I feel 148 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 1: like our listeners do, should go and check it out. 149 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: Well, blake my head? How can I forget and have 150 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 2: a replaced because every time Catherine read up the microwave 151 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 2: that pissed my pants and forget who I was for 152 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 2: half hour or so. 153 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:39,799 Speaker 1: Officially, Georgie, welcome to a very outspoken Christmas. We're really 154 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: really excited to have you on the show. 155 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,839 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me. I'm really excited. 156 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 2: We've just had a long conversation off air. We thought 157 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 2: it was time to start, so I'm really excited. And yeah, 158 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 2: thanks for inviting me on your Christmas special. It does. 159 00:06:56,760 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 2: It feels interesting, which I'm sure we'll get into. 160 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know it's going to be a very interesting chat. 161 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: But firstly, we just wanted to say we're so sorry 162 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: to hear the really sad news about you're and Tim's miscarriage, 163 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: and we just wanted to say we think it has 164 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: been so amazing of you to shed light on this 165 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: because it's something a lot of women go through. We 166 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: just want to just find out how you're going and 167 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: what the feedback has been from people who have heard 168 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 1: your story. 169 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 2: Thank you. I appreciate that it's happened quite recently and 170 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 2: it has been a very hard time for us, you 171 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 2: know it, Like I was saying two guys off there, 172 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 2: it did feel like a bit of a miracle baby 173 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 2: baby and then for it to be taken away for 174 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 2: super cruel. But I did speak out about it because 175 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 2: it is it happens so often, like one in four 176 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 2: pregnancies and a miscarriage, And like I kind of explained 177 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 2: on my platform, I'm not just going to show up 178 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 2: and you know, talk about all my most positive things 179 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 2: in life and then not share when I have hardships. 180 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 2: I think it's kind of important to be transparent and 181 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 2: authentic on that sort of side of things. So I 182 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 2: did share the news and I had such an overwhelming 183 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 2: response of just love and support and honestly, like it is, 184 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 2: it is like a weird not a weird, but it 185 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 2: is like a taboo, you know subject and is I 186 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 2: get it, like women who don't want to speak about it, 187 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I get it. It is so sensitive 188 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 2: and it can feel like you can have these feelings 189 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 2: of like feeling a bit ashamed, and you know, as women, 190 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 2: our bodies, that's what they're supposed to do, so when 191 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 2: you have a miscarriage, it does have this weird sort 192 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 2: of sense around it. But it was very important to 193 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 2: me because when I did share, I felt so much 194 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 2: less alone because you know, I had DMS messages of 195 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 2: just people telling me their stories and what they went through, 196 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 2: and quite a few people were like, I really appreciate 197 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 2: you speaking out about it because I recently had a 198 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 2: miscarriage and hadn't really told anyone and now I had, 199 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 2: and I feel so much, you know, support, And I 200 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 2: think for me, if anything, I like, I wouldn't have 201 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 2: been able to show up on my social media's and 202 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 2: I am someone who does show up, you know, on 203 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 2: Instagram it's every single day, and stories on YouTube it's weekly, 204 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 2: and I wouldn't have been able to show up without 205 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 2: you crying and being upset. So I just showed up 206 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 2: as is, and I think people kind of they just 207 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 2: they appreciate when you are honest and real, and yeah, 208 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 2: it's something that happens, and it's really bloody sad and 209 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 2: it's really hot, and I'm not gonna cry because it's 210 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 2: all good. I have kind of had a bitter piece 211 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 2: of it and you know, done a lot of process, 212 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 2: but yeah, I really I appreciate those thoughts. 213 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for sharing that with us. 214 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 1: And it makes me feel so sad hearing you're getting upset, 215 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: And I can imagine it would be such a hard 216 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: time because Christmas is meant to be that time where 217 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:14,960 Speaker 1: everyone's celebrating and being in a happy mood, and to 218 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 1: find out such devastating news, obviously there's no good time 219 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 1: to hear that. But I'm just so sorry that you're 220 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: having to go through this, and I really hope you're okay. 221 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 2: I know, I know, yeah, I do appreciate it. I 222 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 2: know we're like we had plans to kind of like 223 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 2: tell our whole family, do a bit of a reveal 224 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 2: on Christmas Day, and you know, all that sort of thing. 225 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 2: But yeah, look, it's it's not meant to be and 226 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 2: it's all going to happen in the perfect timing, but Yeah, 227 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 2: I really appreciate it, and I'm just sending so much 228 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 2: love to anyone else going through something similar. It is 229 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 2: very hard, but yeah we're strong. 230 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so lovely, and I'm sure a lot of 231 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: people do feel, you know, softble emfitted to hear that. 232 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 1: Just segueing into Christmas and a lot of people probably 233 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 1: don't know this, but you've had a very different Christmas 234 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: time growing up being a Jehovah's Witness. What was it 235 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: like growing up and not being able to celebrate Christmas? 236 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, so this is quite interesting because a couple of 237 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 2: Christmases ago, like I think I was blogging on YouTube 238 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 2: and someone said something about us not having a Christmas tree, 239 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 2: and I just simply explained, oh, I used to be 240 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 2: a Jehoah's Witness growing up and we never did the 241 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 2: Christmas tree thing, so we just kind of have never 242 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:39,959 Speaker 2: done it. And then I realized how shocked everyone and 243 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 2: they was like, what, So, yeah, I was a Jehovah's Witness. 244 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 2: I think I maybe it was around four when and 245 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 2: it was just my mom, not my dad, so my 246 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 2: bit my dad was obviously very supportive, and so it 247 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 2: was around four when my mom started or joined whatever 248 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 2: your ought to call it. And then we stopped about 249 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 2: I think maybe I was fourteen, so it was a 250 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 2: good ten years. It's really interesting because I honestly didn't 251 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:14,599 Speaker 2: know any better. So I have no memories of a Christmas, 252 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 2: you know, growing up, or traditions or anything like that. 253 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 2: So I guess it's the whole what you don't have, 254 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 2: you don't know. So I never felt like, you know, 255 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 2: I went without and we did these we had these 256 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 2: days called present days where we would just get a 257 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 2: whole bunch of presents, so basically Christmas and quite close 258 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 2: to you know, whatever days. And because it was just 259 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 2: my mum, like we weren't, you know, crazy about it 260 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 2: or anything, and so I yeah, I just kind of 261 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 2: didn't know any better. But my extended family used to celebrate, 262 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 2: so we would go to different things, so like I 263 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 2: knew of Christmas, but it's just like, wasn't something in 264 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 2: my life. I don't know. 265 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: For those who don't know, because I didn't know this 266 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 1: until I did a google before we spoke to you. 267 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: But why is it that Jehovah's witness don't celebrate Christmas? 268 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,839 Speaker 1: Because this was actually news to me. That sounds very 269 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 1: eager world, Sophie is by her asking you that question, 270 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: I feel like other people might be in the same boat. 271 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 2: Not no, no, I didn't know for so long too, 272 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 2: like even during I didn't know in it. It's something 273 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 2: I asked my mum, like only a couple of years ago, 274 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna lie still, I don't really understand it. 275 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 2: But if it's something like Jehovah's Witness believes that Jehovah, 276 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 2: which is God, he they don't believe that he was 277 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 2: actually like and they don't celebrate Easter either, so they 278 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 2: don't believe in Christmas and Easter because they call it 279 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 2: pagan festivals, and they just don't believe that that had 280 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 2: anything to do with God. And then also they believe 281 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 2: something like he directly told people not to celebrate his 282 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 2: birthday or something. So like, I'm not actually completely clear. 283 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 2: Is that what came out that. 284 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: It was along those We're probably going to have some 285 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 1: Jehovah's Witness contact. I was telling unswers, Well, one of 286 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 1: my friends is a Jehovah switching Oh yeah, one of 287 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 1: my work colleagues. So it's actually good to know because 288 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 1: I wasn't actually sure either. It does actually remind me. 289 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 1: I was watching your for a bit of research, watching 290 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:17,840 Speaker 1: your Christmas flog of the first time you put up 291 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: your Christmas tree with Tim, and I loved your conversation 292 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 1: in the car about hang on, why do you even 293 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 1: put a Christmas tree up? And like, to be honest, 294 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: I was watching it and thinking, hang on, why did 295 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: we put up? 296 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 2: I know it is interesting because I used to ask 297 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 2: my mom, like when we were to have this witness, 298 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 2: like why were people doing these traditions and whatnot? And 299 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 2: that's kind of the answer I got was just like 300 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 2: these like weird things that didn't, you know, make a 301 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 2: change to me because we didn't have those. 302 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: Traditions we're talking about sort of weird traditions. I'd love 303 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 1: to know what your mum told you about Santa Claus, 304 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: because did you think that he was real or what 305 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 1: did you think? But who did you think he was? Really? 306 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 2: Yes, so straight off the bat, I was told he 307 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 2: wasn't real. Oh, I know, this is what I'm talking about. 308 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 2: I never had a Christmas where I thought Santa was real, 309 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 2: where I thought I was getting presents like, nothing like that. 310 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 2: And most people, like they feel a bit sad for 311 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 2: me because I you know, never had it. I don't 312 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 2: know the alternative, but yeah, so I was just told 313 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 2: from a young age that you know, other kids believe 314 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 2: in Santa, and so you know, Mum said, you know, 315 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 2: don't say anything to other kids, but he's not real 316 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 2: and it's just something they do, really and that who 317 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 2: brings the presents. 318 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, so did you did you 319 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 1: actually follow your mom and did you not tell kids 320 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: or were you kind of that girl at school that 321 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: was like, oh, he's not real. Guys, Like, why was up? 322 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 2: Honestly, like, I can't even remember, but I would not 323 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 2: be surprised if I did that, because that just like 324 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 2: sounds like me being a little bit che kid for sure. 325 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: So how did you actually spend Christmas Day? Was that 326 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: the day you did get or your present that you 327 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: were talking about, or did you just have a chilled 328 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 1: out day with your family? 329 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 2: Just a chill day. So we always used to see family, 330 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 2: and still like if we had extended family who were 331 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 2: all together, we would always go over and see them 332 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 2: and you know, have the Christmas food and do the 333 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 2: family side of things. But it's just like on Christmas morning, 334 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 2: there was no tree, there was no presence or anything 335 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 2: like that. So I was still included in a lot 336 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 2: of Christmas traditions through other families. And I do remember 337 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 2: just spending it like almost just like it being family time, 338 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 2: like a family get together. That's all I kind of 339 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 2: remember of those times. But we never used to get 340 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 2: presents on Christmas Day. It was always like before or after. 341 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 1: Did you ever watch any Christmas movies and think like, oh, 342 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 1: I wish I could be celebrating this. 343 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, don't get me wrong. I was like, 344 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 2: and we say this, but I'm a sibling of three 345 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 2: older brothers, so four kids, and we always say to mom, 346 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 2: we're like you deprived. Us gets really upset. But one 347 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 2: hundred percent I was that kid who was like, Mom, 348 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 2: I want to celebrate Christmas like I always you know, 349 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:21,679 Speaker 2: like imagine being a kid and not celebrating Christmas. Of 350 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 2: course I wanted to, but I guess like I kind 351 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 2: of just didn't think too much about it. But I still, 352 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 2: you know, watched all the movies and watched The Grinch 353 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 2: and all that sort of thing. But it is just 354 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 2: like I'm I'm missing a bit of that kind of 355 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:40,199 Speaker 2: tradition and connection, and it is something like me and 356 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 2: Tim spoke about that when we had kids, that we 357 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 2: would start our own traditions and almost like this clean 358 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 2: slate where it's like, well we get to, you know, 359 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 2: do all our traditions ourselves and make it up. And 360 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 2: so I really enjoyed that idea. 361 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, do you have a friend that 362 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 1: has become a Christian mentor, because I think we'd wanting 363 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 1: to volunteer ourselves because we love to help with Christmas cheers, 364 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 1: spreading it, being Christmas obsessed people. So if you do 365 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 1: ever need some ideas of some traditions, you know who 366 00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 1: to come to. 367 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 2: So, no, I don't have a Christmas event, I would 368 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,440 Speaker 2: love that. I'm not gonna lie like I would love 369 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 2: to hear from you guys. It's like it's for obvious 370 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 2: reasons why I don't get it, But I don't get 371 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,920 Speaker 2: the Christmas cheer and the Christmas spirit and all that 372 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 2: sort of thing, like can you talk to. 373 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 1: Me, Gosh, don't worry, it's not just you, because like 374 00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: my boyfriend, he's been celebrating Christmas like since he was born, 375 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 1: but he still doesn't get it, Like he doesn't get 376 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 1: why Sophie Amy and I just get so excited. 377 00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:41,679 Speaker 2: I don't know. 378 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 1: For me, it's like this feeling that you get and 379 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: like even just different things evoke different memories, like the 380 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:51,639 Speaker 1: smell of the Christmas tree, and for me, it's just 381 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: this feeling. You can't explain what about you. So it 382 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 1: was really our grandma who made it so special, Like 383 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 1: everything was a tradition. So we'd always go out with 384 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 1: our dad and get a real Christmas tree, then we'd 385 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 1: go and drop one off to our grandma help them decorate. 386 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:05,360 Speaker 1: I think it was just that end of the year 387 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 1: when everything exciting was happening and family time. It was 388 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 1: just a magical time where there were so many different 389 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 1: activities on and I suppose we were all big believers 390 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 1: in Father Christmas, so I think the fact that there 391 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:19,679 Speaker 1: was this magical man sending presents and you know, you 392 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:21,200 Speaker 1: just had the best day. But you know what, I 393 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 1: don't think it was so much the presence that was 394 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 1: always just like we loved when our dad would put 395 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,639 Speaker 1: Christmas lights up or yeah, I do think it maybe 396 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:29,679 Speaker 1: is that tradition based and it was the end of 397 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 1: the year school holiday, and so you can see it 398 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,280 Speaker 1: would be so hard for you because if you don't 399 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:35,639 Speaker 1: have those traditions to begin with, and you don't have 400 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 1: those memories to come back. So what Georgie and Tim 401 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 1: are going to have to do is they're going to 402 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 1: have to start getting a real Christmas tree to familiarize 403 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 1: yourself with the seen. You're going to have to start 404 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:45,920 Speaker 1: putting Christmas lights up. 405 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:47,919 Speaker 2: You've got to. 406 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,439 Speaker 1: Find someone in your neighborhood to have a competition against 407 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 1: as well, because you've got to have the best Christmas 408 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 1: lights and the best Christmas tree. 409 00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh well, I am perfect perfect. 410 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,119 Speaker 1: So now that you do celebrate Christmas, what does your 411 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 1: typical Christmas Day look like? 412 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 2: So it was only last year, and I do remember 413 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 2: I put a vlogout about this, So it was only 414 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 2: last year. And also because when after like you know, 415 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 2: when you're fourteen, you're kind of you're over the kind 416 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 2: of childhood stage. So and all my brothers are older. 417 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,719 Speaker 2: So when we were fourteen and we stopped being Jehovah's witness, 418 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 2: there was kind of no point to start Christmas traditions 419 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 2: because I believe it's kind of more like you grow 420 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,680 Speaker 2: up doing it. So we just never got a tree 421 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 2: or anything like that. And then when we moved out 422 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 2: of home, like to be completely honest, like I was 423 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 2: in university and we just meant him never thought to 424 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 2: do it because it just seemed like it costs money. 425 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 2: It does, do you know. We were saving for our 426 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:53,200 Speaker 2: first house or we were living in a little apartment 427 00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:55,680 Speaker 2: with like other people, and so we just we never 428 00:20:55,760 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 2: did the Christmas thing. And then we recently bought a 429 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 2: house and it's like, you know, it feels like our 430 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 2: family house, and me and Tim were like, let's do 431 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 2: the Christmas thing. And we had decided that Christmas was 432 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 2: going to be at our house for the first time, 433 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 2: and so we were like, let's buy Christmas tree, like, 434 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,679 Speaker 2: let's do it all properly. So it was only last 435 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 2: year and it was the first time we bought a 436 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:24,679 Speaker 2: Christmas tree. We decorated. I think it was on like 437 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 2: the first of December. I think we did it, or 438 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 2: it was the Sunday before the first or whatever. And 439 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 2: so we did that and we did a tree and 440 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 2: that was really fun, Like I really enjoyed that, and 441 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 2: I cannot wait to do that with my kids, and 442 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 2: I definitely want to do I've seen people do this 443 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 2: thing where each year the kids like pick out their 444 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,680 Speaker 2: own ornament and they get to put like a new 445 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 2: ornament on the tree per year, so that's something little 446 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,920 Speaker 2: that I want to do. And then on Christmas Day 447 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 2: we have always just you know, in saying that, like 448 00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 2: when you guys were talking about the Christmas spirits, I 449 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 2: do get it from the family side. I'm My family's 450 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:08,400 Speaker 2: very family orientated and I really I love that aspect. 451 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 2: So it's definitely just like every single Christmas, we usually 452 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:16,639 Speaker 2: do breakfast with my family and then lunch with Tim's family, 453 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 2: all together, good food, and you know, dress up the 454 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 2: house and you get dressed up and you see everyone, 455 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 2: you have some drinks, and yeah, I definitely get it, 456 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 2: and it is a really nice day and I'm definitely 457 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 2: excited to like have more traditions in the future. That's 458 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:35,200 Speaker 2: kind of it so far. 459 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:38,360 Speaker 1: But oh that sounds perfect. And I've got to say 460 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 1: your tree looked amazing last year. I loved the white 461 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 1: decorations that looked very classy. So you're you're definitely doing 462 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 1: very well. You get out to approval. Can I make 463 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 1: a suggestion for you though, if you are looking for 464 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,719 Speaker 1: a tradition something I've been doing. I don't know if 465 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,640 Speaker 1: you've seen them, but at Maya. They and also online 466 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:58,439 Speaker 1: they sell the Limax Christmas like little villages, so you 467 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 1: can buy little houses. I've got what is it called, 468 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 1: we had a big fight, I've got a candy shop 469 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: and so it's got little gingerbread men who were making 470 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 1: candy for children. And there's obviously some classier ones as well, 471 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 1: but I could see that going quite well, like the tradition, 472 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: you buy one each year and slowly grow the Christmas stales. 473 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 1: They fout garish, but they're actually really really like lovely looking. 474 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 2: No. I like the sound of that. Like I like 475 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 2: the sound of like also adding to it, and that's 476 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 2: what we kind of said, like we're not going to 477 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:32,360 Speaker 2: just like go balls to the walls start and kind 478 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 2: of slowly add every single Yeah, so yeah, thank you. 479 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 2: I definitely I'll look at it. And also, do you 480 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,160 Speaker 2: guys do like that elf thing? 481 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 1: Elf on a shelf? See, that's kind of too new 482 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,359 Speaker 1: for us. I feel we tried, which we're supposed to 483 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 1: be doing it this year. That's he just reminded me. 484 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:49,720 Speaker 1: We bought a little one and we were going to 485 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: put it in different places. We'll start doing that in December. 486 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,400 Speaker 1: I feel like that's a good one though for kids, 487 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 1: because they seem to really get hooked on the elf 488 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:57,879 Speaker 1: on the shelf. But yeah, I don't think it was 489 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 1: a thing when we were younger. One of our friends 490 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 1: he did one for his kids, and the funniest scene 491 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 1: he set the elf up up in was with a 492 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: whole bunch of Barbie dolls. So he made it look 493 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 1: like he'd had this kind of wild night with like 494 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 1: ten Barbie dolls, so just so really appropriate for his children. 495 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:18,880 Speaker 2: He loved it. That'sfinitely something I would do well. 496 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 1: Moving onto Christmas food, and I did see a vlog 497 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,400 Speaker 1: from a little a few years ago where you spoke 498 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 1: about sort of anxiety people have about eating a lot 499 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 1: of food around the Christmas time. Do you have any 500 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 1: advice that people can follow if they are feeling like that. 501 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:38,119 Speaker 2: So I come from a background of I guess you 502 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 2: could have you would call me like a fitness influencer. 503 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 2: And I come from a background of being very hardcore 504 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 2: with dieting and wanting to look a certain way. So 505 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 2: I remember having a lot of anxiety around you know, 506 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:57,439 Speaker 2: even just family get togethers and then Christmas time, and 507 00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 2: it is something like I personally have worked through and 508 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:05,159 Speaker 2: I'm now an intuitive eater, so I don't kind of 509 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,880 Speaker 2: worry about that sort of thing. But if you are 510 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 2: someone who does get anxious around food, I think the 511 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 2: first thing is just like realizing that it's so important. 512 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 2: Like food isn't just to feed your body, but you know, 513 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 2: with your family and that sort of environment, it's really 514 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 2: important to see it for what it is, which is 515 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,639 Speaker 2: it's family orientated. It's nothing, you know, really to do 516 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 2: the food. And I used to sometimes get a bit 517 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,919 Speaker 2: lost in the of the food rather than the bigger 518 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,640 Speaker 2: picture of I'm spending time with my family. So that's 519 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 2: kind of like just something to think about. And also 520 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:47,879 Speaker 2: just it's really important, like don't try like if you 521 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 2: have a big Christmas meal, like don't try and out 522 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 2: exercise that or anything like literally just enjoy it, like 523 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,239 Speaker 2: enjoy it and be like that was delicious. You know, 524 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 2: that was so well deserves. Like you said, Christmas time 525 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 2: is like it's a winding down of the year, which 526 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 2: and bloody twenty twenty has been. It's been a hard year, 527 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 2: hasn't it. And so it's like give yourself grace, be 528 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,640 Speaker 2: klind to yourself, don't even don't even think that way, 529 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:19,199 Speaker 2: don't over exercise. And then it's just simple things like 530 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 2: if you are going to a family something and you 531 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 2: you know, you don't necessarily like the food or the 532 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 2: way they cook it is bring a dish that you 533 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,199 Speaker 2: like that you know is cooked in the way that 534 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 2: you like it, or you know a certain salad you like, 535 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 2: or you know, something like that. Also like don't do 536 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 2: the whole you know, skipping breakfast, not eating so you 537 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 2: can eat a bigger lunch, and something like that, like no, 538 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 2: just eat normal, enjoy your Christmas food is meant to 539 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:56,439 Speaker 2: be enjoyed. It's a couple of days a year, and 540 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 2: I think it's really important to see it for what 541 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:02,679 Speaker 2: it is, which it's you know, it's just beautiful, beautiful celebration, 542 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,439 Speaker 2: rather than getting anxious about what you're eating. 543 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 1: Well, I know, I've been trying to watch what I 544 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 1: eat and I'm just trying to find healthy alternatives to things. 545 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 1: And I've saw your amazing business Naked Harvest. You've got 546 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 1: a chocolate moon milk that looks like that's just Christmas 547 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:20,399 Speaker 1: all over it. Amy ran in to tell me She's like, 548 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: it's got magnesium in and apparently Amy's obsessed with magnesium 549 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 1: at the moment. Well, sometimes you need a bit of 550 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: magnesium to get to sleep, don't you, guys. 551 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 2: Magnesium is like I get it. I get the obpression 552 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:36,639 Speaker 2: it is. It's amazing. We all everyone. I heard this 553 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 2: like study the other day and it's like everyone in 554 00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,880 Speaker 2: Australia is deficient and magnesium. I'm like, guys, get onto 555 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 2: the moon milt. 556 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,159 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I've literally been telling everybody this. I've 557 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 1: been telling my mom. I'm like, because the pill makes 558 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,199 Speaker 1: you deficion of magnesium, A lot of people are obviously 559 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: on the pill when it can drain you. 560 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, magnesium is so important, especially what you said for sleep. 561 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,919 Speaker 2: So yeah, sorry. Moon milk is. It's a product from 562 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 2: Naked Harvest, which is my all natural supplement company that 563 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 2: I co own with my brother. And so it's just, 564 00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:08,639 Speaker 2: oh my god, it is our it is our best seller, 565 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 2: and it's for good reason. It is the most amazing product. 566 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:16,479 Speaker 2: So it's just basically a hot chocolate, but it is 567 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 2: filled with like superfoods and adaptations and minerals like magnesium 568 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 2: and Ashua ganda and it's basically going to help your 569 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 2: body and mind relax and unwined. So it's all natural. 570 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 2: So it's not going to like sedate you or anything 571 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,919 Speaker 2: like that. I'm going to leave you feeling groggy. But 572 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 2: especially I feel like you girls might be able to relate. 573 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 2: But I have a very busy mind, so you know, 574 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 2: even if I shut off work at five pm, I'm 575 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 2: still kind of, you know, thinking about different things. I 576 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 2: have a couple of moonmilk. I have it hot, I 577 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 2: have it with full cream milk, and I love it. It 578 00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:00,080 Speaker 2: is so chocolate y, it's vegan. It's really good. But 579 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 2: if you think about, you know, us always being on 580 00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:06,000 Speaker 2: fight or flight with you know, our alarms and our 581 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 2: phone screens and all that sort of thing, it just 582 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 2: puts your body in this really nice state where it's like, okay, 583 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 2: it's sleep time, it's relaxed time. I even really enjoy 584 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 2: it in the afternoon, a three pm sort of thing. 585 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 2: And yeah, that would be a really good hot chocolate alternative. 586 00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 2: It is, like I can honestly say, it's delicious. I'll 587 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:25,240 Speaker 2: have to send some to you, right. 588 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that'd be amazing because I can just 589 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,480 Speaker 1: imagine sitting down and watching Elf and having some Moon 590 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 1: milk like that just sounds well. It's such a cute 591 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 1: name I can just imagine, like this time next year, 592 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to open up Amy's pantry and She's just 593 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: gonna have like twenty boxes. Amy's just obsessed with supplements 594 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:48,360 Speaker 1: and health at the moment in a very good way. 595 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 1: Like yeah, shame. 596 00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:55,960 Speaker 2: It's really funny because yeah, it's our best seller and 597 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 2: it often gets sold out, and then we have a 598 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 2: couple of weeks before we can get it in because 599 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,880 Speaker 2: we're having some issues with shipping in COVID like everyone, 600 00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 2: and I'll have girls DM me and they're like, Georgia, 601 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 2: you need to bring moon milk Moon Milk back because 602 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 2: they literally like I can't sleep again and I'm having 603 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 2: the worst sleep, and so yeah, it's so funny. And 604 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 2: then as soon as it's back in stock, we have 605 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,120 Speaker 2: orders where people will literally buy five at a time. 606 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 1: I feel like that's when you can tell you're in 607 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 1: your late twenties to early thirties when you like need 608 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: moon milk to go to sleep. It's like me with 609 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: my komb butcher. I'm like, I've got to have a 610 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 1: kom butcher when I eat my dinner, Like I'm so boring. 611 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 1: It's your wine, that's like my wine. Yeah, it's very sad. 612 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,959 Speaker 2: But oh no, one hundred and ten percent. I know, 613 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 2: getting older, isn't it fun? 614 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 1: Do you have any other than moon milk? Do you 615 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 1: have any go to foods at Christmas time that you 616 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:49,680 Speaker 1: like to eat or that you like to cook. 617 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 2: I'm a big seafood person, so I love the whole 618 00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 2: Aussie Christmas where there's a lot of prawns and seafood 619 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 2: and that sort of things. So I don't even know, 620 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 2: like is that Christmas y? 621 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely yeh here I was like, did I just 622 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 1: make this up? Our grandma had oysters, so yeah, that's 623 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 1: and prawns and everyone. Yeah, yeah, and tongue. It's very 624 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 1: very aussy Christmas dinner. 625 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,080 Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, I love that. I love oysters, 626 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 2: I love prawns and all that sort of thing. And 627 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 2: I think I think because for us, like it's Christmas, 628 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 2: it's around a really hot time too, like that sort 629 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 2: of food like almost like kind of like fresh, but 630 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 2: it's hearty, and I love all the different salads. I 631 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 2: love it Christmas how it's like the only time that 632 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 2: you have a pick of like five salads. 633 00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 1: That's such a good point. Yeah, we're all vegetarian, so 634 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 1: that's really good for us. 635 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 2: Because it's interesting. Okay, we always. 636 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 1: Used to have Christmases like because we turned vegetarian when 637 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,920 Speaker 1: we were fourteen, but then up until we were about 638 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 1: twenty four, everyone just always forgot. They're like, oh, you're 639 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:57,600 Speaker 1: vegetarian at Christmas time. We're like, we have been for 640 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 1: the past ten years. Yeah, I'm going on today. 641 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 2: What do you guys love at Christmas time? Being vegetarian? 642 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: Well, it's all cats. I eat fish now, so I 643 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 1: have for the past two years. But we don't eat 644 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: fish at Christmas though, No, ye I don't. Well, we 645 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 1: normally eat like our mum and dad usually do a 646 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 1: roast dinner, so there's always heaps of like roast potatoes 647 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 1: and veggies and that sort of thing. Do you do 648 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 1: Yorkshire puddings, k Yeah, Yorkshire puddings so yeah, basically the 649 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 1: roast without the meat, so it's not actually very exciting. 650 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 1: Gratalads and potato bake and all of that kind of 651 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 1: stuff as well. My grandma would always do lots of salad, 652 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 1: so yeah, there was there was lots of different things 653 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,280 Speaker 1: we could have. We've actually been discussing we need to 654 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,239 Speaker 1: bring in I want to do a vegetarian lasagna this 655 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: Christmas Day. 656 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 2: That's yeah, how good does that say? There's a place 657 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 2: just down the road for me. It's called Govinda's. If 658 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:52,040 Speaker 2: you're over the Gold Coast, definitely hit it up. They 659 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 2: do the best vegetarian that it's a vegetarian store and 660 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 2: they do the best vegetarian lasagna. I'm pretty obsessed. You 661 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:01,320 Speaker 2: guys should definitely do that. 662 00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 1: That sounds amazing. 663 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 2: And what's your favorite Christmas dessert? 664 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 1: Oh? God, that's a tricky one because it's controversial, but 665 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,240 Speaker 1: I love Christmas pudding. A lot of people don't like it, 666 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,719 Speaker 1: but I think it's probably just the traditional thing, like 667 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 1: with hot custard and ice cream. I'm gonna get brownie points. 668 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,520 Speaker 1: My favorite is my Mum's Rocky Road because she'll be listening. 669 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 1: She always makes Rocky Road every year. Or a cheesecake Pavlova, 670 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 1: you guys, no, you gotta go pavlova. Do you have 671 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 1: a favorite dessert, Georgie. 672 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 2: I'm with you. Pavlova. 673 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so fresh and like, I don't know, it doesn't. 674 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 2: Feel crispy and delicious. Yeah, Jim, Jim's favorite is pavlova. 675 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 2: So we always have a big plover with like a 676 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 2: whole heap of fruit on top. 677 00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 1: I've gotta say Grandma's trifle as well. I can't believe 678 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 1: I forgot that, but our Grandma made an epic trifle 679 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 1: that was just you didn't really eat it on Christmas Day. 680 00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: You kind of had it as leftovers, but it was like, 681 00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 1: I love jelly, so you get like jelly and custard 682 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 1: and boger cake and really good. I feel like we 683 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 1: could talk about food the whole time, but we'll move 684 00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 1: on to gifts now. We've spoken in the past about 685 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 1: the pressure to get your partner the perfect present. What 686 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 1: do you and Tim usually do and do you set 687 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 1: a budget at all or do you just kind of 688 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:07,920 Speaker 1: go go wild? 689 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:13,320 Speaker 2: So it has been a little bit different like previous years. 690 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think back the last couple of years 691 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 2: me and Tim have actually said no Christmas gifts because 692 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 2: we were we were saving for various things. I think 693 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 2: we're saving for our house, so we're like, let's not 694 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:33,799 Speaker 2: do Christmas gifts, and then we I think last year 695 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,720 Speaker 2: we did it was like the mark was two hundred dollars, 696 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 2: so we kind of capped it there for each other 697 00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 2: and then with family I'm a big gift card person 698 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,840 Speaker 2: because I like receiving gift cards and then buying my 699 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 2: own thing, which I know some people they get really like, oh, 700 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:54,799 Speaker 2: it's so insensitive to give a gift card. But I'm like, 701 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,719 Speaker 2: that's the best gift. It really is. 702 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,200 Speaker 1: It really is, because anything goes spend it in the same. 703 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 2: Well, that's I'm a big Boxing Day sale girl, so 704 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:07,880 Speaker 2: I'm like perfect. Yeah. So we usually it's around the 705 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 2: two hundred dollar mark for each other, but in previous 706 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,200 Speaker 2: years we have just said I'm not gonna lie. I'm 707 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 2: totally that girlfriend who was like, we're not doing Christmas 708 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 2: presents this year. We're saving. And then on Christmas Day 709 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,440 Speaker 2: when Tim actually didn't get me a present, I was like, 710 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 2: are you serious. 711 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,279 Speaker 1: See that's my fear because my partner and I have 712 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 1: just bought a house and we move in on December fourteenth, 713 00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:35,040 Speaker 1: and we're like, oh, you know, we're spending so much money, 714 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,960 Speaker 1: maybe we shouldn't do Christmas presents. But I'm like, if 715 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,760 Speaker 1: I then don't get something for him, you got to. Yeah, 716 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:43,480 Speaker 1: this is a This is a hint for Tim and 717 00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 1: Reese if they listen to this to actually just get 718 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,879 Speaker 1: a present. Even if you guys say that, Loce does 719 00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 1: not listen to this, so. 720 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 2: A hundred percent, like this is like a PSA to 721 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 2: any boyfriend your girlfriend says, Oh, just don't get me 722 00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,960 Speaker 2: a present, Like we're not doing presents because you're saving 723 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:01,800 Speaker 2: still get. 724 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 1: Can get a candle? 725 00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:10,040 Speaker 2: How I remember, like I remember feeling like devastated. Do 726 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,479 Speaker 2: you remember it's so confused because he was like, I'm 727 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:14,520 Speaker 2: so confused right now, what is happening? 728 00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 1: Do you remember what you got him? Was it something 729 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:19,600 Speaker 1: pretty amazing? Was it just sort of like a token thing? 730 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, it probably wasn't even that good. I think it 731 00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 2: was like just pajamas or something. So I thought you 732 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 2: I was like, I thought you'd get me something small 733 00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 2: at least, Actually, I. 734 00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:32,600 Speaker 1: Think I don't know if you've seen on Netflix Holiday, 735 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,080 Speaker 1: it's a kind of crap Christmas movie that's been brought 736 00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:36,759 Speaker 1: out this year. But there's a scene on there. 737 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 2: Watch it. 738 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:38,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, there was a scene on there at the 739 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 1: start of the movie when the girl she got him 740 00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,200 Speaker 1: like three pairs of car key pants and he didn't 741 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 1: get her anything and she just went off. I'm just 742 00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 1: imagining that now. 743 00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:50,239 Speaker 2: Literally so funny. But me and Jim had been here 744 00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 2: for like nine years, so I felt like it was 745 00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:52,800 Speaker 2: more balid. 746 00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 1: Well, because we're going to be getting into the new 747 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 1: year soon. Hope twenty one is a bit better than 748 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:04,400 Speaker 1: twenty twenty has been. And you are sort of the 749 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:07,799 Speaker 1: guru for goal setting. We'd love to hear what your 750 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 1: advice is for people who are setting goals for next year. 751 00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:16,279 Speaker 2: A guru for goal setting, I love so I'm a 752 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 2: huge I don't know if you guys have picked this up, 753 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 2: but I'm a huge control freak, a huge planner, and 754 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:26,439 Speaker 2: I love writing goals. I love, you know, planning things. 755 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,719 Speaker 2: And I think at the start of the year, it's 756 00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:32,920 Speaker 2: just got this like fresh energy, a shift in energy. 757 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:36,160 Speaker 2: And I'm really really hoping, like I think twenty twenty 758 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 2: was different for us. You know, it started with the 759 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 2: fires and then it was COVID A lot was happening, 760 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,560 Speaker 2: so we never really got those like new year vibes. 761 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 2: But I'm really hoping twenty twenty one is different, and 762 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:53,319 Speaker 2: it does feel a bit like sort of fresh. I 763 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:55,799 Speaker 2: guess a big thing for goals, Like I have this 764 00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:59,440 Speaker 2: whole goal planning strategy and I won't get like two 765 00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 2: into it. It's a bit crazy. I've fit in depth, 766 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:04,920 Speaker 2: but I think you just need to look at it 767 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:09,839 Speaker 2: and you need to really think of what is your intention. 768 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 2: So I don't like to have this whole list of 769 00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:17,279 Speaker 2: you know, like nine random things or a lot going on. 770 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:21,000 Speaker 2: I really try and sit down, and I'm someone who likes, 771 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:25,839 Speaker 2: you know, meditating and journaling and being intuitive in how 772 00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 2: I'm feeling. And so it's kind of like if you 773 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:32,760 Speaker 2: actually sit down and you're like, what is my actual 774 00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:37,160 Speaker 2: intention for the next couple of months. Am I focusing on, 775 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 2: you know, whether you have a business, Am I focusing 776 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:44,359 Speaker 2: on my health? Am I focusing on personal relationships? Like, 777 00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 2: really dig deep into what's important for you, because I 778 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,759 Speaker 2: think it's so easy for it to be the new 779 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,640 Speaker 2: year and you to just go, oh, I want to 780 00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:57,359 Speaker 2: you know, lose ten kilos or run a marathon and 781 00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,279 Speaker 2: do all these random things that's really not you know, 782 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,600 Speaker 2: heart based for you. But it's kind of just what 783 00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:06,319 Speaker 2: people do on the New Year. And so I'm not 784 00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 2: really interested in that sort of thing. I'm very interested 785 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:12,200 Speaker 2: in coming things. And really I really talk about this 786 00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 2: concept of like having these heart desires of something that 787 00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,719 Speaker 2: you really want to do and listening to that and yeah, 788 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 2: like I said, like coming from an intention. So even 789 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:27,400 Speaker 2: if it's like like, for example, me, I went through 790 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 2: a surgery where I had my breast implants removed because 791 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:35,759 Speaker 2: I've been having health issues with them. And so my 792 00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 2: intention for the new year is to really just focus 793 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:45,080 Speaker 2: on getting back to feeling myself and health and like 794 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 2: not you know, to run a marathon or lose weight 795 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 2: or anything like that. So looking at from a perspective 796 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,960 Speaker 2: and like I've already, I like to also have words 797 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,000 Speaker 2: at the start of the year. So for me, my 798 00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:03,560 Speaker 2: three words for twenty twenty one is health, healing, and happiness. 799 00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:09,200 Speaker 2: And it just so happens that they're all hate. Instead 800 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:13,319 Speaker 2: of going and it being very specific, I like to 801 00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 2: come from that, yeah, that heart space and it being 802 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:19,400 Speaker 2: really intentional and it making sense you know, to me 803 00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 2: or you guys, and it like really making sense rather 804 00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:26,560 Speaker 2: than just having a goal because you know, you think 805 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,160 Speaker 2: you have to have a goal, or if it's you know, 806 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,040 Speaker 2: what Sally's doing or whatnot. 807 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,040 Speaker 1: That's such a good point because sometimes you do feel 808 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,719 Speaker 1: compelled to be like, yeah, I'm gonna you know, get 809 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 1: fit this new year, or I mean mine was meant 810 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 1: to be that I'm going to go to bed early. 811 00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,440 Speaker 1: Actually that has kind of happened. We're all notice, I'm 812 00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 1: just reflecting on the year that's been. But one really 813 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,359 Speaker 1: positive thing about twenty twenty one is enrollments for your 814 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,719 Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer online course open. I know it's been 815 00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,400 Speaker 1: hugely successful. Can you tell us a little bit about that, 816 00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 1: because I think that could be something great that our 817 00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,879 Speaker 1: listeners could get involved in that will help them sort 818 00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:01,839 Speaker 1: of reach their goals hopefully as well. 819 00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:05,439 Speaker 2: Yeah. No, thank you for mentioning that yet. So that's 820 00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 2: my Rising Conquer six week online course. It's called the 821 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 2: Rising Conquer Project. And it's funny because it really came 822 00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,880 Speaker 2: about because I kind of, like I said, I have 823 00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:20,759 Speaker 2: my own process with goal setting and achieving things. And 824 00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:24,080 Speaker 2: I kind of noticed this because I do have a 825 00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:27,839 Speaker 2: background in I was a lawyer and then I left 826 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:32,439 Speaker 2: my corporate job to start my own business and well 827 00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:35,600 Speaker 2: a couple of businesses, and then that was you know, 828 00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 2: that's a huge step, and I know a lot of 829 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:42,160 Speaker 2: women or people face that. And then there's just been 830 00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:45,200 Speaker 2: quite a few big things in my life and I've 831 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,560 Speaker 2: had people being like, you know, how do you know 832 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 2: you're ready? How do you know how to go off 833 00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:54,279 Speaker 2: and start things? And so I kind of backtracked and 834 00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:58,359 Speaker 2: realized before any sort of end, this even was the 835 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:02,920 Speaker 2: same case. Meant recently made a huge change where we 836 00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 2: used to live in the city and now we have 837 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,360 Speaker 2: moved to the beach and we've kind of really transformed 838 00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:12,680 Speaker 2: our lifestyle from like city life to beach life. So 839 00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:16,040 Speaker 2: that just has been these various things that have happened 840 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,200 Speaker 2: where people like, you know, like how do you do this? 841 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,640 Speaker 2: And so I kind of backtracked and realized that I 842 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:26,400 Speaker 2: use this formula every time I want to, and I 843 00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,520 Speaker 2: call it like up level, but it's more just like 844 00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:33,920 Speaker 2: when you have a need and a heart desire to 845 00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:37,080 Speaker 2: do something new or change something. And I think we 846 00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:41,600 Speaker 2: can all sort of agree it can be so hard 847 00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 2: and it can be so daunting, but in reality, honestly, 848 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:51,000 Speaker 2: like it's always our limiting beliefs that are holding us back. 849 00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:54,000 Speaker 2: And so throughout this course, the first thing I do 850 00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,319 Speaker 2: is I teach you this formula, which this kind of 851 00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,799 Speaker 2: six step formula that I do before anything big, and 852 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:04,120 Speaker 2: then I also go through these things like limiting beliefs, 853 00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 2: and I sort of disarm them and we work through 854 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:13,200 Speaker 2: there's workbooks and whatnot, and basically I help women kind 855 00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,520 Speaker 2: of just step up and up level to wherever they 856 00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:19,520 Speaker 2: want to go. It is kind of broad because you know, 857 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,440 Speaker 2: some people take the course and they start a new business, 858 00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:26,320 Speaker 2: or just some people like I recently had a girl 859 00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 2: send me an amazing email and she was just a 860 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,440 Speaker 2: new mum and she said the course helped her so 861 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:36,720 Speaker 2: much just to find herself again, like just to find 862 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:40,480 Speaker 2: that sense and clarity of who she was. And so 863 00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,800 Speaker 2: it's just, yeah, it's a formula where you can up level, 864 00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,400 Speaker 2: you can try something new, you can step out of 865 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:48,920 Speaker 2: your comfort zone, and we do it with a group, 866 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:52,600 Speaker 2: so it is so supportive and oh my god, the 867 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:56,800 Speaker 2: energy in this group is just it's yeah, it's contagious 868 00:43:56,880 --> 00:44:00,800 Speaker 2: and it's electric, and it's it's really amazing. It's completely 869 00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:04,239 Speaker 2: my passion projects. So I'm really excited. We will be 870 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:10,240 Speaker 2: doing an enrollment probably January or February. I haven't got 871 00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:13,799 Speaker 2: complete details yet, but definitely coming in twenty twenty one. 872 00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:16,440 Speaker 2: And yeah, we've done two rounds already and just had 873 00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:20,640 Speaker 2: the most amazing testimonials and reviews, So that's kind of 874 00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:22,879 Speaker 2: definitely what I'm focusing on. For the new year. 875 00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,960 Speaker 1: Well that's so exciting. Well, thank you so much for 876 00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 1: joining us. I literally could listen to you talk the 877 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:29,880 Speaker 1: whole time. I felt so at zen when you were talking. 878 00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:32,359 Speaker 1: Then I was like, yes, just taking everything. I felt 879 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,480 Speaker 1: so at peace. You need to do the online course? Yeah, 880 00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 1: I know, I'm not so motivated after hearing your talk. 881 00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:41,600 Speaker 2: Let's just say so. There's like videos for each module 882 00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,680 Speaker 2: and I talk for like two hours, So I do it. 883 00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,360 Speaker 2: I think we I think the audience can realize Georgie 884 00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:51,200 Speaker 2: is a chatter. She loves to chat. So I appreciate 885 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,839 Speaker 2: that because I never know if I'm talking too much. 886 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:55,759 Speaker 2: But I guess, you know, you guys are interviewing me, 887 00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,279 Speaker 2: so I went, you're going. 888 00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,360 Speaker 1: To sit down enjoy the course with your movie. You 889 00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:04,000 Speaker 1: know it's no, but it's so relaxing listening to you talk. 890 00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,200 Speaker 1: It honestly is so thank you so much for being 891 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 1: on the podcast, and we do hope you have the 892 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:10,680 Speaker 1: most amazing Christmas this year. And as we said, we're 893 00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,359 Speaker 1: always here to call on if you do need any 894 00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:14,240 Speaker 1: advice how to get into the Christmas spirit. 895 00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:18,600 Speaker 2: No, I really appreciate it, and I loved, you know, 896 00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:22,839 Speaker 2: chatting about my kind of weird Christmas sort of side 897 00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:27,359 Speaker 2: of things. But I'm I'm really excited to set some 898 00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:29,960 Speaker 2: more Christmas traditions and you know, like when we have 899 00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:34,400 Speaker 2: kids to really sort of like like you guys for explaining, 900 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:38,000 Speaker 2: to really have that kind of Christmas feel and Christmas 901 00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,759 Speaker 2: spirit too. So yeah, no, I really really appreciate it. 902 00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:42,319 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me on the show.