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Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to a very outspoken Christmas.

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Speaker 2: We're coming to you on Christmas Eve, one of our

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Speaker 2: favorite days of the year. It's also three years since

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Speaker 2: you guys got engaged not to each other, yeah, the

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Speaker 2: joint engagement.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe it's been that long ago, but I

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Speaker 1: suppose we've already had the weddings. See. I was cheeky

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Speaker 1: of the boys.

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Speaker 2: Though, because you can't really do something to celebrate and

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Speaker 2: anniversal on Christmas.

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Speaker 1: You've got seem like you to find the negative in

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Speaker 1: this situation.

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Speaker 2: So for you to think Amy three years on and

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Speaker 2: we're both pregnant at the same time too, we've got

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Speaker 2: to stop sharing these miles together. It's also crazily for

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Speaker 2: og listeners, been five years since I wore my shorts

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Speaker 2: inside out on my Christmas Eve shop and literally look

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Speaker 2: like a superhero with in birt undies.

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Speaker 1: Now you're also rocking this.

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Speaker 2: Terrible tan, so your tan had gone off. You looked

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Speaker 2: like the Grinch walking around the AUDI. I want to

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Speaker 2: give a tip, and it's taken me a long time

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Speaker 2: to learn this for anyone who is doing their Christmas

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Speaker 2: pre tan, which I think you probably should have already

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Speaker 2: done by way, I wouldn't do it the day before.

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Speaker 1: Shame anyone, because there are going to be some last night.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's hard with Christmas Eve falling on a

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Speaker 2: Wednesday to do the math of when to actually do

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Speaker 2: your tan. But I was looking so green because I

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Speaker 2: never cleaned my mit, so I had a lot of

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Speaker 2: Gfter hearing this, I went out and bought a new mit. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Myrid gave me that recommend date segment you never clean

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Speaker 2: your mitt after you do your tand no, well I

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Speaker 2: just put it back in the thing. I was looking

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Speaker 2: so green.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't Bondai Sand's fault. It was my fault. I

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Speaker 1: could psa here. I'm sorry, Bunda Sands. I'm actually in

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Speaker 1: shock that you don't wash the mit.

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Speaker 2: You do.

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Speaker 1: I do it every time after.

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Speaker 2: Sophie if a tan off and I tan weekly. Sophie

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Speaker 2: is a secret grub, so this does not surprise me.

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Speaker 2: Everybody who knows Sophie they think she's so put together

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Speaker 2: because she puts across his image.

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Speaker 1: No, they do after they've heard.

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Speaker 2: About my towels. I don't think anyone thinks put together.

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Speaker 2: When is the right time to do your Christmas Day tan,

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Speaker 2: because I know a lot of people are finding it

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Speaker 2: hard to navigate with New Year's Eve.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not even doing anything.

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Speaker 2: I've already been trying to make changes in my weekly routine,

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Speaker 2: so I set myself up a few weeks in advance.

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Speaker 2: So three weeks before Christmas, I started doing a TAN

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Speaker 2: on a Saturday night. Clearly I wasn't up too much

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Speaker 2: or a Sunday night, So then my TAN routine was

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Speaker 2: starting earlier in the week, and I was looking good

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Speaker 2: all week.

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Speaker 1: How can you be fucked while you're pregnant, That's what

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Speaker 1: I want to know, idea.

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Speaker 2: Because I hadn't done a TAN for six months. I

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Speaker 2: think the last TWN I did was at my baby shower.

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Speaker 2: I only did my arms, and then, of course, whilst

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Speaker 2: Jack's been here, I have had no time. But I

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Speaker 2: do have to say I felt like a completely different

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Speaker 2: person with a tan. Look I'm falling into the Indie

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Speaker 2: Clinton camp. I listened to the interview that you did

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Speaker 2: with her. This is for my mental health. I'm not

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Speaker 2: feeling like myself at the moment. I'm already obviously seeing

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Speaker 2: changes in my body. I want to put my best

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Speaker 2: foot forward. I still want to feel like me. But

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Speaker 2: you're thirteen weeks pregnant, so if you week I do

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Speaker 2: look different, I've been, you.

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Speaker 1: Do feel different.

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Speaker 2: I do. I've got these big tits out of nowhere.

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Speaker 2: I don't know well for me, I mean they're fucking

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Speaker 2: tiny for anyone else. But I feel like a different

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Speaker 2: person and I feel more like me if I'm doing

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Speaker 2: give a far right. So we've got it that people

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Speaker 2: shouldn't be doing their tans today. It's too close to

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Speaker 2: Christmas Day. I want to talk about what we've got

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Speaker 2: planned for Christmas Eve? What have we all got planned?

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Speaker 2: Obviously this is pre recorded so well. We have the

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Speaker 2: same Christmas Eve tradition every year where we like to

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Speaker 2: watch carols by candlelight, and every year we go to

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Speaker 2: our mum and dad's house for dinner. A mum usually

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Speaker 2: puts on a Christmas dinner, so there'll be chickens and veggies,

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Speaker 2: which is quite funny because then we end up having

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Speaker 2: the same thing three nights in a row because we

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Speaker 2: also have Boxing Day with our auntie and uncle.

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Speaker 1: This year, I think we.

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Speaker 2: Might do something different though, for Christmas Eve. I think

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Speaker 2: we were discussing that maybe not a chicken dinner because,

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Speaker 2: as you said, you get so sick of it.

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Speaker 1: See.

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Speaker 2: I thought we were going to be doing something different

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Speaker 2: for you Christmas dinner at your house, Amy, because no

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Speaker 2: one wanting to do the roast.

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Speaker 1: No, but I thought we were going to be doing salads.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all of that barbecue be quite nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So Christmas Day, well, Christmas Dinner is at Dale in

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Speaker 2: my house, so a lot of my Christmas Eve is

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Speaker 2: going to be spent cleaning, cooking all of those fun things.

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Speaker 2: I think we need to have a chat about who's

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Speaker 2: bringing what and make it really easy on you because

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Speaker 2: you are going to be what like twenty three weeks.

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Speaker 2: That was Leah Estinas's advice in our Christmas episode. She's like,

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Speaker 2: you need to delegate things. Mum's already organized the chickens,

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Speaker 2: all right, We're going to organize who's doing what, salad's

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Speaker 2: what desserts.

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Speaker 1: They have that fun style.

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Speaker 2: I think one of our friends has the right ideas.

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Speaker 2: She is staying in a hotel on Christmas Eve with

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Speaker 2: her nana and sisters, and then in the morning they're

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Speaker 2: waking up to this beautiful buffet breakfast and they're just

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Speaker 2: any of the cooking duties. See, we had a family

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Speaker 2: function with our mum's side of the family, who not

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Speaker 2: all of us are seeing on Christmas Day, and it

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Speaker 2: was actually so nice. We went to a pub and

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Speaker 2: it actually meant that everyone could socialize, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I could actually see that working on Christmas Day. But

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Speaker 2: I think you'd maybe go back to someone's house and

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Speaker 2: have dessert. So there's that element, you know what. That's

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Speaker 2: just how it feels probably being a man. I know

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Speaker 2: them being stereotypical here, but the fact that they most

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Speaker 2: you know what I've noticed, And it's a real pet

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Speaker 2: peeve of mine, is that there will generally be a

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Speaker 1: The woman what they're bringing.

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Speaker 2: It'll be like or delegating, so Sophie, you can bring this. Sorry,

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Speaker 2: Why is my partner.

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Speaker 1: Not having to be involved?

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Speaker 2: Most likely because again generalizing, the husband's too hopeless to

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Speaker 2: even remember. But that's excuse, Like my partner has got

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Speaker 2: away with that excuse so many times, like he we

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Speaker 2: were double booked for this Christmas family catch up. He

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Speaker 2: said to him, block out this day. This is when

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Speaker 2: we're catching up with my family. I was mindful, what

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Speaker 2: day you catching up with yours. I didn't read the message.

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Speaker 2: I don't have a calendar that is purpose I can

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Speaker 2: get one, because what happens then the pregnancy hormones are

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Speaker 2: I just don't like the excuse of men. It's kind

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Speaker 2: of like I don't have to have a calendar. I

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Speaker 2: don't have to be across it that is done purposely,

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Speaker 2: because what happens is the guy's family gets so over

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Speaker 2: having to go to them. Yeah, but then they just

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Speaker 2: go straight to you and you have to organize their calendar.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what annoys me?

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Speaker 2: And we're probably generalizing based on our partners, but they

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Speaker 2: all go, oh, I don't like Christmas.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking, why you get to rock up, eat nice food.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to organize any of the gifts except

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Speaker 2: the gift that you give your partner.

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Speaker 1: I keep lose.

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Speaker 2: I keep seeing all these memes saying that it's actually

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Speaker 2: women who create all of the magic of Christmas, and

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Speaker 2: I tend to say that that is.

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Speaker 1: Quite from our father.

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Speaker 2: Our father he really created our love for Christmas by

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Speaker 2: putting and Mum by putting up Christmas lights, by having

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Speaker 2: the tradition of getting the tree. This episode has turned

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Speaker 2: into the BBC's Grumpy Christmas, Grumpy Women's Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Thank you if for not adding grumpy old woman Goodness

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Speaker 1: groby Midde.

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Speaker 2: One thing I noticed last year, which Dale actually that

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Speaker 2: their job to get the ice, to organize it the day.

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Speaker 2: I remember Dad on Christmas Day because Mum and Dad

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Speaker 2: they're not having it there, and then Christmas morning we

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Speaker 1: We're like, where is he? Yeah, what's he doing? It

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Speaker 1: was his one job he had to do. He picks

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Speaker 2: So complicated, like, oh, I have to go and get

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Speaker 2: some ice from the petrol station. We've deviated a bit

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Speaker 2: to be talking about what we were doing Christmas Eve.

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Speaker 2: But after dinner on Christmas Eve, we normally go for

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Speaker 2: a light walk around our parents area because they have

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Speaker 2: the best Christmas life.

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Speaker 1: Everyone goes nuts.

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Speaker 2: It's so beautiful and they're all such tasteful displays.

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Speaker 1: That's what I love this year.

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Speaker 2: I'm hoping because normally after it we go to mom

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Speaker 2: and Dad's house. I come home and stay up really

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Speaker 2: that day, or you know, weeks in advance. So every

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Speaker 2: hoping I'm not jinxing myself that i won't have too

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Speaker 2: many things to write I did the same thing, but

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Speaker 2: then I have been screwed over by Australia Posts. I've

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Speaker 2: got all these messages being like your package may not

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Speaker 2: even arrive in time despite me ordering it a few

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Speaker 2: weeks in advance. You guys always pay me out for

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Speaker 2: being disorganized. So do you see the Christmas presence wrapped

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Speaker 2: up in their beautiful I mean retro. Yeah, but you

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Speaker 2: said you haven't got Dad's gift yet.

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Speaker 1: That's going to screw you over. Now I'm going to

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Speaker 1: the train shop.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to get say what about my Christmas lights?

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Speaker 2: Because that's something that Dale and I got into this year.

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Speaker 2: We've done a huge Christmas light display already for baby

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Speaker 2: Ate to join the world and Kate also for Jack

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Speaker 2: to see. Yeah, he hasn't seen them yet. I mean

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Speaker 2: go down. Let's put this into perspective. This game has

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of like sexual questions about like how

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Speaker 1: Because I've been quite surprised at the quality of some

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Speaker 2: I mean, if this goes out and the reel's already

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Speaker 1: Whatever.

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Speaker 2: But I have been screen recording every influencer's Christmas tree.

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Speaker 2: I was absolutely shocked when I saw Tammy Hembros. That

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Speaker 2: looks like a bloody toilet.

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Speaker 1: Let's just add in a trigger.

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Speaker 2: Let's adding a trigger warning here because people get really sensitive.

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Speaker 2: This is clearly just a joke, like everybody's Christmas tree

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Speaker 1: By the floods or she was shamed for it. It

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Speaker 2: We said, God, these people have gone through enough, don't

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Speaker 1: It was the most awful tree I've ever seen. I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was nicer. It was one of those trees

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Speaker 2: I had a lot to discuss. So bet Jard, did

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Speaker 1: It was a stick one going viral on the Daily Man.

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Speaker 2: Do you know one thing that really grinds my gears

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Speaker 2: Do you know whose tree looks amazing is Courtney Magnan's.

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Speaker 1: Has been bows. As she's coming for a while.

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Speaker 2: Well, she did this stunning, huge bowl on the top

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Speaker 1: They really need ornament hooks. And I was like, that's

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Speaker 2: I have too many decorations to put hooks on all

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Speaker 1: It is worth it.

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Speaker 2: So I have been taking all my decorations off, cutting

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Speaker 1: I think that the key to having.

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Speaker 2: A nice Christmas tree is making sure that you depoofed

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Speaker 1: Probably you fluff the tree out. Did you guys see that?

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Speaker 1: Tarlia Scanes went viral because of how bad her Christmas

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Speaker 2: It was the only way she could get one in

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Speaker 2: Her only concern was she kept it because she was

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Speaker 2: got a new Christmas I had not have one. Well,

444
00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:32,000
Speaker 2: this new Christmas tree still looked a bit average.

445
00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:32,800
Speaker 1: It looked a lot better.

446
00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:36,800
Speaker 2: I remember her Christmas tree with Mitch Third and it

447
00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:39,479
Speaker 2: had all It was that era of influencers where they

448
00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:40,640
Speaker 2: just put like Louis.

449
00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:42,560
Speaker 1: Verton and Chew like designer bags.

450
00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,199
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm pretty sure that Tarlie was giving her

451
00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,320
Speaker 2: family and friends designer gifts on that. I thought it

452
00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:51,680
Speaker 2: would be interesting to discuss how we go about selecting

453
00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:55,119
Speaker 2: gifts and what we spent, because I know I had

454
00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:57,800
Speaker 2: a conversation with friends, and it's so interesting to hear

455
00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:00,520
Speaker 2: what people's not so much what their budget is, but

456
00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:03,080
Speaker 2: whether they do like a Chris Kringle or whether you're

457
00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:05,639
Speaker 2: buying everyone. What about for partners this year, like what

458
00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:08,520
Speaker 2: are you spending on your husband's It's kind.

459
00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:09,160
Speaker 1: Of a perfect question.

460
00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:13,080
Speaker 2: See for Brandon and I presence, Well, for Brandon it's particular.

461
00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:15,440
Speaker 2: I think presents are his love language, and it's his

462
00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:19,240
Speaker 2: families love language. So for them, they love nothing more

463
00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:22,400
Speaker 2: than buying something that people have been dreaming about all year,

464
00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:25,119
Speaker 2: or something that they've really thought about. But often it

465
00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,200
Speaker 2: comes with a hefty price tag, which is really difficult

466
00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:30,760
Speaker 2: at this time of year when everything is so expensive.

467
00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:33,480
Speaker 2: I get really annoyed because we brandon and I said

468
00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:36,600
Speaker 2: a budget, and then he'll often try and go over it.

469
00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:38,280
Speaker 2: But I don't like that because I actually I know

470
00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,520
Speaker 2: this sounds like fucking lame or whatever, but I love

471
00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:43,840
Speaker 2: giving people presents almost more than receiving it, and I

472
00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:45,240
Speaker 2: get excited when I feel like.

473
00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:47,240
Speaker 1: I've almost given a better present.

474
00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,840
Speaker 2: Like see, we normally each year, like the three of

475
00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:52,040
Speaker 2: us and then our partners will go in for a

476
00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:55,000
Speaker 2: present for mum and dad. But this year you wanted

477
00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,480
Speaker 2: to make it that we all give them a separate

478
00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:01,200
Speaker 2: gift because you like the kudos of picking.

479
00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:02,520
Speaker 1: Out a good gift and getting thanked.

480
00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,680
Speaker 2: I don't like the kudos, but I actually felt like

481
00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:07,440
Speaker 2: you were after the kudos, because you'd be like, I

482
00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:10,000
Speaker 2: picked it, I wrapped it, here goes, and I felt

483
00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:11,720
Speaker 2: like I was setting the money in but I was

484
00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:15,880
Speaker 2: getting none of the I it's just because I'm because

485
00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:19,200
Speaker 2: obviously now we've got Kate's son Jack, he's involved in

486
00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,719
Speaker 2: the mix with presents, and sometimes when there's a baby,

487
00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:23,280
Speaker 2: then the.

488
00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:27,360
Speaker 1: Parents get cut off. We're not doing that. Be cut off. Yeah,

489
00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:28,840
Speaker 1: but we're not. But we're not doing that.

490
00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:31,080
Speaker 2: But I'm just saying next year everyone's cut off. I'm

491
00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:34,720
Speaker 2: joking maybe to keep it fair, but for one year,

492
00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:36,280
Speaker 2: we don't get cut off. The only thing is I

493
00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:38,840
Speaker 2: really like getting you to a gift. It's more the

494
00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:41,280
Speaker 2: partners when you're like, fuck, what do I get a

495
00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,879
Speaker 2: thirty six year old man who can buy whatever he

496
00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,800
Speaker 2: w It's on you because what normally happens is I'll

497
00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:49,479
Speaker 2: then pick something for Reese from you guys, and then

498
00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:51,240
Speaker 2: you do it for your partners and then you basically

499
00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:53,240
Speaker 2: have to go quickly give it to you to wrap

500
00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,600
Speaker 2: in your wrapping paper or we just wrap it and yeah,

501
00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:58,720
Speaker 2: it kind of loses its magic there. But yeah, maybe

502
00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:01,520
Speaker 2: we should try, Chris, we are doing one of those

503
00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:04,800
Speaker 2: steal the gifts, stealing things with our cousins.

504
00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:07,200
Speaker 1: And much a bad center. Maybe, yeah, I think it is.

505
00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,200
Speaker 2: So I'm actually really looking forward to that because I

506
00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 2: think everyone's just going to take the piss and choose

507
00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:11,520
Speaker 2: something funny.

508
00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,360
Speaker 1: I still need to get one. Yeah, one, shit, there's

509
00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:15,320
Speaker 1: probably going to be one of those.

510
00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 2: So another tradition that we have is going late night

511
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,000
Speaker 2: shopping with our cousins on I think it's like usually

512
00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:24,200
Speaker 2: like the twenty second of December and get always leave.

513
00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:24,560
Speaker 1: Well.

514
00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,720
Speaker 2: One of our cousins in particular, will always leave his

515
00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:29,959
Speaker 2: shopping to last minute. The only people he really has

516
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:33,160
Speaker 2: to buy presents for is his brother under his parents,

517
00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:36,199
Speaker 2: and he is literally like so indecisive about love him.

518
00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:40,240
Speaker 2: He's incredible. He will always be spending so long deciding

519
00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:43,119
Speaker 2: which hand cream to get his mum. It's like, just

520
00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:44,800
Speaker 2: fucking go with the nady O one. That's the one

521
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:47,440
Speaker 2: you've got every fucking year. Just peek it out and

522
00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:49,840
Speaker 2: pay for it and let's go. Yeah. I feel like

523
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:53,440
Speaker 2: when you're single on Christmas, there's nothing worse than having

524
00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:57,359
Speaker 2: to go to a family function when all the oldies

525
00:20:57,440 --> 00:20:59,520
Speaker 2: start questioning you and putting you in the hot seat

526
00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 2: about dating anyone or oh is anyone on the scene,

527
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:04,960
Speaker 2: and you're just like leave.

528
00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:06,000
Speaker 1: Me alone on that.

529
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 2: If you're having a Christmas Day event at your house,

530
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:13,160
Speaker 2: is it rude? Not to allow someone's part new girlfriend there.

531
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:14,760
Speaker 2: It kind of reminds me a bit of weddings, Like

532
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:16,679
Speaker 2: how long does the person have to be dating? Well,

533
00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:18,360
Speaker 2: I think it's up to the person if they bring

534
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:20,639
Speaker 2: them and then they should ask and advance. Is okay

535
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 2: if I bring so and so so, you know, like

536
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,439
Speaker 2: it would be rude to rock up with that person

537
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,880
Speaker 2: and not say that they're coming. It's interesting how long

538
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 2: you should know someone before if they come to something

539
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 2: like Christmas.

540
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 1: I think it's all pretty individual because do you need

541
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,399
Speaker 1: to be Instagram official before you bring that person or

542
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,119
Speaker 1: do you actually have to have a label on it. Well,

543
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:40,160
Speaker 1: I went to a pretty.

544
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:43,000
Speaker 2: Intimate New Year's Eve party with Dale's friends before I

545
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 2: was actually official with Dale. Yeah, but I think that

546
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 2: going to something with people's friends is completely different to

547
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:53,239
Speaker 2: going to something with people's mum and dad. But did

548
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:56,440
Speaker 2: Dale actually think that you're official? Because I think men

549
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:59,119
Speaker 2: men in general, they actually don't think that you need

550
00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 2: to have the conversation. Yeah.

551
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 1: I think it was more of a test to see

552
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 1: if I got along with his friends.

553
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,200
Speaker 2: Coming back to the Christs, I just actually think that

554
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 2: there's nothing worse than spending Christmas with a bunch of people.

555
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 1: That you don't know, like depends they are.

556
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 2: The joy of maybe having this new relationship and dating

557
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 2: someone and it's all exciting is the fact that you

558
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 2: don't have to spend Christmas with their family. You get

559
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:20,920
Speaker 2: to do whatever you want to do, and maybe you

560
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 2: could catch up at some stage, could get that you

561
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:26,880
Speaker 2: could get the ick from how that person behaves around

562
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 2: their family, because a lot of the people reft into

563
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:30,640
Speaker 2: how they behave as children, like they.

564
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 1: Sit on their ass and just expect their parents to

565
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:33,480
Speaker 1: do stuff.

566
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:36,879
Speaker 2: Probably good to actually go to someone's Christmas before you

567
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 2: make it official, because it might put you off. But

568
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 2: I actually think from the element of being someone that's

569
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,480
Speaker 2: already immersed in the family, when someone does bring a

570
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 2: new person to Christmas or a family function, it's always

571
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 2: really fun for you because you don't necessarily like have

572
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:54,280
Speaker 2: to turn it on. That person has to turn it

573
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 2: on for you.

574
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 1: But you always feel bad for them. Like I always

575
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 1: feel like I try and take people under my wing.

576
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 2: I remember we're not particularly this case because I think

577
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,920
Speaker 2: it's different because it was a male So like when

578
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 2: I met my brother in law for the first time,

579
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 2: well we didn't first meet him at Christmas.

580
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: We've met him beforehand, but it.

581
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 2: Was quite early on, and I was so excited because

582
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 2: it's that thing of like being able to find out

583
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 2: how they interact or what do they give each other?

584
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 1: You know, you get to find out what they give

585
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,439
Speaker 1: each other on Christmas Day, Like it's give a new partner.

586
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 2: Because I remember back in the day, like I was

587
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:29,399
Speaker 2: in a lot of those situationships and you're like, do

588
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 2: I get them a gift?

589
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 1: It wasn't even a situationship.

590
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 2: Your fucking boyfriend just didn't even bother.

591
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 1: I was talking about someone else me. But what you

592
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 1: do if you are in a situationship is it's like

593
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 1: on the holiday to buy the back up gift just

594
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 1: in case. You almost need to buy something that you're

595
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 1: prepared to just keep if you don't end up giving it.

596
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's if it's quite specific, because then when you

597
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 2: keep it. In my case, that happened to me and

598
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 2: not to keep the gift, and I was like, this

599
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,160
Speaker 2: is shit I think I put on marketplace.

600
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 1: It's embarrassing.

601
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 2: It'd almost just rather be the one that didn't give

602
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 2: the present. I remember the first Christmas I knew day

603
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 2: we'd only been on three dates, and after Christmas he

604
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 2: gave me this little penguin because he knows I love penguins,

605
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 2: and he just pretended that he'd seen it. I think

606
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 2: that's the way you do it. You're like, it's not

607
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 2: a big deal. It's not like you're going out and

608
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 2: buying somebody hundreds of dollars of something.

609
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: It's something that this makes you think, oh, I've thought

610
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 1: of you, or I remember my first boyfriend.

611
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 2: He was so excited for his mum to give me

612
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 2: my first ever Christmas present from her, and he talked

613
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 2: up this present so much. It was like, you are

614
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 2: going to love it. And I opened up this little

615
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 2: blue spotty chicken. It was like this ornament, It's like

616
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 2: an art deco. It was the jam Factory. Anyone in

617
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,959
Speaker 2: Adelaide knows. It's like this artistic you know they make.

618
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 2: It's a cool place. And it was actually quite sweet

619
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 2: because she had her own collection of these chickens. But

620
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 2: it just was iconic. But every present from him was

621
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 2: from the jam Factory. One year, I got a perfume,

622
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 2: like a glass blown perfume.

623
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: Hole picked out that present.

624
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 2: I got one from my ex boyfriend, the drop Kick

625
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,479
Speaker 2: one that we've reference quite a few times. Pretty good,

626
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 2: you got a present. Yeah.

627
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: I was shocked because that, yeah, didn't normally happen.

628
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 2: I know, one call her daddy when they've all got

629
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 2: the nicknames like mistressuit drop drop kick.

630
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

631
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 2: So I think I only got it this that year

632
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 2: because I'd moved to Melbourne and actually got to know

633
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 2: his family. So it was quite clear that his mum

634
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 2: had organized it because it was still in the bag,

635
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,679
Speaker 2: it wasn't wrap, and the card that he was supposed

636
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 2: to write with.

637
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 1: Me was in the in the bag with the envelope.

638
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 1: That is so pathetic for someone's mum to pick out

639
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: that it was a piece of jewel.

640
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 2: It was actually quite nice. But what I've done is

641
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 2: anything that he gave me, I've just sold a marketplace.

642
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:36,879
Speaker 2: I was gonna ask because that was that chicken up

643
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 2: for grabs?

644
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 1: Or do you still have that? I think it's somewhere

645
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 1: in my house, but I think you should have found

646
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: it out.

647
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 2: Oh, I mean, and I still got the perfume thing is,

648
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 2: but it's I think it's in the shed.

649
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 1: I'm not quite sure. I just thought it was funny.

650
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 1: Maybe it was too funny to throw it. Maybe no

651
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 1: one wants to buy it on Facebook.

652
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 2: I Prie probably won't like me sharing this, but there

653
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 2: is a piece of ugly artwork that was actually in

654
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 2: our rental.

655
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: Do you remember that basketball print? Oh used to hang

656
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 1: above it?

657
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:05,640
Speaker 2: Wait?

658
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: That wasn't a present from a partner, was it? I

659
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 1: didn't know that it was.

660
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 2: I actually found it when I was looking through Reese's photos,

661
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 2: like his old photos, and there was it was from

662
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 2: an ex girlfriend, and it was like, oh, thank you

663
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 2: so much, so and so I love you so much.

664
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:20,120
Speaker 1: And I was like, firstie, why is this on Facebook?

665
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 1: And secondly, why do we still have the print? What

666
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:22,640
Speaker 1: a brilliant fine though.

667
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 2: Because it's such a good excuse you, Like, I just

668
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 2: feel a bit uncomfortable having it in here because it

669
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 2: was for a minute.

670
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 1: I got it in a spare room.

671
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 2: I've always felt the pressure to give Brandon good presence

672
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 2: because I remember he told me that his ex girlfriend

673
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 2: bought him a suitcase, like a roly suitcase and he's

674
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 2: a bad I was thinking, Oh, it's not a bad present.

675
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 2: He's like it was so unthoughtful because she knew that

676
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,719
Speaker 2: I didn't like traveling and she loves traveling.

677
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, well, because she did.

678
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 2: End up dumping him and then traveling to America.

679
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 1: So I mean, but maybe if he had accepted it

680
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 1: with grace, he might have been on the dram.

681
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 2: Well.

682
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 1: This year, I've tried really hard to actually give Dale

683
00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 1: fun presents because I got into a habit of just

684
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: getting him happy.

685
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 2: I'm going to call you out here. He specifically told

686
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 2: us that he did not want clothes. Yeah, and I'm

687
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 2: not giving him all these clothes, giving him the unfun stuff. No,

688
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 2: So if Sophia would let me finish my story, Dale

689
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 2: said he doesn't need any more hoodies because I always

690
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 2: got him hoodies because he didn't really have many jumpers before.

691
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,199
Speaker 2: So if Mom needed to get him something, I'd say, Oh,

692
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 2: I'll pick out a hoodie for you, and same with

693
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 2: you guys.

694
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: It's not a great present for Christmas in winter.

695
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 2: He said he needs T shirts, and he actually does,

696
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 2: so that's what I bought. I picked out some T

697
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 2: shirts for you guys to give him. But my I've

698
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 2: already wrapped them. Yeah, but my, but my presence that

699
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 2: I've got him. I won't say what they are because

700
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 2: it's not Christmas yet, but they're all really fun.

701
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: Listened to this. Yeah, what is it? Whatever? You got him?

702
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: So I kept saying this thing on TikTok.

703
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: It's just like remote control, one of those cranes that like,

704
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 2: not a crane. What is it?

705
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 1: Like a digger?

706
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 2: Well?

707
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: Is this from Mitchell Orvil's show? No, like a small one.

708
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: I'll have to put a video. It's really cool. It's

709
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,199
Speaker 1: for fun. He wants fun stuff. And then I got

710
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 1: him all the way. So it's like a child's like

711
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 1: an electric car, but it's a digger. Yeah, it's actually

712
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 1: so cool, but a hard on hard on.

713
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 2: So he will use the remote control to drive this

714
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 2: around the backyard and dig up the backyard.

715
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 1: It's a it's a joke present sofa.

716
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

717
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: How much was that? I don't know.

718
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 2: It was like forty bucks anyway, it was more than that.

719
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 2: It wasn't definitely, it wasn't more than forty dollars. And

720
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 2: then I bought him some stuff.

721
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 1: Has he seen this? Sorry?

722
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 2: Had he seen this?

723
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 1: Or you just saw this online?

724
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 2: No?

725
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,880
Speaker 1: So I saw it online. So we're not buying each

726
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 1: other fucking thousand dollar.

727
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 2: Presents each other thousand dollar pressure away fucking two hundred bucks.

728
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 2: It was not one thousand dollars in the past, you

729
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 2: have bought eight hundred dollars present. That was the first

730
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 2: year that we were to get Okay, well, just could

731
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 2: you let me finish what I'm saying. I'm getting Dale

732
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 2: spit it out. And then I bought him because he

733
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 2: loves doing stuff in our outdoor area. This it's kind

734
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 2: of like a mini fire pit, but it's for the table,

735
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 2: so you keep people like a thing.

736
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: No, it's not a fun doing it, just to keep

737
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: people warm. Then I got presence.

738
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 2: It's got him all these like Mario related stuff for

739
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 2: his games room because and the back we've turned down

740
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 2: shed into a bit of like a man cave.

741
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: So I got him all this like and then I

742
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 1: bought him an old school Nintendo. I don't even know

743
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: what it is.

744
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 2: It's not like a switch, but it's it's an old

745
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 2: school games I feel like he's actually going.

746
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: To really enjoy it. So then he's going to get

747
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 1: the boring presence from Ason Mell. What the fuck is this?

748
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: Oh who cares? Whatever?

749
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 2: Sorry everybody, that was quite an extensive list of quite

750
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: uneventful presence. But I got recent Nintendo switch for his birthday,

751
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: and at first I thought he didn't like it, and

752
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, we can return it, and he's

753
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 2: just like, I'm just in shock. I don't know why

754
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 2: you got me another game console. I just are uk

755
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 2: because like five years ago I got him a PlayStation

756
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 2: four for Christmas or his birthday out his birthdays, like

757
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 2: ten days before Christmas. So I was confusing, but maybe

758
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 2: I'm going to regret it now because his reaction wasn't normal.

759
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 2: I gave Dale a Nintendo Switch I think it was

760
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 2: like three years ago for his birthday and he nearly cried.

761
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: He was so grateful. He's like, I can't believe you

762
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 1: spent this much money and it's just like the best

763
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: thing ever. Well that he never plays it though. Oh

764
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: that was a response that I was hoping to get.

765
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 2: But then when he started setting it up, I could

766
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 2: see the excitement in his eyes and he was showing

767
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 2: jacket and like Jack was holding it and he's like, oh,

768
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 2: we can play this together.

769
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: Maybe Sophie, that's what you should get for branded. I've

770
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: already got him somewhere because Dale keeps showing me.

771
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 2: So Dale keeps showing me. There are these ads that

772
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 2: are aimed at new dads, and they're trying to push

773
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 2: the switch to new.

774
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 1: Parents an idiot. Why would I buy feeds? Between feeds

775
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 1: you can be playing the Nintendo switch offense? Why the

776
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: hell would I want to give him that?

777
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 2: Like, I want some help. I don't want to be

778
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 2: on his fucking game boy. But Reesel already plays like

779
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 2: these games on his phone. Like there was this game

780
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 2: I caught him playing and it was he is a

781
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 2: manager of a soccer team and my playing video games.

782
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 2: But Brandon really wanted a leaf blower. It sounds really random,

783
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 2: but it's this like massive leaf blower blower because we've

784
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 2: got quite a large backyard.

785
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: Is this getting into his dad era?

786
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 2: Like it is? So he just really wanted tools. But

787
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 2: he doesn't know that he's getting this from me. See,

788
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 2: I'm not going to say what Reese is getting because

789
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,080
Speaker 2: I know that this is more of a personal so

790
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 2: you'll probably listen to it. Oh that's what I just

791
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 2: have to tell them not to listen. I don't think

792
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 2: they'll get through this much. Well, I think that's where

793
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 2: we're going to wrap things up. This podcast was recorded

794
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 2: on the traditional land of the Ghana people of the

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Speaker 2: Adelaide Plains. We pay respect to elders past and present,