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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. This is probably my favorite time

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Speaker 1: of the year. Parental Guidance is on the TV season three.

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Speaker 1: It's back on nine and nine now tonight, Goday. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to the Happy Families podcasts Real Parenting Solutions. Every day

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Speaker 1: on Australia's most downloaded parenting podcast, we are Justin and

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Speaker 1: Kylie Colson.

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Speaker 2: Last week's episode, Big TV this was huge.

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Speaker 1: How like bu the house? You suck at this game?

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Speaker 1: Basic targo.

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Speaker 2: I'm just learning go drink dish washing liquid and dye

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Speaker 2: taco Jesus dealing with screens and the challenges that parents

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Speaker 2: are being faced with and our kids.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm still blown away by the aibots.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, spell it for the best. I don't need

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Speaker 2: you being my best friend anyway.

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Speaker 1: See, I think you're yes, still doing my head in

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Speaker 1: and just the I was thinking about it the other

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Speaker 1: day about tech companies, and I just thought, at no

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Speaker 1: point have any of the tech companies ever actually done

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Speaker 1: anything to earn our trust, and yet we trust them

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Speaker 1: so much. I don't want to talk about last week.

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Speaker 1: Though we talked about last week or last week. We've

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Speaker 1: got to talk briefly about tonight. If you missed it.

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Speaker 1: You can catch up before seven thirty tonight. You can

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Speaker 1: catch up on nine now on the app and watch

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Speaker 1: episode one of season three of Parental Guidance, starring Yours

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Speaker 1: Truly as well as Ali Langdon. And we've got four

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Speaker 1: focused parents who are doing such a great job. Tonight, Kylie,

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Speaker 1: the conversation moves from where we've been on screens and

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Speaker 1: now we're shifting into real life, real life challenge. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: peer pressure, peer pressure, and we're including consent in the

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Speaker 1: peer pressure conversation because quite often non consensual behavior occurs

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Speaker 1: because of pressure. Somebody's pressuring someone to do something, or

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Speaker 1: somebody feels pressure to do something, or a whole bunch

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Speaker 1: of friends and peers are saying you, guys should do something,

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Speaker 1: and there's so much pressure around the consent conversation. Special

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Speaker 1: guests on the show tonight. I'm not going to say

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Speaker 1: who it is, but my goodness, it's a conversation that

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Speaker 1: you really have to be.

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Speaker 2: Therefore, well, can we tease anything about tonight's show.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get in trouble with nine, so

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Speaker 1: I'm going to have to be very careful with what

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Speaker 1: I say. Big recaps every day this week after tonight.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you the questions that we will tackle

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Speaker 1: tonight to give you kind of a heads up and

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Speaker 1: a way into discussions with your kids. Can your children

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Speaker 1: talk to somebody new like how comfortable are they in

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Speaker 1: novel social situations? That's going to be a major focus

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Speaker 1: tonight and it plays a really important part in our

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Speaker 1: children's social development. Okay, second question, have you talked about

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Speaker 1: consent with your kids? Now? We mentioned this on the

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Speaker 1: podcast the other day. You and I have recently had

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Speaker 1: a big conversation with our children about I guess, consent

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Speaker 1: and a range of other topics related to pressure from boys,

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Speaker 1: because we've got girls pressure from boys around dating and relationships.

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Speaker 1: Here's my next question. What would your child do if

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Speaker 1: they were with somebody who started to bully, exclude, or

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Speaker 1: ostracize somebody else? Can you be confident that your child

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Speaker 1: is going to be an upstander not a bystander? And

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Speaker 1: maybe the last one that I can tease, how willing

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Speaker 1: is your child to say no when everyone else is

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Speaker 1: saying yes? In other words, are your children rule breakers

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Speaker 1: or are they the kind of kids who will say

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Speaker 1: in spite of all the pressure, In spite of the

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Speaker 1: fact that everybody's saying we should do this thing. It's

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Speaker 1: actually not okay to do it. We've been told not

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Speaker 1: to do it. We shouldn't do it. How strong are

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Speaker 1: your kids?

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Speaker 2: One of the things that I absolutely love about the

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Speaker 2: way Parental Guidance plays out is I get to see

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Speaker 2: in real time how other parents navigate these challenging conversations.

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Speaker 2: And there's plenty I wouldn't do, But every now and

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Speaker 2: again there's just this gem and I go, oh, that

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Speaker 2: was brilliant. Yeah, I love how they did that, And

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Speaker 2: the opportunity I then have to add that to my

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Speaker 2: toolkit is powerful.

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Speaker 1: More opportunities for more additions to the toolkit tonight on

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Speaker 1: Parental Guidance. It's seven point thirty on nine, or you

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Speaker 1: can stream it live on the nine Now app. Parental

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Speaker 1: Guidance Season three, Episode two. Here pressure see it tonight

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Speaker 1: on the Telly.

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Speaker 2: Did you forget something?

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Speaker 1: I forgot to do the wrap up? Didn't I?

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