WEBVTT - LOCK IT DOWN, dating in isolation 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:27.440 I can't even intro this right now because I'm too pumped. Guys. 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:31.000 You have to still say hi guys, and welcome to 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:34.680 another episode of Life Uncut. No, I can't this time, guys. 0:00:34.680 --> 0:00:36.880 I have big news. I have really, really big news, 0:00:37.400 --> 0:00:40.239 and I can't wait to share it. We have just 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:44.839 hit one point one million downloads and we have been 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:50.880 waiting for this day and we're so excited, so so pumped, guys. 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:53.599 Thank you to every single person who is downloaded an 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:55.920 episode over the last eight months. I promise you it 0:00:56.000 --> 0:00:58.680 was not my dad and your mum downloading it one 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:02.840 million times actually that you've said that. No, but seriously, 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:05.200 for every single person who is downloaded or listen to 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:08.080 an e, for every single person who has subscribed or 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:12.360 left a review like we are so immensely grateful. We 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:14.520 never ever would have thought that we would be hitting 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:17.040 or one point one million downloads at this point in time. 0:01:17.080 --> 0:01:19.880 It's just unreal. We absolutely love that you know the 0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:22.720 advice that we're giving some of you all are listening 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:25.959 to it, and it's so special that the content we're 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:28.640 putting out there makes a difference to you, and we 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:30.640 know it does because you let us know and it 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:33.280 just means the world to us. I actually am in 0:01:33.319 --> 0:01:36.600 disbelief and I'm so that anyone would listen to Yeah. 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:39.759 I Yes. When Laura and I started this, we were 0:01:39.760 --> 0:01:43.039 just like this, two random friends that had this random idea, 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:45.320 and we're like, let's start a podcast as a hobby. 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:47.640 Like we actually just did this as a hobby. Whether 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:49.800 people listened or not, we were like, maybe someone will listen, 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:52.880 maybe someone will laugh, maybe someone will get advice from this. 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.840 But to have over a million of you download now 0:01:56.880 --> 0:02:01.720 and listen to this, we just humbled. We're stoked, we're chuffed, 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:03.720 We're in disbelief. We're all the fields. I have all 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:05.760 the feels. I just want to thank every single one 0:02:05.800 --> 0:02:09.680 of you for oh for just tuning in and sharing 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:11.880 the love and supporting us on this journey, because I 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:13.880 feel like we're all supporting each other. We're here to 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:18.280 support you. You guys are supporting us. You're writing in 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:20.959 and saying that we're helping you through some bad times. 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:24.080 We're helping you through breakups. We're just helping you feel good. 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:27.400 You're having a laugh at our expense, And to us, 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:31.000 that's what matters. If we can change one person's life, 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:33.519 we leave here feeling really happy, and we talk to 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:35.519 each other about it. We tell each other the messages 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:38.000 we receive, those of you that write in and say 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:40.200 you've really helped me through this moment. We share that 0:02:40.240 --> 0:02:42.960 with each other because that's why we're here. We have 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:48.000 been really, really open with our stories and our relationships 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:50.720 and things that have happened in the past and the present, 0:02:51.360 --> 0:02:54.680 and it is kind of a big deal for us 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:58.000 to be so vulnerable and so open talking about our 0:02:58.040 --> 0:03:01.800 life experiences. And we're really appret that you, guys have 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:05.280 never been judging of us. You have been such incredible 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:08.240 cheerleaders for us. You have been such incredible support, and 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:10.880 that's what makes us want to keep continuing creating this 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:13.880 content for you and keep on putting our episodes every week, 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:16.200 and we will keep doing that right until a very 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:19.359 bitter end. Guys, I think Laura and I sometimes forget. 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:21.560 I don't know if I'm speaking on your behalf, Laura, 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:23.639 but we can go on then. No, But we get 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:25.639 in here and we talk to each other, and we 0:03:25.680 --> 0:03:28.720 talk to each other like we're friends. Sometimes the way 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:31.480 we talk to each other is like we forget that 0:03:31.560 --> 0:03:33.160 a million of you are going to download this. So 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:37.600 we're really open with each other. We're very exposing of ourselves. 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:40.760 We're very vulnerable, and I think sometimes we forget that. 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:43.440 So many of you are going to listen, and I 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:45.520 want you, guys to know that whilst you're running to 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:47.960 us saying that we've helped and we're helping you through 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:49.600 a bad time, I want you to know that you 0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:51.600 have helped us through a lot of bad times too. 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:53.520 So if you do have a friend that you think 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.200 might benefit from one of our episodes, maybe they're going 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:58.600 through a breakup, maybe they're having a really hard time, 0:03:59.240 --> 0:04:01.800 maybe they could benefit from one of our Ask gun 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:05.280 Cut episodes, or just maybe they need a laugh and 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:09.440 some virtual girlfriends in this weird time of self isolation. Yeah, 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:11.640 if you have anyone that you know will benefit or 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:15.480 just wants to chuckle, direct them to our podcast. Direct 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:18.599 them to our Instagram page at Life Uncut podcast because 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:20.680 they can just go there for a laugh. There is 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:25.600 nothing serious on that page. But guys, one million downloads, like, 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:28.600 but my mind is blown. But now we will get 0:04:28.600 --> 0:04:30.640 into the episode. I know that in every episode in 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:33.080 the last couple of weeks, I've been talking about how 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:36.400 I'm getting remote recording equipment so that we can record 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:39.560 these podcasts separately. Well I did it. I got the 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:43.080 equipment and then we got everything set up and it 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:46.039 was perfect, and we were pumped, We're excited, and I 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:50.080 stuck the micro USB into the back of the podcasting 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:54.360 equipment and it got fucking stuck, like proper, real good 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:58.679 stuck stuck. So then we had to mad dash rush 0:04:58.760 --> 0:05:02.160 into the podcasting student where we normally record, and here 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:05.160 we are the end. I mean, that was a quick story. 0:05:05.279 --> 0:05:07.080 There was a lot of frustration and a lot of like, 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:08.720 oh my god, how could this happen to us? There 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:10.479 was a lot of alan keys and trying to fit 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:13.080 them into the podcaster, and like, look, things have just 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:15.280 gone a bit rogue today. But I'm very happy that 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:19.600 we've made it here. I'm always so amazed. I'm so 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:23.320 so amazed at every single week we get thrown some 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:25.560 sort of adversity about how we're going to actually get 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:29.599 this episode to air, and every single week we managed 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:32.560 to do it. It's a miracle. It's a Christmas miracle, guys, 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:34.640 it actually is. If there's one thing we're good at, 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:41.680 just one, it's overcoming adversity. It's what's been happening. It's 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:44.680 a hard question now, isn't it, because nothing actually happens. 0:05:45.080 --> 0:05:48.200 Oh speak for yourself. Well, actually I saw you had 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:50.400 a drunk party at home. You haven't. I I have 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:54.560 had a two day hangover, which after the last episode 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:56.719 of me talking about how much I've been drinking in 0:05:56.760 --> 0:06:00.840 isolation probably doesn't bode very well. But soaday night, if 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:04.000 anyone's been on Instagram and saw my Instagram stories, there's 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:07.280 this DJ called Hot Dub time Machine, and he's the 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:10.120 freaking best. He does like a number one hit from 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:12.919 nineteen sixty and counts back through the years, or counts 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:16.080 forward through the years to twenty twenty, counts somewhere, he 0:06:16.200 --> 0:06:18.760 just counts, and so he plays the best song from 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:22.680 each year as like a countdown mash up. And he 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:26.040 did this amazing live DJ set which we streamed to 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:29.039 our TV, and we had a few margaritas that we 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:32.279 got from our local Mexican place take away margaritas, and 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:36.080 just had a bloody great time. So I called facetimed 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:40.520 Laura at probably one pm the next day. She answers, 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:43.800 looking worse for wear on the phone, and I'm like, Babe, 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:47.280 are you all right. She's like, Babe, I'm real hung 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:50.479 and Mum's gone wild. She goes, Mum's gone wild, and 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:52.880 she goes, oh, hang on, can I call you back? 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:57.320 My Mexican just arrived. And I was like, oh, you know, 0:06:57.400 --> 0:06:59.920 it's bad. The worst thing about being hungover in isolation 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:02.960 is that you cannot hire a babysitter. Normally, if there 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:04.640 was a day where I didn't feel like I was 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:07.680 equipped to parent, I would call a babysitter to come 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:09.479 and take because, you know what, I think that's the 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:12.280 responsible thing to do, having a second pair of hands. 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:15.840 But no, I just had to man up. Actually that's 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:17.480 a lie. I didn't really do anything. Matt did it. 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:20.280 But it was still a really tough day. And now 0:07:20.560 --> 0:07:23.720 I've got a bloody micro usb stuck in a fucking 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:27.240 podcasting equipment at home, and look, coronavirus is taking over 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:29.080 the whole country. So it's been a bit of a 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:31.840 challenging week. But once again we're here and we've got 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:34.000 this episode to you. Thank you for giving me the 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:38.520 first three minutes to complain. So I actually have discovered 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:40.800 a new game this week that I didn't know existed, 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:43.960 But you can play it online. Guys. This is not sponsored, 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:45.520 but I don't know if I'm behind the times. Have 0:07:45.560 --> 0:07:48.600 you heard of Jackbox TV? No? What is it? Oh 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:50.720 my god? It's brilliant, but I think you need three 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:54.360 plays minimum. You have to like purchase it online but 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:56.840 it's not expensive. And then it links to your TV 0:07:57.440 --> 0:07:59.920 and all you do is type into your phone brow 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:04.480 jackbox TV and everyone in everyone can link up and play. 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:08.560 So it's an online game that's like who's the faker? 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:10.440 So they ask all these questions like you know those 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:12.760 murder mystery games, like who's the murderer? And you have 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:15.120 to figure it out. It's like that kind of stuff. Anyway, 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:17.880 for me, it's just it's killed hours of time. So 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:21.360 I just it's my recommend. I'm really salting it though. 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:23.400 What does it? What do you do? How does it work? 0:08:23.640 --> 0:08:25.800 You log into it and it comes up on your TV. 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:28.760 Now everyone in the room. It has to be three 0:08:28.800 --> 0:08:32.120 people everybody, So you have to have housemates or brothers 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:35.160 or sisters or mums or dads or very smart dogs 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:41.720 for this one. Correctly but correctly, that is correctly. Listen, 0:08:41.800 --> 0:08:43.000 let me do it. I'm just trying to have a 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:45.720 really good recommendation. I just can't get it out. Long 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:48.440 story short, It's like you're typing this code so that 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:51.200 everyone everyone types it in so that jack Box TV 0:08:51.320 --> 0:08:54.079 knows that you your phone is playing this one game, 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:56.800 so you linked to the TV. Then questions will come 0:08:56.880 --> 0:08:59.280 up on your phone. So like one person that says 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:01.960 is the fake, they're pretending they know what's going on, 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:03.520 but they have no idea. But they've got to try 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:05.160 and fit in because they don't want to be caught. 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:07.480 The other people in the room know what's going on. 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:09.800 Just say I'm the faker to the other three people. 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:13.200 It's going to say who in this room is most 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:15.960 likely to kill someone? And then it goes three two 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:18.080 one and you have to point to someone. Now I 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:20.600 don't know who to point at because I don't know 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:22.640 the actual question, but I have to pretend like I do. 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:24.720 So you have to try and read other people and 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:27.280 point to someone. You think if everyone's pointing to one person, 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:29.400 because it might be like who's got the biggest dig 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:31.680 in that room? And I knew my point to me, 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:33.240 and if I pointed to you, everyone's like, well, she 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:36.839 didn't know the question, she's the faker. How do you know, well, 0:09:37.040 --> 0:09:40.840 I don't know. I haven't seen your for China anyway, Guys, 0:09:40.840 --> 0:09:43.920 just look what a wild Saturday night it was in 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:47.640 Brittany's house, Hey, playing Jack in a Box with their housemates, Chuck. 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:47.880 In a box. 0:09:49.000 --> 0:09:52.520 I'm down two bottles of red. Don't you worry or guys? 0:09:52.920 --> 0:09:58.079 Last night was Mass Finale. The Mass finale. I feel 0:09:58.120 --> 0:10:00.720 like Fella a little bit short this year. So Laura 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:05.000 made me watch it because I've sporadically watched random episodes 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:07.600 throughout the series. When you've made me been very very 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:09.880 vocal that this is not her show, but this is 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:12.080 not her jam, but you know what, I was open 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:13.599 to it. I tried to let it grow on me, 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:17.240 and I can confirm it is still not my show. 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:20.840 I didn't have to test it. I I just can't 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:23.040 stand it. I can't. I don't know for anybody else 0:10:23.040 --> 0:10:25.960 who watched the show. But this season I really feel 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:28.959 like I think that last season it was like they 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.680 set the bar so high. It was so good. Yes, 0:10:31.720 --> 0:10:33.880 the drama was manufactured, but it felt a little bit 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:37.840 more organic, whereas like this year, it really felt like 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:41.520 the whole storyline was very scripted in like the producers 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:45.400 were creating scenarios or setting up different environments to try 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:49.320 and get very specific, manufactured outcomes. It just all felt 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:52.720 a lot faker. I thought this season overproduced. Now I 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:55.680 think feel like maybe Australians have had enough of that 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:57.679 show for a while, do you Well, I don't know 0:10:57.720 --> 0:10:59.760 if we've had enough of Maps in particular, but I 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:04.439 think that people and the audience are becoming so acutely 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:07.800 aware of what is what's been done. That's because so 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.240 many people are breaking the rules and coming like this 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:12.240 whole show has broke. Everyone in it has broken the 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:14.760 rules and come out and are outing what's going on. 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:19.440 So there's no mystery or like romanticism anymore. Everybody just 0:11:19.480 --> 0:11:22.800 knows that it's manipulated. Just on that. So Michelle, who 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:24.720 is one of the she was one of the wives, 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:26.400 like one of the couples that made her to the end, 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:30.280 She has come out recently on a YouTube channel which 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:35.040 is called get Real Entertainment and totally exposed just how 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:38.880 crazy manipulative the production is. We all know that they 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:41.760 don't have to stay until they both say leave or stay. 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:45.080 But what she's explained in this little segment is that 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:48.880 the producers make you so fearful that if you leave 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:51.480 outside of like the parameters that they've created for you. 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:54.120 So if you leave at another time than when both 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:56.520 people on the couch have written leave, then they will 0:11:56.559 --> 0:11:58.760 make your life hell. And they say like they hold 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:01.760 it over you like a threat of well, if you 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:03.920 don't do what we say, then you'll get a bad edit. 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:07.040 So I feel like people who are naive to how 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:09.520 these things play out, they kind of are at the 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:11.839 mercy of production a little bit because they don't want 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:14.560 their character to be assassinated on TV. It's something that 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:16.920 you really do need to think about. And it's something 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:18.840 that I have said to people in the past when 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:21.319 they've messaged me saying should I do Reality TV? Should 0:12:21.320 --> 0:12:23.560 I do it? I loved it great for me. I 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:25.959 had a really great experience and I loved my journey. 0:12:26.000 --> 0:12:28.640 But I will I will always say to them, you 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:31.280 need to be prepared to be portrayed as the worst 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:33.160 human in the world, because it could happen, like you 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:35.360 need to be prepared for. You need to have a 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:37.680 thick skin in case that happens, because you don't you 0:12:37.720 --> 0:12:39.520 don't know what edit you'll get at all. You just 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:41.760 don't know. It's a risk. Maybe I'm being naive or 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:43.960 maybe I'm being super biased in this, but I don't 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:48.120 think the Bachelor manufactures storylines in the same way that 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:51.160 Math seems to. Absolutely not not at all. The Bachelor 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:53.559 might just like exaggerate something slightly or but all the 0:12:53.600 --> 0:12:56.640 storylines are pretty organic on the Bachelor. They're not organic 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:59.200 on marriative person. Yeah, and I think that with the batch. 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:02.199 Obviously we are a little bit biased because neither of 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:04.520 us have done and Married at First Site episode. But 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:08.000 when people have come out I find from Bachelors series 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:11.400 and they've been really angry with their edit, I agree 0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:13.400 with you. I think that things are just amplified. I 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:17.080 think if someone behaved badly, then it amplifies their bad behavior. 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:18.960 But I don't think they've ever tried to make someone 0:13:19.000 --> 0:13:22.480 who is totally lovely and good look bad or vice versa. 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:24.880 There are some creative things that they do with the edit, 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:28.320 but I really do think that if people come across 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:31.160 as as an asshole on the show, it's because they 0:13:31.200 --> 0:13:34.560 behave like an asshole behind the scenes. Well, they've come 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:37.160 out and said that this cast from Married at First 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:39.599 Site this year is the most badly behaved cast that 0:13:39.640 --> 0:13:42.160 they've ever had. And I was saying this to you earlier, 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:45.200 but I think what happens, and you know it happened 0:13:45.200 --> 0:13:47.160 in our season with Bachelor as well. But when you 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:50.600 take away all of someone's rights and you treat them 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:53.640 like their children, then they behave like children. Like I 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:56.520 even know with the girls from our season and myself included, like, 0:13:56.640 --> 0:14:01.240 I am one hundred percent guilty. We behaved so badly. 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:03.280 So what something? What did you put something? You guys did? 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:06.120 When we were filming our season of the show, they 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:09.199 had really strict rules around alcohol, so we weren't allowed 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:12.280 to drink alcohol unless it was on a cocktail party 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:14.200 night or unless it was on a group date and 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:16.440 it was specifically given to us. And then they're really 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:18.760 good with it being like two an hour and things 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:22.480 like that. Yeah, like they were big glasses. I mean 0:14:22.880 --> 0:14:25.560 it can still you can still get two bottles too, bottles. 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:27.520 You can still get pretty jazzy at a cocktail party 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:30.400 if you want to. So. But but they had definitely 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:33.120 restricted out our alcohol intake because they won. They didn't 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:35.960 want us being hungover filming, and also they wanted to 0:14:35.960 --> 0:14:38.480 make sure that we were, you know, not doing anything 0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:40.880 that was too antisocial or putting ourselves in harm's way. 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:44.560 But I guess when you are in your thirties, and 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:47.280 someone says, because like we wouldn't film over the weekend, right, 0:14:47.360 --> 0:14:49.480 so on the weekends we were free to do whatever 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:52.520 we wanted, but we couldn't have any alcohol. And like, 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:54.800 when you're in your thirties or your late twenties, you're like, 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:56.560 I want to have a nice glass of wine with 0:14:56.600 --> 0:14:58.600 my dinner. And if I want that, then I should 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:00.560 be able to have that because I'm I'm an adult. 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:03.640 I'm a freaking adult. So instead of being a freaking adult, 0:15:03.640 --> 0:15:06.760 we behaved like children and we broke in to the 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:10.120 room that they had locked and barricaded off for cocktail parties. 0:15:10.120 --> 0:15:13.160 We broke into that and then stoles malcohol and went 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:15.800 had a party down on the tennis court. That makes 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:19.640 so much sense to me because our alcohol room, which 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:23.520 obviously my series was the year following Laura's series. Our 0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:26.360 alcohol room, it was like a chastity belt. That fridge 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:28.920 it had like it had like five chains around it 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:31.520 with these huge locks, Like there was no way we 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:34.360 were getting into that fridge because we tried. My opinion 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:39.400 of participants' retaliation and like, pushing back against production is 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:41.440 kind of if you treat someone like a child, then 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:42.920 they're going to behave like a child. So if you 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:45.600 take away all their rights, then they're like, well, fuck you, 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:47.840 I'm going to do whatever I want anyway. So I 0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:51.040 think that each season the contestants are pushing back more 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:53.560 and pushing back more, but it's going to ruin the show. 0:15:54.040 --> 0:15:57.520 You just reminded me of something like. So the Bachelor's 0:15:57.520 --> 0:16:01.920 filmed over three months, and I and Sophie Cass and 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:04.640 myself we were all so close the whole show, but 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:06.400 we were really really good with not getting drunk at 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:09.200 cocktail parties because you just I would just make the 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:11.200 decision that I didn't want to put myself in a 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:12.800 situation that I was gonna look like an idiot, that 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:15.280 I was gonna say something dumb, do something dumb, tumble 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:17.560 down some stairs, whatever it may be. You're like, I'm 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:20.120 not gonna embarrass myself on national TV. So soph Cass 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:22.000 and I all were like that we'd have a few drinks, 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:23.960 but we never got drunk in the three months, and 0:16:24.000 --> 0:16:27.520 then it was our last cocktail party that we were together. 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:29.160 So it was just that it was just us there 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:32.640 and we were like nothing bad can happen now, which 0:16:32.640 --> 0:16:35.160 is just where the only ones left, and we got wasted, 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:37.920 like we were the cameramen, like it was so funny. 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:40.920 The cameraman couldn't do anything. We were like right trying 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:43.480 to ride their cameras like horses, were like gidding up 0:16:43.880 --> 0:16:46.560 and they came upstairs. They're like, you, girls, I've given 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:49.440 us no content for an hour. They're like, no, we 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:52.040 need the drama. You need to fight, and we just 0:16:52.120 --> 0:16:54.480 knew it was our last time together. We were all friends, 0:16:54.560 --> 0:16:55.800 and it was just like I don't know what they 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:58.320 got from that episode, but I guess with Marts the season, 0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:00.400 I just am a bit off it, and I know 0:17:00.440 --> 0:17:03.200 that that doesn't make for very interesting Like sorry, guys, 0:17:03.200 --> 0:17:05.120 that I didn't come to you with a better conclusion 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:08.080 on the whole thing, but I don't. I know that 0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:09.960 they get mass ratings, and I know that it's such 0:17:10.000 --> 0:17:12.880 a love show and I love to hate the show, 0:17:12.960 --> 0:17:15.720 don't get me wrong, but I do feel like it 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:18.920 wasn't as impactful, it wasn't as powerful, and it wasn't 0:17:18.960 --> 0:17:21.399 as entertaining as what past seasons have been because I 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:24.760 really feel like the storylines are so heavily manufactured now 0:17:24.800 --> 0:17:27.800 the only people I believed in was Liz, Lizzie, Elizabeth 0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:30.600 whatever they call on Yes, but even Liz, and maybe 0:17:30.640 --> 0:17:34.440 because you didn't watch last season, she is a completely 0:17:34.520 --> 0:17:37.520 different person to last season. Well she probably knows how 0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:39.920 it works now, so but like not even I mean, 0:17:40.040 --> 0:17:43.280 like her personality is absolute chalk and cheese from last 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:47.600 season really completely different, and so I found it difficult 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:50.239 to warm to her as a character as like I'm 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:52.359 going to say, like as a character on the TV show, 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:54.639 Like I know she's a real person, but as a character, 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:57.400 because I was so heavily invested in the last season, 0:17:57.480 --> 0:17:59.959 I was like, who is this impost? She didn't eat 0:18:00.040 --> 0:18:02.639 even come across with the same mannerisms or the same 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:06.879 She spoke differently, she behaved differently, Everything about her persona 0:18:07.000 --> 0:18:09.800 was so different, which makes me think, did she just 0:18:09.880 --> 0:18:12.240 know how to work the work the camera now or 0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:14.479 did she know how to work the production or did 0:18:14.520 --> 0:18:16.080 she get a bad edit last did she get a 0:18:16.080 --> 0:18:18.880 bad edit? Like who is the real Lizzy? That? Then? 0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:21.000 I don't know. The only other thing that gives me 0:18:21.080 --> 0:18:24.160 hope is that Jules had just come out as pregnant 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:26.760 jewels from last year, so there worked. They went on 0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:29.119 the season, fell in love, and now they're having a baby, 0:18:29.160 --> 0:18:31.560 so there is hope. Fault married at first sight. Oh 0:18:31.600 --> 0:18:35.879 they having a baby. Babies, It's really really exciting. And 0:18:36.000 --> 0:18:39.200 also Laura from my season of Bachelor, forgot what show 0:18:39.240 --> 0:18:41.719 I was on. She just got married. I know, I 0:18:41.760 --> 0:18:45.080 told you, well I'm telling everyone else she did. She 0:18:45.160 --> 0:18:48.360 got married but like super small wedding with no one there, 0:18:48.400 --> 0:18:50.439 didn't even wear a white dress, just like just obviously 0:18:50.680 --> 0:18:52.159 was in love and wanted to do it. Do you 0:18:52.200 --> 0:18:56.240 remember from my season the fire Twelling girl, that's a Laura. 0:18:56.400 --> 0:19:00.119 She she was engaged and her wedding fell during this 0:19:00.200 --> 0:19:02.399 whole crazy time where you can only have five people 0:19:02.400 --> 0:19:05.520 at your wedding and whole social distancing stuff. And do 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:07.560 you know what I love? I love that she went 0:19:07.600 --> 0:19:09.240 through with it and she had her wedding now a 0:19:09.320 --> 0:19:13.520 really really small, beautiful little marriage that in itself is 0:19:13.560 --> 0:19:15.680 just such a beautiful thing because it shows how much 0:19:15.680 --> 0:19:17.800 it's about the relationship and how it's not about having 0:19:17.840 --> 0:19:21.399 a wedding to impress people for magazines or for media. 0:19:21.800 --> 0:19:23.880 It's just something that they did for themselves, and that's 0:19:23.920 --> 0:19:27.160 so special. Absolutely. Also, Bindi Irwin did the same thing, 0:19:27.320 --> 0:19:29.960 same thing. There were like four people there, so Bindy's 0:19:30.119 --> 0:19:33.480 Bindy married her now husband Chandler. Obviously, just such about 0:19:33.520 --> 0:19:35.920 love because there were five people there. Mind you, It's 0:19:35.920 --> 0:19:37.639