WEBVTT - MINI! Who should pay on a first date? ❤️

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<v Speaker 1>Guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like there's an age old debate that goes

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<v Speaker 2>around the world and it circles back twice a year.

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<v Speaker 2>It goes viral. Who pays on a first date? Sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a rhetorical question.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just saiding it up first date, Come on, boys,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, I know that we all ask for equality,

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<v Speaker 1>but not an efference.

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<v Speaker 2>All So, Laura love your I'm dating men. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>pay twice. He should pay, just the other one.

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<v Speaker 1>The other one that's not you. It's the person who pays.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well this isn't what I was going to get into.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also think the person that pays is the

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<v Speaker 2>person that initiated the date. So if the woman asked

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<v Speaker 2>the man on the date, the man can't pay, that's nice, chilly,

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<v Speaker 2>but I agree, Well, this is serious, Laura. So there's

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<v Speaker 2>an extension of that conversation that is going around online

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<v Speaker 2>at the moment, and it's pretty bloody funny. As someone

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<v Speaker 2>that's been in the dating world, I'm I'm taken now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm with my beautiful partner Bend. But I was dating

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<v Speaker 2>for ten years and I've had my fair share. But

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<v Speaker 2>this story is going around and it's not necessarily about

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<v Speaker 2>paying for the date, but it's about when does the

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<v Speaker 2>offer to have paid for the date expire? Now, what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean by that is there's a girl that went

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<v Speaker 2>on a date. Her name is Anna. She went on

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<v Speaker 2>a date with Jason. Jason is now saved in her

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<v Speaker 2>phone as Jason with a poo emoji and a red flag.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how she saved his name, Jason, pooh red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>So away from the smelly red flag.

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<v Speaker 2>So they went out on a date, lovely date, shared

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<v Speaker 2>drinks and food. He had more. He had one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>dollars and she spent twenty five dollars of that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>she offers to split the bill at the end, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>do you want I'll pay for my stuff, pay for

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<v Speaker 2>her stuff, not split. Sorry, that's a very big differentiation.

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<v Speaker 2>So she was gonna pay to buy a bucks He says,

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<v Speaker 2>like a gentleman, No, no, no, don't be silly like

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<v Speaker 2>I've got this, which is lovely. The next morning, she

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<v Speaker 2>wakes up to a text message from Jason Pooh red

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<v Speaker 2>flag and it says, good morning, I had a great

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<v Speaker 2>time last night. After thinking it over, I think I

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<v Speaker 2>will take you up on splitting the dinner. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to the game today and I didn't realize I spent

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<v Speaker 2>so much last night. Lol, can you venmo me fifty bucks?

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<v Speaker 2>That's embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>And also she didn't spend fifty dollars, why she pay

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<v Speaker 1>fifty dollars?

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<v Speaker 2>So now he's asking, He's like, actually, yes, I will

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<v Speaker 2>have money, and I will have more money than you

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<v Speaker 2>consumed on the night. Oh share her text. She wrote,

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<v Speaker 2>good morning, that offer expired after we left the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Have fun at the game, and that's it. Now the

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<v Speaker 2>conversation is going viral. How can you I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>know my answer absolutely not. You can the second you

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<v Speaker 2>walk out of that restaurant. You cannot message someone the

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<v Speaker 2>next day, later that night, a week later and say hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, I will take that money.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I agree with you, But this is not a

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<v Speaker 1>one off case. This happens often where people will say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>can you pay for those? And it's petty. It's things

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<v Speaker 1>like can you pay for the coffees? Can you pay

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<v Speaker 1>for the lunch that we had? And I'm talking if

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<v Speaker 1>it's a significant amount of money, I understand, But when

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a couple of dollars here or there, like

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<v Speaker 1>why would you want the embarrassment of having to text

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<v Speaker 1>them again.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember going on a date one the guy asked

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<v Speaker 2>me on the date, and I'll never forget this. It

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<v Speaker 2>was just a sandwich and a milkshake. Like that was

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<v Speaker 2>literally it. I was a grown woman. It was just

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<v Speaker 2>a lunch date. Quickly, get a sanger and a smithy,

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<v Speaker 2>sit at the and sit at the bee.

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<v Speaker 1>I get a break. You don't always want to go

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<v Speaker 1>and have like a drink and a sit down dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's so much investment. You want to go and

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<v Speaker 1>have a light little walk.

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<v Speaker 2>Cause we get to the sandwich shop and order, and

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<v Speaker 2>I get awkward around money, so I just went to

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<v Speaker 2>pay right because there was this moment where he didn't

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<v Speaker 2>pull out his card. So I was like, I'll just

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<v Speaker 2>do it. Two sandwiches, that's it. I went to pay

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<v Speaker 2>and the lady goes, oh, sorry, it's cash only. I

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<v Speaker 2>had a giggle. I thought this was funny. And I

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<v Speaker 2>turned around to him and I said, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I you know I only have my card. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>have cash? He rolled his eyes like it was the

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<v Speaker 2>worst thing, and he's like sure, dramatically went and handed

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<v Speaker 2>over the cash and it was so awkward. I said, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll get the smoothies across the road and then you

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<v Speaker 2>know it will be even I'm talking ten dollars each guys.

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<v Speaker 2>So he was like, that sounds great. Went across to

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<v Speaker 2>the smoothie shop. I went to pay again and she's said, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's cash only again, and I thought this was hysterical.

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<v Speaker 2>I just thought, like, what are the odds, it's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>He literally looked at me and said, are you just

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<v Speaker 2>taking me purposely to all the places that are cash

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<v Speaker 2>only so you don't have to pay? Even though he

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<v Speaker 2>saw me pull my card out, I actually couldn't believe it,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was I thought he was joking and I

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<v Speaker 2>was waiting for the laugh, and he didn't laugh. And

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<v Speaker 2>I said, oh, if you want, I can go past

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<v Speaker 2>the ATM on the way to the beach and I'll

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<v Speaker 2>get twenty dollars out. Thinking there's no way he's going

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<v Speaker 2>to make me do this. We walked past the ATM

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<v Speaker 2>and he goes, here's the ATM and I had to

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<v Speaker 2>get twenty dollars out and give it to him. I

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<v Speaker 2>think I ended up paying more than what the sandwich

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<v Speaker 2>ends MO to it costs. Then the icing on the cake,

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<v Speaker 2>He bragged about how many properties he owned the whole time,

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<v Speaker 2>and then at the end he said, I had a

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<v Speaker 2>great time. Can I see you again? And I said wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>computer says no. And so he wanted because I.

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<v Speaker 1>Would have thought someone doing that would be because they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to see you again, but he actually wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go another day and.

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<v Speaker 2>To see me again. I'm like, there's a reason you're single, buddy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my goodness. Oh h