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Well, there are some surprising results. 0:00:28.340 --> 0:00:28.620 So. 0:00:29.820 --> 0:00:30.800 What do you think. 0:00:30.620 --> 0:00:35.330 Australia's favourite position is when it comes to intimacy? 0:00:36.870 --> 0:00:37.940 Doing it the other way. 0:00:38.840 --> 0:00:39.820 Not backdoor stuff. 0:00:39.940 --> 0:00:40.860 No, Mikey. 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:42.540 We know that might be yours. 0:00:42.860 --> 0:00:46.500 It's actually missionary. Which, you know, I feel like missionary 0:00:46.540 --> 0:00:47.440 gets a bad rap. 0:00:47.580 --> 0:00:50.120 I agree. I like missionary. 0:00:50.140 --> 0:00:51.010 Yeah, so do I. 0:00:51.020 --> 0:00:52.600 So that's Australia's favourite. 0:00:52.659 --> 0:00:53.100 That's number one. 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:58.320 That's Australia's favourite or whoever filled out their pamphlets. Followed 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:00.620 by doggy style at a whopping 61%. 0:01:00.620 --> 0:01:02.600 Women love that, don't they? 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:03.640 Yeah. 0:01:03.840 --> 0:01:06.459 It's– yeah, because you can kind of turn away and– 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:08.040 You can be thinking about anything. 0:01:08.060 --> 0:01:08.860 You can be watching TV. 0:01:08.900 --> 0:01:12.000 You can be literally like going through the shopping list 0:01:12.030 --> 0:01:13.490 that you need to get done or you could be 0:01:13.530 --> 0:01:14.490 really into it as well. 0:01:14.610 --> 0:01:16.830 Yeah, or you could just hate your husband and then 0:01:16.850 --> 0:01:17.690 you don't have to look at him. 0:01:17.709 --> 0:01:18.929 Or you could be thinking about Michael B. 0:01:18.970 --> 0:01:20.430 Jordan, you know. 0:01:21.750 --> 0:01:24.150 Slightly confusing that it says here that there's 55%, only 55% 0:01:24.150 --> 0:01:25.880 have tried a 69er, while 48% like Cowgirl and 43% 0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:34.880 are into spooning. Spooning's nice in the morning, you know, 0:01:34.920 --> 0:01:36.100 when you don't want to have to deal with the 0:01:36.140 --> 0:01:37.260 morning breath. 0:01:37.620 --> 0:01:39.259 Yeah, you know that 69 one? 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:39.600 Yeah. 0:01:39.620 --> 0:01:41.540 I worked with a newsreader once who said her and 0:01:41.560 --> 0:01:43.170 her partner did it every time. 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:45.760 Every single time they were intimate. 0:01:45.819 --> 0:01:47.500 Yeah. Every single time. 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:49.820 Yes, they also soured together every day. They were a 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:51.420 very sexual couple. 0:01:51.620 --> 0:01:53.460 I heard that same story from that same newsreader. 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:54.090 You remember her? 0:01:54.100 --> 0:01:55.470 Oh, you know the newsreader? 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:57.090 Yeah. We didn't believe her. 0:01:58.050 --> 0:01:59.190 She told me that story. 0:01:59.230 --> 0:02:00.990 Yeah, not even on air, right? Yeah, that's right. 0:02:01.430 --> 0:02:03.290 Crazy, hey. Every time. 0:02:03.870 --> 0:02:04.590 That is. 0:02:04.910 --> 0:02:05.670 It's a lot, isn't it? 0:02:07.390 --> 0:02:08.240 Did they have kids? 0:02:09.180 --> 0:02:11.060 I think they do now, but not at the time, no. 0:02:11.540 --> 0:02:14.820 Yeah. I had a girlfriend who used to shower every 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:18.280 single night religiously with her husband and get it on, 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:20.810 and it was like her biggest flex, and now they 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:21.410 have three kids. 0:02:21.440 --> 0:02:22.170 And they don't at all. 0:02:22.190 --> 0:02:24.190 They sleep together four times a year or something. 0:02:24.210 --> 0:02:25.770 I mean, we've all done it in the shower. 0:02:26.030 --> 0:02:27.810 Yeah, I'm not a fan of the shower. 0:02:27.950 --> 0:02:32.150 There's soap going everywhere. Just shower to me is do 0:02:32.190 --> 0:02:32.510 it alone. 0:02:33.130 --> 0:02:35.260 That too. Shower's your own time. 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:40.910 Yeah, well, interesting enough, the average Australian spends 10 to 0:02:40.910 --> 0:02:44.570 14 minutes on foreplay. And there are other people that 0:02:44.630 --> 0:02:48.480 are lasting up to 45 minutes. Who has 45 minutes 0:02:48.540 --> 0:02:49.200 for foreplay? 0:02:49.220 --> 0:02:49.959 For foreplay? 0:02:50.300 --> 0:02:51.600 That's not even doing the deed. 0:02:51.660 --> 0:02:52.620 That's just all the little. 0:02:53.460 --> 0:02:55.380 Fingery stuff at the start. 0:02:55.650 --> 0:02:57.750 We know what foreplay is. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Is it 0:02:57.790 --> 0:02:59.830 fair to say foreplay is overrated, Amy? 0:03:00.470 --> 0:03:01.490 Oh. 0:03:02.090 --> 0:03:02.609 You know what? 0:03:02.690 --> 0:03:06.430 As a mum of three, I say I don't have 0:03:06.450 --> 0:03:08.960 time for foreplay these days, but I used to really 0:03:09.010 --> 0:03:09.470 enjoy it. 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:09.920 Yeah. 0:03:10.020 --> 0:03:13.100 What about the act itself? How long? 0:03:13.580 --> 0:03:14.560 The act itself? 0:03:14.580 --> 0:03:16.480 Yeah, like how long do you want it to go for? 0:03:16.520 --> 0:03:17.240 Do we have that? 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:18.800 No, it doesn't say that. 0:03:19.020 --> 0:03:21.019 We'll do our own study here. How long do you 0:03:21.100 --> 0:03:21.660 really want. 0:03:21.580 --> 0:03:25.859 It to last? I, everything packaged up, I'm good with 0:03:25.880 --> 0:03:26.580 like 20 minutes. 0:03:26.940 --> 0:03:28.540 Yeah, that's the ideal time. 0:03:28.660 --> 0:03:31.930 Because I think especially younger people from, you know, watching 0:03:32.210 --> 0:03:33.600 stuff online, they have it in their head that it 0:03:33.620 --> 0:03:34.990 needs to go for like an hour and a half 0:03:35.030 --> 0:03:35.390 or something. 0:03:35.450 --> 0:03:35.590 Oh, no. 0:03:35.670 --> 0:03:38.410 If I'm getting like carpet friction burn down there, I'm out. 0:03:38.510 --> 0:03:40.410 Like I do not want to know about any, like 0:03:40.470 --> 0:03:43.730 my poor girlfriend, her husband lasts for hours and she says. 0:03:43.750 --> 0:03:44.930 Is he on Viagra or something? 0:03:45.030 --> 0:03:47.690 She says it's literally hell on earth. She has like 0:03:47.730 --> 0:03:49.010 gravel rash and everything. 0:03:49.210 --> 0:03:50.510 Why does he want to go that long? 0:03:50.610 --> 0:03:51.030 I don't know. 0:03:51.710 --> 0:03:53.450 Some people just can, I guess. 0:03:53.490 --> 0:03:53.730 Yeah. 0:03:53.930 --> 0:03:55.890 And, you know, 30 seconds is all right too, yeah? 0:03:57.210 --> 0:03:59.410 Poor Alana. But here's the biggest thing. 0:03:59.410 --> 0:04:04.030 37% report fantasizing about their partner. 0:04:04.190 --> 0:04:05.790 You reckon that's true? Yeah. 0:04:05.810 --> 0:04:07.990 Well, what else would you fantasize about? 0:04:08.150 --> 0:04:10.430 Well, apparently 8% fantasize about an ex. 0:04:10.570 --> 0:04:11.710 Yeah. 0:04:11.710 --> 0:04:16.870 4% fantasize about a work colleague and 3% their personal trainer. 0:04:18.450 --> 0:04:19.270 Work, colleague, eh? 0:04:19.430 --> 0:04:20.170 Yeah. 0:04:20.510 --> 0:04:21.089 Hey, Amy. 0:04:21.110 --> 0:04:22.930 No one is fantasising about you. 0:04:22.950 --> 0:04:24.229 Period, Mikey. 0:04:24.830 --> 0:04:25.770 Not even my partner. 0:04:26.910 --> 0:04:28.070 Not even Alana. 0:04:28.110 --> 0:04:28.740 All right. 0:04:28.800 --> 0:04:31.839 First call's now 131065 if you want to get on 0:04:31.900 --> 0:04:32.740 air and have a chat. 0:04:33.300 --> 0:04:33.680 Hayden. 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:34.300 Hello, Hayden. 0:04:34.820 --> 0:04:35.279 Hey, Hayden. 0:04:35.300 --> 0:04:36.220 How you going? 0:04:36.240 --> 0:04:37.219 How are you? 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:38.580 Yeah, we're good, mate. What do you want to talk about? 0:04:39.450 --> 0:04:41.669 Um, yeah, you were talking about the GTA six before. 0:04:41.910 --> 0:04:43.510 Oh, you're taking the day off. 0:04:43.710 --> 0:04:47.290 Well, uh, when is it? November 19 HR departments and 0:04:47.330 --> 0:04:51.219 bosses have been inundated with people trying to take that 0:04:51.260 --> 0:04:52.320 day off. Are you doing it? 0:04:53.220 --> 0:04:53.580 Yes. 0:04:53.940 --> 0:04:56.540 I've got from November 19th off till the 29th. 0:04:56.700 --> 0:04:58.279 Oh my God. 0:04:58.779 --> 0:05:00.159 Seven or 10 days. 0:05:00.980 --> 0:05:01.780 Yeah. 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:04.420 Are you so, is this like more exciting to you 0:05:04.460 --> 0:05:05.550 than like a Christmas day? 0:05:06.490 --> 0:05:09.029 Honestly, yeah, pretty much this is the most exciting thing 0:05:09.089 --> 0:05:11.330 I've had since Christmas as a child. 0:05:11.750 --> 0:05:13.219 So do you have a partner? 0:05:14.580 --> 0:05:14.940 I do. 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:15.520 I do. 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:19.300 And, yeah, she games a little bit too, but not 0:05:19.320 --> 0:05:20.000 as much as I do. 0:05:20.100 --> 0:05:22.060 So how does she feel about you taking the week off? 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:23.370 Is she going to be annoyed or is she going 0:05:23.390 --> 0:05:24.010 to play with you? 0:05:24.089 --> 0:05:26.170 If she's a bit of a gamer slightly, she might 0:05:26.190 --> 0:05:27.510 be a bit excited too. 0:05:27.830 --> 0:05:29.630 Yeah, she's going to watch. But I think there is 0:05:29.670 --> 0:05:32.080 a bit of a thing going around about how– Because 0:05:32.380 --> 0:05:35.770 in the game, there's two main characters and they're kind 0:05:35.790 --> 0:05:36.500 of like partners. 0:05:37.450 --> 0:05:38.410 Oh, cute. 0:05:38.450 --> 0:05:40.570 So you can go out on dates and do all 0:05:40.589 --> 0:05:41.170 that stuff. 0:05:41.190 --> 0:05:44.510 Yeah, we heard that last week. Some girlfriends are getting really, like, 0:05:44.690 --> 0:05:46.910 jealous of it. Yeah, yeah. 0:05:47.230 --> 0:05:47.590 Wow. 0:05:47.630 --> 0:05:49.530 And I just said I was, you know, going to 0:05:49.550 --> 0:05:51.710 be doing it all, and my girlfriend's a bit, oh, 0:05:51.890 --> 0:05:53.770 she's like, oh, you know, we should be going out 0:05:53.810 --> 0:05:54.310 on some dates. 0:05:54.529 --> 0:05:56.169 Yeah. 0:05:56.210 --> 0:05:56.890 So you should. 0:05:57.210 --> 0:05:59.600 Date the video game girl. Good on you, man. Enjoy 0:05:59.630 --> 0:06:03.919 that week off, you big nerd. And Becca, hello. Oh, Becca, hello. 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:04.799 Hey, Becca. 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:05.099 Hello. 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:06.160 Hey, guys. 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:07.099 How are you going? 0:06:07.220 --> 0:06:07.400 Oh, good. 0:06:07.420 --> 0:06:09.630 That noise was not pleasant in our ears. Yes, what 0:06:09.650 --> 0:06:10.730 did you want to talk about? 0:06:11.860 --> 0:06:15.160 Just the whole gaming situation, just dating people that are gamers. 0:06:15.940 --> 0:06:19.740 I dated a fella, absolutely adored him for three years 0:06:20.180 --> 0:06:23.020 and just recently broke up with him. Still love and 0:06:23.060 --> 0:06:25.810 adore him, but breaking up with someone that is a 0:06:25.820 --> 0:06:28.260 gamer is really hard because you know what the relationship 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:29.370 is capable of. 0:06:29.610 --> 0:06:30.370 Yeah. 0:06:30.950 --> 0:06:34.029 But just having to ask for the bare minimum, asking 0:06:34.070 --> 0:06:37.570 your partner to want to have some time with you. 0:06:37.690 --> 0:06:38.510 Yeah, like. 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:42.490 I would get called, like, boring because I would never 0:06:42.550 --> 0:06:48.089 get into things, like, you know. And, yeah, just, like, 0:06:48.650 --> 0:06:50.210 it's hard. 0:06:51.130 --> 0:06:53.970 I can imagine it would be really, really hard because 0:06:53.990 --> 0:06:56.150 you can obviously see the potential in the relationship. 0:06:56.190 --> 0:06:58.330 But I feel like gaming is. 0:06:58.690 --> 0:07:02.240 It's like an addiction. And, yeah, it's not– it's legal, obviously. 0:07:02.300 --> 0:07:04.980 So you're not, like– they're not shooting up heroin or anything. But, like, 0:07:05.420 --> 0:07:09.289 it really is an addiction. And some men and women– 0:07:09.510 --> 0:07:12.690 they get so caught up in it and they don't 0:07:12.750 --> 0:07:13.770 even sleep. 0:07:13.990 --> 0:07:16.490 Like I know you could play with them, whatever, but 0:07:16.530 --> 0:07:20.050 literally it's just like, I'm ignoring you doing this. 0:07:20.150 --> 0:07:21.670 Is that what it felt like? He was just gaming 0:07:21.690 --> 0:07:22.420 and ignoring you. 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:24.220 Yeah. 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:28.060 You felt so alone in your own house. And I 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:31.360 felt like I was always asking him to like, want 0:07:31.380 --> 0:07:33.840 to spend time with me. And I felt like that wasn't, 0:07:34.480 --> 0:07:36.020 something that you should do in a relationship. 0:07:36.050 --> 0:07:37.030 Absolutely not. 0:07:38.070 --> 0:07:40.450 He found his friends more entertaining because, you know, they 0:07:40.470 --> 0:07:43.430 could relate on, like, a gaming level. I loved that 0:07:43.450 --> 0:07:46.170 he was always having fun and stuff, but I just 0:07:46.390 --> 0:07:47.240 felt so alone. 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:49.980 Well, you don't want to be a second priority to 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:50.440 a game. 0:07:50.460 --> 0:07:53.920 Totally, man. You did the right thing, Becca. It sucks 0:07:53.940 --> 0:07:56.080 that you broke up, but I'm sure you'll be happier, 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:57.920 especially around November 19th. 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:02.290 And you know what? First question when you go on dates, 0:08:02.810 --> 0:08:03.450 do you game? 0:08:03.470 --> 0:08:06.370 If the answer is yes, out. 0:08:06.510 --> 0:08:07.710 Three strikes, you're out. 0:08:07.870 --> 0:08:10.070 Good on you, Becca. Thanks for calling in, all right? 0:08:10.850 --> 0:08:11.770 Thanks, Becca. 0:08:11.850 --> 0:08:12.110 See you. 0:08:12.170 --> 0:08:13.410 Thank you. All right. 0:08:13.410 --> 0:08:13.470 131065. 0:08:13.450 --> 0:08:15.100 Here's Johnny. Hey, Johnny. 0:08:15.150 --> 0:08:15.920 Johnny. 0:08:16.220 --> 0:08:17.620 Hey, how are you guys? 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:19.680 Morning. What's up, mate? 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:22.740 Hey, I just have a question for you. 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:22.860 Yeah. 0:08:24.130 --> 0:08:26.290 I wonder if you guys sort of, when you talk 0:08:26.330 --> 0:08:29.420 to people on the line, do you have like a 0:08:29.900 --> 0:08:33.870 visual sort of like thinking of like your base, what 0:08:33.900 --> 0:08:36.929 a person looks like, depending on their voice or location? 0:08:36.950 --> 0:08:38.010 I do this often. 0:08:38.730 --> 0:08:41.350 Johnny, I don't just do this on the phone. I 0:08:41.370 --> 0:08:44.370 do this when I read books. I like picture characters 0:08:44.410 --> 0:08:47.050 in my head. When I speak to people on the phone, 0:08:47.070 --> 0:08:50.230 like unless they're from like TPG and I know exactly 0:08:50.270 --> 0:08:50.890 what they look. 0:08:50.750 --> 0:08:53.960 Like, I will always picture. 0:08:55.170 --> 0:08:57.010 In my head, everyone's good looking as well. 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:59.319 So what's Johnny look like then? You're talking to him. 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:00.580 Johnny sounds young. 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:06.400 I reckon he's maybe half Italian, brown hair, brown eyes. 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:07.099 Johnny? 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:07.740 How am I doing? 0:09:09.630 --> 0:09:10.790 Not too bad, I'll take it. 0:09:10.809 --> 0:09:12.109 You've got brown eyes? 0:09:12.130 --> 0:09:15.230 No, no, I've got green eyes, black hair. 0:09:15.390 --> 0:09:17.630 Black hair, no. That was way off. 0:09:17.910 --> 0:09:19.710 I did a thing years ago where, you know what? 0:09:19.730 --> 0:09:21.830 Green eyes, black hair. See, Johnny's probably good looking. 0:09:21.870 --> 0:09:23.790 You didn't do it too badly. I can, like, I 0:09:23.830 --> 0:09:26.010 can hear blonde. 0:09:26.090 --> 0:09:27.030 No, you can't. 0:09:27.050 --> 0:09:27.650 Yeah, yeah. 0:09:27.890 --> 0:09:29.069 I can hear blonde. 0:09:29.110 --> 0:09:30.929 And we got everyone to call up and I had 0:09:30.950 --> 0:09:32.870 to guess whether they were blonde or not. 0:09:33.010 --> 0:09:37.210 Females, obviously. Yeah, so... I think it worked. Yeah, you 0:09:37.230 --> 0:09:39.980 can just hear. What is it that you hear? 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:41.240 What do you hear? 0:09:41.800 --> 0:09:43.760 It's just the tone of their voice. I can tell 0:09:43.800 --> 0:09:44.640 it's a blonde. 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:45.339 Yeah. 0:09:45.580 --> 0:09:45.840 Wow. 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:46.540 How? 0:09:46.620 --> 0:09:48.760 Amy's blonde. We can hear that, right? 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:52.710 I don't know whether, is there some sort of like insulting? 0:09:52.730 --> 0:09:54.189 No, I'm not even being rude. 0:09:54.230 --> 0:09:56.050 I just, I like blondes and I could just like, 0:09:56.410 --> 0:09:57.770 I could sense they were a blonde. 0:09:58.030 --> 0:09:58.570 Oh God. 0:09:59.530 --> 0:09:59.970 Weirdly here. 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:00.760 I've got. 0:10:01.179 --> 0:10:02.440 We should put it to the test. 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:03.800 Yeah, we should get. 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:06.580 Somebody in the office to call and see. If you 0:10:06.620 --> 0:10:07.760 can pick the blonde. 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:10.700 Yeah, I can tell. I can tell whether you're a blonde. Yeah, 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:13.640 I can. Well, Amy Gerard, you used ChatGPT to write 0:10:13.660 --> 0:10:14.130 a book, yeah? 0:10:14.309 --> 0:10:16.829 I did not. ChatGPT wasn't even around. 0:10:17.429 --> 0:10:17.720 Oh, no. 0:10:17.730 --> 0:10:19.570 It wasn't even around when I wrote my book. 0:10:19.670 --> 0:10:21.770 Honestly, do you think you would use it a bit 0:10:21.809 --> 0:10:22.569 now if you were writing it? 0:10:22.570 --> 0:10:23.579 Absolutely I would. 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:26.860 But you could– back when I was writing it, I 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:29.100 had another girlfriend who was writing something and she was 0:10:29.179 --> 0:10:31.380 using a ghostwriter and I was like, cheater. 0:10:31.580 --> 0:10:32.179 Yeah, that is cheating. 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:32.680 That's cheating. 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:33.720 It's really common though. 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:34.000 It is. 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:36.360 A lot of books are written by ghostwriters. So your 0:10:36.420 --> 0:10:37.970 book is called what and where can we get it? 0:10:38.380 --> 0:10:39.620 It's called Strap Yourself In. 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:41.760 You can get it from Booktopia. You can get it online. 0:10:41.780 --> 0:10:42.880 It used to be in Big W. 0:10:43.220 --> 0:10:45.100 It used to be in all the airport bookstores. 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:45.660 Oh, really? 0:10:45.820 --> 0:10:49.030 Yeah, obviously when it first came out, there was a 0:10:49.110 --> 0:10:51.700 couple of months there where I'd go and pose beside– 0:10:52.010 --> 0:10:53.990 the book every time I found it in a bookstore, 0:10:54.010 --> 0:10:56.030 but that was 2024. 0:10:56.030 --> 0:10:58.530 I remember there was this radio host, I think it 0:10:58.570 --> 0:11:01.470 was Mike Carlton or something, older guy, and your mate 0:11:01.530 --> 0:11:04.030 Chris Page, who you do the weekends with, he saw 0:11:04.070 --> 0:11:06.199 his book in a Big W store and it was 0:11:06.340 --> 0:11:09.380 marked down to like $ 2 and he took a photo 0:11:09.460 --> 0:11:11.780 of it and put it on Twitter and said something like, 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:13.740 expensive toilet paper. 0:11:13.780 --> 0:11:16.160 They started it. Yeah, he's a shit-stirrer, Pagey. 0:11:16.179 --> 0:11:16.260 What? 0:11:18.160 --> 0:11:21.510 Books always go like– Get discounted? Yeah, they get– especially 0:11:21.550 --> 0:11:22.220 in Big W. 0:11:22.250 --> 0:11:23.690 Was yours discounted at some point? 0:11:23.690 --> 0:11:26.250 100%. Yeah, but then it would go back up. So 0:11:26.270 --> 0:11:28.730 then they– yeah, when they want to move stock, they– yeah, 0:11:28.750 --> 0:11:30.740 you know, it was obviously flying off the shelves. 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:34.199 All right. Now, the thing is our producers have gone 0:11:34.240 --> 0:11:35.580 through it and I've had a look– I did. 0:11:35.500 --> 0:11:37.800 Think that was weird. I came in yesterday and Chelsea 0:11:37.820 --> 0:11:38.640 was like, I read your book. 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:41.660 Yeah, why do you think, mate? Well, they've shown me this, 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:43.330 and I really need to bring this up with you. 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:44.849 It's confusing. 0:11:45.390 --> 0:11:47.750 You, in the book, you have a list of 20 0:11:47.750 --> 0:11:52.290 things you have loved for a period, if not all 0:11:52.330 --> 0:11:55.650 your life. So 20 things you love? Was that the idea? 0:11:55.890 --> 0:11:58.770 No. So there's all different chapters of the books, but 0:11:58.790 --> 0:12:01.170 then there's a couple of pages thrown in here and there. 0:12:01.210 --> 0:12:04.270 Like I've done a playlist– um, page of all my 0:12:04.309 --> 0:12:06.860 favorite songs. And then, you know, there must've been a 0:12:06.900 --> 0:12:09.300 page where I've written. Yeah, you did. 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:10.180 We're going to go through them. 0:12:10.580 --> 0:12:13.900 I have not reread this book since it basically got published. 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:17.350 It just went out into the stratosphere. Um, half of 0:12:17.490 --> 0:12:19.430 which I forget even writing about. 0:12:19.450 --> 0:12:20.730 Well, you'll enjoy this then. 0:12:20.770 --> 0:12:23.929 So your top 20 things that you love, we're going 0:12:23.950 --> 0:12:26.370 to start at the bottom and move our way to 0:12:26.390 --> 0:12:26.970 the top. 0:12:27.429 --> 0:12:29.130 Um, we're going to see if you still back all 0:12:29.170 --> 0:12:29.750 these things. 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:30.130 Okay. 0:12:30.250 --> 0:12:35.900 Okay. Some are quite lame. Oh, Number 20, making people laugh. 0:12:36.820 --> 0:12:37.160 Oh, yeah. 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:39.080 I love that. Tick. 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:41.939 Number 19, perfumes. Oh, yeah. 0:12:42.300 --> 0:12:44.339 I literally wear perfume every single day. 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:44.620 Do you? 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:47.160 You're a perfume girl. You wrote in brackets, especially when 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:48.380 a man smells good. 0:12:48.740 --> 0:12:51.140 I don't wear it. My girlfriend bought me one, and 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:52.940 I'll put it on, but only on special occasions. 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:55.260 Yes, so does my husband, and it irks me. 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:56.380 Well, you want him to wear it every day. 0:12:56.870 --> 0:12:58.990 Not to work when I'm not there. He's only allowed 0:12:59.010 --> 0:13:00.110 to smell good around me. 0:13:00.690 --> 0:13:02.510 But yes, I love when a man smells good. 0:13:02.530 --> 0:13:06.330 Okay. What about number 18, playing with people's hair? Yes, yes. 0:13:06.650 --> 0:13:10.070 I've got sensory issues. So I love to stroke people's hair. 0:13:10.250 --> 0:13:13.290 Like if I'm sitting next to my friends or my 0:13:13.340 --> 0:13:16.400 girlfriends or my kids or my husband, I will always 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:17.260 be touching someone. 0:13:17.460 --> 0:13:19.479 I won't make you do mine. Bring in Chelsea. She's 0:13:19.500 --> 0:13:20.460 got lovely long hair. 0:13:20.580 --> 0:13:22.440 Yeah, and so I will play. 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:25.300 So my girlfriends fight over who sits next to me 0:13:25.780 --> 0:13:28.310 because what I'll do is I'll run my hands up here. 0:13:28.330 --> 0:13:30.330 How's that feel, Chelsea? 0:13:30.890 --> 0:13:31.230 Good. 0:13:31.290 --> 0:13:35.270 I'm staying here. No, I love playing with hair. 0:13:35.290 --> 0:13:37.079 Well, keep playing with the hair while I read these 0:13:37.179 --> 0:13:37.480 out then. 0:13:37.540 --> 0:13:37.880 Okay. 0:13:38.980 --> 0:13:41.460 Smiling at people when you walk past them. 0:13:41.660 --> 0:13:43.280 Yes, I smile at everyone. 0:13:43.460 --> 0:13:44.140 You're lovely. 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:46.400 My dad always told me that. If you smile at 0:13:46.420 --> 0:13:48.080 people as you walk past, you make their day. 0:13:48.460 --> 0:13:51.589 Getting into bed after changing your sheets. 0:13:51.850 --> 0:13:53.810 Oh, God. I am so wholesome. 0:13:53.830 --> 0:13:54.550 So, so wholesome. 0:13:55.110 --> 0:13:56.670 I am so wholesome, yeah. 0:13:56.690 --> 0:13:57.850 Number 15, Negronis. 0:13:57.890 --> 0:14:00.030 Yeah, my favourite cocktail. 0:14:01.010 --> 0:14:01.929 Why are you laughing at that? 0:14:02.150 --> 0:14:06.230 Okay, because number 14, you had nothing else here. Living 0:14:06.450 --> 0:14:07.470 without inhibitions. 0:14:07.550 --> 0:14:09.930 Yeah, that's where I'm at now. I don't live with 0:14:09.990 --> 0:14:10.750 any inhibitions. 0:14:10.830 --> 0:14:11.750 I'm a free spirit. 0:14:11.770 --> 0:14:13.030 I don't even know what inhibitions mean. 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:19.090 Oh, number 13, how much heat your husband Ryan generates 0:14:19.170 --> 0:14:21.590 from his body? Does he run hot, does he? 0:14:21.770 --> 0:14:24.230 He runs really hot, so he's like the best person 0:14:24.250 --> 0:14:25.530 to sleep next to in winter. 0:14:25.850 --> 0:14:29.840 Okay. Well, on that, you like number 12, warm tropical climates. 0:14:30.580 --> 0:14:32.940 Love a bit of Bali. This is really not selling 0:14:32.980 --> 0:14:33.820 my book in, guys. 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:36.760 It's actually quite funny. Yeah, sure. Number 11. 0:14:36.740 --> 0:14:36.840 Yeah. 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:43.560 Listening to your mum play the piano when you were 0:14:43.920 --> 0:14:44.260 a kid. 0:14:44.660 --> 0:14:46.570 Yeah, so I used to lie in bed and when 0:14:46.610 --> 0:14:48.590 I was going to bed, my mum would be downstairs 0:14:48.690 --> 0:14:51.290 playing the piano and it's like my favourite memory. 0:14:51.410 --> 0:14:53.230 Well, doesn't Amy sound boring and wholesome? 0:14:53.250 --> 0:14:53.310 No. 0:14:54.300 --> 0:14:58.890 But you are not because our top ten. You can 0:14:58.910 --> 0:14:59.650 stop playing with her hair. 0:14:59.670 --> 0:15:00.890 Oh, I was having a great time. 0:15:00.930 --> 0:15:01.170 I know. 0:15:01.210 --> 0:15:04.630 You were enjoying it. Yeah. The top ten gets, can 0:15:04.670 --> 0:15:07.730 I just say, weirder and filthy. 0:15:08.170 --> 0:15:10.170 Guys, the book's actually really funny. 0:15:10.270 --> 0:15:10.870 Yeah, we'll see. 0:15:11.070 --> 0:15:12.650 I know a lot of women who have read it 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:14.000 who have really enjoyed it. 0:15:14.020 --> 0:15:14.720 Yeah, all your mates. 0:15:14.940 --> 0:15:15.300 Okay, so. 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:19.840 Yeah, all your mates. The top ten of Amy's list. 0:15:20.340 --> 0:15:20.720 Hang around. 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:22.000 We're going to do it next on Kiss. 0:15:24.300 --> 0:15:28.890 Well, we're going through Amy Gerard's book called Strap Yourself In. 0:15:29.070 --> 0:15:32.290 Yeah. Available at, what, anywhere still? 0:15:32.730 --> 0:15:33.670 Yeah, online. 0:15:34.030 --> 0:15:34.520 Go get it. 0:15:34.790 --> 0:15:35.760 Tell them what it's about. 0:15:37.170 --> 0:15:38.270 Oh, I have to read that, do I? 0:15:38.910 --> 0:15:42.610 A memoir of motherhood, dance floors and all the mayhem 0:15:42.670 --> 0:15:45.590 in between. Now, in the book, there's like a list 0:15:45.630 --> 0:15:47.490 of 20 things that you love. 0:15:47.710 --> 0:15:47.990 Yeah. 0:15:48.010 --> 0:15:49.790 And we've been going through them. I've got to say 0:15:49.810 --> 0:15:51.710 the first 10 from 20 to 11. 0:15:51.690 --> 0:15:54.100 Made me sound absolutely adorable. 0:15:54.120 --> 0:15:55.150 A bit lame, yeah? 0:15:55.630 --> 0:15:56.980 I'm going to go with adorable. 0:15:57.500 --> 0:15:58.440 Wait till we hear the top 10. 0:15:58.420 --> 0:15:59.640 Adorable and wholesome. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:02.120 The top 10. I want to see if you still 0:16:02.140 --> 0:16:04.820 stand by them. Watching your kids sleep. 0:16:05.100 --> 0:16:05.480 Yeah. 0:16:05.660 --> 0:16:07.660 In a non-creepy way, it says. Yeah. 0:16:07.900 --> 0:16:09.200 Look at me. I'm so cute. 0:16:09.820 --> 0:16:13.760 Well, you are. Christmas times, number nine. I love Christmas. 0:16:13.850 --> 0:16:15.410 I love Christmas time. 0:16:15.450 --> 0:16:17.350 How good is it? Get a real tree, by the way. 0:16:17.510 --> 0:16:18.370 Don't tell me what to do. 0:16:18.390 --> 0:16:20.230 Oh, because you're the Christmas time girl? 0:16:20.250 --> 0:16:22.970 I used to have a real tree, but aesthetically, they're 0:16:22.990 --> 0:16:24.690 not as nice to look at. 0:16:24.710 --> 0:16:25.810 The smell, though. 0:16:26.010 --> 0:16:27.450 I know, but you can get. 0:16:27.370 --> 0:16:31.380 An Akoya candle with the pine smell now. 0:16:32.260 --> 0:16:32.720 I've got a. 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:35.060 Balsam hill. 0:16:35.340 --> 0:16:36.500 What's that? 0:16:36.540 --> 0:16:38.900 The trees with the lights are built in and they 0:16:38.940 --> 0:16:40.900 are an absolute game changer. 0:16:41.020 --> 0:16:43.000 It's like five years old, worth the money. 0:16:43.020 --> 0:16:45.800 They're expensive, but like think of it as an investment. 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:46.220 Really? 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:47.680 You don't get tangled in the lights. 0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:49.990 Really important question and, you know, come later in the year, 0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:52.850 obviously we'll talk a lot about Christmas, but very important question. 0:16:52.890 --> 0:16:54.930 When do you take your tree down? Because I believe 0:16:54.990 --> 0:16:57.229 it can stay up until Australia Day. 0:16:57.390 --> 0:16:58.110 End of January. 0:16:58.130 --> 0:16:58.210 Yeah. 0:16:58.610 --> 0:17:02.030 Can it not? Like, Australia Day still feels like a holiday. Yeah, okay. 0:17:02.070 --> 0:17:03.610 Wait, not when it's a real one. 0:17:03.630 --> 0:17:06.840 Oh, yeah, mine survives. Yeah, I was dropping shit everywhere 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:09.000 by then. The cat scratched half of it. 0:17:09.570 --> 0:17:10.510 No, you can keep it going. 0:17:10.530 --> 0:17:11.190 Yeah. 0:17:11.290 --> 0:17:11.530 What? 0:17:11.770 --> 0:17:14.570 What do you buy it on the 24th of December? 0:17:14.590 --> 0:17:17.480 Oh, no, you get it. No, no, even early December. 0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:20.060 Look, it's basically dead by then, but it's still holding 0:17:20.100 --> 0:17:23.000 in there. Hey, the first shower you have, I agree 0:17:23.020 --> 0:17:23.500 with this one. 0:17:23.520 --> 0:17:26.640 Yeah, you'd love this. After spending the day at the beach. 0:17:26.780 --> 0:17:27.639 How good is it? 0:17:27.960 --> 0:17:29.230 Yeah, get all that sand. 0:17:29.270 --> 0:17:31.649 Yeah, and it's salty and your skin's a little bit 0:17:31.710 --> 0:17:32.629 warm because. 0:17:32.950 --> 0:17:33.390 Question. 0:17:33.410 --> 0:17:33.510 Yeah. 0:17:33.710 --> 0:17:33.930 Yeah. 0:17:34.570 --> 0:17:35.810 Because I reckon you're one or the other. 0:17:35.890 --> 0:17:37.690 When you get out of a dip at the beach, 0:17:38.090 --> 0:17:41.090 do you go and shower in those outdoor showers they have? 0:17:41.130 --> 0:17:43.550 Or do you just love the sand and everything on you? 0:17:43.570 --> 0:17:43.770 It depends. 0:17:43.790 --> 0:17:46.050 If I'm going, say I was going straight to a cafe. 0:17:46.109 --> 0:17:46.730 Yeah, then you would. 0:17:46.810 --> 0:17:48.909 I would, yeah. Otherwise, I'd just go home and have 0:17:48.970 --> 0:17:49.479 a shower myself. 0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:51.780 I love that feeling of the salt. I don't want 0:17:51.820 --> 0:17:53.679 to wash it off. But some people get straight out 0:17:53.720 --> 0:17:56.100 and wash it off. I've even seen people washing their 0:17:56.119 --> 0:17:57.140 bloody hair down there. 0:17:57.320 --> 0:17:57.600 Oh, no. 0:17:57.820 --> 0:17:58.940 Too far. 0:17:59.000 --> 0:17:59.679 Number seven. 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:00.300 Yeah. 0:18:02.510 --> 0:18:03.170 Not as wholesome. 0:18:03.650 --> 0:18:04.630 Self-pleasure. 0:18:04.869 --> 0:18:05.250 Yeah. 0:18:05.270 --> 0:18:08.139 Specifically watching lesbian stuff. 0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:10.990 Yuki, is that really in there? 0:18:11.250 --> 0:18:12.290 It's written in front of us. 0:18:12.430 --> 0:18:12.570 Yeah. 0:18:13.720 --> 0:18:18.429 Listen, there's nothing held back in this book, clearly. Self-pleasure 0:18:18.490 --> 0:18:22.629 is incredibly important. I'm a big advocate for it. I 0:18:22.670 --> 0:18:24.970 don't think there's anything wrong with it whatsoever. 0:18:24.990 --> 0:18:27.190 I'm surprised I added in lesbian porn. 0:18:27.230 --> 0:18:27.950 You're into girls? 0:18:28.350 --> 0:18:31.310 Nothing surprises me. I'm not into girls. We all know 0:18:31.369 --> 0:18:32.250 my past. 0:18:32.830 --> 0:18:33.590 One girl, wasn't it? 0:18:33.690 --> 0:18:33.990 Yeah. 0:18:34.770 --> 0:18:37.890 One night. But I can appreciate that. 0:18:39.090 --> 0:18:39.689 Category. 0:18:40.250 --> 0:18:40.470 Yes. 0:18:40.830 --> 0:18:43.130 I just love that we've gone from Christmas to that. 0:18:43.850 --> 0:18:45.630 Well, it gets worse. Wait, wait. 0:18:45.869 --> 0:18:49.109 Christmas and my mum playing the piano to lesbian porn. 0:18:49.150 --> 0:18:52.609 Yeah, great. Number six, the way exercise makes you feel. 0:18:52.690 --> 0:18:53.090 Yeah. 0:18:53.109 --> 0:18:55.379 I love what it does for your body. Wow, yeah. 0:18:55.619 --> 0:18:56.280 Labo. 0:18:57.140 --> 0:19:00.520 R & B music and the way it makes you 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:01.900 want to move your hips. 0:19:02.060 --> 0:19:05.840 Yeah. Number three, first sip of coffee. Number two, sunsets. 0:19:06.440 --> 0:19:09.060 Number one. Sunrise. Like, who cares, yeah? 0:19:10.619 --> 0:19:14.400 They're all beautiful things. I love a sunset and a sunrise. 0:19:14.440 --> 0:19:17.109 You know what I'm really surprised about? I have not 0:19:17.160 --> 0:19:18.510 mentioned wine in there once. 0:19:18.590 --> 0:19:20.330 No, wine is not there. So add that in. I 0:19:20.350 --> 0:19:21.929 don't know, sunset, wine. 0:19:21.970 --> 0:19:23.090 Wine and dancing. 0:19:23.230 --> 0:19:24.070 Those two should both. 0:19:24.130 --> 0:19:26.250 I mean, maybe that's the R & B music, the 0:19:26.270 --> 0:19:28.570 way it makes me want to move my hips. Who 0:19:28.630 --> 0:19:30.230 do I think I am, Shakira? 0:19:30.650 --> 0:19:34.670 Number four. We are ending on number four in giant 0:19:34.859 --> 0:19:38.459 capital letters. Orgasms. 0:19:39.240 --> 0:19:39.480 Yep. 0:19:39.720 --> 0:19:45.869 Love the way your face goes numb and your toes curl. Oh, 0:19:45.910 --> 0:19:46.410 my God. 0:19:46.430 --> 0:19:47.170 Oh, my God. 0:19:47.210 --> 0:19:49.209 It's so cringe. 0:19:49.570 --> 0:19:49.810 Amy. 0:19:50.230 --> 0:19:51.340 But I stand by that. 0:19:51.410 --> 0:19:55.080 Who doesn't love that? That is in the top three 0:19:55.220 --> 0:19:56.480 best things in the world. 0:19:56.640 --> 0:19:58.740 Sure. What a gift. Who writes any giant letters in 0:19:58.780 --> 0:19:59.180 a book? 0:19:59.320 --> 0:19:59.899 Me. 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:02.260 And I've printed it, so it's out there in the 0:20:02.359 --> 0:20:03.939 universe for my children to read one day. 0:20:03.960 --> 0:20:04.080 Yay. 0:20:04.420 --> 0:20:04.879 No, right? 0:20:04.980 --> 0:20:06.800 Okay, if you want to go and get Amy's book, 0:20:06.880 --> 0:20:07.500 go on. 0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:09.060 Strap yourself in. 0:20:09.160 --> 0:20:11.169 Also, that list is just one page, guys. 0:20:11.210 --> 0:20:14.310 The book is actually really funny. Yeah. Yeah, shut up, Mikey. 0:20:15.650 --> 0:20:18.369 Well, this is doing the rounds, a conversation hack that 0:20:18.410 --> 0:20:20.910 will give you instant charisma. 0:20:20.950 --> 0:20:21.950 Look, I don't need it because I've already got it 0:20:21.970 --> 0:20:22.119 for me. 0:20:22.130 --> 0:20:23.700 You need all the help you can get, yep. 0:20:24.440 --> 0:20:30.480 Psychologists have worked this out. It's a technique called strength spotting. 0:20:31.270 --> 0:20:31.629 Okay. 0:20:31.650 --> 0:20:32.880 Strength spotting. Strength spotting. 0:20:32.890 --> 0:20:33.210 All right. 0:20:33.280 --> 0:20:35.760 So, you just tell people what they're good at, and 0:20:35.780 --> 0:20:38.580 apparently it'll make them feel good. So, to pull it off, 0:20:38.600 --> 0:20:41.480 you've got to listen to their story. As they're telling 0:20:41.780 --> 0:20:43.290 the story, you pick up on things. 0:20:43.310 --> 0:20:46.330 It could be anything. And you give them compliments. So, 0:20:46.350 --> 0:20:48.950 it could be like, oh... Oh, you got so much. 0:20:48.890 --> 0:20:52.590 Patience or you handle that situation really well or you're 0:20:52.670 --> 0:20:54.090 really good when you're. 0:20:53.869 --> 0:20:55.869 Helping people or whatever. I don't know, some crap. You 0:20:55.890 --> 0:20:56.690 throw it out there, right? 0:20:57.230 --> 0:21:00.800 It makes people feel good and warm inside and then 0:21:00.820 --> 0:21:03.280 it gives you charisma. It's a bit like I learned, 0:21:03.960 --> 0:21:06.859 like it's obvious, but the most important thing to someone 0:21:06.940 --> 0:21:11.340 is their name. And I've watched really gun sales reps 0:21:11.400 --> 0:21:14.159 and stuff. Always they meet someone, a waiter for the 0:21:14.200 --> 0:21:14.560 first time. 0:21:14.600 --> 0:21:16.890 Oh, what's your name? Annabelle. Oh, Annabelle. 0:21:17.150 --> 0:21:19.630 And they will Annabelle the crap out of Annabelle during 0:21:19.650 --> 0:21:20.830 the whole wait service. 0:21:20.930 --> 0:21:21.810 My dad does this. 0:21:21.890 --> 0:21:22.359 Oh, does he? 0:21:22.369 --> 0:21:25.150 My dad will, and he takes it to the point 0:21:25.190 --> 0:21:28.790 where like the person cutting up the shaved meat in 0:21:28.830 --> 0:21:31.230 the deli at Woolworths, he will read their name badge 0:21:31.510 --> 0:21:32.990 and he calls them by their name. 0:21:33.010 --> 0:21:33.190 What? 0:21:34.010 --> 0:21:35.430 He says it's a respect thing. 0:21:35.550 --> 0:21:36.359 Yeah, yeah. 0:21:36.410 --> 0:21:39.080 But he might also be manipulating them. I remember going 0:21:39.119 --> 0:21:41.220 out with this dude. He was like a record. 0:21:41.340 --> 0:21:42.119 Hang on a second. 0:21:42.180 --> 0:21:42.939 You can't just drop that. 0:21:42.980 --> 0:21:44.380 Why would he be manipulating? 0:21:44.500 --> 0:21:46.560 Well, because he's going to get better service. 0:21:48.740 --> 0:21:49.180 Okay, sure. 0:21:49.220 --> 0:21:50.770 He's strength spotting. 0:21:52.270 --> 0:21:54.630 I went out with, he was like a big dude 0:21:54.670 --> 0:21:57.810 in the record label industry. And he was just so charismatic. 0:21:57.830 --> 0:21:59.050 But I remember going to lunch with him. 0:21:59.290 --> 0:21:59.490 Yeah. 0:21:59.830 --> 0:22:02.119 And the waiter came over. He learned her name. Then 0:22:02.140 --> 0:22:04.180 there was another doing the wine. He learnt their name. 0:22:04.200 --> 0:22:05.420 Sounds like he was flirting. 0:22:05.740 --> 0:22:06.780 Ah, no, you'd think that. 0:22:06.920 --> 0:22:08.520 I saw him then take out one of these little 0:22:08.600 --> 0:22:12.400 notepads and he wrote their names down. And he goes, 0:22:12.480 --> 0:22:15.030 so when I come back here, I'll get excellent service. 0:22:15.180 --> 0:22:16.410 Yeah, this is quite smart. 0:22:16.430 --> 0:22:17.830 I know, but like effort. 0:22:18.070 --> 0:22:21.210 Yeah, not really. It's just I feel like it's just 0:22:21.250 --> 0:22:25.159 about showing all people respect. But the problem is I 0:22:25.760 --> 0:22:29.440 feel like it's a bit creepy calling somebody by their name. 0:22:29.480 --> 0:22:32.740 Like I will always be– I will always– have good 0:22:32.810 --> 0:22:36.070 manners when anyone's serving me or helping me and stuff, 0:22:36.109 --> 0:22:38.350 but I don't go as far to call them by 0:22:38.830 --> 0:22:41.260 their name. Like I think that's quite an old school thing. 0:22:41.280 --> 0:22:42.480 Like the deli chick, yeah. 0:22:42.500 --> 0:22:44.640 Like what my dad does. But I have actually done– 0:22:44.859 --> 0:22:47.320 I do strength spotting quite a bit. I've got a 0:22:47.340 --> 0:22:53.090 girlfriend who is an incredible– Listener. Like I always say 0:22:53.710 --> 0:22:55.770 she doubles as like one of my best mates but 0:22:55.810 --> 0:22:59.580 also like my psychologist because she is so good at 0:22:59.700 --> 0:23:03.419 holding space for you. So if you're going through stuff 0:23:03.460 --> 0:23:06.510 with your kids or your husband or whatever, she will 0:23:06.640 --> 0:23:09.890 just listen. She's a really good listener and I will 0:23:10.070 --> 0:23:12.929 often get off the phone feeling lighter and better. 0:23:12.950 --> 0:23:14.370 And do you tell her though? 0:23:14.430 --> 0:23:16.129 Yeah, I will often. 0:23:15.930 --> 0:23:17.990 Send her a message and go, hey, I want you 0:23:18.030 --> 0:23:22.440 to know you are so good at making me feel 0:23:22.460 --> 0:23:24.820 better and thank you so much for holding space for me. 0:23:25.119 --> 0:23:26.840 You are. You're a strength spotter. 0:23:26.940 --> 0:23:27.900 I'm not a strength spotter. 0:23:27.940 --> 0:23:28.879 I think I need to do it more. 0:23:28.900 --> 0:23:29.760 I've got charisma. 0:23:30.140 --> 0:23:31.430 Yeah, you do. You got the riz. 0:23:31.710 --> 0:23:34.109 But, like, okay, what would it work if I just 0:23:34.130 --> 0:23:35.639 gave you compliments about your looks? 0:23:36.560 --> 0:23:38.360 No, that's just you being sleazy. 0:23:38.520 --> 0:23:38.879 Right. 0:23:39.040 --> 0:23:41.940 Yeah. That's all you got, Mikey. 0:23:41.960 --> 0:23:42.120 Yeah. 0:23:42.200 --> 0:23:44.000 Got to listen to your story and give you feedback 0:23:44.060 --> 0:23:44.540 as you're going. 0:23:44.560 --> 0:23:44.800 Yeah, right. 0:23:44.920 --> 0:23:48.619 And joining us now, Georgina Walker. If you want your 0:23:48.840 --> 0:23:53.609 Snap Prediction 131065, you can check out georginawalker.com as well. 0:23:53.990 --> 0:23:55.430 If you want to go and get a private reading, 0:23:55.450 --> 0:23:56.449 you're ready to go, Georgina. 0:23:56.470 --> 0:23:58.149 Yeah, I'm snappy this morning. 0:23:58.190 --> 0:23:58.869 All right, here we go. 0:23:58.910 --> 0:23:59.730 Careful what you ask. 0:23:59.790 --> 0:24:02.230 You might not like hearing the answer. 0:24:02.470 --> 0:24:04.630 Mark, you're on air with Georgina. Go for it, mate. 0:24:06.090 --> 0:24:06.810 Hi, Georgina. 0:24:06.850 --> 0:24:07.290 How are you? 0:24:07.430 --> 0:24:09.430 I'm fantastic. What did you want to ask, Mark? 0:24:10.150 --> 0:24:12.859 I just want to ask you, I'm recently divorced. I 0:24:12.900 --> 0:24:16.699 was married for about 30 odd years and then had 0:24:16.720 --> 0:24:18.940 a girlfriend, broke up with her. I'm just curious to 0:24:18.960 --> 0:24:22.340 know down the track if there's any potential partner. 0:24:22.359 --> 0:24:23.380 So how old are you? 0:24:24.660 --> 0:24:26.109 I'm 64. 0:24:26.109 --> 0:24:30.510 Oh, look, life is just beginning. You might find you 0:24:30.530 --> 0:24:33.629 might be inundated. You need to be very specific with 0:24:33.670 --> 0:24:37.080 what you want. I'm not saying have a list that's impossible, 0:24:37.380 --> 0:24:40.220 but I do feel that definitely next year is your year. 0:24:40.740 --> 0:24:43.300 The only thing is sometimes because you can get lonely 0:24:43.340 --> 0:24:45.359 after being with somebody for such a long time. You 0:24:45.400 --> 0:24:47.220 may go and think, yes, this is it, and sort 0:24:47.280 --> 0:24:49.399 of like be a little bit claustrophobic with somebody, like 0:24:49.460 --> 0:24:51.600 a bit clingy. Get to know them. I hear this song, 0:24:51.619 --> 0:24:53.740 get to know you, like having a cup of tea, 0:24:53.770 --> 0:24:56.390 go slow. There's a song, get to know you, getting 0:24:56.430 --> 0:24:58.550 to know all about you. So I think next year's 0:24:58.570 --> 0:25:00.429 your year, and I think you will settle down, and 0:25:00.470 --> 0:25:02.890 I do believe you'll marry again. But I see 2029. Okay, 0:25:03.050 --> 0:25:04.670 there we go. 0:25:05.050 --> 0:25:09.710 Good on you, mate. Carol's on. Carol, go for it. 0:25:09.820 --> 0:25:13.040 Hi, I'm 60, retiring soon, well, in seven years' time, 0:25:13.080 --> 0:25:14.240 looking for an apartment. 0:25:14.800 --> 0:25:16.970 Am I looking in the right place and for the 0:25:17.030 --> 0:25:17.490 right price? 0:25:18.840 --> 0:25:22.200 I'm very worried about the mortgage situation. You said retiring 0:25:22.240 --> 0:25:24.139 in seven years. I don't believe it's seven years. I 0:25:24.140 --> 0:25:26.920 feel we've only got another two. So you have to 0:25:26.960 --> 0:25:29.460 look at your financial situation. So maybe cutting your cloth 0:25:29.800 --> 0:25:31.639 as far as maybe you're looking at the suburb now 0:25:31.680 --> 0:25:34.250 that you can afford. But I don't believe you'll be 0:25:34.290 --> 0:25:36.850 retiring in seven years. I think something dramatic is going 0:25:36.869 --> 0:25:39.369 to happen within a two-year period of time that you 0:25:39.390 --> 0:25:41.690 will either, if you go where you are now, you'll 0:25:41.730 --> 0:25:43.889 either have to resell or if you go to something 0:25:43.930 --> 0:25:46.149 a little bit more affordable, you can be able to 0:25:46.210 --> 0:25:47.190 manage the repayments. 0:25:48.350 --> 0:25:52.080 Okay, so will it happen soon though? 0:25:52.100 --> 0:25:53.740 Well, you've got to adjust what I just said. If 0:25:53.760 --> 0:25:56.460 you don't adjust what you said, then you're in financial problems. 0:25:56.980 --> 0:26:00.000 I mean, so you're saying that she's going to retire earlier? 0:26:00.240 --> 0:26:03.140 Yes, she may not retire. Maybe something else happens. But 0:26:03.160 --> 0:26:04.740 I've just seen two years' time there will be a 0:26:04.780 --> 0:26:07.790 huge shake-up financially. So she really needs to change where 0:26:07.810 --> 0:26:09.010 she's wanting to look at the moment. 0:26:09.310 --> 0:26:09.710 All right. 0:26:10.510 --> 0:26:12.129 Sienna, you're on. Go for it. 0:26:13.200 --> 0:26:16.740 Hi, thank you so much. I've been with my partner 0:26:16.780 --> 0:26:20.609 for about five years. We're both 22. We are quite young. 0:26:23.290 --> 0:26:27.710 And my parents are also very, very strict and traditional 0:26:27.770 --> 0:26:30.530 religious European. So we're not allowed to do a lot 0:26:30.550 --> 0:26:33.710 of stuff, not allowed to go away together, no sleepovers, 0:26:34.230 --> 0:26:37.180 none of that. But we've been going strong for five years. 0:26:37.240 --> 0:26:38.820 So at least I know he loves me. 0:26:39.380 --> 0:26:39.540 Yeah. 0:26:40.470 --> 0:26:42.790 But we have been talking a lot about marriage because 0:26:42.810 --> 0:26:45.310 that is the only way for me to kind of 0:26:45.330 --> 0:26:48.210 get that freedom. And I just kind of want to 0:26:48.230 --> 0:26:50.629 know if you see us getting engaged in the next year. 0:26:50.650 --> 0:26:52.340 Yeah, I do believe you'll get engaged. But when you 0:26:52.380 --> 0:26:54.800 say freedom, you need to understand also, look at how 0:26:54.980 --> 0:26:57.900 your fiancé, we'll call him your fiancé, what he calls 0:26:57.920 --> 0:27:00.200 freedom or what you call freedom, because sometimes we fall 0:27:00.220 --> 0:27:02.540 into the patterns of our parents. And if you've got 0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:05.360 very strict parenting, he may also feel that a woman 0:27:05.400 --> 0:27:07.530 should dress this way once they're married. A woman should 0:27:07.570 --> 0:27:09.510 do that once you're married. So I think you need 0:27:09.530 --> 0:27:12.449 to sit down and talk about what you see in 0:27:12.470 --> 0:27:14.810 a marriage and what is given and what isn't given. 0:27:15.050 --> 0:27:17.570 I think it's a good relationship and I think it's stable. 0:27:17.609 --> 0:27:20.129 But I need to say when you say freedom, I 0:27:20.170 --> 0:27:22.860 think that may then also be the parents saying, oh, 0:27:22.910 --> 0:27:26.730 a daughter-in-law shouldn't dress like that. So you've got to 0:27:26.770 --> 0:27:29.560 have all of that conversation because you may think you're 0:27:29.580 --> 0:27:32.580 going to have freedom, but the parents rule on both sides. 0:27:34.180 --> 0:27:35.500 Okay? All right. 0:27:35.640 --> 0:27:37.379 One more. Let's go. 0:27:37.400 --> 0:27:37.500 Elise. 0:27:39.810 --> 0:27:40.830 Morning, Gigi. 0:27:40.850 --> 0:27:41.570 Good morning. 0:27:41.590 --> 0:27:43.430 Just a quick question. 0:27:44.050 --> 0:27:47.270 I currently have a four-year-old, two-year-old, and I'm pregnant with twins. 0:27:47.730 --> 0:27:48.250 Oh, God. 0:27:48.510 --> 0:27:50.210 Elise, you're busy. 0:27:51.540 --> 0:27:53.060 Yes. 0:27:53.200 --> 0:27:57.000 I guess just future, do we try to get a 0:27:57.020 --> 0:27:58.859 bigger house now? 0:27:59.119 --> 0:28:03.550 No, no. Stay put at the moment financially. I know 0:28:03.609 --> 0:28:07.560 you've You're wanting to move and moving is stressful, but 0:28:07.600 --> 0:28:10.480 I just think at the moment having twins can be expensive. Well, 0:28:10.640 --> 0:28:12.939 you've had four kids can be expensive. Everything just says 0:28:13.000 --> 0:28:16.940 to me, stay put. I think more like 2028, when 0:28:16.960 --> 0:28:19.120 you look at your finances, look at the situation. See, 0:28:19.140 --> 0:28:21.220 twins may come early. I'm not predicting that, but also 0:28:21.240 --> 0:28:23.280 they may come early. So there may be more time 0:28:23.720 --> 0:28:26.600 at the hospital situation, more stress. So the message is 0:28:26.700 --> 0:28:29.439 not moving at this point in time. Just put up 0:28:29.460 --> 0:28:31.880 with what you've got, which I don't think is bad 0:28:31.940 --> 0:28:34.179 at all, actually. And it's also to settle this for 0:28:34.200 --> 0:28:37.219 the older children. Moving into a new place, it can 0:28:37.240 --> 0:28:40.890 be unsettling. This is predictable. But 2020, I think, is 0:28:40.910 --> 0:28:41.690 a much better time. 0:28:41.890 --> 0:28:42.170 Okay? 0:28:42.790 --> 0:28:42.970 Okay. 0:28:43.250 --> 0:28:43.650 Perfect. 0:28:43.690 --> 0:28:44.190 Thank you so much. 0:28:44.210 --> 0:28:46.310 My pleasure. Well, there we go. Georgina Walker. 0:28:46.330 --> 0:28:47.910 Wow, you were snappy today. 0:28:47.970 --> 0:28:48.870 Oh, the boss saw me. 0:28:48.990 --> 0:28:49.830 Snap, snap, snap. 0:28:49.850 --> 0:28:50.760 You fired three days. 0:28:50.860 --> 0:28:51.760 I made your money. 0:28:51.900 --> 0:28:58.650 You want an in-depth, private reading, you can go to georginawalker.com. Well, 0:28:58.670 --> 0:29:01.270 I haven't said nothing, but I have said something and 0:29:01.330 --> 0:29:03.230 apparently it's wrong. 0:29:03.990 --> 0:29:06.260 And you're a chick. I need to run it past you. 0:29:06.540 --> 0:29:06.700 Yep. 0:29:07.340 --> 0:29:09.300 Because my girlfriend thinks I'm saying the wrong thing. 0:29:09.720 --> 0:29:10.140 Okay. 0:29:10.880 --> 0:29:13.560 So, a few months ago, you know, you've been together 0:29:13.640 --> 0:29:15.770 since like December and then you're... Yeah. 0:29:16.090 --> 0:29:17.610 So, what are you, what, nine months now? 0:29:18.210 --> 0:29:18.590 Yeah. 0:29:18.750 --> 0:29:18.950 Yeah. 0:29:18.990 --> 0:29:19.850 Let's go with that. Okay. 0:29:19.870 --> 0:29:20.050 So. 0:29:20.090 --> 0:29:24.590 Cute. I did the... You know, the Illy, the love 0:29:24.610 --> 0:29:25.070 you stuff. 0:29:25.550 --> 0:29:27.209 Oh, you dropped a love bomb. 0:29:27.230 --> 0:29:30.260 I think I wrote it first. Oh, you loser. 0:29:30.320 --> 0:29:32.080 No, you didn't. In a text. 0:29:32.220 --> 0:29:32.800 No, no, no, no. 0:29:32.920 --> 0:29:34.440 I wrote her a letter. 0:29:35.400 --> 0:29:36.290 Oh, that's nice. 0:29:36.470 --> 0:29:36.930 Yeah. 0:29:36.950 --> 0:29:39.050 That is so cute, my dear. 0:29:39.070 --> 0:29:39.150 Yeah. 0:29:40.750 --> 0:29:40.870 Are. 0:29:42.260 --> 0:29:44.620 Not good with words. 0:29:44.980 --> 0:29:49.300 Speak for yourself. You're a pretty average communicator. 0:29:49.480 --> 0:29:49.680 Yeah. 0:29:49.700 --> 0:29:51.380 And it's funny because I do it for a living. 0:29:51.760 --> 0:29:52.640 Yeah. 0:29:52.920 --> 0:29:55.900 But it's all surface level stuff here. 0:29:56.020 --> 0:29:57.160 I'll get deep if you want. 0:29:57.440 --> 0:29:57.800 Okay. 0:29:58.280 --> 0:29:58.500 Anyway. 0:29:59.140 --> 0:30:02.290 So you wrote her a love letter and declared her love. 0:30:02.810 --> 0:30:04.590 I wrote I love you on the flowers. 0:30:05.370 --> 0:30:06.230 Funeral flowers? 0:30:06.990 --> 0:30:07.610 The flowers. 0:30:07.730 --> 0:30:08.390 Oh, no. 0:30:08.490 --> 0:30:09.630 So I gave her flowers. Anyway. 0:30:10.190 --> 0:30:10.330 Yeah. 0:30:10.720 --> 0:30:13.280 About a week or two ago, she said, do you realize, 0:30:13.480 --> 0:30:16.700 and I didn't, being honest, I didn't realize, that apparently 0:30:16.860 --> 0:30:22.310 I say, love you, not I love you. 0:30:23.410 --> 0:30:23.870 Is that a thing? 0:30:25.050 --> 0:30:25.510 That's a thing. 0:30:25.530 --> 0:30:26.510 Does that matter? 0:30:27.310 --> 0:30:28.290 Absolutely, it matters. 0:30:29.100 --> 0:30:30.580 But what's the difference? Love you. 0:30:30.600 --> 0:30:32.920 No, but hang on. Love you is what I say 0:30:32.940 --> 0:30:33.620 to my girlfriends. 0:30:33.850 --> 0:30:35.910 Yeah, I said it to my girlfriend. 0:30:36.150 --> 0:30:37.670 No, but I say it to my friends. 0:30:37.990 --> 0:30:40.410 Love you is just like an off-the-cuff love you. 0:30:40.430 --> 0:30:43.160 But I don't say that to other people. 0:30:43.180 --> 0:30:48.680 Yeah, but it doesn't have the same effect than saying 0:30:49.000 --> 0:30:53.180 I love you. Like Ryan always signs off a phone 0:30:53.220 --> 0:30:55.440 call to me. He'll be like, blah, blah, blah. Hey, 0:30:55.480 --> 0:30:56.160 I got to go. Love you. 0:30:56.200 --> 0:30:57.960 Bye. Oh, that means he doesn't love you then? 0:30:58.100 --> 0:31:02.900 But it doesn't mean the same as him being like, hey, 0:31:02.920 --> 0:31:07.450 I love you, babe. Or something like that and stopping 0:31:07.550 --> 0:31:10.670 and maybe pausing at the end. It makes sense because 0:31:10.690 --> 0:31:13.950 you're uncomfortable talking about your feelings that you would just 0:31:14.020 --> 0:31:15.240 like brush it off. 0:31:15.960 --> 0:31:18.260 Oh, 31065. Does that really matter? It's one letter. What 0:31:18.360 --> 0:31:21.000 is the difference between love you and I love you? 0:31:21.380 --> 0:31:24.400 Wait, when you wrote her your love letter with the flowers, 0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:26.920 did you write love you or did you write I 0:31:26.980 --> 0:31:27.440 love you? 0:31:27.460 --> 0:31:29.820 Oh, maybe I just wrote love you. 0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:29.960 Oh, no. 0:31:30.640 --> 0:31:32.240 I must have. I don't know. 0:31:32.700 --> 0:31:34.940 It just comes naturally to write. Love you doesn't matter, Sean. 0:31:34.960 --> 0:31:36.130 Come on, back a man up here. 0:31:36.410 --> 0:31:37.870 Nah, don't. 0:31:38.950 --> 0:31:40.510 I think it does, actually. 0:31:41.330 --> 0:31:43.790 I think it has more meaning behind it if you say, 0:31:43.810 --> 0:31:46.430 I love you. But I reckon it is harder for 0:31:46.450 --> 0:31:47.010 guys to say. 0:31:47.030 --> 0:31:47.780 I don't know why. 0:31:47.800 --> 0:31:48.260 What it is. 0:31:48.540 --> 0:31:50.120 Like this macho sort of, I don't know. 0:31:50.140 --> 0:31:50.680 But it is. 0:31:50.740 --> 0:31:53.880 Like it does feel a bit. It's so much more. 0:31:53.960 --> 0:31:56.560 It has so much more meaning when you say, I 0:31:56.600 --> 0:31:56.940 love you. 0:31:57.140 --> 0:31:57.440 Really? 0:31:57.660 --> 0:32:00.720 And especially if you look her in the eye. 0:32:00.740 --> 0:32:00.920 Yeah. 0:32:01.370 --> 0:32:01.510 And. 0:32:02.740 --> 0:32:03.060 You know? 0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:03.890 Say it. 0:32:03.960 --> 0:32:04.360 Say it. 0:32:04.400 --> 0:32:06.720 Look at me now. I'm Alana, okay? 0:32:06.880 --> 0:32:07.100 Are you? 0:32:07.160 --> 0:32:10.720 I mean, I'm 20 years older than her, but just imagine. 0:32:12.010 --> 0:32:13.690 Well, I'm, how old is she? 0:32:13.950 --> 0:32:15.070 You're not 20 years older. 0:32:15.150 --> 0:32:16.310 Oh, sorry, she's 30, almost 30. 0:32:16.310 --> 0:32:18.390 Oh, no, I've just aged myself. 0:32:19.450 --> 0:32:21.710 I've given Alana a compliment there. She looks very young. 0:32:21.790 --> 0:32:24.280 So now every time I can't say love you, can't 0:32:24.320 --> 0:32:24.800 say it anymore. 0:32:24.860 --> 0:32:25.520 Absolutely not. 0:32:25.640 --> 0:32:26.830 You've got to say I love you. 0:32:26.840 --> 0:32:28.920 You can say it casually at the end of a 0:32:28.960 --> 0:32:29.580 phone call. 0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:30.520 Slap on the bum, love ya. 0:32:31.230 --> 0:32:33.970 Yeah, stuff like that. As long as you are having 0:32:34.010 --> 0:32:35.670 moments where you say I love you or you reach 0:32:35.690 --> 0:32:37.210 across the table at dinner and say. 0:32:37.530 --> 0:32:38.070 I love you. 0:32:38.090 --> 0:32:38.630 I love you. 0:32:38.650 --> 0:32:40.709 It's the I. Isn't it funny that one letter. 0:32:40.870 --> 0:32:41.070 Yeah. 0:32:41.230 --> 0:32:42.510 You didn't even think it was a thing. 0:32:42.890 --> 0:32:43.290 Yeah. 0:32:43.470 --> 0:32:44.010 I love you. 0:32:44.750 --> 0:32:45.320 You nailed it. 0:32:45.330 --> 0:32:46.510 You're welcome, Alana. 0:32:46.530 --> 0:32:48.370 I reckon I've had all these X's and I've just 0:32:48.410 --> 0:32:49.830 been saying love ya to all of them. 0:32:49.870 --> 0:32:51.010 Yeah, no wonder they've left you. 0:32:51.050 --> 0:32:52.360 You might have been able to keep them if you 0:32:52.380 --> 0:32:52.790 just said I. 0:32:52.780 --> 0:32:55.300 That was the missing piece. 0:32:56.650 --> 0:32:59.390 Oh, well. It's 22 past eight right now. 0:32:59.470 --> 0:33:01.870 Okay, well, I'm talking to all the mums hopefully listening 0:33:01.930 --> 0:33:04.170 and the dads. If you struggle to get your kids 0:33:04.430 --> 0:33:06.850 up for school in the morning, we've actually found the 0:33:06.910 --> 0:33:09.510 best way to get them out of bed, and I'll 0:33:09.630 --> 0:33:10.930 tell you all about that next. 0:33:11.030 --> 0:33:17.570 Oh, love story. My love story by Taylor Swift. playing 0:33:17.650 --> 0:33:21.620 right now. I love Story. I love Story. I love you, Story. 0:33:21.980 --> 0:33:22.780 Yeah, there you go. 0:33:22.800 --> 0:33:23.200 Yeah, cool. 0:33:23.260 --> 0:33:24.280 Oh, that was a great song. 0:33:24.340 --> 0:33:25.220 I wanted to. 0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:27.830 Play more of that. All right, so obviously all parents, 0:33:27.890 --> 0:33:31.170 if you've got kids, we have all experienced the stress. 0:33:33.020 --> 0:33:35.360 and horror of trying to persuade a child to get 0:33:35.400 --> 0:33:37.060 out of bed, you know, so they're not late for school. 0:33:37.140 --> 0:33:37.720 I have three. 0:33:37.740 --> 0:33:40.640 Oh, yeah. My middle child is an absolute gun, gets 0:33:40.680 --> 0:33:43.720 up at 6.30, gets himself dressed, makes himself breakfast. My 0:33:43.850 --> 0:33:45.670 other eldest and youngest, not so good. 0:33:45.690 --> 0:33:46.310 Don't want to get out. 0:33:46.330 --> 0:33:47.989 Isn't there a thing where kids are really young, they 0:33:48.050 --> 0:33:49.990 wake up early, and then you get to a certain age? 0:33:50.070 --> 0:33:50.250 No. 0:33:50.270 --> 0:33:50.330 No? 0:33:51.010 --> 0:33:51.590 No. 0:33:51.690 --> 0:33:55.030 I feel like you're either a night or a morning person, 0:33:55.110 --> 0:33:58.310 and that is, like, instilled within people. By birth. So 0:33:58.330 --> 0:34:00.810 like my eldest and my youngest, they will sleep into 0:34:00.830 --> 0:34:04.430 like 9am if I gave them the opportunity. Whereas my 0:34:04.580 --> 0:34:09.480 middle child will, it's like he is incapable of sleeping 0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:11.160 past 7.30. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:34:11.180 --> 0:34:12.060 Just got to get out of bed. 0:34:12.120 --> 0:34:12.580 7am even. 0:34:12.780 --> 0:34:13.939 Yeah, yeah. 0:34:14.140 --> 0:34:18.110 But it turns out that instead of yelling and screaming and, 0:34:18.550 --> 0:34:21.570 nagging and harassing them. We've been doing it all wrong. 0:34:21.750 --> 0:34:23.629 Okay. How do you get a kid out of bed then? 0:34:23.830 --> 0:34:25.690 So you need a butler. 0:34:26.230 --> 0:34:27.170 Okay. 0:34:27.270 --> 0:34:30.710 Because we've all got the cash for one of them, right? 0:34:31.110 --> 0:34:37.330 But the butler to Ukrainian model Anna Maligan has shared 0:34:37.390 --> 0:34:42.109 the ways that he wakes her up in her huge mansion. 0:34:42.230 --> 0:34:42.570 Okay. 0:34:42.610 --> 0:34:43.970 Have a listen to her butler. 0:34:44.719 --> 0:34:51.029 First, enter the room quietly. Open the curtains 30%. Prepare 0:34:51.130 --> 0:34:54.529 fresh water and tea by the bedside. Then from a 0:34:54.590 --> 0:35:00.759 respectful distance and at a gentle volume level. Good morning, madam. 0:35:01.200 --> 0:35:05.140 Your tea is ready. Her slippers should be placed beside 0:35:05.180 --> 0:35:09.180 the bed facing outward and the rope within reach. 0:35:09.680 --> 0:35:10.960 And only after that. 0:35:11.350 --> 0:35:13.469 You introduce the day's schedule. 0:35:13.870 --> 0:35:15.049 Did that work on your kids? 0:35:15.090 --> 0:35:17.860 I feel like that he's missing somebody in the corner 0:35:17.900 --> 0:35:20.600 of the room playing a harp. Like that's all that's 0:35:20.660 --> 0:35:22.100 missing from that picture right there. 0:35:22.219 --> 0:35:24.120 How good is that feeling, though, like when you don't 0:35:24.160 --> 0:35:26.279 have an alarm and you just naturally wake up to 0:35:26.300 --> 0:35:28.069 a bit of sun coming in, which is what he's 0:35:28.110 --> 0:35:28.450 doing there. 0:35:28.670 --> 0:35:29.790 Would that work on your kids? 0:35:30.350 --> 0:35:33.250 I mean, I feel like that would work on anyone, right? 0:35:33.290 --> 0:35:35.069 You'd wake up? Your kids would wake up to that? 0:35:35.110 --> 0:35:38.770 That would be a lovely way to wake up. Soft energy. 0:35:38.989 --> 0:35:40.000 And gently. 0:35:40.980 --> 0:35:41.779 It's nice, right? 0:35:41.940 --> 0:35:43.890 Not like what my parents used to do. 0:35:43.950 --> 0:35:44.830 Yeah, what did they do to you? 0:35:45.620 --> 0:35:47.549 Well, my mum used to be like, get up, get up, 0:35:47.620 --> 0:35:52.589 get up, you're late. My dad, I'm a bit more 0:35:52.610 --> 0:35:53.489 like my middle child. 0:35:53.530 --> 0:35:55.169 I can't sleep in to save my life. 0:35:55.830 --> 0:36:00.529 And I think it stems from early, early on. Even 0:36:00.570 --> 0:36:02.549 on the weekend, he would come in and he would 0:36:02.670 --> 0:36:07.330 sing like this, rise and shine, as he was just 0:36:07.390 --> 0:36:10.550 like ripping my windows apart. 0:36:10.790 --> 0:36:14.370 So the sunlight just streamed straight into my face, yeah. 0:36:14.630 --> 0:36:16.670 I was a... Shit of a teenager. 0:36:16.810 --> 0:36:18.210 No surprises there. 0:36:18.310 --> 0:36:20.069 If mum didn't drop me up to school, I wouldn't 0:36:20.090 --> 0:36:22.299 have gone. I just wouldn't go. And she even caught 0:36:22.320 --> 0:36:22.600 me once. 0:36:22.640 --> 0:36:24.920 She dropped me near the oval and I just sort 0:36:24.960 --> 0:36:26.900 of snuck off and started smoking a ciggy and I 0:36:27.000 --> 0:36:30.920 still remember mum walking down, catching me. But getting me 0:36:30.960 --> 0:36:33.560 out of bed, I reckon year nine and ten, you know, 0:36:33.580 --> 0:36:34.950 because that's kind of the worst years. 0:36:34.969 --> 0:36:36.660 It just would have been horrendous for her. 0:36:36.670 --> 0:36:37.549 How did she get you out? 0:36:37.590 --> 0:36:40.690 She got to the point I remember her throwing cold 0:36:40.730 --> 0:36:41.150 water on me. 0:36:42.230 --> 0:36:43.130 An ice bucket. 0:36:43.150 --> 0:36:43.989 Yeah, literally. 0:36:44.130 --> 0:36:44.550 Yeah. 0:36:44.570 --> 0:36:46.170 She would walk in there with cold water and throw 0:36:46.210 --> 0:36:46.610 it over me. 0:36:47.050 --> 0:36:47.270 Yeah. 0:36:47.350 --> 0:36:49.290 Well, see, all the parents are doing it wrong. We 0:36:49.310 --> 0:36:49.990 all need butlers. 0:36:50.210 --> 0:36:52.399 Yes, we do. If only we could all afford the butlers. 0:36:52.420 --> 0:36:53.880 I know. It's where we've gone wrong, guys. 0:36:53.900 --> 0:36:54.239 All right. 0:36:54.300 --> 0:36:54.580 All right. 0:36:54.620 --> 0:36:58.640 Our last calls now, if you want to get on air, 131065. Hello, Ryan. 0:36:58.700 --> 0:36:59.460 Hey, Ryan. 0:37:00.219 --> 0:37:01.160 G'day, mate. How are you? 0:37:01.300 --> 0:37:02.939 Good, man. What's up? What do you want to chat about? 0:37:02.960 --> 0:37:08.170 This is about, I heard Amy talking about the electrical circuit. 0:37:08.190 --> 0:37:12.969 Oh, okay. Yes, my fridge, my toaster, Alexa's turned off. 0:37:13.390 --> 0:37:14.370 And they're all in the kitchen. 0:37:14.530 --> 0:37:15.770 It's all in the kitchen, yes. 0:37:15.810 --> 0:37:17.950 I feel like it's localized, but then the lights in 0:37:17.989 --> 0:37:18.779 the kitchen work. 0:37:19.090 --> 0:37:22.400 Okay. What's going on, Ryan? Are you a sparky or something? 0:37:22.440 --> 0:37:23.799 Yes, I am, mate. I am, yes. 0:37:24.040 --> 0:37:26.080 What's happening? Is there an emergency? Is the house going 0:37:26.100 --> 0:37:26.420 to burn down? 0:37:26.620 --> 0:37:28.500 Do I need to return home immediately? 0:37:28.780 --> 0:37:33.090 So a certain amount of electricity goes through each circuit. Yeah. 0:37:33.290 --> 0:37:37.649 And if you put too many plugs in... Mm-hmm. into 0:37:37.670 --> 0:37:40.029 the one circuit, you can overload it. And that's why 0:37:40.070 --> 0:37:42.870 it trips. And if you're overloading it, it can cause 0:37:42.890 --> 0:37:47.910 fires or whatever. But it's also some appliances could be 0:37:47.950 --> 0:37:48.830 faulty as well. 0:37:48.850 --> 0:37:50.390 Because it's never happened before, right? 0:37:50.570 --> 0:37:53.609 No. And so my question to you, Ryan, is there's 0:37:53.750 --> 0:37:56.669 nothing that's been recently plugged. 0:37:56.469 --> 0:37:57.450 In or new. 0:37:57.719 --> 0:38:03.380 So it's all the same things that have been pre-existing. 0:38:03.500 --> 0:38:05.240 So why all of a sudden? 0:38:07.500 --> 0:38:11.050 Well, it could be one of your appliances malfunctioning. Getting old, yeah. Yeah, 0:38:11.070 --> 0:38:11.630 getting old. 0:38:11.690 --> 0:38:14.430 It could be your toaster. I reckon it's the toaster. 0:38:14.450 --> 0:38:15.049 You know what? 0:38:15.150 --> 0:38:18.090 I have moved my toaster from one side of the 0:38:18.270 --> 0:38:19.170 stove to the other. 0:38:19.190 --> 0:38:20.089 Oh, it could be that. 0:38:20.140 --> 0:38:22.779 So maybe it's just a different power point or– It. 0:38:22.820 --> 0:38:25.000 Could be as simple as that. You know, my toaster 0:38:25.040 --> 0:38:26.600 broke like five years ago. 0:38:26.620 --> 0:38:26.759 Yeah. 0:38:27.140 --> 0:38:29.000 And I just never bought a new one. I was 0:38:29.060 --> 0:38:31.930 toasting bread on the grill. My girlfriend got the jack 0:38:31.969 --> 0:38:33.750 of her. She bought me a nice smeg one. 0:38:33.790 --> 0:38:35.910 Yeah. I honestly wouldn't have, I just wouldn't have bothered 0:38:35.930 --> 0:38:37.050 getting one. Yeah. 0:38:37.270 --> 0:38:37.530 Okay. 0:38:37.550 --> 0:38:38.870 How often do you, I mean, you got a family. 0:38:38.930 --> 0:38:40.230 I use my toaster every morning. 0:38:40.290 --> 0:38:40.610 Yeah. 0:38:40.690 --> 0:38:41.299 Or day. 0:38:41.570 --> 0:38:43.880 And ruining your circuit board. 0:38:43.900 --> 0:38:44.100 Sure. 0:38:44.160 --> 0:38:45.720 I'll switch it back to its old place. 0:38:46.660 --> 0:38:47.460 Hey, Rachel's on. 0:38:47.500 --> 0:38:47.820 Hello. 0:38:47.860 --> 0:38:48.819 What did you want to talk about? 0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:49.420 Hey, Rach. 0:38:50.400 --> 0:38:53.030 Hey, I wanted to talk about the AI songwriting. 0:38:53.050 --> 0:38:53.140 Yeah. 0:38:53.300 --> 0:38:53.530 Yeah. 0:38:54.530 --> 0:38:57.450 So I'm thinking if I was able to use AI 0:38:57.530 --> 0:39:01.010 and become a successful songwriter and make money for myself, 0:39:01.130 --> 0:39:04.430 I think that would be fantastic and an awesome way 0:39:04.890 --> 0:39:06.190 to support my family. 0:39:06.590 --> 0:39:10.840 Sure, but like you're cheating, aren't you? 0:39:10.860 --> 0:39:12.819 No, I believe that the people who think that it's 0:39:12.900 --> 0:39:16.400 cheating are probably people that are financially stable and have 0:39:16.460 --> 0:39:17.739 never had a problem paying a bill. 0:39:17.760 --> 0:39:20.879 Oh, It's pretty hard to make money out of music, though. 0:39:20.920 --> 0:39:23.980 I mean, I say what you mean, but me as 0:39:24.060 --> 0:39:28.029 a songwriter, I wouldn't like to release AI songs. 0:39:28.070 --> 0:39:29.430 You'd feel like a fraud, you said. 0:39:29.700 --> 0:39:32.640 And I think when it's your profession, like you're in 0:39:32.680 --> 0:39:36.609 a band and it's like something that you have been 0:39:36.630 --> 0:39:37.890 doing for years and years and years. 0:39:37.950 --> 0:39:38.109 Yeah. 0:39:39.540 --> 0:39:43.240 It's hard to kind of digest the thought of somebody 0:39:43.780 --> 0:39:46.350 getting AI to write music and then potentially. 0:39:46.370 --> 0:39:46.450 I. 0:39:46.430 --> 0:39:48.589 Suppose it's just like me saying it's just not my 0:39:48.630 --> 0:39:51.529 cup of tea. So other people probably are doing it 0:39:51.590 --> 0:39:54.969 right now and they're releasing songs that have mixes of 0:39:55.050 --> 0:39:57.870 different other artists and they sound like... And there are 0:39:57.930 --> 0:40:00.330 cool mixes out there. I don't dispute that, but I 0:40:00.370 --> 0:40:01.230 just wouldn't do it myself. 0:40:01.350 --> 0:40:03.950 But Rachel, you're saying if you need a buck, it's 0:40:04.010 --> 0:40:04.750 a good way to get money. 0:40:06.040 --> 0:40:06.660 Absolutely. 0:40:06.719 --> 0:40:09.580 As a single parent who is struggling, I would totally 0:40:09.660 --> 0:40:11.739 do it and I'd be so proud of myself putting 0:40:11.800 --> 0:40:12.650 food on the table. 0:40:12.730 --> 0:40:16.710 Well, what's stopping you? Get out your GPT, write a song, Rachel. 0:40:17.610 --> 0:40:19.470 Well, I probably will now that you guys have put 0:40:19.510 --> 0:40:20.560 that idea into my head. 0:40:20.680 --> 0:40:22.520 Yeah, that's a good idea. 0:40:22.560 --> 0:40:23.160 There you go. 0:40:23.420 --> 0:40:23.739 All right. 0:40:23.860 --> 0:40:27.640 On the show tomorrow, world-famous etiquette expert. You heard this 0:40:27.739 --> 0:40:30.240 William Hansen bloke before, Pauline's brother. 0:40:30.620 --> 0:40:32.430 No, it's not Pauline's brother. 0:40:32.450 --> 0:40:33.589 It can be more opposite, actually. 0:40:33.670 --> 0:40:36.070 He is so funny. 0:40:36.230 --> 0:40:36.570 Yeah. 0:40:36.730 --> 0:40:39.210 Well, he's on. He's going to judge how ladylike Amy is. 0:40:39.210 --> 0:40:40.770 Do you think you're ladylike? Oh, my God. 0:40:41.410 --> 0:40:43.950 This is so funny because I don't know if you– 0:40:44.219 --> 0:40:47.840 you're not on socials, but there's this other Aussie comedian. 0:40:47.940 --> 0:40:50.820 He was at the Logies, Luke Cook, and he takes 0:40:51.020 --> 0:40:54.990 William Hansen's videos and then does like a parody of them. 0:40:55.030 --> 0:40:55.549 Oh, okay, yeah, yeah. 0:40:55.930 --> 0:40:58.770 And they are so hilarious. 0:40:59.610 --> 0:41:01.370 They're very, very funny. Go and have a look at Luke. 0:41:01.390 --> 0:41:04.250 All right. Well, he's on. He's going to judge you. Oh, God. 0:41:04.270 --> 0:41:07.359 I am– I mean, I'm going to be on my 0:41:07.500 --> 0:41:10.640 best behavior ever. This is what Big B had. 0:41:10.540 --> 0:41:11.479 Me in training for. 0:41:11.640 --> 0:41:13.239 Did you go to finishing school? 0:41:13.280 --> 0:41:13.759 Finishing school. 0:41:13.780 --> 0:41:13.950 Did you? 0:41:13.960 --> 0:41:18.100 Absolutely not. But my dad, my table manners are so good. 0:41:18.260 --> 0:41:20.859 He trained me so that I could have dinner with 0:41:20.880 --> 0:41:21.400 the queen. 0:41:21.640 --> 0:41:21.960 All right. 0:41:21.980 --> 0:41:23.899 Well, let's see. With William Hanson tomorrow. 0:41:23.920 --> 0:41:24.580 Bring it, William. 0:41:24.600 --> 0:41:29.010 Our listeners reached out for our help. Their relationship, very divided. 0:41:29.570 --> 0:41:31.290 Something to do with the dude's job. 0:41:32.730 --> 0:41:37.160 Male gigolo. I don't know. It's a bit of an issue. 0:41:37.280 --> 0:41:39.440 Your chance to win a brand new car, thousands of 0:41:39.480 --> 0:41:41.340 bucks with our pop quiz. And Gordie's coming up. 0:41:41.360 --> 0:41:45.050 Your chance to go to the iHeartRadio Music Festival in Vegas. 0:41:45.390 --> 0:41:47.800 Have a good day. Go home and fix your toaster, Amy. 0:41:47.860 --> 0:41:48.320 Very important. 0:41:48.340 --> 0:41:48.680 Yes, I will. 0:41:48.920 --> 0:41:50.580 Yeah, moving back into its old place. 0:41:50.780 --> 0:41:51.880 We'll see you tomorrow here. 0:41:51.900 --> 0:41:52.859 See you in the morning. 0:41:53.000 --> 0:41:53.140 6am. 0:41:53.219 --> 0:41:53.569 Bye-bye. 0:41:53.590 --> 0:41:53.780 Bye.