WEBVTT - ASK UNCUT - Get it out of your system 0:00:00.880 --> 0:00:05.280 Life Uncut podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:09.120 Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. We 0:00:09.160 --> 0:00:11.920 pay our respect to their elders past and present and 0:00:12.039 --> 0:00:15.280 extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Island 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:16.120 peoples today. 0:00:16.320 --> 0:00:19.599 This episode is recorded on Gadigal Land of the Aurora Nation. 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:41.880 Hey guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:45.680 on cart I'm Brittany and I'm Keisha or producer Keisha. 0:00:45.840 --> 0:00:49.360 We have produce Akeuisha stepping in today because well, if 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:51.240 you listen to Tuesday's episode, you'll know that it was 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:52.159 Laura's birthday. 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:56.160 So we let her have a sneaky day off. We said, 0:00:56.160 --> 0:00:57.680 you know what, you can go away. She's gone to 0:00:57.680 --> 0:01:00.600 Byron Bay. We let her have one day. That was 0:01:00.600 --> 0:01:02.880 my birthday present at her. So producer Keisha steping in, 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:03.560 so produce Kechha. 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:05.200 Welcome to a Life onun Cut. Thank you. 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:07.160 Do you think it's quite funny that our gift to 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:10.120 her is a break from us you can have Well, no. 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:12.039 I think it's a great gift. She spends more time 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:13.960 with us, so she spends with our fiance. 0:01:15.000 --> 0:01:17.200 Well, actually have a funny story about the whole producer 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:19.800 Keisha thing for you. So I'm originally from Newcastle and 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:23.920 I've got three girlfriends coming to visit Sydney on Friday night. Anyway, 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:26.160 last week I was at, of course, if you've got 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:27.920 friends coming to Bondi, where do. 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:29.440 You take them? 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:29.920 Toddies? 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:32.880 Exactly right yesterday. 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:36.679 So for anyone not from Sydney, Totti's is like it's 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:39.880 kind of them. It's the go to place if you 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:42.000 have people come and visit. It's like good, nice Italian food, 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:42.800 but it's a bit of a scene. 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:45.360 It's a nice aesthetic and it's a it's a great 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:46.880 restaurant that has great bread. 0:01:47.160 --> 0:01:47.440 Yes. 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:49.400 So basically I was like, oh, look, all book is 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:52.160 in somewhere for dinner, and I just so happened to 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:55.520 be going on a little date at Toddy's. So when 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:57.080 I got there, I was like, oh, I'm just going 0:01:57.120 --> 0:01:59.600 to try and book in dinner for next week as well. 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:02.360 Like why I'm here anyway, the girl who served us, 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:03.960 I said, oh, you know, while I'm here, is it 0:02:03.960 --> 0:02:05.440 okay if I try and make this reservation? 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:06.600 Blah blah blah. 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:08.480 She said, oh, what was the name for? 0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:11.520 And I said, it's Fakeisha for four people. She turned 0:02:11.520 --> 0:02:16.880 to me, she said to me, Keisha, is that like producing? 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:19.680 You're like the one and only. 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:22.480 At this moment where I. 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:24.560 Was like you're like, have I been recognized? 0:02:24.560 --> 0:02:27.000 It was more so like will this help me get 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:27.600 a reservation? 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:33.079 I hate the regularly. 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:36.480 I kind of laughed and I was like, yeah, Brittain 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:38.400 Laura's producer, Yeah, ye, yeah, I said. 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:38.839 What was your name? 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:40.680 Anyway, shout out to you, Sarah, Thank you babe. 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:42.120 I'll be seeing you tomorrow. 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:43.240 I hope she gave you. 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:45.560 A very good at table, but no, thank you for 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:48.359 stepping on in today. And look, there's so much we 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:51.000 could talk about. If you guys, unless you have stayed 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:53.440 completely off the internet and haven't spoken to one person, 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:57.239 you would have heard about what went down with Will 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:59.639 Smith and Chris Rock, who in my head I keep 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:02.079 saying Rock, which it's not the Rock, it's Chris Rob. 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:05.000 But the shit that went down at the Oscars, which 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:06.959 is going to be memorable for the rest of our life. 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:09.560 It is so controversial, it is all anyone's talking about. 0:03:09.800 --> 0:03:12.880 There are offence sitters, there's pro Will, there's pro Chris. 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:15.960 That's like it is one big hot mess. 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:18.320 I also think it's one of those situations where I 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:20.680 think more than one thing can be true at once, 0:03:21.200 --> 0:03:23.519 And in my opinion, I just feel like this conversation 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:27.160 has probably happened on every form of media since the 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:29.000 second that it had occurred. So we're not going to 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:31.240 kind of rehash it or go through it all. No, 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:33.320 so we're not getting quite tired of it. Yeah. 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:34.079 I think at the end of the. 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:36.880 Day, no one was in the right here. Everyone was 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:40.160 wrong in every capacity. The joke, the personal joke, probably 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:42.160 shouldn't have been made, and I think there was a 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:44.920 build up there. Should Will Smith have gotten on stage 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:46.800 and assaulted him, absolutely not. 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:49.240 Look, I think you're exactly right, brit I think that 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:51.760 there is fault in both sides of the coin here. 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:53.880 But I also think that we can kind of look 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:56.560 at these situations a little bit more like from a 0:03:56.600 --> 0:03:58.640 distance maybe. And there was one thing that a friend 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:01.080 of mine wrote on Instagram. His name is Matt Purcell, 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:05.440 and he wrote, words create worlds. Words can get you hired, 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:07.880 they can get you fired, they can be used to bully, 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:11.200 they can instigate violence. There are so many ways Will 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:13.560 Smith could have spoken up about the comments Chris Rock made. 0:04:13.600 --> 0:04:15.600 He could have stood up and questioned. He could have 0:04:15.680 --> 0:04:18.320 walked on stage and interrupted with a speech of his own, 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:20.600 even though it was said as a joke. That isn't 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:22.640 always a trump card to say whatever you want and 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:25.320 get away with it. Will lost control and because of 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:27.520 that he has lost the respect of millions of people. 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:30.599 Chris has also lost respect, and some people would say 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:32.720 that it was called for. If you lose control, you 0:04:32.839 --> 0:04:36.440 lose respect. The untrained tongue is the most dangerous weapon 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:37.200 we all have. 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:40.440 Deep well, I like it. I think that it is true. 0:04:40.480 --> 0:04:42.279 I think that it is a reminder to all of 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:45.320 us that we need to take responsibility and accountability for 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:48.400 what we say, and the repercussions of what may come 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:48.840 from that. 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:50.240 Words are powerful. Don't forget it. 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:52.200 But this has been spoken about to death, and I think 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:53.920 any of you want to hear about it. What I 0:04:54.000 --> 0:04:56.280 think you do want to hear about is the one 0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:57.719 hundred and forty thousand. 0:04:57.400 --> 0:04:59.960 Dollars gift bags that everybody at. 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:02.799 The Oscar's got. Because no one's talking about the gift bags. 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:06.320 So look, I had this wild rumor that these bags 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:10.800 were worth more than most people's salary, probably double people's salary. 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:14.159 I could not believe that this is happening. So we 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:16.240 thought this was more worthy of the story than what 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:16.719 went down. 0:05:16.839 --> 0:05:20.120 Keisha tell us through trust Us to find like the 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:22.320 most talked about story in the world, and some side 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:24.560 tangent where we're like, oh, but this is kind of funny. 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:25.840 Let's talk about this ship. 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:26.720 Well, I want to know. 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:28.960 I want to get an invite just to get the 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:30.600 gift bag so I can sell it off and make 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:32.880 a salary. Well, it turns out that not everyone gets 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:34.760 the one hundred and forty thousand dollars gift bag. 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:37.400 It does, so you select you like front row only, 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:38.520 like exclusively. 0:05:39.279 --> 0:05:41.680 If you didn't e the oscars were exclusive enough, it's 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:42.680 just gone up another level. 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:44.159 How do you get What do you have to do 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:46.360 to qualify for one hundred and forty thousand dollar gift bag? 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:48.000 Is it like you have to won an oscar before 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:49.440 or you have to be up and coming. 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:50.160 Or is it a lucky dip? 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:52.440 Okay, So it goes to nominees in the Best Actor 0:05:52.440 --> 0:05:56.120 and Actress, Best Supporting Actor and Actress, and the Best 0:05:56.200 --> 0:05:57.280 Director categories. 0:05:57.640 --> 0:05:59.800 Pretty exposive. Yeah, that's just the higher end. 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:03.159 So Apparently, like every year, it's kind of like the 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:05.080 year before tries to outdo themselves. 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:06.960 Right, So for one hundred and forty thousand dollars, let 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:09.360 me guess they probably just have one vibrator from. 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:13.239 Grewth poultron and a vagina candle and maybe a canon. 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:14.320 That's one hundred and forty thousand. 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:19.200 Okay, so this year the bag contained gold flecked posh pretzels, 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:21.400 which I don't even know what that pretzel a food pretzel? 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:22.720 Gold flecked though, So. 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:25.720 One pretzel that has gold on it? Can you eat gold? 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:28.680 Apparently gold was a heavy metal. Well that all Hollywood 0:06:28.680 --> 0:06:30.680 has just been poisoned. Okay, what else is in the bad? Okay, 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:32.680 so there's quite a few things, so tryingly see as quickly. 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:37.000 A box of products of skin Care limited edition vodka bottles, 0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:40.400 extra virgin olive oil infused with edible. 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:42.320 Gold flakes, Manuca. 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:44.839 Honey, and a skin treatment worth ten grand is a. 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:49.760 Okay, bees were really special. Okay they were from the 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:50.440 Queen Bees. 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:54.880 A three day wellness to retreat and an armed sculpting procedure, 0:06:55.760 --> 0:06:57.320 four night stay. 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:58.960 For two at a luxury resort. 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:01.320 But here is the one thing that has me absolutely 0:07:01.320 --> 0:07:04.640 scratching my head. The people who received this gift bag 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:08.640 got a plot of land in Scotland. Of course they do, okay, 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:11.360 so it says, and I'm quoting this, the present comes 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:14.680 from high Land titles and allows the recipients to contribute 0:07:14.680 --> 0:07:18.640 to the establishment of nature reserves, while also awarding them 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:22.880 the title of laird, lord or lady of Glencoe. 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:27.200 Oh I've spent a lot of time in Glencoe. Actually yeah, 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:29.440 I used to live there. Like it's a lovely place. 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:30.680 That is okay. 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:32.600 So essentially what they've done is the like, look, we're 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:35.000 gonna give you some land so that really, if you want, 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:37.080 you can call yourself a lord. But also you have 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:40.040 to contribute to that to maintain the environment. I mean 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:43.200 Frank's ad of compliments. I would like to be a lady. 0:07:43.240 --> 0:07:45.040 I've been watching a lot of Bridgeton season. 0:07:45.400 --> 0:07:46.760 I mean, I feel like you don't need a title 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:47.440 to act like a lady. 0:07:47.640 --> 0:07:49.640 Sure you could probably have that, but I would like 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:50.040 to have the title. 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:52.520 I remember Scott Dissick, he bought a piece of land 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:54.320 over there just so that he could be called the lord. 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:58.400 These people, honestly, and I say, these people it's crazy that. 0:07:58.480 --> 0:07:59.600 Firstly, no one in. 0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:01.280 Hollywood would pay for two nights accommodation. 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:02.080 Anyway, I love it. 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:04.320 They've been given two nights accommodation. They're never gonna have 0:08:04.320 --> 0:08:07.160 paid for it. Anyone's gonna say come and stay. They're 0:08:07.200 --> 0:08:09.280 not gonna do anything with a piece of land. Like, 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:13.360 what an excessive waste of money. These people should be 0:08:13.400 --> 0:08:16.520 donating all of those goodie bags to charity. However, what 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:18.720 do you get people that have everything? 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:19.600 Nothing? 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:22.720 Like that's a good point. If you do a good bag, 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:26.559 why one of the richest people in the world need more? 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:27.320 Do you reckon? 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:29.080 We should do You know the Lolli bags you get 0:08:29.160 --> 0:08:30.760 when you were a kid, when you go to like 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:32.560 a party and you'd leave with your Lolli bag. That 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:34.560 was the best part of a kid's party, was like 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:36.959 you'd get your Lolli bag and you'd be straight out 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.160 the door and you'd walk out and you'd be like, fuck, yes, 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:41.800 I've got this awesome lolliburg. You'd rip it open in 0:08:41.840 --> 0:08:44.080 the car and your parents would probably hate the people 0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:45.800 who had made the lollly bag. Maybe they should do 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:48.760 that for Hollywood. But there was one very famous person 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:50.880 who was quite rightly pissed. 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:52.360 Off about it. His name is Ricky Gervais. 0:08:52.600 --> 0:08:54.720 Oh yeah, you may know him. You might know him. 0:08:54.880 --> 0:08:57.280 Great comedian has hosted the Oscars a bunch of times. 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.840 He actually responded to some fans to saying that they 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:03.640 wish that he was hosting, and he said this, Hello, 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:06.280 I hope this show helps cheer up the ordinary people 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:09.600 watching at home. If you're unemployed, for example, take some 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:12.000 comfort in the fact that, even if you had a job, 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:14.520 your salary probably wouldn't be as much as the goodie 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:17.400 bag all the actors have just been given. I'm proud 0:09:17.440 --> 0:09:19.880 to announce that this is the most diverse and progressive 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:23.160 Oscars ever. Looking out, I see people from all walks 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:26.320 of life, every demographic under the sun, except for poor 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:30.000 people obviously fuck them. Ho. 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:33.240 No, I mean he's sane and how it is though, 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:33.679 isn't it. 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:35.959 Totally Do you know that when I lived in London 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:38.720 he used to jog past our apartment every day. 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:41.520 It would be the most exciting part. 0:09:41.960 --> 0:09:44.120 Whenever he would he would kind of shuffle because you 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:46.280 can imagine how riggy Gervais, because he's kind of like 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:47.000 a little nugget. 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:47.680 He's a shuffler. 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:47.959 For sure. 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:49.480 He was a shuffler, and he would have a hat 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:51.080 on and Sonny's. He was like trying to be as 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:53.439 much in disguise as possible. He would run to Hampstead 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:56.200 Heath and every time he would be out the front. 0:09:56.559 --> 0:09:58.480 If one person in the apartment there were four of 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:02.160 us saw him, everyone would just like shout and be like. 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:04.559 Recky's out there for us and you are the problem. 0:10:05.240 --> 0:10:06.240 I would run to the window. 0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:08.720 I'd be like, hey, you Recky and he kind of 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:10.839 do the little two things up, like keeping his head down, 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:11.880 still shuffling on. 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:15.000 And you other people that are making his life health. 0:10:15.360 --> 0:10:17.680 I thought he's great. I mean, we encouraged him along 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:18.280 his runs. 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:19.840 And good for him still jogging it. 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:21.800 Well, he would have been like fifty six or something 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:22.520 like that at the time. 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:24.280 I don't think he's that old, is he. 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:26.120 He's sixty now. It was a while ago. 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:28.480 Well, you're also coming hot. You've told you've got a 0:10:28.480 --> 0:10:30.840 recommendation for us today. You're coming with a lot of 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:31.520 segments today. 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:33.360 How can I like it? 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:36.240 You're like, yes, I've come completely prepared for his episode. 0:10:36.760 --> 0:10:37.559 It's almost like. 0:10:37.520 --> 0:10:40.160 I sit in the corner most episodes quietly. 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:42.280 You've been watching a lot of Netflix. I have been. 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:44.800 I've actually been doing a lot of dates home net 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:45.480 Fleix dates. 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:47.880 Sorry what was that? Yes? 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:49.880 Is it maybe too early to be bringing that to 0:10:49.920 --> 0:10:53.240 the podcast? Possibly? Yes, I have been binging as a lot. 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:56.200 I think half the world has season two of Bridgeton. 0:10:56.640 --> 0:10:59.079 Hang on is Bridgitton? You're a recommendation. 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:02.880 It's fine. 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:05.280 I lean into being a basic bitch, and if you 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:07.880 are also into Bridgeston, I've really liked season two. I 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:10.880 do have a little bit more of an obscure recommendation, though, 0:11:11.240 --> 0:11:13.400 Before you mock me for being too much of a 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:14.040 basic bitch. 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:16.000 I found this girl on Instagram the other day. 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:17.280 I don't even know it just like came up in 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:19.480 the algorithm, and I think she's really really bloody cool 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:22.040 and super talented. I could be mispronouncing this, so I 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:25.199 apologize if I am. It's Millicent Sara same so it's 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:28.480 like Millicine Sa double are Anyway, she is, from what 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:31.079 I can gather, kind of a mix between a cabaret 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:33.920 artist and a stand up comedian. I thought she was 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:36.120 bloody great and I really really liked her, So that 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:38.600 was That's my more obscure. Well, she's doing the Adelaide 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:40.280 Fringe Festival. And by the way, I do not know 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:41.960 her from a bar of soap. I just saw her 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:43.800 Instagram video and I was like, wow, you're like really 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:44.880 cool and I like. 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:47.600 Supporting up and coming young females. 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:50.160 You better give everybody her instagram handlekashit because you can't 0:11:50.200 --> 0:11:52.720 just come with a recommendation and not actually recommend a person. 0:11:53.280 --> 0:11:56.280 Okay, her instagram is Millie so am I double L 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:58.959 I C E and T like sent you know, sense 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:01.760 dollars and cents s a double are. 0:12:02.040 --> 0:12:06.640 I've got a pretty random recommendation, actually super super left field. 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:11.840 But I have been watching on Binge Tiger As in 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:16.280 Tiger Wood's documentary. Now, you don't need to be into 0:12:16.320 --> 0:12:19.679 golf to get into this episode. I mean, get it's 0:12:19.679 --> 0:12:21.880 only two It's it's three hours total. There's only two 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:24.040 they're an hour and a half each. Somebody else had 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:26.680 recommended it to me and I just got hooked. It's 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:28.480 just there's a whole other world. 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:30.080 To it, and he's about his golfing career or more 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:33.240 about everything personal life and from when he was two 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:35.400 years old, and I think it's just amazing to see. 0:12:35.480 --> 0:12:37.360 He was a freak man. He was a freak of 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:39.280 nature at what he did at golf. 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:42.040 He nearly had like a fatal car accident last year 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:43.880 and they were wondering whether he would ever walk again. 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:45.320 And does it go into that or is that a 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:45.920 crazy story? 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:48.800 Yeah, it comes everything so left field totally, but. 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:50.600 I mean it's no Bridget in season two. 0:12:51.920 --> 0:12:55.720 Tiger Woods is pretty hot in his day. 0:12:55.920 --> 0:12:58.480 He was apparently a lot of women thoughts so at 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:00.680 there's many hundreds of of women. 0:13:00.760 --> 0:13:03.560 Yes, but that's my recommendation. 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:08.600 And I am waiting very very patiently for Dynasty. Dynasty, 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:12.480 And yeah, I've been waiting very patiently for Dynasty season three. 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:13.440 I think it is to come out. 0:13:13.480 --> 0:13:14.520 I think there's on two seasons. 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:16.800 No, they've done five seasons. Actually, I think there's four seasons. 0:13:16.800 --> 0:13:18.840 I'm waiting for the fifth season. Whatever season we're up to. 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:19.480 I've been waiting. 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:21.320 So I check it like every second day, I'm like, 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:22.959 is it I and then I'll binge watch it in 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:23.680 one day one hundred. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:26.000 I think the streaming services tell me this is a 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:28.079 personal opinion, but I feel as though they go through 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:32.520 periods where like Netflix is just absolutely firing and then 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:35.199 it finishes and you're like, there's nothing new on here, 0:13:35.200 --> 0:13:36.640 and then you move over to Stand and then like 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:38.920 stands firing, and then it's Amazon or like whatever. 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:40.559 It is, and you feel like twenty five services. 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:42.599 Yeah, And I feel as though right now is like 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:45.880 the Netflix era of the year where I'm just like 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:47.439 obsessed with stuff on Netflix. 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:48.920 So I also can't wait for Dynasty. 0:13:48.920 --> 0:13:51.480 But should we get into some questions. 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:55.120 Yes, we should question and number one, I'm actually really 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:58.560 interested to get your opinion on this keiche because I 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:01.000 think it's controversial and I think there'll be a lot 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:03.160 of fence sitters on this one side or the other. 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:05.280 I know how I feel it. 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:08.320 We'll get your opinion, ladies, Please please help. I'm so 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:11.960 embarrassed and I really have nowhere to turn. On Saturday night, 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:13.920 I was out with my fiance and friends and I 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:16.480 kissed a girl. I had a lapse in judgment and 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:19.840 I made a mistake. Now, I have kissed girls before, 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:22.600 but my fiance has always been involved. We have had 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:26.320 conversations about having threesomes in the past. This wasn't a 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:29.160 threesome situation, though. It was just me being caught up 0:14:29.200 --> 0:14:32.720 in the moment, and yeah, I kissed a girl. My 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:35.880 fiance is now not talking to me. He's sleeping in 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:36.960 a separate bedroom. 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:38.400 The only thing. 0:14:38.280 --> 0:14:40.440 He has said to me in the past week is 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:41.600 that he doesn't trust me. 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:43.239 He thinks I'm a liar. 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:46.360 And he doesn't want to get married anymore. 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:47.200 This is huge. 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:49.880 I feel like my world is spinning out of control. 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:52.920 I feel so physically sick, so embarrassed. I don't want 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:55.000 to talk to my friends or family, which is why 0:14:55.000 --> 0:14:57.320 I'm running to you. I know this is a long, 0:14:57.360 --> 0:14:59.600 deep message, but any advice would be great. I am 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:03.480 crying either. Oh, I am so broken for this girl. 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:05.400 See, I'm just gonna say first things first, I'm so 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:08.480 sorry that the one that you came to this episode is. 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:09.360 Me, not Laura. 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:11.280 I feel like Laura would have a lot better advice 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:14.680 on this situation. I mean, at the end of the day, 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:19.560 irrespective of what gender you cheated. So I think that 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:22.240 there's kind of two parts of this conversation because I 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:23.840 think a lot of people would be you remember when 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:25.480 we were in high school. I don't know if this 0:15:25.480 --> 0:15:26.880 happened when you were in high school too, but it 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:28.600 was definitely like a thing that a lot of girls 0:15:28.600 --> 0:15:31.120 would kind of be like, oh, like, let's make out. 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:32.920 Like it would be super hot for the guys, And 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:34.560 it's definitely a thing in high. 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:37.160 And all the boys were like kids totally, So I 0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:38.080 think that never did. 0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:42.240 Kind of carry through to our adult lives where a 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:46.280 lot of people in relationships, in heterosexual relationships, a lot 0:15:46.320 --> 0:15:49.800 of guys wouldn't necessarily consider that to be cheating when 0:15:49.920 --> 0:15:52.480 the reality is is that it is, you know, especially 0:15:52.480 --> 0:15:54.560 if they haven't kind of been a part of the conversation, 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:56.840 or at least by the sounds of it, this guy 0:15:56.920 --> 0:15:59.440 sounds as though it is cheating to him. 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:02.880 What can you do about it? From here? Do I 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:06.560 think this is an irreparable fuck up? Possibly not. 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:09.840 I mean, I think there's a massive difference between being out, 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:11.560 but it sounds like you might have been out on 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:14.800 a night with your friends and there's blackly alcohol involved 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:17.240 and you've kissed someone. I think there is a huge 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:20.720 difference between kind of like an accidental ooh shit, this 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:24.000