WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Chadfishing, parental affairs and a bridesmaid's threesomes 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.800 Life Uncut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose lands 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:06.560 were never seated. We pay our respects to their elders 0:00:06.600 --> 0:00:07.560 past and present. 0:00:07.600 --> 0:00:11.440 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:24.480 recorded on d rug Wallamuta Land. Hi guys, and welcome 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:26.960 back to another episode of Life on Cut. I'm Laura, 0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:30.159 I'm Brittany, and this is ours gun cut. It is 0:00:30.280 --> 0:00:33.440 our Thursday little therapy session. But we answer you're dack, 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:36.120 you dark, you're be any questions, Hi, Brittany. 0:00:36.280 --> 0:00:38.880 Funny is it that we've turned up in the exact 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:39.800 same thing? 0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:41.559 Okay? But not only do we show up in the 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:43.519 exact same thing, It's not like we're wearing like the 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:46.440 black or neutral. We've rocked up looking like we're out 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:49.599 a baby boy birthday reveal, No birthday reveal, birth reveal. Well, 0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:51.959 it's gender revealed. It's powdered blue. 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:55.280 It's like a powder blue baby blue top and the 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:56.160 exact same denim. 0:00:56.160 --> 0:00:58.600 We've got, exact same hair. I think that this just 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:00.520 means we spend too much time together all the things 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:03.600 we could have worn, of all the very minimal colorful 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:05.280 things that we have in both of our wardrobe so 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:06.480 I'm usually very nude. 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:09.520 Yeah you are, Like I'm not, as in naked, always 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:10.759 naked and naked. 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:13.479 She's always here with no clothes on. No, but I'm 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:15.840 very neutral. Yeah, I'm very black. 0:01:15.880 --> 0:01:17.280 And we've turned up in the exact same thing and 0:01:17.319 --> 0:01:19.160 we just did Okay, we just did an amazing interview 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:21.479 with Matthew Hussey. And the first thing as we walked 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:22.840 in like he's been on the list for so long, 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:23.759 it's dropping next week. 0:01:23.800 --> 0:01:25.880 We're very excited. He's an absolute legend. 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:27.800 But Laura and I walked into each other and we're like, 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:29.920 this is so embarrassing, and it looks like we've turned 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:31.600 up for the interview in uniform, Like. 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:33.920 We have a lifelin cut uniform. We've got a pink backdrop, 0:01:33.959 --> 0:01:36.320 we've got a baby blue top. The first thing we 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:37.760 said to him was like, just so you know, like 0:01:37.920 --> 0:01:40.080 this isn't a uniform, which, to be fair, he did 0:01:40.080 --> 0:01:43.160 not care. We did care, but we did were like 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:44.640 this was our big shot. 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:44.840 I know. 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:46.960 Anyway, Yeah, we just spent too much time together and 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:49.440 we're turning into the same person. And soon I am 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:51.160 also going to start laughing like a kooker bar. 0:01:51.560 --> 0:01:54.440 Oh please don't do that. But so funny you say that. 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:56.280 I've been getting a lot of messages lately. I don't 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:57.840 know if it's just that it's the podcast has been 0:01:57.840 --> 0:01:59.720 going for nearly four years, so I don't know if 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:02.440 it's timing thing, But so many people have been writing 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:05.840 to me saying that they have somehow started laughing like me, 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:08.320 like they're good. They've picked up the line I'm here 0:02:08.360 --> 0:02:11.280 for this is good. Spread it around like the seed 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:14.280 it is. You can avoid picking this up. Do it? 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:16.720 Do it? Because there is no antidote. There's no treatment 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:18.040 for this. There's no cream it's going to help you. 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:20.079 There is no treatment, there is no clinic you can 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:21.160 go to to detox. 0:02:21.280 --> 0:02:23.600 This stays with you forever. Can I just say when 0:02:23.600 --> 0:02:26.560 I say your cuook a burro, laugh before anybody slides 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:28.280 into my DMS and tells me how many I am 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:31.760 to you. It's an in joke. It's because somebody once 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:34.080 wrote a review saying that brit sounds like a cooko 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:36.760 bar and now we all giggle about it together. Also, 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:40.160 a coook a barro is a very treasured national animal, 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:42.720 isn't it. It's also I'll tell you a hot tip, 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:44.440 you guys, can have this one for free. It is 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:48.000 the world's biggest kingfisher, is it? That's good? Thank you 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:48.520 for bringing that. 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:48.760 Lad. 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:50.640 You're welcome. I know you come here to have your 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:52.640 questions answered, and let me tell you I know some 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:56.120 stupid fats. Okay, David Ibro, what else have you got? Ma? 0:02:56.360 --> 0:03:00.520 Justic cuok a bar? Do you know? Lies over? What's 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:01.400 the only animal? 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:04.000 Just while we're on animal facts, what's the only animal 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:07.760 with four legs that can't jump? 0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:11.240 No, that's not the fact. A wombat? No, that's not it. 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:12.120 Good. 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:14.000 What's the only animal? Also? 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:14.400 Good? 0:03:14.639 --> 0:03:17.600 No, I've got it. I've got it, bra. What's the 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:22.679 only animal with four knee caps? With four knee cabs? Yeah, 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:23.919 four knee cabs. 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.120 I think it also can't jump. It could be the 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:27.200 same fact I'm thinking. 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:31.240 Yeah, the only animal with four knee caps an elephant? 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:35.360 Damn it? Wow, I really am You know. I was 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:39.400 super into biology as a kid. Like with fourneecaps, jumping 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:42.240 is in about biology? Yeah? Animals is biology? 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:45.360 Brou you learn about an elephants neecaps in biology at school? 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:48.160 I would love to have been a biology at university. Yeah, 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:48.680 that was the thing. 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:51.400 So you learned about elephants at university, and then you 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:53.560 went on to work at the hearing company, okay, and 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:53.960 then I. 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:57.360 Became a jewelry designer and now I talk about fucking 0:03:57.600 --> 0:04:00.400 sex and missionary for a living. Yeah, that is so 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:02.760 only missionary though, I don't talk about the other sex 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:04.520 only She she. 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:06.720 Just had to show us her sex position, favorite sex 0:04:06.720 --> 0:04:08.240 position was, which is the loadus? 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:10.960 Can we? Okay? The reason why Keisha had to show 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:13.040 us her favorite sex position, which was the loadus, is 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:15.680 because we did this interview with Matthew Hussey. It was 0:04:15.680 --> 0:04:17.919 a great interview. We had to do it by riverside, 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:20.680 which is kind of like Zoom but for podcasts. We 0:04:20.720 --> 0:04:23.200 did it on BRIT's computer and I took a photo 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:25.120 of the screen, and it was only after take a 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:27.560 photo of Matthew. And it was only after taking a 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:30.200 photo of the screen that I realized not only did 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:33.400 Britt have a tab open, it was bookmarked as like 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:38.880 a saved important website Butterfly sex positions, and that was 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:42.440 like the main bookedmark website that Britt has on her chrome. 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:44.680 Explain yourself, Well, I would. 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:46.200 Just like to know what the problem is, She said, 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:48.400 my sex position, it's not like I'm having much sex. 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:51.480 You're like, I'm going I'm going to see them very shortly. 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:53.360 I need to know exactly how to do this one. 0:04:53.480 --> 0:04:57.920 It was definitely podcast material for sure. 0:04:58.160 --> 0:05:00.120 Live show live show research. 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.560 Would have been live show research. And I to be honest, 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:04.359 I'm not that great with technology. I don't think they 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:06.520 even know how to bookmark something well. And that's why 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:08.240 it's been there since last September. 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:09.200 Because now I don't know how to get written. I 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:11.040 think you just exit out. But Ben will love that. 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:13.600 Ben'll love that. He thinks I'm here researching sex positions? 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:15.599 Can you can you tell us how the butterfly sex 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:18.000 position goes after you try it with Ben? Well, no, 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:21.000 I'm not doing it. I no, you only right. You 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:23.000 only have one hundred and eighty degree movement from one 0:05:23.080 --> 0:05:27.000 side to the back to the other. My range of motion, 0:05:27.320 --> 0:05:29.440 my range of movement is limited. That's what happens in 0:05:29.480 --> 0:05:31.320 old age guys. Okay, I will let you know how 0:05:31.360 --> 0:05:34.000 the butterfly sex position goes. Thank you film it, send 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:36.920 it only fans. Okay, fine, La, maybe do it? No 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:42.120 sign up now? Well, one thing we didn't talk about 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:45.160 on Tuesday's episode because you know, we kind of got 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:48.120 lost and talked about everything and then you know, it 0:05:48.160 --> 0:05:50.360 was a very deep episode, but also we covered up 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:52.280 a lot of some strange mix of things at the 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:52.880 beginning of it. 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:55.000 I mean, we do do that. We did just get 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:56.560 into elephant territory. 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:58.600 But one thing I wanted to bring up that you 0:05:58.760 --> 0:06:02.200 were working on. If you followed BRIT's Instagram over the weekend, 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:04.919 she was in the Gold Coast or Brisbane, and I 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:06.920 think a lot of people were confused as to why 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:08.960 you were in a wedding dress, crying with a bottle 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:12.960 of wine and marrying Mitch Churi And I feel like 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:15.039 people need to know what happened. 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:17.160 Okay, Yeah, So if you form my Instagram, you'll see 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:19.600 that I was in a wedding dress, drunk, crying straw 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:21.920 on my Instagram on the weekend with Mitch. 0:06:22.200 --> 0:06:24.640 It may come as no surprise that Britt did not 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:26.080 marry Mitch. It may come a surprise. 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.840 Mitch and I were filming a TV pilot, a rom com, 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:30.559 but I can't I'll tell you about that in a second. 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:32.440 But so many people I shouldn't say so many. 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:34.799 There were a handful of people that had message saying 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:36.279 I'm so confused. 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:38.000 I thought you had a boyfriend. 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:40.080 I thought Mitch was gay, like people that thought that 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:41.240 we were getting married, and I. 0:06:41.200 --> 0:06:43.200 Was like, how did you miss? How did you actually 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:46.520 think I just got married? Do you think that I'm crying? 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:47.960 This is much of a scar? Like is this an 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:50.560 arranged marriage? They've been forced into? Like I don't want 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:52.479 to marry Mitch, but like all my options are gone 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:55.240 now and here we are just doing it. Like what 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:57.640 about that photo shoot? Did anybody think that it could 0:06:57.720 --> 0:07:01.440 possibly be real? That one person? Yeah, that got confused. 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:03.480 It was the funniest part for sure, but no, so 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:06.200 I mean just quickly, Yeah, we're filming a TV pilot. 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:08.920 It's a I guess it's a. 0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:13.119 Bit Hangovery vibes that vibe but romcom but very modern 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:16.200 day Mitch. A lot of people don't know Mitch is 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:19.000 an actor. Mitch went to acting school in New York, 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:20.320 well before radio. 0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:23.440 He also can sing operatic and see like here the 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:25.000 guy is like a full triple threat. 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:27.760 He's multi talented. Probably can't tap dance, but would give 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:30.600 it a try. I reckon you he probably could, so 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:32.240 he's done that. He did the all through his twenties 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:34.080 and I was just saying before, well before the Bachelor, 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:36.720 well before the podcast, I was at acting school all 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:39.560 around the world, over in Scotland, Nia, here in Australia. 0:07:39.680 --> 0:07:42.240 Screen Wise, we both did a lot, but we just 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:44.720 fell into different industries. We never really did anything with it, 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:48.000 but we always had this passion for wanting to entertain 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:51.200 and there's something amazing about being on a set and 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:52.160 being someone different. 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:53.920 And I don't know if that was escaped. 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:56.440 Yes, I don't know if that was like a trauma reaction, 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:58.440 like I'm trying to run away from my life. 0:07:58.640 --> 0:07:59.080 It's true. 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:02.040 I enrolled acting Score off the back of my horrid 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:04.840 breakup with the sociopath, and it really was. Someone had 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:07.520 suggested it, someone had said, give it a go, it's 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:09.800 an outlet, and it was and I absolutely fell in 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:12.280 love with it. So then Mitch and I met a 0:08:12.280 --> 0:08:14.320 couple of years ago, obviously, and we just get along 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:15.680 like a house on fire. He's one of the funniest 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:18.520 people I've ever met, and we've yeah, we've gotten to 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:21.560 a position where we're creating something that we were having 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:23.800 a lot of fun doing. We think it's great, We're 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:25.960 having an amazing time and we have high hopes it's 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:28.280 a pilot. So the idea of a pilot is, you know, 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:31.440 there's pilot season in different countries around the world where 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:34.640 people literally take these ideas and they pitch it. Every 0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:37.120 show you've ever seen, Friends, the bigges shows in the world, 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:38.079 they all have a pilot. 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:39.959 Yeah, I mean it's Chantene do it. They do pilot 0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:42.080 Week in Australia or the free to air networks do it. 0:08:42.120 --> 0:08:46.080 So like you create all like different production companies create 0:08:46.160 --> 0:08:48.120 a pilot and then they will air that pilot on 0:08:48.160 --> 0:08:50.160 pilot Week and a couple of them get picked up. 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:51.920 Yeah, and so Mitch and I we have so much 0:08:51.960 --> 0:08:53.800 chemistry and we love each other and we have a 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:55.480 lot of fun in real life, so we felt like 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:57.840 it was perfect to take that onto the screen and 0:08:57.880 --> 0:09:00.600 see if we can recreate it. So fingers we can 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:03.280 recreate it, and thing as cross it ends up somewhere. 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:06.200 I am super excited to see it. I cannot wait. 0:09:06.480 --> 0:09:08.720 I can't wait to get you know, a premiere screening 0:09:08.760 --> 0:09:12.600 of the first episode. No, we have been talking about 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:14.360 this pilot for literally a year and a half. So 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:16.400 if you withhold this from me, I'll be so mad, 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:18.960 you know, what's funny? And I used toel like this 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:19.600 with the podcast. 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:21.160 I don't know if you were ever like this, But 0:09:21.200 --> 0:09:24.400 when I do something, I don't actually want anyone I 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:25.160 know to see it. 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:26.080 Are you like that? 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:28.400 So when I acted in the past or at the 0:09:28.400 --> 0:09:30.520 start of the podcast, I didn't want anyone I know 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:32.480 to listen or anyone I know to watch it. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:35.320 But I want other people to. It's so weird. I 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:38.200 will never watch myself and be like, great, I can't 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:39.240 wait to show people. Never. 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:42.199 I will never, ever, ever, ever ever do that. In fact, 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:45.000 i'd probably make it to Hold. Probably if I made 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:45.960 it to Hollywood day, I. 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:48.000 Will probably make it. Do you know what? I'm making 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:49.880 it to Hollywood? Want anyone to watch my movies? 0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:51.720 What I was going to say is no, because I've 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:53.360 heard a lot of people in Hollywood, a lot of 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:55.600 actors will say they won't watch their own movie. I 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:57.960 reckon I would be that person. Even if I was 0:09:57.960 --> 0:09:59.240 the biggest actor in the world. 0:09:59.240 --> 0:10:01.360 I don't think i'd ever watch it. I hate looking 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:04.560 at myself on screen. It's so weird. I hate listening 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:06.600 to myself. Dude, do you ever listen to our podcast? 0:10:06.679 --> 0:10:06.800 Back? 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:08.679 I wish you did, of course I listened to the 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:09.360 episodes back. 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:11.840 Sometimes this sounds like a weit first, but sometimes like 0:10:11.880 --> 0:10:13.560 I'll hear us and I'll laugh like it's not even us. 0:10:13.600 --> 0:10:16.280 I'll be like, these chicks are whack, That's what I'll think, 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:17.679 and I'm like, oh, hang on, now that was me. 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:20.280 Like I would definitely not be friends with them. But 0:10:20.720 --> 0:10:22.600 moving right along, there's something I did want to talk 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:23.160 about today. 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:26.839 This is a new word that I discovered, a dating terminology, 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:29.400 not a sex position. Not well, I don't even want 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:32.479 to put it in dating terminology because it's it's gross. 0:10:32.120 --> 0:10:34.120 But it is. I mean, it is a new dating 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:36.880 terminology and it's something to be very wary of. Yeah, 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:38.200 look it's the term. I've read it. 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:40.040 It's come up online, it's come up on read, it's 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:42.240 come up on the news. It's not a good thing. 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:45.720 It's called chad fishing. Chad is in my first ever 0:10:45.800 --> 0:10:48.160 person I kissed when I was eleven, his name was 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:50.760 chad fishing, as in the sport you do when you 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:51.760 catch fish, chad fishing. 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:54.840 Chad fishing not to be confused with catfishing. No similar 0:10:54.920 --> 0:10:58.200 as a starting point, but very different. I know that 0:10:58.320 --> 0:11:01.280 you well it's not actually that differ and it's catfishing. 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:03.320 On steroids, that's what it is. It is similar to 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:06.440 cat fishing, but it involves men from the in cell 0:11:06.679 --> 0:11:08.880 I n CEO. Now, I actually didn't know what that 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:11.600 was either, involuntary celibate. 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:14.520 So now these are like people who it's kind of 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:16.319 like they like they would like to be having sex, 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:20.120 but no one's having sex with them, so they're whatever because, 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:24.520 like I guess, ultimately they are not as desirable, these 0:11:24.600 --> 0:11:27.320 kind of in cell groups that exist. It's like generally 0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:30.040 men that have come together who are very very misogynistic, 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:32.240 who hate on women because they feel like women have 0:11:32.280 --> 0:11:35.080 withheld sex from them. Yeah, and it's like this angry 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:39.920 little peatrie dish of the most toxic masculinity that's ever existed. 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:40.839 And they're called in cels. 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:43.720 Yeah, and maybe they're involuntarily celibate too because of the 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:46.000 way they treat people. Maybe it's their personality, it could 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:48.040 be their looks, it could be a whole lot of things. 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:49.960 But they are not getting the sex they want. But 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:52.959 instead of them internalizing that and being like, Okay, well 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:55.240 what am I bringing to the table and how am 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:58.640 I not being? You know, necessarily somebody that a woman 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:00.720 would or a person wouldn't want to have sex with. 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:03.560 They internalize that as like, well, there's nothing wrong with me, 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:06.240 and women are fucked and they will only date hot 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:07.880 men and they only want to have sex with good 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:12.400 looking guys, and it's kind of creates this incredibly toxic 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:16.440 environment where they're not self reflective, they're blaming women, and 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:18.439 that's where the misogyny aspect of this comes in. 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:22.960 Yeah, So these in cell communities, because they are communities online, 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:25.800 they set up fake online dating profiles and they pose 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:30.280 as a chad. Now a chad is a conventionally attractive male, 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:34.800 very cliche sexy friend my experience, No, but they look 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:37.640 like a model, they look beautiful, very mainstream people, and 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:40.320 they set up these fake profiles off these chads in 0:12:40.440 --> 0:12:41.640 order to pray on women. 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:44.120 That is it in a nutshell. But when we say 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:46.240 prey on women, I guess, like the thing that makes 0:12:46.240 --> 0:12:49.960 this different from catfishing and makes chad fishing more insidious, 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:52.600 I guess, not necessarily more insidious, but like it takes 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:55.400 it into the physical world is that these people the 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:58.079 whole purpose that they've intentionally set this up is because 0:12:58.160 --> 0:13:01.240 they will organize dates. They will create and set a time, 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:05.000 set a place, and the female who's being led on 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:07.160 will rock up to this date and time. And it's 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:12.319 like these chadfishers get off on setting up dates and 0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:15.600 then intentionally standing up a woman who they see as 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:16.600 being below them. 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:19.840 Well, it's come to light now, It's resurfaced now because 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:23.240 this one Australian guy has written in a forum and 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:27.520 he's basically shared a step by step guide on how 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:31.080 he chadfishes women. So he pretty much is encouraging other 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:34.600 people to do this. He's written about how he did it, 0:13:34.760 --> 0:13:38.400 what he did, He's put screenshots on it's super gross 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:40.760 and then there are so many other gross people commenting 0:13:40.800 --> 0:13:43.000 on it seeing how funny it is. He loves to 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:46.719 share the screenshots of their reactions. He loves to humiliate them. 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:48.720 And he's not alone. And now this is the fucking 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:51.760 cooked thing. There are so many communities with people all 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:54.400 over the world that engage in this. These are some 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:57.120 of the things he wrote. My hobby is chadfishing hawes. 0:13:57.400 --> 0:13:59.520 I arrange dates and stand them up at bars. It's 0:13:59.559 --> 0:14:02.360 fun to deflate their ego and make them waste money 0:14:02.400 --> 0:14:06.000 on ubers. Fuel and parking. And the way he does 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:08.280 it is he explained that he sets up a fake 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:12.000 Tinder account by stealing photos he actually stole. I just 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:13.920 showed Laura bilties. He was quite good looking, look like 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:15.640 a little farmer. But he stole quite a well known 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:20.720 American social media guy, Brett Maverick's account. And the reason 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:23.080 that this is going to the next level is because 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:26.280 if you guys are online dating, you'll know that you 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:28.960 have to verify your photo, which is amazing because I'm 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:30.560 saying this really is this person? 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:33.200 I really am me, I'm not a fake. His profile 0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:36.240 was verified. Yeah, he's gone to the additional lengths of 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:39.240 not only just creating a fake profile, but going through 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:44.440 the processes of tricking basically the AI system into thinking 0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:46.560 that the photo that he's provided is real. I don't 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:48.000 know if you know this, but like, if you need 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:51.760 to verify your profile, Facebook's or instagram sends you kind 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:53.080 of like an action that you need to do, so 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:54.640 you need to send them back a photo with your 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:57.360 arms in a certain position to prove that it's you, 0:14:57.440 --> 0:14:59.280 because you know, if it's not you, how are you 0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:00.840 going to send a picture with your face and your 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:03.000 arms in a certain way. So what he did is 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:06.520 he got the photo of the guy, he then photoshopped 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:08.360 the arms in a certain way, and then took a 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:10.960 photo of the screen so that way that the photo 0:15:10.960 --> 0:15:14.240 that he was submitting for verification didn't have any of 0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:16.680 the metadata that would have been captured if it was 0:15:16.720 --> 0:15:20.280 a photoshopped image. So he really went entirely out of 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:22.760 his way to try and deceive not only the women, 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:26.400 but also deceive Facebook and Instagram to get his profile verified. 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:28.520 This is one of the screenshots I want to show you. 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:30.440 Back and forth setting up a date with the girl. 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:33.360 He's posted the girl's photo, she's twenty seven, back and 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:35.960 forth about meeting up for a date. They organized where 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:38.760 they're going, sounds great, see there, And then there's messages 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:40.200 when they're on their way, just so you know, I'm 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:42.880 leaving soon, you know, just to it's like that almost confirmation, 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:44.760 like you've set your date up, you're on the way 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:47.080 to bi like, hey, I'm leaving soon. Hey I'm heading 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:49.880 out to Then some time goes past and she's obviously 0:15:49.920 --> 0:15:51.920 at the bar. How far away are you? I'm here, 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:55.200 where are you? And then he says, oh, I left, 0:15:55.360 --> 0:15:56.760 Like so he makes her wait half an hour and 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:58.880 then he says I left, and she's she's like, huh 0:15:58.960 --> 0:16:01.800 he goesh I met another chain instead, She's like, what, 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:03.360 you're so rude? He it's not my problem. 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:06.280 The purpose of this is to make women feel as 0:16:06.480 --> 0:16:08.120 bad as they possibly could feel. 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:10.040 They make them wait at a restaurant alone, which is 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:13.080 always awkward when that moment where you're like everyone's looking 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:14.080 at me, like I'm on my own? 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:14.920 Are they going to come? 0:16:15.400 --> 0:16:17.240 Then they want to embarrass them and make them feel 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:19.280 ashit as they can, like I've gone home with someone else. 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:22.360 Some of these texts go on to literally the guy 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:24.600 has then gotten a photo of a woman. There's one 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:26.960 that I saw where there is a woman bent over. 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:30.000