1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to fearlessly Failing hot Seat. In this EPP, I 2 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: fire rapid questions at one of our fearlessly failing guests. 3 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 2: PS. I'm gonna be honest with you. 4 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm not so good at the rapid part. I get 5 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: too intrigued by the awesome answers. Now a new EPP 6 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: is going to drop every Wednesday, so enjoy this shorter 7 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: style episode of fearlessly Failing hot Seat. Welcome back to 8 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: the hot Seat. Matt Sofo aka my BF aka the 9 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:46,200 Speaker 1: Boss aka brand new MacBook Pro owner, your current boyfriend. Yeah, 10 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: that's how we did love that TikTok friend. Yes, I 11 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: just realized they're doing jack hammering outside. It might come through. No, 12 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: that's fine, okay, So we thought the pods turned six 13 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: years old. Actually is it in Australia? Today is the 14 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: actual birthday of the pot which are happy birth Happy birthday. 15 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: So I thought I'd just ask six questions. You can 16 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: answer them, then I can answer them. 17 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:05,680 Speaker 3: How is it? 18 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 2: Okay? 19 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 1: Perfectay? So four minutes done. Go question One biggest lesson 20 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: of this pod. 21 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 3: It is far more work than you ever think to 22 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 3: make a podcast. 23 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 1: I tell most people that I coach. It's a full 24 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: time job. 25 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it is so much work, like all in all, 26 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 3: from booking guests to research to editing to post to promoting. 27 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 3: Its a twenty step process. Yeah that's yeah. 28 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 2: What about you? 29 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: I would say it's like something like lessons from guests. 30 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: I learn, like there's a lot of people that have 31 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: kind of like shared their failure and their success, and 32 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: they you know, talk a lot about like going after 33 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: their dream and doing it for the passion, not for 34 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: the money, all that kind of stuff. 35 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 2: Yep. 36 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: Like I think each guest gives me a different lesson. 37 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: Like the one that sticks in my mind from recently 38 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 1: is Candace Fox. I was like, what's your superpower? And 39 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: she's like, I'm brave. She's like, I can do the 40 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: scary thing. I just walked straight into it she knows. 41 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: And I was like, excuse me, I think I would 42 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: like that trait too. 43 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're brave. 44 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:15,839 Speaker 1: I overthink though, But I did a lot of work 45 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: with my therapist yesterday around that. 46 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 2: Yes, very good. 47 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: We're evoking shark energy now, Oh we like that. He's like, 48 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 1: Shark's a cool Lola. They're not bad. He's like, they're cool. 49 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 50 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: Anyway, favorite episode and it can just be what I know. 51 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: There's literally this is episode seven hundred and forty nine, 52 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: so there's so many to pick from, but just one 53 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: that sticks out to you. 54 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 2: You can't put me on the spot like that boss. 55 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: Just a fave guest or a fave one where you're like, actually, 56 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: like when I listened back to that, that really made 57 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 1: me happy. 58 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. I So like we mentioned Candice a lot. 59 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 3: I like Candae a lot one or two, probably the 60 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 3: second one because you're more familiar with each other. 61 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 2: And but the first one. 62 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: She had such brilliant stories about like Ted Bundy and 63 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 1: about like going to San Quentin prison admitting that crazy 64 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: the Toolbox kick Killer. 65 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 3: And I like David Glaspie because I really liked his 66 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 3: book Detaming Toxic People. 67 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's also got no filter and he's very dry, 68 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 1: Like I remembered I said to him. I quoted him 69 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: in one of my books years ago, and I was like, 70 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 1: can I because he also writes about no sugar And 71 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: I was like, can I quote you in the book 72 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: And he goes, yeah, as long as you referenced me properly. 73 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, no props. 74 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: Like he's very cool. 75 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 3: You always know what you said lawyer though, isn't he. 76 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you just know where you stand. And I 77 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: remember we were touring one day and someone because we 78 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: used tour together talking about health and wellness books all 79 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: over Australia with other health and wellness authors, and I 80 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,839 Speaker 1: remember a different author said to me, I'd just gone 81 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: through a breakup. I was thirty. Yeah, And she's like, 82 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: why did you break up with that person? And I 83 00:03:57,760 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: was like, oh wow, our values were miss aligned. Yeah, 84 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: And David was on one side. I mean, this author 85 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: was on the other side of me. And she looked 86 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 1: at me and she goes, you learn to lower your standards. 87 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fun. 88 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: And then she walked away and he goes, please don't 89 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: listen to her. 90 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 2: You're fine. 91 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, and look at you. You did do fine. 92 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 1: Ended that was someone with nice value system. 93 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, I know you're talking about that person's nuts. Okay, yeah, 94 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 2: we won't. We won't. We won't divulge that mean, yes, 95 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 2: ok next question you didn't ask me, Oh yeah, your 96 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:27,600 Speaker 2: favorite app? 97 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 3: And yeah I was. I could have told you that 98 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 3: it was like. 99 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: An episode that like if I think about it now, 100 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: like and the after of the episode, like it makes 101 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: me get it. You knows and tear up because he 102 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: was just so warm and giving and he was like, 103 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: you've got a spark, this pot is special, like keep going, 104 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, yeah, yeah, I 105 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: really really loved having him. Okay, go next question. It's 106 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,239 Speaker 1: a hot seat boss. Yeah, but it's only six questions. 107 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: You've already one two of them, booth, have we six 108 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 1: questions six years? 109 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 2: Okay? Even moment of the pode. 110 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 3: Hmmm, I not specific moment, but I would say just 111 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 3: in general, I think it's cool that we get to 112 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 3: like go in the studio and record in the studio, 113 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 3: or I think I might have mentioned it on the 114 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 3: other one, Like the long form is like we've been 115 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 3: to like cool people's houses, and you know, I got 116 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 3: to experience a little bit of their life and see 117 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 3: a little bit behind the scenes. 118 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 2: So I think that's a cool, cool moment. I love that. 119 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, Like I think I said about collect Dinninggan's house, 120 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 3: like Barrel, we went to Jewels Sebastian's place, like they 121 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 3: have a beautiful hat, Like it was. 122 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 1: Kind of come to this moment, Damon Harryman. I went 123 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: to his place. 124 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, cool he was. 125 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: And the guest is so relaxed in their own place. 126 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 127 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:53,239 Speaker 3: So I think it's cooled about like those favorite moments 128 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 3: that I've come along for. 129 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you feel like the pod is becoming all 130 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: pods are becoming more visual now though, Like, yeah, that 131 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: is kind of like part of it. 132 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also think that that's going to get 133 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 3: stale really quickly. 134 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 2: Oh you reckon, it's so audio first. 135 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel though that just like the same studio interviews, 136 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 3: same studio background, like every week, I think for me 137 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 3: would get boring. 138 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 1: Well, I love the idea. We're so spoilt here in LA, 139 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: like there are so many pod studios here. 140 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 2: I like that you're kind of hopping around. Yeah, yeah, 141 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 2: I agree. I don't know if that's like cheeky of me. 142 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 3: I think I think the only way that that format 143 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 3: has longevity and really interesting for a long time is 144 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 3: people that incorporate other things into like the podcast interview, 145 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 3: like your hot wings, like you know what I mean, 146 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 3: Like they're literally like eating and that British first Yeah, 147 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 3: and Amelia coming real last name but yeah, so but yes, 148 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 3: very very visual. But I think that the future needs 149 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 3: to you know, get more exciting. 150 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 2: Okay, that's fair. Yeah, in visuals. That's very fair. 151 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just booked a podcast last night, and she 152 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 1: really wants to do visual because she's a photographer and 153 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: we can actually talk about some of her prints. Yeah, 154 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: and like famous shots and I'm like, oh, of course 155 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: we've got to film that one. Yeah, yeah, of course, 156 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 1: so interesting. I would say one of my favorite moments. 157 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: You're not quite good boss at asking the question back 158 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: to me. 159 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 3: Okay, I hadn't finished speaking, but yeah, I was just ranting, 160 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 3: but I'm done. What's your favorite? I'm done, I'm done 161 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 3: at the end. That's so fa. 162 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: Also, he's gorgeous. He's sitting here in his little pink 163 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: boxer shorts. 164 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:39,119 Speaker 2: Actually your shorts, to be honest. 165 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 3: Common the FedEx guy just saw me in my. 166 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: Pink literally pink Valentine's special boxer shorts that say love 167 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 1: all over them and have hearts all over them. 168 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Go what's your favorite moment? 169 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: I think it's still going to be an Owen teal 170 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: so I'd never met him before. It's also like, so 171 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: for those wondering who he is, he's off Game of Thrones. 172 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 2: He is Lord Commander for the war or for the Watch. 173 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: Say when he stabs John SMI yeah, great voice, Welsh accent, 174 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: like beautiful voice. So I'd never met him, but basically 175 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: we were living in Byron Bay, like or it was 176 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: like a time when we're back. I was back in 177 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: Byron and I got invited. He was a lead in 178 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 1: a theater production of a Christmas Carol in Melbourne and 179 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: I got invited to the press day, like the premiere night, 180 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: and they were like, can you please come to the 181 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: premiere You need to get yourself here. Yeah, And I 182 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 1: was like, only if I could interview until on the 183 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: pod and they were like, haha, not gonna happen. He's 184 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: already fulfilled all of his media requirements. And I learned 185 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: that from being maxed with Anthony when he died death 186 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 1: of a salesman. They only have to do a certain 187 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: amount of media and then they're done that they doesn't 188 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: add on and so I was kind of prepared for that, 189 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,719 Speaker 1: and I said, no problem, thank you so much for 190 00:08:57,760 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: getting back to me. I'm not going to fly down 191 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: my self down and put myself up just to go 192 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: to a Christmas carrier a premiere. I mean, I love Christmas, 193 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: so it's kind of like right up my Alley and 194 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,439 Speaker 1: it's such a fun play as well, like, oh, it's 195 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: so good anyway, they wrote back about forty eight hours later, 196 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: and then like we've spoken to Owen he has said, yeah, 197 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: he's going to do it. So I flew down. My 198 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: dad and I both love Christmas and mince pies and 199 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 1: all those things. My mom loves Christmas to Actually we're 200 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 1: quite a Christmas y family. And I took Dad to 201 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 1: the premiere. We did the full red carpet together, and Dad, 202 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: being like a Melbourneite, there were so many My old 203 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 1: agent in Sydney used to call these malebrities, but there 204 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 1: were so many Melbourne celebrities there and like football players, athletes, 205 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 1: and Dad's like, oh that is a Woods from or 206 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 1: like whoever that is so and so from AFL, Like 207 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: he just knew all AFL football players. 208 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 2: So funny. 209 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: Anyway, So we go to the play, have the best 210 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 1: time I'm ever, so incredible, great seats, so fun, do 211 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: a red carpet together, there's snow flying on the red 212 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: carpet and we have just the time of our lives, 213 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 1: just a father daughter date day kind of yeah. The 214 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: next day I meet so they the publicists didn't confirm 215 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 1: the interview time and place until the morning of the interview, 216 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 1: so it was quite scared, Like I was like, oh 217 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: my god, I've flown down and is it not going 218 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: to happen? So it's quite scary the lay up and 219 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 1: then ten am they confirmed it and I think I 220 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,679 Speaker 1: had to be there by like one or two and 221 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 1: I had to rock up to he was staying in 222 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: these like apartments and I had to like service departments, 223 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: and I had to record it with him in the 224 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 1: restaurant part, and he was amazing. He walked in and 225 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:50,079 Speaker 1: he was like, someone needs to cut the ac it's 226 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: going to affect her sound. He had his publicists with him. 227 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: You need to be really quiet if you're going to 228 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 1: be on your laptop like he was. He protected me anyway, 229 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 1: So that was probably one of my favorite experiences where 230 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: and obviously he told the funniest klonoscopy story as well, 231 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:07,959 Speaker 1: Like it's one of the fact, my favorite moments of 232 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: the whole. 233 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 2: People go back and listen. Next question, it's unreal. 234 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:20,199 Speaker 1: Okay, hot tip for podcasts, there tip, I know mine. 235 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 1: Hot tip, that's a hard one. I think. 236 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 3: Reach out to people, ask questions, do a lot of research, 237 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 3: but also be prepared to do ninety nine percent of 238 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 3: it yourself. 239 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 1: Like charter is essentially yeah, can I give mine? I 240 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: would say, don't get complacent and over prepare because if 241 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 1: somebody throws you a curly on the spot, which can 242 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: happen for sure, if you've done so much research, there's 243 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,680 Speaker 1: a good chance you're pretty ready for it. And even 244 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: if or not, it means you're going to be able 245 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: to navigate the back to where you need it to go. 246 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 2: And so. 247 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 1: Rarely I don't think I'm sure it's happened, But rarely 248 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 1: has a guest said something that I wasn't prepared for, 249 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 1: or like told a story I was like, is that? 250 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 1: Usually I'll ask it. I'll be like, oh, can you 251 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 1: explain that to me? Because I know if I don't 252 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:21,839 Speaker 1: know what they're saying, the listeners won't. 253 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 254 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 3: I think, do your research, have all that shit in 255 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 3: the back of your brain, and then let it go 256 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 3: and then know that it's there, like if you actually 257 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 3: need to access it. 258 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: It's like acting when I want do all the prep, 259 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 1: prep and then just stay present and in the moment, 260 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: what would you say has been a hurdle? 261 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 3: I mean, to be honest, heaps of them, you know, 262 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 3: like getting that many guests over that many years. 263 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:53,079 Speaker 2: Like that's a hurdle you always. 264 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 3: Need to overcome, you know, not and not a bad one, 265 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,719 Speaker 3: but it's something that needs to be navigated all the time. 266 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: Your constant, your own producer. 267 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 268 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 1: So even last night, I had dinner with a friend 269 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 1: and I was like booking yeah pod guests in my head. 270 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, with said friend. 271 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: And then right after this, I'm running to be an 272 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 1: actress for a coffee. I'm essentially doing a pre interview 273 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:19,439 Speaker 1: for Yeah and seeing if she's a good fit for 274 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 1: the pod. 275 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 276 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 3: Other hurdles, Yeah, to be honest, like, there is a 277 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,839 Speaker 3: lot of back end involved, So you've got to get 278 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 3: real comfortable with with learning a lot of tech and 279 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 3: back end and all that kind of stuff. Like you 280 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 3: can't just expect that's what you do. Yeah, I know, 281 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:43,359 Speaker 3: but like I literally learned how to do every step 282 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 3: for you, very very like. But I'm also like, I 283 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 3: don't know, I like doing that stuff, so I like 284 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 3: learning how to do something. Yeah. So yeah, like get 285 00:13:56,559 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 3: comfortable learning like audio editing and video editing and making 286 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:01,959 Speaker 3: your own audio. 287 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: Do outsourced video editing now just for those files like the. 288 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 2: Big LA interviews. 289 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, totally because I can't do it on capcut 290 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: because I was doing a lot of the video. 291 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah for the small like those other ones, 292 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 3: they're also like filmed on like four K or whatever. 293 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, you know. 294 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: Anyway, final question, Ye, you've done six So this is 295 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: the sixth question. One bit of advice, which is similar 296 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: to hot tips. 297 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 2: So you can one bit of advice. It just fucking start. 298 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 1: Really, I would say, have three six epps in the 299 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: can before. 300 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 3: You no, Like, yes, that obviously that's a more specific thing. 301 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 3: But I think a lot of people are like, oh, 302 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 3: you know, I'll start a podcast when I'm when I'm 303 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 3: not so busy. I'll start a podcast when I'm a 304 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 3: little bit happier. I'll start a podcast when I'm a 305 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 3: little bit more financial stable. Fucking start it now. If 306 00:14:57,400 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 3: you can't afford the gear, start doing your research on 307 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 3: guests that you want, start talking to people, start doing 308 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 3: all the things that don't cost money yet. But if 309 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 3: you never start, you'll never do it, or if you 310 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 3: wait for the right moment to start, you would never 311 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 3: go do it. 312 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 2: I love that, end the story. Oh I love that. Yes, you. 313 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 1: Make sure your audio quality is really good, absolutely, Yeah, 314 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: because we were sticklers with that when Zoom came around. Yeah, 315 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: and the ones that don't that were recorded just like 316 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 1: randomly with the little Apple headphones into their lap shot. 317 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 318 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: I don't go back and listen to those episodes, not 319 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: because I don't like the episode and the chat. It's 320 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 1: just harder for me to listen to. Yeah, make the 321 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: audio sound really, really good, and most pod managers will. 322 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 1: That'll be one of the first things I'll tell you 323 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 1: if you take a meeting with them. 324 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 2: Keep it good quality. 325 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 1: Don't get complacent, stay connected to your audience so you 326 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: know what your audience wants. Yeah, Like someone wrote to 327 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 1: me just yesterday going congrats on six years old. Her 328 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 1: name's Clem Love the Little Soul, and she goes your 329 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 1: LA Diaries have been like got me through, you know, 330 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 1: Like that felt really good to it, So I was like, great, Well, 331 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: the LA Diaries, I'm going to go anywhere with it, 332 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, I just think, connect 333 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 1: with the audience, know what they want. And remember you're 334 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: not just creating it for you, You're creating it for 335 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 1: other people too, So always come backing it. 336 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 2: For your audience. It's not a self indulgent thing. You're 337 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 2: doing it. It feels good to create. 338 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: I will be honest, but for me, it's like, how 339 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 1: can I help people? How can I empower them. 340 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 2: To follow you. It's meant to feel good for you 341 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 2: to do it. 342 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 3: It's meant to feel amazing, incredible, all those things, but 343 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 3: you are doing it in service of the listener. 344 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 2: Agreed you know. 345 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, love you Booth. That was perfect, Love you. Thank 346 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: you for doing that in your Jimmys. 347 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 2: Can I have breakfast now? 348 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 3: Yeah? 349 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 2: Thank you. Love you By