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Speaker 1: Well and Whatdy podcast Many but the imperfect boys are

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Speaker 1: in here today, Hugh, Josh and Ryan Shelton, and in

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Speaker 1: here as the compliment for a brand new Sigma.

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Speaker 2: When things are down, you'll need and frown.

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Speaker 3: Or a kind word.

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Speaker 2: We'll turn you around.

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Speaker 4: It's so compliment, isn't It can't be on commercial airway.

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Speaker 2: It's been too long. That's the issue, all right, So

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Speaker 2: what we're gonna do.

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Speaker 1: Let's get down to it, because you guys have got

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Speaker 1: this brand new thing we're doing every couple of weeks

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Speaker 1: here and Willing, where we're going to be delivering a

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Speaker 1: compliment to somebody. And the idea is that firstly you

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Speaker 1: say the lovely thing about them, and then you justify

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Speaker 1: it with how that makes you feel. That's right, Josh.

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Speaker 1: So you did that with me last week and it

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Speaker 1: was beautiful. Yeah, felt good for you, felt good for me.

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Speaker 1: And we're going to try and do this every fortnight

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Speaker 1: to show everybody just how powerful compliments can be, not

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Speaker 1: just for the person that's receiving them, but also for

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Speaker 1: the person that's giving them. Right, Okay, why are you?

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Speaker 5: I know, I just I'm excited because I'm excited because

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Speaker 5: I know I'm not giving the compliment, so that increases

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Speaker 5: my chances of receiving I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: That's why I was smirking. I'm excited.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So it will change every week, and we might not

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Speaker 1: keep it within these walls. We might choose to compliment

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Speaker 1: somebody outside here as well. And again it's this idea

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Speaker 1: of both practicing gratitude and also releasing oxytocin. We're talking

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Speaker 1: about reciprocal oxytocin as well, Hugh. So even just you

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Speaker 1: guys listening to this, it should make you feel better

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Speaker 1: about yourselves, which is amazing.

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Speaker 6: And then the end goal would be amazing. If people

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Speaker 6: listening at home or in their cars thought I know

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Speaker 6: someone who I need to compliment. That's kind of the

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Speaker 6: hole we've gone to model it because it's the more

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Speaker 6: people do it, the better this world will be.

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Speaker 7: And going from the thought to actually doing it. So

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Speaker 7: you said before, we all think it, but we just don't.

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Speaker 2: Go and do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we'll speaking about doing it. Yeah, time

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Speaker 1: to deliver your compliment.

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Speaker 2: Wow, everyone gets nervous.

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Speaker 4: That's along.

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Speaker 7: Ye, So I am incredibly nervous, and I like, I

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Speaker 7: feel really anxious and I and just breaking that down.

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Speaker 7: I think it's because and I've thought about this a lot,

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Speaker 7: because I knew I was doing this compiment for a

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Speaker 7: few days, and I think it's because I'm fearing the rejection.

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Speaker 7: And I think that's the reason why, Like I'm someone

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Speaker 7: who probably does think of a compliment and then pulls

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Speaker 7: out of it because I think, deep down, I'm worried

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Speaker 7: that when you're reciprocated.

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Speaker 8: It's very vulnerable to you putting yourself out there totally.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so I will go into my compiment and sorry

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Speaker 7: Van Kylenberg boys, I bloody.

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Speaker 8: Love you, but Ryan, for someone you love more, this

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Speaker 8: compliment is for you.

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Speaker 7: So to start off, I think you are like absolutely brilliant.

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Speaker 2: I think you are hilarious.

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Speaker 7: When you started bringing out those comedy sketches on rian

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Speaker 7: dot com on the eleventh of every month, I would

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Speaker 7: genuinely look forward to the sketch that you were.

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Speaker 2: Going to do.

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Speaker 7: But that's not my compliment per se.

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Speaker 8: It's more specific than that.

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Speaker 2: And that's because.

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Speaker 7: In this industry, I feel like you get a lot

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Speaker 7: of pressure to be someone else or be something else,

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Speaker 7: and everything you do, everything I see you do, is

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Speaker 7: so Ryan Shelton, and that must have been really difficult,

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Speaker 7: you know, when you're in commercial radio or any sort

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Speaker 7: of TV stuff. I'm sure you had a lot of

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Speaker 7: pressure to waiver from who you truly were. But now

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Speaker 7: when I hear you on the podcast, I see those sketches,

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Speaker 7: it's just so you. So I wanted to compliment you

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Speaker 7: on having the bravery to stay true to who exactly

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Speaker 7: you are. And that makes me feel like I can

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Speaker 7: be exactly who I am and that'll be enough in

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Speaker 7: what I'm doing.

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Speaker 2: Thank you mate. Wow, that is beautiful.

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Speaker 6: It's a beauty.

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Speaker 2: That's a beauty. Thank you mate. That's so lovely. I yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's that? Really?

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Speaker 5: Does that hit? That hits home? Because yeah, it is.

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Speaker 5: It is tricky too. It takes a while, I think,

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Speaker 5: to find for anyone to find their voice, and it

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Speaker 5: did take a long time for me to not only

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Speaker 5: find a voice that felt real, but but yeah, so

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Speaker 5: then also figure out a way to actually do it

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Speaker 5: is quite tricky. But then also as soon as you

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Speaker 5: start doing that and you kind of veer away from

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Speaker 5: the accepted way of doing things, it feels like a

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Speaker 5: risky move because you're in doing that. Maybe maybe this

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Speaker 5: isn't true. But in doing that, it's it kind of

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Speaker 5: feels like you're saying to the world, I don't care

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Speaker 5: how you do it.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to try it my own way. And it

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Speaker 2: feels like.

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Speaker 8: A high allege to fall from.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, I'll stop around this. Just thank you so much, Fordie.

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Speaker 8: That is I hope someone's recording this because that.

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Speaker 2: Was really lovely. Complain it to yourself before. Thank you mate.

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Speaker 5: I'm not supposed to make jokes, but sincerely, sincerely beautiful, thank.

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Speaker 8: You so much, and genuinely mean that as well.

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Speaker 3: I hope by some boys really lovely, really really lovely.

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Speaker 2: How does that feel like?

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Speaker 1: Just the relief, guys, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Thank you guys.

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Speaker 1: If everybody else, if that inspires you to go and

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Speaker 1: get a comment to somebody that you love, maybe someone

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Speaker 1: you don't, maybe you don't even know them that well

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Speaker 1: chance formula relationship, that's a great opportunity to do that.

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Speaker 1: Thanks coming in, guys, I'm perfect.

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Speaker 3: We podcasts hear more of the boys on the Full

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