WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Shower Sitting & Scratchie Drama 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:05.200 The Pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn. 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:09.200 Radio work, Our windows done, my. 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:13.680 World, reason the dust only good, babs all down. I 0:00:13.880 --> 0:00:18.200 don't much, but yeah I'm not ill and what I 0:00:18.360 --> 0:00:20.040 want It don't matter where. 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:21.800 This is the pickup. 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:24.239 Hi, guys, it's the pick up with Britt Hockley and 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:24.880 Laura Burn. 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:26.640 What's got your giggling over there? 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:29.240 Oh? God, don't even the conversation we just said about 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:31.639 if there was an apocalypse and what would we do, well. 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:34.720 We just discovered that Grace, our producer, would be absolutely 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:36.279 useless in an apocalypse. 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:39.000 She said she'd rather lay down and give up than fight, which. 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:41.840 I founds interesting because if there's an apocalypse, I'm gonna fight. 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:44.000 It's funny that you say you find that interesting, But 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:48.040 I like no offense, Grace. But I I consider that 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:49.920 you would probably do exactly that I should. 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:51.680 I do think that I can see it happened. I 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:54.520 just think if the situation was so dire, like I don't, I. 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:56.240 Just don't have it in me to keep fighting. 0:00:56.800 --> 0:01:00.200 I'm tired, I'm done. Do you want me go? 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:03.040 Would you even try, like fight one zombie or would 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:03.760 you just be like no? 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:04.680 What it's too much. 0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:07.440 I would maybe try for a brief period to go 0:01:07.520 --> 0:01:10.960 live in the woods away from it, but the second 0:01:11.040 --> 0:01:12.959 it got really hard, i'd be like, you. 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:13.959 Know what, I'm actually out. 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:16.000 Would you fight, Laura? Yeah? 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:19.400 Like not, Well, I'm pretty poorly skilled after having kids, 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:20.080 Like I used to be. 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:23.880 Really fit, because now you're running your we literally I used. 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:26.039 To be really fit, and I think I could do 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:29.720 quite well in a post world apocalypse, but now, after 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:32.280 having two kids, not enough sleep, I've lost all skills. 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:34.560 I reckon i'd be really good. 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:35.360 You would be. 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:38.479 I reckon. You gave me some nun chucks and some stuff. 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:40.800 I reckon I be borderline ninja. 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:42.039 Do you know what I used to say? 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:44.640 So this is a this is a very rogue tangent. 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:48.000 But I studied basket making at university. 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:53.240 Okay, so I don't want Laura on my team. If 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:54.800 there's a zombie, you. 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:57.440 Might need a basket, and I could make one so great. 0:01:57.320 --> 0:02:00.640 To put my weapons in my nunchucks, Laura, I made 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:03.760 this basket, Brittany, to put on the zombies heads. 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:05.080 What's the basket gonna do? 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:06.880 I think a basket would come in for handy. What 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:08.639 if you're fishing you need to forage and. 0:02:08.600 --> 0:02:12.080 Collect the fighting for your life. You can't fish? Do 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:13.840 you still need food? Do you know how hard it 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:15.720 is to fish? Yeah? 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:17.799 Anyway, Look, we've got a big show for you, guys. 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:18.320 Make me a. 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:19.919 Fishing rod, not a basket. 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:22.320 You know you might not listen to us for life lessons, 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:25.160 but coming up there is an Australian a woman who's 0:02:25.240 --> 0:02:27.520 just turned one hundred years old, and she has some 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:29.920 very important life lessons to impart on all of us. 0:02:29.919 --> 0:02:31.919 They're very sweet and we're gonna be talking about a day. 0:02:31.960 --> 0:02:33.200 Happy birthday, Katie. 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:33.600 Well. 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:35.560 Also the song for the pick me up. 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:37.920 Song to get you moving in case you haven't already 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:39.079 moving with our zombie. 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:42.080 Chat, it's cut and move Give it Up? Do you 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:45.120 know this song? Do I know this song? Baby? Give 0:02:45.200 --> 0:02:45.600 it up? 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:48.440 Give it up, Baby give it up? 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:52.320 Well, yous does in the zombie poo. 0:02:53.520 --> 0:02:56.880 Now we have such a feel good story for you today. 0:02:57.200 --> 0:02:57.720 There is a woman. 0:02:57.760 --> 0:03:00.560 Her name is Betty Woodhams and she has just recently 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:02.600 turned one hundred years old. 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:07.639 She actually looks incredible. She doesn't she undy's giving sixty 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:12.440 five dracon I don knows great. 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:15.880 She's definitely been punching some vitamin, that's for sure. 0:03:15.960 --> 0:03:18.240 She always wears a hat, she said, So I really 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:18.480 love this. 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:20.560 I read this article like just the other day, and 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:23.079 I thought it was very sweet, because often you get 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:25.560 some real batty advice from people who have made it 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:28.720 to the old century. But I think Betty's advice around 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:30.400 how to live life and how to lean into like 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:32.960 the really great moments of life is something that we 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:34.920 can all take a bit of advice from. One of 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:37.560 the quotes that she had to say was her happiness 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:40.680 in life over the last century has been about great friends, 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:44.440 a balanced diet, no regrets, and always wearing a hat. 0:03:44.640 --> 0:03:47.000 She says, try to stay happy even when things may 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:49.080 seem like they are getting the better of you. There 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:51.960 really is something good in everything. Relaxing with a glass 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:54.280 of wine at dinner or enjoying the odd champagne with 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:55.960 a friend or two always. 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:56.240 Helps as well. 0:03:56.480 --> 0:04:00.880 Sounds like she's really lived alive. Like she's just saying friends, wine, chocolate. 0:04:00.920 --> 0:04:03.280 That sounds brilliant. But she always, she said, she has 0:04:03.320 --> 0:04:05.840 like really good food too. So she said, I eat 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:09.080 everything more chocolate than I should. I drink full cream 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:12.520 milk as well, and wine with dinner every single night. 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:15.160 Go off, Betty, Betty, go off. I have not had 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:16.840 full cream milk. Do you know this is my problem? 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:18.640 I'm gonna diet fifty. I've not had full cream milk 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:20.799 my entire life. I've never drunk milk. 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:23.080 I don't think full cream milk is the elixa to 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:25.120 whether you make it to a hundred or not bred 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:28.440 because you gastro So I'm gonna say no calcium for 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:29.200 strong bones. 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:30.720 That's really important for aging. 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:33.240 The reason why I liked this is because I think 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:36.560 often we get so caught up in stuff as where 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:38.279 like in our thirties or our forties or our fifties, 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:40.440 and the things that you worry about are not the 0:04:40.480 --> 0:04:42.800 things that matter when you make it to ripe old age, 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:44.719 if you're lucky enough to make it to that age. 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:47.520 And like her talking about how she's enjoyed all different 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:49.800 kinds of food, how she's been able to enjoy her 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:52.359 life without it being about the certain way that she 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:55.839 looked or how she presented to other people. You know, 0:04:55.880 --> 0:04:57.480 when you're in your thirties, you look back on your 0:04:57.480 --> 0:04:59.480 twenties and you go, God, I wish I appreciated how 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:01.400 hot I was in my twenties, and when you're in 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:04.919 your forties, you no, But if she's true, because like, 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:07.440 have you seen me in my twenty When you're young, 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:09.880 you can never appreciate like how lucky you are to 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:12.159 be the version of yourself that you are then, And 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:14.280 it's only with the beauty of hindsight that you go, 0:05:14.440 --> 0:05:16.440 oh wow, Like you know, I wish I had the 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:18.560 ability to appreciate those years more. 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:21.279 Yeah, I remember some advice that I heard from somewhere. 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:23.040 I think of someone famous. I don't think anyone told 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:24.680 it to me. It's like, if you're not going to 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:26.920 care about it or remember it, or it's not going 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:29.080 to be an issue in five years, don't let it 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:31.279 be an issue now. And I think that that is 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:33.880 really rings true when you think of the things that 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:36.799 get you down, like sometimes think of how much getting 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:38.719 stuck in traffic in the morning or road rage. 0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:40.040 You think of how much I can throw you off 0:05:40.040 --> 0:05:40.640 for your whole day. 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:43.440 It's such a stupid little thing when you think about it. 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:44.839 Are you going to think about it next week or 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:47.760 in five years? No, but we do let ourselves dwell 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:48.080 on it. 0:05:48.160 --> 0:05:50.080 But also imagine getting to one hundred years old. And 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:52.160 being able to confidently say that you don't have any 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:54.080 regrets about how you live life, Like what a joy 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:57.279 that is. I had a really interesting conversation recently with 0:05:57.480 --> 0:05:59.799 Dave Hughes who so many of you will know Hughesy. 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:01.360 It was just an I'm a celebrity, get me out 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:04.440 of here, and when I was over there in Africa, 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:06.279 we were on a bus trip on the way back 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:08.839 from shooting one day and he said, like, one of 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:11.800 the best things about him doing comedy is that it's 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:15.560 given him this incredible sense to be able to really 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:17.880 appreciate when life doesn't go to plan and when life 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:20.480 is actually a little bit shit, because great things can 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:22.560 still come from it, like whether it's funny content or 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:25.479 turning it into a skit. There's always moments from every 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:28.159 single thing that you experience in life that you can 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:30.920 look at from a positive way, even if it is 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:33.279 totally not what you had planned for your life, and 0:06:33.320 --> 0:06:36.960 even if it's not in any way a good experience, 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:39.360 but there's often this little silver slither lining in there 0:06:39.400 --> 0:06:39.760 as well. 0:06:39.880 --> 0:06:41.840 You know what else I love or other quote, I love, 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:43.120 oh God, eat, pray. 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:46.080 Love, No, You're just on the edge of my tongue. 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:49.200 Oh we're we're all waiting or you threw me hang 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:51.120 on one's risk it for the biscuit. But that's not 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:54.159 what I was thinking. No, Oh, I've got it. 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:58.159 Great life isn't a dress rehearsal. It's the show. This 0:06:58.360 --> 0:06:58.800 is the show. 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:01.320 Now, there's no dress rehearsal. There's no second chance. It's like, 0:07:01.360 --> 0:07:02.120 you got to live your life. 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:04.280 But before we wrap this up, I do want to 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:06.920 say the best part about this for me is when 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:09.640 you think, like, how would I spend my hundredth birthday, 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:11.960 she went and did her favorite thing to do in 0:07:11.960 --> 0:07:14.320 the world, which is go plant shopping at Bunnings. And 0:07:14.360 --> 0:07:16.840 I just think that that is the most wholesome, beautiful thing, 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:18.240 And so I think that's what you would do if 0:07:18.240 --> 0:07:19.640 you're a hundred lo I do it now. 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:21.280 Yeah, I mean, I'll do that for my fortieth. 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:25.920 It's coming up next year. So last week, if you. 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:30.120 Listened, we were discussing Benny Blanco, who is Selena Gomez's fiance. 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:33.960 We were discussing his like weird Valentine's Day gift that 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.720 he gave Selena where he filled a bathtub. 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:38.640 Of cheese cheese. 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:41.400 But what's it called like that really fake American. 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:43.840 No, it's Questo cheese. 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:45.880 He filled a bathtub with Queso cheese and then he 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:47.560 like led her to it with Dorito's. 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:48.920 It was really weird thing. 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:52.000 Well, this week he's back in the media for something 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:55.000 a little bit different. Still involves the bathroom, but he's 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:58.400 talking about his shower habits, or maybe even lack thereof. 0:07:58.520 --> 0:07:59.120 Have a listen. 0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:01.960 Okay, I might not get to shower every day, but 0:08:02.000 --> 0:08:04.480 when I do, when I feel like I deserve it, 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:07.960 I'm in there for so long contemplating life. I sit 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:10.200 down in every shower I go into. Have you ever 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:12.720 cried in the shower? It's incredible? Do you cry in 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:15.560 the shower? Sometimes you just have to have a good cry. 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:17.000 He sounds bit manic, doesn't it. 0:08:18.760 --> 0:08:21.360 Okay, I was against the cheese bathtub. But what I 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:24.880 will say is I do relate to Benny Blanco in this. 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:27.040 There's nothing I lot more in my life. My fiancee 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:30.400 Ben knows is than a shower. I will shower multiple 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:32.680 times a day. I know this isn't great. If there's 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:34.760 water restrictions, I'll stick to them, but I have long 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:35.520 shower life. 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:37.000 She's just saying, for a disclaimer. 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:39.839 And I have a water tank, a rain tank that's 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:41.720 also a lie that's heated. 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:42.959 By my solar panels. 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:45.880 And I will sit down in the shower and it's 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:48.440 my favorite time to think. I sit on the ground 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:50.240 and I let the water run over me, and sometimes 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:52.360 I just press my head against the shower wall. If 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:54.480 you walked in on me, you think that something was dire. 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:56.240 Yeah, but I don't need to walk in on you. 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:59.360 I know that you need therapy. That's different, okay, don't 0:08:59.800 --> 0:09:01.720 it's my time where it's something. 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:04.640 About feeling safe four walls around you. 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:07.559 Maybe it's something like being back in the womb because 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:10.920 it's like hot, warm way and you're in a like 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:12.400 the fetal position crying. 0:09:12.520 --> 0:09:13.400 Maybe it's similar. 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:17.160 Firstly, i'm surprised that we're talking about Benny Blanco twice 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:17.800 in two weeks. 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:19.240 That was a real wildcard for me. 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:22.000 Secondly, I don't get it. I would never see. 0:09:22.040 --> 0:09:23.680 You don't get it because you don't shower. 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:26.480 I do show you don't. I shower more than heater. 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:30.240 You shower your feet in the bathroom sink. That is 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:32.880 the truth. But I also shower at least once a day. 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:35.880 There's no way I'm going for twenty four hours without 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:38.160 a shower. Like I shower every single day. I'm a 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:38.959 morning shower. 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:41.800 Love to get up have a shower at like five am, 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:44.400 six am. I just sometimes I'm so tired in the 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:45.960 evening that I can't be bothered to shower, so. 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:47.199 I just wash the essentials. 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:49.880 It doesn't check out if you're only showering once a day. 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:51.960 It should be nighttime so you can go to your 0:09:51.960 --> 0:09:54.679 bed clean. I know, I feel like you're doing it backwards. 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:57.160 You're going to bed with poop particles on you, You're 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:59.720 going to bed with dirt germs, and you're putting them 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:00.640 in your clean bear. 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:02.600 Yeah, it upsets my husband quite a bit. He's like, 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:03.760 just go and have a shower. But I'm like, it's 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:04.280 eleven o'clock. 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:05.520 At nine, I'm so tired. 0:10:05.800 --> 0:10:09.000 It's also weird to me that he made the point 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:11.800 of saying, like, I don't get to shower every day, 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:12.679 but when I do, what. 0:10:12.640 --> 0:10:14.280 Are you doing? No, he said, when I deserve it. 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:16.719 You don't have to earn a shower pal. Everyone can 0:10:16.760 --> 0:10:17.000 have one. 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:19.480 You've got enough money, you've married to see you, you're 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:20.400 all billionaire. 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:22.320 You deserve a shower more than anybody. 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:22.960 Go and have one. 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:25.240 You also just coverage yourself in fond cheese last week. 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:26.800 Please go and have a shower. 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:27.880 The match cheese. 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:32.240 What do you think constitutes deserving a shower like earning 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:33.520 a shower? What do you think he has to do 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:37.680 that day, like heavy lifting, some sort of manual work. 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:39.000 Or do you think he has to achieve something in 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:39.400 his life? 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:42.440 No, I think he's look by the sounds of things. 0:10:42.559 --> 0:10:45.080 Showering is a very emotional process for this man, and 0:10:45.120 --> 0:10:47.600 so he probably needs to have I don't know, gone 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:49.640 through something, But I don't think that that's how we 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:52.040 need to face a shower. I do not have enough 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:55.200 time in my morning or in my day to sit 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:59.360 down on the floor of my shower cry and contemplate life. 0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:02.120 I have two kids that are sitting there at the window, 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:05.600 going Mummy, I didn't wein my nappy last night. That's 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:07.800 literally the conversation that happened this morning whilst I was 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:08.600 trying to have a shower. 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:10.800 No, you can stand and cry. We understand. You don't 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:11.600 have time to sit and cry. 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:12.120 We got it. 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:17.720 There's always time, britt. I have a question for you. 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:21.240 If you were gifted a scratchy and you won a 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:23.200 lot of money off the back of it. Do you 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:25.680 think that there is an expectation to share the winnings 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:28.679 of that scratchy or the lotto with the person who gave. 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:29.200 You the tickets. 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:33.200 Oh, I've thought about this many times? Actually, how many times? 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:35.080 If you want to scratchy? No more than like seven by. 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:38.240 No, I just dream about the day. But I think 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:40.360 it depends on two things. Who gave it to you 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:43.319 and how much was one? Do you think so? 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:47.320 If I give you a lottery ticket Laura for a birthday, 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:52.240 you win forty million dollars and you don't give me 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:56.160 something that I'm pierced off. But if you win ten 0:11:56.240 --> 0:11:58.720 thousand dollars, I'd just be stoked for you and wouldn't 0:11:58.720 --> 0:11:59.080 want anything. 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:00.800 I'd be like cool, because it's that's a big amount. 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:02.400 But it's not going to go buy you a house. 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:03.120 It's not life. 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:03.480 Yeah. 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:05.800 But if you're winning like a millions of bucks and 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:08.440 you were that selfish that you don't give me anything back, 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:10.880 then I'd be I'd probably cancel the radio show. 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:12.840 Okay, Well, look I wouldn't care because I'd have forty 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:13.640 million dollars. 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:14.240 So I'd be pretty hot. 0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:15.480 I'd be pretty happy about it. 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:17.120 Well, look, the reason why this has come up is 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:19.160 because there is a family who has been ripped apart 0:12:19.240 --> 0:12:22.720 over a scratchy. Basically, what happened is at Christmas time, 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:25.560 this twenty two year old guy who was hosting Christmas 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:27.600 at his house, they had bad Santa, you know where 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:29.120 you do like the Santa Christmas. 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:29.839 Swap my secret Santa. 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:30.960 Yeah, it's Secret Santa. 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:33.040 But basically you can kind of swap it around, and 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:36.199 you can steal other people's gifts as well, and it's 0:12:36.280 --> 0:12:38.560 usually like a bad center is like a terrible gift 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:40.800 that you get given. Now, the eighty five year old 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:44.080 grandmother had given these two scratches and they were like 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:44.760 super cheap. 0:12:45.840 --> 0:12:46.280 What were they? 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:49.520 Ten dollars scratches. Now he won forty thousand dollars off 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:51.520 the back of it, and he did decent. Yeah, it's 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:53.120 a lot of money. Forty thousand dollars of a ten 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:53.840 dollars scratchy. 0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:55.959 You are literally winning. You're up. 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:57.920 So he didn't tell his family straight away because he 0:12:57.960 --> 0:13:00.800 was worried that his family would have an verse reaction 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:03.520 to it or expect something from it. You know, Eventually, 0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:05.600 came out that he'd won this money, and he decided 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:08.040 to give each person who was at the Christmas party 0:13:08.280 --> 0:13:10.319 two hundred and fifty dollars, which still worked out to 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:12.400 be quite a sum once you took everyone to account. 0:13:12.960 --> 0:13:16.520 This has ripped apart his family, with them calling him selfish, 0:13:16.600 --> 0:13:19.600 them calling him cruel, and saying that he is, you know, 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:22.319 not doing the right thing by not sharing this money equally. 0:13:22.840 --> 0:13:24.520 And I don't agree. 0:13:24.600 --> 0:13:26.720 I think if you win something off the back of 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:29.320 a present that you've been given, there shouldn't be an 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:32.400 expectation that you evenly share it with everyone who was there. 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:36.439 Okay, this is different because firstly, I do think he's 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:38.319 a bit selfish if he's not given his eighty two 0:13:38.400 --> 0:13:41.199 year old grandma who bought him eighty two. She's not 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:43.200 like she might not even be able to have a 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:46.880 retirement fund. Who knows, anyway, That's my first thought. The 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:50.360 other thing in this particular situation that changes things is 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:53.160 if the idea of this bad Santa. It's not just 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:55.800 a Chris Kringle, right, It's like you get a gift. 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:57.600 And that's it, that's your gift. But this one is 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:59.160 like you can steal people's gifts. 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:02.520 So if I I had the forty thousand dollars and 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:05.880 then someone took it from me, then I would be like, bro, 0:14:06.080 --> 0:14:06.800 you've got to get know. 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:10.560 In my mind, scratchies are like a lazy present, right, 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:12.839 and ninety nine point nine percent of scratchies result in 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:16.720 absolutely nothing. But in the instance that it results in something, 0:14:17.040 --> 0:14:18.880 then that should be the person who got given it 0:14:18.880 --> 0:14:21.800 as a gift, like that is their thing because all 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:23.880 odds are against them that they're going to get anything. 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:26.880 So it's like such a joy and an unexpected thing 0:14:26.880 --> 0:14:29.120 that they got something out of that Scratchyet. 0:14:28.680 --> 0:14:31.160 But imagine the poor person there that literally had that 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:33.640 life changing forty thousand dollars in their hand and then 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:35.960 they're about to open it and someone took it from you. 0:14:35.960 --> 0:14:37.720 You'd be so dirty. 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:38.640 And I never know they might have been the ones 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:40.640 who swapped it out themselves. We have a bit of 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:43.800 an urban story legend in our family. So my two 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.640 grandparents growing up, my grandparents on my dad's side and 0:14:46.720 --> 0:14:49.400 my grandparents on my mom's side, had a little bit 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:52.520 of a rift over a winning lottery ticket. So the 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:55.640 story goes both sets of grandparents went in on buying 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:58.440 a lottery ticket together and they chose their numbers, but 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:02.040 my dad's parents held on to the lottery ticket and 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:04.800 so everyone was waiting the lottery calms. It gets drawn 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:09.760 and my mum's parents find out that they have won 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:13.120 the lotto right a ticket has won much Apparently it 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:15.680 was like forty thousand dollars then, which was so long 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:17.520 ago that it would be like winning hundreds of thousands 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.000 of dollars, like it was a lot of money for 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:21.920 them back in the day. But my dad's parents said 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:24.560 that they had bought other lottery tickets in the same draw, 0:15:25.080 --> 0:15:27.960 and my nan had never written the numbers down, So 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:31.040 my nana felt entitled to some of this money and 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:33.920 felt like that they weren't being honest, and it just 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:36.960 completely ripped the two sides of the family and their 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:37.800 friendships apart. 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:39.240 Who do you believe? 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:42.720 I have no idea, And I also like, bless my 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:45.560 mum's mum, you know, rest in peace, but like I 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:47.720 know that she can hold a grudge real bad. 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:49.360