1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:00,520 Speaker 1: Fame. 2 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 2: So whoa me? So? 3 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 1: Whoam no need to feel sad and bloom? Let jonesy 4 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: and a man to find love for you. 5 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 2: I've worked this out, Jam singles. We moved on from 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 2: Marria first sight. It's like a terrarium of relationships that. 7 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 3: Makes no sense to me. 8 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 2: You and I get the little plans to put them 9 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 2: in the terrarium, and then when the plan is flourishing, 10 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 2: we take it out and put it in the garden 11 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 2: and it grows into a giant oak tree. 12 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 3: Well, what we're trying to do, if you don't understand 13 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 3: any of that, is hook people up for sincere. 14 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 2: Relations Now, we don't want to be hooking up, no. 15 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 3: But we're putting people together who are looking for sincere relationships. 16 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 3: Lots of people are opening their hearts saying I've been heartbroken. 17 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 3: I'd really like to meet someone. One of those is Angela. 18 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 3: Who've got with us now? 19 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: Hi Angela, Oho high Amanda, Hi Jones Angela. 20 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 3: We are well a bit of information. We know that 21 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 3: you're fifty nine, you're a mother to an eighteen year old. Yep, 22 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 3: you say you've had one big love before. It wasn't 23 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 3: necessarily your husband. Tell us about this big love. 24 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: Oh okay. So when I did have a big love 25 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 1: in my early thirties, I met a man jogging Omar 26 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:18,199 Speaker 1: and we went out for maybe three and a half years. 27 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: It ended because of his religion. He was from Morocco 28 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 1: and in the end he wanted was so he wanted 29 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: and his family wanted him to marry within his same culture. 30 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:36,679 Speaker 1: So the relationship due to that, and that was the 31 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: only reason. It wasn't through lack of getting on ended. 32 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 3: So well, that's hard, sad religion. 33 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: It was very sad, but it was. It ended in 34 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: I guess I had an understanding because he explained, and 35 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: so there wasn't any There wasn't really any anger because 36 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: he was honest about it. Throughout the relationship. I just 37 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 1: had hope sort of thing. 38 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, you thought you're getting around there. Could have you 39 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 2: converted to I'm presuming Islam here Muslim? Could have you 40 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:09,079 Speaker 2: converted to Islam? Yes? 41 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: And at the time, back then, you know, I was 42 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 1: throwing everything out in the basket, you know, saying yes, 43 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: what about this? I did, But it just I don't know, 44 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: it wasn't meant to be. But you know what, it's 45 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: it's okay because I then you know, moved on, you know, yeah, 46 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: and then you and. 47 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 2: Then you obviously you got an eighteen year old daughter, 48 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 2: so you did have a partner, but I did. 49 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've got an eighteen quarters eighteen year old girl, Sophia, 50 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: so who is out and about herself, like you know, 51 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: going to UNI and busy, And I think that's one 52 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: of the main reasons why seeing her. I guess, you know, 53 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: when they probably started around fifteen, they start losing interest 54 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 1: in it, probably even thirty earlier, in wanting to spend 55 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: time with you, and it's like, Okay, I've got to 56 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: find something. I've got to sort of revert back to 57 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: what I was before I had a child, like independent, 58 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: Like I've joined groups, which is fantastic. I'm trying a 59 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: swimming group. I've joined a kayaking group in the sense 60 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: of like make friends, but also I guess hopefully like 61 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: meet someone eventually. You talk for a lot of people 62 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: at Natural. 63 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 3: You talk for a lot of people around your age, Angela, 64 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 3: which is similar to my age, people who are thinking, well, 65 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 3: the kids have left time, what do I do now? 66 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 3: You're very adventurous. Tell us about when you went on 67 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 3: the TV show First Date. 68 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: I did I did, so I know I'm getting out there, 69 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 1: so getting out there, but nothing really happening. But when 70 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: I applied for first dates and got on and that 71 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 1: was a really interesting experience and met some lovely people 72 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: in the process of it. However, I guess to me, 73 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: it was what I had put out there, what I 74 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: was looking for. It was like poll of opposite. So 75 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 1: that wasn't really oh man, I just I actually went 76 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 1: on the show quite literally to meet with the idea 77 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: of maybe because it was so outrageous that I thought 78 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 1: that I would have been chosen. I actually sort of 79 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: convincing myself in my mind, thinking, you know, this is 80 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: so ridiculous. Maybe that's where we've got to go, Like 81 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: I've got to go to that length. 82 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 3: But it sounds like they did and married at first 83 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 3: sight on you and put you with someone for a 84 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 3: bit of drama rather than sincee pair. 85 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, so don't trust TV, Angela. Radio is your friend 86 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 2: on this one. We went on in it for drama. 87 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 2: I love radio, it's great, and I. 88 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: Love Amanda's old show too. I just want to put 89 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: that out there. I'd sit there every Friday night, you 90 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: asked my daughter, I'd just sit in there watching the 91 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 1: Four If you're going, oh. 92 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 3: I miss it too, Angela, but maybe we can get 93 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 3: you a date on Friday nights instead. 94 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, instead of seeing home and watching TV, you could 95 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 2: you could be out there dating away. 96 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's see what we can do in your life. 97 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 3: Thank you for opening your hearts for us, and you're 98 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 3: in very safe hands. We're going to keep meeting more 99 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 3: of our contestants. I guess we call them the Jam Singles. 100 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 3: And if you'd like to be a Jam single, go 101 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 3: to our website. 102 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:10,799 Speaker 2: Simple Ass