WEBVTT - How to stop caring what others think… spicy chat 🌶 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.440 The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.840 the land which this episode is being recorded. We further 0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:12.120 acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:15.640 and community. We pay our respect to their elders past 0:00:15.720 --> 0:00:19.400 and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 0:00:19.480 --> 0:00:32.640 terrestrid Islander peoples today. Hello and welcome back to the 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:36.400 Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for ordinary 0:00:36.440 --> 0:00:50.720 people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello and welcome 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:53.479 back to the Rising Conker Podcast. It is your host, 0:00:53.520 --> 0:00:57.960 Georgie Stevenson, and today we are talking about how you 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:00.680 can stop caring about what others think. 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:02.760 I love this topic. 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:06.800 I feel like this is a topic that anyone can 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:10.840 find very useful and like resonate with, because you know, 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:13.919 if you're someone who's like constantly stopping yourself from doing 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:17.440 things because of like the fear of judgment from others, 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:19.840 or maybe you just get negative comments and they like 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:23.440 they really ruin your day or like disregulate you. And 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:28.720 I think when you know how to work through, you know, 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:34.839 stuff like this, it's so valuable because, like I truly 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:40.480 believe like energy is directional So if you are, you know, 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:43.640 wanting to go somewhere and you've got this momentum, but 0:01:43.680 --> 0:01:47.160 you're like then looking around and you know, seeing what 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:51.000 everyone else thinks or absorbing what everyone else thinks, you 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:54.160 lose your energy and like that sort of you know, 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:57.520 momentum the way I would kind of describe it of 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:00.400 like you know, when you're running a race, Yeah, like 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:04.520 if you look beside you, that person will start you know, 0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:07.840 beating you, or you will kind of you you might 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:10.560 fall over. So it's like think of if you're running 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:13.160 a race, you have to be so like I'm in 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:15.560 my own lane, I'm doing my own thing, and I'm 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:18.360 winning the race. But when you start to listen to 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:21.280 what other people are saying or let their fears be 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:27.359 your fears, that's when you fall over and lose that 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:30.600 like momentum. So I feel like this episode is going 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:33.680 to be so valuable. You know if you ask someone 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:36.480 who like, you know, lets these things bother you? And 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:38.720 I think it's also knowing the reason why it's going 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:43.360 to resonates because we all do care what people think, 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:46.520 and it's about how you then go and like work 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:46.960 through it. 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:51.240 Yeah. Absolutely, that's like the most important part. And that's 0:02:51.320 --> 0:02:54.480 exactly why I want to preface this. Guys. This episode 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:56.119 was my idea because. 0:02:57.480 --> 0:03:00.840 Tears like it was my own. It's just like me 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:02.840 in the Office. 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:08.960 Of no generally was because obviously, as a public figure, 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:11.240 Georgie does get hate on a different level to the 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:15.000 average person. But you have, like I've seen the way 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:17.320 you work through it almost behind closed doors, and I 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:21.280 think that it's important to share with others because everybody 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:25.320 does get hate, even if it's not so public. People 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:27.480 will say things to you sometimes out of a place 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.760 of love, but it hurts your feelings and it triggers you, 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:32.800 and it's negative and you don't know how to deal 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:34.760 with it. And and I love the way you look 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:36.440 at it, and I've learned a lot from it. So 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:40.840 I think it would be like beneficial for everyone to 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:43.600 be able to learn that. I love that, I appreciate 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:48.320 that I do you anytime, you're welcome, everyone, You're welcome. 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:50.520 For this episode, it was also a lot of fun. 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:54.240 I was. I got very into it, you know, I 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:57.160 got really passionate about it or I just like I said, 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:59.040 I think this is like it's super strong, like if 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:02.440 you can like hold this skill it's like, yeah, it's 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:05.440 so valuable, nothing will ever get to you. Yeah, well 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:07.680 it will, but then you'll work through it and come 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:08.200 out better. 0:04:08.480 --> 0:04:09.240 Yeah yeah. 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:11.800 I also heard this saying just to keep talking about it, 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:15.920 but like new level, new devil of like every time 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:18.800 you go to the next For example, if you thought 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:22.159 you worked through something, but it's triggering you again, it 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:24.320 could be because you've gone to the next level and you've 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:24.640 got to. 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:27.880 Work through it at this level. I love that. So 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:28.440 that's what I mean. 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:30.440 I feel like you'll be working through this stuff like 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:33.000 your whole life. You don't then get to a point 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:36.279 where you just like give no fox ever. It's like, yeah, 0:04:36.440 --> 0:04:38.240 just get to like the next level. You have to 0:04:38.279 --> 0:04:43.559 deal with sounds bleak, but you'll get better at Yes. 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:47.159 But before we get into the show, Oh guys, this 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:50.200 is the last week two enroll in the R and 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:53.599 C Project and this is our one and only live 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:58.440 round this year. So if you're a manifesting Galley or 0:04:58.440 --> 0:05:00.720 maybe you want to be a manifesting GA, you want 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:02.920 to learn all the rules and you want to join 0:05:03.000 --> 0:05:05.680 us live. So when it's live, what happens is we 0:05:05.720 --> 0:05:09.400 have a Facebook group that's where you can answer any questions, 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:12.200 you can chat with everyone. The energy of the Facebook 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:16.520 group is literally my favorite thing. It's it's just like 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:20.479 everyone is just thriving. And also it's really beautiful because 0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:23.200 a lot of people share their insights of like, you know, 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:25.960 a limiting belief they're working through, and they give their 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:28.720 whole like process and insights, and there's so many things 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:30.760 where I'm like, oh my gosh, I resonate with that 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:34.440 so much, and like I'm finding you know, you'll find like, oh, 0:05:34.520 --> 0:05:37.240 that's such like an AHA moment for me. And then 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:39.479 of course we do the live calls as well, and 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:42.080 we've got a couple of exciting things for this live 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:44.880 round just because it is the only one this year, 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:46.720 so we wanted to make it super special. That That's 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:52.880 all I can say t is testine. So I'll put 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:54.760 the link in the show notes so you can check 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:57.560 it out. But yeah, don't wait if you are feeling that, Paul, 0:05:58.000 --> 0:06:00.160 But before you show a tear, how is your week? 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:01.160 It was pretty fun? 0:06:01.320 --> 0:06:04.680 I could we guys A tear stayed out till five 0:06:04.760 --> 0:06:10.800 am on the weekend sober, So I think that's like 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:11.839 the worst part for me. 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:16.600 Broke was like, did you not get annoyed with everyone. 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:18.080 And I was like a little bit at the. 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:22.640 End when everyone was slurring, like stumbling. 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:24.839 Walking back to the car. That was like the worst 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:27.240 part because I was like walking at a normal pace, 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:29.120 but it took everyone else half an hour to walk 0:06:29.200 --> 0:06:33.400 five And I was like, guys, it's been thirty minutes. 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:34.200 Hurry up. 0:06:36.880 --> 0:06:38.680 That's like a solid effortity. 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:41.280 I do it once a year, and when I do it, 0:06:41.320 --> 0:06:44.360 I go the whole night. And then what do you drink? 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:45.039 Like soda? 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:47.720 Nothing? Water? Fuck? 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:49.159 You don't even have like red balls? 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:52.520 No, you need to take some pretty well, that's what 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:54.960 I was thinking. Next time I needed to just I had. 0:06:56.120 --> 0:06:58.400 But then I was like, if someone sees me pouring 0:06:58.480 --> 0:06:59.440 white powder. 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:02.680 Into my dream, question get kicked down, Like think you 0:07:02.800 --> 0:07:03.480 trying to spikes? 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:06.719 And I'm like, no, it's natural free workout. 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:10.280 It's actual natural pree workout. You should try and naked 0:07:10.400 --> 0:07:12.200 up us I work in their building. 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:18.080 That's so good. What about you? How is your week? 0:07:18.920 --> 0:07:20.960 Yes, it's been a lovely week. I had a really 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:24.559 amazing weekend with my girlfriend. We did a audit check 0:07:24.800 --> 0:07:27.920 being loved. We did the do it for your Future 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:32.080 Self course. Actually like it was in like December last year, 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:34.080 and it's when I was we're still prepping the course, 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:36.320 and I kind of used that we can as like 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:39.440 a guinea pig to perfect it. Yeah, and me and 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:43.760 Listener said, like, we need to reflect every month because 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:45.840 it took you know, it can take so long to 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:50.560 do it here for hours. And so another big thing 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:54.480 too is I realized like I had a lot of 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:58.080 the same problems in every single month of last year, 0:07:58.520 --> 0:08:01.000 and I thought, wow, if I had reflected, I probably 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:04.280 would have like dealt with it, dealt with that problem, yeah, 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:06.600 and rather just kept like being in the same pattern. 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:10.200 So we promised each other that we would see each 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:12.280 other at least once a month, which was also good 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:15.160 for you know, our friendship. Yeah, to do an audit 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:17.280 check on our buckets and everything, and they do it 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:19.440 for your future self course and just you know life. 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:21.720 So we did that on the weekend. It was so lovely. 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:22.080 Yeah. 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:25.560 I hadn't seen Cinder since yeah, the sleepover, So that 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:28.200 was really incredible. And I feel like really clear on 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:30.680 my fab intensions. Oh that's good, so clear. I'll tell 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:36.559 you after. And also, guys, I got a tesla who 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:41.800 really exciting you're probably here. I feel like the episode 0:08:41.800 --> 0:08:43.680 where I Tell you isn't even out yet. 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:44.960 No, it's on. 0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:47.240 Friday, okay, yeah yeah, as you guys know, like we 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:50.239 pre record the episodes and then we do the intros 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:55.280 on real time. So yeah, I may have got a 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:58.720 tesla and I'm beautiful. I love it so much. I 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:02.679 really I love like, you know how it's eco conscious 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:05.839 and it's also just bloody cool. It's like a space 0:09:05.840 --> 0:09:07.480 ship and it's so big. 0:09:08.240 --> 0:09:09.360 I can't wait to sit in it. 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:11.160 Yeah, I'll have to let you sit in it. It's 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:15.240 so fun. We'll do the whoopee cushion. So that was 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:16.800 really really exciting. 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:17.679 So love her. 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:20.959 But yeah, that's about it. Should we get into the episode, Let's. 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:31.320 Do it, Okay. 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:30.640 A tear. This episode is like reminding me of what's 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:35.160 that TV show where they read out like the mean tweets. 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:36.559 Jimmy Kimmel or Jimmy Fallon. It's one of them, one 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:41.120 of the Jimmies. We love you Jimmy's guys. 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:43.320 Today, we're going to do something a bit different, and 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:46.680 we're going to read out some hate comments that the 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:50.760 potty or I personally got recently, and we're going to 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:54.360 really unpack them, and we're going to see what's happening 0:09:54.600 --> 0:10:00.080 under this. We've got a lot of limiting beliefs. Yeah, 0:10:00.200 --> 0:10:03.200 is so funny. And then also I want to tell 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:07.960 you guys, because you know, you might be wondering how 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:11.400 I would deal with something like this. And also, even 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:14.320 if it's not on you know, my level of being, 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:17.679 you know, a public figure and having literally random people 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:22.600 hate you for no reason, it might love that for us. 0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:27.760 Do you love that? I say us, Yeah, I haven't 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:34.840 got hate yet. You have a dear you actually have. 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:45.800 Joined the party. No, but like you know, in your 0:10:45.880 --> 0:10:49.840 circumstance of you know, maybe a friend is acting a 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:53.120 certain way, or you do yet a nasty comment from 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:55.560 a family member or something like that. I want to 0:10:55.559 --> 0:10:59.240 explain to you how I kind of unpack things and 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:03.880 not let them affect me, and how when you use 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:08.720 this process anything that anyone says it won't affect you 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:11.160 and you'll be able to really like process it in 0:11:11.240 --> 0:11:12.319 this way where you're like. 0:11:12.440 --> 0:11:14.480 Oh, I'm so excited to learn this. 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:18.400 I get really all right because I used to struggle 0:11:18.440 --> 0:11:21.439 so much. Well, I think it's so just to get 0:11:21.480 --> 0:11:24.960 straight into it. So human nature is if you think 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:28.200 back in the tribe days, you want like if you 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:30.440 weren't in the tribe, you would die, you get eaten 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:34.200 by an animal or something. So it's all about human 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:36.920 that like human psyche in the brain is like being 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:41.000 within the tribe. That's why we're also fucking judgy because 0:11:41.200 --> 0:11:44.480 it's like, oh, I'm better than this person, so I'm 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:47.640 in the tribe or judgment is just a way for 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:53.160 you to understand where you are in like the hierarchy. Interesting, 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:56.760 so this person does this, it means she's bad. I 0:11:56.840 --> 0:12:00.160 don't do that thing, so I'm here, that's what. But 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:02.960 that's all that judgment is. It's a tool that we 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:07.160 use to know where we stand within the tribe, which 0:12:07.280 --> 0:12:10.280 was huge back in the day. Yeah, back in the day, 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:15.600 like you lived through a couple of years ago. 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:18.720 I need to stop. 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:27.960 So it's really like I don't know. And my reaction 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:32.400 when people I don't know, it's not that I find 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:36.200 it funny, but when funny, it is quite funny. When 0:12:36.280 --> 0:12:40.520 I explain to you how it actually all works, you 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:44.920 will also start finding things funny because what you'll start 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:51.080 to realize is what someone says about you actually has 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:53.800 nothing to do with you and all to do with 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:58.920 them and what they're currently like processing and like going through. 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:01.240 If that makes sense, it's very much a lens of 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:04.360 what's happening in their life and nothing to do with you. 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:07.960 Do you think that would apply to people who care 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:08.680 about you? Two? 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:10.800 Yeah, one hundred percent. 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:14.840 Interesting. Yeah, let's go through something. Okay. 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:20.719 So well, yeah, minor kind of like complete randos, so 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:23.640 a bit different, but you'll kind of you'll get the concept. 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:27.640 So let's go through it. So it's great because the 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:30.319 universe musta knew this segment was coming up, and we 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:36.400 got some really great comment here. You said, content is 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:43.120 coming out. Oh okay, let's get this up. Okay. So 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:46.880 the first comment, so I posted a reel that was 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:50.560 the title was, so this was a piece of content 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:54.680 very much for like the for you page. So this 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:59.640 like when I, you know, create content. There's content for 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:03.679 my audience already knows me, there's content for you know, 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:06.520 the wider audience of people who don't know me. Like, 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:10.760 it's very strategic. So this piece of content me and 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:13.960 Ellie spoke about and we decided to use the title 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:16.920 of first day back at work as a creative director 0:14:17.040 --> 0:14:20.920 of an eight figure business. So I am the creative 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:24.960 director of Naked Harvest and RNC and H is an 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:28.400 eight figure business. So that's literally just a title. Yeah, 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:33.040 it's not me, it's just me spin and facts. Anyway, 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:37.120 So there was this comment, let's get into it. So also, 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:41.320 I want to stress that there was so many amazing 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:44.840 positive comments on this being like so incredible, so great 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:46.800 to see the inside of your day, blah blah blah, 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:51.640 like awesome comments like my community really is so on 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:54.840 my level and so like tapped into how I think 0:14:55.160 --> 0:14:57.960 that I like, I want to stress, like I rarely 0:14:58.120 --> 0:15:02.120 get comments like this, and it's just so interesting that 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:03.560 like these couple have come up. 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:05.200 That's what I'm saying in such a short space of 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:07.400 time too, as I'm like, the universe wants us to 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:08.040 do this segment. 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:11.080 Yeah, so of course we're going to turn shit into 0:15:11.120 --> 0:15:15.720 gold and we're going to do this segment. So let 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:19.200 me read it. Okay, here it is. So this girl said, 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:25.840 I follow you as a motivated business woman as I am. However, 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:31.280 to broadcast your eight figure income without having your finger 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:37.120 on the pulse that majority people are struggling really smacks 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:42.040 ignorance and entitlement. I'm all about celebrating one success one 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:45.640 hundred percent, but as an influencer, you definitely need to 0:15:45.680 --> 0:15:49.160 be in touch with your surroundings and current financial cycles. 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:52.520 Just because the Kimks are doing well and want to 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:57.040 boast about it, it doesn't mean the general popper. So 0:15:57.160 --> 0:16:00.520 the first thing, have I don't read this to you, 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:09.480 thank you for comparing me to kimgate because that is 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:10.680 a huge compliment. 0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:14.200 So first of. 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:17.920 All, first of all, this person's like contradicting herselves because 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:22.920 she's like, I love success, I love embracing and celebrating. Yeah, 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:26.080 I love celebrating one's success. I was like, well you don't, 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:31.240 because so I definitely get it because you know, and 0:16:31.240 --> 0:16:34.240 we've spoken about this on this podcast. Yeah about currently 0:16:34.280 --> 0:16:38.920 financially there is a lot changing, so what and like 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:40.360 you know, there was definitely a part of me and 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:45.720 being like have I fucked up here? But then what 0:16:45.760 --> 0:16:48.440 I had to do is think about why did I 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:52.840 create this piece of content? And it was for transparency 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:55.600 because I go through exactly what I did that day 0:16:55.720 --> 0:16:58.400 and it's like, here, this is what I do as 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:01.080 a creative director of an eight thing, a company which 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:05.840 I have completely built from the ground out as someone 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:10.000 who has no background in business and not that that manus. 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:12.760 But I get, I diagres what you mean. 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:18.560 But it's like this piece of content was for that 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:23.600 factor and also it was just that's what I am. 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:26.200 Like that is my title. Like you know on Instagram 0:17:26.240 --> 0:17:29.040 you see blah blah blah, like a marketing manager blah 0:17:29.040 --> 0:17:30.960 blah blah. Like, yeah, that is just my title, and 0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:35.159 it's just fact. Also, let's take in consideration. I'm not 0:17:35.280 --> 0:17:40.000 earning eight figures personally, I wish I was, but unfortunately not, 0:17:40.080 --> 0:17:44.600 like you're not taking to consideration like Naked Harvest literally 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:48.639 has twenty employees, we have a whole fucking warehouse that 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:52.080 we have to run, like we have millions of dollars 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:52.919 in expenses. 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:57.960 You're also not boasting about your personal income like you're 0:17:58.240 --> 0:18:01.879 just talking about a business. It's Oprah saying oh, like 0:18:02.320 --> 0:18:04.719 my network makes X figures. Yeah. 0:18:04.760 --> 0:18:09.600 And also in that vlog, there's no showiness of wealth. 0:18:10.160 --> 0:18:13.240 I literally go to gym, go to the office. Do 0:18:13.280 --> 0:18:16.240 you mean like it's just my life. Yeah, So in 0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:19.520 saying that, like I can fucking do showiness and that's 0:18:19.520 --> 0:18:22.600 my prerogative. But so anyway back to it, I digress. 0:18:23.800 --> 0:18:24.840 That's my new favorite work. 0:18:26.119 --> 0:18:27.679 So I thought about it and I was like, I 0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:31.760 created this piece of content for transparency, and I was 0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:36.080 being transparent. So that is integral with who I am 0:18:36.160 --> 0:18:39.280 and how I show up on social media. Also, my 0:18:39.480 --> 0:18:43.439 whole messaging on social media is I empower women to 0:18:43.520 --> 0:18:48.359 step into their power. So should I lie about how 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:51.160 much my company is earning to make someone else feel 0:18:51.200 --> 0:18:56.240 more comfortable? That goes completely against who I am? Do 0:18:56.280 --> 0:18:58.879 you mean No, I'm not gonna fucking lie about that 0:18:59.080 --> 0:19:02.080 or dim my life to make you more comfortable. 0:19:02.880 --> 0:19:05.440 That's an interesting point you bring up, because I would 0:19:05.440 --> 0:19:10.320 love to know your opinion on keeping yourself smaller to 0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:13.760 be relatable to others, because I feel like everyone does 0:19:13.800 --> 0:19:16.240 that in some capacity. Obviously yours would be on a 0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:20.000 massive scale, but like I know, you know in school 0:19:20.040 --> 0:19:22.159 when people are like, oh my gosh, I haven't studied 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:24.280 for the exam, and then there's that smart kid that's like, 0:19:24.320 --> 0:19:26.840 oh my gosh, don't worry, I didn't either, and then 0:19:26.880 --> 0:19:30.320 they like get any because I study you having like 0:19:32.359 --> 0:19:35.560 I was that kid. But like, what is your thought 0:19:35.640 --> 0:19:35.960 on that? 0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:39.159 Like, yeah, that's completely dimming your lighter to here? Yeah, 0:19:39.240 --> 0:19:42.119 and we don't do that here. No, this is like 0:19:42.440 --> 0:19:44.800 in this environment, we don't do that. And I'm not 0:19:44.840 --> 0:19:47.160 going to have someone come on to my account and 0:19:47.280 --> 0:19:50.200 leave a comment like that and we go, oh, I'm 0:19:50.240 --> 0:19:53.760 gonna stop stop sharing things like that for my community. 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:56.359 Like if you look at the R and C community, 0:19:56.400 --> 0:19:59.560 this is what we literally built off. The reason why 0:19:59.600 --> 0:20:02.520 I quit my corporate job and went out and started 0:20:02.840 --> 0:20:05.960 a business, which because I saw other women doing that. 0:20:07.920 --> 0:20:12.080 So it's a complete like disservice of me to go, oh, well, 0:20:12.080 --> 0:20:15.000 now I've you know, started the business. I'm I'm good here, 0:20:15.880 --> 0:20:16.080 you know. 0:20:16.640 --> 0:20:21.359 Yeah. And it's almost also like if you didn't constantly 0:20:21.480 --> 0:20:27.080 share what you do, people would start thinking she hasn't evolved, 0:20:27.640 --> 0:20:30.520 she hasn't been disillusioned about what's going on. 0:20:30.680 --> 0:20:33.760 And also that's fine if I literally am comfortable and 0:20:33.800 --> 0:20:36.879 I don't want to you know, evolve, et cetera, et cetera. 0:20:37.280 --> 0:20:40.080 So that's like in saying that, like I did have 0:20:40.160 --> 0:20:41.840 to check myself and I did have to be like, 0:20:42.400 --> 0:20:45.400 hang on wait, what was like my intention here? Yeah, 0:20:45.400 --> 0:20:47.520 So that was the process. I was like, no, this 0:20:47.600 --> 0:20:50.440 is how I shot. And also you know, I completely 0:20:50.480 --> 0:20:54.679 get I can I get that that that upsets people, 0:20:55.440 --> 0:21:01.800 but also I'm not fucking here to please everyone. If 0:21:01.600 --> 0:21:04.360 if I was here to please everyone, I would literally 0:21:04.400 --> 0:21:08.960 be the most vanilla nothing person. I would have no attributes. 0:21:09.000 --> 0:21:11.720 I would have nothing, because you know, the saying like 0:21:11.800 --> 0:21:15.000 you can be the ripest, juiciest peach and someone doesn't 0:21:15.080 --> 0:21:19.280 like peaches. Yeah, so it's like, no, I'm gonna just 0:21:19.400 --> 0:21:22.600 keep showing up and doing me and if that makes 0:21:22.640 --> 0:21:26.560 you uncomfortable or like you think of me in a 0:21:26.600 --> 0:21:30.480 certain way, that is literally none of my fucking business. 0:21:31.160 --> 0:21:33.199 So anyway, this is the processing in my mind. But 0:21:33.280 --> 0:21:37.280 also you know, her thing about it's me being ignorant. 0:21:37.640 --> 0:21:41.400 Like we say in this podcast that tires like recessions 0:21:41.480 --> 0:21:42.360 is when you know. 0:21:42.960 --> 0:21:45.359 Built, biggest businesses get start. 0:21:47.720 --> 0:21:50.199 So it's like like, look at the stats, guys, I know, 0:21:50.359 --> 0:21:53.399 but it's like I know I'm doing the opposite. But 0:21:53.520 --> 0:21:57.639 instead of this person using me as an expander, that 0:21:57.840 --> 0:22:01.480 also giving her permission to also doing the same, she's 0:22:01.560 --> 0:22:04.000 put me in the she's out of touch. 0:22:04.560 --> 0:22:06.320 She's because I clearly. 0:22:06.160 --> 0:22:09.040 Upset this person by saying this. Yeah, so she's put 0:22:09.080 --> 0:22:12.080 me in the box of she's out of touch. She's 0:22:12.280 --> 0:22:14.840 obviously going through, you know, a certain time in her 0:22:14.840 --> 0:22:17.840 own business, and she has a little you know, limiting 0:22:17.880 --> 0:22:20.840 beliefs around that and stuff happening. So instead of using 0:22:20.880 --> 0:22:24.080 me as expander, she's gone, no, you're ignorant, because that 0:22:24.119 --> 0:22:28.480 would make her feel better about her current you know, yeah, 0:22:28.600 --> 0:22:32.960 environing or what's happening in her brain, if that makes sense. 0:22:33.200 --> 0:22:36.760 Because otherwise it's almost your fault, right exactly. Like if 0:22:36.800 --> 0:22:39.879 you admire someone and to a certain point and then 0:22:39.920 --> 0:22:41.720 they get to their next level and they're just like 0:22:41.760 --> 0:22:43.919 this amazing human, you go, oh wow, like you've just 0:22:43.920 --> 0:22:46.240 gone too far. You're out of touch now, you know, 0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:48.439 almost like because you think you can't do it. 0:22:48.640 --> 0:22:50.160 You know what I heard someone say the other day, 0:22:50.160 --> 0:22:55.480