Speaker 1: The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of
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Speaker 1: acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea
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Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for ordinary
Speaker 1: people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello and welcome
Speaker 1: back to the Rising Conker Podcast. It is your host,
Speaker 1: Georgie Stevenson, and today we are talking about how you
Speaker 1: can stop caring about what others think.
Speaker 2: I love this topic.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a topic that anyone can
Speaker 1: find very useful and like resonate with, because you know,
Speaker 1: if you're someone who's like constantly stopping yourself from doing
Speaker 1: things because of like the fear of judgment from others,
Speaker 1: or maybe you just get negative comments and they like
Speaker 1: they really ruin your day or like disregulate you. And
Speaker 1: I think when you know how to work through, you know,
Speaker 1: stuff like this, it's so valuable because, like I truly
Speaker 1: believe like energy is directional So if you are, you know,
Speaker 1: wanting to go somewhere and you've got this momentum, but
Speaker 1: you're like then looking around and you know, seeing what
Speaker 1: everyone else thinks or absorbing what everyone else thinks, you
Speaker 1: lose your energy and like that sort of you know,
Speaker 1: momentum the way I would kind of describe it of
Speaker 1: like you know, when you're running a race, Yeah, like
Speaker 1: if you look beside you, that person will start you know,
Speaker 1: beating you, or you will kind of you you might
Speaker 1: fall over. So it's like think of if you're running
Speaker 1: a race, you have to be so like I'm in
Speaker 1: my own lane, I'm doing my own thing, and I'm
Speaker 1: winning the race. But when you start to listen to
Speaker 1: what other people are saying or let their fears be
Speaker 1: your fears, that's when you fall over and lose that
Speaker 1: like momentum. So I feel like this episode is going
Speaker 1: to be so valuable. You know if you ask someone
Speaker 1: who like, you know, lets these things bother you? And
Speaker 1: I think it's also knowing the reason why it's going
Speaker 1: to resonates because we all do care what people think,
Speaker 1: and it's about how you then go and like work
Speaker 1: through it.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely, that's like the most important part. And that's
Speaker 2: exactly why I want to preface this. Guys. This episode
Speaker 2: was my idea because.
Speaker 1: Tears like it was my own. It's just like me
Speaker 1: in the Office.
Speaker 2: Of no generally was because obviously, as a public figure,
Speaker 2: Georgie does get hate on a different level to the
Speaker 2: average person. But you have, like I've seen the way
Speaker 2: you work through it almost behind closed doors, and I
Speaker 2: think that it's important to share with others because everybody
Speaker 2: does get hate, even if it's not so public. People
Speaker 2: will say things to you sometimes out of a place
Speaker 2: of love, but it hurts your feelings and it triggers you,
Speaker 2: and it's negative and you don't know how to deal
Speaker 2: with it. And and I love the way you look
Speaker 2: at it, and I've learned a lot from it. So
Speaker 2: I think it would be like beneficial for everyone to
Speaker 2: be able to learn that. I love that, I appreciate
Speaker 2: that I do you anytime, you're welcome, everyone, You're welcome.
Speaker 1: For this episode, it was also a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: I was. I got very into it, you know, I
Speaker 1: got really passionate about it or I just like I said,
Speaker 1: I think this is like it's super strong, like if
Speaker 1: you can like hold this skill it's like, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: so valuable, nothing will ever get to you. Yeah, well
Speaker 1: it will, but then you'll work through it and come
Speaker 1: out better.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: I also heard this saying just to keep talking about it,
Speaker 1: but like new level, new devil of like every time
Speaker 1: you go to the next For example, if you thought
Speaker 1: you worked through something, but it's triggering you again, it
Speaker 1: could be because you've gone to the next level and you've
Speaker 1: got to.
Speaker 2: Work through it at this level. I love that. So
Speaker 2: that's what I mean.
Speaker 1: I feel like you'll be working through this stuff like
Speaker 1: your whole life. You don't then get to a point
Speaker 1: where you just like give no fox ever. It's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: just get to like the next level. You have to
Speaker 1: deal with sounds bleak, but you'll get better at Yes.
Speaker 1: But before we get into the show, Oh guys, this
Speaker 1: is the last week two enroll in the R and
Speaker 1: C Project and this is our one and only live
Speaker 1: round this year. So if you're a manifesting Galley or
Speaker 1: maybe you want to be a manifesting GA, you want
Speaker 1: to learn all the rules and you want to join
Speaker 1: us live. So when it's live, what happens is we
Speaker 1: have a Facebook group that's where you can answer any questions,
Speaker 1: you can chat with everyone. The energy of the Facebook
Speaker 1: group is literally my favorite thing. It's it's just like
Speaker 1: everyone is just thriving. And also it's really beautiful because
Speaker 1: a lot of people share their insights of like, you know,
Speaker 1: a limiting belief they're working through, and they give their
Speaker 1: whole like process and insights, and there's so many things
Speaker 1: where I'm like, oh my gosh, I resonate with that
Speaker 1: so much, and like I'm finding you know, you'll find like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's such like an AHA moment for me. And then
Speaker 1: of course we do the live calls as well, and
Speaker 1: we've got a couple of exciting things for this live
Speaker 1: round just because it is the only one this year,
Speaker 1: so we wanted to make it super special. That That's
Speaker 1: all I can say t is testine. So I'll put
Speaker 1: the link in the show notes so you can check
Speaker 1: it out. But yeah, don't wait if you are feeling that, Paul,
Speaker 1: But before you show a tear, how is your week?
Speaker 2: It was pretty fun?
Speaker 1: I could we guys A tear stayed out till five
Speaker 1: am on the weekend sober, So I think that's like
Speaker 1: the worst part for me.
Speaker 2: Broke was like, did you not get annoyed with everyone.
Speaker 2: And I was like a little bit at the.
Speaker 1: End when everyone was slurring, like stumbling.
Speaker 2: Walking back to the car. That was like the worst
Speaker 2: part because I was like walking at a normal pace,
Speaker 2: but it took everyone else half an hour to walk
Speaker 2: five And I was like, guys, it's been thirty minutes.
Speaker 2: Hurry up.
Speaker 1: That's like a solid effortity.
Speaker 2: I do it once a year, and when I do it,
Speaker 2: I go the whole night. And then what do you drink?
Speaker 1: Like soda?
Speaker 2: Nothing? Water? Fuck?
Speaker 1: You don't even have like red balls?
Speaker 2: No, you need to take some pretty well, that's what
Speaker 2: I was thinking. Next time I needed to just I had.
Speaker 2: But then I was like, if someone sees me pouring
Speaker 2: white powder.
Speaker 1: Into my dream, question get kicked down, Like think you
Speaker 1: trying to spikes?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, no, it's natural free workout.
Speaker 1: It's actual natural pree workout. You should try and naked
Speaker 1: up us I work in their building.
Speaker 2: That's so good. What about you? How is your week?
Speaker 1: Yes, it's been a lovely week. I had a really
Speaker 1: amazing weekend with my girlfriend. We did a audit check
Speaker 1: being loved. We did the do it for your Future
Speaker 1: Self course. Actually like it was in like December last year,
Speaker 1: and it's when I was we're still prepping the course,
Speaker 1: and I kind of used that we can as like
Speaker 1: a guinea pig to perfect it. Yeah, and me and
Speaker 1: Listener said, like, we need to reflect every month because
Speaker 1: it took you know, it can take so long to
Speaker 1: do it here for hours. And so another big thing
Speaker 1: too is I realized like I had a lot of
Speaker 1: the same problems in every single month of last year,
Speaker 1: and I thought, wow, if I had reflected, I probably
Speaker 1: would have like dealt with it, dealt with that problem, yeah,
Speaker 1: and rather just kept like being in the same pattern.
Speaker 1: So we promised each other that we would see each
Speaker 1: other at least once a month, which was also good
Speaker 1: for you know, our friendship. Yeah, to do an audit
Speaker 1: check on our buckets and everything, and they do it
Speaker 1: for your future self course and just you know life.
Speaker 1: So we did that on the weekend. It was so lovely.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I hadn't seen Cinder since yeah, the sleepover, So that
Speaker 1: was really incredible. And I feel like really clear on
Speaker 1: my fab intensions. Oh that's good, so clear. I'll tell
Speaker 1: you after. And also, guys, I got a tesla who
Speaker 1: really exciting you're probably here. I feel like the episode
Speaker 1: where I Tell you isn't even out yet.
Speaker 2: No, it's on.
Speaker 1: Friday, okay, yeah yeah, as you guys know, like we
Speaker 1: pre record the episodes and then we do the intros
Speaker 1: on real time. So yeah, I may have got a
Speaker 1: tesla and I'm beautiful. I love it so much. I
Speaker 1: really I love like, you know how it's eco conscious
Speaker 1: and it's also just bloody cool. It's like a space
Speaker 1: ship and it's so big.
Speaker 2: I can't wait to sit in it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll have to let you sit in it. It's
Speaker 1: so fun. We'll do the whoopee cushion. So that was
Speaker 1: really really exciting.
Speaker 2: So love her.
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's about it. Should we get into the episode, Let's.
Speaker 2: Do it, Okay.
Speaker 1: A tear. This episode is like reminding me of what's
Speaker 1: that TV show where they read out like the mean tweets.
Speaker 2: Jimmy Kimmel or Jimmy Fallon. It's one of them, one
Speaker 2: of the Jimmies. We love you Jimmy's guys.
Speaker 1: Today, we're going to do something a bit different, and
Speaker 1: we're going to read out some hate comments that the
Speaker 1: potty or I personally got recently, and we're going to
Speaker 1: really unpack them, and we're going to see what's happening
Speaker 1: under this. We've got a lot of limiting beliefs. Yeah,
Speaker 1: is so funny. And then also I want to tell
Speaker 1: you guys, because you know, you might be wondering how
Speaker 1: I would deal with something like this. And also, even
Speaker 1: if it's not on you know, my level of being,
Speaker 1: you know, a public figure and having literally random people
Speaker 1: hate you for no reason, it might love that for us.
Speaker 2: Do you love that? I say us, Yeah, I haven't
Speaker 2: got hate yet. You have a dear you actually have.
Speaker 1: Joined the party. No, but like you know, in your
Speaker 1: circumstance of you know, maybe a friend is acting a
Speaker 1: certain way, or you do yet a nasty comment from
Speaker 1: a family member or something like that. I want to
Speaker 1: explain to you how I kind of unpack things and
Speaker 1: not let them affect me, and how when you use
Speaker 1: this process anything that anyone says it won't affect you
Speaker 1: and you'll be able to really like process it in
Speaker 1: this way where you're like.
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so excited to learn this.
Speaker 1: I get really all right because I used to struggle
Speaker 1: so much. Well, I think it's so just to get
Speaker 1: straight into it. So human nature is if you think
Speaker 1: back in the tribe days, you want like if you
Speaker 1: weren't in the tribe, you would die, you get eaten
Speaker 1: by an animal or something. So it's all about human
Speaker 1: that like human psyche in the brain is like being
Speaker 1: within the tribe. That's why we're also fucking judgy because
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, I'm better than this person, so I'm
Speaker 1: in the tribe or judgment is just a way for
Speaker 1: you to understand where you are in like the hierarchy. Interesting,
Speaker 1: so this person does this, it means she's bad. I
Speaker 1: don't do that thing, so I'm here, that's what. But
Speaker 1: that's all that judgment is. It's a tool that we
Speaker 1: use to know where we stand within the tribe, which
Speaker 1: was huge back in the day. Yeah, back in the day,
Speaker 1: like you lived through a couple of years ago.
Speaker 2: I need to stop.
Speaker 1: So it's really like I don't know. And my reaction
Speaker 1: when people I don't know, it's not that I find
Speaker 1: it funny, but when funny, it is quite funny. When
Speaker 1: I explain to you how it actually all works, you
Speaker 1: will also start finding things funny because what you'll start
Speaker 1: to realize is what someone says about you actually has
Speaker 1: nothing to do with you and all to do with
Speaker 1: them and what they're currently like processing and like going through.
Speaker 1: If that makes sense, it's very much a lens of
Speaker 1: what's happening in their life and nothing to do with you.
Speaker 2: Do you think that would apply to people who care
Speaker 2: about you? Two?
Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent.
Speaker 2: Interesting. Yeah, let's go through something. Okay.
Speaker 1: So well, yeah, minor kind of like complete randos, so
Speaker 1: a bit different, but you'll kind of you'll get the concept.
Speaker 1: So let's go through it. So it's great because the
Speaker 1: universe musta knew this segment was coming up, and we
Speaker 1: got some really great comment here. You said, content is
Speaker 1: coming out. Oh okay, let's get this up. Okay. So
Speaker 1: the first comment, so I posted a reel that was
Speaker 1: the title was, so this was a piece of content
Speaker 1: very much for like the for you page. So this
Speaker 1: like when I, you know, create content. There's content for
Speaker 1: my audience already knows me, there's content for you know,
Speaker 1: the wider audience of people who don't know me. Like,
Speaker 1: it's very strategic. So this piece of content me and
Speaker 1: Ellie spoke about and we decided to use the title
Speaker 1: of first day back at work as a creative director
Speaker 1: of an eight figure business. So I am the creative
Speaker 1: director of Naked Harvest and RNC and H is an
Speaker 1: eight figure business. So that's literally just a title. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not me, it's just me spin and facts. Anyway,
Speaker 1: So there was this comment, let's get into it. So also,
Speaker 1: I want to stress that there was so many amazing
Speaker 1: positive comments on this being like so incredible, so great
Speaker 1: to see the inside of your day, blah blah blah,
Speaker 1: like awesome comments like my community really is so on
Speaker 1: my level and so like tapped into how I think
Speaker 1: that I like, I want to stress, like I rarely
Speaker 1: get comments like this, and it's just so interesting that
Speaker 1: like these couple have come up.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying in such a short space of
Speaker 2: time too, as I'm like, the universe wants us to
Speaker 2: do this segment.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so of course we're going to turn shit into
Speaker 1: gold and we're going to do this segment. So let
Speaker 1: me read it. Okay, here it is. So this girl said,
Speaker 1: I follow you as a motivated business woman as I am. However,
Speaker 1: to broadcast your eight figure income without having your finger
Speaker 1: on the pulse that majority people are struggling really smacks
Speaker 1: ignorance and entitlement. I'm all about celebrating one success one
Speaker 1: hundred percent, but as an influencer, you definitely need to
Speaker 1: be in touch with your surroundings and current financial cycles.
Speaker 1: Just because the Kimks are doing well and want to
Speaker 1: boast about it, it doesn't mean the general popper. So
Speaker 1: the first thing, have I don't read this to you,
Speaker 1: thank you for comparing me to kimgate because that is
Speaker 1: a huge compliment.
Speaker 2: So first of.
Speaker 1: All, first of all, this person's like contradicting herselves because
Speaker 1: she's like, I love success, I love embracing and celebrating. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love celebrating one's success. I was like, well you don't,
Speaker 1: because so I definitely get it because you know, and
Speaker 1: we've spoken about this on this podcast. Yeah about currently
Speaker 1: financially there is a lot changing, so what and like
Speaker 1: you know, there was definitely a part of me and
Speaker 1: being like have I fucked up here? But then what
Speaker 1: I had to do is think about why did I
Speaker 1: create this piece of content? And it was for transparency
Speaker 1: because I go through exactly what I did that day
Speaker 1: and it's like, here, this is what I do as
Speaker 1: a creative director of an eight thing, a company which
Speaker 1: I have completely built from the ground out as someone
Speaker 1: who has no background in business and not that that manus.
Speaker 2: But I get, I diagres what you mean.
Speaker 1: But it's like this piece of content was for that
Speaker 1: factor and also it was just that's what I am.
Speaker 1: Like that is my title. Like you know on Instagram
Speaker 1: you see blah blah blah, like a marketing manager blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. Like, yeah, that is just my title, and
Speaker 1: it's just fact. Also, let's take in consideration. I'm not
Speaker 1: earning eight figures personally, I wish I was, but unfortunately not,
Speaker 1: like you're not taking to consideration like Naked Harvest literally
Speaker 1: has twenty employees, we have a whole fucking warehouse that
Speaker 1: we have to run, like we have millions of dollars
Speaker 1: in expenses.
Speaker 2: You're also not boasting about your personal income like you're
Speaker 2: just talking about a business. It's Oprah saying oh, like
Speaker 2: my network makes X figures. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And also in that vlog, there's no showiness of wealth.
Speaker 1: I literally go to gym, go to the office. Do
Speaker 1: you mean like it's just my life. Yeah, So in
Speaker 1: saying that, like I can fucking do showiness and that's
Speaker 1: my prerogative. But so anyway back to it, I digress.
Speaker 2: That's my new favorite work.
Speaker 1: So I thought about it and I was like, I
Speaker 1: created this piece of content for transparency, and I was
Speaker 1: being transparent. So that is integral with who I am
Speaker 1: and how I show up on social media. Also, my
Speaker 1: whole messaging on social media is I empower women to
Speaker 1: step into their power. So should I lie about how
Speaker 1: much my company is earning to make someone else feel
Speaker 1: more comfortable? That goes completely against who I am? Do
Speaker 1: you mean No, I'm not gonna fucking lie about that
Speaker 1: or dim my life to make you more comfortable.
Speaker 2: That's an interesting point you bring up, because I would
Speaker 2: love to know your opinion on keeping yourself smaller to
Speaker 2: be relatable to others, because I feel like everyone does
Speaker 2: that in some capacity. Obviously yours would be on a
Speaker 2: massive scale, but like I know, you know in school
Speaker 2: when people are like, oh my gosh, I haven't studied
Speaker 2: for the exam, and then there's that smart kid that's like,
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, don't worry, I didn't either, and then
Speaker 2: they like get any because I study you having like
Speaker 2: I was that kid. But like, what is your thought
Speaker 2: on that?
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, that's completely dimming your lighter to here? Yeah,
Speaker 1: and we don't do that here. No, this is like
Speaker 1: in this environment, we don't do that. And I'm not
Speaker 1: going to have someone come on to my account and
Speaker 1: leave a comment like that and we go, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna stop stop sharing things like that for my community.
Speaker 1: Like if you look at the R and C community,
Speaker 1: this is what we literally built off. The reason why
Speaker 1: I quit my corporate job and went out and started
Speaker 1: a business, which because I saw other women doing that.
Speaker 1: So it's a complete like disservice of me to go, oh, well,
Speaker 1: now I've you know, started the business. I'm I'm good here,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And it's almost also like if you didn't constantly
Speaker 2: share what you do, people would start thinking she hasn't evolved,
Speaker 2: she hasn't been disillusioned about what's going on.
Speaker 1: And also that's fine if I literally am comfortable and
Speaker 1: I don't want to you know, evolve, et cetera, et cetera.
Speaker 1: So that's like in saying that, like I did have
Speaker 1: to check myself and I did have to be like,
Speaker 1: hang on wait, what was like my intention here? Yeah,
Speaker 1: So that was the process. I was like, no, this
Speaker 1: is how I shot. And also you know, I completely
Speaker 1: get I can I get that that that upsets people,
Speaker 1: but also I'm not fucking here to please everyone. If
Speaker 1: if I was here to please everyone, I would literally
Speaker 1: be the most vanilla nothing person. I would have no attributes.
Speaker 1: I would have nothing, because you know, the saying like
Speaker 1: you can be the ripest, juiciest peach and someone doesn't
Speaker 1: like peaches. Yeah, so it's like, no, I'm gonna just
Speaker 1: keep showing up and doing me and if that makes
Speaker 1: you uncomfortable or like you think of me in a
Speaker 1: certain way, that is literally none of my fucking business.
Speaker 1: So anyway, this is the processing in my mind. But
Speaker 1: also you know, her thing about it's me being ignorant.
Speaker 1: Like we say in this podcast that tires like recessions
Speaker 1: is when you know.
Speaker 2: Built, biggest businesses get start.
Speaker 1: So it's like like, look at the stats, guys, I know,
Speaker 1: but it's like I know I'm doing the opposite. But
Speaker 1: instead of this person using me as an expander, that
Speaker 1: also giving her permission to also doing the same, she's
Speaker 1: put me in the she's out of touch.
Speaker 2: She's because I clearly.
Speaker 1: Upset this person by saying this. Yeah, so she's put
Speaker 1: me in the box of she's out of touch. She's
Speaker 1: obviously going through, you know, a certain time in her
Speaker 1: own business, and she has a little you know, limiting
Speaker 1: beliefs around that and stuff happening. So instead of using
Speaker 1: me as expander, she's gone, no, you're ignorant, because that
Speaker 1: would make her feel better about her current you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: environing or what's happening in her brain, if that makes sense.
Speaker 2: Because otherwise it's almost your fault, right exactly. Like if
Speaker 2: you admire someone and to a certain point and then
Speaker 2: they get to their next level and they're just like
Speaker 2: this amazing human, you go, oh wow, like you've just
Speaker 2: gone too far. You're out of touch now, you know,
Speaker 2: almost like because you think you can't do it.
Speaker 1: You know what I heard someone say the other day,
Speaker 1: and I fucking love it. Jealousy is laziness. Oh if
Speaker 1: you are jealous of someone and I'm not talking like
Speaker 1: jealous where they expand you, Yes, I feel like there's
Speaker 1: definitely jealousy can be this really positive feeling where you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: I actually want that thing.
Speaker 2: Would you say maybe envy? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Whatever, you kind of get what I mean.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So, but if you, for example, are jealous of someone
Speaker 1: and you send comments like this or heye, where you
Speaker 1: literally see them as separate. It's you being lazy because
Speaker 1: you're like, I can never get there and I'm not
Speaker 1: even gonna try that. I didn't say this, I'm just
Speaker 1: putting out, but you mean, like I love that. That's
Speaker 1: think of even I'm getting weo wey here. Think of
Speaker 1: that frequency, yeah, think of the frequency of Because this
Speaker 1: happened to me the other day. I saw an influencer
Speaker 1: who she's a big traveler, and she recently had a baby,
Speaker 1: and she just did this like beautiful international holiday with
Speaker 1: her baby, and she was saying, like, you know, POV,
Speaker 1: she didn't let her baby stop her from like try
Speaker 1: the world. And it triggered me because I have a
Speaker 1: lot of limiting beliefs around travel and ivy because of
Speaker 1: just I never traveled when I was younger. She can be,
Speaker 1: you know, a difficult baby blah blah blah. And but
Speaker 1: it triggered me, and it was like jealousy, but in
Speaker 1: the way of, oh my God, thank you for being
Speaker 1: an expander for me that I actually can travel with
Speaker 1: my daughter. Not you don't understand what it's like to
Speaker 1: be real mum. Yeah, do you feel that frequency?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: So I don't know who you want to be here.
Speaker 1: But it's like me going, you don't understand what it's
Speaker 1: like to be real, mum. That is lazy. You're not
Speaker 1: unpacking anything, you're not doing any inner work. You're just
Speaker 1: going no, you actually you're wrong. Oh well, and that's
Speaker 1: what I mean of Like, that's when I get comments
Speaker 1: like this, I'm like, oh, sweetie, So the first thing
Speaker 1: when you get a comment that upsets you or triggers you,
Speaker 1: the first thing I want you to do is use
Speaker 1: it as a mirror. What's it upsetting in you? Because
Speaker 1: the only reason why a comment will upset you is
Speaker 1: there is either you know a truth in it that
Speaker 1: you have not yet integrated or done the work on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so in insecurity.
Speaker 1: So for me, that comment, did you know quote unquote
Speaker 1: trigger me at the start because me going to not
Speaker 1: me personally my business going to eight figures is a
Speaker 1: relatively new frequency. So I'm not stable there seven figures.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, of course fucking making seven figures, yes, nothing,
Speaker 1: but eight figures it's new. So of course there's like, oh,
Speaker 1: but people think I'm unrelatable and blah blah blah, And
Speaker 1: then I have to do the work and I have
Speaker 1: to unpack and I have to process and then I
Speaker 1: can ah, yeah, I get it. So that's what you know,
Speaker 1: if a comment does upset you, I really like it's
Speaker 1: beautiful because it's like, oh, what's it bringing up here?
Speaker 1: And it's really great to not like you just see
Speaker 1: it on the surface and you're like, oh, okay, that's interesting.
Speaker 1: So for example two, we're about to get into it,
Speaker 1: but mum comments trigger the fuck out of me because
Speaker 1: I'm a new mum and it's like I haven't you know,
Speaker 1: I've done work around being a new mum, but there's
Speaker 1: still a lot of things that I have to integrate.
Speaker 1: So that's why it's going to trigger me. Was if
Speaker 1: you come at me with like something that I've fully
Speaker 1: integrated in myself, or just something where I'm like, shut up,
Speaker 1: not gonna give you the time of day, you know,
Speaker 1: like I'll laugh, and that's when you know you've integrated,
Speaker 1: Whereas if you triggers you, it means you haven't interesting.
Speaker 1: So this is the first thing. We're going to use
Speaker 1: these comments, these people as mirrors and be like, thank
Speaker 1: you for showing me this.
Speaker 2: I need to do work on this.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: Life's just all about work, isn't it? Do the way
Speaker 2: my famous last word.
Speaker 1: So that's the first thing in TIA.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So then the second thing you need to do is
Speaker 1: you need to understand that this comment has everything, like
Speaker 1: I said before, everything to do with the other person
Speaker 1: and nothing not nothing to do with you. But it's
Speaker 1: like it's what's going on in that person's life and
Speaker 1: they are projecting on you. So for example, this person,
Speaker 1: you can kind of see through the comments she's saying,
Speaker 1: she's a business owner too, there's financial struggle. So basically
Speaker 1: I'm reading between the lines. She's currently struggling right now,
Speaker 1: and she doesn't like it that, you know, someone else
Speaker 1: is on Instagram who is not struggling. And also she
Speaker 1: loved me back back in the day when I was
Speaker 1: more relatable and more on her level. So also she
Speaker 1: doesn't like when other people grow above her faster or yeah,
Speaker 1: and this is all relative to her mind, not the
Speaker 1: actual truth. Yeah, So if I can you know see
Speaker 1: that and I'm like, oh, wow, she's going through some stuff,
Speaker 1: it's like I can you know, I can get through
Speaker 1: that comment because I'm like, oh, it's it's actually nothing
Speaker 1: to do with me. I've just triggered something huge in
Speaker 1: her that she has not resolved.
Speaker 2: It's almost so like saying that, like, people above you
Speaker 2: will never try to tear you down. Yeah, it's only
Speaker 2: people below you that are going to try and bring
Speaker 2: you to their level.
Speaker 1: My masseuse said the most beautiful quote to me the
Speaker 1: other day, and she said, think of your life like
Speaker 1: you're on a ladder. Yeah, and the goal is always
Speaker 1: to go to the top of that. She's really woo
Speaker 1: the top of the ladder, which is like your highest self.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So she explains, we're always going up, and she goes,
Speaker 1: if someone is giving you low vibe energy, So anyone
Speaker 1: like this, they're obviously low vibe because they wouldn't fucking
Speaker 1: comment something like this, so they're low vibe. She said,
Speaker 1: you can reach out a hand and see if they
Speaker 1: want to come up with you, but if they don't
Speaker 1: take it, you're not stepping down. So that's also another thing.
Speaker 1: This comment I didn't reply to, yeah, because I'm like, nah,
Speaker 1: I'm not stepping down to your vibration, bro, to try
Speaker 1: and justify it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know why broh.
Speaker 1: Hang around not stepping down? Bro?
Speaker 2: Why we like this?
Speaker 1: I'm getting like so into the energy. But that's why
Speaker 1: I didn't reply to that comment, because I just I
Speaker 1: could see right through it and I was like, oh, no, babe,
Speaker 1: not going to that vibration. Yeah, so I didn't even
Speaker 1: go down there because I could tell it was really
Speaker 1: down there and I'm not going down. I'm only going up.
Speaker 2: I love that so much.
Speaker 1: Isn't that so cool to think of? And another thing
Speaker 1: happened where I got a text from someone and it
Speaker 1: was just it was not appropriate, like the boundary was
Speaker 1: completely crossed, and I could tell this person who just
Speaker 1: wanted to have a fight and in the past their
Speaker 1: personality and persona is they do want to have a fight,
Speaker 1: And so I literally thought that and I thought, oh no,
Speaker 1: I'm not going down there. So literally just didn't message back.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, boundaries, you actually don't get to
Speaker 1: message me like that, and I'm not entertaining that low vibration.
Speaker 2: I love it, Okay.
Speaker 1: So then after that, yeah, the last thing is you
Speaker 1: need to neutralize it and you need to go you know,
Speaker 1: like I did hear it. It's like, no, I did
Speaker 1: this in integrity with who I am. That's obviously triggered
Speaker 1: and upset someone and that's fine, but you need to
Speaker 1: be neutral about it and be like yeah, okay, And
Speaker 1: then can you see as you do that process and
Speaker 1: those steps, you're like, oh, doesn't affect me, there's actually
Speaker 1: nothing to do with me.
Speaker 2: I see where you're coming from.
Speaker 1: So let's now that we've kind of got a process,
Speaker 1: let's unpack the next one. So this one I actually
Speaker 1: saw in an anonymous question box done on Instagram by
Speaker 1: an influencer account, the influencer dot updates dot au. I
Speaker 1: love her, me too. So she's so neutral, she is
Speaker 1: the best.
Speaker 2: She's a matter of fact, she put up one of
Speaker 2: those I don't even know what it's called, like NNGV
Speaker 2: whatever links where people can send anonymous questions and she
Speaker 2: can respond to them on her Instagram stories. Yep. So
Speaker 2: someone wrote Ken Georgie Stevenson stop with her spamy courses
Speaker 2: and posting about them. Twenty four to seven. Her courses
Speaker 2: are being compared to MLM and apparently she's ripped off
Speaker 2: a book two. You are a badass at making money.
Speaker 2: She's not a master manifesto. She's just a big scam
Speaker 2: and everyone's been reporting her ads as spam.
Speaker 1: So you've obviously told me this. Yes, let's not pretend
Speaker 1: I love this so much and when you guys show
Speaker 1: me this, we literally all fucking cact up. So let's
Speaker 1: unpack this. Yeah, first of all, let's just look at
Speaker 1: the context of I don't understand how it's spammed because
Speaker 1: you pay and there's seven weeks of content.
Speaker 2: You mean, it's not you pay your money and nothing
Speaker 2: nothing happens. Could you imagine it was just like psych.
Speaker 1: And then also I don't really get the MLM comment
Speaker 1: need to do I are you making commissions in trouble?
Speaker 1: I know, like, are you somehow taking Is that what
Speaker 1: an MLM? So? MLM isbon Yeah, why heading on?
Speaker 2: I personally have almost been pulled into an MLM.
Speaker 1: I on it, like, I reckon, if you you do,
Speaker 1: you like, if you want to do an MLM amazing.
Speaker 2: Basically it is is like network marketing schemes where you
Speaker 2: have someone at the top and then they'll bring people
Speaker 2: into the marketing scheme and then they make a percentage
Speaker 2: commission on whatever that person below them make. So basically
Speaker 2: what you end up with is this massive they call
Speaker 2: them pyramid schemes. Yes, yeah, the people It obviously works
Speaker 2: for some people and doesn't for others because it's like
Speaker 2: flexible income and that sort of stuff. And I know, but.
Speaker 1: I don't understand how that relates.
Speaker 2: Well, it doesn't, okay, because it's not definitely not an
Speaker 2: em No one's making the money except me.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm like a tear. Are you doing some
Speaker 1: sneaky snow? Like, I know you get paid, you did
Speaker 1: a wage. Are you doing some side deal? Shit?
Speaker 2: Oh you got me.
Speaker 1: So anyway, that doesn't make any sense. But also love that,
Speaker 1: and also I am a master manifesto.
Speaker 2: I think the most interesting part of the hate in
Speaker 2: this one is that they feel you've ripped off a book.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, let's talk about that.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So we were actually talking about this in the office
Speaker 1: and we thought it was so funny because I was like,
Speaker 1: I just think it's so interesting because in the project
Speaker 1: I say go and listen to that book. Not just
Speaker 1: in the project, I kind of.
Speaker 2: Say it everybody, Yeah, it's one of your favorite books.
Speaker 2: That's what I mean.
Speaker 1: If I had plagiarized a book, I wouldn't be recommending it.
Speaker 2: No exactly, does that make sense?
Speaker 1: And also like the concepts of manifesting, not that like
Speaker 1: it's not like they're well they are, they're generally the
Speaker 1: same concepts, but what's going to make the difference is
Speaker 1: how you learn it and how you implement it into
Speaker 1: your life. And then so, for example, why so many
Speaker 1: and like why we have such amazing reviews is because
Speaker 1: I have turned Manifesting relatable to me and so many
Speaker 1: other people are like me. They're Australian, they're a young female,
Speaker 1: you know, they have certain aspiration. Juneing. Yeah, it was
Speaker 1: like that beautiful quote you said about like teaching the
Speaker 1: other day that your mom.
Speaker 2: Says, oh, yeah, like you can have someone try to
Speaker 2: teach you a concept over and over and over again,
Speaker 2: and it's not just gonna read, it's not gonna hit you.
Speaker 2: But as soon as you hear it from the person
Speaker 2: that was put on this earth that was meant to
Speaker 2: teach you, that it will change your life. And she actually,
Speaker 2: the first time she said that to me was when
Speaker 2: I did the project, because I came and I started
Speaker 2: telling you all these things I was learning and that
Speaker 2: I love. She's like, I've been saying it the whole time.
Speaker 1: I feel like, no, Georgie said it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like Georgie said it.
Speaker 1: Georgie actually made these concepts. Guys, I didn't make manifesting
Speaker 1: up and I want to stress has and like I
Speaker 1: have been stressing that. Yeah, but that's why the course.
Speaker 1: And that's even like if you even think about our
Speaker 1: marketing a tear, like one of the things we say
Speaker 1: is if you enjoy me as a person, if you
Speaker 1: get a lot from the podcast, like and if you
Speaker 1: feel cold, if you feel colled, like that is the
Speaker 1: vibe because that would be the universe bringing you closer
Speaker 1: to this piece of content so you can learn and
Speaker 1: evolve and get to the next level. That's why exactly
Speaker 1: it's so important to go after your intuition because that's
Speaker 1: even like like I've read books that other people like
Speaker 1: this book changed my life and I've read it and
Speaker 1: I'm like average, yeah, because it didn't resonate with me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so it's like you're always going to you know, have
Speaker 1: those moments. Anyway, we're digressing, Well, let's talk about this comment.
Speaker 1: So this person obviously I'm not gonna like project what
Speaker 1: their projections are because I just don't know. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: it's like, obviously they have a lot of how does
Speaker 1: Georgie have these things? This community? It's not real, she
Speaker 1: doesn't deserve it. There's a lot of like deserving sort
Speaker 1: of things. And so my thing is she's probably got
Speaker 1: a lot of like self worth issues that kind of underlying, well,
Speaker 1: she doesn't deserve it. How come she gets those things?
Speaker 2: That's so true?
Speaker 1: Or I don't know, fox me what's going on? But again,
Speaker 1: do you not see like I even read that comment
Speaker 1: and I'm like, babe, that's so much about what's going
Speaker 1: on with you and your life and nothing.
Speaker 2: To do with me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because my courses have the most amazing reviews and
Speaker 1: we have the most amazing community, and I feel very
Speaker 1: integral with what I'm putting out there. So that is, like,
Speaker 1: for example, a comment that did not trigger me at
Speaker 1: all because all the things she's talked about, there's nothing
Speaker 1: you mean, yeah, you way through it. When you told me,
Speaker 1: I literally laughed because I was like, uh, whereas there
Speaker 1: are certain things that will trigger me. Yeah, which again,
Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that comment is true. It just means
Speaker 1: because that's another thing, is like you know, when you
Speaker 1: do get something that upset to you and you know
Speaker 1: your partner or your family are like why are you
Speaker 1: letting it bother you?
Speaker 2: Who cares?
Speaker 1: Yeah? But it bothered you. I hate when that happens
Speaker 1: because it's like, because I have some healing and some
Speaker 1: wounds to do that, and it's like it's really important
Speaker 1: to see these you know, mean things, all these nasty
Speaker 1: comments as really beautiful learning experiences for ourselves. And so
Speaker 1: that's like, that's for example, a comment where I'm like, oh, sorry, brutal,
Speaker 1: I thought, Oh, and then you know what else I thought,
Speaker 1: And this is I'm just gonna say it. Imagine being
Speaker 1: that low vibe. Imagine I know, I like, I genuinely
Speaker 1: I thought, I feel so sorry for that person because
Speaker 1: imagine their frequency. And I just thought, oh, yeah, if
Speaker 1: you literally just gave your energy to improving what's happening
Speaker 1: in here and stop projecting and deflecting on everyone or
Speaker 1: like literally randoms you don't know, imagine how you could
Speaker 1: improve your life. Like if you're true, seriously, someone who
Speaker 1: gets so fired up about someone you literally don't know
Speaker 1: personally and you go and post on you know, hate
Speaker 1: fucking groups or forums and stuff like your frequency, like wow,
Speaker 1: that is like there's some stuff going on. And if
Speaker 1: you can turn that towards like yourself and be like,
Speaker 1: what is actually happening in here. Yeah, you're going to
Speaker 1: get so much further because that thing is like someone
Speaker 1: doing that is such a low vibe they will only
Speaker 1: ever attract low vibe things. And then of course she's
Speaker 1: gonna think manifesting's the scam. You mean, maybe fucking raise
Speaker 1: your vibe? Whoa was that too? Brutal?
Speaker 2: Brutal? But I love it all right, I just got
Speaker 2: a bit excited. But also I can say that look
Speaker 2: what she's saying that, yeah, exactly, exactly.
Speaker 1: Just never been this controversial before.
Speaker 2: Look to your new new era.
Speaker 1: We're not doing our lines.
Speaker 2: No, that's true. So I'm going to use like a
Speaker 2: different example to what actually happened, because I don't want
Speaker 2: to give away who said it. Was it about me?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Okay, this is like an everyday example of getting hate
Speaker 2: okay love. So for example, what's like what happened? I
Speaker 2: wanted to buy a new car, and one of my friends,
Speaker 2: who bought a new car before, or is in the
Speaker 2: process of buying a new car, said to me, oh
Speaker 2: my gosh, like, you're never going to get the loan
Speaker 2: approved for that. We like, I had to do it
Speaker 2: with my boyfriend. We've got the loan approved together, You're
Speaker 2: just not going to get the loan approved in this
Speaker 2: climate for a brand new car. How how would you
Speaker 2: like alone? Because I didn't have an ex second, did
Speaker 2: that trigger you anymore? Yes? But that's like that I
Speaker 2: address Like, I was like, this is obviously a trigger
Speaker 2: for me that I need to work.
Speaker 1: So you addressed the first point of what's this triggering
Speaker 1: inside me?
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I couldn't get my head around the projecting
Speaker 2: thing because I'm like, you've you've done it, You've bought
Speaker 2: a brand new car, So why are you telling me
Speaker 2: that I can't?
Speaker 1: Well, don't you think it?
Speaker 2: Though?
Speaker 1: She sees that she's different to you, So in her
Speaker 1: mind you're on different levels. So she's like I can
Speaker 1: do it, you can't. So that is like like I'm
Speaker 1: below her or different. Yeah, So in her mind she
Speaker 1: has like maybe it's like this weird thing of like
Speaker 1: she's done certain things so she deserves that thing, Yeah,
Speaker 1: where maybe you hadn't. So then she's projecting, oh no,
Speaker 1: you won't get that loan.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Interesting, that's what.
Speaker 1: I could kind of come up with. Yeah, without knowing
Speaker 1: this person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, or like because I feel like that's something that
Speaker 2: kind of happens across the board with lots of different
Speaker 2: things that people try to do in their life. Where
Speaker 2: you might have a friend it's done it and then
Speaker 2: they tell you you can't for this, this and this reason,
Speaker 2: and it's coming from a place of care because it's
Speaker 2: they've been through the process and they know how it
Speaker 2: works kind of thing. So in that I would have
Speaker 2: thought that too, and just being like, oh, I think
Speaker 2: she's you know, projecting on what she thinks in this situation.
Speaker 2: And again it has nothing to do with me, and like.
Speaker 1: That could also just be advice. Yeah, and it's fine,
Speaker 1: but if she said it in like a weird way
Speaker 1: where you're like, this is weird. Yeah, not just like
Speaker 1: general financial advice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, but is general financial advice like that
Speaker 2: not from the financial advisor. Also just keeping someone small, yes, so.
Speaker 1: But that's it. I don't think she meant to keep
Speaker 1: you snow. It's just she has limiting beliefs an yeah,
Speaker 1: like it was an intentional hate no no, And that's
Speaker 1: and that's a lot of things like for example, that
Speaker 1: first comment I read out, I like she I don't
Speaker 1: think she was like I think she was generally trying
Speaker 1: to let me, know, as being tone deaf for other
Speaker 1: probably she probably doesn't see anything wrong with it. I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh no, that's not okay to say to me, because yes, exactly,
Speaker 1: and everyone has like different stuff going on internally, and honestly,
Speaker 1: like life really changes when you have this concept where
Speaker 1: you no longer let the things people say to you
Speaker 1: get to you personally because you were so solid in
Speaker 1: who you are and your integrity and what you're about
Speaker 1: that it's like, this is actually just let's talk on
Speaker 1: a broader sense, something I've really been thinking about lately.
Speaker 1: It's just like I want you guys to think about,
Speaker 1: like what sort of things do you judge other people about?
Speaker 1: Because I think that's going to show you a lot
Speaker 1: of your mirrors because often, and this is again this
Speaker 1: is getting into like a bit of shadow work and stuff,
Speaker 1: but like often you know, someone will throw hate or
Speaker 1: throw negative negativity on a trait that you have that
Speaker 1: they either deem as you know, quote unquote bad, but
Speaker 1: it's something that they secretly want to express. So for example,
Speaker 1: you know that comment about me showing up on Instagram
Speaker 1: and talking about you know, being the creative director is
Speaker 1: maybe that person doesn't give her permission to show up
Speaker 1: authentically online.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe she's nervous too, so.
Speaker 1: Me being like this is who I am triggers her.
Speaker 1: So a lot of the time, what we feel judgment
Speaker 1: in other people is it's trying to show us parts
Speaker 1: of ourselves that either we actually secretly desire and we
Speaker 1: feel shit about it and we haven't integrated that part
Speaker 1: of ourselves.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really complicated.
Speaker 2: That is deep.
Speaker 1: But I just something really beautiful you can start doing
Speaker 1: is just having some awareness when you do judge other
Speaker 1: people and being like, oh, why did I just do that,
Speaker 1: and then unpacking that. I love that, and that being
Speaker 1: like a little nudge of where maybe you need to
Speaker 1: like heal some wounds unblock yourself, because that's what I
Speaker 1: mean is like I can see from that girl's comment
Speaker 1: she is only limiting herself. Yeah, she would have beliefs
Speaker 1: about how to act online, how much she can earn,
Speaker 1: and certain things that are and especially like there's a
Speaker 1: huge belief there about the current climate and what you
Speaker 1: know she can earn or how she can be. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that is like all those things are going to
Speaker 1: be so limiting for her, not me. So your judgments
Speaker 1: are very much trying to show you where you're probably
Speaker 1: limiting yourself.
Speaker 2: WHOA, yeah, I love that.
Speaker 1: It's it's kind of hard because your sort of circumstances
Speaker 1: and guys, sorry keep interruption.
Speaker 2: We don't remember what we were saying.
Speaker 1: We really need our own studio. Teer, can we build
Speaker 1: like just like a cute box outside or something, And
Speaker 1: I'm like, have a lock on it so no one
Speaker 1: can come in.
Speaker 2: I feel like we hit the box.
Speaker 1: So the last hate comment we're gonna pack yes and
Speaker 1: turn into some content is I got a comment just
Speaker 1: about being a working mum. So this person was like,
Speaker 1: I did a day in the life, I mean, sorry,
Speaker 1: a day on the plate. And she just said, basically
Speaker 1: the whole thing was I can't call myself a working
Speaker 1: mom because you have Tim, because I have Tim, So
Speaker 1: I'm just a working.
Speaker 2: Just working literally, that's no jok card she said it.
Speaker 1: I was like, what anyway, it doesn't really matter about
Speaker 1: her week comment. First of all, this did trigger me
Speaker 1: because interesting, there's definitely parts of being a working mum
Speaker 1: that I am working through and still currently now because
Speaker 1: I grew up with a stay at home mum, so
Speaker 1: my and this is I'm like any judgments are always
Speaker 1: because you do not fit into either what was modeled
Speaker 1: to them or their box. Oh so she has a
Speaker 1: judgment towards me. Henwait, first of all triggered me being
Speaker 1: triggered because I grew up with a stay at home
Speaker 1: mum and a working dad, a very like a traditional family,
Speaker 1: and so there is a lot of limiting beliefs and
Speaker 1: kind of me reprogramming and remodeling how I do life
Speaker 1: because it's different to how I grew up, Whereas a
Speaker 1: lot of people don't have that self awareness and they
Speaker 1: just think how they grew up is exactly how life
Speaker 1: should be for everyone else, and if you don't fit
Speaker 1: into their ideal of whatever it is.
Speaker 2: You're wrong. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So this person, like in the comments again, I didn't
Speaker 1: comment back to this, and other people commented back, and
Speaker 1: in the comments I saw basically she was having a
Speaker 1: go because her partner works and she works, but she
Speaker 1: also looks after the children while she works. So I'm
Speaker 1: guessing she's at home and does it during their naps
Speaker 1: or I don't know how. Yeah, so she's got the.
Speaker 2: No I do more.
Speaker 1: I'm the proper version of a working mom or whatever
Speaker 1: her definition is in her mind. So I didn't fit
Speaker 1: her definition, so she was like.
Speaker 2: Therefore you aren't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, interesting, So isn't that interesting? And exactly like when
Speaker 1: I can pack that, I'm like, oh, it's actually nothing
Speaker 1: to do with me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you feel better. That actually makes so
Speaker 2: much sense. And that's probably where a lot of people
Speaker 2: trip up, is that they look at someone and they go, oh, well, no,
Speaker 2: you're not a mum because you didn't give birth to
Speaker 2: that kid, like bonus moms and that sort of stuff
Speaker 2: where they've raised the kid but it's not their kid.
Speaker 2: And someone will go, you can never call yourself a
Speaker 2: mum because you haven't had a kid. But it's like
Speaker 2: that's just their definition of what a mum is.
Speaker 1: And that's what I mean is judgment is them trying
Speaker 1: to place themselves in the world. Them trying to see
Speaker 1: where they fit on the hierarchy or just where they sit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and we all, you know, want to do that. It's
Speaker 1: so natural. But it's the beautiful thing of when someone
Speaker 1: is throwing hate or judgment towards you if you can
Speaker 1: use these tools and really see it from that perspective.
Speaker 1: So like the alternative a tea is I comment back
Speaker 1: to both of those comments, and I'm like, I'm a
Speaker 1: fucking working mom. How dare you, Bobba blow the fuck up?
Speaker 1: Blow my day up?
Speaker 2: You know, like, yeah, can you jump ten steps down
Speaker 2: on the ladder of line?
Speaker 1: Correct? Can you not see how? Then conflict and drama
Speaker 1: just continues because then I'd be pissed off and I'd
Speaker 1: probably go home and be pissed off to tim or
Speaker 1: like That's just like it just evolves so much. And
Speaker 1: when we can take ourselves out at that very start
Speaker 1: moment and have so much awareness for what is actually
Speaker 1: happening in that moment, which has everything to do about
Speaker 1: that person, nothing to do with you, you really have
Speaker 1: so much more power. That's why when people through we
Speaker 1: hate comments, I'm like, you're just giving away your power
Speaker 1: because this literally means nothing to me, and you've just
Speaker 1: taken time out of your day. Do you mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: just given away your power. I generally feel sorry for them.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it's like imagine if we get and don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong, like I still get triggered, I still get
Speaker 1: moments roun'd like in my head and stuff. God, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm still human and going through the work. But like
Speaker 1: I've been really getting into this, and I honestly believe
Speaker 1: all those comments were for me to unpack you know,
Speaker 1: these you know things, because since those comments, I have
Speaker 1: been journaling and being like, oh, that's so interesting. I've
Speaker 1: still got you know, things about being a working mom
Speaker 1: or you know this, and that I'm still you know,
Speaker 1: getting on the frequency of eight figures blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: And it's been really it's been beautiful for me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it's been so good for my self development. Wow,
Speaker 1: is not interesting. I'm like love it. Bit of fun anyway,
Speaker 1: And I really wanted to explain that because I've been
Speaker 1: really into this. It's so interesting how people think and
Speaker 1: how they project judgment and what's actually going on and
Speaker 1: if we can utilize that, just how much power we
Speaker 1: can have.
Speaker 2: Hm, whoa, Yeah, I'm bent mind blowing. It's cool. Hey.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's like any time that you know, get
Speaker 1: some judgment or something like, come and tell me and
Speaker 1: let's unpack it together and neutralize it. Yeah, I love it.
Speaker 2: I start making a listen.
Speaker 1: Like a tear store, just like eating out of my
Speaker 1: door one on ones every day. Well, guys, thank you
Speaker 1: so much for listening. And I do want to say, like,
Speaker 1: I Also another thing that I do is when I'm
Speaker 1: you know, getting judgment or hey comments or something like that,
Speaker 1: I also send that person love. So literally like and
Speaker 1: try and try and send someone love and then not
Speaker 1: feel love yourself. So you know, in that moment, I've
Speaker 1: neutralized it, I've unpacked it, and I will literally be
Speaker 1: like I generally like I feel sorry for that person,
Speaker 1: and I generally I send them love. Wow, And then
Speaker 1: like that brings the vibes up for me, yeah, and
Speaker 1: keeps me in the high vibe frequency. So want you
Speaker 1: guys to try this today and if you're getting some
Speaker 1: judgment or things that happened in the past, do this
Speaker 1: process and send that person some love. I love it.
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