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Speaker 1: terrestrid Islander peoples today. Hello and welcome back to the

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Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for ordinary

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Speaker 1: people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello and welcome

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Speaker 1: back to the Rising Conker Podcast. It is your host,

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Speaker 1: Georgie Stevenson, and today we are talking about how you

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Speaker 1: can stop caring about what others think.

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Speaker 2: I love this topic.

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Speaker 1: I feel like this is a topic that anyone can

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Speaker 1: find very useful and like resonate with, because you know,

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Speaker 1: if you're someone who's like constantly stopping yourself from doing

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Speaker 1: things because of like the fear of judgment from others,

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Speaker 1: or maybe you just get negative comments and they like

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Speaker 1: they really ruin your day or like disregulate you. And

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Speaker 1: I think when you know how to work through, you know,

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Speaker 1: stuff like this, it's so valuable because, like I truly

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Speaker 1: believe like energy is directional So if you are, you know,

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Speaker 1: wanting to go somewhere and you've got this momentum, but

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Speaker 1: you're like then looking around and you know, seeing what

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Speaker 1: everyone else thinks or absorbing what everyone else thinks, you

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Speaker 1: lose your energy and like that sort of you know,

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Speaker 1: momentum the way I would kind of describe it of

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Speaker 1: fall over. So it's like think of if you're running

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Speaker 1: winning the race. But when you start to listen to

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Speaker 1: what other people are saying or let their fears be

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Speaker 1: like momentum. So I feel like this episode is going

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Speaker 1: to be so valuable. You know if you ask someone

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Speaker 1: I think it's also knowing the reason why it's going

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Speaker 1: and it's about how you then go and like work

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely, that's like the most important part. And that's

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Speaker 2: exactly why I want to preface this. Guys. This episode

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Speaker 1: Tears like it was my own. It's just like me

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Speaker 2: Of no generally was because obviously, as a public figure,

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Speaker 2: Georgie does get hate on a different level to the

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Speaker 2: average person. But you have, like I've seen the way

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Speaker 2: think that it's important to share with others because everybody

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Speaker 2: does get hate, even if it's not so public. People

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Speaker 2: will say things to you sometimes out of a place

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Speaker 2: and it's negative and you don't know how to deal

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Speaker 2: I think it would be like beneficial for everyone to

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Speaker 1: For this episode, it was also a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: I was. I got very into it, you know, I

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Speaker 1: But before we get into the show, Oh guys, this

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Speaker 1: of course we do the live calls as well, and

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Speaker 1: it out. But yeah, don't wait if you are feeling that, Paul,

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Speaker 1: But before you show a tear, how is your week?

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Speaker 2: It was pretty fun?

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Speaker 1: I could we guys A tear stayed out till five

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Speaker 1: It's actual natural pree workout. You should try and naked

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's been a lovely week. I had a really

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Speaker 1: Listener said, like, we need to reflect every month because

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Speaker 1: my fab intensions. Oh that's good, so clear. I'll tell

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Speaker 1: A tear. This episode is like reminding me of what's

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Speaker 1: I get really all right because I used to struggle

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Speaker 1: so much. Well, I think it's so just to get

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Speaker 1: like to be real, mum. That is lazy. You're not

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Speaker 1: unpacking anything, you're not doing any inner work. You're just

436
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:47,440
Speaker 1: going no, you actually you're wrong. Oh well, and that's

437
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 1: what I mean of Like, that's when I get comments

438
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 1: like this, I'm like, oh, sweetie, So the first thing

439
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 1: when you get a comment that upsets you or triggers you,

440
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: the first thing I want you to do is use

441
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 1: it as a mirror. What's it upsetting in you? Because

442
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:08,959
Speaker 1: the only reason why a comment will upset you is

443
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 1: there is either you know a truth in it that

444
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 1: you have not yet integrated or done the work on.

445
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, so in insecurity.

446
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: So for me, that comment, did you know quote unquote

447
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,679
Speaker 1: trigger me at the start because me going to not

448
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 1: me personally my business going to eight figures is a

449
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 1: relatively new frequency. So I'm not stable there seven figures.

450
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, of course fucking making seven figures, yes, nothing,

451
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 1: but eight figures it's new. So of course there's like, oh,

452
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,919
Speaker 1: but people think I'm unrelatable and blah blah blah, And

453
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:44,399
Speaker 1: then I have to do the work and I have

454
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: to unpack and I have to process and then I

455
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: can ah, yeah, I get it. So that's what you know,

456
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 1: if a comment does upset you, I really like it's

457
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: beautiful because it's like, oh, what's it bringing up here?

458
00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 1: And it's really great to not like you just see

459
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 1: it on the surface and you're like, oh, okay, that's interesting.

460
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: So for example two, we're about to get into it,

461
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: but mum comments trigger the fuck out of me because

462
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:14,159
Speaker 1: I'm a new mum and it's like I haven't you know,

463
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: I've done work around being a new mum, but there's

464
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 1: still a lot of things that I have to integrate.

465
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 1: So that's why it's going to trigger me. Was if

466
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,199
Speaker 1: you come at me with like something that I've fully

467
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,880
Speaker 1: integrated in myself, or just something where I'm like, shut up,

468
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: not gonna give you the time of day, you know,

469
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: like I'll laugh, and that's when you know you've integrated,

470
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 1: Whereas if you triggers you, it means you haven't interesting.

471
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 1: So this is the first thing. We're going to use

472
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: these comments, these people as mirrors and be like, thank

473
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: you for showing me this.

474
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 2: I need to do work on this.

475
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

476
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 2: Life's just all about work, isn't it? Do the way

477
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 2: my famous last word.

478
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 1: So that's the first thing in TIA.

479
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

480
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: So then the second thing you need to do is

481
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: you need to understand that this comment has everything, like

482
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: I said before, everything to do with the other person

483
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 1: and nothing not nothing to do with you. But it's

484
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: like it's what's going on in that person's life and

485
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 1: they are projecting on you. So for example, this person,

486
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: you can kind of see through the comments she's saying,

487
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:31,400
Speaker 1: she's a business owner too, there's financial struggle. So basically

488
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 1: I'm reading between the lines. She's currently struggling right now,

489
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: and she doesn't like it that, you know, someone else

490
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: is on Instagram who is not struggling. And also she

491
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 1: loved me back back in the day when I was

492
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: more relatable and more on her level. So also she

493
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 1: doesn't like when other people grow above her faster or yeah,

494
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: and this is all relative to her mind, not the

495
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: actual truth. Yeah, So if I can you know see

496
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 1: that and I'm like, oh, wow, she's going through some stuff,

497
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 1: it's like I can you know, I can get through

498
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: that comment because I'm like, oh, it's it's actually nothing

499
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 1: to do with me. I've just triggered something huge in

500
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: her that she has not resolved.

501
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 2: It's almost so like saying that, like, people above you

502
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 2: will never try to tear you down. Yeah, it's only

503
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 2: people below you that are going to try and bring

504
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 2: you to their level.

505
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: My masseuse said the most beautiful quote to me the

506
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 1: other day, and she said, think of your life like

507
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 1: you're on a ladder. Yeah, and the goal is always

508
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: to go to the top of that. She's really woo

509
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: the top of the ladder, which is like your highest self.

510
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 2: Yeah.

511
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 1: So she explains, we're always going up, and she goes,

512
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: if someone is giving you low vibe energy, So anyone

513
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 1: like this, they're obviously low vibe because they wouldn't fucking

514
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 1: comment something like this, so they're low vibe. She said,

515
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: you can reach out a hand and see if they

516
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 1: want to come up with you, but if they don't

517
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: take it, you're not stepping down. So that's also another thing.

518
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: This comment I didn't reply to, yeah, because I'm like, nah,

519
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: I'm not stepping down to your vibration, bro, to try

520
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 1: and justify it.

521
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know why broh.

522
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,719
Speaker 1: Hang around not stepping down? Bro?

523
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 2: Why we like this?

524
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: I'm getting like so into the energy. But that's why

525
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: I didn't reply to that comment, because I just I

526
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 1: could see right through it and I was like, oh, no, babe,

527
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: not going to that vibration. Yeah, so I didn't even

528
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 1: go down there because I could tell it was really

529
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: down there and I'm not going down. I'm only going up.

530
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 2: I love that so much.

531
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: Isn't that so cool to think of? And another thing

532
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 1: happened where I got a text from someone and it

533
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: was just it was not appropriate, like the boundary was

534
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: completely crossed, and I could tell this person who just

535
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 1: wanted to have a fight and in the past their

536
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 1: personality and persona is they do want to have a fight,

537
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 1: And so I literally thought that and I thought, oh no,

538
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 1: I'm not going down there. So literally just didn't message back.

539
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, boundaries, you actually don't get to

540
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: message me like that, and I'm not entertaining that low vibration.

541
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,719
Speaker 2: I love it, Okay.

542
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: So then after that, yeah, the last thing is you

543
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: need to neutralize it and you need to go you know,

544
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: like I did hear it. It's like, no, I did

545
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 1: this in integrity with who I am. That's obviously triggered

546
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 1: and upset someone and that's fine, but you need to

547
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 1: be neutral about it and be like yeah, okay, And

548
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: then can you see as you do that process and

549
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 1: those steps, you're like, oh, doesn't affect me, there's actually

550
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: nothing to do with me.

551
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 2: I see where you're coming from.

552
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 1: So let's now that we've kind of got a process,

553
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: let's unpack the next one. So this one I actually

554
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 1: saw in an anonymous question box done on Instagram by

555
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: an influencer account, the influencer dot updates dot au. I

556
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: love her, me too. So she's so neutral, she is

557
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 1: the best.

558
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 2: She's a matter of fact, she put up one of

559
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 2: those I don't even know what it's called, like NNGV

560
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 2: whatever links where people can send anonymous questions and she

561
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 2: can respond to them on her Instagram stories. Yep. So

562
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 2: someone wrote Ken Georgie Stevenson stop with her spamy courses

563
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,959
Speaker 2: and posting about them. Twenty four to seven. Her courses

564
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 2: are being compared to MLM and apparently she's ripped off

565
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: a book two. You are a badass at making money.

566
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 2: She's not a master manifesto. She's just a big scam

567
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:50,719
Speaker 2: and everyone's been reporting her ads as spam.

568
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: So you've obviously told me this. Yes, let's not pretend

569
00:31:57,600 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 1: I love this so much and when you guys show

570
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: me this, we literally all fucking cact up. So let's

571
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 1: unpack this. Yeah, first of all, let's just look at

572
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: the context of I don't understand how it's spammed because

573
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: you pay and there's seven weeks of content.

574
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 2: You mean, it's not you pay your money and nothing

575
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 2: nothing happens. Could you imagine it was just like psych.

576
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: And then also I don't really get the MLM comment

577
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: need to do I are you making commissions in trouble?

578
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: I know, like, are you somehow taking Is that what

579
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 1: an MLM? So? MLM isbon Yeah, why heading on?

580
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 2: I personally have almost been pulled into an MLM.

581
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 1: I on it, like, I reckon, if you you do,

582
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: you like, if you want to do an MLM amazing.

583
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 2: Basically it is is like network marketing schemes where you

584
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 2: have someone at the top and then they'll bring people

585
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 2: into the marketing scheme and then they make a percentage

586
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 2: commission on whatever that person below them make. So basically

587
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,719
Speaker 2: what you end up with is this massive they call

588
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 2: them pyramid schemes. Yes, yeah, the people It obviously works

589
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 2: for some people and doesn't for others because it's like

590
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 2: flexible income and that sort of stuff. And I know, but.

591
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 1: I don't understand how that relates.

592
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 2: Well, it doesn't, okay, because it's not definitely not an

593
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 2: em No one's making the money except me.

594
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 1: That's why I'm like a tear. Are you doing some

595
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 1: sneaky snow? Like, I know you get paid, you did

596
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: a wage. Are you doing some side deal? Shit?

597
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 2: Oh you got me.

598
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: So anyway, that doesn't make any sense. But also love that,

599
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: and also I am a master manifesto.

600
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 2: I think the most interesting part of the hate in

601
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 2: this one is that they feel you've ripped off a book.

602
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,479
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, let's talk about that.

603
00:33:58,800 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

604
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 1: So we were actually talking about this in the office

605
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 1: and we thought it was so funny because I was like,

606
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 1: I just think it's so interesting because in the project

607
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 1: I say go and listen to that book. Not just

608
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 1: in the project, I kind of.

609
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 2: Say it everybody, Yeah, it's one of your favorite books.

610
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 2: That's what I mean.

611
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 1: If I had plagiarized a book, I wouldn't be recommending it.

612
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,280
Speaker 2: No exactly, does that make sense?

613
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 1: And also like the concepts of manifesting, not that like

614
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,360
Speaker 1: it's not like they're well they are, they're generally the

615
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 1: same concepts, but what's going to make the difference is

616
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 1: how you learn it and how you implement it into

617
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: your life. And then so, for example, why so many

618
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 1: and like why we have such amazing reviews is because

619
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 1: I have turned Manifesting relatable to me and so many

620
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:57,760
Speaker 1: other people are like me. They're Australian, they're a young female,

621
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:02,840
Speaker 1: you know, they have certain aspiration. Juneing. Yeah, it was

622
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: like that beautiful quote you said about like teaching the

623
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 1: other day that your mom.

624
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 2: Says, oh, yeah, like you can have someone try to

625
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 2: teach you a concept over and over and over again,

626
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,839
Speaker 2: and it's not just gonna read, it's not gonna hit you.

627
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:21,760
Speaker 2: But as soon as you hear it from the person

628
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 2: that was put on this earth that was meant to

629
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 2: teach you, that it will change your life. And she actually,

630
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 2: the first time she said that to me was when

631
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:30,840
Speaker 2: I did the project, because I came and I started

632
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 2: telling you all these things I was learning and that

633
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,439
Speaker 2: I love. She's like, I've been saying it the whole time.

634
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: I feel like, no, Georgie said it.

635
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like Georgie said it.

636
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: Georgie actually made these concepts. Guys, I didn't make manifesting

637
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:50,359
Speaker 1: up and I want to stress has and like I

638
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 1: have been stressing that. Yeah, but that's why the course.

639
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,359
Speaker 1: And that's even like if you even think about our

640
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:58,959
Speaker 1: marketing a tear, like one of the things we say

641
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 1: is if you enjoy me as a person, if you

642
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: get a lot from the podcast, like and if you

643
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 1: feel cold, if you feel colled, like that is the

644
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: vibe because that would be the universe bringing you closer

645
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:17,319
Speaker 1: to this piece of content so you can learn and

646
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 1: evolve and get to the next level. That's why exactly

647
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 1: it's so important to go after your intuition because that's

648
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: even like like I've read books that other people like

649
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 1: this book changed my life and I've read it and

650
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: I'm like average, yeah, because it didn't resonate with me. Yeah,

651
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: so it's like you're always going to you know, have

652
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 1: those moments. Anyway, we're digressing, Well, let's talk about this comment.

653
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: So this person obviously I'm not gonna like project what

654
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: their projections are because I just don't know. Yeah, And

655
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: it's like, obviously they have a lot of how does

656
00:36:56,040 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 1: Georgie have these things? This community? It's not real, she

657
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 1: doesn't deserve it. There's a lot of like deserving sort

658
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: of things. And so my thing is she's probably got

659
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:12,399
Speaker 1: a lot of like self worth issues that kind of underlying, well,

660
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 1: she doesn't deserve it. How come she gets those things?

661
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 2: That's so true?

662
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:20,800
Speaker 1: Or I don't know, fox me what's going on? But again,

663
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: do you not see like I even read that comment

664
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: and I'm like, babe, that's so much about what's going

665
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: on with you and your life and nothing.

666
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 2: To do with me.

667
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, because my courses have the most amazing reviews and

668
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,879
Speaker 1: we have the most amazing community, and I feel very

669
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 1: integral with what I'm putting out there. So that is, like,

670
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 1: for example, a comment that did not trigger me at

671
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: all because all the things she's talked about, there's nothing

672
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 1: you mean, yeah, you way through it. When you told me,

673
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: I literally laughed because I was like, uh, whereas there

674
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: are certain things that will trigger me. Yeah, which again,

675
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that comment is true. It just means

676
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: because that's another thing, is like you know, when you

677
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 1: do get something that upset to you and you know

678
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 1: your partner or your family are like why are you

679
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 1: letting it bother you?

680
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 2: Who cares?

681
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? But it bothered you. I hate when that happens

682
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:21,839
Speaker 1: because it's like, because I have some healing and some

683
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 1: wounds to do that, and it's like it's really important

684
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: to see these you know, mean things, all these nasty

685
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 1: comments as really beautiful learning experiences for ourselves. And so

686
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 1: that's like, that's for example, a comment where I'm like, oh, sorry, brutal,

687
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 1: I thought, Oh, and then you know what else I thought,

688
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 1: And this is I'm just gonna say it. Imagine being

689
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: that low vibe. Imagine I know, I like, I genuinely

690
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 1: I thought, I feel so sorry for that person because

691
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:05,799
Speaker 1: imagine their frequency. And I just thought, oh, yeah, if

692
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:10,320
Speaker 1: you literally just gave your energy to improving what's happening

693
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 1: in here and stop projecting and deflecting on everyone or

694
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 1: like literally randoms you don't know, imagine how you could

695
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,879
Speaker 1: improve your life. Like if you're true, seriously, someone who

696
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 1: gets so fired up about someone you literally don't know

697
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: personally and you go and post on you know, hate

698
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 1: fucking groups or forums and stuff like your frequency, like wow,

699
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: that is like there's some stuff going on. And if

700
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: you can turn that towards like yourself and be like,

701
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 1: what is actually happening in here. Yeah, you're going to

702
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 1: get so much further because that thing is like someone

703
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: doing that is such a low vibe they will only

704
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,879
Speaker 1: ever attract low vibe things. And then of course she's

705
00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:01,879
Speaker 1: gonna think manifesting's the scam. You mean, maybe fucking raise

706
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:09,720
Speaker 1: your vibe? Whoa was that too? Brutal?

707
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:15,359
Speaker 2: Brutal? But I love it all right, I just got

708
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 2: a bit excited. But also I can say that look

709
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 2: what she's saying that, yeah, exactly, exactly.

710
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 1: Just never been this controversial before.

711
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 2: Look to your new new era.

712
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 1: We're not doing our lines.

713
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 2: No, that's true. So I'm going to use like a

714
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 2: different example to what actually happened, because I don't want

715
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,879
Speaker 2: to give away who said it. Was it about me?

716
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 1: No?

717
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 2: Okay, this is like an everyday example of getting hate

718
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 2: okay love. So for example, what's like what happened? I

719
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:57,720
Speaker 2: wanted to buy a new car, and one of my friends,

720
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 2: who bought a new car before, or is in the

721
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 2: process of buying a new car, said to me, oh

722
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 2: my gosh, like, you're never going to get the loan

723
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 2: approved for that. We like, I had to do it

724
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 2: with my boyfriend. We've got the loan approved together, You're

725
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 2: just not going to get the loan approved in this

726
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 2: climate for a brand new car. How how would you

727
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 2: like alone? Because I didn't have an ex second, did

728
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 2: that trigger you anymore? Yes? But that's like that I

729
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 2: address Like, I was like, this is obviously a trigger

730
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 2: for me that I need to work.

731
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 1: So you addressed the first point of what's this triggering

732
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:33,320
Speaker 1: inside me?

733
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I couldn't get my head around the projecting

734
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 2: thing because I'm like, you've you've done it, You've bought

735
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 2: a brand new car, So why are you telling me

736
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 2: that I can't?

737
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 1: Well, don't you think it?

738
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:42,800
Speaker 2: Though?

739
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: She sees that she's different to you, So in her

740
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: mind you're on different levels. So she's like I can

741
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:55,719
Speaker 1: do it, you can't. So that is like like I'm

742
00:41:55,760 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 1: below her or different. Yeah, So in her mind she

743
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 1: has like maybe it's like this weird thing of like

744
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: she's done certain things so she deserves that thing, Yeah,

745
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: where maybe you hadn't. So then she's projecting, oh no,

746
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: you won't get that loan.

747
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. Interesting, that's what.

748
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 1: I could kind of come up with. Yeah, without knowing

749
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:18,760
Speaker 1: this person.

750
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, or like because I feel like that's something that

751
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,800
Speaker 2: kind of happens across the board with lots of different

752
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 2: things that people try to do in their life. Where

753
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 2: you might have a friend it's done it and then

754
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 2: they tell you you can't for this, this and this reason,

755
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 2: and it's coming from a place of care because it's

756
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,279
Speaker 2: they've been through the process and they know how it

757
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 2: works kind of thing. So in that I would have

758
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:38,959
Speaker 2: thought that too, and just being like, oh, I think

759
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:43,800
Speaker 2: she's you know, projecting on what she thinks in this situation.

760
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,959
Speaker 2: And again it has nothing to do with me, and like.

761
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: That could also just be advice. Yeah, and it's fine,

762
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 1: but if she said it in like a weird way

763
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,440
Speaker 1: where you're like, this is weird. Yeah, not just like

764
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:55,840
Speaker 1: general financial advice.

765
00:42:56,000 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, but is general financial advice like that

766
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:07,399
Speaker 2: not from the financial advisor. Also just keeping someone small, yes, so.

767
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 1: But that's it. I don't think she meant to keep

768
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 1: you snow. It's just she has limiting beliefs an yeah,

769
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: like it was an intentional hate no no, And that's

770
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: and that's a lot of things like for example, that

771
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:21,600
Speaker 1: first comment I read out, I like she I don't

772
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: think she was like I think she was generally trying

773
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: to let me, know, as being tone deaf for other

774
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 1: probably she probably doesn't see anything wrong with it. I'm like,

775
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,760
Speaker 1: oh no, that's not okay to say to me, because yes, exactly,

776
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: and everyone has like different stuff going on internally, and honestly,

777
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: like life really changes when you have this concept where

778
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:46,800
Speaker 1: you no longer let the things people say to you

779
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 1: get to you personally because you were so solid in

780
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 1: who you are and your integrity and what you're about

781
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 1: that it's like, this is actually just let's talk on

782
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: a broader sense, something I've really been thinking about lately.

783
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:04,720
Speaker 1: It's just like I want you guys to think about,

784
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 1: like what sort of things do you judge other people about?

785
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: Because I think that's going to show you a lot

786
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 1: of your mirrors because often, and this is again this

787
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 1: is getting into like a bit of shadow work and stuff,

788
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: but like often you know, someone will throw hate or

789
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 1: throw negative negativity on a trait that you have that

790
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 1: they either deem as you know, quote unquote bad, but

791
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 1: it's something that they secretly want to express. So for example,

792
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: you know that comment about me showing up on Instagram

793
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: and talking about you know, being the creative director is

794
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: maybe that person doesn't give her permission to show up

795
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 1: authentically online.

796
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe she's nervous too, so.

797
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 1: Me being like this is who I am triggers her.

798
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:05,960
Speaker 1: So a lot of the time, what we feel judgment

799
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:09,360
Speaker 1: in other people is it's trying to show us parts

800
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 1: of ourselves that either we actually secretly desire and we

801
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 1: feel shit about it and we haven't integrated that part

802
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: of ourselves.

803
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:21,360
Speaker 2: Wow.

804
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really complicated.

805
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 2: That is deep.

806
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 1: But I just something really beautiful you can start doing

807
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: is just having some awareness when you do judge other

808
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,840
Speaker 1: people and being like, oh, why did I just do that,

809
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 1: and then unpacking that. I love that, and that being

810
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,880
Speaker 1: like a little nudge of where maybe you need to

811
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: like heal some wounds unblock yourself, because that's what I

812
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,800
Speaker 1: mean is like I can see from that girl's comment

813
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:52,280
Speaker 1: she is only limiting herself. Yeah, she would have beliefs

814
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: about how to act online, how much she can earn,

815
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 1: and certain things that are and especially like there's a

816
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 1: huge belief there about the current climate and what you

817
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 1: know she can earn or how she can be. Yeah,

818
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 1: and that is like all those things are going to

819
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:11,799
Speaker 1: be so limiting for her, not me. So your judgments

820
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: are very much trying to show you where you're probably

821
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: limiting yourself.

822
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 2: WHOA, yeah, I love that.

823
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:24,720
Speaker 1: It's it's kind of hard because your sort of circumstances

824
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 1: and guys, sorry keep interruption.

825
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 2: We don't remember what we were saying.

826
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: We really need our own studio. Teer, can we build

827
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: like just like a cute box outside or something, And

828
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, have a lock on it so no one

829
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: can come in.

830
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 2: I feel like we hit the box.

831
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 1: So the last hate comment we're gonna pack yes and

832
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 1: turn into some content is I got a comment just

833
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 1: about being a working mum. So this person was like,

834
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 1: I did a day in the life, I mean, sorry,

835
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,760
Speaker 1: a day on the plate. And she just said, basically

836
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 1: the whole thing was I can't call myself a working

837
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 1: mom because you have Tim, because I have Tim, So

838
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm just a working.

839
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 2: Just working literally, that's no jok card she said it.

840
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: I was like, what anyway, it doesn't really matter about

841
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:23,360
Speaker 1: her week comment. First of all, this did trigger me

842
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 1: because interesting, there's definitely parts of being a working mum

843
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:33,280
Speaker 1: that I am working through and still currently now because

844
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 1: I grew up with a stay at home mum, so

845
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: my and this is I'm like any judgments are always

846
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 1: because you do not fit into either what was modeled

847
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 1: to them or their box. Oh so she has a

848
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:54,359
Speaker 1: judgment towards me. Henwait, first of all triggered me being

849
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:56,359
Speaker 1: triggered because I grew up with a stay at home

850
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 1: mum and a working dad, a very like a traditional family,

851
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 1: and so there is a lot of limiting beliefs and

852
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 1: kind of me reprogramming and remodeling how I do life

853
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 1: because it's different to how I grew up, Whereas a

854
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:14,399
Speaker 1: lot of people don't have that self awareness and they

855
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:17,879
Speaker 1: just think how they grew up is exactly how life

856
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:21,319
Speaker 1: should be for everyone else, and if you don't fit

857
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: into their ideal of whatever it is.

858
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 2: You're wrong. Yeah.

859
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 1: So this person, like in the comments again, I didn't

860
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 1: comment back to this, and other people commented back, and

861
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: in the comments I saw basically she was having a

862
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:40,279
Speaker 1: go because her partner works and she works, but she

863
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,359
Speaker 1: also looks after the children while she works. So I'm

864
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: guessing she's at home and does it during their naps

865
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,239
Speaker 1: or I don't know how. Yeah, so she's got the.

866
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 2: No I do more.

867
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: I'm the proper version of a working mom or whatever

868
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 1: her definition is in her mind. So I didn't fit

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Speaker 1: her definition, so she was like.

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Speaker 2: Therefore you aren't.

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00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, interesting, So isn't that interesting? And exactly like when

872
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:10,120
Speaker 1: I can pack that, I'm like, oh, it's actually nothing

873
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: to do with me.

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00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you feel better. That actually makes so

875
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 2: much sense. And that's probably where a lot of people

876
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 2: trip up, is that they look at someone and they go, oh, well, no,

877
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 2: you're not a mum because you didn't give birth to

878
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 2: that kid, like bonus moms and that sort of stuff

879
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 2: where they've raised the kid but it's not their kid.

880
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 2: And someone will go, you can never call yourself a

881
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 2: mum because you haven't had a kid. But it's like

882
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 2: that's just their definition of what a mum is.

883
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 1: And that's what I mean is judgment is them trying

884
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 1: to place themselves in the world. Them trying to see

885
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 1: where they fit on the hierarchy or just where they sit. Yeah,

886
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 1: and we all, you know, want to do that. It's

887
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 1: so natural. But it's the beautiful thing of when someone

888
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: is throwing hate or judgment towards you if you can

889
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,360
Speaker 1: use these tools and really see it from that perspective.

890
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 1: So like the alternative a tea is I comment back

891
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 1: to both of those comments, and I'm like, I'm a

892
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:09,839
Speaker 1: fucking working mom. How dare you, Bobba blow the fuck up?

893
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 1: Blow my day up?

894
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,959
Speaker 2: You know, like, yeah, can you jump ten steps down

895
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 2: on the ladder of line?

896
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: Correct? Can you not see how? Then conflict and drama

897
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: just continues because then I'd be pissed off and I'd

898
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: probably go home and be pissed off to tim or

899
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 1: like That's just like it just evolves so much. And

900
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 1: when we can take ourselves out at that very start

901
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 1: moment and have so much awareness for what is actually

902
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,800
Speaker 1: happening in that moment, which has everything to do about

903
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 1: that person, nothing to do with you, you really have

904
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 1: so much more power. That's why when people through we

905
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: hate comments, I'm like, you're just giving away your power

906
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: because this literally means nothing to me, and you've just

907
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 1: taken time out of your day. Do you mean, yeah,

908
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 1: just given away your power. I generally feel sorry for them.

909
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

910
00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:04,359
Speaker 1: So it's like imagine if we get and don't get

911
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: me wrong, like I still get triggered, I still get

912
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 1: moments roun'd like in my head and stuff. God, I'm like,

913
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 1: I'm still human and going through the work. But like

914
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: I've been really getting into this, and I honestly believe

915
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 1: all those comments were for me to unpack you know,

916
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 1: these you know things, because since those comments, I have

917
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: been journaling and being like, oh, that's so interesting. I've

918
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 1: still got you know, things about being a working mom

919
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: or you know this, and that I'm still you know,

920
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 1: getting on the frequency of eight figures blah blah blah.

921
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 1: And it's been really it's been beautiful for me. Yeah,

922
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 1: and it's been so good for my self development. Wow,

923
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:47,240
Speaker 1: is not interesting. I'm like love it. Bit of fun anyway,

924
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 1: And I really wanted to explain that because I've been

925
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 1: really into this. It's so interesting how people think and

926
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 1: how they project judgment and what's actually going on and

927
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: if we can utilize that, just how much power we

928
00:51:59,239 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 1: can have.

929
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 2: Hm, whoa, Yeah, I'm bent mind blowing. It's cool. Hey.

930
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's like any time that you know, get

931
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 1: some judgment or something like, come and tell me and

932
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: let's unpack it together and neutralize it. Yeah, I love it.

933
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 2: I start making a listen.

934
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 1: Like a tear store, just like eating out of my

935
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: door one on ones every day. Well, guys, thank you

936
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 1: so much for listening. And I do want to say, like,

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00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 1: I Also another thing that I do is when I'm

938
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 1: you know, getting judgment or hey comments or something like that,

939
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 1: I also send that person love. So literally like and

940
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,319
Speaker 1: try and try and send someone love and then not

941
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 1: feel love yourself. So you know, in that moment, I've

942
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: neutralized it, I've unpacked it, and I will literally be

943
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 1: like I generally like I feel sorry for that person,

944
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:56,719
Speaker 1: and I generally I send them love. Wow, And then

945
00:52:57,000 --> 00:53:00,279
Speaker 1: like that brings the vibes up for me, yeah, and

946
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 1: keeps me in the high vibe frequency. So want you

947
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 1: guys to try this today and if you're getting some

948
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: judgment or things that happened in the past, do this

949
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,839
Speaker 1: process and send that person some love. I love it.

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00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Bye, Thank you so much for

951
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: listening to another episode of the Rise and Conquer podcast.

952
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