WEBVTT - Here’s the missing piece to make 2023 your best year yet 💫 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.440 The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.720 the land which this episode is being recorded, the yugen 0:00:07.720 --> 0:00:12.200 Bah region. We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:16.000 connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:19.640 to their elders past and present and extend that respect 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:33.199 to all Aboriginal and terrestrid Islander peoples today. Hello, and 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:36.600 welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:49.560 the podcast for ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things, 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:57.360 completely leaning into uncertainty, completely surrendering and completely going. 0:00:57.840 --> 0:01:01.920 I'm ready for the mystery. Are you excited? 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:04.880 I'm excited for you, but I'm like, I don't know 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:06.760 if I could do that myself yet. 0:01:15.040 --> 0:01:18.680 Hello guys, and welcome back to the Rise and Conker Podcast. 0:01:18.840 --> 0:01:23.520 It is your host, Georgie Stevenson, lawyer turned entrepreneur, business owner, 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:28.720 new mum all the things. Today's episode we are chatting 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:33.520 about something that makes my inner control freak get a 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:39.200 bit crazy, and that's uncertainty. Oh thanks for those sound 0:01:39.200 --> 0:01:39.920 effects here. 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:41.280 Ps. 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:46.200 Guys, I hope you're all getting ready for your last 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:49.360 day of work or I hope you finished and ready 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:52.440 for the best Christmas festive holiday ever. 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:54.720 Oh my gosh, Merry Christmas Eve. 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:56.840 Eve and Happy Holidays. 0:01:56.920 --> 0:02:01.240 Yes, but I was so Jehovah's witness, Like we couldn't 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:02.680 say Mary Christmas, so. 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:08.480 Just like happy are you similar? Like or do you 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:09.359 say Mary Christmas? 0:02:09.360 --> 0:02:09.480 Oh? 0:02:09.520 --> 0:02:10.880 I just say because everybody. 0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:15.919 Yeah, people celebrate it, so I'm open to celebrating with them, 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:16.160 you know. 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:19.680 Yeah, I love that. Yeah, So sorry, back to it. 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:23.320 So, guys, I've mentioned this in a previous episode, but 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:27.560 this episode's all about uncertainty, and I've done a lot 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:31.480 of inner work to prepare for next year and it 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:35.200 is completely different to anything I've ever done before. 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:37.760 Obviously, I'm gonna fully get into it in the. 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:42.200 Episode, but basically, for the first time, I am not 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:46.639 planning my whole year. I am leaning into uncertainty, leaning 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:51.839 into mystery, and kind of not filling up my year. 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:55.639 So there is spaces for the universe to like do its. 0:02:55.400 --> 0:03:01.839 Thing, and I'm having full, full body fucking trust. I'm 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:05.800 go excited and it's like I finally feel excited about this. 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:08.600 But this is something if you're a control freak or 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:10.680 if you're just you're a planner, you like to know 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:13.799 how things go so human of us. This episode is 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:16.520 probably going to grind you the wrong way, but listen, 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:20.200 just have a listen, see how you feel. Because I'm 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:23.880 really really excited for this new year and this kind 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:28.400 of new leaning into uncertainty and really looking at things 0:03:28.919 --> 0:03:31.600 differently and then what is going to happen. 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:35.120 Because of that. But because this is our last recording 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:37.120 session for the year, I do want to let you 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:40.080 guys know we do have two epps coming over the holiday, 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:42.080 not two EPs. Sorry, EPs. 0:03:44.200 --> 0:03:46.640 We've got all the Epps we have pre planned for you, 0:03:46.840 --> 0:03:47.720 so don't worry. 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:49.720 There's going to be episodes. Look a Tea has been 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:51.440 slaving away. 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:55.760 She's been working a little butt off for you guys 0:03:55.800 --> 0:04:01.640 to have content, so please listen. But no, we've got 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:06.080 some fun epps happening over the festive season, so look 0:04:06.200 --> 0:04:07.880 out on your potty feed. 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:09.280 And there's a. 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:11.200 Couple of different ones too, so I hope you guys 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:11.880 enjoyed that. 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:16.080 But before we get into today's episode, a tear recommendations. 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:20.159 I'm going so rogue because it's the holidays and we're 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:24.360 not doing recommendations for a while. So I've got two yeah. 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:27.600 And I'm just reiterating the avatar the way of the water. Yes, 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:29.680 you said that, but. 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:34.400 Then my actual two recommendations are, so you've got three. Yeah, interesting, 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:37.920 have an epsom salt bath. I has this come from. 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:40.400 I wasn't feeling great on Monday and my legs are 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:42.600 really sore, and then I went home and I had 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:47.240 an epsom salt bath and I've never felt better. Genuinely 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:49.479 thought I was getting sick. And then now i'm. 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:52.200 Chip is a bird? Is that the fray? Chip is 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.039 a bird? I don't know. I don't think so, but anyway, 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:56.800 I know what you mean. Yeah, I haven't done one 0:04:57.040 --> 0:04:58.760 in years. Yeah, I needed to. 0:04:58.720 --> 0:05:01.120 Do them, though I can't remember when I stopped, and 0:05:01.160 --> 0:05:04.440 I never I've never done one with the epsom salts 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:07.400 from the pharmacy. I used to use the ccentered ones, 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:10.800 but these ones were like magnesium epsom salts, and I 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:15.080 just felt amazing love. So that's my one recommendation. 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:17.080 You know what it did? It probably like cleared a 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:18.599 lot of like gross energy. 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:22.040 Yeah, for sure, that's exactly how I felt after, and 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:23.680 just like very relaxed. 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:26.080 And at peace. Magnesium would have really got you in 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:28.240 that ste Yeah, that's. 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:33.640 Pretty good and then my second one. I've recently discovered 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:36.960 that not everyone who's watched the National Treasure franchise. You're 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:41.160 looking at me like you have it. It's got Nicholas 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:44.279 Cage in it. Oh, yes, you've seen them. They're like 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:45.440 Treasure Hunt movies. 0:05:45.839 --> 0:05:47.760 Yeah, I feel like I've only seen the first couple. 0:05:48.160 --> 0:05:50.400 There's two, there's only two. Yeah, I seen them. 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:56.080 That's my recommendation. There's also a theories part of it 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:58.880 that just came out on Disney Plus, which is pretty good. 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:03.000 But yeah, my recommendation is those two movies. Okay, they're 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:05.560 quite old, aren't they. They are very old, but they're 0:06:05.600 --> 0:06:09.040 just so good. What's his name, Nicholas Cage. Yeah, I enjoy. 0:06:08.920 --> 0:06:09.760 Him me too. 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:15.240 It's pretty What are your recommendations? 0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:16.760 Yeah, let me give you a couple. 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:21.080 So we've already given the Megan and Harry we loved, Yes, 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:26.320 tick that off the liss Oh okay, very excited. I 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:34.400 absolutely consumed this. I just finish The White Lotus on Binch. Oh. 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:39.200 I have you seen season one? I haven't, but OD 0:06:41.200 --> 0:06:42.360 said I needed to watch it. 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:44.400 Oh my god, you would love it a tear. It's 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:49.200 it's kind of so season one and season two, you 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:52.560 wouldn't actually need to watch season one first because they're different. 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:55.080 They're different stories. Yeah, they're different stories, so it doesn't 0:06:55.080 --> 0:06:57.320 actually matter. It's so interesting. 0:06:57.440 --> 0:07:02.800 It's almost odd, like it's a very they just do 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:07.400 things differently, Like I find moments where in other TV 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:10.280 shows like it would just chop and go to someone else, 0:07:10.320 --> 0:07:13.680 but it's like it lingers, and there's lots of music, 0:07:13.720 --> 0:07:17.720 and there's lots of like not dramatics, but what's that 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:20.400 kind of word. There's lots of like, yeah, maybe dramatics. 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:22.560 Like there's a lot of drama. Like everything is like 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:25.320 emphasized with the music and the. 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:27.200 Like in the production of it. 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:30.400 Yeah, and the b roll production. Yeah, production wise, I 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:31.600 think you would appreciate it. 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:34.200 I will watch it. There's a lot to it, and. 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:39.520 Just like the storyline, it's almost very real, very real, 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:42.520 real scenarios that's like not a lot of people would 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:43.000 talk about. 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:46.320 So yeah, I remember thinking that in season one. Season 0:07:46.400 --> 0:07:48.760 two is almost like a bit more I don't want 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:50.960 to say un realistic because this is what I mean. 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:55.160 Who knows, but it's so interesting. So concept they go 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:58.080 to So White Lotus is a hotel. So the first 0:07:58.080 --> 0:08:01.920 season's like Maui, and then the second season sicily. 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:06.240 Apparently the third one's gonna be filmed here. Oh, I 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:08.120 would love to film I'd love. 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:12.320 To be in it. Should I become an actor, you'd 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:15.280 love to film it? I'd love to film it. I'm joking. 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:18.480 But anyway, So they go to a hotel and then 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:22.080 you follow and it's only seven days, so there's only 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:25.440 seven episodes an episode of day, but you follow like 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:28.800 what each family or people are doing, and it's just 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:32.760 so interesting because some overlap, some don't. They've got fucking 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:37.840 shit going on. And I fucking love theo James. Oh 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:39.480 me too, I'm obsessed with him. 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:41.600 Did you watch Divergent? Yeah? 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:44.880 Yeah, I was fucking obsessed with that show, like literally 0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:49.800 obsessed with him. He would be my whole buzz really, yes, wow, 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:52.320 I'm obsessed with him. I don't love his character in 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:54.160 this season, but he plays it so well. 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:56.719 Oh I love that. 0:08:57.080 --> 0:09:00.520 Any of the res guys just fucking take a break. 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:02.120 It's my recommendation. 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:08.960 I'm feeling so ready for the holidays, and in that though, 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:12.640 it's because we are completely prepping so we can all 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:14.000 actually take a break. 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:14.440 I know. 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:16.600 So a big thing I want to do of these 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:19.040 holidays is like, actually not be on my phone. If 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:21.280 I jump on my stories to you guys, fucking tell 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:22.960 me to get off, because. 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:25.599 No, I actually just love doing that. 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:28.840 But yeah, I'm just like I really want to, like 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:31.199 I want to have days where I put my phone 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:35.000 in a draw, no phone days, yeah, and like really 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:37.080 shut off and really be present. And I'm just like 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:38.480 really craving that time. 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:41.199 So yeah, that's my recommendation. Was a bit of a 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:44.120 red your phone. Yeah, I might do it. No phone 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:45.400 day on the holidays, just one. 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:47.960 Yeah, I don't think you can do any more than 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:51.960 And I'm excited for like we're not going away, but 0:09:52.000 --> 0:09:55.160 we're just like I want to do adventurous stuff, cute. 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:56.200 We want to go to the. 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:58.560 Beach and like go to rock pools and go to 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:00.640 the hinterland and just like do stuff like that with 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:01.360 Ivy and Tim. 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:04.480 Oh, and also catch up with like girlfriends because I've 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:06.840 been neglecting them. Yeah. 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:19.800 Anyway, in that, let's get into the show. Well, let's 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:25.720 chat uncertainty and surrender, because these are I feel like 0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:29.319 everyone struggles with this. Do you struggle with this? 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:32.800 A tear? Yes, But apparently I've been told them a 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:33.640 control freaks. 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:38.439 So look, we're much like I tend to like attract control. 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:42.200 I think it's because they're really good at their job. 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:48.240 Usually true, I'm fine with it unless literally, unless you're Tim. 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:53.000 I feel like you would struggle with uncertainty and surrender. 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:57.320 Tim is such a chill cucumber that he's like absolutely 0:10:57.360 --> 0:10:59.880 embraces it, and that's his vibe. But if you're a 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:02.760 normal person like me and a tea and everyone else, 0:11:03.160 --> 0:11:10.959 I guarantee you you could do with surrendering and really 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:15.840 welcoming mystery. And that's how I want to kind of 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:21.080 turn uncertainty and like, really, because uncertainty straight away, I'm 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:24.319 like negative feelings. I get triggered. I literally I am triggered, 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:31.120 bringing on trauma, hyperventilate exactly. But it's like, what if 0:11:31.160 --> 0:11:37.000 we saw uncertainty as like beautiful mystery. 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:37.640 And like magic. 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:41.200 I think Disney movies vibe. 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:43.520 So, guys, the whole reason. 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:45.840 This topic has come up that I really want to 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:48.960 just do a good old reef and rant on it 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:53.320 is because a couple of weeks back, I went on 0:11:54.080 --> 0:11:56.360 a one night actually it was two nights away to 0:11:56.600 --> 0:12:01.920 Crystal Book Byron Bay, which was beautiful, and the first 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:04.480 night I was by myself and I really just use 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:07.960 that to like relax and unwind and really get to 0:12:08.000 --> 0:12:11.280 a place where I like felt like my nervous system 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:16.440 could actually be like, Okay, I'm safe, I can chill 0:12:16.480 --> 0:12:20.240 the fuck out. And then the second night, my bestie 0:12:20.280 --> 0:12:24.240 joined me. And she has been my best friend fourteen years. 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:27.600 So we've known each other since we were fourteen. And 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:30.280 it's funny because we've both been on our own like 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:33.360 self development journeys, but we've always done like at least 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:37.280 an annual sleepover where we It hasn't always been planning 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:40.640 like I'm sure there were a few nights out there for. 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:43.040 A couple of years, but for the last couple. 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:47.240 Of years, it's like an annual sleepover where we you know, 0:12:47.600 --> 0:12:49.480 look at our year and we chat about it and 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:54.120 we plan our you know, next year. And so this 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:56.720 this time we decided to really be bougie and go 0:12:56.840 --> 0:12:59.200 away and really get in the bike. Because she's a 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:02.520 mom of two, I've obviously got ivy and it's a 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:04.360 little bit hard to do that when you you know, 0:13:04.520 --> 0:13:06.920 got children and husbands around. So it was such an 0:13:06.960 --> 0:13:11.120 amazing thing. Highly recommend and so what we did is 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:14.120 we actually went through so she wanted to go through 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:16.560 the workbooks of the do It for Your Future Self. 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:18.560 Course and how did you find them? Oh my god, 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:22.120 like she's obsessed. She's like, this is amazing. 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:25.320 And it was really cool because obviously the workbooks are 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:29.000 already created, were already created. Sorry, but it was really 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:32.160 good because I know we have gone through them and 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:34.839 you know, really reviewed them and everything. But it was 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:36.720 good because she was like my guinea pig, and I 0:13:36.880 --> 0:13:40.080 did tweak a couple of things. Oh so I love 0:13:40.160 --> 0:13:42.120 that made them even better and made sure like they're 0:13:42.240 --> 0:13:44.839 very impactful and kind of even reduce them a little 0:13:44.840 --> 0:13:47.280 bit so they're really like took the point and powerful, 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:49.920 so you're not just like kind of going off on tangents. 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:51.120 And so it's funny. 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:55.160 We joked that we spoke for eight hours straight because 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:56.160 she got there. 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:57.840 And then you know, we went better. At nine pm. 0:13:57.920 --> 0:14:01.880 Bet we literally worked through the world book like talking ooh, 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:05.240 I love that, and it was it was so helpful 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:07.480 because it was like a soundboard because I would like say, 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:09.760 you know, this is what I think, and then then 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:11.360 this is what I want, and then she would be 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:13.880 like oh that's interesting because blah blah blah, and we 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:16.040 would go back and forth and like I do meet 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:17.600 and then we'd do her and then we'd move on 0:14:17.640 --> 0:14:20.480 to the next workbook. So it was really really good, 0:14:20.520 --> 0:14:23.480 Like I had my little Google doc up and it 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:29.400 was amazing. I just I feel so clear on next year. 0:14:30.000 --> 0:14:32.920 And it's funny because there's a full twist in this 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:36.240 where next year is going to be the first year 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:41.520 that it is not fully planned out, and yet I 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:44.200 feel the most clear I ever have. 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:52.720 Wow, And that's because I realize I fall into this 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:55.880 trap where I don't like uncertainty. 0:14:56.560 --> 0:15:01.320 I don't like not feeling in control. So I almost, 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:05.080 you know, I create this illusion where I'm like, Okay, 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:07.720 well I'm gonna plan out my whole year. I'm gonna 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:12.480 know exactly what happens. And I cut myself short because 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:16.120 I'm not letting the universe do its thing and I'm 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:18.640 not surrendering, and I'm I guarantee you there would have 0:15:18.640 --> 0:15:20.520 been so many times when the universe is like, I've 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:23.840 literally got something amazing right here ready for you. But 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:27.760 because I am such a control freak and I'm so like, no, 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:29.000 it's got to go this way. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:34.080 It's like it's like you're almost limiting yourself, yes, from 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:35.920 anything else coming in, because. 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:37.800 You've decided this is as far as it's going. 0:15:37.880 --> 0:15:40.040 Yeah, this is how it's gonna go. And in saying that, 0:15:40.240 --> 0:15:44.480 you know, I'm obviously super like high achievement the way 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:46.840 of like I've achieved a lot and I have really 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:51.280 big goals. So I've never picked this up of myself 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:53.800 because like, I achieve what I want and I'm like, cool, 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:54.720 take it off the list. 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:56.840 But Sinder was the one who was. 0:15:56.840 --> 0:16:01.120 Like, I think you're seriously limiting your self because you 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:04.720 are so controlling of your achievements. And I was like, 0:16:04.920 --> 0:16:11.480 did you just mind fucking yeah? And anyway, so that 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:15.560 was like my huge aha moment was I feel like 0:16:15.600 --> 0:16:18.600 I'm really limiting myself because I try and control. And 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:23.120 my big thing about next year is I'm not planning 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:25.320 out the whole year. Of course, like you have to 0:16:25.360 --> 0:16:27.800 somewhat plan because we're humans and. 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:30.320 They're running a lot of businesses. You have a child, of. 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:34.880 Course, so like I am somewhat planned out, but the 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:40.000 vibe that I'm bringing into the new year is completely 0:16:40.240 --> 0:16:45.160 leaning into uncertainty, completely surrendering and completely going. 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:49.680 I'm ready for the mystery. Are you excited? 0:16:50.320 --> 0:16:52.640 I'm excited for you, But I'm like, I don't know 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:54.200 if I could do that for myself. 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:54.480 Yeah. 0:16:54.680 --> 0:16:57.760 Well this is the interesting thing because old Georgie couldn't 0:16:57.800 --> 0:16:58.080 do this. 0:16:58.480 --> 0:17:02.160 Yeah, one hundred and ten percent, So I really commitment. 0:17:02.400 --> 0:17:04.479 Well, I feel like this is my next level self. 0:17:04.960 --> 0:17:09.920 This is like my you know, new era of next level. 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:15.320 Georgie is leaning into uncertainty, is surrendering because she knows 0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:16.800 what she's really like. 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:18.320 Her big, big life. 0:17:18.680 --> 0:17:21.399 She literally cannot even imagine it, because that's what I 0:17:21.440 --> 0:17:24.720 said to Cinda. And I'm like, I'm really struggling to 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:28.520 envision my next level because everything I have right now 0:17:29.240 --> 0:17:32.440 is everything I've wanted. Yeah, and I know I say 0:17:32.440 --> 0:17:36.240 that from a complete place of like privilege. Yeah, and 0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:41.119 I might sound a bit privileged, but just in the 0:17:41.160 --> 0:17:44.439 way of like, I was really struggling with this whole 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:46.280 I need to get clear, but I don't know what 0:17:46.320 --> 0:17:48.760 my next level looks like. I feel like I'm, you know, 0:17:48.840 --> 0:17:52.520 living my dream life. And I went back to my 0:17:52.640 --> 0:17:56.000 manifestation list at the start of you know, twenty twenty two, 0:17:56.600 --> 0:18:00.439 and I've achieved everything I wanted, which is amazing, but 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:03.880 I have been left with this feeling of like this 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:09.000 year felt so frantic, frantic energy, crazy energy, and I 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:11.880 really want to step out of that and step into 0:18:12.560 --> 0:18:14.520 I might even just read my journal for we want 0:18:14.520 --> 0:18:16.760 to get really intimate. So the vibes I want to 0:18:16.760 --> 0:18:20.800 bring into the next year is like freedom and flexibility 0:18:21.080 --> 0:18:26.040 and really stepping into my next level self that I'm 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:30.359 yet too defined because it is so next level, if 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:34.880 that makes sense, and I don't want to limit myself. Yeah, 0:18:34.920 --> 0:18:39.240 so that was the vibe, and like you know, the 0:18:39.280 --> 0:18:42.680 first work book is all about like auditing your year, 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:47.040 so that was the biggest and that exercises are so 0:18:47.160 --> 0:18:50.480 powerful because I just I realized what I didn't want 0:18:51.240 --> 0:18:53.639 and so it's not about like being so clear on 0:18:53.720 --> 0:18:56.240 my goals. It's just like I don't want to feel 0:18:56.280 --> 0:18:58.240 like this. I want to feel like this, and I'm 0:18:58.280 --> 0:19:00.880 going to let the universe do it thing. So that's 0:19:00.920 --> 0:19:06.000 what brings me to chatting about uncertainty and surrender because 0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:11.439 it's it's funny because you know how things often play 0:19:11.600 --> 0:19:14.520 out are very I don't want to say random, but 0:19:14.680 --> 0:19:18.760 very like you can't foresee it, like you know, yeahn 0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:20.159 for instance, a tear like how. 0:19:20.000 --> 0:19:23.720 You got this job, or it's just happens. 0:19:23.760 --> 0:19:27.480 Like, yeah, it just happens and you cannot almost predict it. 0:19:28.240 --> 0:19:29.359 So isn't it so. 0:19:29.480 --> 0:19:33.359 Funny then that we constantly want to control it, and 0:19:33.400 --> 0:19:36.760 we constantly need an end, and we constantly. 0:19:36.640 --> 0:19:37.199 Need to know. 0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:40.840 Yet we have experienced and we know things happen in 0:19:41.080 --> 0:19:45.320 very unforeseen and often magical ways, but we like. 0:19:45.440 --> 0:19:51.280 We can't, we can't embrace that. It's I don't even 0:19:51.359 --> 0:19:52.160 know what to say. 0:19:52.920 --> 0:19:56.960 You're actually like over there, because it's like if you 0:19:57.000 --> 0:19:59.400 had asked me at the beginning of this year, if 0:19:59.440 --> 0:20:01.800 I was to have a new job, where would it be? 0:20:01.920 --> 0:20:04.760 I would never have ever in my life guessed that 0:20:04.800 --> 0:20:05.440 it would be here. 0:20:06.000 --> 0:20:10.240 Yeah, like being on the show producer of the show, 0:20:10.400 --> 0:20:16.600 Like yeah, oh, but then you you know, you're saying 0:20:16.600 --> 0:20:18.960 you're a control freak. So that's what I'm saying, Like, 0:20:19.119 --> 0:20:21.080 why can't you lean into the surrender? 0:20:21.440 --> 0:20:21.800 I know. 0:20:24.160 --> 0:20:25.080 It's right, you'll get that. 0:20:25.200 --> 0:20:26.440 Yeah, we'll get that. 0:20:26.440 --> 0:20:28.000 That'll be my goal for next year. 0:20:28.440 --> 0:20:31.440 Yeah, yeah, leaning into surrender. We'll do it together. So 0:20:31.680 --> 0:20:34.720 I just I just think this concept is so so 0:20:34.840 --> 0:20:36.879 funny and like I said, that was like my AHA 0:20:37.000 --> 0:20:40.040 moment of this whole trip. And it is funny because 0:20:40.440 --> 0:20:44.120 Cinda did the exact same course and the exact same workbooks, 0:20:44.560 --> 0:20:46.000 but like that wasn't. 0:20:45.720 --> 0:20:46.919 Her AHA moment. 0:20:47.000 --> 0:20:51.520 We actually completely planned her year because she is needing 0:20:51.720 --> 0:20:56.200 a year of very masculine very This is my year 0:20:56.440 --> 0:21:02.000 because where she is at with her business and her life, right, 0:21:02.440 --> 0:21:04.520 So that's what I do want to like preface this 0:21:04.640 --> 0:21:07.359 with is even though this is my AHA moment and 0:21:07.400 --> 0:21:10.800 I'm sharing with you my wisdom, again, this is at 0:21:10.960 --> 0:21:15.040 my stage of my journey where Sinda, who she did 0:21:15.080 --> 0:21:17.040 say she does need to surrender a little bit, but 0:21:17.240 --> 0:21:20.399 she is a little bit upset where she almost was 0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:21.520 in her fem. 0:21:21.480 --> 0:21:22.320 Energy like she does. 0:21:22.480 --> 0:21:25.199 She has a seven month old, so this year was 0:21:25.320 --> 0:21:27.440 very kind of like let's go of the flow. Plus 0:21:27.440 --> 0:21:31.680 she does have businesses spit hers is more next year 0:21:31.800 --> 0:21:37.440 of implementing structure, of implementing more routine because she lacked it. 0:21:37.400 --> 0:21:40.040 This year, and then she can jump again back into 0:21:40.119 --> 0:21:41.240 her fem yeah. 0:21:41.040 --> 0:21:44.600 Because she almost needs that. Whereas I am so mask 0:21:44.840 --> 0:21:48.359 energy and I'm so structured and I'm so routine that 0:21:48.520 --> 0:21:51.640 I need to lean the other way so did want 0:21:51.640 --> 0:21:54.120 to preface that because also, like if you are doing 0:21:54.160 --> 0:21:56.040 the do it for your future self course, don't be 0:21:56.080 --> 0:21:59.360 alarmed if your year is very planned out and if 0:21:59.359 --> 0:22:02.400 you're in this very energy of like getting shit done 0:22:02.480 --> 0:22:04.640 and I know exactly what I want to achieve this year, 0:22:04.760 --> 0:22:08.480 because I think that also is very healthy. Yeah, it 0:22:08.600 --> 0:22:10.359