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Speaker 1: And Amanda gam Nation down to the Jonesy demand of

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Speaker 1: arms for the pub test. Showering with your partner, does

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Speaker 1: it pass the pub test?

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Speaker 2: Jones You thinks she might be a bit of a

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Speaker 2: Kinko if you're into it.

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Speaker 1: No, we had a double shower in a place that

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Speaker 1: we renovated many years ago. You saw the double shower,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I went in there.

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Speaker 1: You had a look when you had to look after

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Speaker 1: we did the renovations, and naturally we sold the house

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Speaker 1: as soon as we did all the work, so we

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Speaker 1: lived in this bomb house. Sold the house. But it

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Speaker 1: was a huge, huge showering area and it was suggested

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Speaker 1: we put a double ended shower in there. We never

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Speaker 1: showered together in that thing, but.

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Speaker 2: Other people did. You said, yeah, Kinko's.

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Speaker 3: Kinko's interesting though it can be a wonderful thing. This

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Speaker 3: article I've been reading about this increased bonding, stress relief,

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Speaker 3: heat and physical touch can release the feel good hormones.

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Speaker 3: But when it's insisted upon by one partner, it can

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Speaker 3: be seen as coercion. They're saying this could be a

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Speaker 3: red flag to look out for, because sometimes the shower

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Speaker 3: is your last boundary, your last space for privacy bodily autonomy.

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Speaker 2: And that's that's where if.

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Speaker 3: It's framed as love and intimacy, beware because if they're

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Speaker 3: forcing themselves to be in your shower with you, that

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Speaker 3: is your last boundary of privacy.

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Speaker 2: So how do you feel showering with your partner? Is

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Speaker 2: it past the pub test?

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Speaker 3: Yea, one hundred percent does.

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Speaker 4: We just bought a new house and both of us

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Speaker 4: actually made sure that the shower was speaking up for

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Speaker 4: both of the city. Absolutely.

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Speaker 5: What better time to spend with your partner than in

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Speaker 5: a shower. Yeah, it kind of does. Funny my wife

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Speaker 5: would be the one to ask to shower with me,

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Speaker 5: but then on occasion it's like I get the idea

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Speaker 5: of Okay, something's going to happen. If it doesn't, oh well,

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Speaker 5: so yeah, it kind of does past the pub test o.

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Speaker 4: The way it does. And I we were together throwing

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Speaker 4: the short period broken a back, so naturally you have

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Speaker 4: to sit around the home and yeah, jump in a shower,

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Speaker 4: watch her. And then thirteen years I just did it,

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Speaker 4: not being how co tectual about it. Was just going

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Speaker 4: there to have a chat, find out the day, doing

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Speaker 4: a little bit of in book.

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Speaker 5: For me does past the pub teen.

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Speaker 2: You should be able to trust your partner, and I

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Speaker 2: reckon if you can't shower with them, you have big problems.

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Speaker 1: Plus it saves water. Saves water. Nice Japanese do that.

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Speaker 1: They all get them the barb.

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Speaker 2: It's a very nice length and breadth of calls we head.

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Speaker 3: There or blokes, well, there was a woman at the end,

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Speaker 3: but the man who said he was his wife's care

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Speaker 3: that was their time for intimacy and chatting about the day.

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Speaker 1: They were together for a short time, broke her back

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Speaker 1: for thirteen years and then I wonder what happened after that.

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Speaker 1: You never get to know so much on the publicist,

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Speaker 1: But thank you for your calls.