WEBVTT - Prada coffee cups & being “that” girl ☕️ 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.600 The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:08.320 land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen Bear region. 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:13.320 We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land, 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:16.840 sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:20.880 past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:34.040 and terrest Rate Islander peoples today. Hello and welcome back 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:37.240 to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:52.640 for ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello guys, 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:57.720 and welcome back to the potty. It is Georgie your host. Lawyer, 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:04.679 tant entrepreneur, mom, wife, business owner, all the things. 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But basically it's just a free ebook and 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:56.360 it's a seven day reset, So we're currently on day 0:01:56.400 --> 0:01:58.920 two when this episode goes live, but you can just 0:01:58.960 --> 0:02:01.760 do it in your own time. Day one was all 0:02:01.800 --> 0:02:05.840 about getting honest of like where you currently are, where 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:09.440 you feel like you need the life reset, and day 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:13.239 two we're getting really clear on the aspects of where 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:16.079 you need the life reset, and I've given you some 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:20.400 journal prompts, some challenges, and if you are doing it 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:23.040 with us, come join the Facebook group because everyone's having 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:26.320 a good old chat and vibe in there. It's just 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:30.520 the Rise and Conquer podcast community. And yet you can 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:33.120 download the ebook and actually do it anytime, so if 0:02:33.120 --> 0:02:35.600 you're listening to this episode at a later date, it 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:37.720 should still be available. Just go to the link in 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:40.040 the show notes. And it was just something that I 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:42.880 wanted to give you guys, because as you know, I've 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:46.679 gone through a huge life transition with Ivy Girl. I'm 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:49.160 a new mum and it's the middle of the year 0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:51.040 and i just feel like we've all lost a bit 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:54.240 of motivation, you know, a bit of our spark, and 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:57.519 so I just wanted to give you, guys something tangible 0:02:57.600 --> 0:03:02.200 that you can do that hopefully reignites your spark and 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:05.160 makes you feel a bit bloody spash because you are. 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:05.800 Okay, guys. 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.200 So before we get into the episode today, we are 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:11.880 talking about romanticizing your life. It's a bit of a 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:14.760 fun one and we get into, you know, this whole 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:18.560 concept of that girl. I'm sure you've seen that girl 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:22.520 content on TikTok and Instagram. It's everywhere, and I'm going 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:25.239 to tell you how to romanticize your life and you'll 0:03:25.280 --> 0:03:28.840 hear from my team from a tea. It's super fun. 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:32.800 But before we get into that, a little life update. 0:03:33.160 --> 0:03:35.920 My week has been good. If you guys follow me 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:39.680 along on Instagram, you would know that Ivy girl is. 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:43.520 Oh see, I feel so bad complaining because Ivy has 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:46.880 been sleeping through the night twelve hours seven till like 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:50.680 seven pm till seven am since she was twelve weeks old. 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:53.920 And I know that is a true blessing, So like, 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:56.720 I don't like to complain too much, but recently, like 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:59.440 probably the last three weeks, she's been doing this thing 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:02.760 where she'll go to bed and then she'll wake up 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:06.360 after one sleep cycle, so forty five minutes, and then 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:08.839 it just takes her hours to get back to bed. 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:10.880 So she's kind of going to bed at like nine pm, 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:15.280 which I know it's not late. I don't mean to complain, 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:18.800 but it's just it's it's a lot. When I work 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:21.840 all day and then I get home around two thirty three, 0:04:22.480 --> 0:04:24.840 Tim goes to Jim, you know, he needs a break 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:27.960 after looking after Ivy all day. So I'm with Ivy 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:29.800 all afternoon, which I love, adore. 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:30.719 It's our time. 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:34.000 I do the bed bath, you know, the last feed, 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:38.400 put her to bed, kisses, cuddles, love. But it's like 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:43.120 then we me and Tim would have dinner, we would 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:45.200 have some time together, and then i'd have like an 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.840 hour or two, like you know, literally just an hour 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:50.479 of the day for me. For the last three weeks, 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:53.320 we haven't been getting that. Me and Tim don't get 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:56.520 to have dinner together because it's like one person's going 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:59.880 up and comforting her, the other person's eating vice versa. 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:02.000 And you finally get to bed at nine pm and 0:05:02.040 --> 0:05:04.359 you've just had like no time for yourself, which I 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:05.960 know what that's parenthood. 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:06.520 I get it. 0:05:06.960 --> 0:05:10.240 I get it. It's just exhausting. And I think because 0:05:10.279 --> 0:05:12.360 we were so used to her sleeping the twelve hours, 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:15.080 I'm just like a little bit in shock. So that's 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:19.640 still happening, and I'm a bit drained, but still, you know, 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:22.719 it's still fine. My parents actually came over last night 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:27.280 and they looked after Ivy. They're actually my parents live 0:05:27.320 --> 0:05:29.839 on a boat, if you guys don't know, and they 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:32.560 teas looking at me like they do. Yeah, they do 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:34.560 a teer. So they live in a boat and they 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:37.400 sail for half the year, so they're actually about to 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:39.840 go off sailing for the year. So they just wanted 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:41.840 to spend some time with Ivy. So they looked after 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:44.120 Ivy last night and meantim went on a date night. 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:48.400 We went to Etsu, my favorite Japanese restaurant on the 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:52.240 Gold Coast. It's so fab I love raw food, so 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:56.280 I love like wagou and kingfish and oysters and they 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:58.800 do all that stuff and so that was yummy. I 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:01.600 did have a glass of sham okay, I had two 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:05.359 glasses of champagne. Champagne is like you'll hear in this episode. 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:10.080 I love like champagne. Sparkling water, like it's it's my vibe. 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:15.240 And honestly, I woke up this morning with like not 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:20.480 a hangover, but like I've got a headache, and I 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:23.679 texted to your I'm like, do you have any Baroka? 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:26.039 And it's just kind of sad to me that I'm 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:28.920 to the point of my life where I have two 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:31.159 glasses of champagne and I wake up with a headache. 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:34.800 But that's fine, and also I'm kind of I'm not 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:38.799 mad at myself. But before having that champagne, I hadn't 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:40.920 drunk in a couple months, and I was almost doing 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:43.279 like the sober curious thing. But I was like, you know, 0:06:43.480 --> 0:06:47.680 I love champagne. I'll have a glass and look, it's 0:06:47.800 --> 0:06:52.279 just it wasn't worth it. So I don't know what's happened, guys, 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:56.040 because before Ivy, I could drink everyone under the table. 0:06:56.720 --> 0:06:59.279 It was like a talent. And I just can't drink 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:01.440 like I used to do, so I have to accept that. 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:05.039 So apologies if I'm a little bit rusty in this episode. 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:17.800 But it's a goodie. So let's get into it. The 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:22.760 romance of becoming. Let's romance the fuck out of our lives. 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:27.240 End our mornings and our art. Let's say yes to 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:30.360 the romance, but not the romance we were brought up 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:35.480 to believe in the romance of ourselves, the romance of living, 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:38.520 the romance of the way we move and the way 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:42.200 we dress and the way we see ourselves, the romance 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:46.480 of cafes and the romance of becoming, the romance of 0:07:46.640 --> 0:07:48.960 all the people we are yet to meet, and all 0:07:49.040 --> 0:07:50.640 the ways we are yet. 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:51.040 To try on. 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:56.280 Let's romance our lives, because when we romance ourselves, we 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:58.880 fall for ourselves too, Brook Solace. 0:07:59.440 --> 0:07:59.840 Guys. 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:05.480 Yes, today we are chatting romanticizing the fuck out of 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:10.480 our lives. That was the most beautiful quote. I had 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:12.680 to read it to you, guys, because we saw it 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:16.640 on Instagram and we had already decided to do this 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:19.560 podcast about romanticizing your life, and it just we were like, 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:22.720 oh my god, this is perfect. Thank you Jamie for 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:28.000 finding that one. So today, guys, let's chat romanticizing our lives. So, 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:32.120 if you have social media. 0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:31.800 I'm guessing you do. 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:36.120 If you listen to this podcast, especially like TikTok, or 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:40.360 you enjoy watching reels on Instagram, you would notice the 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:46.600 algorithm is really pushing these ten to thirty second videos 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:50.480 of that girl. I actually have an episode on that girl, 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:52.880 which I will link the show notes because it's all 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:54.920 about how to be that girl and how to have 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:59.000 magnetic energy, and it's a good it's one of our 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:03.440 most downloaded episodes. But basically that content is really being 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:10.440 pushed and honestly, like they're doing very mundane things, but 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:15.520 it just looks fucking cool, Like it looks like they 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:19.480 have their life together, like they're you know, a girl 0:09:19.760 --> 0:09:21.880 who and if you don't know what I'm talking about, 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:25.880 So basically, she wakes up, she makes her coffee in 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:29.040 this like really cute cup. You know, there's usually a 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:34.839 bunch of flowers somewhere, She puts on cute activewear, meditates journals. 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:37.800 You feel like she's got her life together and you 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:41.160 feel like she's a bit fab and let's be honest, 0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:43.160 like you want to be her, Like if you haven't 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:44.800 got your life together, you watch one of those and 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:46.200 you're like, oh my god, I need to get my 0:09:46.240 --> 0:09:50.679 life together. And it just looks like she's, yeah, really 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:54.760 loving life. She's honestly doing the most fundane things, but 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:57.120 it just looks like she has a great life and 0:09:57.160 --> 0:10:00.120 then also the reals that I'm loving too, is like 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:04.360 that you can do both where they're doing super you know, 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:08.160 like hashtag health things like going a gym, having green 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:12.400 juice coffee, and then they're also like eating pizza and 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:16.880 having margueriteaters and dancing with their friends. Love those as well. 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:20.160 And basically, and this is going to depend on like 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:25.000 what sort of content you're consuming, but I literally love 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:30.120 this content because it's all about celebrating like the small 0:10:30.800 --> 0:10:35.160 moments in your life and like romanticizing your life. And 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:37.719 like I said, they're like super mundane things, but they 0:10:37.800 --> 0:10:41.120 just look really cool, and I think this is something 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:45.600 we should all be doing to It's almost like. 0:10:45.559 --> 0:10:46.240 A life hack. 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:50.840 It's a life hack to get more joy in our day, 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:54.520 more joy in the way we do things. But then 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:58.480 also something with that content is I guarantee you a 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:02.640 lot of you know, the people creating that content behind 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:06.240 the screens, like we don't know if they actually are 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:09.720 romanticizing their life or they're just creating that sort of content. 0:11:10.160 --> 0:11:13.319 And so today I want to chat about romanticizing your 0:11:13.360 --> 0:11:18.000 life but doing it in a real way. So if 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:21.679 you're a little bit confused about how like what romanticizing 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:28.000 your life is. I'm going to give some examples of me, 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:31.959 and I think for me, romanticizing your life is really 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:37.840 about enjoying the process, not the end result. So I 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:41.960 talk a lot about this thing of like how I 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:45.000 love the work and how I love what I do, 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:48.120 and I really got to a point in my life 0:11:48.160 --> 0:11:52.320 where I love the actual working for the goals, not 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:54.760 actually the goal at the end. And I think a 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:57.520 lot of people have it the other way, where they 0:11:57.520 --> 0:12:01.240 don't enjoy the becoming, they don't enjoy the process, but 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:05.080 they're like, you know, they're waiting for the goal. And 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:08.360 so I'm such a big believer in let's actually enjoy 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:13.079 working for the goal and enjoy that stage and then 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:16.319 obviously enjoy the goal at the end as well, because 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:21.200 of course, but how what I'm talking about, like a 0:12:21.240 --> 0:12:25.960 great example of my life is you know, before Ivy, 0:12:26.280 --> 0:12:29.439 if you have me on Instagram, me and Tim used 0:12:29.480 --> 0:12:32.000 to always do this thing where we would do Sunday 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:35.880 beach coffee. So every single Sunday we would wake up. 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:38.200 We would never plan something on a Sunday morning because 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:40.480 we knew it was our time together. It was a 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:45.040 ritual and we used to wake up. We used to 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:47.680 go to our favorite coffee shop, grab a coffee, go 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:49.920 sit on the beach, and we would always talk about 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:53.760 like big life issues. And even though I was such 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:56.679 a busy person, I always knew like Sunday mornings were 0:12:56.760 --> 0:13:00.280 for us. And we had this Sunday ritual. And if 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:03.679 you actually look about like look at it, like you know, 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:06.079 having a coffee on the beach, Yes, beautiful, but it's 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:09.400 just like a very normal thing. But because we created 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:13.760 such this like beautiful ritual around it, it felt so 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:17.679 special to us. And for instance, before Ivy, again, like 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:22.120 I used to have this very slow morning routine most 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:26.160 days where I would you know, get up and I 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:29.480 would meditate and I would journal and I pull cards 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:31.960 and it was like this whole big thing of getting 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:37.079 into my day and it's like I would really relish 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:40.360 in the small moments of that morning routine. Obviously I 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.880 don't do that now because I have a baby. But 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:48.240 like an example now of romanticizing my life is every 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:53.160 single Thursday, instead of rushing to work, actually I'm still 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:55.360 rushing to work, let's be honest. I go to my 0:13:55.400 --> 0:13:59.000 favorite coffee shop. I grab an ice latte, two pieces 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:03.640 of Ava and Toe and every Thursday. I guys, I 0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:07.840 love the Shameless podcast. I live for some celebrity gossip. 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:11.960 I know that's kind of random, because like it's almost 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:14.120 on those days where I'm like, I just can't learn 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:17.120 anything today, I just can't do self development. I need 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:20.040 some like, yeah, I need some you know, celebrity gossip. 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:23.760 And so a little tradition I now have because this 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:26.640 is all I can kind of fit in is getting 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:30.800 my coffee and AVO and putting on the Shameless podcast 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:34.760 and driving to work again. You might like listen to 0:14:34.800 --> 0:14:37.640 that and just be like cool that that could be 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:41.800 me every day. But I've really romanticized that where it 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:45.440 means something to me and it feels really good to me, 0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:48.920 and it almost like elevates me and I have like 0:14:48.960 --> 0:14:51.680 you know, fitted into my schedule and it really brings 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:55.440 me joy. So I would say, like romanticizing your life 0:14:55.840 --> 0:15:00.400 is just knowing what brings you joy, knowing what lights 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:05.680 you are, fitting it in in small aspects of your day. 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:09.280 A tear it like, would you what would you say 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:11.880 romanticizing your life is to you? 0:15:12.120 --> 0:15:15.680 I'd say it's probably very similar just finding the small 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:19.440 moment and making a bigger deal of them kind of thing. Yes, 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:22.960 So it's it's not just getting a coffee with a friend. 0:15:23.000 --> 0:15:25.440 It's it's like getting a coffee, going for a walk, 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:28.880 just enjoying the morning and being present. And I think 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:34.200 it's it's less about doing these crazy special amazing having 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:38.080 the longest morning routine, but just enjoying what you do 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:41.600 have and appreciating it and just realizing how beautiful it 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:45.240 actually is. And everyone can do that pretty easily. You 0:15:45.320 --> 0:15:47.400 just have to close your eyes and like think about 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:48.360 it kind of thing. 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:51.040 One hundred percent. I'm with you. Also, something else I 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:53.600 love doing, and it's so simple is like I have 0:15:53.720 --> 0:15:58.280 this thing when it's raining because outside my house, even 0:15:58.320 --> 0:16:00.600 though we live on like this really busy straight and 0:16:00.600 --> 0:16:04.840 it fucking kills me. I put my AirPods in. I 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:05.400 put like. 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:06.880 It'd be like two cars an hour. 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:14.040 What are you trying to say about me, a tia. 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:16.200 You're trying to say I'm a princess or something. 0:16:18.520 --> 0:16:19.240 So rude. 0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:24.640 We'll talk about this after the podcast. Well, we all 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:26.600 know how a tea feels about me. 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:30.240 So you're just a very relaxed person. So you're probably 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:34.480 just likes a car. It's busy. No, I am no, 0:16:34.600 --> 0:16:40.440 it's actually a maze and we like it's like fully busy. 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:46.080 It's fully busy. And also there's a construction site near us, 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:49.680 so it's like fucking big trucks and they're like. 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:53.400 Screechy brains, so loud, so loud. Anyway, So I have 0:16:53.440 --> 0:16:57.200 this thing about raining, and so I love going outside 0:16:57.240 --> 0:17:00.240 and our back deck like looks at these trees over 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.960 the road and then these beautiful big trees and like 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:06.240 I just like looking at them in the rain with wind, 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:09.040 and I'll put my AirPods in and I will like 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:11.000 do that and just like have my journal and might 0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:13.720 write some stuff. But that's like the most simplest thing. 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:17.840 But it's like I love it, like it just like 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:21.120 you know, brings me so much joy, and it's yeah, 0:17:21.160 --> 0:17:24.080 and it's something so simple. And that's honestly something I've 0:17:24.119 --> 0:17:27.679 been doing since having Ivy, because priestly it would be 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:30.359 like going to the beach or like doing something a 0:17:30.400 --> 0:17:34.879 bit more advance, but now I've had to simplify it. 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:37.679 But again, it is so fine, and I like have 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:42.840 I guess swapped my mindset too, fine, so much joy 0:17:42.880 --> 0:17:45.119 in that moment. I think that's what a tear was saying, 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:48.560 like fine, joy in the smaller moments and when you 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:51.320 can be happy and grateful in those smaller moments, like 0:17:51.720 --> 0:17:54.920 that's where the magic is. And also like another thing, 0:17:54.960 --> 0:17:58.760 like how I romanticize my life personally is you guys 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:01.240 probably have seen on social media. Yeah, like the NHH 0:18:01.359 --> 0:18:07.240 warehouse has really been curated to be a place where 0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:11.480 I want to come to work. I hope, I hope 0:18:11.520 --> 0:18:14.960 my employees want to come to work, and we have 0:18:15.160 --> 0:18:19.280 created it, you know, like my office specifically, it's pink, 0:18:19.920 --> 0:18:24.960 it's got plants. It has been you know, curated a 0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:27.840 certain way to make me feel good. And honestly, when 0:18:28.240 --> 0:18:30.280 I sit in there, like I feel like a boss. 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:34.199 Like it's created that way, and I feel like a 0:18:34.400 --> 0:18:38.520 huge thing is making sure like your space you're in 0:18:38.720 --> 0:18:41.159 feels good. So you know, I'm really big of like 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:44.040 cleaning up your room, Like I honestly do it once 0:18:44.040 --> 0:18:46.200 a week, let's be honest, But like on a Sunday, 0:18:46.359 --> 0:18:48.040 I will kind of clean up the room. I will 0:18:48.080 --> 0:18:51.359 tie the tidy the house, reset it for the next 0:18:51.440 --> 0:18:55.040 week so I can have those feelings and not feel 0:18:55.040 --> 0:18:57.159 like I'm you know, having to clean up during the 0:18:57.200 --> 0:18:59.680 week because I just don't have the time. But it's 0:18:59.720 --> 0:19:03.920 a about creating the environment. 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:06.960 And on that a thing I've noticed as well is 0:19:07.000 --> 0:19:10.639 that when you create the right environment, you will attract 0:19:10.840 --> 0:19:12.000 the right people. 0:19:11.680 --> 0:19:12.520 To your environment. 0:19:12.640 --> 0:19:15.919 So just the office as an example, it's beautiful, Like 0:19:15.960 --> 0:19:19.040 you come in here and you feel relaxed and refreshed, 0:19:19.080 --> 0:19:22.080 and I would guarantee that people are a lot more 0:19:22.080 --> 0:19:25.840 productive because of it. And if your space is clutted 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:30.000 and it's messy, or it's chaotic and things just aren't 0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:34.679 as aesthetic, then it makes it harder to get those 0:19:34.880 --> 0:19:39.000 people that will work super, super hard. And it's so easy, 0:19:39.000 --> 0:19:41.679 and especially in an office, to like get the k 0:19:41.800 --> 0:19:45.119 Mar chair and the Ikea desk and just do the 0:19:45.160 --> 0:19:47.800 bare minimum so that people can function. And it's an 0:19:47.800 --> 0:19:50.240 office space, but you guys have gone above and beyond 0:19:50.280 --> 0:19:53.680 here and thanks to m yes, they got all the 0:19:53.720 --> 0:19:57.160 pretty things, but it makes such a big difference. And 0:19:57.320 --> 0:20:00.919 sometimes even though it's like a pretty thing, it makes 0:20:01.359 --> 0:20:04.880 a huge difference to what you output in that space. 0:20:05.119 --> 0:20:07.800 Like if you spend a little bit of extra money 0:20:07.800 --> 0:20:10.480 on your bedroom or doing up your office at home, 0:20:10.880 --> 0:20:13.520 you're probably going to feel a lot nicer working in it, 0:20:13.600 --> 0:20:15.960 and you're going to be more productive and you're going 0:20:16.000 --> 0:20:19.680 to enjoy your work more and appreciate those smaller moments. 0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:22.719 It's almost as if by spending the money or spending 0:20:22.760 --> 0:20:27.639 the time creating the correct environment, you're allowing yourself to 0:20:27.680 --> 0:20:31.679 be able to sort of have that aesthetic, beautiful, romantic 0:20:32.280 --> 0:20:35.320 feeling all the time in that environment. And if you 0:20:35.440 --> 0:20:39.399 don't place the priority on that, then your environment's just 0:20:39.440 --> 0:20:43.960 going to be normal and you're going to work normal. 0:20:44.480 --> 0:20:47.480 Well that's even a great example of when this episode 0:20:47.520 --> 0:20:51.480 goes out, guys, it's on the Tuesday, and on the 0:20:51.600 --> 0:20:55.560 Sunday was NH's third birthday. And if you go on 0:20:55.600 --> 0:20:58.320 my profile and go on a real you'll see like 0:20:58.400 --> 0:21:01.639 the very first office week and it's literally like a 0:21:01.720 --> 0:21:05.360 Bunning's table. The chair is like broken and it has 0:21:05.480 --> 0:21:09.760 like you know the express post sticky tape like literally. 0:21:09.520 --> 0:21:15.880 Like use that to like like like and that's because 0:21:16.720 --> 0:21:18.760 like go on that post, guys and have a look, 0:21:18.800 --> 0:21:21.320 and then you look at their office now and you're. 0:21:21.160 --> 0:21:24.320 Like, holy shit, and it's like they've come far far, 0:21:24.800 --> 0:21:26.960 but you know, like we had to do the bare minimum. 0:21:27.000 --> 0:21:29.479 But that's something I spoke to Cooper about when we 0:21:29.520 --> 0:21:32.280 moved into this new warehouse. I was like, look, I 0:21:32.320 --> 0:21:34.560 know it's gonna cost a bit of extra money, but 0:21:34.760 --> 0:21:37.560 trust me when I say, if I come into the 0:21:37.600 --> 0:21:41.880 office and I want to be here, I will create 0:21:41.960 --> 0:21:45.760 magic and I will you know, stay extra hours, and 0:21:45.800 --> 0:21:48.119 you know the people who work here who will do that. 0:21:48.720 --> 0:21:52.800 And it's not about making how employees stay extra but 0:21:52.880 --> 0:21:56.280 it's about creating an environment, like a tea says, where 0:21:56.640 --> 0:22:00.040 you feel productive and you feel creative. And I I 0:22:00.040 --> 0:22:02.879 think also like noting on that it doesn't have to 0:22:02.920 --> 0:22:05.920 be about spending their money because there's so many places 0:22:06.000 --> 0:22:09.840 now like Kmart has the most beautiful, pretty things. Oh 0:22:09.880 --> 0:22:12.080 my god, and I can't walk in there anymore. I know, 0:22:12.200 --> 0:22:14.200 I just spend so much money they get me good. 0:22:14.440 --> 0:22:18.000 And even like Amazon, and you know, for example, it 0:22:18.080 --> 0:22:22.719 could be so simple as like buying a cute glass 0:22:22.720 --> 0:22:25.440 from Amazon that you put your ice latte in. Oh 0:22:25.480 --> 0:22:29.240 my god, guys. So the other day story here. The 0:22:29.320 --> 0:22:34.320 other day, I treated myself and I bought myself a 0:22:34.320 --> 0:22:35.800 prider bag for Mother's Day. 0:22:36.480 --> 0:22:37.640 We Love, We Love. 0:22:38.359 --> 0:22:40.560 I'd been eyeing it off and I was like, well, 0:22:40.560 --> 0:22:43.679 actually the story was Tim is like I bought your 0:22:43.760 --> 0:22:47.640 Mother's Day present, and I was like, so cute. And 0:22:47.720 --> 0:22:51.720 then I came home one day and Peter Alexander had 0:22:51.760 --> 0:22:55.000 sent me a gifting parcel of like some pajamas and 0:22:55.040 --> 0:22:56.760 I was like, oh my god, big, because pajamas is 0:22:56.880 --> 0:22:59.960 like my thing, specially matching pajamas with Ivy and that's 0:23:00.119 --> 0:23:01.800 what they sent me for Mother's Day. And then like 0:23:01.880 --> 0:23:05.080 I looked at him and he's like I literally just 0:23:05.119 --> 0:23:09.320 went and books and it's like it took him like 0:23:09.440 --> 0:23:11.520 hours because he had to like drive to pack Fair. 0:23:11.720 --> 0:23:13.919 It's so cute, I know, and he was like so 0:23:14.080 --> 0:23:16.400 upset and he's like, I bought you the matching high mask. 0:23:17.760 --> 0:23:21.160