WEBVTT - Cheating Boyfriends and Gold Coast Snakes 0:00:02.720 --> 0:00:05.760 Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the 0:00:05.760 --> 0:00:09.600 hottest influenza and pop culture news twice a week. I'm 0:00:09.640 --> 0:00:13.560 Amy Torber and coming up on today's show, Sky Wheatley 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:18.720 shares her dramatic transformation following fox eye surgery, Lucy Jackson 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:22.880 slams cheating boyfriend a day after he moved in, and 0:00:23.120 --> 0:00:27.200 Tammy Hembro turns into a snake catcher. But first, Sophy 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:30.200 my TikTok for some reason has been serving me up 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:33.000 a lot of content around diet coke at the moment, 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:37.120 and there is a whole subculture of people who were 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:40.239 just obsessed with trying to track down and create the 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:43.080 crispiest diet coke. I don't know if you've seen this content. 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:46.640 We have to have pabble dice and a glass cup, 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:48.839 probably a glass cup that's been sitting in the freezer 0:00:48.880 --> 0:00:49.800 for a couple hours. 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:51.120 We are sen in a glass strap. 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:52.680 Do you hear how crispy that is? 0:00:53.000 --> 0:00:56.040 That's going to be a beautiful diet cup. Kind of 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:57.520 get it. I would think that I'm a bit of 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:00.240 a coke connoisseur. It is my drink of choice. I'm 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:03.360 a coke, no sugar person, and I think that it 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:06.200 tastes so different in a can, in a bottle, in 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:08.920 a large bottle, from the tap. I mean it's the 0:01:09.000 --> 0:01:11.280 worst in the tap. There are some people on TikTok 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:13.840 who love a McDonald's coke and they swear that that 0:01:13.959 --> 0:01:17.040 is the best way it surf, but personally, I think 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:19.640 it's the worst. There's something in it that makes me 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:21.200 need to go to the toilet for all the time. 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:23.520 I think it's the ice that makes it taste really 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:25.720 good though, because I'm saying I don't like it, no, 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:28.480 but I actually do. I get around that more. I 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:30.560 get it now because before I would have said no, no, 0:01:30.640 --> 0:01:33.919 in a can's best, but it's not. You need the ice. 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:36.479 I think a can of coke can taste just as good, 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:38.319 but it has to be really cold. And this is 0:01:38.360 --> 0:01:41.760 where one TikToker has come up with the theory of 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:46.479 marinating a coke. So she's called Christine Hollinghouse, and basically 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:48.600 her rule of thumb is that you have to keep 0:01:48.600 --> 0:01:50.920 a can of coke in the fridge upwards of ten 0:01:51.040 --> 0:01:54.400 days and then that's when it reaches its absolute peak 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:57.680 coldness and crispiness. It has to be a bit misty 0:01:57.760 --> 0:02:01.600 on the outside of the can to be marinated enough 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:02.280 to drink it. 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:05.480 We take the day of coke, we put it in 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:08.520 the fridge, We let it sit and marinate for multiple 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:11.280 days at a time, and then you get this and 0:02:11.360 --> 0:02:14.080 it becomes crispy and delicious and it's marinated. 0:02:15.480 --> 0:02:18.600 My partner recently bought a slab of Cocono sugars, and 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:20.680 we've had half sitting on top of the fridge and 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:22.720 half in the fridge. And we got to the rotation 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:26.400 where there was only one marinated coke left, and I 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:29.840 put the bunch of warm cans in the fridge, thinking 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:32.720 I've done the good deed. I'm calling these ones up. 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:36.400 I will have the marinated can for dinner. But he's 0:02:36.440 --> 0:02:38.360 snuck in and got it first. And I can tell 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:41.200 you that there is a big difference between a warm 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:43.800 can and a marinade. Oh definitely. How do you think 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:46.720 you would go in one of those blind tastings where 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:48.320 you have to pick if it's a bottle, if it's 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:51.519 a can, or if it is a McDonald's diet coke. 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:53.720 I would be banging on like I'm pretty confident I 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:56.720 could tell the difference straightaway. Well, I think we should 0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:59.880 put you to that test. I also consider myself a 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:03.680 coke zero and diet coke connoisseur. I challenge you. I 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:06.440 think we need a prize, so whoever loses has to 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:08.440 buy the winner a slab of diet coke. 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:13.280 What the hell? I never thought I would be thirty 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:19.079 four and get cheated on by a bloke that draws like. 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:27.240 What. Podcast host Lucy Jackson has dramatically split with her 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:31.679 boyfriend Sam a day after he moved in The Happy Hour. 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:34.560 Host broke the news on TikTok by miming this line 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:36.040 from the song man Eater. 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:40.240 Honestly, you guys, du am a service. 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:48.000 He needs money, but there are now Over the top 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:51.120 of the video, she wrote looking for a roommate, so 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:54.800 her followers instantly news she was talking about Sam, and 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:57.560 in the comment section, one of the loyal punters wrote, 0:03:57.680 --> 0:04:01.000 expose him, to which Lucy replied, he cheated on me 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:04.400 and that's the beginning. Well, since that comment, Sam has 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:07.040 changed his username, so now when you search him, he 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:10.920 has no profile picture and his Instagram at handle just 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:13.920 reads user six ' five nine something along those lines. 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:16.760 He clearly does not want to cop the wrath of 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:19.800 Lucy's fans. No, I don't think I would either. People 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:21.919 have been so upset about this. I keep saying. It 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:25.120 posted in a ton of different Facebook groups, And I 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:27.960 think that the reason why people are so upset is 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:31.480 before Lucy met Sam, she said that she'd given up 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:34.000 on the whole idea of falling in love and she'd 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:36.520 been single for three years and she was very much 0:04:36.600 --> 0:04:39.400 over the dating scene. But she gave Sam a go. 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:42.080 And it seemed like Sam was one of those guys 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:46.919 that she wouldn't normally date because apparently she had a 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.920 huge ick list and her top three x were all 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:52.720 things that he did. What were they well? On their 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:55.440 first date he wore low cut vans and that was 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:57.400 literally at the top of her list that she hates 0:04:57.480 --> 0:05:02.080 low cut fans. He also can't eat spicy food, he 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:05.520 hates coriander, and he's a very fussy eater. And the 0:05:05.640 --> 0:05:08.440 last one is that he doesn't cook. So these were 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:10.840 a few red flags for her initially, and she still 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:13.640 gave the guy go. That's just unfair. I mean it 0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:16.480 kind of reiterates that maybe you should stick to some 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:18.880 of your ick list. But yeah, but when you're in 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:21.600 a relationship, you sort of forget about those icks and 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:24.159 you it's more important whether they're a nice persee, so 0:05:24.200 --> 0:05:27.400 that becomes bigger issues, like when someone cheats on you. Well, exactly. 0:05:27.600 --> 0:05:30.039 The thing is these two men on hinge and it 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:32.480 was actually one of the first hinge dates that Lucy 0:05:32.560 --> 0:05:35.440 went on the Gold Coast because before she would meet 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:37.960 people online but they were living into state. But this 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:41.359 was the first guy that she felt like things weren't 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:44.039 complicated with. He just seemed like a nice guy. He 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:46.760 didn't play any games. Is that a red flag in 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:49.320 itself as well, because sometimes the nice guys are the 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:51.440 bigger dickhead, So now we have to be cautious of 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:54.560 the fuck boys and the nice guys well pretty much. 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:57.600 I mean, things didn't really go smooth staling at first though, 0:05:57.640 --> 0:06:01.240 because Lucy said she kept fine reasons to not be 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:04.719 with him. So when she got back, they started dating seriously, 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:07.760 and you could tell that she really liked him because 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:10.440 she started sharing him on socials more, she started speaking 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:13.800 about him on her podcast. They also recently traveled to 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:17.640 Europe together where they celebrated Nicki's Hen's party and there 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:20.760 was so many cute loved up videos of them in Italy, 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:23.640 and Lucy opened up that you know, she was taking 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:25.800 the chance and he was going to be moving in 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:27.880 with her. Well, the extra fucked bit was it was 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:31.240 only two weeks ago that they exchanged their first I 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:34.640 love yous and then Sam of course moved into the house. Well, 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:37.320 the day after he moved in, this is when the 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:39.480 shit hit the fan, because they went out to dinner 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:42.200 and Lucy discovered that he had been cheating on her 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:45.440 with multiple women. Here's what Lucy said on TikTok. 0:06:47.160 --> 0:06:53.120 I found out on Wednesday night, after we'd gone out 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:57.680 for dinner that I'd been cheated on with multiple people, 0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:03.640 not just one. And I think for the first like 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:06.320 forty eight hours, I was like really running off adrenaline 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:09.760 and like I was when I'm really sad or angry, 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:13.440 I like actually am pretty dark and like a bit funny. 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:15.400 So I think I've been like one of those funny 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:17.920 moods where you're kind of just like making a joke 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:19.400 out of it. Like last night I went out for 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:22.120 drinks with my girlfriends and I literally walked in and 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:24.600 was like, cheers to getting cheated on. 0:07:24.680 --> 0:07:29.040 In twenty twenty four, It's interesting timing, and it makes 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:32.560 me wonder did Sam bring something incriminating into the house 0:07:32.600 --> 0:07:35.480 when he moved in, Because sometimes when you live away 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:38.840 from your partner, you don't have access to say their 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:41.280 eye messages on their computer, and sometimes people can get 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:43.640 caught out when you say something incriminating. What did he 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:48.200 have a girl's pair of underpants? Maybe she's suddenly got 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:50.480 access to his phone. He's been out or here his 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:53.560 computer on his eye messages and seen incriminating messages. You 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:55.760 know what. Men are stupid though, Maybe he thought, well, 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.600 we've now said I love you, we're kind of official. 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:01.920 Because of that, I'm moving in. Maybe I'll clear the 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:05.680 air and say, hey, whilst we weren't so serious, I 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:07.600 hooked up with a couple of girls. I think the 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:10.840 way that Lucy has reacted, though, doesn't tie in with 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.600 her being told about it. I think she's found out 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:16.920 and she's angry. She said that she isn't usually an 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:21.040 oversharer on social media, but she felt compelled to document 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:24.040 her feelings through this breakup because she thought it might 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:27.120 help someone else who's going through something similar. She's probably 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:30.000 embarrassed as well, because she is very well known and 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:32.920 it sounds like it was multiple people that he cheated 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:35.240 on her with, and the Gold Coast is small, like 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:38.160 everyone seems to know each other. She also said that 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:40.240 she wanted to share about it because she's never going 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:43.360 to get back with Sam, so she has nothing to protect, 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:46.000 and whilst she was trying to put on a brave face, 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:49.199 it is clear that this breakup is affecting her more 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:51.320 than she'd like to lead on. Here's what she said. 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:54.640 I think this morning is the first time that I've 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:56.760 woken up and I feel like I truly feel like 0:08:56.840 --> 0:09:01.640 really sad. I'm also extremely hungover, which is probably not helping, 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:04.040 but like I'm just about to go to one of 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:07.880 my friend's baby showers, and I'm like, fuck, I was 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:12.120 just so ready to have like my person, Like I 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:18.880 think I was just like, you know, so ready to 0:09:19.760 --> 0:09:22.760 move into that next chapter. And i just think I'm 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:25.120 just like, really, it's really hitting me today that I'm 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:28.280 like I could square one with it, Like I'd rather 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:30.600 be on my own than obviously be with someone who's 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:34.040 cheating on me, like obviously, but I don't know. Today 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:36.400 it's the first day that I've just felt quite sad 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:40.839 and just like really felt the like I like, can 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:45.120 feel lonely, and I kind of wish I could talk 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:52.480 to him about it and be comforted by him, even 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:54.840 though he's a person that did the wrong thing to me. 0:09:56.559 --> 0:09:58.760 I think that so many people could relate to that 0:09:58.800 --> 0:10:02.319 feeling of being back at square one. She'd just been 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:05.720 vulnerable and finally opened up to someone, and for him 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:08.600 to then turn around and she on her with not 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:11.360 only one person, but multiple people when she thought, Wow, 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:13.800 this is a genuine nice guy I can actually see 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:18.040 myself with would be so heartbreaking. And also I saw 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:20.800 her saying that she'd actually put her walls down and 0:10:21.160 --> 0:10:24.400 she tried not to be so down on men, like, yeah, 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:27.280 felt like she'd actually had this nice guy come into 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:29.439 her life. And she was saying she doesn't then want 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:32.600 to turn back into kind of a quote man hater. Yeah, 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:34.840 she said she didn't want it to harden her. I 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:37.360 just think it's so tough being single in your thirties, 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:40.360 because particularly how she referenced that she was on her 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:44.040 way to a baby shower. It's really hard because all 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:46.280 these women are in different stages of their lives, but 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:48.640 you're the same age. Yeah, and it's hard not to 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:51.040 you're happy for your friends, but it'd also be hard 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:53.040 not to have a level of jealousy and think, well, 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:54.760 is this ever going to happen to me? If that's 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:56.880 something that you want later in Yeah, and also the 0:10:56.920 --> 0:10:59.480 fact that her best friend Nikki is getting married soon. 0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:02.240 She's just been at her hen's party as well. It's 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:04.760 not good. I was really interested to look at the 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:07.760 comment section, and as we touched on earlier, she has 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:11.280 received an outpouring of support from listeners and they are 0:11:11.320 --> 0:11:15.480 all backing her. I did spy Olivia Rogers calling Sam 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:19.600 a dirty dog under one of Lucy's videos, which is 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:23.080 kind of interesting because you know how Morgan Waterhouse came 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:26.360 out and all of his friends sort of backed him up. Again, 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:29.640 this was in a different sentiment though, because this guy 0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:33.000 has cheated, he's been public exposed. Well, yeah, this guy 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:35.320 is a dirty dog. I kind of love that Olivia 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:38.160 went there same. It was just sort of interesting the 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:41.960 irony of her ex's friends slagging her off as a 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:44.560 difference between the way they spoke about Olivia, though, I 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:47.040 feel like they spoke about her in such a disrespectful manner. 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:49.320 Calling someone a dirty dog is a little bit difficult, 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:51.160 and how they spoke about her, and they were also 0:11:51.240 --> 0:11:55.079 hurling allegations at her. Yeah Now. On Sunday, Lucy gave 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:58.120 an update on her TikTok, and she explained that she'd 0:11:58.160 --> 0:12:00.600 recorded a lot of videos, but she didn't want to 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:04.560 post them because she started feeling anxious about oversharing and 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:08.080 making matters worse, and she urged her followers not to 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:11.840 bully Sam or send him nasty comments, but reiterated that 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:15.040 she loved how loyal the punters were. Is it terrible 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:17.920 that I'm so nosy that I'm thinking, can she share 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:18.760 those videos? 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:19.120 Yeah? 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:21.640 I really want to. I really want to know exactly 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:25.000 what happened. Surely they will address it on the podcast. 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:27.240 I think that they will save it for the podcast. 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:29.960 I'm not a regular Happy Hour listener, but I think 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:31.680 I've got to start getting into it because this is 0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:33.600 going to be juicy when this unfolds. Oh, it will 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:37.080 be one I will definitely be tuning into. 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:40.280 It's good to be open and honest about it, and 0:12:40.400 --> 0:12:42.200 I'm here to answer any questions. 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:47.280 After an anxious wait, Sky Wheatley re emerged on social 0:12:47.360 --> 0:12:51.840 media three days after undergoing fox eye surgery in Turkey. 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:55.760 The former Big Brother contestant initially refused to show her 0:12:55.800 --> 0:13:00.160 face in the healing stage, saying it looked too horrific now, 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:05.880 so if her radio silence left. Many fans consented, including you. Oh. 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:09.000 I was feeling really unnerved about the whole thing. After 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:13.439 our episode dropped on Tuesday. I just kept finding myself 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:16.760 revisiting her profile. I wanted to see how she was traveling. 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:21.120 We also usually put out promo clips for the episode, 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:24.319 and I just didn't feel right about putting a reel 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:27.960 together about her surgery because I thought, what if something 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:32.120 has gone on. I became particularly concerned when I noticed 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:35.640 that her Instagram story had been taken down. So that 0:13:35.840 --> 0:13:39.240 was a story of her being wheeled into surgery, and 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:41.600 in the photo she was in her hospital gown and 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:45.120 she wrote feel like I could vomit. Haha, it's happening now. 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:47.240 This wasn't up for twenty four hours. This was up 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:49.520 for about nine hours, and then out of nowhere, it 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:52.440 had been removed, And I thought, oh my god, what 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:55.640 if the worst has happened and her family have gone 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:58.199 into her account and removed it because they didn't want 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:00.839 to promote the clinic or the surge. Well, a lot 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:03.640 of her followers had the same thoughts because they were 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:06.600 commenting under her previous TikTok video and they were all 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:09.960 discussing their concerns. So one said, is she okay? She 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:12.800 hasn't been on in days, while another said I've been 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:16.800 checking now. Another person said, I know, I'm really worried too. Yeah. Well, 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:21.520 fears about Sky had really been amplified by TikToker Sharie 0:14:21.680 --> 0:14:25.680 Morris's horrifying experience in Turkey. So she is an Australian 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:30.200 makeup party. She has over five hundred thousand followers on TikTok. Now. 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:33.320 She recently traveled to Turkey to have a breast reduction 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:36.640 and lift, and she'd previously been there the year prior 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:39.800 to have a tummy tuck and for that surgery she 0:14:39.920 --> 0:14:44.000 actually had a collaboration with another surgeon. Now, the breast 0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:47.600 reduction and lyft didn't go quite so well because forty 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:51.560 eight hours after the surgery, she started developing a fever 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:54.560 and chills and her doctor told her to just turn 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:56.920 the air conditioner down. He said, that's that's what the 0:14:57.040 --> 0:15:02.160 issue is. So she created a story time video detailing 0:15:02.240 --> 0:15:05.160 what actually went down. She posted this in May and 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:07.640 it was very graphic if you do go and have 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:09.720 a look at it. She showed a lot of close 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:13.560 up photos of an infection that was forming underneath the fold. 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:16.680 Now let's go too far into it because it gets 0:15:16.720 --> 0:15:19.680 really gross. Well no, but so she raised the concern 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:22.680 with her doctor, who said, you're fine and you're ready 0:15:22.680 --> 0:15:26.120 to board the flight home to Australia. So she flew 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:29.080 home in this state and she she had a photo. 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:31.600 It showed she had a T shirt on and the 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:34.920 back of the T shirt was drenched in blood. Once 0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:37.160 she was back in Australia, she was rushed in for 0:15:37.240 --> 0:15:41.720 emergency surgery and she had a ton of infections, the 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:44.960 worst being sepsis. So she was fighting for her life 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:48.760 and she said, it's been the scariest thing I've ever experienced. 0:15:49.040 --> 0:15:53.120 I'm still fighting the infection, still recovering from the second surgery, 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:56.120 and now have a machine attached twenty four to seven 0:15:56.400 --> 0:15:59.760 to help me heal now after this experience, as you can, 0:16:00.200 --> 0:16:03.040 And she said that she is done with surgery, full life. 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:04.000 Poor girl. 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:04.400 Now. 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:07.280 I think everyone let out a collective sigh of relief 0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:12.120 when Sky finally resurfaced three days later online and the 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:16.400 surgery sounded intense. Sky said she couldn't open her eyes 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:19.560 for three days, which explains why she wasn't able to 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:22.320 go onto her well. She revealed that she was quite 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:25.680 relieved because initially she was going to travel to Turkey 0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:29.400 alone for the surgery, but she ended up taking a 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:32.240 friend with her who also got the Fox eye lift 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:36.120 and veneers. So she said that did they do it 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:39.080 the same time? No, they did the videos first, but 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:41.520 she said that if she hadn't traveled with a friend, 0:16:41.920 --> 0:16:44.480 she would have felt very unsafe being in a foreign 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:49.040 hospital with practically no eyesight. Now, once she was back 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:52.600 in her hotel room recovering, she shared a question box 0:16:52.680 --> 0:16:56.200 encouraging her followers to submit questions about the surgery. But 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:58.560 at this point she hadn't actually shared a photo or 0:16:58.640 --> 0:17:01.480 video of what her face was like after the surgery. No, 0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:03.880 and that was one of the top questions. So someone said, 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:06.359 can we see what your face looks like after surgery? 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:10.080 So she replied, showing her recovering in her hotel bed, 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:13.040 but her face was strategically cut out of it, and 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:16.320 she wrote, Haha, Nah, it's horrific, but I know that 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:18.400 this is how it's going to look right now. I'm 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:21.199 trusting the process. I've logged it all two so you 0:17:21.240 --> 0:17:23.960 guys can see each day what it looks like when 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:27.560 I upload the video. I think the reason Sky was 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:30.560 initially reluctant to show her face is because she knows 0:17:30.600 --> 0:17:33.680 that publications like the Daily Mail are going to take 0:17:33.680 --> 0:17:36.439 that photo and they're going to plaster it everywhere and 0:17:36.520 --> 0:17:38.720 say the surgery is botched. They're not going to point 0:17:38.760 --> 0:17:40.560 out that this is the healing stage. 0:17:40.760 --> 0:17:40.920 Now. 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:44.800 Even social media, i mean TikTok images of her face 0:17:44.840 --> 0:17:47.440 looking like that would go viral. Yeah, and it's at 0:17:47.440 --> 0:17:49.840 its stage where it is going to look very inflamed 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:52.520 and puffy. You've really got to give something like this 0:17:52.800 --> 0:17:56.640 probably a month for it to calm down now. Sky continued, saying, 0:17:56.680 --> 0:17:59.359 the only reason I'm documenting this is for other girls 0:17:59.440 --> 0:18:03.240 undergoing surgery, because it's such a nice reassurance to see 0:18:03.240 --> 0:18:06.560 the beginning to the end is such an overwhelming process, 0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:08.359 but you've just got to wait it out and be 0:18:08.480 --> 0:18:12.960 patient for the results. This makes me feel really uncomfortable. 0:18:13.080 --> 0:18:15.440 I mean, I don't necessarily have a problem with women 0:18:15.560 --> 0:18:19.280 documenting their surgeries to show others, but I do feel 0:18:19.359 --> 0:18:22.720 uncomfortable with the way medical tourism is being promoted. Yeah, 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:26.520 because in a lot of instances, major surgery is being 0:18:26.560 --> 0:18:29.879 marketed as this frivolous holiday with the goals. It's a 0:18:29.960 --> 0:18:31.880 chance to fix all the things that you hate about 0:18:31.920 --> 0:18:35.359 yourself while you're sipping on cocktails at the pool. But 0:18:35.400 --> 0:18:39.680 in reality, you are undergoing major surgery that, in most 0:18:39.720 --> 0:18:43.600 instances is being performed in a country where there's very 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:46.399 different protocols and codes of ethics to what we have 0:18:46.520 --> 0:18:50.440 in Australia. And when we see cases like Sharie being 0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:54.120 spoken about, it shows just how dangerous it can be. 0:18:54.600 --> 0:18:57.240 I was really surprised to find out that Sky not 0:18:57.320 --> 0:18:59.920 only had the fox eye lift, but she also had 0:19:00.080 --> 0:19:03.639 liposuction on her arm and inner thigh. So she wrote 0:19:03.640 --> 0:19:05.960 that her doctors said there wasn't much fat on her 0:19:06.080 --> 0:19:10.440 arms or legs, so they only took the slightest bit out. Now, 0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:13.640 one follower asked what we're all thinking and said, why 0:19:13.640 --> 0:19:16.840 did you get liposuction if you're really fit? And she 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:19.640 replied saying, because it doesn't matter how fit you are, 0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:22.640 you're always gonna have areas of stubborn fat. And I'm 0:19:22.640 --> 0:19:25.280 not actually that fit. Haha. Yes, I trained daily but 0:19:25.359 --> 0:19:28.320 my diet isn't perfect. I'm too much of a sweet tooth. 0:19:28.359 --> 0:19:31.040 I'm obsessed with sugar and food in general. I'm a 0:19:31.040 --> 0:19:34.040 big eater. Loll. He wasn't going to even do it, 0:19:34.240 --> 0:19:37.399 he said, hardly any fat, But I insisted he's great. 0:19:37.480 --> 0:19:39.320 He's not going to do shit for the sake of it. 0:19:39.600 --> 0:19:42.480 He's actually a great doctor. I love him. Doesn't that 0:19:42.600 --> 0:19:44.639 sound like he did just exactly what she said he 0:19:44.680 --> 0:19:46.800 wouldn't do. Yeah, I know that's the thing. Like it's 0:19:46.800 --> 0:19:49.400 interesting that she confirmed that he wasn't going to do 0:19:49.440 --> 0:19:52.399 the liposuction, but that she convinced him. I mean, this 0:19:52.440 --> 0:19:55.359 wouldn't happen in Australia because there is a duty of care. 0:19:55.640 --> 0:19:58.760 Then Sky went on to explain that she actually thinks 0:19:58.840 --> 0:20:01.080 she has body. This mor this is what she said. 0:20:02.440 --> 0:20:05.000 Oh but you're already beautiful, Like you didn't need that, 0:20:05.200 --> 0:20:09.280 Like I'm telling you now, someone who wants to get 0:20:09.320 --> 0:20:12.520 something done does not need to be told that because 0:20:12.560 --> 0:20:15.159 you're never going to see what they're seeing. And I 0:20:15.200 --> 0:20:19.920 know it's like a whole psychological, fucking shit show. And 0:20:20.359 --> 0:20:23.080 I will be the first person to admit that, like, yeah, 0:20:23.119 --> 0:20:26.040 maybe I do have body dysmorphia, and yeah, I have 0:20:26.119 --> 0:20:29.200 daddy issues, and yeah, maybe I've not dated the best 0:20:29.200 --> 0:20:31.840 guys who have always told me that I'm beautiful. But 0:20:32.000 --> 0:20:36.000 I mean, besides that, it's something to do with me 0:20:36.640 --> 0:20:37.280 and only me. 0:20:39.040 --> 0:20:41.960 This is just getting so troubling and very awkward to 0:20:42.040 --> 0:20:45.560 watch now. Sky confirmed that her partner Lockey, was supportive 0:20:45.600 --> 0:20:47.840 over the surgery, but said that she was a fucking 0:20:47.880 --> 0:20:50.840