1 00:00:10,669 --> 00:00:14,869 Speaker 1: My Heart podcasts, hear More Kids podcasts, playlists and listen 2 00:00:14,909 --> 00:00:18,749 Speaker 1: live on the Free Hard you're you're joining us. I'm 3 00:00:18,749 --> 00:00:21,589 Speaker 1: gonna be honest at a very strange time. If you 4 00:00:21,628 --> 00:00:25,428 Speaker 1: were listening just before, you would have heard Woody literally 5 00:00:25,549 --> 00:00:28,589 Speaker 1: run out of the studio. He's going to go and 6 00:00:28,629 --> 00:00:31,749 Speaker 1: have a baby. Guys, So that that happened, which. 7 00:00:31,789 --> 00:00:33,829 Speaker 2: Probably his wife's having the baby, but still I would 8 00:00:34,269 --> 00:00:35,629 Speaker 2: it's a big deal and amazingly. 9 00:00:35,709 --> 00:00:37,509 Speaker 1: I mean, we had a bunch of people on speed 10 00:00:37,509 --> 00:00:40,269 Speaker 1: dial to fill in for him, but Rob Thomas picked 11 00:00:40,309 --> 00:00:42,309 Speaker 1: up the phone first and he's in the studio now 12 00:00:42,349 --> 00:00:42,949 Speaker 1: co hosting. 13 00:00:43,108 --> 00:00:43,868 Speaker 3: I appreciate I have. 14 00:00:44,149 --> 00:00:46,589 Speaker 2: I have a lot of free time and I'm happy 15 00:00:46,629 --> 00:00:47,029 Speaker 2: to be I'm. 16 00:00:46,909 --> 00:00:49,069 Speaker 3: Happy to be anywhere nice that you could come on in. 17 00:00:49,909 --> 00:00:50,668 Speaker 3: I mean all the. 18 00:00:50,668 --> 00:00:53,308 Speaker 2: Way down janitorial like whatever you need, I'm here, all right, 19 00:00:53,909 --> 00:00:54,629 Speaker 2: Johnny on the spot. 20 00:00:54,669 --> 00:00:56,349 Speaker 3: I'll let them know. I let him know there actually 21 00:00:56,389 --> 00:00:59,869 Speaker 3: is a bit of cleaning that Rob. You're you're touring 22 00:00:59,869 --> 00:01:03,269 Speaker 3: Australia at the moment. Just did Perth. We did Perth, 23 00:01:03,389 --> 00:01:06,069 Speaker 3: Adelaide and one night in Melbourne. 24 00:01:05,789 --> 00:01:09,309 Speaker 1: Brand new record it's called All Night Days Now. We 25 00:01:09,349 --> 00:01:11,709 Speaker 1: were just saying off air that your son is is it? 26 00:01:11,789 --> 00:01:14,229 Speaker 1: Mason is Mason? So he's playing in your band with you. 27 00:01:14,309 --> 00:01:15,749 Speaker 1: He is twenty seven years old. 28 00:01:15,549 --> 00:01:18,309 Speaker 2: Twenty seven He played a full tour in the States, 29 00:01:18,629 --> 00:01:20,149 Speaker 2: and then this is his second tour here. 30 00:01:19,989 --> 00:01:22,389 Speaker 1: Probably, so I'm interested. I'm going to weave this through. 31 00:01:22,469 --> 00:01:24,548 Speaker 1: So because what he's not here, I can ask complicated questions. 32 00:01:24,829 --> 00:01:28,589 Speaker 1: So so when I was a teenager, like I was 33 00:01:28,629 --> 00:01:31,789 Speaker 1: a like an enormous matchbox t it's next like enormous, 34 00:01:31,829 --> 00:01:34,469 Speaker 1: Like I really and what's all we listened to. 35 00:01:34,629 --> 00:01:36,909 Speaker 3: Religious very cool man. I'm actually very nervous talking to you. 36 00:01:36,949 --> 00:01:38,549 Speaker 3: I don't normally get me it should be a very 37 00:01:38,549 --> 00:01:38,909 Speaker 3: big deal. 38 00:01:41,149 --> 00:01:42,869 Speaker 1: I don't normally get nervous talking to people, but I 39 00:01:42,909 --> 00:01:45,229 Speaker 1: was very nervous about you coming in and the fact 40 00:01:45,229 --> 00:01:47,509 Speaker 1: that you had a boy and being a I don't know, 41 00:01:47,549 --> 00:01:50,189 Speaker 1: I just I suppose being a role model to a son. 42 00:01:50,629 --> 00:01:52,709 Speaker 1: And I look back on like, you know who you 43 00:01:52,749 --> 00:01:55,229 Speaker 1: were probably when you had him, which is I mean, 44 00:01:55,229 --> 00:01:56,869 Speaker 1: I was a lastly different person. 45 00:01:56,949 --> 00:01:58,349 Speaker 3: I was a mess for a lot of it. 46 00:01:58,429 --> 00:02:01,629 Speaker 2: I mean, I think you know that's why there's something 47 00:02:01,669 --> 00:02:04,149 Speaker 2: really kind of great about the idea that this job 48 00:02:04,629 --> 00:02:06,469 Speaker 2: that was the thing that kept me away from him 49 00:02:06,829 --> 00:02:08,109 Speaker 2: for a lot of times, you know, more than I 50 00:02:08,109 --> 00:02:10,029 Speaker 2: wanted to, because he's traveling, you're out trying to hustle, 51 00:02:10,029 --> 00:02:11,909 Speaker 2: and you doing anything. Is now the thing that's kind 52 00:02:11,909 --> 00:02:13,989 Speaker 2: of brought us back together in a really big way. 53 00:02:13,948 --> 00:02:15,869 Speaker 3: Yeah, And he's sincerely of my one. 54 00:02:15,788 --> 00:02:17,669 Speaker 2: Of my one of my best friends, you know, like 55 00:02:17,789 --> 00:02:20,069 Speaker 2: just as a just as a person, and I think 56 00:02:20,189 --> 00:02:23,069 Speaker 2: he's he's just so kind and he's not like the 57 00:02:23,109 --> 00:02:24,669 Speaker 2: first week that we were out, we got you know, 58 00:02:24,669 --> 00:02:26,309 Speaker 2: we did all rehearsals and we got the first few 59 00:02:26,349 --> 00:02:28,909 Speaker 2: shows under our belt, and the whole band is like, okay, guys, 60 00:02:28,989 --> 00:02:29,309 Speaker 2: let's go. 61 00:02:29,669 --> 00:02:30,749 Speaker 3: You know because my solo. 62 00:02:30,469 --> 00:02:32,469 Speaker 2: Band has been with me for twenty years at that band, 63 00:02:32,509 --> 00:02:34,189 Speaker 2: so like we're all family, and we're like, okay, we're 64 00:02:34,229 --> 00:02:36,069 Speaker 2: all together. Now, let's go out. Let's get some dinner, 65 00:02:36,149 --> 00:02:37,788 Speaker 2: let's have some drinks. And call him up and like okay, 66 00:02:37,789 --> 00:02:39,109 Speaker 2: this is we're going to go. And he's like, I 67 00:02:39,109 --> 00:02:40,989 Speaker 2: don't know. Daddy's like I really want to kill it 68 00:02:41,069 --> 00:02:42,869 Speaker 2: these next three shows. I'm gonna go to the hotel 69 00:02:42,949 --> 00:02:45,069 Speaker 2: room and get some rest. Yeah, And I was like, 70 00:02:45,069 --> 00:02:49,549 Speaker 2: you're dead to me. By the time he was born, 71 00:02:49,789 --> 00:02:52,749 Speaker 2: I just met my wife and was it's my wife 72 00:02:53,069 --> 00:02:55,869 Speaker 2: is not his mother, so we met. 73 00:02:56,149 --> 00:02:57,749 Speaker 3: When I met my wife, I think I became a 74 00:02:57,749 --> 00:02:59,789 Speaker 3: person more suited for that. Yeah. Cool, you know. 75 00:02:59,989 --> 00:03:04,149 Speaker 2: But I'm very honest with him about especially because he 76 00:03:04,389 --> 00:03:06,309 Speaker 2: doesn't have any of the compulsion issues that I have, 77 00:03:06,429 --> 00:03:08,629 Speaker 2: so you know, I'm not worried about him, you know, 78 00:03:08,789 --> 00:03:11,189 Speaker 2: idolizing that part of me. But he just thinks the 79 00:03:11,269 --> 00:03:13,789 Speaker 2: stories are very, very funny. Now I am literally just 80 00:03:13,869 --> 00:03:17,229 Speaker 2: dad joke guy. So it's like, you just he almost 81 00:03:17,229 --> 00:03:19,029 Speaker 2: can't believe that that guy ever existed. 82 00:03:19,149 --> 00:03:23,029 Speaker 1: I don't think that kind of like male fandom exists 83 00:03:23,149 --> 00:03:26,269 Speaker 1: these days, Like it's not cool to be in love 84 00:03:26,349 --> 00:03:27,909 Speaker 1: with a male pop star these days. 85 00:03:28,069 --> 00:03:30,989 Speaker 2: I think there's a reason why, like bands like you know, 86 00:03:30,989 --> 00:03:33,429 Speaker 2: if you have my chemical romance and things like that 87 00:03:33,429 --> 00:03:35,309 Speaker 2: they seem to do. I think there's something more about 88 00:03:35,349 --> 00:03:37,629 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's like maybe the idea of 89 00:03:37,629 --> 00:03:41,189 Speaker 2: the fraternal bond of like you know, mates getting together 90 00:03:41,349 --> 00:03:43,589 Speaker 2: doing something, and like people wanting to kind of emulate 91 00:03:43,629 --> 00:03:47,029 Speaker 2: that kind of relationship. I think more than the individual 92 00:03:47,589 --> 00:03:50,789 Speaker 2: kind of adolation over our idolation over one person. 93 00:03:50,989 --> 00:03:53,349 Speaker 3: Yes, particular, you know, I think Michael Michael Hutchins was 94 00:03:53,389 --> 00:03:54,349 Speaker 3: like hot, Yeah. 95 00:03:54,709 --> 00:03:57,469 Speaker 2: I mean like if I and there's if I see 96 00:03:57,949 --> 00:04:00,509 Speaker 2: you know, Liam Gallagher walking on this chair, I'm just 97 00:04:00,589 --> 00:04:01,549 Speaker 2: going to fang. 98 00:04:02,069 --> 00:04:02,749 Speaker 3: Right, Okay, cool. 99 00:04:02,789 --> 00:04:05,589 Speaker 1: So for me, I wanted to ask you how it 100 00:04:05,829 --> 00:04:07,949 Speaker 1: was being like, well, you know, if you're talking about 101 00:04:08,109 --> 00:04:09,669 Speaker 1: what you were just talking then in terms of like 102 00:04:09,709 --> 00:04:11,629 Speaker 1: the compulsion and addiction stuff that was going on for you, 103 00:04:11,669 --> 00:04:13,709 Speaker 1: it sounds like you didn't handle it very well. But 104 00:04:13,789 --> 00:04:15,589 Speaker 1: I like, I was gonna ask you what that was 105 00:04:15,709 --> 00:04:18,909 Speaker 1: like being an icon for young men, because I would 106 00:04:19,029 --> 00:04:22,068 Speaker 1: I would struggle so hard that. 107 00:04:22,349 --> 00:04:24,629 Speaker 2: You have to imagine, like it's a time where there's 108 00:04:24,709 --> 00:04:28,029 Speaker 2: no social media. As big as we were getting, we 109 00:04:28,069 --> 00:04:30,709 Speaker 2: didn't really have any perspective on like you know, we 110 00:04:30,709 --> 00:04:32,149 Speaker 2: would just know that we would come to shows and 111 00:04:32,309 --> 00:04:34,029 Speaker 2: we saw the shows and they would like the shows. 112 00:04:34,509 --> 00:04:36,749 Speaker 2: We didn't have another metric to compare it to wow, 113 00:04:36,749 --> 00:04:38,549 Speaker 2: Like we didn't know how many followers we have versus 114 00:04:38,589 --> 00:04:39,909 Speaker 2: how many followers somebody else had. 115 00:04:39,988 --> 00:04:42,029 Speaker 1: Did you have a moment where you were like we're famous, 116 00:04:42,069 --> 00:04:42,988 Speaker 1: Like did you have that? 117 00:04:43,069 --> 00:04:45,069 Speaker 2: There were kind of like little moments along the way. 118 00:04:45,229 --> 00:04:47,748 Speaker 2: My first solo record was twenty years ago, and I 119 00:04:47,749 --> 00:04:50,909 Speaker 2: remember playing like live aid in front of a million 120 00:04:50,909 --> 00:04:53,549 Speaker 2: people in Philadelphia with Stevie Wonder Wow. But then at 121 00:04:53,549 --> 00:04:55,309 Speaker 2: the same time, I didn't feel that famous because it. 122 00:04:55,229 --> 00:04:56,509 Speaker 3: Was Steve Wonder. Yeah. 123 00:04:56,789 --> 00:04:59,428 Speaker 2: I think my I've always been like that level of fame, 124 00:04:59,469 --> 00:05:01,589 Speaker 2: where like I just judged myself by how many other 125 00:05:01,629 --> 00:05:02,789 Speaker 2: famous people I got to know. 126 00:05:02,909 --> 00:05:04,149 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Interesting. 127 00:05:04,269 --> 00:05:06,389 Speaker 1: Another band that was probably on the same parallel for 128 00:05:06,469 --> 00:05:09,189 Speaker 1: me was The Strokes. I was just really into them 129 00:05:09,509 --> 00:05:11,909 Speaker 1: when I sold The Strokes in Australia recently, and Julian 130 00:05:11,949 --> 00:05:15,109 Speaker 1: Casablancas was just back on the bus and he was 131 00:05:15,229 --> 00:05:17,389 Speaker 1: just a bit of a mess, right, Yeah, that's I mean, 132 00:05:17,629 --> 00:05:19,868 Speaker 1: back on it. And then I've never been sober and 133 00:05:19,909 --> 00:05:23,509 Speaker 1: so maybe you know, And then I mean, I mean 134 00:05:23,709 --> 00:05:25,189 Speaker 1: we still love to go out and we still like 135 00:05:25,229 --> 00:05:26,709 Speaker 1: to have our drinks and stuff. I just think, but 136 00:05:26,909 --> 00:05:30,188 Speaker 1: I've never it's been a very long time since I've 137 00:05:30,229 --> 00:05:32,549 Speaker 1: ever let it get in the way. It's definitely more 138 00:05:32,589 --> 00:05:35,229 Speaker 1: of a recreational thing, you yea. You know, once you clock. 139 00:05:35,029 --> 00:05:37,628 Speaker 3: Out like a normal person does, as opposed to waking 140 00:05:37,709 --> 00:05:37,949 Speaker 3: up Like. 141 00:05:37,949 --> 00:05:39,949 Speaker 2: The first time my son was like nineteen. Like my 142 00:05:39,988 --> 00:05:41,109 Speaker 2: son used to come out on the road he was 143 00:05:41,149 --> 00:05:43,029 Speaker 2: like ten. It was like as soon as he was 144 00:05:43,069 --> 00:05:45,829 Speaker 2: coming out, as like everybody were shutting it down, put 145 00:05:45,869 --> 00:05:47,509 Speaker 2: it away, don't show anybody that, you know what I mean. 146 00:05:47,869 --> 00:05:50,789 Speaker 2: Then when he was like eighteen, it was kind of like, okay, listen, 147 00:05:50,949 --> 00:05:52,909 Speaker 2: just so you know, Dad's not like this all the time. 148 00:05:55,589 --> 00:05:56,509 Speaker 3: And even when he. 149 00:05:56,509 --> 00:05:58,709 Speaker 2: Shows, these women are like sexualizing my son from the 150 00:05:58,749 --> 00:06:00,029 Speaker 2: stage and I'm like, he's a baby. 151 00:06:00,069 --> 00:06:02,628 Speaker 3: Stop it. He's twenty seven. 152 00:06:02,629 --> 00:06:05,669 Speaker 1: By the way, everyone I know, ye single, no, no, 153 00:06:05,709 --> 00:06:08,069 Speaker 1: it just has a brand new girl friend. Stay away, guys. 154 00:06:09,669 --> 00:06:14,269 Speaker 1: I want to ask you about, uh this Bobby movie thing. 155 00:06:14,589 --> 00:06:15,989 Speaker 1: All right on, yeah, if you. 156 00:06:15,909 --> 00:06:16,308 Speaker 3: Don't know it. 157 00:06:16,389 --> 00:06:19,509 Speaker 1: Ryan Gosling does a version of push in the Bobby Movie. 158 00:06:19,509 --> 00:06:25,229 Speaker 4: He's been one of that thank you, I love it, 159 00:06:26,629 --> 00:06:29,628 Speaker 4: thank you. 160 00:06:29,629 --> 00:06:29,789 Speaker 3: You know. 161 00:06:30,229 --> 00:06:32,349 Speaker 2: In nineteen ninety six, I sounded a lot more like 162 00:06:32,389 --> 00:06:33,549 Speaker 2: that than people remember it. 163 00:06:34,109 --> 00:06:36,349 Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you so, first question, the Rob 164 00:06:36,429 --> 00:06:39,789 Speaker 1: Thomas voice, like it's iconic. You can't not sing your 165 00:06:39,829 --> 00:06:41,149 Speaker 1: songs at some stage. 166 00:06:41,349 --> 00:06:43,868 Speaker 2: The first couple of records, it was much more southern 167 00:06:43,869 --> 00:06:45,549 Speaker 2: because I was from South Carolina and I had a 168 00:06:45,589 --> 00:06:48,469 Speaker 2: really deep southern accent, right, and it was more slurpy. 169 00:06:48,869 --> 00:06:51,149 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know that it became over the years. Yeah, 170 00:06:51,189 --> 00:06:52,988 Speaker 3: and so do you like is that a do you 171 00:06:53,029 --> 00:06:55,069 Speaker 3: do you when you're singing? Are you like all right? 172 00:06:55,069 --> 00:06:56,748 Speaker 3: Time to go full Rob Thomas on this thing? And 173 00:06:57,629 --> 00:06:58,469 Speaker 3: people when I try not. 174 00:06:58,429 --> 00:07:01,069 Speaker 2: To, I think it just happens. Yeah, I mean it's iconic, 175 00:07:01,189 --> 00:07:03,869 Speaker 2: it's your voice. Yeah, like I'm not really sure. I 176 00:07:03,909 --> 00:07:05,549 Speaker 2: wouldn't know. I'm not a good enough singer to put 177 00:07:05,589 --> 00:07:06,069 Speaker 2: something on. 178 00:07:06,069 --> 00:07:07,549 Speaker 3: Yeah right, okay, okay, cool. 179 00:07:07,629 --> 00:07:09,149 Speaker 1: So the second question I have for you, So apparently 180 00:07:09,189 --> 00:07:11,309 Speaker 1: Greta go wig Is said that she's a Matchbook twenty 181 00:07:11,309 --> 00:07:12,229 Speaker 1: fan and that's what. 182 00:07:12,309 --> 00:07:14,069 Speaker 2: When she wrote me to ask about using the song, 183 00:07:14,109 --> 00:07:15,829 Speaker 2: and she wrote, you, yeah, I mean you have to 184 00:07:15,829 --> 00:07:19,109 Speaker 2: give permission. And so when she asked, it was a 185 00:07:19,109 --> 00:07:21,029 Speaker 2: one sheet. Really, they just said Greta girl wigs doing 186 00:07:21,069 --> 00:07:23,269 Speaker 2: a movie. And I was already in because since like 187 00:07:23,309 --> 00:07:26,149 Speaker 2: Francis Hall, I've loved every movie is done right. Yeah, 188 00:07:26,349 --> 00:07:30,469 Speaker 2: and uh, but then Margot Robbie, Ryan Gosling. You know, 189 00:07:30,509 --> 00:07:31,949 Speaker 2: it's just like I was like, whatever it is, I'm 190 00:07:31,989 --> 00:07:34,669 Speaker 2: going to be you know, like, what's it's it's Ken's 191 00:07:34,669 --> 00:07:36,989 Speaker 2: favorite song and he's singing it by a campfire. 192 00:07:37,309 --> 00:07:40,149 Speaker 3: So I mean, I'm I'm not stupid. I know exactly 193 00:07:40,189 --> 00:07:41,149 Speaker 3: where this is gonna. 194 00:07:40,869 --> 00:07:44,509 Speaker 2: Come right, and there's it's not wrong because in the 195 00:07:44,589 --> 00:07:47,709 Speaker 2: nineties there was this feeling of like manufactured angst in 196 00:07:47,709 --> 00:07:51,629 Speaker 2: a way which felt very genuine at the time. And 197 00:07:51,669 --> 00:07:53,429 Speaker 2: so the way that I relate to that character was 198 00:07:53,429 --> 00:07:55,109 Speaker 2: a sense that, like, you know, this, this guy was 199 00:07:55,349 --> 00:07:58,829 Speaker 2: not too bright. He was young's playing young and and uh, 200 00:07:59,149 --> 00:08:00,789 Speaker 2: and he didn't know how to use his emotions, so 201 00:08:00,829 --> 00:08:02,469 Speaker 2: he had songs like this, you know, and. 202 00:08:02,429 --> 00:08:04,509 Speaker 3: That's how he kind of worked it out. And when 203 00:08:04,549 --> 00:08:04,909 Speaker 3: I was. 204 00:08:04,869 --> 00:08:07,509 Speaker 2: Young and not that smart, I wrote songs like that, 205 00:08:07,949 --> 00:08:09,349 Speaker 2: you know, and that was how I kind of work 206 00:08:09,429 --> 00:08:10,269 Speaker 2: through my own thing. 207 00:08:10,309 --> 00:08:11,789 Speaker 3: And that's why you were popular. I mean, that's as 208 00:08:11,789 --> 00:08:12,389 Speaker 3: a young boy. 209 00:08:12,429 --> 00:08:14,509 Speaker 1: That's why I loved you guys so much, because as 210 00:08:14,549 --> 00:08:16,189 Speaker 1: a young kid, you've got your parents and your teachers 211 00:08:16,189 --> 00:08:17,429 Speaker 1: and they're like, you know, you should be like this, 212 00:08:17,509 --> 00:08:18,869 Speaker 1: and then you get bands like you and you're like, 213 00:08:19,029 --> 00:08:21,189 Speaker 1: oh no, I'm like that emotional. 214 00:08:21,229 --> 00:08:23,189 Speaker 2: That's because there's a lot of people that like there 215 00:08:23,189 --> 00:08:24,949 Speaker 2: were if you were, if they were so embedded in 216 00:08:24,989 --> 00:08:27,189 Speaker 2: that first record and then have we as we like, 217 00:08:27,469 --> 00:08:29,429 Speaker 2: we're much less of a rock band, you know, we're 218 00:08:29,509 --> 00:08:31,669 Speaker 2: we're very much pop rock band, and you know, we 219 00:08:32,189 --> 00:08:33,949 Speaker 2: tried to try to do a bunch of different kinds 220 00:08:33,949 --> 00:08:36,549 Speaker 2: of things. Yeah, and sometimes people aren't having it. Yeah, 221 00:08:36,588 --> 00:08:37,789 Speaker 2: you know, because they were just kind of there for 222 00:08:37,828 --> 00:08:38,388 Speaker 2: that part. 223 00:08:38,549 --> 00:08:41,669 Speaker 3: That was there. Yeah, You're like, I can't, I can't 224 00:08:41,708 --> 00:08:44,549 Speaker 3: be all that. Yeah. I mean, I'm fifty three years old, 225 00:08:44,748 --> 00:08:46,189 Speaker 3: you know, I'm rich. Yeah. 226 00:08:46,388 --> 00:08:53,108 Speaker 1: Fine, Okay, So my question for you then is obviously 227 00:08:53,149 --> 00:08:56,028 Speaker 1: that song in Bobby is used as like a you know, 228 00:08:56,069 --> 00:08:57,748 Speaker 1: because the whole point of the Bobby movie is that 229 00:08:58,149 --> 00:08:59,869 Speaker 1: men have it over women and Bobby dolls just. 230 00:09:00,468 --> 00:09:02,308 Speaker 3: It's a soundtrack for the patriarchy. 231 00:09:02,388 --> 00:09:05,149 Speaker 1: Yeah, right, well, put, that's not what that song was about, 232 00:09:05,149 --> 00:09:05,828 Speaker 1: though it was it. 233 00:09:05,828 --> 00:09:10,468 Speaker 2: No, not, In fact, it was written about me from 234 00:09:10,508 --> 00:09:12,029 Speaker 2: the point of view of you were getting pushed rut. 235 00:09:12,069 --> 00:09:13,588 Speaker 2: I was in a relationship that I was in and 236 00:09:13,669 --> 00:09:16,149 Speaker 2: I was in this by someone who I maybe I 237 00:09:16,189 --> 00:09:17,749 Speaker 2: was and I don't know, I could have been wrong, 238 00:09:17,789 --> 00:09:19,708 Speaker 2: but it felt like I was being manipulated. It felt like, 239 00:09:19,748 --> 00:09:21,909 Speaker 2: you know, it was probably she probably just broke up 240 00:09:21,909 --> 00:09:23,588 Speaker 2: with me, like it was probably that was it, of course, 241 00:09:23,669 --> 00:09:26,748 Speaker 2: but it just turned it around because I didn't think 242 00:09:26,789 --> 00:09:28,629 Speaker 2: that at the time, like nobody wanted to hear a 243 00:09:28,669 --> 00:09:29,228 Speaker 2: victim song. 244 00:09:29,388 --> 00:09:31,229 Speaker 3: Felt like it was a little better if I could, 245 00:09:31,228 --> 00:09:31,949 Speaker 3: if I reverse the. 246 00:09:32,029 --> 00:09:35,429 Speaker 1: Roles for a man in the nineties to be talking 247 00:09:35,468 --> 00:09:38,108 Speaker 1: about getting emotionally manipulated. Yeah, I mean, that doesn't exist. 248 00:09:38,149 --> 00:09:39,869 Speaker 2: It's amazing now that I can have song like the 249 00:09:39,909 --> 00:09:41,509 Speaker 2: new song hard to Be Happy and you just write 250 00:09:41,549 --> 00:09:43,549 Speaker 2: songs about mental health and not feeling you know, not 251 00:09:43,628 --> 00:09:44,748 Speaker 2: being okay and things like that. 252 00:09:44,828 --> 00:09:47,348 Speaker 3: I mean, it's a it's a win, yeah, and it's 253 00:09:47,348 --> 00:09:49,708 Speaker 3: definitely a better time. But you were writing on well 254 00:09:49,789 --> 00:09:52,149 Speaker 3: in the nineties, which was you know, that was. 255 00:09:52,189 --> 00:09:53,828 Speaker 2: I think where I started to kind of be able 256 00:09:53,909 --> 00:09:56,828 Speaker 2: to tap into that thing about me and just realize 257 00:09:56,868 --> 00:10:00,629 Speaker 2: that vulnerability was really the currency in music, you know. 258 00:10:00,708 --> 00:10:02,468 Speaker 2: And I think and that's the thing that most people 259 00:10:02,748 --> 00:10:05,069 Speaker 2: are going to really relate to over time. Like people 260 00:10:05,108 --> 00:10:06,628 Speaker 2: might like push because it's going to remind him of 261 00:10:06,669 --> 00:10:08,669 Speaker 2: a certain time, but yeah, you know, twenty years later, 262 00:10:08,748 --> 00:10:10,629 Speaker 2: people can listen to Unwell because it reminds them of 263 00:10:10,628 --> 00:10:13,149 Speaker 2: a moment they're having right there. Yeah, And so you know, 264 00:10:13,268 --> 00:10:15,268 Speaker 2: I'm really just been fortunate enough to be around long 265 00:10:15,388 --> 00:10:17,069 Speaker 2: enough to be able to kind of explore all those 266 00:10:17,069 --> 00:10:17,949 Speaker 2: different kind of themes. 267 00:10:19,868 --> 00:10:22,549 Speaker 1: Sorry, the teenage boy in me is just popping off 268 00:10:22,628 --> 00:10:24,909 Speaker 1: right now. I actually had some friends over for coffee 269 00:10:24,949 --> 00:10:26,989 Speaker 1: before I was telling them that I was interviewing you 270 00:10:27,029 --> 00:10:30,029 Speaker 1: this afternoon, and they were like. A friend of mine 271 00:10:30,029 --> 00:10:32,629 Speaker 1: said to me, oh, didn't you used to like you 272 00:10:32,708 --> 00:10:33,988 Speaker 1: used to like I used to busk a. 273 00:10:33,909 --> 00:10:35,348 Speaker 3: Lot when I was a teenager, all right on. 274 00:10:35,388 --> 00:10:38,228 Speaker 1: Yeah, And he was like, oh, you know you used 275 00:10:38,228 --> 00:10:40,269 Speaker 1: to play like a lot of used to play a 276 00:10:40,309 --> 00:10:42,588 Speaker 1: lot of Matchbox twenty And I was like, yeah, I did. 277 00:10:43,069 --> 00:10:46,029 Speaker 1: And he said you should ask Rob if he would 278 00:10:46,069 --> 00:10:47,909 Speaker 1: sing with you. I literally haven't picked up a guitar 279 00:10:47,988 --> 00:10:49,148 Speaker 1: in like fifteen years. 280 00:10:50,029 --> 00:10:52,989 Speaker 3: But what happened? Why did you start? Because you found 281 00:10:52,949 --> 00:10:57,429 Speaker 3: a successful radio. I brought my guitar. What are we doing? 282 00:10:58,309 --> 00:10:59,029 Speaker 3: Three am? 283 00:10:59,228 --> 00:11:02,149 Speaker 1: That was the idea. Oh really, yeah, it's good, you 284 00:11:02,228 --> 00:11:05,909 Speaker 1: kidding playing it? I was going to well then unless 285 00:11:05,909 --> 00:11:06,748 Speaker 1: you want to play it. 286 00:11:06,708 --> 00:11:09,748 Speaker 2: Huh no, I want to hear you play. Somebody give 287 00:11:09,789 --> 00:11:15,189 Speaker 2: me a dollar. I'm nervous about this done sound check? 288 00:11:15,748 --> 00:11:21,149 Speaker 3: Do you okay? One American Dog for one American song. 289 00:11:22,949 --> 00:11:24,189 Speaker 1: So I don't know if I'm going to be able 290 00:11:24,189 --> 00:11:26,429 Speaker 1: to concentrate on lyrics and guitar. 291 00:11:27,228 --> 00:11:30,669 Speaker 3: I can try, I can try, but are you willing? 292 00:11:30,708 --> 00:11:32,388 Speaker 3: Are you willing to sing as well? Let's do it. 293 00:11:32,468 --> 00:11:34,428 Speaker 3: I can't do it, thank you, because I don't. I 294 00:11:34,429 --> 00:11:35,708 Speaker 3: don't want to just sit here and stare at you. 295 00:11:35,789 --> 00:11:48,588 Speaker 5: Mika, she said, it's cold outside. She hands me my 296 00:11:48,708 --> 00:12:04,588 Speaker 5: ringe cord. She's always worried about things like that. She said, 297 00:12:04,588 --> 00:12:06,748 Speaker 5: it's all going to end and might as well have 298 00:12:06,828 --> 00:12:07,748 Speaker 5: been my fault. 299 00:12:11,588 --> 00:12:13,789 Speaker 3: She all sleeps around. 300 00:12:13,868 --> 00:12:18,428 Speaker 6: It's rain and she screams now. 301 00:12:18,588 --> 00:12:22,509 Speaker 3: Her voice istrain, she says, bathing. 302 00:12:24,108 --> 00:12:33,869 Speaker 6: Historam I must be lonely, she says, baby, and I 303 00:12:33,949 --> 00:12:37,348 Speaker 6: can't help but be scaring it at all sometimes. 304 00:12:37,549 --> 00:12:39,268 Speaker 3: But the rain's gonna wash away. 305 00:12:39,429 --> 00:12:42,748 Speaker 5: I believe it. 306 00:12:42,909 --> 00:12:55,708 Speaker 3: One dollar, Thank you, sir, rot. That was unbelievable. Wow. 307 00:12:55,708 --> 00:12:57,988 Speaker 3: I never thought that Rob Thomas would be giving me money. Dude. 308 00:12:58,029 --> 00:13:01,708 Speaker 2: We were in the car googling how to tell the 309 00:13:01,748 --> 00:13:03,588 Speaker 2: difference between a beer and a soda when you open 310 00:13:03,628 --> 00:13:03,909 Speaker 2: it up? 311 00:13:03,949 --> 00:13:08,029 Speaker 3: Shut up, shut up, all right, Let's do it. I 312 00:13:08,069 --> 00:13:10,189 Speaker 3: love that, Otherwise it'll feel like wasted time. 313 00:13:17,789 --> 00:13:20,548 Speaker 1: He's got the goggles on what he is out of 314 00:13:20,549 --> 00:13:21,668 Speaker 1: the studio. By the way, he's going to go on 315 00:13:22,069 --> 00:13:22,708 Speaker 1: off having his baby. 316 00:13:22,708 --> 00:13:24,388 Speaker 3: Guys, if you're just joining us, Rob is going to 317 00:13:24,429 --> 00:13:25,788 Speaker 3: be doing. Can you hear it now? Rob? 318 00:13:25,828 --> 00:13:31,309 Speaker 1: You should know on this celebrity leaderboard, Joe Jonas has six. Oh, 319 00:13:31,429 --> 00:13:34,268 Speaker 1: so he's at the bottom end of the celebrity leaderboard. 320 00:13:35,228 --> 00:13:37,109 Speaker 1: It kind of goes up from there. Now, if you 321 00:13:37,108 --> 00:13:39,509 Speaker 1: get zero, you'll be on the same as Jason Derulo. 322 00:13:39,628 --> 00:13:41,189 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if you and Jason have hung out 323 00:13:41,228 --> 00:13:44,108 Speaker 1: at all. Uh no, five seconds of somewhere in here. 324 00:13:44,108 --> 00:13:45,348 Speaker 1: They got nine yesterday. 325 00:13:45,508 --> 00:13:48,468 Speaker 2: Okay, so that's just If I get one, I'm gonna 326 00:13:48,468 --> 00:13:49,869 Speaker 2: feel like a man, so don't worry about it. 327 00:13:49,868 --> 00:13:50,028 Speaker 3: Cool. 328 00:13:50,029 --> 00:13:51,669 Speaker 1: Well, you've been practicing in the car, so you should 329 00:13:51,669 --> 00:14:03,148 Speaker 1: get one. He's your first can. That's a beer, Rob Thomas, 330 00:14:03,149 --> 00:14:06,429 Speaker 1: thanks for dropping by. It's been great a beer. 331 00:14:09,549 --> 00:14:10,309 Speaker 3: I was so ready. 332 00:14:10,429 --> 00:14:12,028 Speaker 2: I feel like I knew exactly what a beer was 333 00:14:12,029 --> 00:14:13,268 Speaker 2: gonna sound like, and that was it. 334 00:14:15,309 --> 00:14:17,988 Speaker 3: I'm ready to go again, are you sure? Yeah? Because 335 00:14:18,029 --> 00:14:19,669 Speaker 3: the thing is, let me see that can again. The 336 00:14:19,709 --> 00:14:20,389 Speaker 3: problem is, you. 337 00:14:20,349 --> 00:14:21,709 Speaker 2: Know you can take that and shove it up your ass. 338 00:14:21,709 --> 00:14:23,149 Speaker 2: I don't want to keep going. 339 00:14:25,268 --> 00:14:27,788 Speaker 1: The thing is, if hearing it on the microphone is 340 00:14:27,869 --> 00:14:30,229 Speaker 1: really different to hearing it away from the microphone, You're 341 00:14:30,229 --> 00:14:31,709 Speaker 1: getting an intense version right now. 342 00:14:31,749 --> 00:14:32,429 Speaker 3: Remember that, all right? 343 00:14:32,869 --> 00:14:34,589 Speaker 2: Also, I feel like when I was in the car, 344 00:14:34,669 --> 00:14:37,029 Speaker 2: I got a really false, pumped up sense of my 345 00:14:37,069 --> 00:14:39,788 Speaker 2: ability to do this. I just I was like, I'm 346 00:14:39,789 --> 00:14:41,029 Speaker 2: gonna I'm gonna rule it. 347 00:14:41,109 --> 00:14:53,229 Speaker 3: This can one. Here we go. That's a beer. That's 348 00:14:53,229 --> 00:14:56,869 Speaker 3: a beer. Yeah, it was a phoamy thing. All right, Look, 349 00:14:56,909 --> 00:14:57,469 Speaker 3: he really is. 350 00:14:58,229 --> 00:14:59,869 Speaker 1: You can just leave your goggles on, you know, man, 351 00:14:59,909 --> 00:15:01,589 Speaker 1: you don't need to pull back up for air. 352 00:15:02,029 --> 00:15:05,749 Speaker 3: I just don't believe you. All right, here we go, 353 00:15:05,829 --> 00:15:14,669 Speaker 3: can't you? That's a beer? Rub Thomas, thanks again for 354 00:15:14,709 --> 00:15:15,909 Speaker 3: dropping by. 355 00:15:19,109 --> 00:15:20,589 Speaker 2: I always like to point out that I'm a pretty 356 00:15:20,589 --> 00:15:23,349 Speaker 2: good songwriter and we could just go with that. 357 00:15:24,549 --> 00:15:26,829 Speaker 3: I dude, I I've never been more upset at a 358 00:15:26,869 --> 00:15:28,309 Speaker 3: stupid skill that I don't. 359 00:15:28,109 --> 00:15:35,509 Speaker 1: Have one can one better than Jason Dulo. You take it, 360 00:15:35,989 --> 00:15:37,548 Speaker 1: I'll do it. It's been great having you in man. 361 00:15:37,989 --> 00:15:41,349 Speaker 1: Rob's go a brand new album, All night Days. Tickets 362 00:15:41,388 --> 00:15:44,189 Speaker 1: to go and see him still Melbourne, Sydney shows, great 363 00:15:44,229 --> 00:15:46,069 Speaker 1: to have you on the studio, Rob Thomas and Villain Woody. 364 00:15:46,109 --> 00:15:51,149 Speaker 1: Thanks so much, man, thanks without without Woodie. 365 00:15:52,508 --> 00:15:54,309 Speaker 3: We need you again. Yeah, and congrats to. 366 00:15:54,349 --> 00:15:56,148 Speaker 2: What I can't I can't believe that just because he's 367 00:15:56,149 --> 00:15:57,549 Speaker 2: having a baby and can say HI to me, But 368 00:15:57,549 --> 00:15:58,069 Speaker 2: that's fine. 369 00:15:58,829 --> 00:16:02,509 Speaker 3: Priorities I guess I don't know. Thanks Rob,