WEBVTT - New Love❤️ Languages Just DROPPED 😘(Time To Redo That Quiz hehe)

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex and Frooms catch

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<v Speaker 2>up podcast. Hey one's day ones and all the ones

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<v Speaker 2>in between. It's Flex and Frooms. We're gonna get to

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<v Speaker 2>a podcast because we're running late. Okay, Flex and Frooms

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<v Speaker 2>on Caita. The Internet has coined it, however, we will

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<v Speaker 2>steal it as per It's Barefoot Boy Summer twenty twenty three.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know about you, Flex, but walking around the city,

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<v Speaker 2>why am I seeing men? Gentlemen?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I seeing men? Why?

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<v Speaker 2>Fray tell men not wearing shoes in the city. It's

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<v Speaker 2>becoming a trend Sydney City. Reading here in The Cut

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<v Speaker 2>New York actually about same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So you haven't seen it with your own an stolen

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<v Speaker 1>the data from the Cut and New York based publication.

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<v Speaker 2>I did see it my local cafe the other day.

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<v Speaker 2>A man was wearing barefoot. We are in a beachside location.

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<v Speaker 2>I will be fair, but he had no business not

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<v Speaker 2>wearing shoes. It goes on talking Jacober Lordie shoeless braving

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<v Speaker 2>the La streets on a coffee or musician Mike Sabbath

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<v Speaker 2>aka Barefoot member of Sean Mendez Smoothie Squad. What are

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<v Speaker 2>all these words. In spring twenty twenty three, the Italian

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<v Speaker 2>brand Etro sent male models down its runway wearing short shorts, kaftans,

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<v Speaker 2>breezy blouse ons, paired with feet as naked as the

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<v Speaker 2>day they were born. No mind, I say, I'm over it.

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<v Speaker 2>Put your feet away, Okay. Callouses are a real thing.

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<v Speaker 2>My mum said to me, you need to stop wearing

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<v Speaker 2>crocs because your feet are cracking.

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<v Speaker 1>She said.

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<v Speaker 2>Cracked feet is not the look of the twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 2>three girl freem Indy. I did see comedian Eloi's f

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<v Speaker 2>toss Do a story about how people who walk around

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<v Speaker 2>barefoot like think that they're so hot and cool, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, listen, shoes, let's get some shoes. I think

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<v Speaker 2>the idea is that people think that they're so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a statement. It's a statement.

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<v Speaker 2>Put shoes back on, is what everybody's saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think the Barefoot Boy summer ethos is comparable

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<v Speaker 1>to the gen Z camera shake? I'm not making content.

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<v Speaker 1>I just ended up on this app, and I will

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<v Speaker 1>show you that by shaking the camera and a bresplay

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<v Speaker 1>shake place speak.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even care that I'm outside. I just rolled

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<v Speaker 2>out of here, got onto the train, walked into a cafe,

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<v Speaker 2>and now I'm sitting with my feet crossed like a

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<v Speaker 2>little dog.

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<v Speaker 1>The crowd goes wild. Thank do you hear them? There

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<v Speaker 1>it is? There are two new love languages. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be the person who's like in case you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what a love language is. I would hope

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<v Speaker 1>you've done the work, however, and the research however. Doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Gary Chapman, New York Times bestseller of the Five Love Languages,

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<v Speaker 1>The Secret to a Love That Last teaches us that

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<v Speaker 1>every individual has a preferred way they want to give

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<v Speaker 1>and receive love, whether you know it or you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know it. But a big part of it comes from

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<v Speaker 1>where you weren't given love, or where you were when

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<v Speaker 1>you were younger, how you were rated and nurture, et cetera. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>up until recently, the five key love languages, it's physical touch, quality, time,

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<v Speaker 1>acts of service, words, affirmation, and receiving gifts. So ideally

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<v Speaker 1>you would know which is your preferred primary love language.

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<v Speaker 1>You could resonate with all of them. You could be like,

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<v Speaker 1>I want all of them, but generally there is one

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<v Speaker 1>that you ultimately give with ease and like to receive

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<v Speaker 1>with ease. For instance, I like acts of service. Obsessed

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<v Speaker 1>with people doing things for me, even things I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even need, because I think it takes a certain amount

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<v Speaker 1>of care and consideration for someone to do something for you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm obsessed with it, I would say. In terms of giving,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a words of affirmation type of person. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you how I feel about you, that you're great,

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<v Speaker 1>that you speak well, that you're empowering.

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<v Speaker 2>Call for me.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you give them a receipt?

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<v Speaker 2>I also give words of affirmation, I would say. And

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<v Speaker 2>I like to get physical touch with I don't get

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<v Speaker 2>enough of. So when this spake finishes, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>read downloaded dating up. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought that when you were speaking.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a real talk guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You need physical toutch Okay. Look, and this is why

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a hugger. And this is why I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I can grow to be that out of touch person

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<v Speaker 1>who doesn't realize that you can't go around hugging in cheek.

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<v Speaker 1>I do that now, No, babe, I was a menace

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<v Speaker 1>during COVID. Let me tell you, let me tell you

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<v Speaker 1>spread up anyway. E Harmony recently did a survey, and

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<v Speaker 1>they revealed that twenty six percent of people have changed

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<v Speaker 1>the way they expressed love in a romantic relationship in

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<v Speaker 1>the past year. Why switch up? How that's more than

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<v Speaker 1>a quarter of people. Have you checked in with your

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<v Speaker 1>partner recently? They could be switching up on you. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five percent similarly have changed the way they prefer

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<v Speaker 1>to receive love again switching up? We need to do

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<v Speaker 1>as I suggested, the quarterly yearly relationship check ins. Are

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<v Speaker 1>we still on the same page? Do you like me,

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<v Speaker 1>like I like you? Et cetera, et cetera. Now, nearly

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<v Speaker 1>half of the people who participated in the survey so

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<v Speaker 1>that they weren't really sure if the five categories that

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<v Speaker 1>currently exist really encompass how they want to give and

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<v Speaker 1>receive love, and they would prefer if a few more

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<v Speaker 1>be integrated or incorporated. The first is shared experiences. So

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<v Speaker 1>this sounds a lot like quality time, but it really isn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more so like adventuring and expanding yourself with someone.

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<v Speaker 1>So a lot of the times quality time turns into

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<v Speaker 1>we sit on the couch and watch Netflix together, we

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<v Speaker 1>exist in the same room, we share our home. But

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<v Speaker 1>this is more so Can we build together, build tasks together,

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<v Speaker 1>do something exciting or expansive together. Can we go on

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<v Speaker 1>a hike together. Can we build a puzzle together? Can

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<v Speaker 1>we go in an escape room together? Can we go

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<v Speaker 1>on a holiday together and actually spend time that is different. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>the other love language is emotional security, which I think

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<v Speaker 1>is a red hot one. It's feeling emotionally seen and

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<v Speaker 1>taken care of, and a lot of people find that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they would assume that being there physically is enough.

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<v Speaker 1>I've definitely had circumstances with friends and family and partners

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<v Speaker 1>where I've thought my physical presence was enough and emotionally

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have to show up like I'm here, I

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<v Speaker 1>know we're hanging out. No no, no, no no no.

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<v Speaker 1>So signs that you are emotionally secure or connecting with

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<v Speaker 1>people is that you feel not a lot of shame

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<v Speaker 1>to ask questions, to share things about yourself. You can

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<v Speaker 1>talk through your feelings quite easily. You feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>always safe to express what you need and when you

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<v Speaker 1>need it and how you need it, which is cool

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<v Speaker 1>because when you reflect on some of your closest relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you'd be like, yeah, I do feel emotionally secure. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>there's literally no issue with being like, hey, babes, I

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<v Speaker 1>need a little something from you. Can you help me out?

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<v Speaker 2>That is my love language. Yeah, you're a tea.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get it through.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to get that be real.

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<v Speaker 1>You keep saying be real, and I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>because you want to say the fin for real, but

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to swear on air, and now it

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<v Speaker 1>just seems like you're a company chill for be real.

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<v Speaker 1>So I feel like every.

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<v Speaker 2>Time every time I say my brain's split, I meant

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<v Speaker 2>to see the art fragments. I need to say be serious,

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<v Speaker 2>serious or be for real?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, be real? Okay, for real.

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<v Speaker 2>You're listening to Flex and Frooms on Keita. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to know FLEXI are young people in Australia really unhappy?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a bit of a somber note.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you really took it right down.

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<v Speaker 2>As you know everybody, Tuesday's my least favorite Daisy, that's

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<v Speaker 2>when I'm bringing the terrible news. So, according to the

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<v Speaker 2>results of the thirty ninth Australian Unity Well Being Index,

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<v Speaker 2>which is from Deacon University and Australian Unity, People Unhappy.

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<v Speaker 1>The people between the age range of eighteen to twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five recorded a seventy three percent satisfaction rate, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a whole percent lower than the next age group, which

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<v Speaker 1>means that statistically speaking, young people are less happy than

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<v Speaker 1>older people. I think what's getting to be really frustrating

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<v Speaker 1>is that our understanding of happiness is so intangible and

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<v Speaker 1>studies like this are so binary and specifically you're happy

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<v Speaker 1>or not happy? Could you be happy? I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how much happy I've got in me? Do you know

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<v Speaker 1>if I knew for sure concrete that the happy that

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<v Speaker 1>I've experienced seeing Childish Gambino perform in twenty eighteen with

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<v Speaker 1>all my friends like, we're yelling, we're squealing, people are

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<v Speaker 1>pissed off next to us. If I'd known that was

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<v Speaker 1>the happiest I could get, then I would say, Okay, dated,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not peaking, not peaking the level. How do I

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<v Speaker 1>know how much happier I can get? And then what

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<v Speaker 1>is it based off? Do you know what it is? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>And I hate to be the person who says this,

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<v Speaker 1>but introspection without guidance does not make for a happy person.

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<v Speaker 1>How do we get these guided Why all our philosophers

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<v Speaker 1>say it, Why our our comedians say it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I totally agree. You need routine, and some would

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<v Speaker 2>say you need to get up and see the sunrise

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<v Speaker 2>for these ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, human.

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<v Speaker 2>Did a couple of humans were still and focus another

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<v Speaker 2>fantastic book. Yeah, I will say for me, I would

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<v Speaker 2>say personal connections are the route to happiness. However, how

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<v Speaker 2>do you cultivate them?

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<v Speaker 1>You need spare time, I personally feel and I struggled

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<v Speaker 1>with it a lot myself, of not growing out of

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<v Speaker 1>high school dynamics and realizing that the core factors you

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<v Speaker 1>need to be happy won't be provided for you. So

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<v Speaker 1>in high school, all your friends were in the same place.

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<v Speaker 1>You had to be there every day. Your parents paid

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<v Speaker 1>your phone bill. The food was already made for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and if it wasn't, you could easily go and source

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<v Speaker 1>it from the cupboards. You didn't have to buy toilet paper,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to buy mental products. Everything that you

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<v Speaker 1>needed to cultivate a happy life was there for you,

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<v Speaker 1>whether or not you realized it. And I think a

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<v Speaker 1>few of us are finding it difficult to bridge the

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<v Speaker 1>gap between that reality and our current existence. We're still

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for someone to make it better. We forget that

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<v Speaker 1>there was so much intention in how we did stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Then it's like, oh, we hung out all day, we

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<v Speaker 1>went to park parties. We forced ourselves to live. We

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<v Speaker 1>were so obsessed with like living and right now we

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll speak for myself, I can be so passive

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<v Speaker 1>assuming that the fun things will happen. I also think

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<v Speaker 1>that out of a score of one hundred, Australians average

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<v Speaker 1>a seventy five cent satisfaction rate, knowing that it's the

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<v Speaker 1>lowest it's ever been. However, seventy five out of one hundred,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not that low.

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<v Speaker 2>Bab Yeah, I mean it's not that low.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm quite happy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's giving.

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<v Speaker 1>It gives.

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<v Speaker 2>Always on the ABAC looking at new and interesting fand

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<v Speaker 2>angle articles, there was this ABC article about women leaving

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<v Speaker 2>their jobs to seek well being, creativity and freedom as

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<v Speaker 2>a way of life.

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<v Speaker 1>It I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. It's based on a study from Deloitte, which, as

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<v Speaker 2>we know everybody, we're still not sure what it is,

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<v Speaker 2>but we keep coming back to their studies.

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<v Speaker 1>Twenty twenty three Women at Work reports sounds fake.

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<v Speaker 2>No, And they surveyed five hundred Australian women and they

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<v Speaker 2>found that sixty percent left their jobs in twenty twenty two,

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<v Speaker 2>which is more than twenty twenty and twenty twenty one combined,

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<v Speaker 2>and they cited a lack of flexibility around working hours

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<v Speaker 2>as a reason for leaving. Declining physical health and an

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<v Speaker 2>ability to switch off from work wall also contributing factors

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<v Speaker 2>because thirty percent of women report ongoing burnout.

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<v Speaker 1>These are quotes from the article by Life Please, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean no plagiarism here, direct quotes from the article that.

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<v Speaker 2>Was giving like UNI shooting learning journalism like the back

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<v Speaker 2>of their eyes are faltering as they try and read

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<v Speaker 2>a Telly prompt.

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<v Speaker 1>But I said what I said, and it's true, and

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. I love this idea that people are

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<v Speaker 1>getting out of that commiserating, paralytic phase of knowing what

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<v Speaker 1>is wrong and now feeling the ages to do something

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<v Speaker 1>about it, even if it's not the best decision, the

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<v Speaker 1>right decision, but it's a step away from what is

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<v Speaker 1>keeping you in this like depleting state.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of the comments said, yeah, it must be nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, it must be because what how happen

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<v Speaker 1>to get it? Burn out? Burn out? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Everything everything comes at a cost. But I thought that

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<v Speaker 2>was really cool and I relate to that. I can imagine,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, one day, getting a hobby when I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>bit older, do the child rearing obviously, and continue with

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<v Speaker 2>the part time job, and then you know, I'd really

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<v Speaker 2>like to have a fun retirement that involves maybe not camping,

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<v Speaker 2>but perhaps going to lots of midday movies on the

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<v Speaker 2>cheap ass Tuesday five. Okay, Mattinee, Yeah, it's give me

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<v Speaker 2>Mattinee with Little Chocop and see. I'm on the other

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<v Speaker 2>end of I want to say spectrum, but it's anything

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<v Speaker 2>really a spectrum.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just the thought I'm having. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>it's on the other end of your spectrum. Stop diagnostic techniques.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you not just have a thought? Everything is had

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<v Speaker 1>an epiphany? I had a okay that I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if the other end of now is guaranteed to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>So right now we're in burnout rise and grind era,

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<v Speaker 1>and the other side is where we get to be

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<v Speaker 1>post burnout and we've got time to live and enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's ever coming. The system that

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<v Speaker 1>we're in and the positions that we hold. As much

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<v Speaker 1>as it pains us emotionally and mentally to do our jobs.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it also benefits us greatly, and I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>we can really have the benefits without the suffering in

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<v Speaker 1>the way that we benefit.

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<v Speaker 2>Now always with the suffering flex, do you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what I mean? So I like this idea of

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<v Speaker 1>people just you know, being like, I'm nipping it in

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<v Speaker 1>the bud. I don't even know if there's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>a way for me to balance both. I'm getting out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sexy and it's hot, and I feel like the

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<v Speaker 1>phrase it must be nice. Let's use that for things

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<v Speaker 1>like being born with good skin. Yeah, no, it must

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<v Speaker 1>be nice. Yeah, it is nice to not have pause.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fantastic. Okay, I'm freaking. Let's not use that for

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<v Speaker 1>man made issues. Yeah, okay, capitalists, I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>We live in a society.

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