1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: It's willobody. On a Tuesday, have you having a goat? 2 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Drive home? 3 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 2: Pick a card, pick a card, pick a card, pick 4 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:08,559 Speaker 2: a card, pick a card, pick a card, pick a card. 5 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 2: Couldn't leave your thoughts in a heap, Pick a card 6 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 2: and take a leap. On Tuesdays we like to get lazy. 7 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:19,319 Speaker 2: We coming by the coming up with an idea. So 8 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 2: basically we just pick a card from these thought provoking 9 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: decks that are everywhere. Now the imperfects have got one. 10 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 2: Ester Perel's got one. You find him in libraries, whatever, bookstores, everything. Anyway, 11 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:31,479 Speaker 2: we just like to come on here and ask this 12 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 2: question and effectively engage with it. The card I've picked. 13 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: Today is but particularly thought provoking question. 14 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. The card we picked today is when you think 15 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 2: a baby is ugly? Yep, what do you do? 16 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:49,639 Speaker 1: And this is near from the Imperfects? 17 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:49,959 Speaker 2: Was it? 18 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: No? 19 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 2: Not from the imperfects. Is from a I was in 20 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 2: a bookstore and I picked up one of these decks. 21 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 2: I can't remember the name of it. I think School 22 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: of Life are the ones who make it. 23 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: And first School of Life Alan de Berton, School on 24 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: Philosophy synthesizing different school Antiquity, l. 25 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 2: Y fe School of Life, trendyar School of Life. Anyway, 26 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 2: that's not worry about where I got the carduck, let's 27 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: just focus on the question at thirteen one oh six 28 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 2: five is our number? I mean, maybe you've experienced this, 29 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 2: you know, when you do when you see a baby, 30 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 2: you know what you know what you're supposed to do. 31 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 2: You're supposed to be like, oh my god, adorable, so cute, amazing. 32 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 2: But if you genuinely think or that's that's a that's 33 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 2: an ugly baby, that's a that's a bad that's a 34 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: bad looking baby, do you tell them the truth? Or 35 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 2: should you lie to their face and go, oh, you know, 36 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 2: play play the role. Oh my god, beautiful. 37 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: I don't see where you see an issue. 38 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: Here, So what would you do? 39 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: I just you'd say, the child looks beautiful. 40 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 2: So you're a liar. Sure, you've always told me that. 41 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 2: In fact, the truth shall set you free. And there's 42 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 2: no situation where a lie is. 43 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: The appropriate telling you And apart from telling parents that 44 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: their child's ugly, that is I have also and actually 45 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: I learned this from the real Lane to burch On, 46 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: from the actual school of Life, that telling a white 47 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: lie in some circumstances, is one hundred percent the best 48 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:13,519 Speaker 1: course of action. Yeah right, you're just not a nice 49 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: person if you're telling someone their babies ugly. 50 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 2: So you probably need to say but so would you 51 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 2: go would you all wan go like adorable, beautiful? Or 52 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 2: maybe if you see a baby and it's like Struth, 53 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 2: that's an ugly one, would you go like, oh, so 54 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 2: much character in their face. 55 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: I don't know why you've got such a thing about this, 56 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: because I remember when I. 57 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 2: Picked a card mate, I just picked a card Sorry, 58 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 2: this is my idea. 59 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: It must just be a confirmation biased thing for me. 60 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: Then that's come up again. But I remember when Min 61 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 1: was pregnant with Remy. You found a photo of Mimi 62 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: as a baby, hidious and. 63 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 2: You hidious, you brought the photo brought she brought home 64 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 2: and I was like, we're not putting that up in 65 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 2: the living room. We want people to eat their dinner. 66 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 2: She's a child, I appreciated. 67 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,399 Speaker 1: Emily called Emily, what do you reckon? Hey? 68 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, so my mom she calls them look at you babies. 69 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 2: So if she sees a bub baby that's not so cute, 70 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 2: she'll come up and say. 71 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 1: Oh, look at you Smart's ugly smart. 72 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 2: That's a great way out. It's a great way of what. 73 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 2: Look thirty one O six five. That is the number. 74 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 2: Look at you. If you see a baby and you 75 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 2: think it is ugly? What do you do? 76 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: We'll take you call that next elf? What Thirty one 77 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: and six five is a number you listening to kiss 78 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: Hope you having a wonderful Tuesday after and I better 79 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: safe drive home as well if you're on the public holidays. 80 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: I know obviously a few cards on the roads out 81 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: there right now. Thirty one and sixty five are asking you, 82 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: guys to call for the next thought provoking question in 83 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 1: pick a card Tuesday, Pick. 84 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 2: A card, pick a card, pick a card, pick a card, 85 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 2: pick a card, pick a card, pick a card, don't 86 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 2: believe your thoughts in a hate pick a card, and 87 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 2: take a lap car. A new trend is all these 88 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 2: thought provoking decks of cards that just want to ask 89 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 2: you questions. Is good social lubric and if you've got 90 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 2: friends over or you're hanging out with your partner whatever, Yeah, today. 91 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 2: The thought provoking question that I found in a deck 92 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: of cards is if you think a baby is ugly? 93 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 2: If you think of baby's ugly, so you just see 94 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 2: it and go, oh that looks ugly. Yeah, what do 95 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 2: you do you. 96 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 1: Tell the parent looks beautiful? Can you say you congratulations, 97 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 1: such a beautiful child? 98 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 2: And you would be a liar? William. Now let's go 99 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 2: to Evan here, ahole. 100 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: Have you ever told a parent that their child had 101 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 1: got you went to a baby shower on the weekend? 102 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 103 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 1: Any children ugly there? 104 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 2: So here's the thing. Here's the thing. One of the 105 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,239 Speaker 2: games my sister played, because my sister's baby shower beautiful, 106 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 2: one of the games that she played was she got 107 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: a baby photo of everyone who attended, and then the 108 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 2: game was we have to match the baby photo with 109 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 2: the attendee. Oh noice, Okay, my mum, quite an ugly baby, 110 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 2: like looked like a little bit devilish like it was 111 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 2: kind of like really quite creepy. Yeah, I had. I 112 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 2: told her a point blank. I told her. 113 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 1: But as an adult, you told her that she was 114 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 1: an ugly baby? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, you haven't told a 115 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: child that they looked ugly in front of their parents. 116 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 2: But a baby doesn't understand words, so I'd probably feel 117 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 2: more comfortable saying it to my baby bum Anyway, let's 118 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 2: go to Evan here six five Evan, what should you say? 119 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: Hi? 120 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 2: Well, she looks like he's going to have a great personality. 121 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 2: Oh god, but see let's see there you go? 122 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 1: You know, like, why are you still haven't given me 123 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: a y? 124 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 2: It's just that I think people feel ucomfortable about lying. Yeah. 125 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 2: I don't think people like to lie, so but that 126 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 2: that's that's just focusing on something something else. Right, You 127 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 2: go like, wow, personality unbelievable. I can feel it permeating 128 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 2: out of the little the little guy girl. 129 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: They can take they can catch you off guard. I 130 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 1: think that's a bit. They surprise you and you're like, yeah, 131 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: you're right. 132 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 2: The face pops out of the Mezslin cloth. It's whoas truth? Right? 133 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 2: And if it looks like at it's gonna be. 134 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: Six five? 135 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 2: Taylor? 136 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 1: What do you reckon? Hey? 137 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 2: Boys? How are you going? 138 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 1: Good? 139 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 2: Good? Thank you? I always say if I think a 140 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 2: child's face is something I can't comment on, I always 141 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 2: go for the toes. I go, oh my god, what 142 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 2: cute toes? Bad? 143 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: It's true, baby has a bad foot. 144 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 2: It's actually true all babies have a durable feet. 145 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,359 Speaker 1: Clever, No, you're a foot sorry, Taylor? Are you a 146 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: foot person now like as an adult, No, I mean 147 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 1: I would never call on people's feet. 148 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 2: Now that's a fetish. 149 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: These days you're doing it to the kids, mate, So yeah, 150 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 1: w did ever think about that? 151 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 2: That's an even more specific and probably weird to finish 152 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 2: baby toes. Let's go to Johnny here, now, let's go 153 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 2: to Johnny. Let's go to Johnny. John what does what 154 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 2: are you like that we're all thinking, you know, we're 155 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 2: moving on. Well, Johnny, what do you say, mate? If 156 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 2: you think of babies? Ugly? 157 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 1: Boy? How are you? 158 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 2: Very good? 159 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 1: Good? Very good? 160 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 2: Yeah? 161 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 1: Sorry him? We need to be so and so what 162 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 2: Here more of the boys on the full podcast Just 163 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 2: scroll up.