1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:22,639 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 6 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Conquer podcast. This is 7 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: the podcast where which have mindset, self development and becoming 8 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 9 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 10 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 11 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 12 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, we're here to 13 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical 14 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's 15 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: seat of your own life and stop letting life pass 16 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: you by, then you're in the right place. Hello everybody, 17 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:16,680 Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday, we'll welcome back to the potty. Today is 18 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: part five of our Laws of the Universe series in 19 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: partnership with Lust Minerals, and today we are unpacking the 20 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: law of relativity and the law of polarity. So if 21 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: you guys don't know there are twelve laws of the universe. 22 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: These are immutable laws, which just means they are continuously 23 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: working twenty four to seven whether we like them or not. 24 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: So most of us all know about the law of attraction, 25 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: but there are actually eleven more, and in these series 26 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: we unpack and we really digest them all and I 27 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: think you guys are going to absolutely love it. And 28 00:01:55,640 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: the law of relativity is actually what inspired my life 29 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: Happens for Me Tatoo, which well saying Tatoo, I'm obsessed with, 30 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: so we'll get into that. But if you're someone who 31 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: constantly gets caught up in comparison, or if you've ever 32 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: manifested exactly what you wanted and then realize you didn't 33 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: want it, then you are going to love this episode. 34 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: I share some of mine. But before we get into it, 35 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: of course, we wanted to say a massive thank you 36 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 1: to Lust Minerals for sponsoring this series. For those of 37 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 1: you who may not know, Lust Minerals is one of 38 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: Australia's favorite natural makeup and skincare brands. You guys know, 39 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: I personally love Lust Minerals. I have been using them 40 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: for years and I just love the fact that you 41 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: can use their products. It takes literally five minutes or 42 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: less to get ready. I am a busy gal and 43 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: I love my ivy time. I love you know, being 44 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: my businesses. So to have products that just make it 45 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: easier to get ready is game changing. Lust products are 46 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: hy performing, full coverage, and long lasting so you rarely 47 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: have to touch up. It's also sweat and water resistant, 48 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: which is a must in this weather. And we thought 49 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 1: we'd share our favor beauty hacks with you guys A 50 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 1: tear would you like to go first? 51 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 2: Yes, this isn't really revolutionary, but it's something I've started 52 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 2: making a very concerted effort of doing. Is actually doing 53 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 2: a sheet mask the night before I have like an event, 54 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 2: or if we're filming something really exciting at work, just 55 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,360 Speaker 2: because it makes the biggest difference to how my makeup 56 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 2: actually looks the next day. 57 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's so funny you say this, because 58 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 1: I have actually done the exact same thing, like I 59 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: never used to, Not that I never used to like 60 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: rate them, bit like I was like, Oh, it's not 61 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: gonna make too much of a difference. Yeah, but I'm 62 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 1: actually shocked how much of a difference it actually does 63 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 1: make and then just almost creating this beautiful setting for 64 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: then your makeup to sit on. 65 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 2: Yes, exactly. And I love doing it. If I have 66 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 2: like an evening of I do it like the afternoon 67 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 2: of but if it's like a full day thing, I 68 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 2: do it the night before and it just makes such 69 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 2: a difference to how everything looks the next day. 70 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 1: And what's the sheep mask called? Is it just called 71 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: sheet mask? 72 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 2: The last one that I've been using is called the 73 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 2: clear and Glow sheet mask, and I think it is 74 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 2: one of their new products. So highly recommend about you. 75 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 2: What's your hack? 76 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 1: So I have kind of spoken about this already, but 77 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: me and Tim have just been having conversations about this, 78 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: so I just really want to stress this so I'll 79 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: go into mind. But Tim has been You've seeing the 80 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: calming cream cleanser and also the carolonic acid serum, which 81 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: I know mean you're obsessed with, and then he has 82 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 1: been putting on the vitamin C brightening serum and then 83 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: finishing it with the rejuvenation oil. And he has been 84 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: doing this I think it's like four steps. And we 85 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 1: had to like fully go through this because he's such 86 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 1: a male and he's like turned thirty and he's like, oh, 87 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 1: I want to start taking care of my skin. What 88 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: do you think? He loves the Lost packaging because it's blue. 89 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,720 Speaker 1: It doesn't feel like feminem to him, which is I know, 90 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 1: like such a like silly thing. It's such a silly thing, 91 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 1: but look, I get it. So those four together he 92 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: has been doing religiously and honestly, I have noticed such 93 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: a difference in his skin, and so has he and 94 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: he's like really feeled himself and he's like, oh my gosh, 95 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: the gow clear my skin is. So I highly recommend 96 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 1: getting out Lost. Skincare is specifically those if your partner 97 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: wants to get in skincare, because I just feel like 98 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 1: it's approachable. But they'll also see results quickly, so then 99 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 1: they will be like convinced that yes, they should be 100 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: using skincare. So that's definitely a hack for him. For 101 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 1: me personally, what I love to use of last is 102 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 1: obviously all the products have spoken about in the previous series, 103 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: but a bit left filled a team their lip gloss. 104 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 1: I haven't tried it yet. I need to, Oh my gosh, 105 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 1: a tea. Well, so this is a huge thing for me. 106 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: I'm actually really prone to coal sauce, so I have 107 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: to be really careful what I put on my lips. 108 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:09,039 Speaker 1: And obviously Lust is natural. It only has the good 109 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: stuff in it, and it is my favorite lip gloss 110 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 1: to use if I'm going to be wearing it all 111 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 1: day or all night and I can just keep like, 112 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: you know, reapplying. It has a beautiful color, but it 113 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: just keeps my lips like moisturized, but it doesn't damage them. 114 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:29,239 Speaker 1: And it doesn't give me coalsals because I've actually used 115 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 1: so many other beauty products and they give me coalsaws. No. Yeah, 116 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 1: So that's definitely a hack and just something that it's 117 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 1: like you can have that in your bag and you 118 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: will continually use. My favorite color is number fifty seven. 119 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 1: It's a beautiful like pinkish, still very like natural color, 120 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: and I feel like it just goes with everything. But 121 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 1: they do have color matches on their website, so for 122 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,719 Speaker 1: any foundation or even lip gloss or anything like that, 123 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: you can do everything on the website. 124 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 2: And I will say their customer service is amazing. We 125 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 2: even had someone post in our Potty Community Facebook group 126 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 2: about what they skincare they could get for their teenager 127 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 2: and I was just like, just go ask the team. 128 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 2: They're always on. They're so good and so helpful. 129 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, they literally have like a live chat, so so 130 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: so helpful. All right, guys, the last team have been 131 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: kind enough to give us a discount code for you all, 132 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: and you can use the code Rise and Conquer at 133 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: checkout for twenty dollars off any order over fifty dollars. 134 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: So make sure you check it out. But let's get 135 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: into the episode. The universal law of relativity states that 136 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 1: everything in the universe is relative and can only be 137 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 1: understood and experienced in comparison to something else. So it 138 00:07:56,040 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: very much highlights the idea that our perception of things 139 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: are influenced by our relationship to other things. So this 140 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 1: law really teaches us that there are no absolute standards 141 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: of good or bad, right or wrong, but rather these 142 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 1: judgments are subjective and depend on the context and comparison. 143 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 1: I love this law. It's so good and it's basically perspective. Yeah, 144 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: it goes on to teach us that the law of relativity, 145 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: it really allows us, sorry to see the challenges and 146 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 1: difficulties we face can be seen in a different light 147 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 1: when compared to greater hardships others may be experiencing or 148 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: even you know, not as great hardships. So it's really 149 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: about consciously choosing our perspective and comparing our situation to 150 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: understand of does our reaction make sense or is it 151 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: you know, can see things a different way or is 152 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 1: it our conditioning and just because we have only experienced 153 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 1: life a certain way. So my kind of gist of 154 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 1: summing up this law is really I like to think 155 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 1: of it as nothing is bad as it seems, so 156 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: challenges are really inevitable and this law, honestly, this is 157 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 1: the law why I got my tattoo. Life happens for 158 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: me because it's really understanding that your belief of seeing 159 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: things a different way, believing that challenges happen for you 160 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 1: is a way to hack this law. So most people 161 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: believe they just need money, they need a certain person, 162 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: they need better friends, they need this than this, But 163 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: what they don't realize is their perspective of who they 164 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: are now and what they have now. Their feeling's never 165 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 1: going to change if they had that thing. And it's 166 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 1: all about like what you're experiencing and how you can 167 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: put things into perspective, Like, for example, if you're not 168 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 1: happy in your current reality, and you have these big 169 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: exciting goals of I need this car and I need 170 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: this mansion, and I need this husband, or I need 171 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 1: this blah blah blah. You're not actually going to be 172 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 1: happy when you get that thing, Yeah, because you have 173 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: no perspective of truly how grateful you know you are 174 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:30,319 Speaker 1: in this moment. Yeah, And it is. It's all about perspective. Yeah. 175 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 2: I think with this one as well. What I like 176 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 2: to also think of is in terms of other people. 177 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 2: It allows you to be more compassionate because everything is 178 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 2: relative to what they've experienced in their life. So say, 179 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 2: for example, someone has had maybe a bit more of 180 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 2: a privileged life than you, and maybe hasn't experienced the 181 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 2: same level of hardship you have. It doesn't make their 182 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 2: pain any less valid because they might be feeling the 183 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 2: same amount of pain you felt, but because it's relative 184 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 2: to their life, it may not be the same cause, 185 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 2: but the feeling and the strength of the feeling could 186 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 2: still be the same, and there's no way of you 187 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 2: to actually know that. So you should always just be 188 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 2: compassionate to people and allow them to feel upset, but 189 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 2: also use it yourself. To help put things into perspective 190 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 2: of when maybe you're not feeling so great. 191 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I really see. You know, this law kind 192 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: of coinciding with law of oneness, Yeah, and realizing I 193 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 1: think sometimes we can be so quick to judge people, 194 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: and we can be so quick to I can't believe 195 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 1: this person did this. It must mean this, but it's 196 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: like you have never gone through that person's experiences. And 197 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: even what I love about this law is kind of like, 198 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: for example, you know when someone's rude to you or 199 00:11:57,320 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: they're not very nice, and you're like, what a fucking jack, 200 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 1: and you're really off it, but it's like that person 201 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 1: could have just lost their mum, Yeah, and you have 202 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 1: no way of knowing the pain and the experiences they 203 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: have been through. So this law really brings in the 204 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 1: It's like the famous quote of like you don't know 205 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 1: what other people are going through, so make sure you 206 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 1: be kind. Yeah that's not the actual quote, because the 207 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 1: gist of it, and I really think this law is 208 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: like it's about focusing on stop focusing on what other 209 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: people are doing around you and what other people think 210 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 1: and feel, and go inwards and then trust that everyone 211 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 1: is on their own evolution and their own journey, and 212 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: you could be going through the most toughest time, the 213 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 1: most challenging time, but I guarantee you there's always someone 214 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 1: who's got it worse than you, and not in the 215 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: way of to invalidate your feelings. I one hundred percent 216 00:12:56,600 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: think we need to focus on these feelings, but things 217 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: like understanding, you know, from the concept of let's just 218 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 1: bring in the example of my miscarriage, like that was 219 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 1: obviously one of the hardest things I have ever been 220 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: through emotionally in my relationship. After me and Tim had 221 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 1: been trying to conceive for over the year, we finally 222 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: got pregnant, and then we had a miscarriage, and obviously 223 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 1: that was like one of the hardest times. But it's 224 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: like now that it's two years later and we have 225 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: IVY and we have all this happiness, I can very 226 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: much see how relative that pain was to that time 227 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: and how much that pain shaped me and I very 228 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 1: much through that time. That's where they're saying life happens 229 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 1: for me really came because I chose to believe that 230 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: I could see things in a different way and I 231 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 1: had to keep moving forward and it was all going 232 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 1: to make sense, and that experience truly did shape me, 233 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 1: and truly I you know, this is very hard to say, 234 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 1: but I try believe it happened for me so I 235 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:04,959 Speaker 1: could have the happiness and the experiences I have now 236 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 1: with Ivy, and obviously I would never change that. So 237 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: I think in the hard times, it's about being relative 238 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: and believing in that higher thing guiding and trusting you 239 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: and going I know I can't see it right now, 240 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: but I'm going to trust that this thing is happening 241 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: for me and this is relative to my experience. And 242 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: then on the counter of when other people are going 243 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 1: through things, of just really being considerate and kind and 244 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 1: compassionate to. 245 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 2: Them, because I think, especially nowadays, when people are upset 246 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 2: about things, as always someone that brings up, oh, you 247 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 2: can't be sad about that, because there's people in third 248 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 2: world countries who can't have food and things like that, 249 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 2: And it's just taking that aspect out and remembering to 250 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 2: have compassion for people's life experiences in that they might 251 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 2: not be thinking of that because they've never experienced it, 252 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 2: and how lucky they are that they haven't experienced it, 253 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 2: but that doesn't invalidate their pain. In the same way 254 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 2: that if someone's really happy about something and something really 255 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 2: good has happened, just because better things, better things happen 256 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 2: to other people, it doesn't make that person. 257 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 1: Any less happy. 258 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 2: And just remembering that if bad things are happening, or 259 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 2: if things are making you upset, it's okay, because if 260 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 2: you didn't know what sadness was, you also wouldn't know 261 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 2: what happiness is. And if bad things didn't happen, you 262 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 2: also wouldn't be grateful for the good thing. 263 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we're about to get into law of polarity. Yeah, 264 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: but that's very much you know that law and how 265 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 1: much we can really embrace those times and embrace the differences. Yeah, 266 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 1: because yeah, it is very much like you don't know 267 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 1: what you don't know. Yeah, exactly. Well, that's a great 268 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: segment to get straight into the law of polarity. Yes, 269 00:15:56,600 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: and so this law is it basically states that everything 270 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: in our universe has two opposite poles or extremes, and 271 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: these poles are necessary for us to define and experience things, 272 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 1: so almost we know where to slot ourselves in. 273 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:16,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, benchmarks. 274 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 1: Yes, And I feel like this law also plays a 275 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: lot into your concept of self because it's like you 276 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 1: kind of need to know where you stand, to know 277 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 1: who you are. Yes, And so it basically teaches us 278 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 1: that opposites are interconnected and coexist, and one cannot exist 279 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: without the other. This law applies to various aspects of life, 280 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 1: such as light and darkness, hot and cold, love and fear, 281 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 1: success and failure, and understanding that this polarity helps us 282 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: recognize the challenges and set backs are inherently part of 283 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 1: our growth and success. And it's kind of like if 284 00:16:56,920 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 1: you didn't have sadness, you wouldn't be able to experience happiness, 285 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 1: and we all want to experience happiness. So it's like 286 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 1: we need both to co exist and to be there. 287 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 1: And I think sometimes as humans we only want the 288 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: good parts. Yeah, We're like I just want to be 289 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: happy all the time, and I want all the success, 290 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 1: and I want all the best friends, and I want 291 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:21,920 Speaker 1: the best partner, and I want the most obedient kids 292 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: and blah blah blah. But it's like what you don't 293 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 1: realize is you need the extremes, You need the opposites 294 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 1: because you then appreciate things. And again, like I just 295 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 1: spoke about my miscarriage, I truly believe that that happened 296 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:43,440 Speaker 1: to me because I experienced a lot of hardships as 297 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 1: a new mum, and if I hadn't gone through such 298 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 1: a tough time of wanting a baby, I think my 299 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 1: experience with having a colic newborn could have been very 300 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 1: different and really not great. And I already had a 301 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 1: not great way. So it's like I needed to really 302 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:06,919 Speaker 1: feel the depths of my soul how much I wanted 303 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 1: a child to then experience and understand that, you know, 304 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: this newborn stage, it was just a stage, and I 305 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 1: wanted this for so long and I could get through 306 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:18,879 Speaker 1: this hardship. I think also with this law, what I 307 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,959 Speaker 1: love about it is, for example, you know when you 308 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 1: go through seasons of like not having the greatest time 309 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 1: with your partner or friends, yeah, and you're like, this 310 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: is a bit sucky, Like things were so great and 311 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 1: now they're a bit sucky. And again it's like we 312 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 1: need those times to value the good times absolutely. And 313 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:42,360 Speaker 1: it's like I often believe that like these challenges are 314 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:49,399 Speaker 1: given to us, and this law very much focuses on 315 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 1: I guess, like the universe showing you also what you 316 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 1: don't want, yes, because like I said, you don't know 317 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 1: what you don't know. So I've heard a really great 318 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: example of this on a podcast and she was saying, 319 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 1: you know, let's say you're trying to manifest a partner, yeah, 320 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 1: and you're like, I want them as a tear manifesting partner. 321 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:18,400 Speaker 1: I want a manifest a partner. And they are really 322 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 1: high up in they work for Disney. They work for Disney, 323 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 1: they have this amazing career, they're very intelligent, they're very this, 324 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:34,880 Speaker 1: and you know, they're amazing, and they've got this amazing 325 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 1: career and they're really fucking successful. A tear manifests that. 326 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:43,200 Speaker 1: But then what she doesn't understand is they also don't 327 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:46,439 Speaker 1: have any time for her. Because they're so high up 328 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: in their career and they're so successful and they're so intelligent, 329 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 1: they actually don't have any time for her, and they're 330 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 1: always at work and maybe they're not very respectful or 331 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: they think that they just need to pursue their career 332 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 1: and a tear should stay at home, you know, like 333 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 1: all these counter things, Whereas if a Tear had never 334 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:09,199 Speaker 1: experienced that, she might then get into that relationship and 335 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 1: be like, Okay, no, I actually want someone who's this, 336 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:16,119 Speaker 1: this and this. Yeah, but she had to experience that relationship, 337 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 1: and the universe goes, sure, this is what you want, 338 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:22,199 Speaker 1: here's exactly what you get. But what you'd realized is 339 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:23,439 Speaker 1: like you didn't actually want that. 340 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 2: No, I love that and I love this. How especially 341 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:30,359 Speaker 2: when you mentioned before the polar opposites and needing to 342 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 2: experience both in that There's so many people that I 343 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 2: know and I probably am guilty of this myself, is 344 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 2: you want a lot of success, but you won't let 345 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:43,479 Speaker 2: yourself fail. And how have to let yourself fail? 346 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 1: Yes, in order to have the challenges and experience the things. 347 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 2: Yes, And so it's almost I love it in a 348 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 2: way of it kind of just right then shifted my 349 00:20:56,320 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 2: perspective of I kind of need to get these failures 350 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 2: over and done with psyching, start getting to the good part. 351 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:06,679 Speaker 1: A really great example I have of this is so 352 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 1: I reckon trying to think when this was so the 353 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: year that I was pregnant, So I remember Naked Harvest 354 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,160 Speaker 1: was only a couple of years old. I was doing 355 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 1: RNC and also at that time I was also doing 356 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 1: a lot of work with other companies, like promoting other 357 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: people on Instagram, and I had some really great partnerships 358 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:31,679 Speaker 1: and my partnerships really ramped up because I had this 359 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 1: intention and goal that I wanted to be a bigger 360 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 1: influence in the lifestyle space, and like I wanted to 361 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 1: be that influencer that received designer handbags and got to 362 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: go to the events and like live that lifestyle. And 363 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 1: it's really funny now that I look back at that, 364 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 1: it's like I wanted to step into that space more. 365 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 1: And I also remember I wanted to be more strict 366 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 1: on the brands I worked with, and I wanted to 367 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:03,119 Speaker 1: call in a really big, well known brand that it's like, 368 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 1: oh my god, if I work with them, it's gonna 369 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna be the luxury lifestyle influencer, yeah, or 370 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:16,479 Speaker 1: just like it's gonna feel really good. And it's like 371 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 1: that's where I thought I wanted to be because that 372 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 1: I was like cool, like obviously of course as well 373 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 1: as building an h and doing RNC, but I also 374 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 1: like wanted to be that influencer in the space. And 375 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: it's really funny because I called in, like attracted in 376 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 1: a really high level brand. Who should I tell them? 377 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,199 Speaker 1: And you can beep it out. So I worked with 378 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: and I was really excited and I was like Oh 379 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,159 Speaker 1: my god, this is exactly what I wanted. This is 380 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 1: like the direction I'm wanting to going in the influencer space, 381 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 1: and blah blah, blah blah. And it's really funny because 382 00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 1: I worked with them and it was the most fucked 383 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:06,640 Speaker 1: experience excuse my French. And it really made me realize 384 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 1: how much I didn't want to work for other people 385 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 1: and I didn't want to be on other people's time 386 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,400 Speaker 1: and under other people's direction. And they were really pushy 387 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 1: with like how to do content and how to do things, 388 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, that's not what I do around here, 389 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 1: Like I just do my thing. Yeah, and you just 390 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,679 Speaker 1: love It's that's what we do around here. And you 391 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 1: know what's really interesting, that was such a pivotal moment 392 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 1: where I decided that I didn't want to be an 393 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 1: influencer anymore. 394 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:36,760 Speaker 2: Really. 395 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. And I don't know if you guys have noticed, 396 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 1: but I very much have stepped out of the influencer realm. 397 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 1: I still work with some really key brands, but I 398 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 1: maybe work with like one or two brands and obviously 399 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 1: my own brands, and I don't do any other spon 400 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 1: con Yeah, And it's because I had this realization of 401 00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 1: like I don't I don't want to be an influencer 402 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: who just plugs products. And obviously I was doing that 403 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 1: with intention and love and there's nothing wrong with that, 404 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:12,159 Speaker 1: but it's actually realizing, no, I actually really love running 405 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:16,360 Speaker 1: a company. I love being the CEO of Naked Harvests. 406 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: I love making high level decisions in my business. I 407 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:24,119 Speaker 1: love creating self development content and that gets to be 408 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 1: my thing. And it's kind of like I was a 409 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 1: bit caught up in like the sparkly and exciting things. Yeah, 410 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 1: and that was something that really like grounded me and 411 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 1: like pulled me back and showed me this is what 412 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,680 Speaker 1: it could look like. And I was like, yeah, no. 413 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:41,199 Speaker 2: I love that. 414 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,919 Speaker 1: I love that you've taken that experience from that. 415 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:44,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 416 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 1: And it's funny because again, the universe will often give 417 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: you what you want and then it knowing that it's like, 418 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 1: I know you don't actually want this, but you need 419 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:55,960 Speaker 1: to experience this because you need to know what you want. 420 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 2: Yeah. 421 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:00,200 Speaker 1: So again that's like it can you can it is 422 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,679 Speaker 1: a quote unquote failure, or you can see it as 423 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,400 Speaker 1: a lesson and a learning and be like, thank god, 424 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:09,359 Speaker 1: I now know that polarity and I get to choose 425 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 1: different and I get to choose a different way. 426 00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:15,439 Speaker 2: And I think experiencing those low lows allows you to 427 00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:20,680 Speaker 2: appreciate everything else so much more. Yes, it's hugely those 428 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,639 Speaker 2: times when you when you're sick or you have a 429 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,679 Speaker 2: block nose and you're like, I just I forgot that 430 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 2: I could like I am very dramatic, but I'm always like, 431 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,199 Speaker 2: I just forget how great just breathing is and not 432 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,639 Speaker 2: needing to think about it and not struggling, you know 433 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:35,160 Speaker 2: what i mean. 434 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, in the power when you forget how good it is, 435 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:43,160 Speaker 1: just about, oh my god, that is so true. That's 436 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 1: like you're tea if you've you know, shared with me 437 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,639 Speaker 1: a lot of experiences that you have had living in 438 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: Africa and your parents living in Africa, Yeah, and then 439 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:57,200 Speaker 1: moving here and being like true little things. Truly, we 440 00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: are so privileged. Yeah, so privileged. 441 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 2: And I think experiencing that and every time I go back, 442 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,679 Speaker 2: it's a nice reality check of Wow, we open the 443 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 2: tap and water comes out. We don't have to worry 444 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 2: about our power going out in the middle of the 445 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,440 Speaker 2: day for eight hours and things like that, And it's 446 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 2: like I get to have that experience because it is 447 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 2: relative to my life, and I know that many people 448 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 2: will go their entire life without having to experience that, 449 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 2: and I think it's easy to hold resentment for that, 450 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 2: but it's also just I think when you look at 451 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 2: the law of relativity is just to have compassion and 452 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 2: go that person's really lucky they don't have to worry 453 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 2: about that. But it doesn't make their pain any less valid. 454 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 2: And that's just how I like to look at it. 455 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 2: Because everything is extremes and obviously some people will experience 456 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,200 Speaker 2: it in a more extreme way, like you hear about 457 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 2: really very famous, successful people having horrible things happen to 458 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 2: them that you would never have experienced in your life, 459 00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 2: but it's also relative to their life experience in that 460 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,400 Speaker 2: look at how many amazing things they get to experience. 461 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 2: They they also need a benchmark for something bad. 462 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:10,639 Speaker 1: Yes, oh my god. And so I guess like some 463 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:16,520 Speaker 1: tips about this law is I so funny. I've actually 464 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 1: never told anyone this, but so when something bad is happening, 465 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:27,160 Speaker 1: I often think of like another extreme worst case scenario 466 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,199 Speaker 1: that makes me feel better about that scenario. Yeah, And 467 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 1: it's funny because I think I did it, No way, 468 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 1: I did it. This morning, so I have like a 469 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 1: couple of like side pimples coming up on my face, 470 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:42,479 Speaker 1: and I remember being like, oh, my skin's been so clear. 471 00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: We were recording today, and then you know what I 472 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,919 Speaker 1: had to remind myself of like when I had a 473 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 1: face full of acne, you know, like worst shit has happened. Yeah, 474 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,440 Speaker 1: and also I've got through them, and even that's something 475 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:59,160 Speaker 1: like I have experienced, I'm like, oh, yeah, shut up, georgy, 476 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 1: let's get on with that. Or it's kind of like 477 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 1: even if it hasn't happened to you, it could happen. 478 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 1: So you know, maybe you lost your job, and it's 479 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,120 Speaker 1: like so much other worst ship can happen. And it's 480 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,880 Speaker 1: like because I think sometimes people get a little bit 481 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 1: stuck on the life happens for me, because you know, 482 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 1: they lose their job and then like, oh my god, 483 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: I can't pay my mortgage and all these things and 484 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,959 Speaker 1: my partner wants to leave me and blah blah blah, 485 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,679 Speaker 1: and they can't see the life happens for me. So 486 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 1: it's like, if you can't get on that vibe, could 487 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 1: you just get on the vibe? Well, this isn't the 488 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 1: worst worst thing that could happen. 489 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and sometimes sometimes things do happen and it does 490 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,479 Speaker 2: feel like the worst, worst thing that can happen. But 491 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 2: then I think even shifting to what's gonna happen next, 492 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,239 Speaker 2: because it's not gonna get any worse, So what are 493 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 2: all the good things that can happen next? Off the 494 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 2: back of this that I then get to call in now, 495 00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 2: if you're really feeling like it cannot get anyone. 496 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 1: And that's even something to think about, like, for example, 497 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 1: and this is almost like law of attraction, but for example, 498 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 1: if you actually have a pretty privileged life and you're 499 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 1: not grateful for what you have, you watch the universe 500 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: give you something that's pretty fucking shitty so that you 501 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 1: could be like, fuck, no, things actually really good. Yeah, 502 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 1: and I actually just wasn't grateful. Yeah, So how you 503 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:33,719 Speaker 1: can take advantage of this law is to constantly step 504 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:39,239 Speaker 1: not constantly, to realize that everything is relative and you 505 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 1: can always shift your perspective, you can always see things 506 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:45,560 Speaker 1: in a different way. You're allowed to feel your feelings. 507 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 1: But also no, it's like things could be worse and 508 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 1: I'm really grateful for where I am. Yeah, I'm grateful 509 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 1: for this lesson. I'm grateful for things being boring or mundane. 510 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 1: I'm grateful, you know, for life as it is, because 511 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,959 Speaker 1: then the universe isn't going to try and like constantly 512 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 1: test you and put you into gratitude because it doesn't 513 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 1: need to because you're already in gratitude. 514 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 2: Yes, I love that tip. So you always just make 515 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 2: sure you do your gratitude. 516 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, Or even if you notice yourself of like, oh, 517 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: I've been a bit of a sad sack lately, or 518 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 1: I've been a bit of a victim mentality, but nothing 519 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 1: you know, quote unquote bad has happened, bit like shift 520 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 1: that it's like, oh, you don't want to and lost 521 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: the opposite. 522 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 2: I love that you've said that, because this year is 523 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 2: probably one of the first times where I felt felt 524 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 2: like things are maybe quote unquote boring. But every time 525 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 2: someone asks me like how I am, I'm like, oh, 526 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,960 Speaker 2: I'm the same, Like everything's just a bit the same, 527 00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 2: but I'm loving it and I'm enjoying it being the same, 528 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:46,360 Speaker 2: and nothing has happened that's thrown me. Whereas in previous 529 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 2: years when things started to feel the same and get 530 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 2: in a routine, I'd be like, oh, this is like 531 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 2: a bit boring, like what's going on? And then you're 532 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 2: maine for something that come happen. Yeah, but this is 533 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 2: like the ft and we're six months into the year 534 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 2: and I still like am in that of like, oh, yeah, 535 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 2: everything's just. 536 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 1: Like I'm still boring as shit. 537 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I love it and I'm enjoying here. 538 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 1: So true. Yeah. I feel like I've been saying that 539 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 1: the whole year. When everyone's like. 540 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 2: What's going on, I'm like, literally nothing, I'm enjoying but 541 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 2: it's amazing. 542 00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. And that's even like even to think about it 543 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 1: from the perspective of if you go through a busy 544 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: period with your social calendar, yeah, and you're like, fuck, 545 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:33,960 Speaker 1: I've got an engagement party and then I got a wedding, 546 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: and then I've got this, and then I've got that, 547 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 1: and you're feeling really exhausted in your batteries, like getting 548 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 1: zapped and you miss the chill time, you miss the 549 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 1: I just want some alone time. But then you get 550 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 1: that alone time and you're like, oh, thanks, are so boring. Yeah, 551 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 1: so do you see what we do here? Yeah, Like 552 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 1: it's and this is what I mean is really big 553 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 1: tip guys. If you're currently in an extreme not be careful. 554 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:03,240 Speaker 1: But I true believe if you're too one side, the 555 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,800 Speaker 1: universe will come and swing you to the other side 556 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 1: to balance. So and this even means like if you're 557 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 1: too happy and too things are going really well. It's 558 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: actually funny, expert. I've read this book, The Breakthrough Experience 559 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 1: that I've spoke to you guys on the podcast, and 560 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 1: in the book he very much describes this law of 561 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 1: like when things are going really really good, the you know, 562 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 1: the law of the universe is it will put you 563 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 1: back into place. Yeah, because you're not supposed to be 564 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 1: on these highs and lows all the time, So be 565 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:42,520 Speaker 1: conscious that you can actually get fully swung the other way. 566 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 1: But this doesn't just apply for when things are really bad. Yeah, 567 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 1: so if things are really really good, just be conscious 568 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 1: of not necessarily that it's like things are going to 569 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 1: go bad. But are you grounded, are you grateful? Are 570 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 1: you stable? And just notice that. Yeah. I don't want 571 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 1: to say too much more than that, but yeah, I've 572 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 1: actually noticed that that happens in my life. If I'm 573 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,960 Speaker 1: on a really big high, something will come and knock 574 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 1: me down into the neutral state or the lower state, 575 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 1: and then I go back into the neutral state, and 576 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, cool, this is where I sat. 577 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think, don't let that stop you from 578 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:23,160 Speaker 2: wanting good things. 579 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 1: No, don't let that scare you. 580 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 2: Because you can sort of, I would say, shift your 581 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 2: neutral state up. Yes, but it's more about how you're 582 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:36,600 Speaker 2: feeling relative to everything around you, not so much about 583 00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 2: good things or bad things happening. Yes, because you could 584 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 2: be neutral in something someone else would consider quite bad. 585 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 1: Yes, And that's actually something too common on is like 586 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 1: my neutral state is very high vibe. Yeah it's not. 587 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 1: And I think that's the thing as I'm talking about, 588 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,560 Speaker 1: is like the high high. It's almost like a fake high. Yeah, 589 00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 1: and it's a high when it's coming from external sources. Yeah, 590 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 1: not my own power of being grounded high vibe. It 591 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,239 Speaker 1: literally happened the other day to here I, So I 592 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 1: doubt them. Yeah. So drove to Brisbane, had a really 593 00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 1: exciting meeting for NH and got some really great feedback 594 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 1: and basically like the deal was like locked in and 595 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,080 Speaker 1: feeling really good. I was feeling on a high. But 596 00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 1: again that's all like this external validation, this external high. 597 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:30,520 Speaker 1: And I was like pumping music in my car and 598 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 1: we were going to dinner after and I was like, 599 00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:35,640 Speaker 1: I could feel myself on a high. No joke, I 600 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:41,759 Speaker 1: fucking hit the gutter and scratched my wheels on my car. 601 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 3: And it's funny because I thought, oh my god, that's 602 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,840 Speaker 3: literally just like knocked you right into the grounded me 603 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,719 Speaker 3: again and being like, Georgia, your power doesn't come from 604 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:53,359 Speaker 3: external things. 605 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's what I mean. That's literally what 606 00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:57,360 Speaker 1: we're talking about. 607 00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 2: I love that, and I love that because it's not 608 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 2: necessarily like the deal falling through or something horrible happening, 609 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,400 Speaker 2: but it's just like a little like, hey, just a reminder. 610 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:10,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't get your power from external events. And 611 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:11,800 Speaker 1: that's the thing is I knew that it was the message, 612 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:19,120 Speaker 1: and I went noted and I'll chill all right, guys, 613 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:22,800 Speaker 1: I hope you have enjoyed this next installment of the 614 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:25,399 Speaker 1: Twelve Laws of the Universe. If you, guys, if you're 615 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,920 Speaker 1: like listening for the first time to this episode, make 616 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,360 Speaker 1: sure you go back and listen to the past episodes 617 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:34,279 Speaker 1: because all the laws are so unique and so powerful, 618 00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:37,400 Speaker 1: but they all interconnect and they all need to be 619 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 1: used together, so it's really important to listen to this 620 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,799 Speaker 1: whole series, and of course if you want to go 621 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:47,319 Speaker 1: deeper into using all these laws, this is exactly what 622 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 1: I have put in my seven week manifesting course, the 623 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:54,000 Speaker 1: Rise and Conker Project, where I really give to you 624 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:58,400 Speaker 1: my ten step formula where I've encompassed all these laws 625 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,840 Speaker 1: and it's really easy to die, jest and understand and 626 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,280 Speaker 1: apply to your life. 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