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Speaker 2: Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut.
Speaker 1: I'm Laura. Don't sound so exasperated, Laura bringing over there
Speaker 1: and this is our Thursday episode where we answer all
Speaker 1: of your deep, you're dark, you're burning, troublesome questions. Brittany's
Speaker 1: dogs over there trying to kill a It looks like
Speaker 1: a travel pillow. This is her. She'll come down in
Speaker 1: a minute. She's got one favorite toy and it's a
Speaker 1: sloth and she brings it with her everywhere. It's like
Speaker 1: a well, what's it like when the kids have that
Speaker 1: as a blanket. Well, Molly has one called a rabbie.
Speaker 1: It's like a comfit thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a confuter yeah, speaking of like our children just
Speaker 2: being so comfortable and cute. Do you know what Molly
Speaker 2: said to me on the drive over here? So coming
Speaker 2: to record this morning. I take the kids to daycare,
Speaker 2: drop them off, and then I come here to Brittany's
Speaker 2: beautiful little house and we record out of her studio room.
Speaker 2: Also love that you said speaking of our children, like two,
Speaker 2: I was my child? Yeah what did she do?
Speaker 1: So?
Speaker 2: I'm in the car and I was singing what's our
Speaker 2: favorite song at the moment, brit.
Speaker 1: Fuck you, mag your mom and your sister. Hang it,
Speaker 1: I say, dog, but that's not so.
Speaker 2: I was singing the very g rated version of that.
Speaker 2: I was singing forget you and your mum, and you're
Speaker 2: in the car and I put it up really loud,
Speaker 2: and I hear Molly. She's in the backseat and she
Speaker 2: just goes And I was like, Baba, what's wrong? Thinking
Speaker 2: what sort of huge turmoil is my two year old
Speaker 2: in the back going through?
Speaker 1: She goes, oh, mummy, I hate it when you're talking.
Speaker 1: You're like, well, lucky, I talk for a living, isn't it? Like?
Speaker 2: I was like, actually, I was singing and she's like,
Speaker 2: I hate that too, what do I? Because she has
Speaker 2: so much attitude, my two year old two and a half,
Speaker 2: she's she's gonna be three and three months. She has
Speaker 2: so much attitude.
Speaker 1: I was about to say, maybe she's going to be
Speaker 1: like a really introverted and quiet, but she's got none
Speaker 1: of that. She's not introverted quiet at all.
Speaker 2: And she's so quick to tell you all the things
Speaker 2: that she doesn't like about you, Like she's now she'll
Speaker 2: be like, mummy, what are these? Oh they're wrinkles, Like
Speaker 2: she knows what she's doing. I don't know, but I
Speaker 2: think I don't think it's Malicia. I think there's malice
Speaker 2: in that child.
Speaker 1: I think, like, let's be real, I don't think it's
Speaker 1: two years old. She's been malicious and she's not pointing
Speaker 1: out your wrinkles to make you feeling secure, Laura. She
Speaker 1: probably doesn't know what a wrinkle is yet.
Speaker 2: And last night, well she does, she says wrinkles, So
Speaker 2: she does. And last night she sat in the shower
Speaker 2: on her potty with a bucket on her head. This
Speaker 2: is the child, this is the child that has so
Speaker 2: much control over my life.
Speaker 1: Well, then, are you really going to take what a
Speaker 1: child that sits naked with a buffet on her head?
Speaker 1: Are you going to take what she says as gospel?
Speaker 1: Because I don't think you need to anyway, your frinkles
Speaker 1: a fine get some botops, haven't you for it? Do
Speaker 1: you know what? I just want to mention as well.
Speaker 2: We did an episode on Tuesday that was on the Overwhelm,
Speaker 2: and I have received so many fucking, absolutely lovely messages
Speaker 2: from people this week. Are the moms who listened to
Speaker 2: the podcast and felt exactly the way that we have felt,
Speaker 2: who resonated with what we spoke about, who are also
Speaker 2: in this state of just well, like there's no other
Speaker 2: better word for it than feeling overwhelmed. As want to
Speaker 2: say thank you to everyone who listened and who wrote in.
Speaker 2: It means so much to us when we know that
Speaker 2: we talk about something or we touch on a topic
Speaker 2: that resonates with you guys. And reading those messages, I
Speaker 2: had one woman right to me and said that she
Speaker 2: went for a walk and she was in tears listening
Speaker 2: to it because she fully just feels like her life
Speaker 2: has been so to the point of capacity recently.
Speaker 1: And I was like, yes, girlfriend, us too, Ah, that's
Speaker 1: really not I love that we do hearing that it's
Speaker 1: making a difference. In complete transparency. I didn't get any messages.
Speaker 1: I'll read this one to you because this one. Well,
Speaker 1: I think it's definitely the overwhelmed. Like we said, it
Speaker 1: definitely affects everybody, but I think it hits differently with
Speaker 1: mums because of the fact that it is unrelenting. Do
Speaker 1: you know what I got? I did get a few
Speaker 1: messages from people that said they really felt what I
Speaker 1: felt when I said I was crying over getting a
Speaker 1: dating app. When I was like, I don't want to
Speaker 1: get back back, They're like, girl, we feel you. It
Speaker 1: is sold a stream. We don't want to do it either.
Speaker 1: So I got a few of those, but I didn't
Speaker 1: get any resonating about the mom.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, this one mum wrote in she said, I
Speaker 2: just listened this afternoon, having an emotional afternoon with my kids.
Speaker 2: After listening, I reached out to my mother in law
Speaker 2: and she came over and looked after my three year
Speaker 2: olds so I could go for a walk with the
Speaker 2: dog in peace. And I cried a bit more while
Speaker 2: listening to this. And I just think so many people
Speaker 2: feel exactly the same, and there's something really something not
Speaker 2: that you want other people to be having the same
Speaker 2: small traumas that you are, but there's something.
Speaker 1: Really healing in knowing that you're not alone in feeling
Speaker 1: like this on ndred percent. But we're not gonna get
Speaker 1: that now. No, get into I want to talk to
Speaker 1: you about an influencer. Oh, I know what you're going
Speaker 1: to talk to me about. Yeah, I'm once speaking to
Speaker 1: the audience. It's happened again, everybody. I'm not talking to you.
Speaker 1: I'm talking to you. I want to speak to you, guys.
Speaker 1: I want to tell you about an influencer. She's a
Speaker 1: Brazilian influencer, and I'm talking a very big influencer, fifteen
Speaker 1: point seven million followers. Her name, well she goes. Her
Speaker 1: stage name now is Poker, but her name is a
Speaker 1: Vivian di Quero's perrera.
Speaker 2: So fluently Britta no South American, definitely, butgerted that.
Speaker 1: But bless her soul. She's so funny. She's very open
Speaker 1: with the followers. And she went to hospital the other
Speaker 1: night with extreme, extreme stomach pain, like she thought her
Speaker 1: insides were falling out. She was with her new boyfriend
Speaker 1: at the time, and she's like, she kept him up
Speaker 1: all night because she was in so much pain. She's like,
Speaker 1: I'm got it at the hospital or something's really really wrong.
Speaker 1: My my apendix is bursting or I'm dying. She gets
Speaker 1: the hospital and she gets told by the doctor that
Speaker 1: in fact, she's just been she's just been holding her
Speaker 1: farts in. That's it, and it's caused extreme pain. And
Speaker 1: she was really honest. She's like, guys, my boyfriend and
Speaker 1: I were pretty new, we're not on fighting terms yet,
Speaker 1: so she's been holding them in. Little did she know
Speaker 1: that it can be disastrous.
Speaker 2: Can I just say, how can you be so frightened
Speaker 2: to far in front of your boyfriend but so okay
Speaker 2: to talk to tell that many people like surely that
Speaker 2: there's a bit of a gap year And I know
Speaker 2: we've spoken about this before. She is not the first
Speaker 2: person to end up in hospital from holding in her farts. Laura,
Speaker 2: you have I didn't purposely hold in my farts. I
Speaker 2: just ended up in hospital because I had trapped gas.
Speaker 1: But it doesn't get trapped from holding it in.
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know, because I would never had a
Speaker 2: corner like I can't find this whay.
Speaker 1: I was like, roadblock, I'll just stay here.
Speaker 2: I've never had a prokate, I've never not that okay
Speaker 2: in the early days of a relationship. I'm not gonna
Speaker 2: far in front of my partner, of course not. But
Speaker 2: we've spoken about this before. I have no qualms. Once
Speaker 2: I'm comfortable with partner, I think that it's totally fine,
Speaker 2: no holes, bars, let that shit loose.
Speaker 1: I am the pole opposite. I'm not a farer like
Speaker 1: I mean, like, obviously I do them, but I don't
Speaker 1: do it in front of my partner. I never ever
Speaker 1: will unless it was like an emergency or it's slipped
Speaker 1: out accidentally. But I'm never going to be in a
Speaker 1: relationship where I think it's funny to like lift a
Speaker 1: butt cheek and let one rip. It's not, and I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't want my partner to do it. Actually, I
Speaker 1: remember when I was in the early stages with Jordan.
Speaker 1: I would even leave, like to go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: But after probably three weeks he said to me, like
Speaker 1: he was with his friends and he's like, Brett, I
Speaker 1: can't hold these farts in anymore. He's like, I'm getting
Speaker 1: extreme stomach pain. Because he used to be like I
Speaker 1: need to fight, and I just wouldn't let him. I
Speaker 1: was like, you absolutely can't. He's like, and I didn't
Speaker 1: know that you could go to hospital with it. So
Speaker 1: I used to make him hold the meat.
Speaker 2: Britt used to leave her apartment and go to the
Speaker 2: public toilets across the beach, public toilets at Bondo beg
Speaker 2: to do a pooh.
Speaker 1: It matters what she did. In my defense, I told
Speaker 1: law of that in confidence. And it was one time.
Speaker 1: I No, there was this one time in the very
Speaker 1: early stages where I think we'd had We'd had drinks
Speaker 1: the night before we had it, We've been out dinner,
Speaker 1: we'd had some not good food, and you know when
Speaker 1: you just not I woke up and I was like,
Speaker 1: I do not feel well like I this something is
Speaker 1: a miss here. And I was like, this is not
Speaker 1: acceptable to be done in a small apartment. No, the
Speaker 1: apartment was small, the bathroom was next to the bedroom.
Speaker 1: There was no escape in it. He sleeps in. So
Speaker 1: I was like going for a run and just like
Speaker 1: ran across to the public toil to go to the toil.
Speaker 1: But this is actually really funny because I don't know, Laura,
Speaker 1: if you like, it's definitely a common thing. But Abby
Speaker 1: Chatfield was recently on the hundred with Andy Lee. It's
Speaker 1: so relatable because we all do it. But she was
Speaker 1: just saying that she in the mornings with her partner Conrad.
Speaker 1: She doesn't want a pooh in front of him. She's
Speaker 1: not at that stage, so she makes an excuse every
Speaker 1: morning to go to a cafe and do what she
Speaker 1: calls an anonymous poop. And I was like, it's just
Speaker 1: so related, like we've I think everyone has been there
Speaker 1: the worst. I think it's the hardest thing about dating,
Speaker 1: and like a new relationship, it is not the hardest
Speaker 1: all to me. I'm so easy going in every other aspect.
Speaker 1: For me, it is when you get together. I don't
Speaker 1: give a fuck about anything else. I'm like, I am
Speaker 1: not ready to fight or poop in front of me.
Speaker 2: Out of all the trials and tribulations and all the
Speaker 2: ups and downs of a new relationship, you think that
Speaker 2: deciding where to go to the toilet is the hardest
Speaker 2: decision that you have to make.
Speaker 1: No, it's not just something where it's just how to
Speaker 1: avoid going to the toilet in front of your partner.
Speaker 1: And I mean like for me, when you just say
Speaker 1: the trials and tribulations of an early relationship, for me,
Speaker 1: there should be no trials and tribulations. The trial and
Speaker 1: tribulation is going to the toilet. I know.
Speaker 2: Look, I mean, we are so aware that this is
Speaker 2: an incredibly divisive topic. I would say, I mean, I'd
Speaker 2: love to know what the real statistics are. I don't
Speaker 2: think that there's been a formal hol being done. But like,
Speaker 2: you're either someone who does not care like me, or
Speaker 2: you're someone who deeply cares and passionately cares about keeping
Speaker 2: something sacred in the relationship. I don't want us to
Speaker 2: ever get to a point where we think it's no judgment.
Speaker 2: Everyone's different. But here is a reason why you should
Speaker 2: get a little bit more comfortable. This is a medical
Speaker 2: this is I'm going deep. This is a report. This
Speaker 2: is what the doctors have to say. Trying to hold
Speaker 2: in your parts leads to a build up of pressure
Speaker 2: and major discomfort. A build up if intest personal gas
Speaker 2: can trigger abdominal distension, with some gas reabsorbing into the
Speaker 2: circulatory system and exhaled in your breath.
Speaker 1: Holding on too long.
Speaker 2: Means the build up of intestinal gas will eventually escape
Speaker 2: via an uncomfortable fart or hospitalization. There you go, everybody,
Speaker 2: that is what you will breathe your fart out. Yeah,
Speaker 2: if you don't let it out, If it doesn't come
Speaker 2: out below it'll come out of it, and you can't
Speaker 2: blame it on garlic, like.
Speaker 1: You can tell you have had some garlia. Ask night,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry about that. Nope, you I'm burping out shit.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry I had some farts last night. Aarah. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's half about that. Let's get into some questions.
Speaker 2: Okay, I have a question which is a very it's
Speaker 2: a question we've never been asked before. Firstly, I want
Speaker 2: to ask a question back to it, but I'll get
Speaker 2: into it. Okay, what do you wear to a group
Speaker 2: audition for The Bachelor?
Speaker 1: Do you go all out ball gown or low key?
Speaker 2: Do you want to stand out but also not look
Speaker 2: like a complete weirdo? Maybe I'm asking for a friend.
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm asking because I'm going to an audition.
Speaker 1: Who knows? Okay, well we do. If you're going for
Speaker 1: an audition, Okay, well, straight up, you don't wear a
Speaker 1: ball don't. Please don't worry, please please please don't do
Speaker 1: that unless unless you want to be cast as a
Speaker 1: crazy person, unless you actually wear a ball gown day
Speaker 1: to day, don't wear a ball gown. What you want
Speaker 1: to do? My best advice and Laura, I wonder I'm
Speaker 1: gonna ask in a second if you remember what you wore?
Speaker 1: My best advice is to wear what you would wear.
Speaker 1: You just want to be you. You want to present your
Speaker 1: own personality, but maybe you want to do it at
Speaker 1: the best level. So maybe you want to do what
Speaker 1: you do day to day. But you know, I'm a
Speaker 1: polish version, but maybe you're not polished. Maybe you are
Speaker 1: really laid back. Maybe you're a skater girl. Whatever it is,
Speaker 1: my best advice is to just go as you are
Speaker 1: and be you because they can see through anything else.
Speaker 1: They can see it one hundred miles away.
Speaker 2: Be your authentic self. Isn't that take home message of
Speaker 2: this entire podcast?
Speaker 1: What did you? I remember what I wore? What did
Speaker 1: you wear? You would mean jeans in a nice top,
Speaker 1: like every single girl in the world. Literally, I wore
Speaker 1: jeans in a nice top to it. What do you tonight?
Speaker 1: Jean's in a nice top. I just wanted to look
Speaker 1: you unique and stand up. Okay.
Speaker 2: Firstly, I love that we now know that they're at
Speaker 2: group audition phase for the next season of The Bachelor.
Speaker 2: I'm very interested to find out what they're actually doing
Speaker 2: for this coming season because I think after the absolute
Speaker 2: dumpster fire that were ratings last year. I mean, I
Speaker 2: don't think the bachelorrett is going ahead, so the Bachelor
Speaker 2: Stool is. But there's been some whispers that maybe they're
Speaker 2: going to do a combined one. Maybe they're gonna they're
Speaker 2: in a combinement, a guy and a girl as the leads.
Speaker 2: So I agree with you, Brit. I remember what I wore.
Speaker 2: I wore a skirt. I didn't actually wear jeans. I
Speaker 2: wore a skirt and I wore and I can't remember
Speaker 2: the car. I think it was like a pinky color.
Speaker 1: And I wore a.
Speaker 2: Navy blue tiger lily singlet that was too low for
Speaker 2: me and so I had to sticky tape at to
Speaker 2: my boobs. And it just reminds me of the days
Speaker 2: when I used to get away with with not wearing
Speaker 2: a bra and I could sticky tape tops to myself
Speaker 2: and now my boobs.
Speaker 1: Look at the floor. Did you wear heels or flat?
Speaker 2: I would have worn sandals because I never wear heels
Speaker 2: because I do not like them.
Speaker 1: It's very tall, yes, so I would have won.
Speaker 2: I would want a skirt, like a bohemian skirt, and
Speaker 2: I would have worn it. Lily top and sandals. I
Speaker 2: used to be very boho in my style, so it
Speaker 2: wasn't gen. You didn't wear GEN your skirt, Yeah, I
Speaker 2: wore a skirt, so I wore. You're fucking gonna laugh
Speaker 2: so hard, I reckon. I've got the picture somewhere, actually,
Speaker 2: i'll do. I'll put it up on instage. I took
Speaker 2: a selfie or a.
Speaker 1: Picture in the mirror from my friend's house in Sydney
Speaker 1: because I didn't live I was a country on Palm Quarry,
Speaker 1: so I had to come and say my friend's house
Speaker 1: for the night, and I took a picture. So I
Speaker 1: have a picture of what I wore. I will try
Speaker 1: and find it and I will put it on the
Speaker 1: stories V I wore, which is so me, all white,
Speaker 1: high waisted white pants that had like a flare, and
Speaker 1: then I wore a white top that was sort of
Speaker 1: tucked in so it gave me like a way, so
Speaker 1: I thought I looked really cool.
Speaker 2: And then to top it off, which is the most bready,
Speaker 2: you wore a fucking hat. Didn't you moore a hat?
Speaker 1: You wore a hats pretty thing you have ever seen.
Speaker 1: I wore a hat like a fedora, No, like a
Speaker 1: sun like a round sun hat. The group auditions are inside,
Speaker 1: like the Novertel for example. Just so you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was not for some safety. It was in my
Speaker 1: It was what I thought was fashion. But you've got
Speaker 1: to remember this was a country girl pot McCrory that
Speaker 1: I didn't know what I was doing. But let me
Speaker 1: tell you something, Laura, not one other person they had
Speaker 1: had on.
Speaker 2: You really stood out.
Speaker 1: That was my stand out. But I wore little heels,
Speaker 1: but not because I wanted to wear heels, but because
Speaker 1: my pants were too long. But I was like, what
Speaker 1: is my I didn't know what vibes to go for
Speaker 1: because ninety percent of my life as we all know,
Speaker 1: he's like, actually wear scrubs. I didn't ever have nice
Speaker 1: fancy clothes. But I was like, I can't turn up
Speaker 1: in active or scrubs. I didn't want to be too
Speaker 1: dressed up for a ball gown. So I was like,
Speaker 1: what's the happy medium? At every was definitely a Fedora.
Speaker 1: It was the was a happy medium, I reckon. That's
Speaker 1: what got me on the show.
Speaker 2: Okay, everybody wears very different things. If you are going
Speaker 2: to a Bachelor group audition, everybody rocks up some people
Speaker 2: are super like super faked hand lots of makeup, perfectly
Speaker 2: at styled outfit, and other people are really really casual.
Speaker 2: It's a huge spectrum of what is and isn't okay,
Speaker 2: But I think you nailed it, brit It is just
Speaker 2: showing up and being like, very very authentic to the person, Okay,
Speaker 2: even if it's not to who you are as a person,
Speaker 2: to the person that you want to play on the
Speaker 2: TV show.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's your character? If you want to be a villain,
Speaker 1: you dress like a villain.
Speaker 2: If someone works up dressed like Corella Deville, Like.
Speaker 1: No, but like that's it's what happens.
Speaker 2: You get type cast and they kind of pick you
Speaker 2: out from that group environment to play the characters that
Speaker 2: they think you're going to be. So and the thing is,
Speaker 2: you don't want to be like when you you I
Speaker 2: think she said, do I want to stand out or not?
Speaker 2: Obviously you want to stand out in some way because
Speaker 2: you don't want to go and be a wallflower.
Speaker 1: That's not the point. But maybe that's with your personality.
Speaker 1: Maybe you can also stand out with a story or
Speaker 1: something about you or who you are or what your
Speaker 1: job is that you don't have to necessarily wear like
Speaker 1: head to toe sequin bodysuit to stand out. Do you
Speaker 1: think that people, like some women who sign up for
Speaker 1: The Bachelor, who go to the auditions, actually have it
Speaker 1: in their head that they're going to play a certain role,
Speaker 1: like they actually go in there with the intention of
Speaker 1: being the villain, or do you I think it's more
Speaker 1: so the case that, like they get in there, they realize, oh,
Speaker 1: they don't really mesh with the guy, that guy's not
Speaker 1: really into him, and so they just kind of decide, well,
Speaker 1: to get more airtime, I'll just play this character. I
Speaker 1: think it's changing a lot, and I think they're saying
Speaker 1: with a lot of reality shows the same with mass
Speaker 1: I think people have clued on. Like the early days
Speaker 1: back in like I guess maybe even up until yours,
Speaker 1: or maybe just the first three seasons and a season,
Speaker 1: it was so innocent and pure and organic, and people
Speaker 1: didn't know what would happen after the world of The
Speaker 1: Bachelor or reality TV on maps. But now people clue on.
Speaker 1: They know what gets attention, they know so there are
Speaker 1: definitely people that go on I think I think the
Speaker 1: people that would go on The Bachelor with zero intention
Speaker 1: of wanting to fall in love, but they're like, hey,
Speaker 1: i'll go have some fun, I'll get some attention, might
Speaker 1: get some followers, but usually that back Usually that backfires.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's the thing, right, Like I wonder, like
Speaker 2: what is the benefit? I know that there's that saying
Speaker 2: that like all press is good press, but real negative
Speaker 2: attention and we're seeing it with a Livia or Maps
Speaker 2: at the moment, Like real negative attention genuinely has nothing
Speaker 2: good that comes out of it. The only person that
Speaker 2: I've seen transform their negativity into an incredibly positive platform
Speaker 2: is someone like Abby Chatfield. Totally We're weirdly that we've
Speaker 2: talked about her twice in the episode, but like she's
Speaker 2: the only person who's come from reality TV background where
Speaker 2: I've seen them completely transform. And not that she was
Speaker 2: a villain by any means, but.
Speaker 1: Well that's the thing. Abby wasn't a villain.
Speaker 2: But when it came to her and Chelsea at the end,
Speaker 2: people were rooting for Chelsea in that moment, and then
Speaker 2: she has completely rewritten that narrative that was pitched for her.
Speaker 1: And like you said, Laura, there's not a lot I
Speaker 1: think if anyone's thinking about going into these shows with
Speaker 1: that intention. I would just advise you not to. I think,
Speaker 1: do it going with some pure intentions.
Speaker 2: Wear a fedora and like get you just wear some
Speaker 2: jeans and a nice shirt, and.
Speaker 1: All right, question number two, now this one.
Speaker 2: I think this one's pretty polarizing, and I think that
Speaker 2: there's gonna be something. It's very polarized, and there's gonna
Speaker 2: be some people who have some extremely strong opinions around this.
Speaker 1: So and I think strong opinions can be good. All right.
Speaker 2: My boyfriend is my penguin. He is an awesome guy,
Speaker 2: and he is great with kids. We recently took my
Speaker 2: nephew to the park where he got really dirty, and
Speaker 2: my boyfriend was already going to have a shower when
Speaker 2: we came back, and so he offered to just shower
Speaker 2: my nephew, who is three and a half with him. Afterwards,
Speaker 2: my sister said that her partner, which is my brother
Speaker 2: in law, was a bit uncomfortable with it.
Speaker 1: All.
Speaker 2: I was honest with my boyfriend. Read the conversation I
Speaker 2: had with my sister. He took it fine and said
Speaker 2: he wouldn't do it again. I just now feel a
Speaker 2: little bit uncomfortable with this whole thing, and the fact
Speaker 2: that my brother in law's mind even went there. My
Speaker 2: boyfriend would never do anything like that. I totally respect
Speaker 2: them as parents and we resolved it all quickly. However,
Speaker 2: it's left me feeling super icky that this even came
Speaker 2: up as a conversation. What are your views on this?
Speaker 2: And is it weird for a three and a half
Speaker 2: year old to shower with their semi uncle.
Speaker 1: This is a hard one because there's going to be
Speaker 1: no right or wrong. This is going to be very
Speaker 1: dependent on literally the parents, and unfortunately it is up
Speaker 1: to the parents. I don't have kids, obviously, Guys, it's
Speaker 1: not a spoiler. I don't have kids, so it's hard
Speaker 1: for me to comment from what I would feel as
Speaker 1: a parent. Of course, you know your boyfriend's not going
Speaker 1: to do anything otherwise you wouldn't be dating him. But
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, if the parents feel
Speaker 1: uncomfortable with you showering with him showering with them, I
Speaker 1: think that that is just something you need to accept
Speaker 1: and take.
Speaker 2: Actually, when you said there is no right and wrong,
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, the right and wrong is whatever the
Speaker 2: parents think is.
Speaker 1: Right and whatever else is wrong.
Speaker 2: I understand where the feelings of like hurt come from
Speaker 2: because it's like, you would never.
Speaker 1: You're so offended, he would never do that. Understand that.
Speaker 2: I totally understand the offense. However, I think it does
Speaker 2: go beyond just around like a fear of predatory behavior,
Speaker 2: which obviously, like that is a huge fear that a
Speaker 2: lot of parents have, and their parents do put in
Speaker 2: a lot of parameters in place to make sure that
Speaker 2: their kids are safe, Like that's one thing that it's
Speaker 2: their responsibility to do so, regardless of the other person.
Speaker 2: It's as a parent, it's your responsibility to protect your children.
Speaker 2: But secondly to that, maybe being nude is also just
Speaker 2: not something that they're very liberal within their household. Maybe
Speaker 2: they don't even shower with their kids.
Speaker 1: Like people approach.
Speaker 2: These things incredibly differently, and I think that there just
Speaker 2: has to be a respect for how the child's parents
Speaker 2: want it to go down. Like in our household, could
Speaker 2: I show with my nephew, absolutely, he's three and a half.
Speaker 1: Would Matt shower with my nephew? Probably not.
Speaker 2: Also, I guess the other thing as well as is
Speaker 2: children change so quickly, and other people could see the
Speaker 2: three and a half year old as being like, oh,
Speaker 2: like he's so little. He's three and a half, but
Speaker 2: three and a half year olds are super inquisitive little children.
Speaker 2: They ask lots of questions. They could put you in
Speaker 2: a position where you don't feel comfortable either by you know,
Speaker 2: asking about your penis or asking something that's like beyond
Speaker 2: the scope of what you are skilled in to have
Speaker 2: that conversation with that child. So I think, like, just
Speaker 2: to avoid confrontation, to avoid any uncomfortable feelings. Yes, if
Speaker 2: you're going to get naked around somebody else's child for
Speaker 2: any reason, ask the parent.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it could be very different if, for example,
Speaker 1: you guys came back and he was like, oh, I'll
Speaker 1: just throw him in the bath, I'll watch him, that
Speaker 1: might be different for the parents he was. If he
Speaker 1: was on the sideline and he was just literally making
Speaker 1: sure the child was safe in the bath, that could
Speaker 1: be different as well. Again for the parent, that might
Speaker 1: be a no go. I think you're feeling upset because
Speaker 1: of the implication. I think you're upset because you're looking
Speaker 1: at this as in, well, how dare they not trust
Speaker 1: my partner and how do they think that anything could
Speaker 1: go wrong? But that's not at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: that's not what it is.
Speaker 2: No, and I don't think it is that either. Like
Speaker 2: I mean, I to be perfectly honest as a mum,
Speaker 2: I wouldn't really feel comfortable with Marley, who's two and
Speaker 2: a half, having a shower with her uncle, and not
Speaker 2: because I don't trust her uncle. Like I completely trust
Speaker 2: both both my sister's husband and Matt's sister's husband. I
Speaker 2: completely trust them both. But I also just don't want
Speaker 2: Marley to be in an environment where it's normal for
Speaker 2: her to be around naked older men, just other men exactly.
Speaker 2: She definitely has had showers with her dad, and that's okay,
Speaker 2: and that's normal for us and in our house, But
Speaker 2: do I want her to think that it's normal for
Speaker 2: her to be naked around other people's husbands? Fucking absolutely
Speaker 2: no way, Like yeah, and it's not so much about
Speaker 2: the person, but it's reenforcing this idea around your children,
Speaker 2: around consent, around like what isn't isn't normal?
Speaker 1: Like it should be your.
Speaker 2: Child aut at three and a half should probably find
Speaker 2: it abnormal to be naked around somebody else who's also
Speaker 2: naked as an adult.
Speaker 1: And there's so much tied into this.
Speaker 2: I just think like at the end of the day,
Speaker 2: if you are ever in this situation, don't take it
Speaker 2: to personal offense because you know it comes what you
Speaker 2: were trying to do came with good intention. But also
Speaker 2: just understand that that parent, your sister, is trying to
Speaker 2: do the absolute best thing by her children and raise
Speaker 2: her children in a way that protects them and protects
Speaker 2: the way that they view the world. Well, said Laura, Well,
Speaker 2: it's a hard one, isn't it, Because I think I mean, yeah.
Speaker 1: It is, but it isn't because it's like I just said,
Speaker 1: when I say there's no right or wrong, you're correct
Speaker 1: in saying, well, there is a right and wrong, because
Speaker 1: the right is just listening to the parents, and it's
Speaker 1: like we've just come full circle. It's unfortunately, that's what
Speaker 1: it comes down to. They're the guardians, they're a family.
Speaker 1: It's their choice to how they raise their child and
Speaker 1: what they allowed to happen in their house. Totally something
Speaker 1: you get on board.
Speaker 2: With, totally, and it's not with the intention of offending.
Speaker 2: You think it's the big thing to take home from this,
Speaker 2: and it's.
Speaker 1: Not with the intention. I love your partner and I'm
Speaker 1: sure they don't.
Speaker 2: Think anything negative either, Like yeah, I can understand why
Speaker 2: it would be offensive, but I think, look at it
Speaker 2: from the other perspective is what I would kind of
Speaker 2: try and recommend in this situation. Alrightie, Question number three, Brittany,
Speaker 2: this is your one okay jump on in Okay.
Speaker 1: So, a close girlfriend and I have been working together
Speaker 1: for a couple of years now. We had a work
Speaker 1: Christmas party. We both got super drunk and ended out
Speaker 1: evening separately playing the away game. So anyone that does
Speaker 1: not the away gaming is when they get down somewhere
Speaker 1: at town. I got up in the morning and headed
Speaker 1: home and then proceeded to pick her up once she
Speaker 1: woke up. I ended up staying at a randoms while
Speaker 1: she ended up at a hotel with one of our
Speaker 1: married colleagues. Now, I don't like cheaters, and I got
Speaker 1: quite stern and upset at her. I believe that she
Speaker 1: is part of the problem, knowingly sleeping with a married man,
Speaker 1: even though it is a known thing that he does.
Speaker 1: I'm not telling the wife or even acknowledging him in
Speaker 1: the office. Luckily, we're in completely different departments, and I
Speaker 1: believe he is leaving, so I'm not worried about that.
Speaker 1: My friend however, thinks it's unfair of me to judge her,
Speaker 1: and the onus does not lie with her. She's basically
Speaker 1: switched the narrative from ME being upset with her actions
Speaker 1: to how dare I judge her? I love my friend,
Speaker 1: but I don't think it's a fair argument on her behalf.
Speaker 1: And I think she's completely turned this on me. Woo.
Speaker 2: This is such a good question because this is not
Speaker 2: just relative to this. It's like, if you know that
Speaker 2: your friend is actively going out and seeking out a
Speaker 2: relationship with a married person, are they at fault? That's like,
Speaker 2: it's a question that relates to so like, so many
Speaker 2: people would have experienced this.
Speaker 1: Well, I literally in the last I guess it's probably
Speaker 1: last month. I know somebody, like I guess a friend,
Speaker 1: not necessarily a bad friend like these, but I know somebody.
Speaker 1: And it was a male and he slept in the
Speaker 1: married woman and told me and I well, it just
Speaker 1: came up in conversation. I got really mad and I
Speaker 1: got really upset, exactly like this girl, because I was like,
Speaker 1: that's cooked. I was like, that's someone else's relationship some
Speaker 1: like and he's like yeah, but you know, like they're
Speaker 1: having problems and she says is probably nearly over anyway,
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah, And I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm hearing his excuses. At the end of the day.
Speaker 1: For me, you are knowingly breaking up someone or you're
Speaker 1: contributing to it to someone else's marriage problems, and personally,
Speaker 1: that's not cool for me. So I actually really resonate
Speaker 1: with this question. The girl your friend is turning the
Speaker 1: narrative on you because she feels guilty, and she probably
Speaker 1: deep down knows that's pretty fucked. That's why she's trying
Speaker 1: to shift the blame. It's what people do when they're
Speaker 1: in the wrong. They always try and shift the blame
Speaker 1: to make themselves feel better.
Speaker 2: Like there's a level of defensiveness with it, you think totally.
Speaker 2: I think it's interesting and I think that there's so
Speaker 2: much to unpack in this. Firstly, if you are somebody
Speaker 2: who's in a marriage and you've made that commitment, you're
Speaker 2: an a monogamous committed you said those vows. You are
Speaker 2: the person who is responsible for maintaining your relationship.
Speaker 1: That is up to you.
Speaker 2: And I think that I personally think that the sole
Speaker 2: onus of like responsibility in terms of where the cheating
Speaker 2: took place is on the married man, I don't think
Speaker 2: it's on the temptation. However, does that mean that the
Speaker 2: person who actively sought him out actively was the one
Speaker 2: flirting and trying to get into bed with someone who's
Speaker 2: a married man is absolved of all sort of moral
Speaker 2: compass in this. I think it's a reflection that your
Speaker 2: friend doesn't have respect for the boundaries of his relationship either.
Speaker 2: And I guess at the end of the day, like
Speaker 2: you can't force your friend to see things the way
Speaker 2: that you see things. You can't force your friend to
Speaker 2: have the same morals that you have, or to view
Speaker 2: things in the way that makes you feel aligned. And
Speaker 2: this is something that I don't think you guys are
Speaker 2: going to agree on. If she's so headstrong that she
Speaker 2: doesn't feel like she's done anything wrong, then that's a
Speaker 2: reflection of how she views relationships and of how she
Speaker 2: views monogamy and she views other people's relationships. And I
Speaker 2: don't think you're going to change that. I think you
Speaker 2: have to accept that you view this very differently. She's
Speaker 2: not sorry for it, and is that something that you
Speaker 2: can overcome? Do you want to be friends with somebody
Speaker 2: who actively seeks out married men, or is that such
Speaker 2: a wedge that you might want to take a step
Speaker 2: back from the relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you just need to say to her, cool,
Speaker 1: do what you want, but don't tell me about it.
Speaker 1: If you don't want to know about it totally, that's fine.
Speaker 1: Do what you want, don't tell me about it, because no,
Speaker 1: I'm not cool with it. Question though, But also, don't
Speaker 1: let her put this on you. And maybe you can
Speaker 1: say that too, Maybe you can say, Look, you can't
Speaker 1: come at me for having a problem with your sleeping
Speaker 1: with a married man. I'm going to be displeased with
Speaker 1: it every time you tell me. So let's just keep
Speaker 1: the friendship as a friendship. Don't tell me when you're
Speaker 1: sleeping with someone that's in a relationship.
Speaker 2: And I think it's the part of this question that's
Speaker 2: actually gets so sticky is that it goes beyond just
Speaker 2: sleeping with someone who's in a relationship.
Speaker 1: It's shitting where you eat, like this is literally.
Speaker 2: Your workplace and these are your work hool So I
Speaker 2: guess that and that you've been brought into it, and yeah,
Speaker 2: and you have been embroiled in this because you had
Speaker 2: to pick her up.
Speaker 1: You know what happened.
Speaker 2: So I guess that there's more to this situation than
Speaker 2: when it happens just in like a normal friendship and
Speaker 2: you find out that your friend's sleeping with a married
Speaker 2: man or a married woman. Whoever, in this instance, I
Speaker 2: think that like you as a person have been dragged
Speaker 2: into it more than you opted into it, if that
Speaker 2: makes sense. But at the same time, I think like,
Speaker 2: let people deal with their own shit, their own junk,
Speaker 2: let them behave in a way that they want to
Speaker 2: behave in and it doesn't have to reflect on you.
Speaker 2: And then you decide where your boundaries lie with that person.
Speaker 2: Do you want to maintain the friendship? Does it make
Speaker 2: you frustrated? If you don't want to hear about it,
Speaker 2: then exactly what Britt said, tell them like, I'm so
Speaker 2: not for this. I disagree with what both you are doing,
Speaker 2: and I think that you both have responsibilities in this
Speaker 2: and it's not cool with me. I don't want to
Speaker 2: know what would you do? Here's my question. If I
Speaker 2: was single and I started hooking up with a married man,
Speaker 2: what would be your opinion of me if I did that?
Speaker 1: Oh, I would for sure it out with you. No,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have it out of you, but I would
Speaker 1: let you. I wouldn't be happy about it. But that's
Speaker 1: just because I guess because I've been on the receiving end,
Speaker 1: and I think anyone that's been in that situation where
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship and your partner's doing the dirty
Speaker 1: on you for you know, maybe it's once, maybe it's
Speaker 1: a long period of time. I think it hits differently
Speaker 1: once you've lived it. Maybe this girl's never been cheated on,
Speaker 1: maybe she's never had anyone be unfaithful to her. I
Speaker 1: guess there is a level and I don't even come
Speaker 1: in I'm going to say this, but there's a level
Speaker 1: that might be dependent on the situation. So, for examplered percent.
Speaker 2: I think cheating it or cheating is different. I don't
Speaker 2: think that there's one brushstroke that you can be like
Speaker 2: once a cheater, always a cheater, or every situation is
Speaker 2: the same, Like, there are definitely different environments and situations
Speaker 2: that need to be taken into consideration when cheating's involved.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, so I have a friend. This is going back,
Speaker 1: I mean ten years now. I have a friend that
Speaker 1: was cheating someone was she was single, but she was
Speaker 1: sleeping with a guy that was in a very committed relationship,
Speaker 1: and I never see to her, but I was like,
Speaker 1: it's just so for fucked, Like that's how I felt inside.
Speaker 1: I was just like, why are you doing that? There
Speaker 1: are so many men in the world. And I think
Speaker 1: I had the conversation with her once and she said,
Speaker 1: I can't explain it. There's something there, like I'm not
Speaker 1: just sleeping with him because I want to have sex.
Speaker 1: She's like, there's just something unexplainable. And they would because
Speaker 1: I'm trauma bonded to have a situation. But they went
Speaker 1: on to get married and have kids. Yeah, because I
Speaker 1: guess what was there obviously that that person's relationship wasn't
Speaker 1: right and it turned out to be a bit of
Speaker 1: a happy ending for the other relationship. So I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that I'm not condoning that, but I'm saying there
Speaker 1: are situations where I guess, I don't want to even
Speaker 1: use the word leaning. I don't know what the right
Speaker 1: word is. There are situations where I guess it can
Speaker 1: be more acceptable. But if you came to me and
Speaker 1: you're like, hey, fucking this guy that's marriage just because
Speaker 1: he's hot, I'd be like, Laura, that's not cool. Like
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to know. I'd be like totally, and
Speaker 1: I would probably advise you. As a friend. I'd be like,
Speaker 1: as a friend, I'm going to advise you to stop
Speaker 1: doing that immediately. But then if you're going to continue
Speaker 1: to do it, that's completely your choice. Takes two to
Speaker 1: ten go, but I wouldn't want to know about it.
Speaker 2: I think one of the big things that we've learned
Speaker 2: from doing this podcast is that, like, relationships are so
Speaker 2: tricky and that and not just tricky in that they're
Speaker 2: hard to navigate, but there you do a boom and
Speaker 2: where do you go to the public toilet? No, but
Speaker 2: there are so many things that go on in a relationship,
Speaker 2: so it's hard to just black and white anything, even cheating,
Speaker 2: even though we know that cheating is so detrimental to people,
Speaker 2: it is so hurtful and damaging and like a really
Speaker 2: fucking horrible thing to do to someone. We know that
Speaker 2: there is nothing in life that is black and white
Speaker 2: and is a void of that gray area. I guess
Speaker 2: in this instance and this particular question and situation, the
Speaker 2: reason why I kind of feel like your friend is
Speaker 2: contributing to it more or really should assess her own actions.
Speaker 2: It's because she doesn't care about the other person. It's
Speaker 2: her lack of empathy for the woman who he's married to.
Speaker 2: It's the lack of caring about her at all that
Speaker 2: makes me think carelessly and recklessly can go in intentionally
Speaker 2: fuck up someone's relationship when it means nothing to them,
Speaker 2: like it was a one night hookup, a hang and bang,
Speaker 2: and like she just doesn't care about what that looks
Speaker 2: like there's no remorse for it.
Speaker 1: Well, when I sort of said exactly that how I
Speaker 1: felt to this guy that I know, when I was like, look,
Speaker 1: put yourself in that position, just for example, reverse it
Speaker 1: that as in people we would know, Like you know,
Speaker 1: I was like, if this person was cheating on you
Speaker 1: with this person, blah blah blah, imagine how you would feel.
Speaker 1: And he was like, yeah, you're right, He's like I
Speaker 1: just He's like, I guess it's so it's so innocent
Speaker 1: and you believe what they say. You're like, oh, it's
Speaker 1: coming to an end anyway, it doesn't matter. But he
Speaker 1: was like, it does matter. I realized that I was
Speaker 1: probably just accepting what they were saying. As gospel because
Speaker 1: it suited the situation totally, and he was like, I
Speaker 1: will never do it again. You are absolutely right, that
Speaker 1: was not right.
Speaker 2: I think that in this instance, she's just shown that
Speaker 2: she really has a lack of empathy for other people
Speaker 2: and doesn't have any remorse, And that's where the frustration lies.
Speaker 1: If Jason momoa your whole pass. If you were out
Speaker 1: at a bar and he came up to you and
Speaker 1: he was like, I saw you from across the room,
Speaker 1: you were so beautiful, never and he said, do you
Speaker 1: want to come back to my farm? I have You
Speaker 1: could not get into temperate.
Speaker 2: There is nothing nobody in this world that would even
Speaker 2: remotely make me okay.
Speaker 1: As much as we joke about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like I've lived on the other side of it,
Speaker 2: I have cheated and I have been cheated on.
Speaker 1: To what I said. Once you've I think, once you've
Speaker 1: experienced it and it might go it might go the
Speaker 1: other way. Some people might maybe once they have experienced cheating,
Speaker 1: maybe it makes them be cheated under again. There's no
Speaker 1: like one size fits all for this. But for me
Speaker 1: being on the other side, I hope to God I
Speaker 1: never cheat on anyone. I hope there's no ever temptation
Speaker 1: at any point in my life, and I don't imagine
Speaker 1: there would be because I'm not like that. But for
Speaker 1: me it did the other thing.
Speaker 2: It made me be so off cheatersh Well, I think
Speaker 2: the thing with that is like some people cheat, they
Speaker 2: get away with it, and therefore it then becomes like, well,
Speaker 2: I can just do this. There's normal and there's no
Speaker 2: remorse and there's no empathy all that shit that I
Speaker 2: just talked about.
Speaker 1: But for other people, like.
Speaker 2: When I say, and I know that even when I say, oh,
Speaker 2: I've cheated in the past, that there will be some
Speaker 2: people who will listen to that and be like fuck,
Speaker 2: that's because nobody wants to admit that they've cheated in
Speaker 2: the past. You're so put into a basket of being
Speaker 2: like a bad person, like a leopard can't change his spots. Yeah, like,
Speaker 2: once a cheater, always a cheater. But I guess from
Speaker 2: my personal experience is I've seen how damaging it can be.
Speaker 2: I've seen how hurtful it can be, and I've seen
Speaker 2: the pain I caused somebody else by doing it, and
Speaker 2: I would never want to do that to somebody I
Speaker 2: care about ever Again. So for me, it was like
Speaker 2: a huge lesson that I also on the flip side
Speaker 2: of that, have been cheated on so many times as well,
Speaker 2: and I know how fucked it is, and it wouldn't
Speaker 2: wish it upon anyone.
Speaker 1: And if you're going through it and we're here with
Speaker 1: jasonma nobody, Okay, I'll just text him until I'm not
Speaker 1: to come over them.
Speaker 2: I mean, I still want to have I want to
Speaker 2: watch him. I want to see him in re alive.
Speaker 2: I want to like rub somebody on him and like,
Speaker 2: you know, just watch him.
Speaker 1: My life mission is to try to get some form
Speaker 1: of contact with Jason Momoa for you, whether it's lying
Speaker 1: you get into do me a birthday. I'll try. I'm
Speaker 1: I'm like, can I try to get a video from him?
Speaker 1: I've actually I'm not gonna lie. I already tried once.
Speaker 1: He didn't write back.
Speaker 2: It's my birthday next week, So anyone wants to slide
Speaker 2: into my DMS with a birthday video from Jason Momoa
Speaker 2: umor here for even if he was just like.
Speaker 1: Working out and I scooped up some sweat and the
Speaker 1: jaff room and gave something like there's got to be
Speaker 1: something in it. Anyway, That is it guy, That is
Speaker 1: it from us.
Speaker 2: But we also have an absolutely fucking cracking episode for
Speaker 2: you next week on Tuesday. If you put it in
Speaker 2: your diaries, I want to see you all six am Tuesday.
Speaker 2: Next week, we are interviewing MARKA.
Speaker 1: Groves. I always feel bad when we do this and
Speaker 1: we haven't interviewed the man. You know what's in casey cancels.
Speaker 1: The interviews booked in like a day or two. But
Speaker 1: in case something goes wrong. I always hate like telling
Speaker 1: people what it's going to be in case something happens.
Speaker 1: Because he's overseas internationally, he's very popular.
Speaker 2: So in case something does go wrong, Okay, we're supposed
Speaker 2: to be interviewing him tomorrow.
Speaker 1: Morning at nine am our time or eight am our time.
Speaker 2: If that goes terribly not to plan, then he won't
Speaker 2: be on the podcast and we don't really have a backup,
Speaker 2: and we have no fucking back up. But at the moment,
Speaker 2: it is Mark Groves and he If you guys haven't
Speaker 2: looked him up, go online. Find him on Instagram. His
Speaker 2: instagram is Create the Love. Mark is an readible relationship expert.
Speaker 1: Well he refers to himself actually as a human connection specialist.
Speaker 1: So he's just very deep in the world of love
Speaker 1: and lust and relationships, and he puts out heaps of
Speaker 1: like really inspirational quotes that I also look at on
Speaker 1: his Instagram. I've looked at him for a long time.
Speaker 1: I've followed him for a long time. He's got a
Speaker 1: million followers. A lot of you probably know about him,
Speaker 1: but if you don't, go and look him up, because
Speaker 1: I find him a really nice go.
Speaker 2: To And he's also just like he's such a modern
Speaker 2: day philosopher when it comes to relationships and how relationships
Speaker 2: evolve and how we navigate them. We're going to be
Speaker 2: doing a massive deep dive, not just in relationships, but specifically.
Speaker 1: I think this is going to be a really great.
Speaker 2: Episode for our single people and also for people who
Speaker 2: maybe are like finding themselves in a tricky situation in
Speaker 2: their current relationships and going through a bit of a
Speaker 2: like a all right, where is this heading?
Speaker 1: Where are we now? Type episode? Well, he wants to
Speaker 1: help people love better, he wants to help them connect deeper,
Speaker 1: communicate with intention. It's going to be something that I
Speaker 1: don't think we've spoken to somebody previously, not like him,
Speaker 1: not like him, so I'm excited. You should get excited.
Speaker 1: Laurie's excited and hope he doesn't cancel him, but I
Speaker 1: I'm so fucking excited.
Speaker 2: Anyway, guys, that is it from us, and this week
Speaker 2: we hope that you've loved to ask Uncut questions. If
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