WEBVTT - G’s Hotline ☎️ Men are trash !!! 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.600 The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:08.320 land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen Bear region. 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:13.320 We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land, 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:16.840 sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:20.840 past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:34.159 and terrestrid Islander peoples. Today. Hello and welcome back to 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:37.360 the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:52.240 ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello guys, 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:57.360 and welcome back to Georgie's Hotline. We have three more 0:00:57.440 --> 0:01:01.480 life dilemmas we are answering today and we've randomly got 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:02.720 Cooper in the studio. 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:05.760 Hi, Coop, Hello, what's going on? 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:08.679 So Cooper doesn't even know any of these questions? So 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:10.760 I got left out. He felt left out. He was 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:13.440 like wandering around the office. We were like, come join us. 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.600 No, I just come in to ask the question and 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:18.200 then got roped in and then. 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:20.560 And then he's sitting here and he's like, when is 0:01:20.600 --> 0:01:26.160 this going to finish? I've got to be so rude. 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:30.440 But we on today's episode we are talking about all 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:35.960 things manifesting. Can you manifest, a partner is getting physically sick, 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:39.080 a sign from the universe, And how can you find 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:43.880 yourself after a bad breakup? These were some great question guys, 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:47.720 and before we get into them, though, my little recommendation 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:50.520 for the week is me and Tim watched the movie 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:56.600 The Adams Project. Is Adam Adam, The Adams Project. It's 0:01:56.640 --> 0:02:00.400 got Ryle Ryan Reynolds in it. Love love so good 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:02.160 it you haven't seen it? 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:02.920 What is it about? 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:04.640 You love it? It's like time travel. 0:02:04.800 --> 0:02:07.360 Yeah, but it's like one of the best, most easy 0:02:07.400 --> 0:02:08.720 to follow time travel movies. 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:12.560 I've watched it. Usually I start to say, I'm pretty 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:13.400 sure I told you to. 0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:17.200 Watch it, and you watched it. I did watch it. 0:02:17.200 --> 0:02:17.840 It's pretty good. 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:20.840 Cooper, watch your recommendation of the week. What have you 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:21.400 been watching? 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:23.320 I've actually been watching Ozark. 0:02:23.720 --> 0:02:25.480 Tim has been watching this too. 0:02:25.720 --> 0:02:28.440 Yeah, just watching the last season and the first part 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:31.600 of the first few episodes was actually really boring. But 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:34.520 I finally got through it and then the ending is 0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:35.639 just so bloody good. 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:37.840 I tried to get into it and it did not 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:40.680 happen for me. I went halfway through the first season 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:42.920 and I it like depressed me. 0:02:43.240 --> 0:02:46.639 It's like it's dark and so dark, and Tim's watching 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:49.280 it and I'm like, there's just nothing here for me 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:52.480 for me too, Oh my god. Actually also like the 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:57.160 shot is dark like the Batman movie. I don't watched 0:02:57.200 --> 0:03:01.200 that yet. Oh my god, the Batman movie is so dark. Yeah, 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:05.799 me and Tim like watching. There's such a great meme 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:08.720 about it. Just back on it. I actually do have 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:12.120 a really great series. I actually recommended this to a 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:15.560 Tear and I watched this ages ago. But oh my god, 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:19.960 Oh it's Daisy let me normal people, normal people, so 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:24.079 normal people on stan. The book's obviously way better. A 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.919 tear should read the book too. But it's a really 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:31.079 great series. Me and a Tear really into like love stories. Yeah, 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:36.040 what's your favorite load story? I just love a love story. 0:03:38.320 --> 0:03:48.640 It can't be r rated. Watch it here first. All right, guys, 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:58.320 enough recommendations. Let's get into the episode. 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:03.520 So our first question is how to find yourself after 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:07.120 a breakup? Bonus tips if it's got dumped for a 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:10.120 younger model after ten years of putting them first. And 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:14.520 also we have two kiddies missed too and mister seven 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:16.120 hot mess Express. 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:20.680 Oh my god, what a dog. 0:04:21.720 --> 0:04:26.120 A dog that's Oh my god, that's horrible. 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:29.120 I think first we have to just admit or like 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:32.279 acknowledge how well she seems to be taking this, because 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:34.279 I don't think I'd be sending a message so well 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:36.120 put together if I was in this situation. 0:04:36.440 --> 0:04:44.919 That is so messed up. Men a trash not all men, everyone, Cooper, 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:46.440 what is your first reaction to that? 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:49.839 What's disgusting? There's no no one should do that to 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:52.320 their wife with two kids as well. 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:56.320 I think it's the kid's part. Now that I'm a mum, 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:59.200 it's the kid's part for me, you know. Just wait 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:04.760 till when no, yes, yeah, discuss it. 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:09.040 Hey yeah. Communication is the key in relationship anyway. 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:13.880 Okay, So, first of all, I am so sorry. That 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:17.560 is just a messed up situation and that's so horrible, 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:20.760 and I bet there would just be so many thoughts running, 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:23.920 you know, through your head. And first of all, I 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:26.480 just want to say, if someone cheats in the relationship, 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:30.159 it is nothing like well, it's not nothing to do 0:05:30.240 --> 0:05:33.800 with you. But I think anytime someone cheats in the relationship, 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:38.680 you automatically think, how, you know, how did I go wrong? Here? 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:42.599 Am I not pretty enough? Am I not enough? For this? Person, 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:45.320 and I just want to stop that because it is 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:47.080 completely his issue. 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:49.680 Not yours, for sure, and that can happen, like those 0:05:49.720 --> 0:05:52.360 thoughts can creep in pretty easily, especially if the person 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:53.680 is a lot younger. 0:05:53.920 --> 0:05:57.080 Okay, so after a breakup, me and Cooper are probably 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:59.640 not the best people because Cooper's literally had. 0:05:59.560 --> 0:06:01.719 A girl friend a girl. 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:06.839 Oh so, Cooper's been with Ashley since he was sixteen. 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:11.479 Seventeen, seventeen, and we have been through everything. 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:16.400 He's been with the same person. I've been with Tim 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:19.080 since I was seventeen, so I've. 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:19.400 Not been. 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:26.080 So we've got a perfect great people to answer this question. 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:28.880 But I think I remember when I broke up with 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:32.920 my high school boyfriend again nothing most Yeah, thank god 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:37.120 he was a drop kind Oh my god, have you 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:41.880 just listened to do I care? No? So my big 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:45.480 thing is like, you need to focus on yourself and 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:48.400 your kids. Like you said, you were putting him first 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:51.880 for ten years, and it's likely that you probably feel 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:56.000 a bit lost and confused. And I think it's it's 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:59.520 time for you. It's time for you to shine. It's time, 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:04.280 you know, for your moment. And I think also a 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:07.040 big thing is like see this as a positive because 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:10.840 if he has done this, he's obviously a shit human. 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:13.080 And probably do it again if you took him back 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:16.080 as well, Yeah, or do stuff. They tend to go 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:17.280 back to that same spot. 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:21.000 And then also, you know, I know it's probably not 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:23.280 the best time with a two year old and seven 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:25.800 year old, but thank god it happened now and you 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:29.080 didn't waste any more time. For sure, he was just 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:30.960 wasting your time exactly. 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:33.520 And I think as well is if you do have 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:36.760 people around you that you can lean on, don't be 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:38.640 scared to do that for the next little bit, because 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:41.960 it is a really tough situation that you're in and 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:44.120 you shouldn't have to go through it alone if it 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:48.440 can be avoided. Maybe need help, yea, yeah, you're gonna 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:49.640 need help. You have two kids. 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:54.680 Ask for help, you know, family friends, because yeah, it's 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:57.600 going to be a lot, you know, doing it by yourself. 0:07:58.240 --> 0:08:02.080 I do on a season. Yeah, all with what you 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:06.120 said at the start that it's all on him, I disagree. 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:10.720 I think it's the relationship with how you were both together, 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:13.200 Like if it didn't work and he wanted to go 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:16.480 and do something else, then he's not the right fit 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:19.280 for you. He's not your lobster. I like to call 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:21.400 it me and asters a lot. 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:30.960 Of friends reference well you won't get yeah, you watch friends. 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:32.160 Get a partner and one partner. 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:35.880 Yeah, that's so precious and penguins. 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:37.760 I always call ash my lobster. 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:40.520 That's actually really cute. 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:44.560 But like a relationship, it takes two to tango, like 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:47.400 you've got to work on it both sides. So if 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:51.400 this was kind of going on, there wasn't enough spark 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:55.600 going on. Like my piece of advice to someone would 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:59.040 be in a relationship is if you can take away 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:03.439 sex and be with that person as best friends for 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:08.559 like a pretty good time. Like sex definitely helps. That's personal, 0:09:08.640 --> 0:09:10.840 like two days like you're going to marry your best 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:16.280 friend and then doing stuff together. 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:27.120 I know expected on this and like we did not 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:29.760 even think of that, Like met trash. 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:33.880 I think a man is trash, Like you shouldn't not 0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:34.360 do that. 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:37.360 So there are like she's got a fucking two year old, 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:40.920 like she could literally be she could have thought everything 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:43.720 was amazing and because he may have been a soso 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:46.840 path and come home and acted like he was in 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:49.520 love with her and having sex and doing all the things, 0:09:49.720 --> 0:09:52.760 she might not have even it could have blindsided. 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:55.360 Her, and that definitely can happen with kids because you've 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:56.800 got a lot of time on them. 0:09:56.920 --> 0:10:00.280 But yeah, yeah, and you get we also do know 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:05.520 that he cheated, though you don't know a lot of things. God, 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:08.480 I literally assumed he cheated, but like I think I'm 0:10:08.520 --> 0:10:11.240 assuming he did because she's written got dumped for a 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:14.040 younger model, and like, do you get dumped for a 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:18.880 person if they weren't already together? Yeah, yeah, well that's okay, 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:22.079 So great point, Cooper. I think something that you need 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:27.080 to focus on is getting really clear on the type 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:31.400 of relationship you want, So the type of relationship you 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:34.479 want to attract, how you want to feel in the relationship, 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:37.800 how the other person wants to feel in the relationship, 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:41.240 and really like dream big with this because you know, 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:45.640 maybe from this previous relationship you've got like low standards 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:51.920 and it's like you want like a start. I love 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:56.080 how we just like who knows, But in this scenario, 0:10:56.559 --> 0:11:00.680 it's like, you know, I wouldn't be jumping into another 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:04.440 relationship because it's been so long. Focus on yourself, get 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:08.040 to know yourself, you know, focus on the kids, work 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:12.160 that out, but start getting clear on how you want 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:15.480 to feel in your next relationship. And also, you know 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:19.000 this could be years and years away, but I think 0:11:19.120 --> 0:11:23.439 just getting clear on that and use this relationship as 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:27.200 a learning tool, Like, like we said, like our challenges 0:11:27.320 --> 0:11:32.240 are lessons. So how did this relationship make you feel? 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:34.880 And how does it how do you want that different 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:37.240 for your next relationship? 0:11:37.360 --> 0:11:40.480 Yeah, and I think as well, like what's happened is shit, 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:44.079 and it's fine to feel angry and sad and all 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:47.280 the things, and make sure, yeah, make sure you actually 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:49.480 feel it so that you can heal properly and you're 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:51.880 not just sweeping it under a rug and then one 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:54.439 day a balloon pops and you have a meltdown or 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:55.800 something like that triggers you. 0:11:55.960 --> 0:12:00.920 I Like, I know, we joke. This is all unqualified advice, obviously, 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:04.640 but I would one hundred percent see a psychologist about 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:07.959 this because even her saying, you know, leaving, leaving her 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:10.520 for a younger model, and just there would just be 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:15.160 so many elements to this that you could unpack professionally 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:18.120 to really work through it so it no longer has 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:21.640 a hold over you. Yeah, exactly. But all in all, 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:25.280 I just want this person to remember she's fucking amazing. 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:28.800 Yes she is. You know you're killing it if you've 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:30.120 got a two year old and seven year old and 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:34.200 you're now doing this by yourself, Like go, you your 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:38.400 superwoman and you can do this exactly you chapter Fresh Start, 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:42.280 Reinvent Yourself. Download the ebook, Download the ebook. 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:43.800 Yourself. 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:48.720 Yes, love like eat prey, love vibes. But with children, 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:53.960 you know, so sleep feed maybe nat but you know, 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:56.600 do what you can. And I think this can swap 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:59.640 this around. This is a very exciting chapter. Awesome. 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:05.560 So question number two, I was wondering if it's possible 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:09.000 for the universe to send you signs through your physical health. 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:11.960 I started a new job earlier this year, and I've 0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:15.240 noticed my health getting a bit worse, like sick all 0:13:15.320 --> 0:13:18.600 the time, and previously I had four weeks of sickly 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:21.880 banked up. I'm pretty sure it's not the job for me, 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:24.920 and I'm looking at alternatives, but I was wondering if 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:27.920 it could be a sign. I'm very much trying to 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:30.559 surrender to the universe and grow my spiritual side. 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:31.600 So interesting. 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:34.760 The biggest question, what do. 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:37.920 You think, Cooper? What's your initial response this? Because Cooper 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:39.439 hasn't heard these questions. 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:42.680 Well, the first part about the job. Yeah, if you're 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:46.880 sick and you're overworking yourself, maybe chill out with a 0:13:46.960 --> 0:13:47.760 part of the job. 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:51.360 Or I don't know if she's overworking herself though. She's 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:54.640 just saying since she's started the job, she's been getting 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:56.920 sick and she doesn't she's not sure, but she likes 0:13:56.960 --> 0:13:57.320 the job. 0:13:58.280 --> 0:13:59.120 What job is it? 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:02.760 I know you read this question and you're like, I 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:07.160 need so much more information. Well I'll go. I'll go first, coeper, 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:13.520 and then you can comment later if you want to comment. So, 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:19.120 I think feeling like, I think sickness can definitely manifest 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:23.880 in the body from like, So what comes to mind 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:27.800 is have you read that book by Lewis Hay You 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:31.280 Can Heal Your Life? Oh my god, it's so interesting. Yea, 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:36.000 it's all it's literally all about how different sicknesses we 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:44.280 have manifested from either negative experiences or us having negative beliefs. Wow. 0:14:44.520 --> 0:14:46.960 And it has this full reference book where you then 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:50.040 look so for example, I get cold swords a lot, 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:53.920 and you have a look and it's all about not 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:58.520 speaking your truth. Whoa yeah, And every like symptom or 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:08.120 disease has like a coloration. Coloration coloration coloration. Wow, wow, 0:15:08.320 --> 0:15:12.120 we got that. Yeah to a thing. So I think 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:19.360 definitely sickness can manifest from a negative belief or something happening. 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:21.520 It's like, I don't know. I do read the book, 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:24.720 and it's like a little bit it's so wooo, Like 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:28.600 she explains that when she was a child she got 0:15:28.640 --> 0:15:32.440 sexually abused and then she got cervical cancer because she 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:36.160 never dealt with that sexual abuse and then she dealt 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:38.760 with the sexual abuse and she got rid of her cancer. 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:43.520 Really yeah, like a bit, it's like very wooy, like 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:48.920 very like I don't mean to laugh, so it's very 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:51.000 woo woy. But read the book if you're interested in 0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:55.360 that sort of thing. But I think definitely sicknesses can 0:15:55.680 --> 0:16:01.760 be manifested from certain experiences and belief. So yes, initially 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:05.760 to her question, Yeah, and exactly in regards to the job, though, 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:10.000 I think just her saying I don't think this job 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:13.400 is right for me, I'm getting sick, like that's your answer. 0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:17.160 Yeah, I think even just take it down to the 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:19.600 basic and forget about your sickness, and if you feel 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:21.520 like the job's not right for you, it's probably not. 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:26.040 Yeah, And I think it's like intuitively, she kind of 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:29.520 already knows and she just needs a confirmation and that's 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:32.240 your body telling me that it's not right. Yeah, And 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:34.920 I think obviously she's at the start of her spiritual journey, 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:39.400 so she's maybe not like fully trusting herself. But I think, yeah, 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:42.520 I think this is definitely you know, I don't know. 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:45.360 It's hard because let's also talk about like signs from 0:16:45.400 --> 0:16:47.880 the universe. So for example, I have this whole episode 0:16:47.880 --> 0:16:50.800 where I chat about you can ask the universe for 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:53.600 a sign. So let's say you do have to be 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:56.080 tapped in though, you have to be tapped into intuition 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:59.720 and like into this spiritual stuff. So for example, you 0:16:59.800 --> 0:17:04.160 might say something like, Universe, I really don't like this job. 0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:08.439 If I see a blue butterfly, you know, within the 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:12.320 next week, this will mean I'm quitting my job. Yeah, 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:15.680 And then you see the blue butterfly. My big thing 0:17:15.720 --> 0:17:19.199 with spiritual science, though, is it's not about if you 0:17:19.240 --> 0:17:22.720 see the blue butterfly or not. It's about how you 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:26.120 feel the initial gut reaction when you see that blue butterfly. 0:17:26.280 --> 0:17:29.000 So do you are you relieved or disappointed? 0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:29.480 Yes? 0:17:29.800 --> 0:17:32.560 And so don't like use that as the actual sign 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:34.160 of Oh I saw it, so I've got to quit 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:36.600 my job. Use the how did you feel? Did you 0:17:36.640 --> 0:17:39.000 feel you saw it and go, yes, I'm quitting my job, 0:17:39.119 --> 0:17:41.400 or did you see it and go I actually don't 0:17:41.440 --> 0:17:42.280 want to quit my job? 0:17:42.480 --> 0:17:42.680 Yeah? 0:17:42.680 --> 0:17:45.240 Does that make sense? That's how I feel about like 0:17:45.280 --> 0:17:46.119 spiritual science. 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:49.080 Yeah, I'm not that good in that. Well, it's more 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:52.320 the point is, listen to your body if it's telling 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:54.240 you something, change something. 0:17:54.000 --> 0:17:56.600 Like, and if you're getting sick, like it's your brain 0:17:56.600 --> 0:17:57.800 at the end of the day and giving you the 0:17:57.840 --> 0:18:01.000 signal because it controls everything that happens where it's consciously 0:18:01.080 --> 0:18:03.960 or subconsciously, and it's subconsciously telling you. 0:18:03.880 --> 0:18:08.640 Something, Yeah, something's not right now. And I think also, yeah, 0:18:08.680 --> 0:18:11.159 like Cooper said, like listen to your body. Obviously you 0:18:11.400 --> 0:18:14.960 keep like I think, if you keep reoccurring getting sick, 0:18:15.000 --> 0:18:18.040 there's obviously a deeper issue that your body is trying 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:20.480 to deal with that is in you know, right, That's 0:18:20.520 --> 0:18:23.480 like when I had all my symptoms in regards to 0:18:23.520 --> 0:18:26.000 breasts implant illness, I had all these symptoms and they 0:18:26.119 --> 0:18:29.880 just like were reoccurring. But you could fix one, but 0:18:29.920 --> 0:18:32.840 then another symptom would come up. And it's so it's 0:18:32.880 --> 0:18:34.960 like it's a reoccurring thing where your body is like 0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:37.000 I'm trying to find it's just something else going wrong, 0:18:37.520 --> 0:18:40.440 get these implants out. But you just like you're looking 0:18:40.480 --> 0:18:42.440 at the symptoms, not like the deeper thing. 0:18:42.960 --> 0:18:45.520 Yeah, you're fixing like the issues, but not the root 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:46.000 cause of it. 0:18:46.359 --> 0:18:49.240 Yes, yeah, so I reckon there's a root cause here. 0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:52.840 And also yeah, I think this job is not for you. 0:18:52.960 --> 0:18:54.800 Cool lucky. Last question. 0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:02.199 It wouldn't be a very good episode if she's like, 0:19:02.280 --> 0:19:04.080 I'm not sure if it's for me, and I'm like, yeah, 0:19:04.080 --> 0:19:06.600 it's not done. 0:19:06.640 --> 0:19:14.119 That's done me episode over questions like thirty questions and 0:19:14.200 --> 0:19:23.520 tenutes no, yes, no, yes, no, done, okay, perfect last question. 0:19:23.840 --> 0:19:27.840 I have been extremely successful in Korea and making things 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:31.520 happen for myself in other areas of my life, but 0:19:31.680 --> 0:19:34.080 one area of my life I seem to struggle with 0:19:34.400 --> 0:19:40.119 is relationships, specifically romantic relationships. When it comes to manifesting 0:19:40.200 --> 0:19:43.119 other things, I feel so confident because I know if 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:45.439 it's in my control, I will do the work to 0:19:45.480 --> 0:19:49.439 make it happen. But for relationships, it really relies on 0:19:49.480 --> 0:19:53.480 another person and my normal rhetoric of if I work hard, 0:19:53.600 --> 0:19:56.879 I can make it happen. Doesn't really apply to that realm. 0:19:57.040 --> 0:20:00.760 Would love any tips on manifesting when things out of 0:20:00.800 --> 0:20:04.239 your control and dealing with the intrusive thoughts that it 0:20:04.320 --> 0:20:05.439 might not happen for me. 0:20:06.440 --> 0:20:09.320 Yeah, this is a great question. First of all, can 0:20:09.359 --> 0:20:12.160 I just say her last line of like, I would 0:20:12.160 --> 0:20:15.199 love any tips on manifesting when things seem out of 0:20:15.240 --> 0:20:18.399 your control? So all things are out of your control 0:20:18.440 --> 0:20:23.359 when you're manifesting, like, there's not a scenario. I think 0:20:24.000 --> 0:20:26.720 previously with her, you know, with the jobs and the 0:20:26.800 --> 0:20:30.560 working for things, she has a sense of control because 0:20:30.960 --> 0:20:35.600 she's doing which is not actually true because the true 0:20:36.280 --> 0:20:42.280 you know, manifestation is surrender and being an attracting And 0:20:42.320 --> 0:20:45.240 so I can I can one hundred percent understand what 0:20:45.280 --> 0:20:48.639 she's talking about because I'm a doer. I love doing things. 0:20:48.720 --> 0:20:52.680 I love like making steps. But it's like in reality 0:20:52.760 --> 0:20:57.199 she doesn't like that's not necessary to manifest. But I 0:20:57.240 --> 0:20:59.840 completely understand what she's talking about here because it does 0:21:00.040 --> 0:21:02.600 feel out of your control because it's like someone else's 0:21:02.680 --> 0:21:05.680 life as well. Yeah does that? Yeah that makes sense? 0:21:05.760 --> 0:21:07.560 Like I'm totally on this page. I felt like I 0:21:07.560 --> 0:21:09.000 wrote this question because I feel the. 0:21:09.040 --> 0:21:11.400 Exactly and we're going to get into a tears response. 0:21:11.720 --> 0:21:14.800 But I think the first thing is like what seems 0:21:14.840 --> 0:21:18.639 hard about this? Like, obviously this is a manifestation where 0:21:18.680 --> 0:21:22.240 previously other things don't feel hard, and this feels hard 0:21:22.280 --> 0:21:25.960 for her. So I'm kind of thinking, like, what part 0:21:26.400 --> 0:21:31.000 of finding your soulmate feels hard? And let me just 0:21:31.040 --> 0:21:33.760 ask you a tea if you says, if you say 0:21:33.800 --> 0:21:37.159 this question was made for you, what part of finding 0:21:37.160 --> 0:21:38.560 a soulmate feels hard for you? 0:21:39.119 --> 0:21:42.200 Like just the fact that they even exist, Like it's 0:21:42.280 --> 0:21:44.439 so weird and I don't know what the block is. 0:21:44.440 --> 0:21:45.800 And I was talking to Jamie. 0:21:45.560 --> 0:21:48.919 About this before, but like the thought that there's someone 0:21:49.720 --> 0:21:52.199 that exists that is the right person for me, I 0:21:52.280 --> 0:21:52.639 just don't know. 0:21:52.760 --> 0:21:54.640 Do you think there's only one? Would you say? 0:21:54.720 --> 0:21:57.960 Or like even just I don't meeting someone, I think 0:21:57.960 --> 0:21:59.160 there's heaps me too. 0:21:59.520 --> 0:22:01.520 I feel like this is probably why we have no 0:22:01.600 --> 0:22:07.680 issues because we're like there's a small sport of people. First, Yeah, 0:22:09.080 --> 0:22:11.960 says us, who's been dating our partners since we were teenagers. 0:22:14.680 --> 0:22:15.040 I don't know. 0:22:15.080 --> 0:22:17.040 I guess I kind of look at it like I 0:22:17.080 --> 0:22:20.000 do think there's probably one, and I do think there'll 0:22:20.000 --> 0:22:22.920 always be plenty to settle for and that's never going. 0:22:22.920 --> 0:22:25.200 To be a worry. Like being alone is kind of 0:22:25.240 --> 0:22:28.840 like so you're worried about Okay, this is great. So 0:22:29.040 --> 0:22:34.439 your like limiting belief is like this ultimate this person 0:22:34.560 --> 0:22:37.480 has to be like perfect, not perfect, because I know 0:22:37.560 --> 0:22:41.359 that that's never a thing, but just someone that I 0:22:41.440 --> 0:22:44.680 would like the concept that there is someone that exists 0:22:44.720 --> 0:22:46.959 that I would rather go home to than to an 0:22:46.960 --> 0:22:52.240 empty house. Weir, it's me out, what do you mean? 0:22:52.640 --> 0:22:55.240 Like do you ever go home and the house is 0:22:55.280 --> 0:22:57.360 empty and you're like, oh, this is so peaceful. 0:22:57.440 --> 0:22:59.720 Yeah, it's amazing. Yeah, but it's like. 0:23:00.080 --> 0:23:03.960 One day the next day you're like, I'm bored. 0:23:04.000 --> 0:23:06.679 She lives with Yeah, I don't go home to an 0:23:06.680 --> 0:23:10.400