WEBVTT - What NOT To Ask On A Date 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 0:00:01.520 --> 0:00:04.440 Flex and Frooms Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:10.119 and Frooms catch up podcast. Sweety Pries. We are back 0:00:10.320 --> 0:00:13.880 Friday the eleventh. Did anyone have a spooky day? On Tuesday? 0:00:14.040 --> 0:00:16.040 The lions Gate portal was open. I don't really know 0:00:16.120 --> 0:00:18.400 much about it, and I don't endeavor to do any 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:20.280 more research into it, but if you did have any 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:23.800 strange things happen, let us know. Threads is flopping, as 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:25.479 predicted by me. I think it was one of my 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:27.200 first threads I ever made, that this place is going 0:00:27.240 --> 0:00:29.320 to flop, just like zero and everything else before it. 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:32.680 I am a witch, though, so I did see that coming. Yeah, 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:35.800 you were about it, No, you're about it. I love it. 0:00:36.280 --> 0:00:39.360 But my first rag was about it flopping, oh. 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:43.720 Babe, because I sent you an email FLEXI and I 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:47.520 was like, is threads just going to flop? Like be real? 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:51.600 And you were like, no, drag her. Yes, But did 0:00:51.600 --> 0:00:54.760 I not say my first thread was about it flopping? Well, 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:59.120 get the receipt time pulling it out, I'm scrolling. I said, 0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:02.720 there's nothing like being an early adopter for a platform 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:06.720 that's likely to fade into obscurity in minutes. Remember Vero 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:08.520 first thread. 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:11.039 I don't know how anyways, and let's get the. 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:16.880 MUMMAE. Can I listen to flex and Rooms? Flex and Rooms, Okada. 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:20.600 I recently went to the Blue Mountains for a girl's 0:01:20.600 --> 0:01:23.679 trip away. We stayed in a little cabin in Katomba. 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:26.679 Actually, did you document this? I didn't really see this cointinet. No, 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:27.319 I didn't. 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:30.560 I tend not to upload things that I do in 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:33.680 my personal life, not for any reason. I was just 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:36.360 really enjoying myself in just very deep in life. 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:37.920 And it's nice when you notice that. Though I always 0:01:37.920 --> 0:01:40.240 have these situations where I'm just having such a ripping time. 0:01:40.400 --> 0:01:43.160 I think I'm going to ruin this. The phone comes out, 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:44.960 I've ruined the moment. Well, I will say. 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:49.080 We were at this really scary abba beat was super cheap. 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:50.600 It was like one hundred dollars in ANNT or something, 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:53.960 and I had seven rooms. It was deafo haunted. One 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:55.440 of them had this doll in it and we were 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:58.320 all playing with a doll. When sat like all sat 0:01:58.360 --> 0:01:59.880 on my bed to take a photo. I had this 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:02.440 had on that I found in the house holding the 0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:06.360 flexus to shaking head. I was holding the doll and 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:08.280 we all got a photo and then as the camera 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:10.240 went off, the doll's head fell off. Yeah so yeah, 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:14.120 Katoomba is a genuinely scary place. Anyway, we go for 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:16.519 a walk. Next day, we decide to go to the 0:02:16.600 --> 0:02:18.120 Yellow Deli Cafe. 0:02:17.720 --> 0:02:22.360 The infamous Yellow Deli Cafe. Not just any cafe, mind you. 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:26.000 It rates amazingly on Google. I'm talking like a four 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:29.160 point eight stars, more than two thousand reviews. 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:31.720 But it's not just a cafe, it is a it 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:34.760 is a cult. So you might have heard of this cafe. Essentially, 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:36.959 when you go to Katumba, the main strip, there is 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:39.240 a cafe in the corner that there will perpetually be 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:44.079 a b linee out the front. It is like all 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:46.200 made of wood. It's like a tree wonderland in there. 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:47.960 It's pretty amazing, it's fantastic. 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:51.960 It's it's definitely the level of detail that any restaurant 0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:54.079 should go to, and they won't. It feels like you're 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:57.520 in a Hobbit cafe. The tables are made out of 0:02:57.560 --> 0:03:02.160 these definitely carved tree stumps, and like the cutlery and 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:05.920 the utensils are all beautiful, and all the staff have 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:11.120 a quintessentially cult like aesthetic yes, do that information what 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:11.520 you will. 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:15.840 The Yellow Deli has been in Katomba for ages and 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:18.720 not many people know this, like the girls I was with, 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:20.520 I swear I told them before I went, but for 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:22.560 some reason they didn't listen to me. Seems to be 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:25.480 a recurring theme and they later googled it and it 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:28.560 turns out it's run by the Twelve Tribes Communities, which 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:31.320 are also known as the Vine Christian Community Church, a 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:37.200 Northeast Kingdom community church, and it was founded by Jeans Spriggs. 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:40.480 That sprang out of the Jesus Movement of nineteen seventy 0:03:40.480 --> 0:03:45.320 two in Chattanooga, Tennessee. So Twelve Tribes started in Tennessee 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:48.320 and it has found its way to Katoomba. I don't 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:51.680 want to make any crazy claims, given I could be 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:53.040 liable for defamation. 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:54.760 You could google them though. There are a lot of 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:56.680 stories on the internet. But I think it's interesting, just 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:59.560 like the like social norms they have, like they don't 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:02.880 eat sugar or chocolate or coffee or tease. They finish 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:04.960 their showers with a cold rinse for one to two 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:09.320 minutes to boost the mind. They're all about confessing sins. 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:12.200 The men keep beds things like that. That's the light stuff. 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:14.480 If you want to dig deeper, I would recommend you 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:17.560 do some research, but it will sour your experience dining 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:19.560 in the cafe, which I have done myself as well. 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:22.200 Eat I don't recall, but the powet is not for me. 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:26.039 It's quite like hearty and sturdy and rusty. It's not 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:28.160 my vibe. Like you know, you want to get a 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:30.279 like a fruit salad and there's like cheese seas on 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:33.400 it or something. But what I will say is that 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:36.680 I already have this problem that my friends have observed 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.279 where I don't really pay attention to anything that's not 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:40.840 right in front of me. So if we go out 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:42.480 to eat, I'm gonna be looking at you through me 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:44.880 or my phone. I'm not really taken in the site. 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:48.120 But when I went with three friends, they were like, 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:51.240 these people were stop staring at you. And I was like, 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:53.520 I don't feel like like they're staring at you. So 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:55.920 I said, well, you want going to do? 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:58.520 They're like what they see? Yeah, because they think I 0:04:58.520 --> 0:04:59.200 could convert her? 0:04:59.320 --> 0:05:01.240 Yeah, because they are, you know, I'm down. I'm already 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:04.440 half converted at all times. I get what the belief system. 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:07.320 Is all this I find quite interesting, not because I 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:09.200 want to go against it, but because I think we 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:11.280 could learn a thing or two about the Yellow. 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:12.480 Deli way of life, about belonging. 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:15.120 I think we need to create our own cult Flexi mummy. 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:17.960 I'm surprised I haven't already, but I think that's what's 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:20.720 stopping me is that it takes a lot of sheet 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:23.760 effort in dedication. And I also think you really you 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:26.760 need to clear common goal and I don't have that yet. 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:28.520 I think we're gonna make who cult Flexi. I've got 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:29.360 it in my third eye. 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:33.760 You probably called it as soon as it launched. Threads, 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:37.400 the new social media app Twitter, rip off from Mark Zuckerberg, 0:05:37.880 --> 0:05:42.720 is flopping. It's flopping hard. I personally haven't used it 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:50.120 since the twenty third of July, and that's for a reasons, 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:52.800 because you pioneered that. I pioneered that, and I like 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:54.800 to be ahead of the curb. But the issue is 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:57.560 for something to maintain. It's a lure. People have to 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:01.240 use it, and fundamentally that app it was released to 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:05.200 the world half finished. I honestly think Zuckerberg just liked 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:07.200 the astrology of launching on that day because it was 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:10.279 good astrology for Threads the day at launch. I don't know, 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:13.720 but basically, do you know that quote? It's like millionaires 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:15.479 don't believe in astrology? What billionaires do? 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:17.839 Oh no, I like that? 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:20.360 Yeah, so I reckon he liked the astrology of the day. 0:06:20.800 --> 0:06:22.640 He said, Mercury is exactly where it needs to be 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:26.599 for this let's launch. Now, what I will say is 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:31.560 Zuckerberg himself implied the flop. He said, user engagement has 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:35.080 fallen seventy percent after launch, and time spent on the 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:37.479 app has dropped from nineteen minutes to four minutes. And 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:40.599 I want to know why. I think the fundamental issue 0:06:40.680 --> 0:06:44.440 is sign up stats were inflated because of how frictionless 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:46.720 it was to sign up to Threads. A click of 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:49.200 the button, it migrates all your Instagram data to this 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:52.160 new platform. But it didn't consider that Instagram is an 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:55.480 image based app. These people aren't words funny. It's too 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:58.680 much pressure for the average Instagram user to find a 0:06:58.680 --> 0:07:01.960 way to be profound using words, and we're too far 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:05.680 from the day and age of making statuses. We go 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:09.160 into this app and we think we've got to be profound, funny, sharp, witty. 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:11.560 Everything needs to hit and no one was there being 0:07:11.600 --> 0:07:13.800 like I just ate a sandwich, Yeah, bring it back, 0:07:14.360 --> 0:07:16.720 And so that was never going to work for a 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:19.680 social app. A social media app, it was lacking so 0:07:19.760 --> 0:07:23.000 many features. There's no explore page, you couldn't search by 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:26.240 topic or search by keyword. You couldn't adjust your algorithm 0:07:26.320 --> 0:07:29.280 to see anything but what Threads wanted you to see, 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:32.400 which was sorry, your friends. And then it would integrate 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:34.960 random accounts that it thinks that you would like based 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:38.239 on your Instagram usage, which we all know that's different, 0:07:38.320 --> 0:07:42.280 like what I like differs per platform. Also, one of 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:44.640 the biggest barriers I reckon for Threads is that there 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:47.760 wasn't a desktop app. You couldn't integrate it with anything 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:49.800 on a desktop. We couldn't embed it in an article. 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:52.480 So there were heaps of moments to reference threads that 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:54.720 have been made, but you could only just share it 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:59.559 to Instagra. It's like its own little ecosystem. So based 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:02.200 on there, based on Zuckerbird coming out and acknowledging that 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:05.680 it's been a floppiana, they have gone ahead and said, well, 0:08:05.680 --> 0:08:07.760 there are some new updates coming soon. So if you 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.120 are using Threads at the moment and you think your 0:08:10.320 --> 0:08:12.960 moment's a way of abandoning it for good. Please stay 0:08:13.000 --> 0:08:16.040 tuned because Zuckerbird has said there's gonna be two ways 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:19.360 to customize your feed, did not disclose in which ways. 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:22.040 There's gonna be some translations. If you're bilingual, you might 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:25.600 use that. There's gonna be some new ways to filter notifications, 0:08:25.880 --> 0:08:28.440 a new follow button just esthetically, and a way to 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:31.520 approve or follow requests. So it's not looking great for 0:08:31.640 --> 0:08:35.600 Threads and they've got literally six weeks to really get 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:39.760 it together. Don't launch something that's not gonna be a 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:42.760 super computer of every app we already have. 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:44.000 Thanks, I'm sick of it. 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:49.120 You're listening to Flex and Rooms on Kata. 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:51.800 The girlies know that when you come to listen to 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:53.960 the Flex and from show. No matter who you are, 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:55.840 no matter where you live, no matter what your vocation 0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:59.640 or your sexual preference. Oh, dating is a fantastic topic 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:02.000 that we can all learn a bit about. I was 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:04.800 on online on the internet and I came across an 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:07.800 article by Refinery twenty nine. 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:08.480 Is it, Mickey? 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:11.000 I don't know that because it was actually you that 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:13.280 found an article, Frank, because you're tireless. 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:15.360 Ware who work never no warries. And this is an 0:09:15.440 --> 0:09:16.280 article called. 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:18.800 One hundred and five Questions to ask your crush when 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:21.440 you don't know what to say. Naturally, my interest was 0:09:21.480 --> 0:09:24.760 peaked immediately by such a story, and I thought we 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:26.800 must dig deeper. The girl is must dig deep. 0:09:26.880 --> 0:09:29.120 I'm already stuck on when you don't know what to say? 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:31.040 What's the issue? I feel like if you don't know 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:33.680 what to say, that's your answer, right. 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:36.320 Well no, because it's like, especially on the first set, 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:39.240 you don't want too many awkward pauses. You need something arsenal, 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:41.520 even if you don't use it you somedays you need 0:09:41.559 --> 0:09:44.800 to feel secure. Essentially, this person says having a crush 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:47.000 on someone can simultaneously be the best and worst feeling 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:49.240 in the world. I feel you, sis. While that jittery 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:51.280 butterflies in your stomach warmth can make you feel giddy 0:09:51.320 --> 0:09:53.520 and happy, it can also be the most nerve wracking 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:56.079 thing ever. They go on to share, and this is 0:09:56.080 --> 0:09:58.800 all printed out by Mickey The treads are weeping. One 0:09:58.840 --> 0:10:02.240 hundred and fivequestions to ask your crush. I want to 0:10:02.320 --> 0:10:04.800 start and debunk every single one of them because I 0:10:04.800 --> 0:10:06.000 think they are horrible. 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:08.480 And to clarify back on my point. We all know 0:10:08.559 --> 0:10:11.200 I make conversation card games. I like questions to get 0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:14.360 to know people deeper. If you're struggling to do the surface, 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:18.120 I'm concerned, but I'm not judging you. Please, okay. 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:20.800 Number one, what is your star sign? Or don't you? 0:10:21.200 --> 0:10:22.320 Don't you dare to worry about it? 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:26.200 The amount of people like I read this thing that 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:28.959 if you're heterosexual dating and a man knows your star 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.920 sign ran through, I kind of like him ran through. Yeah, 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:36.360 I know, No, that's not a bad thing, you know 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:38.520 what I mean? Mickey? I feel like to any of 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:40.800 us have put out what's your star sign? And now 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:42.320 they've all got the birth chance. 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:45.679 Yeah, that's totally problem. 0:10:45.720 --> 0:10:47.800 Maybe this is a manipulation technique. Do you are you 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:49.920 actually about that life? Or you're just saying what you 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:50.480 think I want to hear. 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:53.440 I mean most people aren't really about that life really. 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:55.600 What is your favorite book of all time? I cannot 0:10:55.600 --> 0:10:58.679 be ballied unless we've both read it. It's boring. Number three, 0:10:58.679 --> 0:11:00.760 what kind of music are you into it? What's your 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:02.120 favorite album? Are you serious? 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:06.800 I couldn't even name one and I'm a DJ. Red 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:09.400 Flag say less. Number five, where'd you grow up. 0:11:09.440 --> 0:11:12.560 I'll all allow that sixty have any siblings, I'll allow it, 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:15.400 but that has to be Like if it's a date 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:17.120 that's two hours and you got to the end of 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:18.720 tether and you actually want to know, it has to 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:21.520 be necessary because again, why do you care? 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:23.680 It doesn't matter right now. 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:25.680 So no to siblings. 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:28.160 Yeah, it doesn't matter. Like when you know, when people 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:31.319 like don't talk about religion and politics on the first day. 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:35.400 I feel like your first day is to master conversational rapport. 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:38.079 It's not what you're talking about, it's how you're speaking. 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:41.920 Are we bouncing, are we joking? Are we vibing? If not, 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:44.520 I don't need to know about your siblings. It doesn't 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:48.520 matter if you have a parent, want one who cares? 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:52.040 What's you favorite subject of school? Honestly, like, graduated ten 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:52.560 years ago? 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:55.760 Ten plus ten blush? 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:57.240 Would you ever get to tell you? I mean, these 0:11:57.240 --> 0:11:59.680 are absolutely horrendous. If you want to go ring to article. 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:02.040 And crossing as she grows and it's not looking good, 0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:02.719 he a w. 0:12:02.720 --> 0:12:06.520 A capers in far scary anyway, I've gone through some 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:08.840 of the questions already, but it's time that we turn 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:10.160 the focus inwards. 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:12.520 Yeah, we're doing a thought experiment for me. Now on 0:12:12.559 --> 0:12:14.280 a date. She's claimed to have liked a few of 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:16.319 these questions, and so I will do her the honor 0:12:16.320 --> 0:12:18.920 of posing them to her, and with all the enthusiasm 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:21.520 she claims to have, she will answer them, Well, sure, 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:23.920 do you have a dating type? 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:24.760 Oh? 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:27.760 This is so rough. I just can't. I have walked 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:28.360 straight into that. 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:31.839 If I can find one common denominator between all the 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:34.959 people that I've gone on, like, i've dated. 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:36.440 Yeah, come on. 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:40.200 They're all like friendly. 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:43.640 Oh they're not even Oh my god. One more, give 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:46.080 us one way? Okay, what's a dating type? One more? 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:52.720 What do you listen to anything? I tell you. The 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:55.360 one thing I taught the girl is when you're on 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:59.920 the date and you've imposed questions, it's not that telling 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:03.640 the truth paint the picture. What's my dating type? I 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:06.240 have the best experience of people who treat me well, 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:09.000 people who are open to new experiences, people who love 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:12.160 to joke and have fun. That's my dating type. For 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:16.360 feeling sassy, you say not when I see it? Yes, okay, okay, 0:13:16.480 --> 0:13:18.600 Next question, what's your ideal first date? 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:23.280 My ideal first date is someone who organizes it. 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:30.800 Trauma, trauma, because what you're saying is that you don't 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:33.079 go on dates. Say shut up, shut up, Come on. 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:34.800 That one is a target of attack. 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:39.600 You know who you are. Okay, my favorite first date. 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:41.559 I want to go on an adventure with you. I 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:45.240 want to go out for dinner and then we go 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:47.760 and do something crazy like once I went on a 0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:50.520 date and oh, I actually can't say because it's illegal, 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:54.040 but nice, you know, ran into these restaurants that were 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:57.280 closed and like jumped on the tables and then walked 0:13:57.280 --> 0:13:59.080 through Hyde Park and we saw a squirrel and we 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:00.800 held hands and we kiss beautiful. 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:03.920 Oh, lots of crazy stuff happened, I will say. Look, 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:07.000 the article is titled one hundred and five questions to 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:08.480 ask you a crush when you don't know what to say, 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:10.679 And here's my thing. I don't even know what to say, 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:12.320 and I don't have a crush on. I imagine that 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:15.440 a lot of people would resonate with an article like 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:18.280 this because they've hyped up what's happening in the early 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:21.920 stages of a day. It honestly is a vibe assessment. 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:24.080 I speak to three me often, and I say that 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:26.720 some of our relationship isn't asking questions back and forth. 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:30.760 It's providing information and someone responding, providing information and responding. 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:33.600 What makes the friendship is how we keep responding to 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:36.600 each other. We have a similar humor, We like each 0:14:36.600 --> 0:14:39.640 other's ideas and thoughts. That's the environment you're creating in 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:43.000 a day. You're not trying to mind information to create 0:14:43.040 --> 0:14:46.000 a picture of a person. You're trying to assess a vibe. 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:49.720 If you're having difficulties assessing the vibe, I might say 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:52.600 there is no vibe, and therefore, go and seek out 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:54.240 someone you have a better vibe with you, go and 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:58.800 seek therapy. It shouldn't be so prescriptive. You really are 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:04.320 looking for something into tangible, but something that ultimately feels good, 0:15:04.800 --> 0:15:05.360 simple as that. 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:07.520 Any other questions you'd like to ask me flax before. 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:08.960 You go, Yes, I have a few. I'd like to 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:11.320 ask you. This is a good one. How did you 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:13.080 meet your best friend and what do you love about them? 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:16.800 My best friend's name is Madison. We met on MySpace. 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:19.920 See this is great tell me more two. 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:22.120 Thousand and eight. We went to the same school, with 0:15:22.120 --> 0:15:24.760 different campuses. She was from the country campus. She was 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:27.760 a horse girl. She had the cause my space of 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:32.320 anyone in our school all HGTML whatever did helping and 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:35.800 then we just got talking. Our friendship really was cemented 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:39.160 obviously in high school. To this day, we talk every day. 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:40.320 What do you like about her? 0:15:40.520 --> 0:15:43.240 She's the most one of the most sensitive people I know. 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:48.000 Her comprehension skills, very specific comprehension is unheard of. 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:51.280 She is completely never. 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:54.160 Makes me feel stupid for being anxious. It's like a 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.600 safety blanket, but also one of the smartest feel of 0:15:56.600 --> 0:16:01.120 ever met. An incredible writer and a very very honestly 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:02.680 like intellectually gifted. 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:04.760 What do you reckon? She likes about you? It is 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:05.320 like love. 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:07.920 We have something that is akin to love. 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:11.280 You'd hope. So after being friends for literally templus, I 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:12.680 think I think it's love. 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:15.760 You know me, I never trust myself. What does she 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:18.360 like about me? She likes that I'm creative and that 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:24.000 I'm sensitive, and that we like the shared understanding and 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:26.760 the shared language that no one else can have except 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:27.360 fast too. 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:30.120 One more question, One more question. What's a compliment that 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:31.360 you've been given that stuck with you. 0:16:34.880 --> 0:16:37.440 I went on a show recently. I won't name who 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:41.200 it was, but a very I trusted Australian. Yeah, in 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:46.760 the entertainment industry said to me, Jee, this is good stuff. Honestly, 0:16:46.800 --> 0:16:48.520 one of the nicest things. I did repeat this to 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:50.760 a date recently. I thought, this is the kind of 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:54.400 stuff you need to be said to me. They said, 0:16:54.880 --> 0:16:58.120 you have an excellent energy and a clever but unpredictable mindea, 0:16:58.360 --> 0:17:02.720 a rare combination, and a stuck and it's true. I said, 0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:03.600 damn you stawmicking. 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:06.040 It's nice to be seen. I was sweating. 0:17:06.119 --> 0:17:09.399 I was so excited. I feel like in a dating scenario, 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:12.760 I want someone actually wrote a manifest list. I want 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:16.240 someone who thinks that I'm very unique. Yeah, because that's 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:18.080 but I need to keep doing the thing where I 0:17:18.080 --> 0:17:22.840 think about what I want from someone, because I don't 0:17:22.880 --> 0:17:27.280 know if I want the same thing for them. Do 0:17:27.359 --> 0:17:27.879 you know what I mean? 0:17:27.880 --> 0:17:29.399 Beautiful, I want to be a store. 0:17:29.800 --> 0:17:32.800 I want to be a store mummy. Anyway, print the 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:34.480 list one hundred and five questions to ask your question 0:17:34.560 --> 0:17:36.120 you don't know what to say, and ask your friend. 0:17:36.119 --> 0:17:40.919 It's so nice answering questions. Flex thanks Yeah, time that 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:44.640 I asked the question. Has furiism gone too far here 0:17:44.840 --> 0:17:47.280 in the human community? 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:48.520 Not gone far enough? 0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:51.040 I've seen a news story on news dot com dot 0:17:51.040 --> 0:17:55.120 au man spends twenty two thousand dollars to become a 0:17:55.240 --> 0:18:01.280 real life Border Collie dog. Instantly, my mind is back 0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:04.480 to one of the greatest news stories of July August 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:07.760 twenty twenty three. There is a zoo in China, Okay. 0:18:08.000 --> 0:18:10.400 And inside the zoo in China, there is a bear enclosure. 0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:13.639 Skinny bears all across. 0:18:13.160 --> 0:18:16.840 The globe, all across the Internet. I see human in disguise, 0:18:17.280 --> 0:18:19.920 zoo forced to deny bear is a person in a costume. 0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:22.320 What I then see is a bear walking on its 0:18:22.359 --> 0:18:25.439 hind legs, has the saggiest ass I've ever seen on 0:18:25.440 --> 0:18:29.360 a four legged friend, and the bear. The bear went 0:18:29.359 --> 0:18:31.680 on the zoo social media and said, some people think 0:18:31.720 --> 0:18:34.080 I stand like a person. It seems you don't understand 0:18:34.080 --> 0:18:35.760 me very well. Tell me why when they're trying to 0:18:35.800 --> 0:18:37.960 convince everybody that the bear is a bear and not 0:18:38.000 --> 0:18:41.119 a human, do they decide to go first person on 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:45.400 the social From bears perspective, It's strange because in this instance, 0:18:45.440 --> 0:18:47.919 I don't know if we're familiar with the make and 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:50.199 build of an average bear, but it's juicy. 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:54.040 A bear is voluptuous, right, this one is skinny and 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:56.359 has no bend in the leg, and also the legs 0:18:56.359 --> 0:18:59.080 are long. Bears have short legs. No, I think it's 0:18:59.160 --> 0:18:59.919 legs for short. 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:01.919 You're giving it body dysmorphia. 0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:05.080