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Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda in the morning.

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Speaker 2: So parents can't go to graduations where hearing all this

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Speaker 2: stuff makes me sad, and there'll be no formals. Did

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Speaker 2: you have a formal?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: No, were you left in your ten ten? But at

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Speaker 2: your school boys' school? Was there a sister school that

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Speaker 2: you have dancers with.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for those guys that went on to year eleven

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Speaker 3: to twelve, and I imagine so there wasn't one of you.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't my bag. I just wasn't into that stuff.

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Speaker 3: When I hear about people saying I look forward to

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Speaker 3: the form more they look forward to the kids going

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Speaker 3: to the farm, I'm a little bit indifferent to it.

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Speaker 2: Oh you what about's got a son in year twelve?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, well he's indifferent to it. I don't think

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Speaker 3: he really cares. I said he's going to I'm very

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Speaker 3: mindful he's going to be upset. You're going to dip

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Speaker 3: out on your formal and there's.

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Speaker 1: No schoolies and stuff like. Yeah, that's that's.

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Speaker 2: For a lot of kids. That's the finish line. And

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Speaker 2: whether you've whatever your journey is at school, you've seen

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Speaker 2: other kids get to that and that's their release, that's

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Speaker 2: their day. And then you not going to to get

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Speaker 2: that day?

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Speaker 1: What did you do with your formal?

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Speaker 2: We had a I think we had it at Pennan

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Speaker 2: Hill's golf Club. I think it was at the bowling

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Speaker 2: club Golf Club, bowling club, and we just had our

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Speaker 2: school reunion, our fortieth year reunion there last year.

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Speaker 1: Is that when you showed up in a big hum vy.

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Speaker 2: Chop it in Brendan with it was just so good

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Speaker 2: to catch up with everyone again after all those years.

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Speaker 2: But you know you I remember at the formal too.

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Speaker 2: God just went with a friend of mine from school, Scott,

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Speaker 2: just one of my friends. But I wore a dress

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Speaker 2: that mum had made from a butterick pattern. I'd seen

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Speaker 2: a picture of Princess Caroline of Monaco in this dress.

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Speaker 2: And you know, when I look at how much people

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Speaker 2: spend on their daughters for formals now, it's amazing. Mum

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Speaker 2: made my dress, and most of us at school had

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Speaker 2: our clothes made by our moms. I reckon. So of

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Speaker 2: course a homemade version from a normal from a normal

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Speaker 2: mum is not going to look like you want to look.

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Speaker 1: Mum's not going to make a dress with side boob

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Speaker 1: in mind.

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Speaker 2: No, my dress even the one I wanted was very chaste.

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Speaker 2: But a Butterick pattern isn't going to do it.

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Speaker 1: Just there's no side boob.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: But I did need a strapless bra and I had

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Speaker 2: to borrow one from mum. And you know it was

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Speaker 2: embarrassing because then Scott put his hand anywhere near me

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Speaker 2: it got a giant dent in it.

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Speaker 1: There was a bit of well, just we had a pash,

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Speaker 1: I think, yeah, but not upstairs inside her.

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Speaker 2: Of course not No. And I drank orange juice all night,

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Speaker 2: did you dag?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: The culture of my it was very different. How how

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Speaker 2: old were you in seventeen? Yeah? I learned the truth

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Speaker 2: of that.

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Speaker 1: He too.

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Speaker 2: The Butterick patterns can be very mean.

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Speaker 3: I you know, because I missed out on that. But

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Speaker 3: as I said, when I was at school, I didn't

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Speaker 3: look forward to those those markets because my.

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Speaker 1: School life was terrible. I hated it.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, I didn't know what to make

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Speaker 2: from the school formal. But at Lehman Jack's School, which

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Speaker 2: is a boys' school, but the parents go to the

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Speaker 2: to the final form, to the dance, and I thought

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Speaker 2: this will be weird, but it was the most brilliant

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Speaker 2: night I ever. Remember I went. It was the night

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Speaker 2: of our office Christmas party. I couldn't go to that

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Speaker 2: because I was there and it was the best night ever.

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Speaker 2: So the boys they asked their mums for the first dance.

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Speaker 2: Leam and I danced to Fleetwood Mac.

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Speaker 1: It was just so much free.

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Speaker 2: I think it might have been was it tell me lies?

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't that be interesting? I can't remember, but it was

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Speaker 2: one of my One of my favorite moments was Leam

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Speaker 2: and I I'm going to cry and he gave me

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Speaker 2: a hart He said thanks, mom. Oh was beautiful. So

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Speaker 2: I danced with him and then all the parents are

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Speaker 2: told to rack off. After a couple of hours, the

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Speaker 2: music changes and Cardi B sings.

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Speaker 1: You said, excuse me around they're playing my song.

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Speaker 2: Moms made me a dress for this.

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Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda morning

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Speaker 3: As hom