1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to fearlessly Failing hot Seat. In this EPP, I 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 1: fire rapid questions at one of our fearlessly failing guests. PS. 3 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:12,319 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm not so good 4 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: at the rapid part. I get too intrigued by the 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: awesome answers. Now a new EPP is going to drop 6 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: every Wednesday, so enjoy this shortest style episode of fearlessly 7 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: Failing Hot Seat. Welcome to the hot Seat. I always 8 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:32,480 Speaker 1: get my hot seat guest to introduce themselves. 9 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 2: What is your name? 10 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 3: My name is Nllie Thomas. My name is Nanie Thomas. 11 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 3: I am a comedian, author and witch. 12 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 2: Oh I love that. I love that. Not really, I 13 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 2: just trying to find something fun. 14 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: I was about to say, how have we not talked 15 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: about like crystals or something g yet? What's your coffee order? 16 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: Skinny latte? Nice cow milk in Melbourne. That's difficult that. 17 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 3: I don't like giving you skinny milk because there's very 18 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 3: old school attitudes about don't even start on oat milk, 19 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, not acceptible, but skinny milk, 20 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 3: mainly because shall we say, digestive issues? 21 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, got you, I got you, don't worry sweet or savory. 22 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 2: Both? Oh really. 23 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 3: In each Look, I'm not a verse on a birthday 24 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 3: to going to a fancy restaurant and ordering three courses 25 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 3: of dessert as a as a treat. But if I 26 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 3: were to go, like favorite meal, it would be cheese 27 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 3: platter and I like that first, not last, sorry to 28 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 3: the French, like a cheese board. 29 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then. 30 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 3: Be something I mean, if we're talking like last meal 31 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 3: I ever had, it would be really like old school 32 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 3: white Australian bogan roast. 33 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 2: Body like lamb roast scenario. 34 00:01:56,280 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, dessert definitely big crembrowl. 35 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: A good choices, great choices, rich rich Yeah nice. 36 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 3: What about your favorite city? My favorite city genuinely is Melbourne. 37 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 3: But if I have to pick one that I don't 38 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 3: live in, my favorite city would be Rome. I've never 39 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 3: been in a place, you know, you just I remember 40 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 3: just walking down the street and there was the coliseum. 41 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 3: I'm like, it's not even behind a fence. It's just 42 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 3: like there, like I'm in the food and the flowers 43 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 3: and all the things, but just the it blew my mind. 44 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 2: I've never been. 45 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 1: But you're selling it, Oh, selling it? 46 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 2: Love it? 47 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: What about is there anywhere that you like nature vibes, 48 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: or like a holiday spot that you like. 49 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 2: Holiday spot. I mean, I love anywhere hot. 50 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 3: I love intense hate, like I love tropical hate, like 51 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 3: I love Singapore, I love Indonesia, I love Fiji, like anywhere. 52 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 2: I am a heat seeking missile. 53 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 3: So I think it is actually because I have historically 54 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 3: lived so much in my head. 55 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 2: It makes me come into my body. Yeah. 56 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 3: Like, if you're that hot, you know, if you're in 57 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 3: ubud or somewhere like that, you're so fucking hot you 58 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 3: can't think of anything. 59 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, totally true, totally. 60 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 2: The brain's emptied. Just give me water. 61 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I love it. I'm a heat secret 62 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: as well, especially for holidays. I want to be able 63 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: to just relax. I totally hear. This is a bit 64 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: of a it'll sound cliche, but is there something You've 65 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: given me so many gems today, but is there something 66 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: that you like a motto or something you live by. 67 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 1: I love the Margaret Mead one you just shared, but 68 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: is there something where you're just like, yeah, this is 69 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:45,839 Speaker 1: the way I live. 70 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely it is. 71 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 3: And I'm so upset that I can't remember who said 72 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 3: this to me. But it's been with me for more 73 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 3: than ten years, maybe even fifteen years. Someone said to me, 74 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:03,119 Speaker 3: never seek respect from those you don't yourself respect. 75 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a grady, right. 76 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: So if you sit back and you go, we're heading 77 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 3: into Christmas, for example, you have to go to Christmas 78 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 3: lunch with bloody Auntie so and so, who's. 79 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 2: Like, lolah, why haven't you got kids? And now you're 80 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 2: getting married and yeah, da da da. 81 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 3: Before you take that shit on, you sit back and 82 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 3: you go, do I respect this person and how they 83 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 3: live if. 84 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 2: They don't irrelevant? Yes, yeah. 85 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 3: Whereas I sat for years in the kind of please people, 86 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 3: please people, please people, and then I'd. 87 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 2: Sit back and I go to people I'm trying to. 88 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: Please, I don't even like yeah, and you feel all 89 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,239 Speaker 1: empty and yucky after hey, like, oh it feels wrong. 90 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,239 Speaker 1: You can feel like, oh this all feels totally off. 91 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 3: It's same if you go for an audition and they 92 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 3: treat you like shit, for example, and you don't get it. 93 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 3: You go, okay, well I don't respect you either, Yeah, 94 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 3: you know, like hand that back, rather than I'd love 95 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 3: to say to young women. I try and say to 96 00:04:56,200 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 3: my daughters, do not internalize that, like I didn't show 97 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:01,479 Speaker 3: up well enough. 98 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 2: Don't know they couldn't see your greatness? 99 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 3: Yeah? 100 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: Have you? 101 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 2: Fuck? 102 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? Oh? 103 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 2: I love that. 104 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 1: I need you in my pocket every time I do 105 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 1: an audition. 106 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 2: You ring me anytime, girl, anytime. 107 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: Nellie, You're wonderful to the listener. Please go ahead and 108 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 1: listen to Nellie's awesome pod. Dear Nelly, you're also one 109 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 1: of the co hosts on broad Radio and I love 110 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: listening to you on both, and you've got a plethora 111 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: of books out as well, so thank you for jumping 112 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: on the pod. You are an awesome human, my friend.