WEBVTT - Listener Maddy Was Almost Sold For A Camel 🐫 0:00:00.440 --> 0:00:04.320 Flexen fromes I'm cater cater Flex and Froomes Big Icon 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:05.960 Energy Podcast. 0:00:05.559 --> 0:00:09.880 Recorded live at Studios three oh one in Sydney. Hello, munchkins, 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:11.240 it's podcast time. 0:00:11.560 --> 0:00:12.319 We are here. 0:00:12.520 --> 0:00:15.960 Oh my god, what is that lion? Has anyone noticed that? 0:00:16.239 --> 0:00:19.000 Has that been there a whole time? Staring at you 0:00:19.120 --> 0:00:19.800 our winners? 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:21.400 Oh my god, I'm so sorry. 0:00:21.400 --> 0:00:23.159 That's the scariest thing I've ever seen is the one 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:23.759 overhears all? 0:00:23.920 --> 0:00:26.160 Nah, just the one. Where'd you get that from? Guys? 0:00:26.520 --> 0:00:28.920 It was literally in the beautiful deck. They showed us 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:29.840 what the stage would look like. 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:32.839 I'm not preparing. 0:00:34.120 --> 0:00:36.880 Today we are talking to our very special winner, Maddie, 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:41.400 who came to our live show recording here for Bonds 0:00:41.440 --> 0:00:44.239 Powered by Bonds Big Icon Energy. She's gonna tell us 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:47.720 a story about how she was almost sold for an animal, 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:49.000 a desert based animal. 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:50.600 Desert based. It's a camel. 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:54.000 Hey, did you ever do that that quiz in high school? 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:57.840 Figure out how many camels you were? No? How did they? 0:00:58.840 --> 0:00:58.960 No? 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:02.280 It's like a I'm so confused because every time I 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:04.440 talk about my high school experience, it was like that didn't. 0:01:04.200 --> 0:01:06.920 Happen because you're an alien. Yeah. 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:10.840 So there's this website you go on and it measures 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:14.840 just basically your attraction, but the measurement is how many 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:15.760 camels you're worth. 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:17.360 And they'll ask you a bunch of things like what's. 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:20.600 Your hair color, what's your weight, what's your height, like 0:01:20.680 --> 0:01:22.160 how many people if you kissed or whatever, and then 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:23.840 I'll be like, oh, thirty five camel. 0:01:23.640 --> 0:01:28.080 Who's very competitive. That's really awful. I think it's quite flattering. Actually, well, 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:28.680 you're worth. 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:31.080 One camel, Maddie, do without what you will? 0:01:32.640 --> 0:01:37.000 Here we go at this rate. 0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:39.959 I'm so sure that if I ever met Mark Zuckerberg, 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:42.200 you'd be like, what is your problem? Because every week 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:44.480 you're saying something about me, and to be fair, saying 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:47.240 something about your creation, not you personally. But here's think 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:49.960 got some inside goss. And by that I mean I 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:53.320 just like saw a news article that said that Instagram's 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:56.440 going to introduce adding music to your profile, and now 0:01:56.560 --> 0:01:58.200 all the things that I think are on the list 0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:02.240 of importance that is so low. But this news got 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:04.920 leaked like it wasn't an official announcement. So I'm kind 0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:08.720 of like, what is happening in big social that something 0:02:08.880 --> 0:02:12.600 so incidental and insignificant is causing such a buzz. I 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:15.600 don't know, but I feel like the girlies are getting 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:17.959 off social media in t minus ten years. It's just 0:02:18.000 --> 0:02:18.880 not hitting the same. 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:20.600 Real nothing is hitting the same. 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:24.079 But I also feel like this is just aging because 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:26.800 when the last time you did something for the first time, 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:30.880 adolescence and young adulthood is like always so feral because 0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:31.480 everything is. 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:32.720 New, new and new and new. 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:36.200 Bibo was new, my Space was new, TikTok was new, 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:38.160 and everything just gets stale. 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:46.240 Yeah too quickly? Who he had MySpace? Okay, not that many? 0:02:46.440 --> 0:02:47.800 That doesn't well enough. 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:51.360 Well, we're twenty four, so we were too young to 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:52.160 have MySpace. 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:56.679 What would your song be? I don't see. 0:02:56.680 --> 0:03:01.080 That's the other thing, because I don't know, and I 0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:03.440 don't like feeling the pressure. I can't take the pressure. 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:05.760 That's what we need less of. Do you know what 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:08.519 social media needs less of? It's the curation. We don't 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:10.120 need more stuff to do on profiles. 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:13.080 I need more ways to snoop on strangers. 0:03:13.280 --> 0:03:15.760 At one point in time, you could easily be like 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:18.960 on someone's on a stranger's Instagram, not even know how 0:03:19.000 --> 0:03:19.519 you got there. 0:03:19.760 --> 0:03:22.079 You to do that these days' probably been on someone's 0:03:22.120 --> 0:03:22.799 Instagram here. 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:26.440 To be honest, you just go You're blipping around. Someone 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:28.120 follow watches the story, you go book. 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:28.720 What are they like? 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:31.000 Yeah? See, you can't have that anymore. I want that. 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:32.280 I want to be a voyeur. 0:03:33.240 --> 0:03:36.000 I don't want to make my profile more exciting for 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.000 me to not know who's experiencing it. I want to 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:40.880 be in Yeah, do you know what I need? I 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:45.560 was co managing a friend's grinder. How do I explain this? 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:51.440 Like like we were sitting at the bar and I 0:03:51.480 --> 0:03:53.080 was like, Oh, you're on your grinder, let me see 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:54.600 what's going on, so I can, you know, ad a 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:58.320 few tips or whatever. It's the best app Ever, something 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:02.400 about location based interaction is so hot and sexy, Like 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:04.960 I can just see who's in here. That's what I 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:06.600 want social media to be. I wonder what the guy 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:09.120 at the fish and Chip shop is doing? Show me 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:09.880 his profile? 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:18.840 Wow, Okay, well there's anyway. I feel like I come 0:04:18.880 --> 0:04:21.440 across the random ast tiktoks and it's like as close 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:23.400 as I'm going to get to it to come across 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:24.440 the dude from the fish. 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:24.760 And Chip shop. 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:28.239 However, Flex and I've both used an app called Raya 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:29.040 Dating app. 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:33.960 Anyone here on Raya or anyone heard of Raya Humble flex. Oh, 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:35.280 it's not a Humble, it's a flex. 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:39.000 It's a flex anyway, this dating site, you put photos up, 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:41.120 but you also have to choose a song, so people 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:44.680 click onto your profile and it's like a carousel with music. 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:46.760 That's the closest we've got to it, and I honestly 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:51.440 think that works quite well. Incorporating audio visual elements. 0:04:51.680 --> 0:04:53.360 It's not enough. It's not enough. 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:54.760 I think I just want to be in the void 0:04:54.960 --> 0:05:00.560 like VR five D, you know, big icon energy. Now 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:03.320 we have a very special story from someone we spoke 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:04.760 to you last week. If you tuned in, you know 0:05:04.839 --> 0:05:07.760 it's Maddie. She won tickets to companies and shout out 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:09.320 to Maddie. It's on us, the winners and us or not. 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:10.800 She got a competition. 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:15.320 She flew here from Melbourne, her first ever time in 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:18.599 the city of Sydney. That is a massive Have you 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:19.760 noticed it's really humid here? 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:24.520 Huh oh yeah, it is why it's because it's so 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:25.920 different to Melbourne. I'm from Melbourne. 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:27.520 Originally, I'll always talk about Melbourne. 0:05:27.520 --> 0:05:30.120 I thought that was a bit no, no, no. The 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:32.360 first time you come to Sydney. Like what I thought. 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:33.080 Sydney is a city. 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:36.279 It's like super tropical compared to Melbourne and Hobart. 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:38.400 You said it's humid. Humid. 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:41.159 Oh the humid it in the air is like completely different, 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:41.960 particularly at the moment. 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:43.760 Yeah, I thought I was in my Hong Kong or something. 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:48.520 I'm not the weather talk anyway. 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:53.560 Anyway, the voice you heard is Maddie. Everyone say hey, Maddie, Hey, nay. 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:56.479 And You've got a very interesting story. 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:59.360 So when everybody put in a little like I want 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:01.360 to come to the show, did the form fill out? 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:04.040 Everybody had to share a story and I'll produce a 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.839 Brooks shared Maddie's story because it was the most iconic 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:08.640 cooked take it away, Maddie. 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:10.880 Yeah, so I'll set the scene. 0:06:11.200 --> 0:06:14.000 I'm in the Middle East for my first ever trip overseas. 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.520 Do you want to face off or do you want 0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:16.359 to face everyone else? 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:16.839 Yeah? 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:21.000 Come up, yeah, take my seat? Really or not? 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:22.240 Or not or not? 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:27.119 So I'm in the Middle East. 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:30.680 I'm on a UNI trip, first time overseas, and we 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:33.960 go to Petra, which is really like this historical site. 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:37.640 It's like desert, right. The essences that I get separated 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:41.080 from everyone. I'm by myself and I'm like, I'm just 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:42.560 gonna sit down on this rock and hope that I 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:43.520 see someone from UNI. 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:45.640 Wait, how does that happen? So sorry to interrupt. 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:47.839 Oh, everyone was like walking up these like you know 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:49.719 those thousand steps, like let's get to the top. 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:52.320 I'm like, no, sorry, not doing it. I'm just gonna 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:55.000 sit down. So I did that, and I thought somebody 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:55.679 will come past. 0:06:56.440 --> 0:06:59.520 No, like it was it was taken at all, Like 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:00.800 nobody came past, and I. 0:07:00.760 --> 0:07:01.640 Was like, this is it. 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:05.000 So then a tour guide had spotted me a couple 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:07.360 of times, like taking this tour through, and he was 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:08.200 like are you lost? 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:11.000 And I was like yes, help. He was like, I'll 0:07:11.000 --> 0:07:12.360 take you back to the start. I was like, oh, 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:13.960 thank you so much for me. How long had it 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:15.840 been at this point, like forty minutes? 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:19.600 Oh no, like I would say over an hour. Like 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:21.720 I was just sitting there like hoping for the best. 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:25.280 Any water, No, my friend had water and I likely 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:26.840 walked away, so I didn't have any water. 0:07:27.040 --> 0:07:29.400 No sax. I did have sax. Yeah, Oh would you 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:32.480 have chips? Chips? Yeah, you didn't need him, because then 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:37.640 you need water, you get it. Okay, yeah, you get it. 0:07:38.960 --> 0:07:40.920 So the tour guide finds me and he's like, do 0:07:40.920 --> 0:07:42.480 you want to take you back to the start of 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:45.120 the whole tour and I was like, yeah, that'd be great. 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:46.200 Surely somebody will be there. 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:50.000 So we're walking back and as we're walking back, there's 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:52.280 like lots of camels you can ride throughout Petra like 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:55.080 you pay money, and there's a group of guys with 0:07:55.080 --> 0:07:57.760 a group of camels, and one of the guys says 0:07:57.800 --> 0:08:01.320 something to the tour guide in Arabic, which I don't understand, 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:04.440 so I'm like, please translate, and the guy says the 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:06.440 tour guy says, oh, he asks for your hand in 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:09.720 marriage in exchange for his camel, and I was like, 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:12.119 I really think my mom needs a camel. 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:17.720 He could, but this I was like, thank you. Though 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:19.600 he took me back to the start. 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:21.760 Like more hours passed, like it would have been like 0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:23.960 five o'clock by the time I saw someone, and we 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:26.160 started in the morning, so it was like it was 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:29.680 a long day. And then the tour guy asked me 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:31.400 to come back to his family home and have tea 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:34.200 with his ten brothers and sisters, and I was like, again, 0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:36.240 they'll kick me out of you the hospitality. 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:39.000 I mean, yeah, this is the man and he left 0:08:39.040 --> 0:08:42.199 you hotspot off his friend as well, Yeah what about. 0:08:42.120 --> 0:08:45.200 Hey what sorry hotspot? Yeah ah, that's a big deal 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:46.439 in the desert. 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:50.240 Life. 0:08:51.400 --> 0:08:53.920 So I finally spotted someone, like a group from a 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:54.640 UNI tour. 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:56.079 We went back to the hotel. 0:08:56.679 --> 0:09:00.840 I debriefed and was like what was that essentially, and 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:02.600 then my friend who had all the water came back 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:05.400 and she was like filthy on me because I walked 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:06.079 away with the food. 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:08.520 You I was. 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:11.280 They don't like, you don't even understand what's happened to 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:12.760 me today, Like I nearly got sold for a camel. 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:20.640 It's not good. This is cooked. Two you questions. Your 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:22.400 story didn't have any emotion in it, so I want 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:24.640 to know, like were you crying? Were sad? Were angry? 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:25.560 Were you fearful? 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:29.480 I don't really process emotions like when I'm going through 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:36.520 something in the moment, So another one over here until 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:37.920 the end of the day when I was like starting 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:39.800 to get an emotional like wow, this could have really 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:42.640 gone south, and I was just kind of like hanging 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:45.600 out hoping for the best. So yeah, I wasn't feeling 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:47.920 any type of way I was just sending messages when 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:49.560 I got the hot spot, being like, if I don't 0:09:49.559 --> 0:09:50.000 make it. 0:09:50.160 --> 0:09:53.640 Ripe and your friend? Is this your friend next to 0:09:53.679 --> 0:09:54.800 you that you brought what's your name? 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:55.840 Am? 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:57.360 But were you the friend in question? 0:09:57.880 --> 0:10:03.000 Oh no, no, no, yeah, yeah that was me and 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:03.720 I got the chips. 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:07.480 What happened with you and your friend afterwards? Was there 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:08.000 a rift? 0:10:09.080 --> 0:10:09.240 Oh? 0:10:09.280 --> 0:10:09.480 Yeah? 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:09.720 Bad? 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:13.560 Like we did not survive that trip. I'm very unfortunately, 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:15.120 and I'm okay with it. 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:17.800 They do say don't travel with your friends or pick 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:18.800 a good friend to do it. 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:21.439 Here's the thing, I feel like, like I'm not a 0:10:21.520 --> 0:10:23.840 nihilist right, Like, I don't definitely don't want to go 0:10:24.880 --> 0:10:27.839 I don't want to anytime soon, and I really want 0:10:27.840 --> 0:10:30.520 to be immortal for various reasons we won't get into now. 0:10:30.640 --> 0:10:32.240 But what concerns me. 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:33.920 Is that I don't think I have a very keen 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:38.640 survival instinct, and like it's not just that I am 0:10:38.800 --> 0:10:41.640 not aware of what is a dangerous situation. I just 0:10:41.800 --> 0:10:45.560 feel charmed. I just feel like, oh, that wouldn't happen. 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:48.400 Things happen to me all the time, like it's always chaos. 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:50.280 If you saw my trip to Ghana, you would know. 0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:53.600 It's like I missed flights and then like visa issues 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:54.840 and so and so, and I'm like, oh, you know, 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:56.920 it's like this is out of the ordinary. It doesn't happen. 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:59.160 So my concern if I was in a situation like 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:01.920 that is I'm kind of like, oh, it'll fix itself, 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:05.640 but it's not gonna me get deeper and deeper literally, 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:08.959 And I keep thinking like that could have gone so bad, 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:12.880 Like what if I always think, like whenever I'm always traveling, 0:11:12.880 --> 0:11:15.280 My mom's like, you need to be aware of like 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:18.280 travel scams, Like you need to do your research. You 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:20.320 need to figure out, like what is a common travel 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:22.960 scam so you don't get sucked in because you know, 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:24.679 like I went to Milan and you know, you know, 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:26.880 went to the famous buildings and you see the guys 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:28.720 with the bracelets. You're like, oh, you want to try 0:11:28.760 --> 0:11:30.600 on this brace You're like, oh my god, cool a bracelet. 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:32.920 And it's like okay, now it's gonna cost you thirty year. 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:34.520 You're like, no, I don't want a bracelets, Like why 0:11:34.520 --> 0:11:36.559 you're wearing it so to your breathlet? Like that happened 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:38.199 to me and I knew what was gonna happen, and 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:39.680 I was like, oh, but I'm so flattered, he said, 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:42.720 I was pretty you know so, But in this instance, 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:44.600 like it could have been so much more. It could 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:49.320 have been like a like a everyone trying to you know, 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:51.560 I'm not evenna say it, no, I am trafficking, could 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:52.600 have been trafficking. 0:11:53.720 --> 0:11:55.440 I was gonna say, you need to take these things 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:58.760 seriously and listen. It doesn't just happen in overseas countries. 0:11:59.240 --> 0:12:01.360 I'll tell you so very quickly. My friend and I 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:04.440 who I went to Europe with. Side note, everyone's got 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:07.600 that friend that weird things seem to happen to you together, 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:11.720 traumatic instances, scary close calls. 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:15.520 If you're the friend, If you're the friend this one, 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:16.559 you put it all the way off. 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:21.640 Yeah, okay, you're the friend that brings the chaos or 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:27.320 is around the chaos. 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:29.600 Hearty behavior very well. 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:33.080 I was with my friend who is you? And who 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:34.760 is who is this gentleman? 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:38.480 What's your name? Oh? Pardon? You went nice to me. 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:41.079 We went to Frankie's in the city. 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:42.959 Anyone he had been to Franky's, but you puddle up 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:45.520 great pizza joint. I'm pretty sure they're going to demolish 0:12:45.520 --> 0:12:50.280 it for a tunnel. Not sure has that already happened? No, okay, 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:54.000 might go there late at night. And we went down. 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:56.400 There's like a secret bathing in this restaurants. It's like 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:59.160 a dingy underground thing with like rock music. Anyway, there's 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:01.880 like this secret bar. Back first time I'm hearing about 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:05.040 the secret, but obviously I'm going in. I'm very excited. 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:07.320 Her and I sit down at the bar. A woman 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:10.320 starts speaking to us, which not at all ordinary. We 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:12.640 go out, we like love to chat to people, and 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:14.160 she's like, oh my god, You've got to come to 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:16.720 this pool party tomorrow. I'm having a pool party tomorrow. 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:20.320 We think, oh yeah. Then we look over and she's 0:13:20.320 --> 0:13:22.360 with a man. What's it called when there's a bunch 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:22.720 of women? 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:25.520 Am a harem? A harem? 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:28.160 Is that when there's a heap of women just generally 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:29.640 like congregating with a man. 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:33.640 Potentially there was a situation we need everyone to have 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:38.080 a mic. Yeah, And she keeps going back and I'm thinking, 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:40.080 what's that about. How do you know it's a harem? 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:42.760 Because well, I'm just assuming. 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:45.520 That is my favorite erotica to read, by the way, 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:48.160 Reverse Haram it's like one one girl, five guys. 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:50.920 They're not all rooting relaxed. 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:55.640 I just date, but continue we're seeing something happening where 0:13:55.640 --> 0:13:57.480 they keep going over to this guy and he keeps 0:13:57.520 --> 0:14:01.280 like summoning women into this room, and we realize what's happening. 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:04.080 She is trying to recruit us to go to this 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:07.559 pool party. And like she was this woman who I like, 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:10.400 blink twice if you need help, Like it was na 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:11.280 it was full lunch. 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:12.040 She's like, it's in. 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:13.760 Ultramo tomorrow, Like you've got to come. 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:15.719 It got so bad. 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:17.480 Now my memory is very hazy. I wasn't even gone. 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:22.120 I just have like memory loss. It got so scary 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:24.520 that I went up to the staff at Frankie's and 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:26.000 I said, you need to call the police. 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:28.640 See the way you're telling the story, though it sounds 0:14:28.680 --> 0:14:30.400 like super fun, you're like, oh, they just think I'm 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:33.360 pretty We're gonna go to a poor party tomorrow. 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:34.800 Like what about? It was so scary. 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:37.800 It was the way that she was describing it, in 0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:39.520 the way that I think she was trying to call 0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:43.680 for help but didn't know how. Yeah, it was bad, 0:14:43.920 --> 0:14:46.600 Like for me to go to a venue and say 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:48.400 very seriously got to the point where we just had 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:50.600 to stay with her and be like, help, help, I 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:56.000 think something is happening. Of course everyone's like chillin' y scary, 0:14:56.280 --> 0:14:57.040 So yeah, it happens. 0:14:57.040 --> 0:15:00.480 It must happen. Yeah, it must happen under our hoses. 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:02.880 I'm so sure. I have no idea you're talking about. 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:08.640 What is that? We'll call We'll call my friend up 0:15:08.680 --> 0:15:10.840 next week and I'll get her side of the story. 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:18.840 Please someone else you can give us memory now, fixie. 0:15:19.280 --> 0:15:23.120 I am a b real stand Yeah. 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:25.400 When b Reeal came out, I reckon it. 0:15:25.440 --> 0:15:27.960 Maybe you adopt, but I think it came out a 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:30.920 year or so ago, or maybe two years ago, So 0:15:31.000 --> 0:15:32.720 I think it was like the thirteen year olds off 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:35.000 on the early adopters, and then the rest of us 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:39.000 band she's jumped on the bandwagon. So I probably started 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:43.720 using it, you know, oh maybe March this year. Actually 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:45.720 use it for a week, went off because obviously I 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:48.000 didn't have any friends on it, and now plenty of 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:51.160 people are back on it. Anybody here used be real? 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:55.040 Oh wow, Oh. 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:57.160 I reckon that's fifty Do you reckon that? That was 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:58.600 Chloe percent. 0:15:58.680 --> 0:16:13.920 Maybe about yeah, bigger fine. 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:11.560 Seems like nobody wants to pick aside these days? 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:16.480 Who here likes it? Because I believe you can use 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:19.880 something and not like it. So for example, yeah, Instagram 0:16:19.880 --> 0:16:25.640 love hate relationship, TikTok love hate relationship, LinkedIn love relationship, okay, 0:16:26.040 --> 0:16:27.360 Twitter hate relationship. 0:16:27.480 --> 0:16:29.000 Oh but I'm still. 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:31.680 Going through looking if there's men cheese, there isn't features 0:16:32.200 --> 0:16:36.840 not in that intellectual circle Twitter, I know you have 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:37.440 beef with it. 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:40.160 Do you think any anything could change that? 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:43.080 Could anything change the personal beeB have with be real? 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:47.880 Probably not, only because I think that there's nothing wrong 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:51.440 with the actual format or the function. But the app 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:54.920 is trying to present itself as the antidote to everything 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:57.320 you hate about social media, so you're not meant to 0:16:57.360 --> 0:16:59.840 spend too much time on it. It's, you know, not hypercure. 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:02.960 It's capturing the moment for what the moment is. You're 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:06.680 connecting with your real personal friends in your circle. Laddi 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:10.080 dadi da, I get it. But then in practice it's 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:12.200 like a gamified at just like. 0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:12.960 The rest of them. 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:15.360 The fact that you have to publish on the app 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:18.520 to see any of your friend's content is an issue. 0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:21.760 The fact that in order to access any of your analytics. Like, 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:25.000 for example, if you take a screenshot of my be real, 0:17:25.520 --> 0:17:28.359 I get a notification that says, oh, someone's taking a screenshot. 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:29.720 If I want to find out who it. 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:33.720 Is, I need to share this on my other social 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:34.520 media profiles. 0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:37.399 Just let me see the stuff. Can you see it? 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:38.320 If you share it else? 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:40.919 Yeah, and then I'll be like, Okay, it's rooms a screenshot. 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:42.880 Do you see what I'm saying? This is way more 0:17:42.880 --> 0:17:44.560 insidious than any of the other platforms. 0:17:44.600 --> 0:17:46.600 And they're selling my data. Do you know what I'm saying. 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:48.440