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Speaker 3: He shows he had a man that's cutting room for

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Speaker 3: He shows he had a man that's cutting room for Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: On the cutting room floor today. I like talking about postpartum.

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Speaker 5: Do you brandon post part Do you love anything that's Latin?

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Speaker 2: Yeap?

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Speaker 5: Postpartum means you know past babe? Is that past birth?

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Speaker 2: Have you had the baby?

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Speaker 5: What does partum actually mean?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 4: My Latin isn't great, but it means have you had

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Speaker 4: the baby after something's happened?

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Speaker 1: All right, this woman says, here mom's moms, tell me

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Speaker 1: the most unhinged thing you did freshly postpartum. Not like

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Speaker 1: I cried a lot or I only want pajamas. I'm

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Speaker 1: talking unhinged and the results are great. Did Helen become unhinged?

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Speaker 2: Hins?

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Speaker 4: She got very emotional though. After our first child was born.

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Speaker 4: I remember coming home and she's just crying.

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Speaker 2: I said, what's the matter.

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Speaker 4: And one of the mum's mums group had bib embrace overalls,

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Speaker 4: denim bibb embrace overalls, and.

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Speaker 2: She said yes.

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Speaker 4: I said yes, and she said I don't have bibb

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Speaker 4: and brace overalls. I said, well, we can get you

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Speaker 4: bibb and brace overalls if you want to wear them.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to cry about it. You don't understand.

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Speaker 4: If I could get to the shop that sells bib

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Speaker 4: and brace overalls, I would get them. But it is

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Speaker 4: ten o'clock at night and we're in a small country town.

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Speaker 1: Well, this is the kind of thing that happens. And

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Speaker 1: these responses to this were terrific. I went outside at

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Speaker 1: three am and a bathrobe to hit a bush with

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Speaker 1: a stick because of a frog kept croaking outside my window,

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Speaker 1: and I wanted to sleep. I dreamt I had twins,

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Speaker 1: said someone. I woke up in a panic because I

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Speaker 1: couldn't find the other baby. I was looking for fifteen

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Speaker 1: minutes before I realized only had wine.

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Speaker 2: Did you ever get any of this?

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Speaker 5: I'm sure I did. I'm sure I did.

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Speaker 1: I had the kind of paranoia where I had a

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Speaker 1: breathing mat in the cot, so if Liam kind of

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Speaker 1: wasn't breathing, it would set off an alarm.

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Speaker 5: I had a temperature gauge.

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Speaker 1: I had all that frough through stuff so I didn't

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Speaker 1: have to rush in every five minutes to see to

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Speaker 1: put a mirror under his nose to see his breathing,

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Speaker 1: because I know I would have been that kind of.

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Speaker 2: How one used to worry about that with our eldest

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Speaker 2: all the time. Is he alive? Is your life? Goun check?

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Speaker 2: Go and check going.

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Speaker 1: Jack, Well, we've got great footage of dressing Liam to

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Speaker 1: take him home from the hospital. And he was asleep,

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Speaker 1: and we put eighteen layers of clothes on him, and

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Speaker 1: he was so tiny. The gloves fell off, the hat

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Speaker 1: fell off, his hands kept going inside the clothes, and

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Speaker 1: I kept persevering, and I thought, how many layers do

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Speaker 1: I dressing him?

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Speaker 5: Who cares?

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Speaker 1: Jack comes along and virtually stick a hose on him

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Speaker 1: in the backyard, and you're done.

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Speaker 2: You're on your own. I like this one. Here a

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Speaker 2: lady rate.

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Speaker 4: She made her husband stand in the bathroom holding the

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Speaker 4: baby while she showered so she could see the baby

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Speaker 4: at all times. Woman, the woman in your life doesn't

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Speaker 4: trust you with the baby. It's like you've got the baby,

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Speaker 4: and I go, will you be all right with them? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: of course I'll be all right with it. And then

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Speaker 4: they think you're going to sell it or do something

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Speaker 4: with it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and that's where bad habits begin, because you need

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Speaker 1: to let your husband know you trust him or else

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Speaker 1: it's a slave to you. It's a rod to your

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Speaker 1: own back, this woman said. I kept saying I was

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Speaker 1: taking my son to the vet instead of the pediatrician.

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Speaker 1: This was one I dialed nine on one in a panic.

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Speaker 1: I saw on the monitor that someone was standing over

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Speaker 1: my baby's crib in the middle of the night.

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Speaker 5: It was me. I was standing up.

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Speaker 2: So she's looked at that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I've got a grandson now and my kids.

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Speaker 2: My son, he talks to me like I've never had

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Speaker 2: a baby in my life.

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Speaker 5: But that's the nature.

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Speaker 2: You're holding him too tight, Dad is too tight.

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Speaker 4: And then they've got this monitor that you can they

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Speaker 4: can look at the kid anywhere, and you just see

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Speaker 4: this little baby just in the bed with little little

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Speaker 4: glowing eyes.

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Speaker 2: Because it's night vision camera. It looks like with a

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Speaker 2: sasquatch videos, you know, with a film. Yeah, that's a

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Speaker 2: sasquatch over there.

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Speaker 1: So of course, I think every generation has new ways

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Speaker 1: of doing things, or they believe they do. And as

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Speaker 1: the older person brandan, you have to be shut your neck,

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Speaker 1: I do it and be respectful that they know best.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I do.

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Speaker 5: I say this to my mom other times since you've

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Speaker 5: had a baby.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course.

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Speaker 4: And I say this to my mother because my mother

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Speaker 4: is one of those people called spade spade and has

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Speaker 4: always done that. And I said, Mom, it's not your

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Speaker 4: business to raise my children like she used to do

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Speaker 4: this to me. And so her relationship with the grandkids

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Speaker 4: I don't think as a solid I said, just be

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Speaker 4: a nana who gives them money and support. Don't tell

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Speaker 4: them to put on weight. You don't like their neck

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Speaker 4: tattoo or any of that stuff. It's none of your business.

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Speaker 1: Your grandson have a neck tatto's only six months old,

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Speaker 1: well you.

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Speaker 2: Get a discout because it's very small.

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Speaker 1: And also at that age you want them to put

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Speaker 1: on weight. About this one. When filling out paperwork in

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Speaker 1: the hospital, I put my parents' names in the parents

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Speaker 1: section for my firstborn. Takes a while to get ready,

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Speaker 1: to get used to the fact that you're.

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Speaker 2: The parents, because suddenly you're a parent, a parent. That's

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Speaker 2: exactly what happens.

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Speaker 5: It's a parent. You're a parent.

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Speaker 4: You know, every generation blames the one before the MCA.

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Speaker 4: That's from the teachings of great Latin philosophers, Mike and

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Speaker 4: the mccanis.

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Speaker 5: You could have actually got some overalls from the mechanics.

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Speaker 2: These are all good ideas.

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Speaker 3: Now, okay, kids, that's it for until they come back tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: For Moro for Morrow County and a man that's counting

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Speaker 3: room for