1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: Where were you that bite sized the moment wards, you 2 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: and I have not had this discussion with each other, No, 3 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:11,479 Speaker 1: not yet deliberately Withhells we had. 4 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 2: We had a teary hug though. 5 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, well now you accosted me. I was died coke 6 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 1: in the fridge, and all of a sudden you were 7 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: just holding me and crying. I said to myself before, 8 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 1: I feel like someone had died, not like someone was born. 9 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 2: I said to myself again, what's happened? 10 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 1: I can't stop crying. You're just crying, I. 11 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 2: Said to myself. 12 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 3: I pumped myself up in the car and I was like, 13 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 3: don't cry in front of wheel because I knew I 14 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 3: was going to cry when I saw you. 15 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was really excited to see you and talk 16 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:41,279 Speaker 2: to you about it. 17 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 3: And anyway I saw you when I just Rannon got 18 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 3: dif from behind you did. 19 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 2: Why are you crying? 20 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: Just? 21 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 2: I think just overwhelmed with joy? 22 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just every time I think about her and 23 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 3: what I've been through for the last three days, it's 24 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 3: it's I just cry. 25 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 2: I starting. Let's start with the fact that your dad 26 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 2: you just yeah, sorry. 27 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 1: You have a daughter. Congratulations, Thank you, pretty awesome, pretty 28 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 1: bloody awesome. 29 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: Hush, I mean you know, yeah, you get it. Well, yeah, 30 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 2: everyone's got their own. 31 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: Experience with though. 32 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. Remy, Remy Jean White. 33 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 3: Law was born two forty in the afternoon, just inside 34 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 3: for the boys. 35 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 2: For the lads first dad joke. 36 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:29,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 37 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 2: So yeah. 38 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 3: So so four thirty in the morning on the day, 39 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 3: Mim woke up with some like cramps. 40 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, just like we're. 41 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 1: Going straight into the birth. 42 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 3: Oh sorry, what else would you like? Well, I've got 43 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 3: no control here. I don't know what's entertaining. I find 44 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 3: everything awesome. 45 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: So maybe let's go to Yeah, well let's start at 46 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: the start. Sure, okay, sure, so we're gonna go to 47 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: the full birth story, all right, cool, so four thirty. 48 00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 3: Just move me on. If I'm getting boring. At four 49 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 3: thirty am, you guess plug comes out? 50 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: Wow? 51 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: Okay, specific so sorry, I've just been in it. I've 52 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 2: been in it for three days and you're just talking 53 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 2: about it in the hospital anyway. Sorry, Okay. 54 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 3: She starts getting like cramps, which could be like an 55 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 3: early laborish feeling, but because Mim has never been in 56 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 3: labor before, but you just never really know. Is this 57 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 3: a feeling of contractions or is this just a Braxton 58 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 3: Hicks which is another thing, or you know what I'm 59 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,679 Speaker 3: actually feeling. So she was super relaxed. We had a 60 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 3: chat about it. She went and had a bath. Yep, 61 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 3: it is still at my place. And then I went 62 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 3: back to bed and just kept sleeping. Yep. 63 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 2: Then I got up. 64 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: So we're moving at five minutes for. 65 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 2: That's good speed up. 66 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: I went back to ben. I started reading a book 67 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: on they got ten pages in, decided to put it down. 68 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:50,519 Speaker 1: Maybe I should have a little bit of a rest. 69 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: Let's just so, let's just go. 70 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 2: So we decided to just advance. 71 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: You're in the hospital. 72 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 3: Oh wow, we're jumping a lot of steps there, but okay, 73 00:02:57,919 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 3: so in the hospital. 74 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: Pre labor, we can probably let's get down to your 75 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: birth mate. Let's get down. 76 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 3: So in hospital, she's getting some monitoring done and the 77 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 3: ladies that are monitoring her realize that the contractions are 78 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 3: starting to pick up a little bit. 79 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 2: She's in pain. 80 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 3: So we go down to our obstricians office and we 81 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 3: had to wait for him for like ten to fifteen minutes. 82 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 3: And that's when I actually messaged you and I actually 83 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 3: sent you a little video of Mim and the contractions 84 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 3: that she was starting to go through. 85 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, that was a wild video to receive. 86 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I don't know, the filter's totally gone, I 87 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:33,359 Speaker 3: can tell, but so that's happening. And then Lionel, our 88 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 3: obstetrician vagina Lionel, he comes in, starts feeling the contractions. 89 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 3: He does a va a vaginal examination of ve sorry, 90 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 3: a vaginal examination, and he decides at that point that 91 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 3: we need to go upstairs to the delivery suite, which 92 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 3: was a bit of a shock to us because we 93 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 3: thought we were going to be. 94 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 2: Going in fast, so far super fast. 95 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 3: We when we were going in, we thought we were 96 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 3: going to be told go back home for a day, 97 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 3: hours and then come back in. And all of a sudden, 98 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 3: Lionel saying, get upstairs to the delivery suite because this 99 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 3: is happening today. 100 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 4: Wow. 101 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 2: So that was a big moment. Yeah. 102 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 3: And at this point, so we're moving up to the 103 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 3: delivery suite and I'm starting to struggle, and I thought 104 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 3: about me, I should be caring more about Mim. 105 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 2: I was really struggling seeing Mim in pain. 106 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't realize just how hard that would be. 107 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 3: And you can't really do anything and they were really 108 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 3: starting to ramp up a bit, and a lucky lucky 109 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 3: for me because I was trying to remain strong for 110 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 3: her and I didn't want to get an emotion at all, 111 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 3: so I'm sort of trying to bottle up those emotions. 112 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 3: And Mim goes into the delivery suite and we left 113 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 3: the bags in the car. So I went back to 114 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 3: the car, and when I went back to the car, 115 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 3: I was able to just cry, oh wow. 116 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 2: So I bored my eyes out in the car park 117 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 2: just to sort of get it out. 118 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 3: Wow. 119 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 2: And then it was a bit of a let's do 120 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 2: this thing. 121 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 122 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 2: So I got the bags, went back in there, and then. 123 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: God, we're going to go to a song and then yeah, 124 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: because I mean things only things really heat up this 125 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: point on. 126 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 2: It's totally well, hopefully we can. Sorry, So I have 127 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 2: the hour, Just give me the hour. 128 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: Outside, I'm going to hear about how Woody daughter Remy 129 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: was born. Right if we said the name, We've said 130 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: the name, said the name beautiful? 131 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 3: All right? 132 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 2: Done? 133 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: Next we ever, Woodie, we'll just back in the studio 134 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:31,239 Speaker 1: and he's a father that you're going to cry again? 135 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 1: You are wow again? Can't say baby, baby how does 136 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: it feel. We'll get to the best. 137 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 2: In a second. 138 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 3: I think, like nothing else matters. It's so funny how 139 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 3: quickly that's happened. I just don't really care about anything else. 140 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,359 Speaker 3: It's just I just care so much about my baby 141 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 3: and I love her so much. 142 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 2: And I thought I didn't think i'd connect with her 143 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 2: so quickly. I thought it would take a while. And 144 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 2: I was, funnily enough, I was worried about that. I 145 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 2: was worried about not loving her straight away. 146 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 3: But I love her so much, so so much, and yeah, 147 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 3: so back to her birth store. 148 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 1: And now let's see this for a little while. 149 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 2: Sorry, it's very overwhelming. 150 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 3: I just we've just spent the last a couple of 151 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 3: days in hospital, and you just want to sniff and 152 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 3: kiss her the whole time. 153 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, they smell so good. Oh, they smell so good. 154 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 3: It's just so nice, like having her in my arms 155 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 3: and oh that is and she needs me so much, 156 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 3: and she just and we're already figuring out like what 157 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 3: we like about each other as well, Like there's certain 158 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 3: positions that she likes and that's really nice. 159 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, daddy daughter bonding time. So you did a bit 160 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 2: of skin to skin. 161 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 1: I know you paid me out about that initially. It's 162 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: good stuff, isn't it. 163 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:53,720 Speaker 3: This is the first time I put a T shirt 164 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 3: on in seventy two hours. The midwife determined to put 165 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 3: my pants on at one point because I said I 166 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 3: wanted to like bulk skin contact and she was like, yeah, yeah, 167 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 3: we don't need to be seeing you in your jock's mate. 168 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 2: So yeah, lots of cuddles. It's been the nicest you've 169 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 2: had with the so far. There's a there's there's a photo. 170 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 3: I don't even know if this particular photo went up 171 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 3: on air Instagram if you want to see it, Will 172 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 3: and woodye, but there's just a mim mim after the 173 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 3: birth had went and had like a shower and they 174 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 3: were doing a few checks on her straight after the birth, and. 175 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 2: I got left one on one with Remy. 176 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 3: And obviously shirt was off skinned the skin for the 177 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 3: first time, and we just sat on this chair. 178 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: That's okay, mate, Okay, we. 179 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 3: On this chair and we were just one on one 180 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 3: and it was a pretty one sided conversation. But we 181 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 3: were just talking about the adventures that we're going to 182 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 3: go on, and I was telling her that I think 183 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 3: the routine will be that We'll let mummy sleep in 184 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 3: the morning and I'll be thinking of the radio show 185 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 3: in the morning, and I'd really like her to come 186 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 3: to that period, but like it's not a free ride. 187 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 2: She's gonna have to bring a few ideas. 188 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 3: But she's got the zero to two demographic coverts because 189 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 3: I said, I don't have a perspective there, and that's 190 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 3: on you. And that was really nice. And then we 191 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 3: decided Saturday Mornings was going to be big adventure day. 192 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 2: That's what we're gonna. 193 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, go on, It's okay, it's okay, You're on the 194 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: You got the oxy hides. 195 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 2: Outrageous, isn't it completely? 196 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, So yeah, I think that was probably the 197 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 3: most special moment, having that conversation with her, and yeah, 198 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 3: just getting to know it because we've been talking for 199 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 3: so long. 200 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 2: Like through through the womb and I don't. 201 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:58,680 Speaker 3: Know if I've said this on this show, but we've 202 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:00,080 Speaker 3: been calling her Remy for about six. 203 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, so we've we've had chats before. 204 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 3: And I'm able to call her rim and that's I 205 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 3: guess it sort of helped me get out of the 206 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 3: bond connection to her, and so when she came out, 207 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 3: it wasn't meeting her for the first time. 208 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 2: It was like, oh, that's what you look like, so 209 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 2: it already felt like we had we had like common 210 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 2: ground to talk about. 211 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:27,079 Speaker 4: Ah Mmmm, she's just so beautiful as well, like she's gorgeous. 212 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 4: It was beautiful, baby, And I mean, I'm sure everyone 213 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 4: thinks bad about there and yeah, but yeah, that was. 214 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was wild. 215 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 3: But I guess the other big part of it was 216 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 3: I mean I was saying before the song, I didn't 217 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 3: think it would be so hard to watch mim go 218 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 3: through labor because. 219 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 2: There's not that much you can do. 220 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 3: I was trying to do everything I could do, and 221 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 3: I've obviously never seen her in that much pain, and 222 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 3: she was just so tough through the entire thing. 223 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 2: She was she was punched the gas. 224 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 3: I think the hospital almost ran out of gas. 225 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: That woman in the room next to her was just 226 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: drawing on empty, going on it's a gas shortage at 227 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 1: the hospital. 228 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 2: Wow, But there was one. 229 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 3: Because it's a weird experience because when she's in a contraction, 230 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 3: she can't talk. 231 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, she just goes to. 232 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 3: Another place and she's obviously in a lot of pain, 233 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 3: and and then she gets like a thirty second minute 234 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 3: window where she comes out of it and we can 235 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 3: have a chat. And this is just to speak to 236 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 3: the to the level of gas that was in her system. 237 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 2: She came back from one point and she was just like, WHOA. 238 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 3: I just thought I was at a house party talking 239 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 3: to people about imagining that I was having a baby. 240 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's that's just and this is why 241 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 1: they banned nangs in Western Australia recently. Was Oh my god. 242 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 2: But yeah, so as far as. 243 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 3: It was unbelievable, but as far as labor goes without 244 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 3: going into every single part of it, it happened really fast. 245 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 3: So she was she went from two centimeters dilated to 246 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 3: ten centimeters dilated in under an hour. 247 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 1: Wow. 248 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: So flew through. She flew. 249 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 3: So while that was a really great thing because some 250 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 3: people go through it labor for such a long time, 251 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 3: I think the hardest thing for her and us was 252 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 3: that things happened so fast. There wasn't really like an 253 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 3: opportunity to get ready. 254 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: Or stabilize, prepare yourselves. 255 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 3: Or like we didn't we didn't like climb a staircase. 256 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:38,839 Speaker 3: We got in our like a just expoverget and just 257 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 3: jumped to the top of the stairs. Wow, So that 258 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 3: it really hit a really hard and so she ended 259 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 3: up getting to the point where she asked for an 260 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 3: epi dural because things were happening so fast. While the 261 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 3: epi dural was happening, it just that's obviously a complicated 262 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 3: process and they could ease us. 263 00:11:57,880 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: To come in and then like yeah, put a drip 264 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: in and all that sort of stuff. 265 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 3: So the anthus was halfway through administering this and at 266 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 3: one point. 267 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:06,199 Speaker 2: Just goes, the baby's here. 268 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 3: Joking, and we were all going and I actually I 269 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 3: thought in my head classic first pooh, this is awesome. 270 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 3: She thinks it's the baby, but it's going to be 271 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 3: a big pup. And the midwife goes, okay, let me 272 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 3: just have a check, and she just sort. 273 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 2: Of had a look and head was there crowning. She's crowning. Wow. 274 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 3: So Ebbie dural guys just like, excuse me, and he's 275 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 3: trying to. 276 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: Dural guy on his head. Matt's name runs a van 277 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: down on the down at Manly Beach on a Sunday, 278 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: so maddn't really brush it. 279 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 3: But he goes like, right, right, right, Well, this isn't 280 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 3: going to kick in in time, but I'll I'll administer 281 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 3: it anyway, So bore me hits it. Mem rolls over 282 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 3: and then it was just it was bloody. Starts pushing, 283 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 3: which is a whole other feeling in itself, like that's 284 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 3: different to the contractions. And then yeah, like thirty minutes later, 285 00:12:57,440 --> 00:12:59,080 Speaker 3: Remy is coming out. 286 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 2: Wow, absolute champion like it. 287 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 3: The ob was bringing her through stop start, push, stop, push, 288 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 3: a little bit, push a whole lot, obviously trying to control, 289 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 3: and Mim did such such an amazing job because all 290 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:15,319 Speaker 3: your at that at that time, sorry, you just really 291 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 3: want to push. 292 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 2: Your body's just telling you to push. 293 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 3: It was so good at stop start, and then rem 294 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 3: came out, and so because it happened so fast, she 295 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 3: she was in a bit of shock. So they put 296 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 3: her on chest and so they particularly her feet, and 297 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 3: she wasn't crying, and so she wasn't breathing. 298 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: The baby, yes remember them. 299 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:46,559 Speaker 2: Wasn't breathing. 300 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 3: So they took her away, you know, really calmly and 301 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 3: all that, and obviously Mim was totally out of it, 302 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 3: but I sort of knew what was going on, but 303 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 3: I wanted to stay there and support Mim. 304 00:13:58,160 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 2: But then she went to the corner of. 305 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: The room and the resuscitated there. 306 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I had oxyd mask on her and stuff, 307 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 3: which I think at the start they were being really 308 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 3: comming about and they said it's pretty common. Yeah. 309 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, Actually she took a pooh in bim as well. 310 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. 311 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 2: But after yeah, five six minutes, I felt like a 312 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 2: very long time. 313 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 3: But after five or six minutes that she started sort 314 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 3: of breathing, and then we were able to. 315 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 2: Oh, great, wow, we're a big, big group. 316 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 1: Wow, how intense. 317 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 2: And then she's just been the best wow ever since. 318 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 2: She's just been the best. Loved the heat lamp. 319 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 3: She's a bit cold when she came out, and Mum 320 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 3: and dad like the sun. So it was quite funny 321 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 3: because a lot of babies when they come out want 322 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 3: to curl up, but Ren was pretty quickly in the 323 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 3: starfish position. 324 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 2: Under underneath the some lamp. She was just loving the heat, 325 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:54,479 Speaker 2: which was adorable. 326 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: Man. 327 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 3: And now I've just been hanging out with her and 328 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 3: it's been just literally the best three days of my life. 329 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh man, I'm so happy for you. Thank you 330 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 1: for an experience. 331 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's extraordinary, extraordinary. 332 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 1: Well, I'm sure we're going to talk about it a 333 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 1: lot more in the coming days. Shout out to mim 334 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: My Journey. 335 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 3: Oh she's yeah, she's just the toughest, strongest, best person 336 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 3: in the world. 337 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 1: All right, well we're gonna go to the trafficcause's gonna 338 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 1: keep the show going. For to see a photo of 339 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: Remy headlinto Willim, I'm gonna. 340 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 2: Come over and give you that's right. 341 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 3: Hear more of the boys on the full podcast. 342 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: Just scroll up.